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Burt Show. Is there a better way
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to start the show than with stupid?
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So let's do that. Kristen's Stupid Bed
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of the Week. You
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can blame this one on me and
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our loyal Burt Show listeners. Okay bring
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the stupid. I posted
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this or shared it to my Insta
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story and I was like I really
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think the Burt Show should do this. And
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I got my DMs flooded like yes
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yes yes you have to do it.
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So this is a viral trend that
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I have seen popping up a lot
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in my Instagram algorithm. And
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what it is is a couple
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typically a husband and wife or a
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boyfriend and girlfriend. The new date
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night is sitting down and
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painting each other's likeness. Painting
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their what? Their likeness. Okay. So you
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sit down with the canvas and
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you sit across from each other. You
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get your palette, your paint, your brushes and
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you sit there and you have like a
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couple glasses of wine or whatever and you
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paint each other's face. And
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then at the end you turn it around and you unveil it
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to each other. Oh this could be so insulting. Oh
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is it? I don't see this going well. Is
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it? So nine times out of
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ten the wife or girlfriend does
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pretty good. But
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the boyfriend or the husband. So I
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pulled these are some of the reactions.
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So when you hear this that
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there's two different reactions in here and one of
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the kids gets involved in the second one and
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it's very funny because that's how bad he did.
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But in the first one she's sitting there and she holds the
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picture because they don't see it till the very very end and
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she's holding the picture next to her and then she turns around
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and looks at it. it and just absolutely
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loses it. It
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was so bad. So you all have
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bags next to you. I went out
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ran some errands. So when you open
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your little artistic goodie bag, you're going
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to find an 11 by 14 canvas.
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You're going
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to find like a little
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mini easel to put your canvas
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on. So you can
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paint. You are going to find
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a plethora of paints to
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use. You're going to find
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your brushes and you're going to find your paint
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palette. So I
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figured I had to get
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the stand to work. Yeah. Put something
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behind it. That's heavy and it'll
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work. Oh well. If I don't have the proper
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the proper tools, it's not
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easily man. I didn't think I
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need to test these, but the easels, the stuff, the canvas
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is heavy. Here we go. It's about
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the angle. So Kristen asked me a
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day before yesterday, what's that thing
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painters use that they have their paint on
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that to dip their paint brushes in? I'm
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like a palette and she goes, yeah. And
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I'm thinking, why is she asking me that?
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Now I know. All right. So
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does, I mean, leading into this, does
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anybody have any artsy
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painting skills whatsoever? I was
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with six figures. So this
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should be interesting. Absolutely. Oh
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my God. I missed an
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opportunity. Kristen, I should have
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went. and got Burt a Bob Ross
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wig. Yeah. I was painting
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based on the costume. When
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Eliza used to be in the house and we
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used to all paint together, right? We would line
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up our paintings afterwards and
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she was eight at the time
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and her paintings blew mine. I
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can't paint. I mean it's ridiculously
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bad. That's the whole
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premise of this. So what is going to be
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easiest is we're going to draw the person that
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sits across from us. So like Abby
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sits across from me and I
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sit across from her so we're going to draw each other. Mo
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and Burt, you guys are going to draw each other. If
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you get real racial real quick. We're shades in. You
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need to learn how to blend your
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paint. So
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throughout the entire show, you
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have the entire show. You
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have the entire show. I
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don't need that much though. To paint the person across
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me and then at the very last break of the
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show. We will turn these bad boys
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around and we will get everyone's reaction. So
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we have four hours now. Okay. I'm
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just looking here. I mean it took Da Vinci
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some say four years, anywhere between four
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and twelve years. Oh, okay. The paint
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the Mona Lisa and you're asking us
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to create this classic piece of art,
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classic piece of something. Within
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the next four hours. It's unfair. It
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is unfair but it is what it is because it's my stupid bit of
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the week. So
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try to shield your painting from everybody
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and that way nobody can see and
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then we will have a grand unveiling
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at the end of the show. Mo,
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I want to apologize in advance. I swear to you,
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bro. That apology is
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right back at you, bro. All
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right. So we got four hours and then
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at the last break of the day, we
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will expose exactly what we have painted. We
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will showcase our masterpieces. I
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am ready. The Burt Show. The
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Entertainment Bus. Time to get
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buzzed on the hot gosh from
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Hollywood. It's the Burt Show's Entertainment
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Bus. When in the... are getting
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punched in the face in New York City and
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nobody knows why. I logged on to my tiktok
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the other day and I swear I saw like
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15 videos of all different
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women around my age about 26, 27, 28 all saying the same thing.
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I was walking
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around the streets in New York looking at my phone all
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of a sudden some guy clacks me, knocks me
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in the face. I was literally
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just walking and a man came up
6:23
and punched me in the face. Oh my
6:25
god. It hurts so bad. I can't even
6:27
talk. I literally just fell to
6:29
the ground and now this is trying to take a second and
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I'm like oh my god. It's so
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close. So it's an influencer
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named Halle Kate who's really big on
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tiktok and she's walking down the street
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and you can see like a big
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contusion forming on her forehead. It's bruised,
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she's crying obviously because it's incredibly traumatic
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and everybody in the comments is freaking out like
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go to the hospital you probably have a concussion
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and so then after that all these other videos
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of other women that are popping up on our
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For You page and now we're all like what
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is going on in New York but
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a couple days later Halle said you know I
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don't necessarily think it's all happening at the same
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time. I think people started searching for my video
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and then people's videos from the last couple of
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months started popping up. It started pumping out a
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bunch of old videos from girls also saying that
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they got punched in the face but also side
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note my head is looking a lot better. Ow.
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I'm just gonna contour over where I got hit.
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Deb's contour stick can't even tell it's a little
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swollen all good. Anyway I think because people started
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searching girl getting punched in the face all of
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the old videos that girls had made from months
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weeks years ago about getting punched in the face
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started getting on everyone's For You page because it
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was just a trending topic and from listening to
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a lot of those girls' videos it didn't really
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sound like it was the same person. I think
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it just might be a somewhat common thing
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that happens in big cities but I don't
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want it to seem like 13 girls
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got punched in the face yesterday and oh my
7:47
god if you come to New York City you're
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for sure gonna get punched in the face. Well
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it's obviously really upsetting and disgusting that women have
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to deal with s*** like this. I personally am
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not gonna revolve my life around that one incident.
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Now Mo you're from- New York, so let me ask you
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this question. Are there some boroughs where this is just
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the way they say hello in New York? Instead
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of shaking hands, they just punch in the
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face? Some would say that in Brooklyn, that
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is a sign of endearment. But no, I
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don't know of anybody going this far with New
8:17
Yorkers known to be aggression. This is new to
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me. I didn't know this was a thing. Well,
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apparently it's becoming a thing because then people started popping
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up and saying, you know, now that it's becoming a
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quote unquote trend where people are talking about it, they're
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like, you've got to really be on your guard. If
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you're out walking around in a big city because it,
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whoever's starting to do it might catch on with like
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other groups of people or might start catching on in
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other cities. So girls, if you're out and about, and
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even guys I saw were getting punched in the face.
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I saw one guy talk about getting punched in
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the face, but he said it happened a couple weeks
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ago. But the videos that I had
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saw that actually had been posted recently were all women
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in their late twenties. Yeah, this was happening a while
8:53
ago also. And it was happening to guys and it
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wasn't just New York City. It was also older people
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were getting punched just as strangers were walking down the
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street. You don't guys remember this couple of years ago?
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Yeah, I think things was going on. I think yeah,
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because I think there was, if I remember correctly, there
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was a homeless dude that was dealing with some mental
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health issues that was like punching somebody. So
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I mean, all these guys are going to get
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caught, especially now that there's this heightened awareness to
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it. You can't be on the streets in New
9:17
York City without a camera being on you somehow,
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some way, right? Either security camera
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is operating looking out from an apartment
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complex or a bodega. They're going to
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get caught. But just the
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fact that you can't even walk down the street
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anymore and feel safe because you don't know if
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someone's going to punch you in the face is
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a really sad state. And it's
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really scary that it's catching on on the Internet because
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I remember when I was in college back in
9:41
2016, something kind of similar was happening on college campuses.
9:43
I don't know if you guys remember this, but there
9:45
was like an epidemic of like
9:47
clowns running around on campus. And I remember there
9:49
was like a semester where we all had to
9:51
have like our head on a swivel of being
9:53
like, is there going to be like a freaky
9:55
clown coming at me with a knife that night?
9:58
So I really hope that this is the kind of thing that just. blows over
10:00
and doesn't catch on with the crazies of
10:02
New York or any other major study. I
10:05
will submit this closing his
10:07
charity after his Oscars slap
10:09
completely tanked donations. So their
10:11
charitable foundation is set to
10:13
close because their tax records
10:15
are revealing that after the
10:18
big Oscars slap happened,
10:20
big organizations like American
10:22
Airlines and CAA all
10:24
pulled their funding. So they haven't commented on
10:26
this, but they are going to focus on
10:29
private charitable giving, but it looks
10:31
like they're going to have to shut it down all
10:33
because of that one thing that he did with Chris
10:35
Rock at the 2022 Oscars. That's probably got to be
10:37
the thing that's going to hurt him the most is
10:39
that that action is going to
10:41
impact people who could have benefited from
10:44
his charity. Yeah, I would
10:46
think that he and Jayda have enough money
10:48
to cover that two mill, to
10:50
be honest with you, at
10:53
least in the short term. But these are the
10:55
ramifications, you know, like if I do something really
10:57
stupid, you know, outside
10:59
of the bird show, I'm tied
11:01
in the birds big adventure. So it would
11:03
make sense that sponsors would pull from me,
11:05
right? It's the same thing with Will Smith.
11:07
Yeah, it's a huge responsibility. So
11:10
Sean Diddycombs team is responding to the raids
11:12
of his home. I'll read you the statement
11:14
they've put out on your next e buzz
11:17
on the bird show. The bird
11:19
show young bucks. Be careful, man.
11:21
When you guys are out drinking
11:23
in bars and in clubs, all
11:25
eyes are on you all the
11:27
time. And there will be
11:29
repercussions for your actions, both negative and
11:31
positive. Remember a couple of weeks ago,
11:34
there was this instance in Vegas,
11:37
where dude was in Vegas, he's
11:39
hanging out with a bunch of
11:41
women. And one of the girls
11:44
goes on to TikTok and says, Hey,
11:46
if your name is blank,
11:48
and your fiance is blank, I just want
11:50
to let you know, he's about
11:52
to cheat on you in Vegas. Guys remember this from a
11:54
couple of weeks ago, goes viral,
11:57
she finds out about it, right? Here
11:59
it is. Charleston and it sort of
12:01
happens again. Dude is out on his
12:03
bachelor party, right? He's hanging out with
12:05
a whole bunch of women when one
12:08
of the women breaks off afterwards and
12:10
wants to find his fiance. If
12:13
your name is Sam and your fiance's name is
12:15
Luke and he's currently in Charleston, South Carolina for
12:18
his bachelor party and he was at
12:20
a bar on King Street called Uptown
12:22
Social tonight. I just want you
12:24
to know that that man loves
12:26
you so much and
12:29
he could not stop gushing
12:31
about you and how you
12:33
are the love of his life
12:35
and the most beautiful person he has ever met
12:37
and how he's the luckiest man in the entire
12:39
world. And I wish you too all the happiness
12:41
in the world. Also, he has to take a
12:43
selfie with my group and so here is me
12:45
and all my friends and Luke. That
12:47
man loves you and I love that for you. That's
12:50
so sweet. Awwww. I didn't see that
12:52
coming. Neither. It's always so negative, right?
12:55
Yeah. So the video actually gets
12:57
back to the fiance. If you saw
12:59
that TikTok, I'm Sam. Luke's on
13:01
his bachelor party right now and
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that was literally the best thing to wake up to.
13:06
I haven't stopped smiling since my first son's
13:08
history. He's the best. I'm very
13:11
lucky. I love love and this
13:13
is literally the cutest thing to
13:15
ever happen to me. So I can't wait
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for him to come home though, right? Oh, wow.
13:20
He might get home either. How
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much I think Luke charged her to do it. I know,
13:25
right? Maybe you do it. Do me a
13:27
favor. Right. All
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right. Our intern, Haley, has herself a
13:31
theory and I'm here for
13:33
it, man. Short Kings finally getting their
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props. Yeah. I'm like, the longer I've been
13:38
here now, I've been here like a couple months. I'm like,
13:40
I'm starting to know my audience. I think I was like,
13:42
I sent this in and I said, I know they're going
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to pick this one. But no,
13:46
I fully believe that short
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guys, if you are have
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the height and you're able to date a short
13:52
guy, I think they're better. What do you mean
13:54
if you're able to? What would make
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one not able to? Well, I matched
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with what I would do. weekend and he's
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already ghosted me so I
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haven't been able to go out with him. Listen, I don't
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speak for every short guy, okay? But
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listen, tall guys are great and everything but I think
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for tall women. Like my stepdad is
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6'6", but that's okay because my mom is 5'10".
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You know what I mean? I'm only 5'6", so I'm
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like, you know what? I'm going to kind of lower
14:20
the threshold that I think I need to date. My
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boyfriend right now, we're the exact same size. Oh
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yeah, and he's a hockey player. Yeah, he's
14:26
a tiny one. I
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mean, he's in a lot of human eyes.
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Yeah, he knows. Look at my tiny little
14:33
hockey player. Yeah, there was a post
14:35
on Instagram that said like, the
14:38
wind is picking up again so guys under 5'6", like
14:40
hold on. My
14:42
tag came in and he thinks it's funny.
14:44
But I have a list of reasons that I
14:46
think short guys are better than tall guys. Now
14:48
if you're new to the show, also
14:50
know this. I am 5'4", so I'm
14:52
fighting for short king rights all the
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time. Yeah, short king, yes. My
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first reason is that they are more confident because
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they have to compensate for their height. I
15:02
agree with that. I think one of the traits or
15:05
characteristics of somebody that can make them very confident is
15:07
their height. And if it's just kind of handed to
15:09
you and you just grow up to be super tall,
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I feel like you don't work as hard to like,
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you know, get women or you
15:17
know, whatever. I will absolutely add
15:19
credibility to this that I do think that short
15:21
guys have, we have to develop our personalities better
15:24
than tall guys. We don't have a chance when
15:26
we walk into a bar or a club. We
15:28
know you're not looking for us. So we got
15:30
to develop in other areas and we just try
15:32
harder. Yeah, they also like, they're always going
15:34
to think you're out of their league too. And
15:37
this isn't for every short guy, but like mine
15:39
specifically, he sometimes like in the beginning of our
15:41
relationship, he would say like, well, don't you want
15:43
someone taller doing what and it would make him
15:45
like work harder at the relationship. And like, I
15:48
felt I was like, for the first time
15:50
I felt like, oh, he thinks I'm out
15:52
of his league? It was a great feeling. So
15:54
our short king will treat you like a queen. Yeah,
15:57
because they're like, man, she's going to leave me for
15:59
a guy who's sick. I
16:01
got to step it up, literally.
16:03
There is that insecurity. There sure is.
16:06
Yeah. Um, the third reason, it's
16:08
easier to match height during intimacy.
16:10
So when I kiss him, I
16:13
don't have to hurt my neck. I don't have
16:15
to stand on my tippy toes. And it's great
16:17
because my aunt is five two and her husband
16:19
is six four. And she says sometimes she feels
16:21
like a child when she like hugs him or
16:24
kisses him or whatever. She feels
16:26
like she's a child. And to other
16:28
people, it looks weird sometimes. And
16:30
I'm like, you know, if you're five 10 and six four, that's one
16:32
thing you got to get a guy over six foot for five 10.
16:35
But if you're five two, it's like, why not five
16:38
four to five eight? You know what I mean?
16:40
Like, it's just, it's, it makes
16:42
more sense physically. That's our pool right
16:44
there. This is what I've been saying now
16:46
for 20 years is you are taking out
16:48
of a very shallow short pool. If
16:51
you are a woman that is like five two and you end
16:53
up with a guy that's six five, you're very
16:55
80. You need some balance. I get
16:57
it. Yeah. partner
17:00
that's over six feet tall. And she saw my
17:02
stepdad was like, oh, you're tall. I can dance
17:04
with you now. My
17:08
four reasons I don't ever feel like I have to wear
17:10
heels sometimes because I think if you're a short woman dating
17:12
a tall guy, you're like, man, I have to wear heels.
17:14
So I don't look like I'm his daughter when we go
17:16
out. I
17:18
get to wear complete flats on my wedding
17:20
day. And I'm so excited. I know I
17:23
could either way, but like I'm so excited
17:25
about that because they're more comfortable. Yeah. I
17:27
don't have to walk around in four inch heels so I
17:29
can reach him when I kiss him. That's
17:32
funny because I feel like most girls have the
17:34
opposite. They're like, I want to date a tall
17:36
guy so that I can wear heels. I don't
17:38
want to throw out all my good Louboutins. Right.
17:41
No, the short guys are also more
17:43
likely to stay married longer than tall guys in
17:45
a study done by NYU because we're scared
17:48
to leave that relationship. Everybody
17:52
else out there is going to love us at this.
17:54
They can also sit in the backseat of a car
17:56
better, which I get carsick. So I always need the
17:58
front seat. I
18:00
can just throw him in the back and he's crazy. And we fit
18:02
right in the baby seat. Yeah.
18:05
Five or six reasons right there. I like that. They're
18:07
all good too. The Burt Show. We
18:09
are down to the fugly four in
18:12
the Burt Show's Busted Baby Bracket. Battle
18:14
of the COVID. Yeah, they're in different
18:16
brackets though aren't they? They are. They
18:19
could meet each other in the championship. Look,
18:21
we've been doing this for years, but we've been doing it
18:24
with aesthetically pleasing babies. Okay? These
18:26
babies, it just was a
18:28
rough start. Yeah. I mean, baby
18:31
number one, conehead number one, it's
18:33
got a little indentation going on.
18:35
It almost looks like in
18:38
his forehead is a profile of the
18:40
rest of his face. You see what
18:42
I was talking about? Yeah.
18:46
Yeah. Did
18:48
baby number six's mom send you an
18:50
updated picture because he's a toddler now
18:52
and he is adorable. Here is
18:54
my wish, at least with these final four is
18:56
that the parents will take a look at the,
18:59
that their kids are in the final four. And
19:01
then they will send us pictures of what they
19:03
look like now so we can at least honor
19:05
these four. I don't know that we could deal
19:08
with the 32 that we started off with. Yeah.
19:11
So you got baby six who was taken on baby 13, I
19:13
think it was a couple of days ago. I said,
19:15
this is a newborn that looks like a shop teacher.
19:20
He's got the receding hairline. You know how
19:22
like older dudes, like they're not really sure
19:24
if it's time to go completely bald or not. No,
19:26
you have to. Maybe you don't want to. Yeah.
19:31
He was born looking like his name is Craig. Yeah. I'm
19:34
pretty sure that's a girl. Okay. Or
19:36
a girl. Either way. My
19:38
point has been made. That's an
19:40
old school picture too. It's definitely. I
19:43
believe that baby is now a full blown adult. I'm
19:45
guessing with the ears on that baby also was a
19:47
tough push. Also
19:50
now in the second matchup is another cone
19:52
head. Yep. That one
19:54
is you can tell the nurse is holding the baby
19:57
up. So that is a fresh out
19:59
of the who hobby. As is baby
20:01
number 29. Yeah, they both fresh. Which is
20:03
my baby. Okay. And that's my
20:05
sweet little melted gummy bear. Baby six was
20:07
my baby, so I'm still in this thing
20:10
too. All right, so there are only four
20:12
babies left and there's a thousand dollars on
20:14
the line for the most aesthetically challenged baby.
20:16
So if you can go online today and
20:18
vote, it is down to the fugly four
20:21
at thebertcho.com. All right,
20:23
I've got a question for you guys
20:25
that have lost a lot of weight.
20:28
A lot of weight. What
20:30
advice would you give to somebody that's just
20:32
about to take their journey? So I'm literally
20:34
walking down the hall to get a cup
20:36
of coffee and one of the dudes in the
20:38
office comes up to me and I think because
20:40
most people in the office know that I
20:42
work out a lot and fitness is part
20:44
of who I am. He came up
20:47
to me and as we were walking past each other, he said, hey,
20:49
I just want to let you know, I thought you'd be into this.
20:52
I just hired a trainer and
20:54
I'm working out three times a week and
20:56
I said, congratulations, man. I'm like,
20:58
yes, you know, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And
21:00
I'm like, so this is the one
21:02
thing that most people don't ask. I think
21:04
our trainers don't ask immediately is like, what
21:06
is your goal of going to the gym?
21:09
His goal is to lose a hundred pounds.
21:11
Wow. That's a lot of weight.
21:14
That's a person. That's a lot of
21:16
weight. Right. So I'm really curious for you
21:18
guys that have lost a lot of weight,
21:20
uh, over 60 pounds, over 70 pounds, over
21:22
a hundred pounds. If you
21:24
were giving advice to somebody that is
21:27
looking to look up to lose a hundred
21:29
pounds, what would you say
21:31
initially one eight five, five bird show? Cause
21:33
I think when you look at that number,
21:35
it can get so intimidating.
21:37
If you're the person that's trying to
21:40
lose that weight that you
21:42
don't look at it as one pound at a
21:44
time, you're looking at it as a hundred pounds
21:46
and that could be really intimidating
21:48
right off the bat. Going
21:51
ahead and jumping to the very end of
21:53
a hundred pound weight loss. If I remember
21:55
correctly, we had a bird show listener call
21:57
up that had a significant weight loss and
21:59
it took a while. for her brain to
22:01
catch up with her body because there was
22:03
still like some I wouldn't call it body
22:05
dysmorphia but when she looked in the mirror
22:07
it was almost like she had a
22:09
hard time accepting her her new
22:11
body. It was such a drastic change because
22:14
you're so used to seeing
22:16
yourself in a certain light. I also think
22:18
that and some calls are starting to come in now.
22:20
1-855-Bert's show if you've been through
22:22
this process that you
22:25
know we live in this world where you want
22:27
everything so fast right you could take drugs if
22:29
you want or you see
22:32
celebrities that have a baby and the
22:34
next day they're back down to their
22:36
pre-baby weight. It's why I go to a Mexican restaurant
22:38
because I want food fast and you get chips and salsa.
22:41
Is that it? And
22:43
I think that if you're starting a journey like
22:45
that you just have to remember how long a
22:47
process that should take if you're doing it in
22:49
a healthy way. They say that half a pound
22:51
to one pound a week is a lot so
22:54
if you're busting your ass in the gym and
22:56
you lose four pounds at the end of the
22:58
month give yourself credit like don't
23:00
look at it like oh I only lost four
23:02
pounds that's a lot. So it should take you
23:04
approximately two years to lose a hundred pounds a lot.
23:07
I have a friend who lost I think she lost 70
23:09
pounds when it was all said and done and I
23:12
remember her saying that that was the hardest part was
23:14
constantly looking at trying to lose the 70 because she
23:16
always felt like she wasn't doing anything when she would
23:18
lose two pounds when she would lose one pound but
23:20
when she started looking at it like the time is
23:23
gonna pass anyway so if you lose even a pound
23:25
a week or a pound every two weeks or whatever
23:27
the case and you keep looking at it like that
23:29
eventually you'll get to your goal before you even know
23:31
it. Fernando good morning you were on the birch shell
23:34
hi. Hello man
23:36
I just got done leaving the gym this morning before I
23:38
head off for work and I was
23:41
pushing 300 pounds last year and I'm 217
23:44
now and it's
23:47
all about consistency finding
23:49
a schedule and
23:52
I got into fasting 72
23:54
hours every 30 days for
23:56
the health reason and I I
24:00
also got into running a lot. So I
24:02
just completed my first marathon last Sunday. Wow.
24:05
And, um, yeah. And
24:08
the one thing people don't understand is that when
24:11
you put a big number like that in front of
24:13
you, it's very discouraging. Right.
24:15
It really is. So what I
24:17
did is, um, I just set
24:19
small goals. I
24:21
really did. And after a year
24:23
of working out running, I'm now 217. I
24:26
feel more fit and it's
24:29
healthier. And you know, with consistency, you,
24:31
anyone can do it. Congratulations, man. That
24:34
takes a lot of discipline. And that
24:36
must've been on your mind all the
24:38
time. That's, that's, that's fantastic. Congratulations. Thank
24:41
you. All right. How about losing 150 pounds, man?
24:44
Wow. Hey Cassie.
24:47
Good morning. Hello. How are
24:49
you? Good. How are you? I
24:51
am still in great. So
24:54
how much weight have you lost? I'm guessing your name
24:56
is case. Um, yeah, it's Casey.
24:58
How much weight did you lose? 150 pounds.
25:01
150 pounds. I'm
25:04
curious how, like, how did you do it? And how long did it
25:06
take you? Well, I
25:08
started last, my wife and I started
25:10
last February, February 20th. Um,
25:14
at that time I weighed in at
25:16
326 pounds and this
25:18
past February 20th, I weighed in at
25:20
176. Wow. For you. Was
25:24
there one like breaking point moment for you? Like,
25:26
okay, today is the day that can't happen again.
25:29
Yes, actually. Um, I saw a
25:31
picture of myself on Facebook. The
25:35
picture is now. Oh
25:38
my gosh. What have I done to
25:40
myself? Yeah. That'll do it. Started
25:42
going to the gym. I started out
25:44
cardio. Then I moved to transition to
25:46
weights and worked with the trainer. And
25:49
it's part of my life. If I don't go, if I don't go
25:51
to the gym every day now, I don't go
25:54
right. So what's the one piece of advice
25:56
you would give this dude that is now looking at
25:58
a hundred pounds. So
26:00
like, just take one day at
26:02
a time, eat healthy, it's
26:05
okay to have cheat days, cheat days
26:07
once a week, watch your sodium intake
26:09
and drink lots of water. Would
26:12
you say that the scale is your best
26:14
or worst friend when you're trying to lose
26:16
that kind of weight? Actually,
26:18
to me, it's my best friend because I can
26:20
see my progress like that. Okay. I've
26:23
heard a lot of people say throw the scale out
26:25
the window because if you're starting to feel good and
26:27
like your clothes aren't fitting the way they used to,
26:29
that's all you need to know. Because
26:31
if you go and you're busting your ass in
26:33
the gym and then you jump on the scale
26:36
and maybe because you've been working out, you put
26:38
on more, some muscle that the scale is lying
26:40
to you. So some people say, don't look at
26:42
it at all. If you feel good and you're
26:44
starting to see that your clothes don't fit the
26:46
same, then that's good enough. It's probably discouraging
26:48
to look down here and not see as much as you thought
26:50
you would say. Yeah. your
26:55
ass and you realize like you've only burned 170
26:57
calories and you're like, that's half
26:59
a burger. That's half a burger. It's the quarter of
27:01
a burger. Those are the two Girl Scout cookies I ate.
27:03
What are you talking about? Melissa, good morning. You're on
27:05
the Bird Show. Hi.
27:07
Hi. How are y'all? Good.
27:11
Thank you. All right. It
27:14
is a long journey. What advice can you give to
27:16
him because you lost how much weight? I
27:20
lost about 170 pounds. Wow. That's
27:23
good for you. Wow. So
27:25
I've lost like an entire person. So my
27:27
biggest advice would be a lot of kind
27:29
of the same thing the other guy said
27:31
is just take it one day
27:34
at a time. I have to do it for my,
27:36
for health reasons, but, or
27:38
I wanted to do it for health reasons
27:40
and just
27:42
take it one day at a time. And
27:45
I think Kristen was saying something about body dysmorphia.
27:47
That is very, that's a very real thing that
27:49
I deal with because every time I look in
27:51
the mirror, I have to be like, Oh, I'll
27:53
walk by the mirror sometimes and do
27:56
like a second look because I'm like, whoa, is
27:58
that me now? Wow,
28:00
that's good advice. Just take it one step
28:02
at a time here because it's a long
28:05
long process Hey, it is Bert.
28:07
We really appreciate you guys listening to the podcast
28:09
You don't want to make this a pretty even
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five stars. Thanks a lot for listening you guys
28:18
the bird show How about that craziness
28:20
in Baltimore man? That is terrifying to
28:22
watch So
28:24
I'm sure you guys have heard about this this
28:26
cargo ship huge cargo ship
28:29
loses power And ends
28:31
up ramming right into a bridge in
28:33
Baltimore. There were eight construction workers Luckily,
28:35
it was like 1 30 in the
28:38
morning and also they were able
28:40
to make a distress call So thankfully
28:42
the ship communicated so authorities were able
28:44
to make sure that the bridge was
28:46
clear of cars Otherwise that just could
28:48
have been an even worse tragedy than
28:50
it already is so that bridge alone during
28:52
rush hour It takes about 30,000 cars a
28:54
day So the fact
28:56
that this happened at like 1 30 in the morning
28:58
where there was pretty much only construction workers up there
29:00
there were eight Six
29:03
they can't find two they have found And
29:06
like Kristen was saying there was a May Day call
29:08
and then the cops starting to scramble on like what
29:11
do we do here? They they only have about a
29:13
minute and a half before That
29:15
ship collides into the bridge and here's some audio
29:17
of the cops trying to coordinate get everybody off
29:19
the bridge I mean one of you guys on
29:21
the south side one of you guys on the
29:23
north side hold all traffic on the key bridge
29:26
There's a ship approaching. I just lost their
29:28
steering so that they've been under control. We
29:30
gotta stop all traffic Yeah,
29:34
we can stop traffic to make sure no one's on the
29:36
bridge right now There's a crew up there and I wouldn't
29:38
do five of the form it is he we can get
29:40
them off the bridge Do
29:50
you know You
29:56
know I'm
30:00
so amazed on how calm people
30:03
in those positions stay, because I'd be a
30:05
mess. Yeah, you have to. Yeah. All right.
30:07
Train for that. It would just be worse
30:09
if I wasn't. But as of this morning,
30:12
they are still looking for the
30:14
six, but it doesn't look real good at this point. That's
30:16
scary. Yeah, right? You just never think that that's
30:19
going to be a thing. Driving across a bridge,
30:21
just another day in your life, and then that
30:23
happens. I can't imagine. And kudos to
30:25
the first responders and the police officers
30:27
who were able to stop traffic to
30:29
prevent any more casualties. But when you
30:32
watch the video, it happens, and it
30:34
happens fast. The second that cargo ship
30:36
hits that bridge, the whole thing is
30:38
in the water. Let's
30:41
get Sonja on here. She's a
30:43
little bit nervous that her best
30:45
friend is dating a dude as
30:47
being shady on hinge. Hey,
30:49
Sonja, good morning. Good
30:52
morning, guys. Good morning. OK, so I wasn't
30:54
here yesterday, so just recap for me exactly
30:56
what's going on with your best friend and
30:58
this guy that she's dating.
31:01
Yeah, so my best friend, she's dating his guy.
31:03
They've been dating a couple of months. And
31:06
I don't like him. I don't like the way he treats
31:08
her. I don't like how he
31:10
acts. He's really weird around us, dismissive. He
31:12
doesn't talk to us. He talks her out
31:14
of stuff. He didn't let her go on the girls' trip with
31:16
us. He didn't get anything for her birthday. So
31:19
I just personally do not like him. And
31:22
somebody recently told me that he has
31:24
an account on hinge. I told my
31:26
best friend, but she doesn't believe it. She
31:29
thinks maybe somebody took his picture and
31:31
created an account. I mean, he's good looking, but he
31:34
ain't that good looking. So I think he's up to something.
31:40
Yeah, but her friend's being pretty adamant.
31:42
And it's like love is blind
31:44
kind of deal that you're
31:46
not going to believe anything until you see it
31:48
with your own eyes. So the dude has a
31:51
hinge. And you allegedly have a
31:53
hinge. You take it from here, Kristen, because
31:55
it was your friend that did the
31:57
dirty work. Yes, all right. So Sonia, you gave
31:59
me his information. You sent a picture
32:01
so we knew what he looked
32:03
like and we
32:07
had to enlist not one but two friends because
32:09
if I'm anything, I am
32:11
persistent. So I actually
32:13
had to enlist two fringe on this hinge
32:16
hustler. So friend number one opened hinge and
32:18
began searching and she did find the target.
32:21
She liked his profile and several
32:23
of his prompts. However, he never
32:25
responded to her. So either he's
32:27
not interested, inactive or after
32:29
some digging, could have turned
32:32
off the last active status in his
32:34
profile settings, which would be smart
32:36
to do if you're a garbage boyfriend and you're on
32:38
a dating app and you have somebody else. So Abby
32:41
was telling us that hinge
32:43
has the capability. You
32:46
can see if somebody's been active because
32:49
maybe it's just been dormant, but there's like a green
32:51
light that'll pop up to let you know that person's
32:53
been on there. Yeah. So turning
32:55
it off seems like something that a garbage boyfriend would in fact do. So
32:59
that one was unsuccessful,
33:01
but that's when I decided to
33:04
enlist friend number two. So
33:06
we had a bit of
33:08
a theory. Friend number one, who
33:11
didn't get any response is aesthetically
33:13
similar to garbage boy's girlfriend. So
33:16
I enlisted friend number two, who is not.
33:20
It's like quite, I mean, all of them are
33:22
attractive, but this one's just like the polar opposite.
33:25
Right? So friend number two opened hinge,
33:28
began searching. She too found
33:30
the target. She liked
33:32
his profile and several prompts. And
33:35
he responded by liking her profile.
33:38
He is active. They
33:40
began to engage in small talk in
33:43
the DMS. Now the
33:45
conversation is almost inconsequential because being
33:47
active on hinge is the major fraction
33:49
period. But
33:52
as far as the conversation goes, it was
33:54
pretty generic and bland. He
33:57
was pretty short and sweet with his responses. Which
34:00
kind of meshes with your description of his personality.
34:02
He's just very quiet and dismissive whenever he's hanging
34:04
out with you guys, right? Right.
34:08
So, um, she,
34:10
she was the one that was pushing
34:12
the envelope because obviously, let's call a spade
34:14
a spade. This is an entrapment. Mm hmm. Um,
34:16
so she asked him about going out Friday night.
34:19
He said he has plans, but
34:22
he would try to get out of them. So I was
34:24
curious to know, do you know if he has plans
34:26
with his girlfriend? If he has plans with you guys
34:28
this Friday night? They,
34:31
they are going out. She did tell me
34:33
they're supposed to be going out, um, on
34:35
Friday. Okay. So
34:38
this is where it is. Um,
34:40
so if this dude tries to get out of
34:43
that date, then we know what's up. Then
34:45
it's a moving gun at that point. So,
34:49
um, that is all the information
34:52
we have. He said he's going to try to get
34:54
out of whatever plans he had on Friday night, which
34:56
is why I wanted to ask you, um, if you,
34:58
if you knew of anything. So now we just, now
35:01
we have this information. Whether
35:04
you want to act on it now is up to you,
35:07
but I think it would be smart to sit on it
35:09
a little longer and see if he actually does try to
35:11
get out of the plans Friday. Yeah, that's, that's going to
35:13
be the telling sign right there. Yeah. So
35:15
just hang, hang tight until Friday. And then
35:17
you've got concrete. Absolutely. But we're getting to
35:20
the bottom of it, Sonya. You're building a
35:22
case. I knew, I knew it was something
35:24
about mud and lightning. I know. So
35:26
now I have to become a little detective. I'm
35:29
going to, yeah, I'm going to have to trail
35:31
them on the day. Well,
35:33
let's see if he, if he tries to break the date on Friday night
35:35
and if he does, you have yourself some concrete proof. But
35:38
let's check back with you after that and see if he
35:40
actually broke the date. Okay. Thank
35:42
you guys. You're welcome. All right,
35:44
Sonya. Thanks for hitting us up. Let's get
35:46
into the entertainment bus. Time
35:49
to get fun on the hot gosh from
35:51
Hollywood. It's
35:53
the entertainment bus. Diddy's
35:55
lawyers are responding to his home getting raided the other day.
35:57
This whole thing is crazy. So
36:00
they said Homeland Security investigation
36:03
officials used what they're
36:05
calling excessive force in a
36:07
quote unprecedented ambush as
36:09
they got through his LA and
36:12
Miami homes trying to find evidence
36:14
in his investigation. So the statement
36:16
says yesterday there was a growth
36:19
overuse of military level force as
36:21
search warrants were executed at Mr.
36:23
Combs' residence. There is
36:26
no excuse for the excessive show
36:28
of force and hostility exhibited by
36:30
authorities or the way his children and
36:33
employees were treated. So if you didn't
36:35
see his children were handcuffed outside of
36:37
his LA home, they're older kids and
36:39
it wasn't like a three year old
36:42
friend. He didn't use
36:44
Fisher-Price cuffs. Little
36:46
plastic ones. They're
36:48
basically just saying that you know he's NSM,
36:50
we're going to work nuclear, his name,
36:53
blah blah blah blah blah. No one's
36:55
been arrested except for his alleged drug
36:57
dealer in the Miami apartment. Yeah, right,
36:59
that guy. So I'll say the
37:01
same thing that everybody else seems to be
37:03
saying also and it's kind of cliche like
37:05
the feds don't do that unless they've got
37:07
a lot of evidence. They don't knock down
37:09
your door. They don't go through your drawers
37:12
unless they have a lot of evidence. This
37:14
looks really bad. That's what we were
37:16
saying yesterday. It's like if they've been
37:18
working on this for months in order
37:21
for them to get a search warrant
37:23
of that magnitude, they have to have
37:25
something in order to go in. And
37:28
then the fact, I don't think it really looks
37:30
good. Well first, it makes
37:32
me feel a little better if the kids were at the LA home
37:35
because Diddy was in Miami. So it
37:37
makes you don't kind of watch your dad
37:39
get cuffed? No, no, no, no, no. I'm saying we were
37:41
like if Diddy's at
37:43
the Miami airport because he
37:46
fled to Antigua, right? That's
37:48
where he is right now. So if you're at
37:50
the Miami airport and your kids are at your Miami
37:52
estate getting handcuffed and you don't go back to like
37:54
get your kids or check on your kids, that
37:57
is low. But his kids were in LA. So
38:00
he didn't have like, had he been
38:02
in the same city as his children and he knew
38:04
his kids were being detained and he didn't go back
38:07
to that home, that's like, that's a different level
38:09
of low, but that wasn't the case. I
38:11
still think it, I mean with his money and his resources,
38:13
he can get to it anyway his kids are. I
38:15
agree. And I feel like he did not
38:17
show up for his kids in that moment, but it just
38:19
leads to all of these nasty allegations that have been surrounding
38:21
him for so long. And to comment
38:24
on how Homeland Security left his homes, I mean at
38:26
the time that they're using all these resources and money
38:28
to come raid your homes, they're not going there when
38:30
they would dust us. I don't know what he's going
38:32
to look like. A
38:35
statement is not going to do it. He's in some deep stuff right
38:37
now. Yeah. I didn't know about the
38:39
Antigua part. I didn't know that he flew to Antigua
38:41
and that's where he is right now. But yeah, the
38:43
dude has a private plane. If he wants to go
38:45
to LA and be there for his kids, he would
38:47
be there, but he's freaked out. Something's up. Something
38:50
is up. Well, speaking of criminal charges
38:52
and celebs, Taylor said to dad, you remember that
38:54
photographer incident where he allegedly assaulted a paparazzi out
38:56
in Australia? Well, it turns out that he's not
38:59
going to be charged. Australian police say that Scott
39:01
Swift, Taylor Swift's dad, is not going to face
39:03
charges due to that alleged altercation, which I think
39:05
we pretty much all saw coming. It did seem
39:07
like it was sort of like a little bit
39:09
of fodder. Like, oh, Taylor Swift's dad tried to
39:12
beat me up when I was trying to take
39:14
a photo. It's like, that is not what happened.
39:16
I'm sure he got in her face and he
39:18
got a little aggressive trying to protect his daughter
39:20
as he should. Hey, that's hitting a
39:22
lottery for paparazzi. When somebody
39:24
goes after you, that's what they want. Now
39:26
they get more money, they can sue you. Yeah, now you
39:29
have a headline when you didn't before because Taylor Swift was
39:31
just living her life. Okay, would
39:33
you be all right with being in a
39:35
marriage knowing you would have to be in
39:37
therapy with that person forever? So,
39:39
Sarah Evans is a country singer from like
39:41
the early 2000s and she got back together
39:43
with her husband after she filed for
39:45
divorce from him a couple of years ago. So, she
39:47
filed for divorce in 2021 and then in 2022 he
39:50
was arrested for allegedly trying to
39:53
ram his car into hers and
39:55
she says that they're back together
39:57
but says they're so now,
40:00
but they will be in therapy
40:02
until they die. I
40:05
wouldn't want to sign up for that. Right.
40:07
Well, be in therapy until we die. It's
40:12
interesting because, uh, actor Terry Crews said that, um,
40:15
he's kind of become famous for saying this, but
40:17
he thinks his marriage is successful because they go
40:19
to therapy when everything is okay. It's
40:21
like a constant thing for them. And I've always looked at
40:23
therapy as something we got, we got to do when we
40:26
down, I don't want to have to go to therapy when
40:28
everything is okay. Maybe that's the key to it. I don't
40:30
know. I guess you got to work for what, uh, you
40:32
got to do what works in your own marriage, but that
40:34
sounds exhausting. Well, the connotation of everything
40:36
that's happening, it seems like, okay, you're going
40:38
to have to be in therapy because of
40:40
everything you went through. To me with Terry,
40:42
just being like, Oh, we're successful because we're
40:44
in therapy. That's like preventative. That's just you
40:46
having maintenance. But if your husband tries to
40:49
come out for you with your car, allegedly,
40:51
and the fact that you're going to be
40:53
in therapy because of it to me, that's,
40:55
um, we're at flags. Yeah. That's
40:57
one of those relationships that sounds like
40:59
a, like a job. Yeah. I
41:01
wrote people are shocked over ABC's newest pick
41:03
for the bachelorette. I'll tell you why the
41:06
two front runners allegedly weren't chosen on
41:08
your next E-buzz on the birth show. Huh?
41:10
Birth show. Now you're going to be at
41:12
work and you're going to miss it. Dang
41:14
it. Cause they rekindled their high school romance
41:16
and then he ghosted her. She has no
41:18
idea why we do. We are
41:20
going to tell her why that's next hour. But
41:23
if you have to get into work, you
41:25
might miss that. Nah, you're not missing anything.
41:27
You can always listen on demand anytime you
41:29
want, anytime of day. And we
41:31
post the birth show in different segments. So you don't
41:34
even have to listen to the whole show. If you
41:36
don't want to check out our podcast online at any
41:39
platform that provides. All
41:42
right, Mo, you're not even in New York or
41:44
anymore. That's what your friends are saying. It's a wrap. I
41:47
had to turn my card in and I'm not even going
41:49
to fight it. I remember the moment it happened and it
41:51
hurt. So yes, I'm from
41:53
New York. Born and raised in New
41:55
York city and anybody typically that's from
41:57
New York. We take a lot of pride.
42:00
being a New Yorker, that's a thing. We pride
42:02
ourselves on being tough, on being survivors,
42:04
on being gritty, grinding it out,
42:07
that kind of thing. I was just there,
42:09
what, two weeks ago? And I will
42:11
say the same thing now that I've been saying about New York
42:14
my entire life. I don't
42:16
know how they do it. I mean, I can
42:18
last for about two or three days in New
42:20
York, but everything is a fight. Everything
42:22
is a fight. Getting a hot dog, getting a
42:24
taxi, everybody just trying to get in front of
42:27
each other. Everything is a fight. I don't have
42:29
that kind of fight in me. Literally walking is
42:31
a fight. It's a fight. Everything is a fight.
42:33
It's all a fight. And you can't complain about
42:35
it at any point in time because that's not
42:37
what New Yorkers do. We find a way, we
42:39
get through it and we get to it. That's
42:42
what it takes to be a New Yorker. And
42:44
so New York, we just do a lot of
42:46
things differently and you're supposed to just go along
42:49
with it. And I guess, I don't know if
42:51
I've just been going too long. I don't know
42:53
if I'm getting older, but there's just a lot
42:55
of things that we do as New Yorkers that
42:57
don't make a lot of sense to me anymore.
42:59
And my friends are all the same. They haven't
43:02
changed at all. And so I go over the
43:04
weekend, I'm there to really visit my grandmother. Hope,
43:06
I hope and hope that she will be feeling better. I'm
43:09
there to make sure she's okay. I tell
43:11
my friends, I'm gonna be in and out. I would
43:13
love to see y'all, but this is the trip is
43:15
really about my grandmother. So they're like, well, when are
43:17
you gonna be done with your grandmother? So I'm like, I don't know. I'm
43:19
probably gonna hang out with her until like the end of the night
43:21
and then go ahead and head home. So they're like,
43:24
no, you can't do that. We going out. This is
43:26
perfect. You're here tonight. So I'm like,
43:28
I'm gonna hang out anyway. Let's get together. So I'm like, I told y'all, I
43:30
gotta go be with my grandmother. They're like, we not
43:32
going out until midnight. That would strike
43:34
number one for me. Who goes out
43:36
at midnight? Like why is this a thing? People
43:39
who are young and don't have to get up before coffee
43:41
morning. So in New York, things don't close
43:43
till four or five in the morning. So going out
43:46
at midnight is normal. That's like when you start your
43:48
night. Yeah, a couple of years ago, I started referring
43:51
to New York as the city that never sleeps.
43:53
And it seems to have caught on because you
43:55
can get whatever you want. You
43:58
can party all night long there. It's very true. I made that up. That's
44:00
you? Uh-huh. It's accurate.
44:03
Yeah. So I'm glad you gave it a name. See,
44:06
the thing is, Burt, I like to sleep, man. And
44:08
I get that the city don't, but I do. And so
44:10
they forced me to come out at midnight. I'm like, man,
44:12
I don't do this anymore. So they're like, wow, you're not
44:14
in New York anymore. You sound like you can tell them
44:16
where else, and it all starts. So I'm like, all right,
44:18
you know what? Y'all got me. Midnight, where
44:20
we meeting? I will meet y'all there. Let's do it. I'm
44:23
gonna turn up. I'm still in New York. I
44:25
still got it in me. So we get there. We go out. We're
44:28
going in this place. I'm falling asleep. They're having the
44:30
times of their life, but whatever. We're turning up. I
44:33
haven't seen my friends in a while. We're having fun.
44:35
Then it starts raining. It's the end of the night.
44:37
We ended up staying in this place until at this
44:39
point, it's probably 4, 4.30 in the morning. I
44:43
had to be the person that that's what I felt exactly
44:45
what the sound you just let out. That's
44:47
how I felt. I used to love
44:50
nights like that. There was nothing more
44:52
intoxicating after being intoxicated than opening up
44:54
like that bar or club door. And
44:56
there's the sun greeting you at sunrise.
44:58
I feel like I lived life. Not
45:01
anymore, man. Not anymore. I
45:03
feel judged. You see the ladies that are waiting on
45:06
a bus to go to church and you're stumbling in
45:08
somewhere trying to get home. It's not for me
45:10
anymore. And I realized it in that moment when I
45:12
looked around because like when I started to get tired,
45:14
I'd look around to see if there's anybody I can
45:16
duck out with. Like, you know what I mean? Somebody
45:19
else got to be tired too. And it was
45:21
no one. It's just me. Everybody else looks like
45:23
the night is still starting. So I'm like, all
45:25
right. I hold it out. I wait it out.
45:27
End of the night comes. And now this is
45:29
the part where I feel like I lost my
45:31
New Yorker card because when the night comes down
45:33
to this, New York is the easiest place in
45:35
the world to have transportation at four or five
45:37
in the morning. Like anywhere else, you kind of
45:39
be stuck. You got to take a cab if
45:41
you're not driving. None of us are driving. We've
45:43
all been drinking. So they're like, we're going to
45:45
take the subway. Subway
45:47
in New York. That's like the
45:50
right of passage as a New Yorker. You got to
45:52
be a subway person. Now, I don't know if I
45:54
still have this subway person in me. It just didn't
45:56
make any sense to me to go get in the
45:58
subway when we all could have just taking a
46:00
list and going home because that's the lifestyle
46:02
I've become accustomed to. From the outside looking
46:04
in, those maps of the subway in New
46:07
York look like an impossible maze to navigate
46:09
unless you've been there your entire life. And
46:11
it's true, it is that way. Once you
46:13
get it, you got it, but most
46:16
of the time, wherever you are, typically you can't
46:18
get on one train to take you from this
46:20
stop to your stop. You got to get on
46:22
one train, take that a couple stops, get on
46:24
the next train, and then take that one a
46:26
couple stops. And when it's that early in the
46:28
morning, they're not coming every five minutes like they
46:30
normally do. It could be 15 minutes, it could
46:33
be 20 minutes. There's strangers down there, it's late
46:35
at night, you're tired. There's a whole slew of
46:37
reasons that I felt like the subway wasn't the
46:39
way to go. Brats beside the cats. Yes.
46:42
But which is where we're going? It's interesting
46:44
you say that, right? Really? Yes,
46:47
because they convinced me to take the subway anyway. I
46:49
say, cool, let's do it. Because that's
46:51
a part of the whole New York experience, is
46:53
after the night, everybody takes the subway together to
46:55
make sure everybody gets home safe, and you're probably
46:57
going to see entertainment on the way home too.
46:59
So we go down into the subway, it had
47:01
been raining all night, so the subways are even
47:03
flooded. There's puddles everywhere, it's
47:06
not the nicest of places, but New
47:08
Yorkers can say that about New
47:11
York. We all let anybody else say that, but I
47:13
can be honest about it. It smelled horrible. We're
47:15
sitting there, there's a bench right behind us, it's me and
47:18
three of my friends, and four of us are waiting for
47:20
this train. In this moment, I
47:22
see a rat come from out a
47:25
puddle. I
47:27
mean, it came from out the water like an orca.
47:29
I've never seen a rat move like this. I didn't
47:31
know rats could swim. This rat was
47:33
the size of not even a small cat,
47:35
a big cat. This rat was
47:38
huge. A subway Loch Ness. Yes, I think it
47:40
ate all the other rats. And
47:42
it comes out the water, and for some reason,
47:44
my friend Swear wasn't coming toward us. I
47:46
don't know what day it was, but I saw
47:48
it coming directly for us. So in
47:50
that moment, when it started running towards us, I
47:53
jumped on the little chair behind us. The
47:56
entire platform started laughing at me.
47:58
Everybody, they didn't. move and they were
48:01
like dude go get in the lift and I did.
48:03
I went upstairs, I got in the
48:06
lift, I left my friends at the subway,
48:08
it's official me and JLo are not New
48:10
Yorkers anymore. I'll
48:12
take it, it is what it
48:14
is. Before we get into my
48:17
concern for Abby and her emotional
48:19
porn My
48:21
mom just turned off the radio. You need to
48:23
turn it up, you need help girl. We'll get into
48:26
that in just a second. Are we gonna have an
48:28
intervention? It might be. I just have a theory that
48:30
I want to run by. Hey, hi. And
48:32
a very special bird show. We're
48:34
having an emotional porn intervention for Abby.
48:37
I'm just saying be open to it as
48:39
well. I'm saying okay. You might have a
48:41
problem. I mean I got nowhere to go,
48:43
I gotta be here. Alright before we get
48:46
into that, I saw this video the other
48:48
day man and if this isn't the most
48:50
typical exchange in married couples you will ever
48:52
ever hear in your life, the most relatable
48:55
thing I think I have seen on Instagram.
48:57
An accurate representation of marriage
49:00
and it goes like this. Hey babe
49:02
we have plans at
49:05
two on Saturday, two pm Saturday. We
49:07
have plans to go to this birthday
49:10
party. Okay, Saturday comes
49:12
around. Hey um
49:15
I'm gonna go work on my pressure washer and
49:17
go build a fire outside. Oh okay well we
49:19
have to get ready to leave. For what? For
49:21
the birthday party I told you about 2 pm
49:23
on Saturday because it's 1 30. You never said
49:25
that. Literally I did. This is brand new information.
49:28
I've literally never heard that come out of your
49:30
mouth. I reminded you 65 times this week and
49:32
I wrote it on our calendar. No, no you
49:34
didn't say anything. It's
49:37
the most relatable thing I've ever seen. How many
49:39
times does it happen? Well I mean for
49:42
us it goes both ways and
49:44
there are times like I'm
49:46
like I could have swore I told you this. He's
49:49
like no I swear to you you didn't and then
49:51
I actually have to check myself and I'm like maybe
49:53
I thought about telling you and I actually didn't
49:55
tell you. What commercial is it now where they can
49:57
actually stop your life and you can do replays?
50:00
on your life. Have you seen this commercial?
50:02
No. And then they go back to the
50:04
tape to see who was right and who
50:06
was wrong. Oh, that would be amazing. I
50:08
wish that was like a challenge. I wish
50:10
that was a real like a challenge. Save
50:12
marriages or ruin marriages? Save. All right. So
50:18
Abby, on a hear me out here.
50:20
All right. Hear
50:22
me out. I just have a theory on this
50:24
based on one couple that I
50:26
have heard of, but it makes sense to
50:29
me. First, let me
50:31
preface it by this, by let's say that
50:33
I don't know what the statistic is.
50:36
And maybe I am painting with a
50:38
very broad brush here. But I think
50:40
when it comes to porn online,
50:42
we're talking about sex and we're talking about
50:44
porn. You want to give the kid warning? Too
50:47
late. That I
50:51
don't know. I'm just going to throw a number out of
50:53
my butt out there. 70% of addiction, porn
50:57
addiction online are dudes. Okay. 70.
50:59
I don't know. We're visual
51:01
creatures. So when we get in
51:04
trouble online, you go from one video to the
51:06
other. Most of the time we take calls from
51:08
women saying my husband is addicted and that's where
51:10
it all starts. Okay. I'll give you that. So
51:13
this is not my friend, but a friend of
51:16
a friend of mine was telling me that
51:18
her marriage is in trouble right now because
51:22
she has overly
51:24
engaged and is addicted to
51:27
these romance novels that you keep
51:29
talking about the ogre
51:31
ones, the fairy sex
51:33
ones. And she
51:36
has been going through one after the
51:38
other after the other to where
51:41
it has hurt her and her marriage.
51:43
Not only the physical part of it also,
51:45
because it is a romance novel, but
51:48
she's so into it that this love
51:50
affair that seems to go on with
51:52
these characters time and time again, she
51:55
has been experimenting with things in her
51:57
real marriage and has now set the
52:00
expectations higher than unrealistic expectation
52:02
for her husband over and
52:04
over and over again as
52:06
she reads these books. So
52:09
what is the difference? So what
52:11
is the difference between a dude
52:13
being addicted to watching videos online
52:15
where he's trying to bring that into
52:17
the bedroom and a woman getting this
52:19
emotional fantasy world and bringing it into
52:22
her marriage also? So in what
52:24
way is she bringing it into her
52:26
marriage? She's expecting him to be what
52:29
based off of these books that she's reading? So again,
52:31
this is not my friend. It's a friend of
52:33
a friend. But the physical part of it, and
52:35
I haven't read one of these, so I'm leaning
52:37
on you on this, but the physical stuff can
52:39
get next level. Graphic.
52:42
Very graphic and very next level. What's
52:44
the book that Cassie was talking about
52:46
the other day? She said like she
52:49
wouldn't recommend it to anybody else but
52:51
you because it's such there's so many
52:53
intense trigger warnings. Yes, it's a book
52:56
called Haunting Adeline and it's known throughout
52:58
book talk as like this very triggering
53:01
stalker romance to where there's like knife
53:03
play in the bedroom. So things can
53:05
get a little freaky. It's very much
53:07
50 shades but turn up the
53:09
dial. But there's also an emotional
53:11
component to it also where it's very
53:13
romantic. It's over the top with romance
53:16
and it's not the real world, but
53:18
she's been caught up in so many
53:20
of these books that she's brought it
53:23
into her life and
53:25
it's caused a lot of problems with her and her
53:27
husband. So I think both of them
53:29
are similar in the sense that they inflate
53:31
expectations for people. So there's actually a movie
53:33
that touches on this called Dawn John. It
53:36
stars Scarlett Johansson who has like an affinity
53:38
for rom-coms and wants her life to be
53:40
like a rom-com. And then I
53:42
can't remember what the actor's name is. Joseph
53:45
Gordon-Leta, his character is like
53:47
obsessed with porn and wanting to have that
53:49
kind of fantasy behind closed doors. And so
53:52
I think both things can be true in
53:54
the sense that both can inflate expectations for
53:56
either sexes. But
53:59
to me, like. like the actual emotional
54:01
part, I think can, to
54:04
me, I think it's just sometimes be like an
54:07
escape. Like, especially if you're a single person
54:09
like me, like it's nice to escape and have
54:11
like something you can dive into, but
54:13
to me, as long as it's
54:15
not like unhealthy, which I guess
54:17
for this person it is, it's like not a big
54:19
deal. Couldn't you say the same thing about dudes
54:21
and porn? But you could say that about anything.
54:23
Like think about food, think about work. If you do
54:26
too much of anything and it takes up all of
54:28
your time and it starts to become an idol for
54:30
your life, then it's unhealthy, but that doesn't make it
54:32
inherently bad. Moderation is key. On
54:35
both parts. Why
54:37
are you smirking like that? I
54:39
find it fascinating. Natalia, good morning, you're on the
54:41
Berkshire. Good morning,
54:43
how are you? Good, thank you. So,
54:47
I'm a professor at KSU and
54:49
a teacher class in gender that is called
54:51
Love and Sex. And one of the questions
54:54
that I always ask my students is that
54:57
are romance novels porn? And
54:59
the girls immediately say no and the
55:01
boys are like, well, I know what
55:03
I do is I read one
55:05
paragraph from Fifty Shapes
55:08
of Grey. And
55:11
as soon as I read it, they're
55:13
like, oh yeah, that's porn, you know,
55:15
because you don't imagine. And you
55:18
just start imagining, in this case, she's doing
55:20
that, you know, one romance novel after romance.
55:22
And you get a reaction of it, and
55:25
that's what porn does, right? You get a
55:27
reaction of it, well, from romance books too.
55:30
So yes, they can be classified as porn.
55:33
Emotional porn, Abby. It says a
55:35
KSU professor. Yes, and you may have a problem. I'm
55:38
having very normal relationship
55:40
with my smutty, funny porn
55:43
fairy books, okay? Whoa, whoa, whoa. I
55:45
have a very healthy relationship with them.
55:48
All I'm saying is, Chiwon is that guys
55:51
physically, like, with our eyes,
55:53
that's what we got addicted to, women
55:55
emotionally do. It's the same
55:57
thing if you're bringing it into your marriage, I think. thing.
56:00
I think the difference is, is you
56:03
don't always read to have a fun time with
56:05
yourself. Sometimes you just want to read for enjoyment
56:07
and escape. So I think it's a little different.
56:10
I do think it's like no
56:12
way. Like most guys go to porn because
56:15
they have a guy watches porn for one
56:17
reason. There's an end game where sometimes you're
56:19
just listening because it's like, he
56:22
okay girl. Women
56:27
are going to fulfill a need
56:29
and a hole in their relationship also emotionally.
56:31
So they're reading those books. No, but like
56:33
the physical part of it. I'm talking about,
56:36
I'm talking about like physically. Okay, maybe. I
56:38
want to debate you all the time. Get
56:43
it. The bird show. So
56:45
we got a DM from
56:48
our listener, Melissa, on
56:50
Instagram. She's at life
56:52
in the soul. And
56:54
she was letting us
56:56
know that any of
56:58
you guys that live up in
57:00
Coweta County, they're the dogs, cats,
57:02
animals up there need a lot
57:04
of help right now. The Coweta
57:06
County shelter is getting way
57:08
overcrowded. They got like 135 dogs, 25 cats, and
57:11
that's at about 101% capacity. And
57:17
I think we all know what that means.
57:19
Once that happens, you have to put out
57:21
like this, this kill list on dogs and
57:24
cats. No, no, boy. I feel
57:26
like this is kind of like
57:28
an epidemic because there's several shelters
57:30
throughout at LAMA that are just
57:33
bursting at the seams right now. I'm
57:35
not sure if it has to do
57:37
with the economy where you had pets
57:39
before and now you can't afford them
57:41
or whatever. But hearts in homes rescue.
57:44
If you're interested in adopting, you can
57:46
stop by the shelter Monday through Saturday
57:49
during regular business hours. Adoptions are just
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25 bucks. And there's really
57:53
not that large a commitment you guys, again,
57:55
it's called hearts in homes rescue. They provide
57:57
all the food they come up with. cover
58:00
the expenses for the dog also. All
58:02
you have to really do is agree
58:04
to give the dog or cat a
58:07
really loving home, and you have to show up through
58:09
a couple of adoption events. Well, so this
58:11
is for fostering. So if you, like yes, of
58:13
course they're looking for people to adopt dogs, but
58:15
if you are just willing to foster a dog,
58:17
to get them out of the shelter, to get
58:19
it down to capacity so they don't have to
58:21
do this kill list, that's when they're gonna provide
58:23
you with food, and
58:26
they're gonna cover the expenses if you're gonna
58:28
foster. So if you're like me and you're
58:30
busting at the seams with multiple dogs, and
58:33
you're not able to adopt, if
58:37
you're able to foster right now, so you can't make
58:39
the commitment of adoption, but you can foster, that
58:41
can help get these animals
58:43
off the kill list. It's hearts in
58:45
homes rescue. All
58:48
right, Jackson, is it rude to not
58:50
invite your son's wife on a trip?
58:52
Do you all think that when you
58:54
get married that you are a package
58:56
deal when it comes to getting invited
58:58
to things for the majority
59:00
of situations? For the majority of
59:03
situations, yes, and especially if it's family,
59:05
absolutely. Right, that's exactly what
59:07
I thought as well. And so my
59:09
uncle is planning on taking a trip down
59:12
to Costa Rica where one of his daughters
59:14
lives, her
59:16
and her husband, and
59:19
he also has two other sons that live in
59:21
the States and was gonna plan a trip down
59:23
there, right? So like let's make a family trip
59:25
down to Costa Rica to see your sister. Exactly,
59:27
and so one of the
59:29
sons is single and the other one is married,
59:32
and he decided to kind of posit
59:34
the question of going down there as
59:36
like, oh, I would really like it
59:39
if it was just kind of a
59:41
family trip as in his
59:44
one other son that is married,
59:46
your wife not invited. She's
59:48
family. That's what I thought. That's
59:50
your wife, that's family. What's the reasoning? He
59:53
wanted it to be a like
59:55
core family event. And when
59:57
I heard this, it just didn't sit right with me She's
1:00:00
core family. She is core family. And then
1:00:02
I'm thinking about it from her perspective and
1:00:04
how like you'd feel so left out, right?
1:00:07
Absolutely. Yeah, I feel like for sure.
1:00:09
Yeah, absolutely. It's one thing if like he
1:00:11
wanted to take his sons on like a
1:00:13
guy's trip or something like that, but you're
1:00:15
going to Costa Rica. That's not like, yes,
1:00:17
that's your daughter. But
1:00:19
it's also that's her sister-in-law. And
1:00:21
I do feel like they've become
1:00:23
a package deal. I
1:00:26
completely agree. And so when
1:00:28
I was talking about this with like my parents, my
1:00:30
mom was kind of on his side. Maybe
1:00:32
it's because she's a little biased because it is her brother. And
1:00:36
I was kind of saying that like,
1:00:38
I think it would have been different. Let's
1:00:40
say cousin from Costa Rica is coming
1:00:42
to Georgia to visit us,
1:00:44
right? And one night that
1:00:46
were there, my uncle's like, hey,
1:00:48
I'd like to just take my kids out
1:00:50
to dinner one night and your husband, for
1:00:52
example, is not invited to this part. That
1:00:55
is better for me if it's like a
1:00:58
single instance of something that's happening versus like
1:01:00
this big trip that they're taking. It didn't
1:01:02
feel right to me. What do you think,
1:01:04
Abby? To me, I think especially like because
1:01:07
they're married, it's not even like it's a
1:01:09
girlfriend situation. This is absolutely core family. So
1:01:11
they should be allowed to go. So I
1:01:13
feel like he's just throwing that term out
1:01:15
there just to make it seem like his
1:01:18
feelings are justified. I just get the sense that he
1:01:20
just don't like this chick. That's what
1:01:22
I was trying to understand. It's like, okay,
1:01:24
even in saying core family is invited. Cool.
1:01:27
If we're going to run with that, but
1:01:29
what exactly would be the harm in just
1:01:32
inviting everyone who's I guess what he sees
1:01:34
as an attachment to core family? Yeah, right.
1:01:36
And like, okay, let's say hypothetically, their relationship
1:01:38
might have started a little more on the
1:01:40
rocky side. I still feel like that's a
1:01:42
point where you kind of swallow your pride
1:01:44
and you're like, hey, you are very much
1:01:47
invited to this just as much as everyone
1:01:49
else because you are now family. Okay.
1:01:52
And I'm going to make that request. So now the son
1:01:54
is in a position. He either
1:01:56
has to go back to his wife and be like,
1:01:58
Hey, dad. I made a
1:02:00
Costa Rica doesn't want you to go is
1:02:03
he gonna be like I'm going to Costa Rica the family
1:02:05
or I refuse to go without you when
1:02:08
he brought this so I heard this phone call actually
1:02:10
when I was hanging out with him and then I
1:02:12
brought this up to my parents later on and so
1:02:14
when he first said that it's okay
1:02:17
like I'll pay for her to come down if
1:02:19
it's like a money problem like you know it's
1:02:21
totally okay and then obviously his dad comes back
1:02:23
to him and is like it's not a money
1:02:25
issue it's it's just I wanted it to just
1:02:28
be my kids but then I'm like your
1:02:30
daughter that's down there is also married are you
1:02:32
gonna not include him in everything that's there like
1:02:34
I don't need you have to be consistent if
1:02:36
you're gonna do it that way and he has to
1:02:39
dig in on this and say I can't go on
1:02:41
the trip then right yeah take home you gotta protect
1:02:43
me I'm pretty sure he did okay I think he
1:02:45
drew the line it was like yeah this is bad
1:02:47
you don't want to come back home after making the
1:02:49
wrong decision do
1:02:52
you tell do you even tell your spouse that your dad
1:02:54
made that request I wouldn't I wouldn't I
1:02:56
think I try to bury that yeah keep that to yourself yeah
1:02:58
we got a couple of minutes here
1:03:10
let me ask you guys a superficial question because
1:03:12
this one's going around online the last couple of
1:03:14
days here would you rather have
1:03:16
a 100% chance of winning 1 million dollars
1:03:21
or a 75% chance at winning 100 billion dollars damn
1:03:23
which one do you do the 75% chance at 100
1:03:30
bill I feel like when I was younger that would
1:03:32
have been an easy one I'm taking the 75%
1:03:35
but the older I get the more I don't trust my luck I
1:03:38
just really don't and I don't want to have to
1:03:40
live my life saying what if I would have took
1:03:42
the one give me the hundred percent give me the
1:03:44
guarantee Murphy's law what can go wrong will go wrong I will
1:03:46
be in the 25% I'm taking that 100%
1:03:49
chance of a 1 million dollars would change my
1:03:51
life but because I could still continue doing what
1:03:53
I love I could still do my podcast I
1:03:55
could still come into the into this job I
1:03:57
wouldn't have to uproot my life in Atlanta But
1:04:00
like, I could afford a house in this
1:04:02
economy, which to me is already like winning
1:04:04
the lottery. I'm going to bake
1:04:07
here, man. I'm going for the b-b-b-b-billion!
1:04:09
A billion, right? Alright, so here's how
1:04:11
it rolled out on Reddit. 1,500
1:04:13
people answered. It was
1:04:15
pretty close, actually. 48%
1:04:18
would say they would go for the guaranteed money.
1:04:21
52% would risk it all for $100 billion. That's
1:04:24
crazy. That's really close. Yeah.
1:04:28
I just, I just, the thought of what happens if
1:04:30
I don't win, and now I have to live the
1:04:32
rest of my life knowing I had a million dollars
1:04:34
in my pocket if I just would have taken it,
1:04:36
that would scare me. Can you live the rest of
1:04:38
your life on $1 million? So
1:04:40
I'm looking at the billion going, that's it. That's generational
1:04:42
wealth. Me, my kids
1:04:45
are taking care of my grandkids.
1:04:47
Your great-grandkids. All
1:04:49
of them are going to be
1:04:51
entitled little brats. I just
1:04:53
see that 25% of not winning. But
1:04:57
for me, I would also be worried about the kind of
1:04:59
person I would become after getting $100 billion. Like,
1:05:02
does no one, is no one afraid of how money
1:05:04
would change in that way? Well, I've heard
1:05:06
it said that money just makes you more of what you are. Right,
1:05:09
so I think you're a fairly decent person. Yeah, that's
1:05:11
a fun thing. I don't think you would change it.
1:05:13
I wouldn't be worried about that. I wouldn't be worried
1:05:15
about it either. Not even a little bit. You could
1:05:17
get the best therapists in the world if you turn
1:05:19
a new, like, the big ol' A-hole. The best! It's
1:05:22
the Burt Show. Get it? The Burt
1:05:24
Show.
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