I’ve been kinda having this thought on my mind lately and thought I’ll share it with you guys. Can we actually normalize this ? They say you get what you give and I’ve been using this a lot going through my healing process but I want you guys to share your insight on it with me. Is it okay to actually let things go and let things be cordial after the relationship has been torn apart ? And I don’t mean going back to them Or rekindling the relationship but just simply saying “you did what you did and it is what it is” without there being any animosity or hate towards that person.