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I
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just can't say enough about
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what music can do for the soul
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if you need, as we did
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in Vietnam, something to hold on
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to.
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The moment I wake up,
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before I put on my
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makeup, I say a
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little prayer for you.
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That prayer was for the soldiers. Burt
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Bacharach, when he wrote that song, intended
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it, when Dionne Warwick recorded it, as
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an anthem and a call-out
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and a reflection memory for
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soldiers in Vietnam.
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We'll love you forever and ever, we
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never will part of our love you to...
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Hi, this is Doug Bradley. I'm a Vietnam
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veteran. I served in the U.S.
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Army in Vietnam November of 1970, November 1971, mainly
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sustained by music. It kept me
1:03
and others alive in Vietnam, and I've spent most
1:06
of my 50-plus years since then
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writing about that experience and
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the experience of others and really channeling
1:14
it through the music that we all listened to
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during that time. It was so integral
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to who we were and what was going on
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and how we got back home.
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This is the American Forces Vietnam
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Network. We all listened
1:30
to the same music. It was a shared soundtrack. It was
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communal for us and there for all
1:35
of us. There
1:37
were some singers and artists that,
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regardless of the time you were in Vietnam,
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remember that we're talking about a war
1:44
that went from 64 to 75. Parts
1:47
of music that were essential, Aretha
1:49
was one of those voices. How
1:51
her music sort of spoke to the soldiers,
1:54
two great examples. One is Chain
1:56
of Fools,
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a civil rights song, a song about the
1:59
chain of command. And I say a little
2:01
prayer even more emphatically. African
2:04
American soldiers, they talk about the assassination
2:07
of Dr. Martin Luther King. Many
2:09
soldiers said, if you can't protect my leader
2:12
at home, what am I doing over here fighting this
2:14
person? And I'm not sure what this is about.
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And Aretha tapped into that
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notion and those feelings of chain
2:22
of fools and chain of command, and mostly African
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American soldiers being at the bottom of that chain of command,
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and then later comfort of prayer.
2:31
I
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had always loved this song. It
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was part of the ecosystem of
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my household
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growing up, African American
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in the 70s in
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the San Francisco
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Bay Area. The daughter of
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Southern parents who escaped the Jim
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Crow South, lovers of
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music, as well as educators. It's
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a song that is very
2:58
dear to me and extremely intimate.
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My name is Daphne A. Brooks. I
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am professor of African American studies
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at Yale University. I
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can't think of another pop
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song by any
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vocalist, but especially
3:14
by black women vocalists Aretha
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and Dionne before her, who
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walked us through the
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various intimate domestic
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details of everyday
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life. Moving from inside
3:31
of the home, getting dressed,
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putting your makeup on, to going
3:36
to work. So we're also thinking
3:38
about the late 60s, the early
3:40
70s, the ways in which
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the civil rights movement, the black power movement,
3:46
and the second wave feminist movement
3:49
are all these historical phenomena
3:52
that the protagonist in this
3:54
song is navigating
3:57
in these very casual ways.
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Hi, my name's Ruma and I'm a singer-songwriter.
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I think I Say a Little Prayer was probably one
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of the first Bacharach and David songs
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I had heard and fallen in love with.
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There is so much of the New Testament
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in Hal David's lyrics, so much reference
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to the Bible and Bible passages.
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I wonder if he was writing for Dion.
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Dion Warwick, you know, being from
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the church community and
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having such a close relationship with Hal
4:33
David, I think that
4:35
he was writing for her, wanting
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her to relate, to like the song,
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to connect to the song. So
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that spiritual element in the song
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probably initially was for Dion. But
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just like some songs Bacharach and
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David wrote that many artists covered,
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some songs Dion owns, and
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this is a song that Aretha owns.
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When I was, I
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think in my early teens, maybe 13,
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14, I chanced upon the best of Aretha Franklin.
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A Say a Little Prayer was on that tape, I used
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to have it on my Walkman. It
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fast became my favourite go-to
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record and I got really attached to it. I
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wrote a song called Aretha and it was
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about a little girl who walks to school
5:28
and doesn't have anyone to talk to. She's
5:30
getting bullied at school, her mother has a mental
5:33
illness. My mother had a mental illness
5:35
and I didn't really have much encouragement. And
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so I think that I was looking for
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the maternal, you know, the mother Mary,
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the feminine,
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the ultimate female musical
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icon as a sort of mother
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figure in the song.
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It's about feeling encouraged
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and inspired by music
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and how music can be a friend,
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can be a companion.
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can save you basically.
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My husband Rob Chirac-Barry, when
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he was about 18, 19 years old, he
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was working with Stevie Wonder and
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Stevie Wonder recommended Rob
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as a young, talented musician
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to Dion.
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And Dion had hired Rob as
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a musician.
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I've had the privilege of pretty much my whole life
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getting to work with both Burt Bacharach and
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Dion Warwick since I was, I think,
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my late teens. Met Burt through
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Dion. This was around the time they had started
6:40
touring together again. So I was
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very fortunate to be sitting on stage about six
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feet away from Burt. We could
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actually high five on stage. We were so close. And
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then with Dion sitting in the crook of the piano.
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So I had a really bird's eye view into that dynamic
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of the two of them together.
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My name is Rob Chirac-Barry. I
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say a little prayer has always been in both
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of their shows. Different versions of
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that have changed over time. And
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I got to play Burt's
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version slightly different than Dion's version
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with every cover like Aretha's cover. They
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changed slightly. But the DNA
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of the song is really still there.
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And what's
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inherent in that song that
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makes it so spectacular are the time
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changes and the tempo changes. There's
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four fours going to three fours and back to four
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fours where you drop a beat and you add a beat
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and then you break the phrase. So he was already
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at that point playing with odd phrasing
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in his compositions. And the
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beautiful thing about that is he was able to
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do that so naturally. And as
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you've seen from when that song has shown up in movies and stuff,
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every person out there still knows
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how the phrasing goes and
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can sing it, sing along. And so that's
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a real testament to the genius of his composition
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that you can do something that's really highly complex
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under the hood.
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and make it come off so natural. And
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again, it's one of those songs you think, well, that must
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have always been in the ether and he plucked it
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down because it just seems like it's
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always been there. And
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you take, of course, the Hal David
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lyric. One of the beauties
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of Hal was that he was very
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constricted oftentimes by Burt
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in the amount of syllables and the amount of notes he could have.
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So he really had to be a master
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of lyric to find the right words that also
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hit
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the right amount of syllables and the right amount
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of notes because very often it was, no,
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you may not add an extra note syllable there.
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You have to make it work with the melody that exists. So
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when that comes together as it often did with
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Bach, Rach, and David, it's
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a really glorious thing.
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I run for the bus dear, oh,
8:48
while riding I think of a steer,
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I stay a little careful for
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you. They
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had a show that they would do together and
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then Deion had her show that she would do separately
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and Burt had his show that he would do separately and
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I played in all three of those shows. We
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called them the record medley. I
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say a little prayer, do you know the way to San Jose?
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And the funny thing was you've got to keep all those medleys
9:15
in your head because it'd be very easy
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to hit the ending of San Jose and
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because of another medley, wanted to circle back to,
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I say a little prayer. And
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that was always a bit of exercise to
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keep all those medleys in the right keys
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in mind. But it was a great
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exercise for me because I got to learn firsthand
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the inner workings of those songs. And
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then also to find out where Burt
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really wanted the accents on things.
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I say a little prayer for you.
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You know in that chorus. I'm giving,
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I'm giving, I'm giving, I'm giving, I'm
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giving. I'm giving, I'm giving, I'm giving. Really
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wanted the accent on that downbeat, on
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that lyric. The guy
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just, I don't know what to say. Those were just wonderful times.
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And I was so honored to be, to
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really kind of.
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graduate from the school of Bacharach
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and Warwick because I got
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to learn from them first hand really young and I learned
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so much from both of them so much about
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arranging and phrasing and composition
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from Bert so much about styling
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and how to crawl into a lyric and
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of course Dion's version and Aretha's
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version are a bit different I mean Aretha has
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certainly put the sass and the swank in that
10:22
version and that's a lovely lovely
10:25
version. Dion really shines through
10:27
that bell of a voice and that sort of perfection
10:29
on a melody and then Aretha's approach
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being so full of soul and
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energy and urgency that
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it just it just gives
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a new meaning to that song.
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In our family music
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was a form of communicating
10:54
and bonding with one another across
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our unique kind of generational divides.
10:59
My brother is 17 years older than me, my
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sister is 10 years older than me, so
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we had these kinds of intergenerational
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moments of being able to share things
11:09
about ourselves and the socio-cultural
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experiences that we each uniquely
11:14
had through the music that we valued.
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And
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Aretha is kind of an interesting figure
11:23
Having grown up in the church, been
11:25
the daughter of this legendary preacher
11:28
Cielle Franklin, she was
11:30
beloved by my parents. She
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was giving us a kind of mature
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black womanhood that was very
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aspirational
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modeling a kind of fullness
11:41
of black womanhood.
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Aretha took that in a different place
11:50
not just the way she covered it but
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the way she owned it. She
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brought I think some quiet and
11:57
comfort and solace and frankly campered
11:59
down.
11:59
the temperature of what was going
12:02
on with black troops in Vietnam. Her
12:04
message, her song, particularly that song,
12:07
did a lot to help them to get
12:09
through their period in Vietnam and to come home and
12:12
maybe not want to shoot the first white guy that
12:14
they saw. The
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song got a lot of airplay. Armed Forces
12:18
Vietnam Network, AFVN, was
12:20
broadcasting 24 hours a day, seven
12:23
days a week. And one night, I
12:25
remember, when they were playing songs
12:28
for Labor Day weekend,
12:28
it was almost like a countdown.
12:31
A bunch of us were gathered in a hooch, these makeshift
12:34
barracks that we lived in, in Vietnam. So
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a bunch of guys were gathered in our hooch set night because we were
12:38
trying to decide what songs were going to be played on the radio.
12:41
Aretha kept getting a lot in there. They're
12:43
going to play Chain of Fools, they're going to
12:45
play Respect, they're going to play
12:47
Think, and what did they play? They
12:50
played I Say a Little Prayer, and we
12:53
all just sat there. It was
12:55
almost like we were holding hands and praying. When
13:00
that came on and you
13:02
looked around the hooch, everybody
13:05
was back home somewhere else. They weren't with one another.
13:09
They were transported into a place
13:11
where they were safe, where they were loved, where
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somebody cared for them. And
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that was the power of her and that song.
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We were aware when we heard that song
13:22
that this was a woman, Aretha
13:25
Franklin, that could take any song and
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make it stronger, better, her own.
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That song became ours. She was ours
13:34
by doing that to us.
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My mother was a grand, extraordinary,
13:40
Afro-steel magnolia,
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as
13:50
I sometimes called her, astonishingly
13:53
elegant.
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She was 96 when she passed
13:56
away and vibrant
13:58
to the very end of her life. life. She
14:01
loved music. For
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me, as she was beginning
14:05
her transition, the best way to stay
14:08
connected to her was to build a playlist
14:12
that was a love letter to her. And
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Say a Little Prayer was one of the first songs that I
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put on the playlist. And so as
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I was driving to see
14:22
her
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each morning, I would
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listen to the song.
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For me, it was a way
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of sustaining
14:34
a form of communication
14:36
with her when the conventional
14:40
forms of human communication
14:42
were beginning to fail us.
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I do really value
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the message of
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the ways in which care for a loved
14:54
one can remain unbroken.
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It is a testament to the
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unbrokenness of care
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and intimacy. And that,
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for me, has translated
15:07
into a form of
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strength and recovery
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in the face of devastating loss.
15:20
So it's 1968 and a replay is in Stockholm to do a show
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at a rather famous ballroom. A
15:32
good friend of mine and I, we
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dearly wanted to meet her.
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I'm Hasse, Hassehus. I'm
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a Swedish retired
15:42
social anthropologist. I've dabbled
15:44
at songwriting and I used
15:47
to be a club DJ.
15:48
We went down to the hotel where
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Aretha Franklin was staying and I
15:54
think we waited in the lobby for a while
15:56
and when she appeared we
15:58
ran up to her and
15:59
We gave her a Swedish
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wooden horse, which is kind of a traditional
16:05
gift in these parts. I had
16:07
brought my copy of Lady Soul for
16:10
her to sign. And she signed
16:12
it and we had a chat and she
16:14
was ever so friendly. And
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then she said, why don't you come to the rehearsals
16:19
tomorrow? You know, would you like to do
16:21
that? And we said, wow,
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yes, of course. So the next
16:25
day we went to the ballroom.
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And when she saw us, she said, oh, hi.
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Oh, I remember you guys from yesterday and
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welcome.
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And then after a while, she said, why don't you come up
16:37
on stage with us? So
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there we were on stage with Aretha
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and her sister Carolyn, who was
16:45
wonderfully friendly as well, and
16:47
the band. And we spent
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the whole afternoon with
16:51
her.
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She was rehearsing her moves, you know,
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and she was in ordinary pants and
17:00
a t-shirt. And I
17:03
took some photos and they didn't
17:05
come out incredibly well. But I look at
17:07
them often thinking, wow, I
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spent the day with Aretha when I was 15.
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Many
17:14
years later, I read that she
17:16
was tough on journalists.
17:18
But with us, she was extremely
17:20
friendly and fun, all
17:23
smiles and laughter. I
17:25
think my friend, Joanne, being a fan of
17:27
Dionne Warwick's, probably
17:29
knew the
17:31
song better than I did. But we
17:34
listened to it together and we sort of
17:36
both agreed that this is the ultimate
17:38
version.
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I mean, Burt Bacharach wrote incredible
17:44
melodies and Hal David obviously
17:46
wrote incredible lyrics. But
17:49
that one, it's a match in heaven, isn't
17:51
it? What I love
17:53
about it is it sort of mixes
17:55
the everyday with the spiritual,
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all those lines about.
17:59
waking up in the morning and wondering
18:02
what dress to wear and riding
18:04
on the bus and at work
18:06
I just take time and all through my coffee
18:09
break time and then I say a little
18:11
prayer for you. That's just incredible.
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It
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moved me then but I think it moves
18:18
me even more now. Getting
18:20
older I realize what
18:22
those words can mean.
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I think it evokes feelings
18:29
of joy because it's such a joyful,
18:33
generous song. It's one of the greatest
18:35
ever. I go back to it a lot.
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The song means so much to me that I'm actually
18:41
thinking of incorporating it
18:44
into a speech I'm going to make for
18:46
my son
18:47
and his fiance when they get married
18:49
this summer. You know it's such a loving,
18:52
loving message in that song. It
18:56
takes me back to my meeting
18:59
her all those years ago. To that
19:02
day 55 years ago is
19:04
it? When she invited us to join her
19:06
on stage. I'm sort of overwhelmed
19:10
by joyful memories of
19:12
having spent a day with arguably
19:14
the finest voice of the moon.
19:23
Okay we're recording.
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My name is Nina Freelon
19:28
and I am a singer. The
19:33
moment I wake
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up before
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I put on my
19:42
makeup I say
19:44
a little prayer. The song is one
19:46
that I first encountered with Dionne
19:49
Warwick's arrangement. I mean
19:51
that's the first time it touched
19:52
my heart. The
19:56
song has such a beautiful
19:58
quality in her hands.
20:01
of love and
20:03
hopefulness and just
20:06
beauty. And then of course
20:08
Aretha Franklin's version
20:14
touched my heart. It had
20:17
a bit of a different quality rooted
20:20
in a kind of a gospel understanding
20:23
and again hope. But
20:25
for me
20:27
it never held grief until
20:31
after my husband passed
20:32
away. I
20:36
say a little prayer for you in every
20:38
moment. In the mundane
20:40
moments of life when
20:42
I'm combing my hair, when I'm getting dressed, what
20:46
is it getting used to the presence of his
20:48
absence? That's where the prayer
20:51
lives for me.
20:53
Not only am I saying a little prayer for
20:57
him, I'm also saying
20:59
a little prayer for myself.
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Phil Freelon was, and I you know
21:05
I struggle with that, was,
21:07
I want to say
21:11
is, he was
21:12
kind
21:21
and he loved me unconditionally. He
21:24
just was such a great father, a great
21:27
husband. We had a lot of fun
21:29
together. He was my confidant,
21:31
my friend, my lover, my soulmate.
21:35
He was the architect of record on the Smithsonian
21:38
Museum of African-American History and Culture
21:40
in Washington DC. And so
21:43
we had these sort of
21:45
kind of like a power couple vibe.
21:47
I had my area of shine.
21:49
He had his area of shine. Together
21:52
we applauded and
21:54
supported and loved each other.
21:57
It was not a competitive
21:59
spirit.
22:00
I can't even speak
22:02
about what kind of space that
22:05
leaves in my life right
22:06
now. To live without you
22:08
will only mean heartbreak
22:11
for me. So
22:16
when Phil passed away in 2019,
22:18
one of the things he said to me was, keep
22:21
singing. He had ALS,
22:23
so that meant a long
22:27
journey where we could see the
22:29
end coming. That was a queer
22:32
kind of mixed blessing. You
22:34
know, it wasn't a sudden thing where you
22:36
wake up one morning and the one you love
22:38
is gone, and there's not even the opportunity
22:40
to say goodbye. We had many moments
22:43
that were quite powerful. And one of
22:45
the things he said to me was, don't stop
22:48
singing.
22:50
And I promised him that I would not stop.
22:53
But I had no idea if I could keep that promise.
22:57
So my creative
22:59
life was a way for me to
23:02
cope with my grief. That's the simplest way
23:04
I can put it.
23:06
Being strong, I wasn't strong
23:08
enough. Having enough faith, I
23:10
didn't have enough faith.
23:12
Being able to bear up, you know,
23:14
stiff upper lip kind of thing, I didn't have
23:16
that. What I did have access
23:19
to after a time
23:22
was my creative life.
23:24
And so it was a place for me to tell story,
23:27
to sing, to create,
23:30
to engage with my grief.
23:33
Not to pretend that everything was okay,
23:35
because everything was not okay. But
23:38
music was a profound and sturdy
23:41
container to place
23:44
my grief inside.
23:50
The real mark of the power
23:53
of a tune is how it can
23:55
accompany you through your life. In
23:58
the happy times, in the not so easy times.
23:59
happy times. And so this is one of those tunes
24:02
that has really held
24:04
me in good stead. I've
24:07
actually recorded it more than once. The
24:09
first time I recorded it had
24:11
a whole different kind of Latin vibe
24:14
and it just, it was a beautiful arrangement,
24:16
but it didn't
24:18
touch me the way this
24:20
recording on Time Traveler, I had to
24:23
take it back to church. I just had to.
24:34
It's a kind of prayer
24:37
and a kind of way of reckoning
24:39
because sometimes you don't know what you're feeling
24:41
really until you write it down
24:43
or until you sing about it or until you,
24:46
you know, you engage with
24:49
it. And I tried running. I
24:51
really did try to just put it to the side
24:54
and be okay.
24:57
It was impossible.
25:00
I wanted to express the way I was feeling,
25:02
the
25:03
strength of the plea, you
25:05
know, the moment I wake up, before
25:09
I put on my makeup in
25:12
a way that was different from, you know,
25:15
just kind of getting pretty for the day.
25:20
Prayer is technology.
25:22
Prayer changes things. It changes
25:24
things on a molecular level. And
25:27
singing, in my humble
25:29
opinion, is profound
25:32
prayer. It is the casting
25:35
into the ethers in a way we don't
25:37
quite understand
25:39
this hope, this
25:42
desire, this plea,
25:45
this connection with
25:48
the other side of the veil that
25:51
exists because we can feel it. I know he
25:55
can feel.
25:56
I know I
25:58
feel his presence. Not
26:00
just when I'm singing, but I feel his presence
26:02
daily.
26:09
I don't think you can be married 40 years and
26:11
have all of these experiences and just
26:13
have it wink off. I
26:17
just don't believe that.
26:24
For me, that song makes
26:27
me smile, which is a
26:29
crazy thing when I think about it. There was not a lot to smile
26:31
about at times about Vietnam. There's
26:33
still a lot of pain, but that song
26:36
gives me comfort and makes me smile because I
26:38
know that it not
26:40
only helped to bring me home, but
26:42
it helped to bring a lot of vets home too. It
26:45
calmed a lot of hearts. And in
26:47
some ways that's the best we could do.
26:51
Yeah, it's a song that's gone through the
26:53
decades with me. It's
26:56
a very comforting song. It's a radically
26:58
comforting song. And so
27:00
when I listened to that song, that song is
27:02
about coming home. It's about
27:05
being at home.
27:06
It's about safety. It's
27:09
about always remembering
27:11
and holding onto the
27:14
people who constitute
27:17
the very core of who you are,
27:20
the absolute necessity
27:22
of black love and
27:25
the ways in which we carry black love with
27:27
us from inside the home
27:29
to out into the world,
27:32
a world that is so often cruel to
27:35
black folks. This is our
27:37
shield, our cover. This
27:40
is our place that we can always come back to.
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