The reason you think something is impossible or unlikely for you, is because you’re only around, getting advice from and listening to people who aren’t where you want to be. Period. You’re taking to heart advice from family and friends who haven’t done, or aren’t doing what you want to do. And all THEY’Re doing is projecting the insecurities and false impossibilities that were perpetuated onto them. I dealt with this a lot in my past. Not so much anymore. It stops when you become successful in their eyes. Don’t hate them or blame them. You’re an adult now. Blame yourself.Understand what’s happening and find better sources. More money and success and achieving goals WILL give you more resources and tools, but it will NOT make you more resourceful. That’s how you get out of the rut you’re in. Be wiser and more resourceful.