We start something and with great courage we take the first step and the we do start taking few more step but that's not our ahha moment and we now that thinfs are not going according to what we are looking for and thats demotivating. But in that processes we find that one thing that clicks with us and thats our ahha moment and then one after another things goes so very well and we achive our goal. That happens in everyone's life. But one has to work towards it, because it ll only come if we work towards it and of we look for it.