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Today we're talking about understanding

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the fury of an

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angry woman and how that

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anger emanates so

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fiercely. When a woman gets angry,

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it's not an all of a sudden thing.

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You see, it started a long time ago with

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one tiny moment in time

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when she was dishonored, disrespected,

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belittled, criticized,

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traumatized, unheard, dismissed,

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or even abused. That moment

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seeded in her emotional

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and mental and spiritual body.

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It seeded. It got

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planted and dismissed.

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Then the next time she was dishonored, the seed

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got a smidge larger, and the next time

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a little bigger, and the next time after that, a little

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larger, and again and again,

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some of it unconscious, some of it not understood

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through an emotional upset or a wave

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not being able to make sense or connect to that past

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experience. And the seed just grows

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and grows until one

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day, something else happens

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and the emotional wave explodes. Anger

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spews from her mouth and body outwards,

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like a volcano erupting with hot

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flames and ash. And asking her,

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what's wrong or what you did or why she is

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angry just brings taller

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flames, and the ash spews

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harder, louder, faster, and farther. Her blood

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starts as a warm, cozy bubble, from her

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feet. Slowly, those bubbles work their way

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up into her belly, simmering until

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it gets to a slow boil. Suddenly,

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that boil spills over, and an

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explosion ensues. The

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explosion is directed at whoever is present

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in that moment. It's not personal. It's

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hot energy that has to be released.

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Like that volcano heating up

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until it explodes. We

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think it was that latest dishonouring event or relationship

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that the anger is about, but it's

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not. It's simpler than that.

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It's about being dishonored and disrespected. It's about not

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being and taking a, ah, stand for our

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values. It's about not honoring

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our requirements. It's about

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tolerating unacceptable behaviors.

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It's about taking in constructive

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criticism. That's not. It's about sweeping things under

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the rug over many, many

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events because we don't want to face it,

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or we're fearful of the unknown,

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the uncertainty of taking a solid

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stand, or we are

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fearful because someone else has power

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over us, or we think we have no

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control. Until the day

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she has had enough. On that day,

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she is done. She

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is done. Done. She walks away, head held

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high. And the best thing

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you can do when faced with the fury of an

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angry woman is to honor

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her, respect her,

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understand her, give her time

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and space. Leave her

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be after letting her know you care

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and are giving her some space. And

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if she is done, walk away

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after letting her know she can call you once she

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processes whatever's going on and that

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you care deeply for her. And if you're the woman

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with fury and anger, I invite you to

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do this. Take time for

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yourself in silence, however

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long you need. Take it.

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Be patient with yourself. Allow the

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wisdom of your body and your higher self

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to reveal to you what this

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volcano is about. Connect with

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the time when your volcano got seeded for the first time,

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and the second time and the third time.

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Understand what happened at that time

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logically and factually. Look at

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any blame you are placing on anyone,

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including yourself. Review it more

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holistically from everyone's

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perspective, including your own, what

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it must have been like for them and what it was like for

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you, and consider for a moment

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that the other person had multiple

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volcanoes going on for them as well.

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Take a stand for what you require now and going

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forward in your relationships and your environments.

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Reconnect with your feel good vibe and thank

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that experience in that past initial

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moment for the learning and release it as

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it no longer serves your highest good.

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Anger is a powerful, incredible

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emotion. Stored anger

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is not stored anger

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just hurts ourselves and it's

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time. As divine feminine as divine

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woman, as being the

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bearers of the masculine feminine

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balance within ourselves, we are being

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called to handle that

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deep seated anger

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and take a look at it and release

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it. I am here for you.

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There's nothing wrong with the fury of an

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angry woman. It's all

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in what we do with it that matters and

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counts, and whether it's of benefit or

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not.