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And and welcome to another episode of the of stuck in my mind

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podcast. I'm your host, w I z e, And my

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next guest, I'm excited. Everybody be prepared

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for a a wonderful episode. I'm so excited because just from

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the Welcome backstage. I

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had great energy, great vibes, so I'm excited for this guest. Let's just walk

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let's just bring her on to the show. Welcome, Nora Foster.

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Hello. Thank you. What an honor,

1:10

privilege to be here in this time and space. Yeah. It's a great time

1:13

to be alive, baby. It is. So okay. So

1:17

let's just let's just jump right into it. So Your your journey

1:21

involves transforming your life in multiple aspects. Right?

1:25

From health to becoming a a barefoot triathlete.

1:29

Can you share a pivotal moment or realization that set you on

1:33

this path? What, like, what got you going on this path? Yeah. There

1:36

were several moments, but 1 in

1:40

particular was watching my parents decline

1:43

and subsequently died a very young age and I

1:47

was living the exact same lifestyle they were.

1:51

You know, I was morbidly the obese. I was on all kinds of

1:54

medication, and I remember looking at them, and I remember saying, you know what?

1:58

I'm not fucking going out like that. It was a

2:02

big and it put me on a path of

2:06

really starting to peel back my my Programming and conditioning

2:09

as a human. Yeah. And just starting to go,

2:13

oh, wow. I've been told I'm supposed to be diabetic because my parents

2:17

were? That's not true. So, yeah, I reversed

2:21

I mean, I was on all kinds of medication for depression and

2:24

diabetes, And I'm meant free. I reverse that

2:28

stuff, and that's my message is, people, you can do

2:32

this. Absolute. And and and it is

2:35

something that, is big business. That's that's big

2:40

business. Medications, Everything that so that's why

2:43

they have the processed foods that they have out there, and we all eat it.

2:47

We all go to market, and so it it it is true.

2:52

But what what is it what can people do to change

2:55

that? What what are the things they can do to change their situation?

2:59

I think the The biggest thing people can

3:03

do is start to become aware, and

3:06

I'll talk about it in a moment, but that's the base platform of the holistic

3:10

scaffolding and to and to question everything.

3:14

Question everything you have ever Been told. Now I'm

3:18

not going to say it's right, wrong, and different whatever, but question it.

3:23

It's okay if you still decide to

3:26

Follow what you've been told or what you believe. It's fine. There's no judgment

3:30

here at all. But question it. You may want to select a different

3:34

path. It may not be what's in alignment with

3:38

actually your true self, not the programmed

3:41

human. There's a big difference there. So so you

3:45

mentioned holistic scaffold scaffolding. What is that?

3:49

It is actually it has been given From

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the universe for humanity. I'm just the

3:56

vessel that's delivering it. It is a 6

4:00

platform Framework technology, if you

4:04

will, that you use to shed your bullshit programming

4:07

conditioning. The best analogy I know to give is if

4:11

you think about the sculpture of Michelangelo's

4:14

David, Your David is your true

4:18

self, your spirit, your soul, your wise ass motherfucker, your intuition. I

4:22

don't care what you call it. It's there. What

4:26

that's your David. The programming, the

4:29

human program that we've had, that is actually all

4:33

the granite that was around David. And Michelangelo has a famous quote. I

4:36

can't remember it off the top of my head, but he said David was in

4:40

it. All he had to do was chisel away The

4:44

excess, material. And that's what holistic scaffolding does

4:47

for you. Yeah. You once you learn it, you have it for the rest of

4:51

your life. So it's very different.

4:55

So basically we're chiseling away at ourselves. We're

4:58

chiseling away at ourselves, our, The ego

5:02

part, the programming, the conditioning that we've all had as

5:06

humans. Yeah. So,

5:10

So this is something I I'm really and believe in, like, talking about your

5:13

true self and being authentic and being you, and that's something I I

5:17

I'm I feel I'm able to do on my podcast. Like,

5:21

being an independent podcaster, I can I don't have no one tell me what I

5:24

can discuss, what guest I can have? I can actually Bring

5:28

the guest I choose to have on my guests, have these wonderful

5:32

conversations, and just be me. Yes. And and when I come on here,

5:35

I I I love having these conversations because It's

5:39

helping me develop and grow and learn because I'm learning so

5:42

much, and and I get to speak to wonderful people like

5:46

like yourself. And Yeah. And it's

5:50

just you can see the transformation. You can feel the transformation because you

5:54

from where I went from where I first started on my podcast where

5:57

I'm now. And even with everything that's going on

6:01

with the hard work I'm putting into the podcast and the recognition I'm starting to

6:05

get in, It's it's been it's

6:09

been wonderful. It it it's like just being able like you said, just chiseling. I'm

6:12

still learning. I'm still growing. I'm still Figuring out who I am,

6:16

and and I'm a work in progress. I'm just in the way. I'm do

6:20

I'm doing what I I can to

6:24

Make myself better. It's things I still I know I have to work at. That's

6:27

Yeah. I'm working I have to work at. And but, again, this is

6:30

the mission of my podcast is to be able to Experience this and

6:34

speak to people and and and learn and

6:38

have people at the same time learn with me. Exactly. And you are

6:42

living that and I I wanna thank you for that

6:45

because I can tell you are Authentic. You are showing up.

6:49

I can tell if I had a conversate I'm having a conversation on your

6:53

podcast, but I know if I met you on the street, You are authentically the

6:57

same person and that is fantastic and you're living

7:00

your mission to be authentic and to help other people. That's

7:04

that's what I'm doing as well, and we're not alone. There's there's all

7:08

these little there's all these people that we are waking up,

7:12

And sometimes it can be scary as hell because

7:16

yeah. When you start to kind of when you do wake up,

7:20

You can, like, unravel your life. And, I mean, that happened to me

7:24

in in some other areas in my life. You know?

7:27

Yeah. When you start doing that, right, you you

7:31

start I've met. I've become friends

7:35

Real and I mean, when I say friends, that these are people I can if

7:39

I need something or anything goes on, they're there

7:44

We're doing the podcast. Like, so there's so many podcasts that I'm really good

7:48

friends that they're gonna be friends for life because of

7:53

They share a lot of the same qualities that I share. We believe in a

7:57

lot of the same things. We all and and it's and we all come from

8:00

different walks of life, but It it's just

8:04

amazing when you start putting out an energy,

8:09

The energy you receive back and the people you start

8:13

attracting and the people you start connecting with. And there's people that See

8:16

that you're truly trying to be yourself, and they're like, I wanna work with

8:20

this person. I wanna hang out with this person. I wanted to create

8:24

content with this person. I wanna And so

8:28

the more the more I'm I go into it, like,

8:31

the opportunities are arriving, the the people I'm connecting, the guests that I'm connecting,

8:37

And just the relationships that you're like, wow. Like

8:40

Yeah. And you can't I mean, as humans, we've we've tried to

8:44

Worse though sometimes. Mhmm. But generally, that doesn't work out for you. What

8:48

you're talking about is I call it

8:52

authentic alignment because you are authentically aligning

8:56

with your your purpose, your true self, whatever you want to call it. And

8:59

you're right. And then the universe is always in

9:03

our favor. I I say all the time, it's not happening to

9:07

you. It's really happening for you. Now I wanna be really clear.

9:11

You know, I've been through some horrific things as a human,

9:15

but I've I've come to a point where I can view all the learnings,

9:19

You know, it's a gift. I mean, I really learned through

9:23

things. So, yeah, I'm I'm grateful for it. I

9:26

mean, even even the stuff that was Oh, listen. Even

9:30

listen. My aunt just passed away Saturday Oh.

9:34

Cancer. I'm so sorry. And but I but I I had an event that

9:37

I was cohosting. I was, I was doing

9:41

something for, international podcast day with some friends,

9:45

and And it was like and no

9:48

one knew. Only 1 person, my cohost. Only my cohost for the event knew

9:52

what was going on with me. Like, she's the only one that knew.

9:58

And it it wasn't till almost the last event, last show,

10:02

last thing that I I let people know what had happened,

10:07

and no one had a clue. No no one because I I came. I

10:11

I Because I was still in an environment with with

10:14

people that I loved being around. Just being

10:18

able to talk to them And and just feel the

10:22

love and the energy that we all have for each other. So and and I

10:25

knew and my sister had already because my sister was with my mom. They went

10:29

To do they went to see my aunt and everything,

10:33

and she was like, no. Do your pro do your show. Mhmm. We're gonna take

10:37

credit as we already know what's going on. Mhmm. Services are gonna be later

10:40

on. And and so I I'm I'm

10:44

able to Focus and and do my podcast. And, yeah, I have a heavy

10:48

heart, but I know I've been through

10:52

so much trauma and grief and loss that

10:56

I know that you would really truly want me to continue

11:00

to do what I'm doing. Like, You wouldn't want me to be sad,

11:04

and and she's like, no. She she's the kind of person that would tell you,

11:07

live your life. I'm like, yes. Yep. I'm gone on my hip, but I'm

11:11

naturally gone because energy is never gone. So Yeah.

11:15

It's it's it's It's

11:20

been amazing from from all the

11:23

support of all my friends, all my, And is it and it just it

11:28

just makes me just why I like this is what I love to do. Mhmm.

11:31

So this is my happy This is my I can I can very much

11:35

tell that? And yeah. And I am I'm sorry for your

11:39

loss, but you said something, You know energy is energy and

11:42

it's never lost and and I've had a lot of loss in my

11:46

life too, but I try to reframe that because When

11:50

they're when they've left their physical body, yes, then they're

11:54

really always with you and they are with you all the

11:57

time. So I like to think of that as like wow.

12:01

They're now instead of I get to see them a couple times a year or

12:04

whatever, They're always here. They're always and they're always

12:08

cheering for us. It's amazing. Sometimes it's hard to

12:13

See through that and feel through that grief, but I yeah. I'm sending

12:17

you a lot of unconditional love. And Oh, thank you. I I greatly

12:21

appreciate it. Oh, but It it it I'm just saying, but

12:24

it's like, I could easily been canceled the shows this

12:28

week, and, like, I don't But this is

12:32

my this is my happy space. This is my safe this

12:36

is where I feel comfortable. This is love. I

12:39

love being able to do this, so why take

12:43

that away from me? That's why I look at it like, why take that away

12:46

from me and Yeah. And and Kinda

12:50

like her make it more a little bit more, like because then I'm focusing on

12:54

missing her and all this other stuff. And and So now I'm able

12:57

to, yes, do what I love, talk to have a great conversation. Mhmm.

13:01

Yes. I miss her. But, again, like I said, energy never goes

13:05

away, And she's always with me. And Absolutely. It's

13:09

it's it was a no brainer to

13:13

really continue with the shows this week. Yeah, well I'm

13:16

glad you are and I know your audiences as well

13:20

because it's the ripple effect, you never know who's going to hear

13:24

Part of what you have to say and how that's gonna help them on their

13:28

journey. So yeah. That's absolutely that's what we're all about. I

13:31

mean, that's that's the To me, in

13:35

my mission is, you know, bringing holistic scaffolding to

13:38

the collective, the ones that are ready. To

13:42

me, that is our way out of this hot mess that we're in,

13:47

because When you settle in and do your own

13:51

work and you're in alignment with your true self, that is, I

13:54

call it epipolitics and epi religion. It's

13:58

beyond politics. It's beyond

14:02

religion. It's, it really is. Because at the base,

14:06

we really are unconditional love

14:10

and that's kind of where humanity has, I mean, that's why we're

14:13

so divided and in different camps. And

14:17

I'm like, this is a this is a technology that can help

14:21

people do their own work, Shed that programming because

14:24

I have to be honest with you. It it takes

14:28

work, but I

14:32

truly see all the beautiful

14:35

souls and their true self, Even people that

14:39

are wrapped in in quite a nasty human, to be honest with you. But I

14:43

can see through that. That I mean, that's

14:46

that's huge. And I don't know that a

14:50

lot of people can kinda grasp that, but And I used to

14:54

live on both sides of the political fence and,

14:58

you know, and I'm like, I'm just not there anymore. I'm gonna love you no

15:01

matter what. And and that's one thing, yes, one thing I'm real

15:05

it's I

15:09

don't to me, politics is just I don't

15:12

It makes no sense to me because at the end of the day,

15:16

none of the 2 parties care about what We're doing

15:20

so we need to focus on ourselves and not focus on what they're

15:24

doing. And to me, it it's that's what they want. They want us

15:27

distracted. So So by them having us divided and picking

15:31

red or blue instead of picking yourself and being like, no. I'm not gonna let

15:35

y'all control me and Manipulate my way of thinking.

15:39

Mhmm. I I I look at both views. I'm like, yep. There's some good things

15:43

over here. There's some good things, but there's a lot of,

15:46

Yeah. You Messed up stuff. You are speaking my

15:50

language. Absolutely. And you said you said the key thing is it is

15:53

a distraction. It I I don't know

15:57

how or why or who or whatever, but it is a distraction.

16:01

It is a distraction keeping us to settle in and do

16:05

our own work. Because when we do settle in and do our own work and

16:09

we shed that bullshit programming, conditioning, distractions,

16:12

We realize. We do see. I mean I see your

16:16

beautiful soul but I also, you know, somebody that cuts me off Running

16:19

down the road. I mean, I see their beautiful soul too.

16:23

Yeah. So that it's huge. So I'm a big

16:27

proponent. Settle and do your own work. Yeah. Come and join what

16:31

I'm doing if if that calls you, but I'm not tied to that. I

16:34

just want people to do their own work. That's it. I don't care what you

16:37

need. So Because

16:41

because honestly yeah. Because everyone's path is different.

16:45

So, there there there will be people who are like,

16:48

yes. This is the program for me. This is what I need to and and

16:52

and This might not be some people, this might not be the podcast for them.

16:56

Yeah. And I'm okay with that, and I'm cool with that. I'm cool with that.

16:59

Too. Not every not everyone is not for everyone,

17:04

But I do happy that check it out, and so

17:07

I continue to do what I do. So for me, it's like,

17:12

It's okay if you don't like like, my wife doesn't listen to my

17:15

podcast. She doesn't. She doesn't. Yeah.

17:19

She's like, I talk to you every day. It's like, I I live with

17:23

you. I live with you. Why do I say no thank you? All about. Yeah.

17:27

Yeah. Why do I gotta hear about no thank you?

17:31

And and so but but she is my biggest fan.

17:34

She she she is my biggest cheerleader show. Whenever I get T

17:38

shirts, me, she's Rocking them to work. Yeah. She she's like, oh, man.

17:42

My husband's a podcast. You listen. You should listen to it. So she is my

17:45

biggest fan and my biggest cheerleader. Yeah. But she

17:49

honestly, she won't she don't listen to my podcast. Yeah. And you're okay with that.

17:53

Yeah. Absolutely. With that. Oh. I'm good with that. She's but

17:56

but, again, I said She's my biggest cheerleader. So Mhmm.

18:00

Yeah. That's wonderful. I'm glad I'm glad you have that in your life.

18:03

So So

18:07

so alright. So so you have a platform,

18:11

souls healing humanity. Right? What what

18:15

what is that? What what does that offer? It it is

18:18

actually, an online community that

18:22

I've got a lot of different, I've got free resources

18:26

there, I've written a book called Fed Up Not Fucked Up.

18:29

I like that title, I see that title. Yeah,

18:33

I haven't uploaded it to Amazon yet, it's done but, you

18:37

know, it's in the process. But there's also on The

18:40

Fed Up Not Fucked Up online course which is

18:44

22 lessons and it's self guided but

18:47

I'm walking them through the process of Learning the

18:51

holistic holistic scaffolding lifestyle is a choice. One of

18:55

the big differences in what I have to offer

18:58

is The holistic scaffolding lifestyle,

19:02

we focus on a higher, more positive vibration.

19:06

Now we, you know, you we delve into the full cornucopia of

19:10

human emotions, but we're not so focused on, I

19:13

wanna change this and this, you know. We focus

19:17

on the positive stuff. So and there are 6 platforms to that.

19:21

So I know you'll be able to put a link. There's some free stuff, Take

19:25

back your power work, workbook for them that's free.

19:29

There's also, bullshit bag mini course. I deliver

19:32

5 little video lessons. They're less than 5 minutes on how

19:36

people can build their own bullshit bag so they can become aware

19:40

of some of the bullshit they're telling themselves and their wife.

19:44

Yeah. It's a lot of fun. So but, yeah, there's a lot of

19:47

free stuff, stuff for purchase. Yeah. So So, yeah, I

19:51

will put I will put the the link in the description so you

19:55

everybody can click. You can go check out the link and and check out the

19:58

website. Yeah. Get some free stuff and Absolutely.

20:02

Maybe yeah. If everybody likes free stuff. Everybody likes. I

20:06

love free stuff. So I'm I'm all about the free. So

20:12

So so so the name of my podcast is stuck in my mind.

20:16

And, Again, the reason I I named it that way is because I was

20:19

when I initially had wanted to start a podcast, it was gonna be

20:23

2019. And I had bought I bought this

20:27

little podcasting studio set up for, like, $160

20:31

on Amazon. And I kept messing with it. It came at

20:35

deleting their mess. Because originally I was gonna do a sports podcast with

20:38

a friend of mine, and we didn't we didn't end up doing it. And I

20:41

had I had the equipment sitting around over a

20:45

year. Wow. And finally,

20:49

Well, I I got furloughed from work. So Mhmm. It was at the beginning of

20:52

the pandemic. I furloughed from work, and I was like, man, let me just

20:56

press record, record the episode, Which wasn't that long. It was I had

20:59

my nephew, and then the setup was crazy because I

21:04

had my nephew on the phone. I had the mic Standing here, and I'm just

21:07

holding the phone for the mic so you could hear

21:12

him. And we well, we just it was just an introduction episode,

21:18

And it it was just it was like, alright. This is it. He's like, no.

21:21

We should wait. We should Call a couple more, and then we said, I'm sitting

21:24

there. I I want people to see the beginning. I want them to see the

21:28

where we started from. And then what was great about it,

21:31

because then probably 35, 45, probably way more a few more than that. But

21:38

in the sixties and seventies, I redid the 1st episode,

21:42

but I kept the 1st 7 minutes. Right? The first I kept the

21:46

1st original episode, and then I just added a reintroduction

21:50

episode, is that was actually, like, another 35, 40 minutes.

21:53

Yeah. And I just wanted to show the people, like, yes. This is

21:57

This is the 1st time we did anything, and now look at us now, and

22:01

you could just see the growth. So What

22:06

for you, what what would you what kind of tips would

22:10

you give someone who's who's stuck in their mind or something like

22:14

They're hesitant about taking this risk because they're

22:18

afraid of of failure or whatever. You

22:21

really cannot make any mistakes and I

22:25

know that is shocking to some people because I know we do get, as a

22:29

human, we get so stuck. The analysis paralysis and you can't

22:32

make decisions. Just make the

22:36

decision. You're not gonna make a mistake. It is

22:39

happening for you. Yeah. It may be completely different. It may blow up

22:43

in your face and you may think it's a big fuck

22:47

It's not. It's there to teach you. The

22:50

the wisdom there is that you can sit back and

22:54

go, what can I learn from that? You know, I thought it was gonna I

22:58

thought this relationship was gonna be this, and it turned out to be a

23:02

hot stinking mess. What can I learn? Why was that

23:05

person in my life? What can I learn from that?

23:09

So just Try not to get stuck in your head like

23:12

you're saying, not stuck in my mind. Come into

23:16

alignment with your true self, which is your heart space. You make those

23:20

decisions, learn from them. Just keep moving forward. You

23:24

know, don't don't give up. I I've been

23:27

So down emotionally and depressed that, yes, there were times in

23:31

my life that I did not want to

23:35

live. And I and I think as human beings, if we're

23:38

really, really honest, we all go through that, and it's a scary

23:42

time. Yeah. Yeah. It is. No. It is. It

23:46

definitely is. It it it it like

23:49

I said, I was, For me, it was just I would delete it, record

23:53

it. And it was because I was like, oh, this this is what I this

23:56

is what I'm telling my own self in my head. Who's gonna wanna listen to

24:00

me? I'm I'm I sound

24:04

horrible. Like, I don't I can't do this.

24:08

And it it was just so many different excuses that I was throwing out there.

24:11

Like, oh, man. I don't have and then when I finally

24:15

did Release it when I finally recorded and released it,

24:19

and I was like, it's not that bad.

24:23

What's the worst that can happen? Nobody listens?

24:27

Exactly. Yeah. But at least I took the I took the risk, And

24:31

I and I and I put it out there so that I'm it was easier

24:34

to release up even though it took a couple of weeks. Mhmm. I believe about

24:37

a month Yeah. Released episode 2. But

24:41

that that just gave me a little bit more confidence. And And and look

24:45

at where you are now. Like I said, you are authentically living who

24:49

you are And it is the ripple effect. You

24:52

are helping probably millions of people

24:57

in just that that ripple. And, yeah, it's

25:00

it's amazing. But I totally get what you're saying because

25:04

I only started souls healing humanity just over a

25:08

year ago because I was living my mission but it was just kind

25:11

of, You know, with individual people and small groups and, you

25:15

know, the universe kept kicking me in the head. It's like, okay. You need

25:19

to get out there. You need to, But, you know, like, you're saying, oh, jeez.

25:22

It was my human self. Yeah. Who's gonna wanna listen to me?

25:26

I'm 55 years old. What do I have to say? Who Pairs, you

25:29

know? Like yeah. But No. You're right. You just

25:33

you that's the thing. Keep moving forward. Keep Just keep

25:37

making those decisions. So No. Yeah. Yeah.

25:41

It says you're absolutely right when it comes to that. It you have to continue

25:44

to make those decisions. And and it's and it's it's

25:49

just it's been wonderful to be able to to do this. And

25:55

Like I said, it's just something new every day. There's

25:59

there's something new every day. Because I I recall

26:03

I do the live shows Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. That's what

26:07

I those that's my schedule. And before that, before I got

26:10

before I got some kind of structure because prior to

26:14

that, I was probably oh my god. I was probably recording 6,

26:18

7 episodes a week. Wow. And it

26:22

was just like, maybe I might burn myself out. Let me

26:25

chill, slow down. These I'm a set a schedule. And

26:29

but then this has all been happening within the last year. Yeah.

26:34

And when I did that, As far

26:40

as, my my as far as the audio podcast,

26:44

It's helped me with being consistent with

26:48

that, making sure I have a weekly a freshly weak apps. Even though I

26:52

record 3 episodes a week, Video wise, I take 1

26:55

episode. I strip it, take the audio from it, and I u and I put

26:59

it on the audio as well. Mhmm. And so now I have a

27:02

back catalog because I'm doing the 3 episodes a week. And

27:06

so now if I wanna take a vacation, I wanna take as far as

27:09

The audio goes, I have back catalogs to just fill

27:13

it in. Mhmm. So it's been it's just been

27:18

Much more structured and then learning up with learning about

27:21

AI, news and chat g b t, and all these other programs

27:25

Just to improve because

27:29

these are skills that I'm developing as well. I'm developing Editing

27:33

skills. I'm developing other skills that people don't

27:36

wanna do. Yeah. But I'm I'm enjoying I'm enjoying the

27:40

process of learning these skills and Being able to do it to

27:44

I'm starting a master where it's not taking me much time to

27:47

do it. That's fantastic. There's 2 things

27:51

that popped out as you were talking. Number 1, I

27:55

love how you're actually putting yourself first. You're saying you were

27:59

doing like 6, 7 a week and something in you,

28:02

you intuitively knew this is too much. So you

28:06

were actually pulling back and putting yourself first and that is one of

28:09

the principles that I teach is that we've been programmed

28:13

to think Putting yourself first is selfish and it's not.

28:16

It's not. Yeah. So I'm glad that you

28:20

are able, You have a lot of wisdom. You're an old soul. I don't know

28:23

if anybody's ever told you that before, but you are definitely an old soul. And

28:27

I don't mean old life. No. No. No. You know what I mean by that.

28:31

But yeah. So I've always fantastic. Yeah. Always

28:34

had that that patience to to To teach, to

28:42

wanna wanna help people, and and they

28:46

wanna enlighten people sometimes. I don't I'm not trying to say the town

28:50

Conquering, but it it's just that it I feel that I have information that

28:54

I wanna share. Exactly. You're sharing that sharing that wisdom.

28:58

And one and one of the craziest thing was I had a guest on, and

29:01

we had a discussion. We talked about it, and I was like, man, she's I

29:05

was like, yo, I I feel like I'm selfish.

29:09

I said I said I feel like I'm selfish because I'm enjoying these conversations

29:13

so much, and I'm I'm having a great time doing the show.

29:17

And she goes, what do you mean that's so that's not selfish.

29:20

That's self love. And she goes, and the fact that you're sharing

29:24

it with your audience Yes. What's the what's the selfishness in

29:28

that? Exactly. It she said it's okay for you wanna grow and

29:31

learn. It's fine. It's not a problem. Yeah. And that that's the

29:35

second thing that I wanna loop back to you about growing and learning is what

29:38

you're talking about that you're learning. That's one of the I

29:42

Teacher principle called 5 gold goals. And one of the 5 goal

29:46

goals where you never fail at goal setting again is becoming

29:49

a lifelong learner. Absolutely. And I love that in

29:53

you. So because a lot of people will get stuck in kind of their ways

29:56

in the same way they've always done it and they don't really wanna see anything

29:59

else. And living by that principle that

30:03

you're always learning, you know, and changing. It's like, it's

30:07

okay. I have people reach out to me now and send me, like, yo. Why is

30:18

this a new tool I learned about? Check it out.

30:22

Or, yo, this new software, Check this out. And

30:25

and, oh, I I've shout out to my man, Phil Better.

30:29

He he's helped me autumn like, He's helped me

30:33

with automation. Like, he's helped me

30:37

within the past few months. I started actually sending

30:41

out a weekly email with whatever content I created for

30:44

that week, the previous week or whatever.

30:49

And that was something I wasn't doing before. Yeah. But he

30:52

saw something. He's like, yo, I wanna teach you how to do this. He says

30:55

to he said and because he he teaches people

30:58

Professionally, he says, but I want you to take this beta course. Here

31:02

you go. And you got me started on doing automation. And

31:06

and now that I'm learning so many other Other things to help me

31:10

help grow Yeah. My business and help my grow my

31:13

podcast. Exactly. It it's just like, I'm blessed to

31:17

have these people come into my life, but, again, that's the energy.

31:21

It is because you are authentic. You, like I said

31:25

before, you are authentically aligned with, you are living on

31:29

purpose and that's why you're having all this stuff pop into

31:33

your life and in, you're manifesting all that, because you

31:37

are living on purpose and you are authentically who you are

31:41

and you're not trying to force that and you're open to learning.

31:45

And yeah. And that that's what we're all about. I mean, that

31:49

is our mission as humans. It's like It's kind of the classic

31:52

hero's journey, you know. Some people are gonna awaken and take

31:56

that hero's journey. Some people aren't, and that's okay.

32:00

We're gonna love on them anyway. Yeah. But

32:03

once you kinda learn enough, then you that is

32:07

Authentically aligning, you come back and you help your other humans, and that's what

32:11

you're doing. So But it is it's funny because

32:15

Me and my nephew, we we we discussed this, and we talked about this, and

32:18

and he's like, yo, I've been wanting to try to help pull

32:22

people with me. He's saying, I need I need he says, they start

32:26

realizing I can't do that. He says, not everybody's coming on this journey with us

32:29

because we try to put, Like, we try to get people involved with us that

32:33

they're like, oh, man. We and they just do it a

32:37

couple times, and they drop down. They drop out. And and we're like,

32:41

Alright. We we we tried. We we

32:45

can't continue to try to pull you along with us.

32:49

We need to Go forward. We can't

32:53

is that we gotta continue to move forward. We we can't continue to look

32:57

back to help y'all. No. I And then we can't

33:00

focus on we can't focus on what's coming ahead. Yeah.

33:04

We might miss something. Exactly. So Yeah.

33:08

When we started learning that, we're like, okay. It's not that we're

33:11

we're trying to be selfish. We tried. We tried to bring People Exactly.

33:15

And you not not everyone's meant to come on this journey with

33:19

us. Exactly. And their journey is actually

33:23

perfect for them and that took me a long time because I Oh my god.

33:26

I'm a recovering people pleaser and I was like

33:30

the family savior. And what I discovered is

33:34

that it was actually a huge distraction for me and I think other

33:38

people resonate with that as well, Because, you know,

33:41

you're trying to pull them along, you're trying to help them, you're trying to save

33:44

them, you're trying to tell them you shouldn't be doing this, you should be doing

33:48

that, and for me it just kept me from doing my own work

33:52

because their path is their path. It is perfect for

33:55

them, even, even though You can look at it and

33:59

it's like, oh gosh. You you can even see there it's

34:02

kinda like a slow train wreck sometimes. But just releasing that and like you said, just let them go and they're not

34:10

meant to be, you know, on you with you on your path and that's

34:14

okay. So yeah. And and and it's

34:17

it's and then we've

34:21

we've I know I've realized that he's kinda realized it, but

34:25

he's like, we put these expectations on

34:28

them. And so when they disappoint us, But it it

34:32

it's like, no. We it's how it's we take I I I

34:36

I'd like know what? No. That I take that out. I'll take

34:39

that because I shouldn't have put it that. I shouldn't put the expectation on them.

34:43

They're gonna be who they are. I shouldn't force who I want

34:47

them to be Yeah. And expect them to be who I

34:50

want them to be, and then get upset when they

34:54

don't They don't be that person, but but it's

34:58

not my place to choose who they are. Mhmm. So when I

35:02

started realizing that, I'm like Yeah. Yeah.

35:06

I've Yeah. It's another one of the 5 goal goals that

35:09

I teach is trust, choosing trust. Trust the

35:13

universe, yourself, and others. You're talking about, like, kinda putting a

35:17

little bit of trust in other people because you're trying to, you

35:20

know, help them and And trust that they'll kinda take your advice

35:24

or your expectation.

35:28

And to me, If you don't accept people

35:31

and and trust where they are and you can't trust the universe and

35:35

yourself, You're just participating in what I call like

35:39

magical thinking because you and you kinda are like,

35:44

You really are attached to the outcome that you think

35:47

should happen. And that's a hard thing to learn. I'm still working on

35:51

that. I'm like you. I'm a life Long learner man. I don't have all the

35:55

answers. So that is something I'm still working on is not being

35:59

really attached to the outcome of, Hey. I want this

36:02

person to to be this way and I I wanna help

36:06

them, but, you know what? They're they're just where they are.

36:09

I mean, I, You don't need to accept that. So yeah.

36:14

Yeah. You do. You do. So

36:19

Looking looking ahead, what is your vision for the for the future of,

36:22

souls healings humanity, and how do you hope to

36:27

Continue making a positive impact on the lives of others.

36:32

I am really trusting The

36:37

universe to to use me in any way

36:41

that is needed right now. And yes,

36:45

I as my human, I see this as a huge global

36:49

movement. Is it global right now? No. But I'm trying again not

36:53

to be attached to that outcome and just saying, universe, you know what? You've

36:56

given me this. I'm living it and

37:00

I'm helping As many people as I can, use

37:04

me however I'm needed. So, yeah.

37:08

And I'm trying to, in the opportunity that's coming To me, I'm

37:12

taking it. So yeah. Yeah. It

37:16

it has you have to take it. You have to run with it. And,

37:20

it's it's I'm I'm I'm

37:24

I'm loving this journey. Like,

37:27

Just being able to to take the

37:31

risk and and really and take that leap of faith to the

37:35

point where When I first started, right, and I used to be a

37:38

big gamer. I mean, I come home from work, and I would spend hours

37:42

gaming, hours gaming. Mhmm. And so when I started

37:46

podcasting and I really started getting involved, my wife really came to me, and

37:50

then she says, I know you're serious

37:53

about this. Because I know you're serious about this

37:58

because you completely abandoned your PlayStation. It's collecting dust over there.

38:02

You you haven't touched it. Alright. Since you're serious about this, what can I

38:09

do to help you to make this and somehow Generate

38:13

money? What what can we do? What what do you what do you want? What

38:17

do you what do you want from this? Like And as well, yo, I

38:20

I love doing creating podcasts. I wanna start doing creating helping

38:24

people create their podcast and become a producer and all. It's like, alright. So let's

38:28

start your LLC. This that's first step 1. Let's work on this. Let's

38:31

do it. So, again, it's I'm

38:36

blessed in the fact that The people around me support me. Yeah.

38:44

And and don't judge. And just like, go ahead. Do

38:47

you. Exactly. Yeah.

38:51

That's fantastic. And you can tell you're, you know, you're aligned.

38:54

I mean, because That's the thing that that

38:58

a message that we can get out to the audience is, like, when

39:02

you are in line with your true self, Spirit, soul, whatever you wanna call

39:06

it, that feels good. Like you said, you are

39:10

like, I love doing this. I, You know, that feels good. When you're out

39:13

of alignment, it doesn't feel so

39:17

good. You know, you're living by somebody else's programming And

39:21

that's the big message behind souls healing humanity in the

39:25

holistic scaffolding. We have been programmed. You're

39:29

living in accordance to somebody else's conditioning.

39:32

I'm not saying it's wrong. I'm not saying to go back and blame your parents,

39:36

religion, whatever. I'm not saying that. But you have an opportunity to shed that and really know who

39:44

you really, really are. And then you design. When you're in alignment,

39:48

what you're doing right now, you are designing

39:51

your life In alignment with your true self,

39:55

you're designing a life for you, by

39:58

you. Not by the programming that you've had.

40:02

There's a big that's a big I call them wisdom nuggets.

40:05

It's a big wisdom nuggets. Yeah.

40:09

Like, wow. And that could take a while to learn, but that's the power

40:13

of holistic scaffolding. And like I said, And I say it

40:17

a lot in my community. I'm not your next fucking guru.

40:21

Gurus expect you to follow a certain programming. And I'm not judging that because

40:24

I have followed gurus But you know who knows

40:28

what's best for you? You.

40:32

Your true self. So the power of holistic

40:35

scaffolding is that you once you learn the

40:39

framework, you have that for the rest of your life. Yeah. I'm gonna be able

40:43

to Help you and guide you and teach you. I am a transformational

40:46

guide. I am not a life coach. I'm not a fucking guru. I

40:50

don't want A ton of people, like,

40:54

following it's not a program. It's a framework for you to

40:57

use. So it's, Like I said, the universe

41:01

brought this for humanity through me. So yeah.

41:05

And listen. The universe wanted to make this happen because, like I said

41:09

earlier, This you you your p PA, whoever

41:12

you there there was an opening, and next thing you

41:16

know, You're you're in the slot. Yeah. I know. Yeah. I read

41:20

the profile. I was like I had it read it before, and and I I

41:23

have forgot I didn't send it a link. When I did send her

41:27

the link, she jumped right at the. I see I see

41:30

you got open on the October 3rd. See you there. Like, well I'm like, woo

41:34

hoo. But, again, but I'm I'm I'm

41:38

also believer that this this conversation was needed to needed to happen.

41:42

Yeah. It was meant for this conversation, and that's why that That

41:45

slot opened up. Exactly. Able to fit right in.

41:50

And and so it's because We needed to talk. This me and you

41:54

had to sit down and have this conversation and share

41:57

share this with the world. So I'm I'm excited this is

42:01

a great time to speak to you. I am. I and if there's anything I

42:05

mean, this is definitely an authentic Connection,

42:08

I am honored to be in your presence and I know that there are

42:12

people out there that Or we'll get something.

42:16

They're getting a lot from what you're bringing and from what I'm bringing. So

42:20

Absolutely. Yeah. But now You get the solo screen.

42:24

You get to plug away, let everybody every anything you wanna plug,

42:27

it's it's you. Oh, thank you.

42:31

This is not about me. I want you guys to

42:35

know this is about you. I am here for you.

42:40

I love you. I love humanity. My mission is to help

42:43

heal humanity. Whatever method you use

42:47

To shed your bullshit programming and conditioning, to come

42:51

into alignment with your true self, I want you to do that.

42:55

This is our way out of the hot mess that we're

42:58

in. I am here in any way that you need.

43:03

Come check me out. I'm on socials, blah, blah, blah. You get the links.

43:06

It's not important. If you feel compelled to Check it out.

43:10

I want you to do so. I am here for you. Let me know how

43:13

I can help you on your journey. I love you.

43:19

Awesome. Awesome. Like, like,

43:23

nothing to worry about. I love that. I love I love

43:26

that. I love that message, but, yeah, you people, you will find the description in

43:30

the in the in the you will find the links in the description. As soon

43:33

as this episode done, I will put them in there.

43:37

Thank you. Thank you. Wonderful time. This is Oh, me too. This

43:41

is I love the I got I got goosebumps. I love the I

43:45

listen. I love the energy. Nothing but love. I these

43:48

converse these are the best conversations me. These are the ones

43:53

where it's impact me. Aw. Thank you. It

43:57

impact You as well, and hopefully this will impact the audience. And those

44:01

these are the conversations I'm beginning to realize that I don't truly

44:05

don't have conversations Unless it's really something that I wanna talk about. Like, unless this is a

44:13

Yeah. I absolutely don't wanna have it. Yeah. So these

44:17

are the I that's why I cherish these moments when I do get to have

44:20

these conversations, and thank you so much. This is wonderful.

44:24

Much love. Thank you. Cold chill. Thank you so much. Don't

44:27

leave this yet. Don't leave this yet. I'm not my

44:32

then we'll chat a little bit off the air. Don't leave me upset. Sounds good.

44:35

Alright. Alright. Alright, man. This was

44:39

a wonderful show. I am energized.

44:43

Too. It is great energy. I mean,

44:47

just there definitely is a synergy there. I don't want your wife, I mean, I

44:50

got a part I got a partner, a very supportive partner as well, actually, he's

44:54

the webinar producer. So I may be able to hook you

44:58

up. He may be a resource to you. But yeah.

45:01

What a beautiful energy and connection we have had in this

45:05

time. So I I am very, very grateful. You need to

45:09

know you are making a huge impact. I can I can feel it because

45:13

I was listening to some of your podcasts A couple of days ago, and

45:17

I was like, yeah, this guy, he's got it? He is authentic,

45:20

he is aligned. Yeah, we're human, we're still

45:24

Learning, but you got it, baby. So

45:30

Alright. Thank you. But let me close out the show real quick, and, Again, we'll

45:33

talk a little bit off there. Okay. Thank you.

45:36

Alright, everyone. Thank everyone who who tuned in. Greatly appreciate

45:40

it. If you haven't subscribed, Subscribe,

45:44

like, share. This is why I do it. I love

45:47

having these conversations. It's just

45:51

a blessing to be able to to to be myself and have and talk

45:55

to these amazing such amazing people. And

45:59

Even though we're me and my family are going through what we're going through, it

46:02

it's I I I feel blessed

46:06

Because I'm able to to do this, and this is my

46:10

therapy. Thank you all for everyone who's

46:14

tuned in, who sent me a message. I greatly appreciate it.

46:17

Again, these next these episodes are dedicated to my aunt, Anna Otero.

46:22

She will be missed, and, I'm this time I'm in the show. So I hope everybody have a blessed