Somehow, despite all hopes, dreams, and efforts, life becomes a train-wreck. Maybe you had no inkling of the impending doom; were in denial; or unaware of what was swirling around just out of sight. You may have seen it coming not realizing its speed or hoped against hope it would not happen. But here you are. You can't make the mess unhappen or make the results less harsh. You need to get out of the situation. HOW?