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The 5 Things Every Man Needs From His Friends

The 5 Things Every Man Needs From His Friends

Released Thursday, 27th October 2022
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The 5 Things Every Man Needs From His Friends

The 5 Things Every Man Needs From His Friends

The 5 Things Every Man Needs From His Friends

The 5 Things Every Man Needs From His Friends

Thursday, 27th October 2022
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Men were never meant to be isolated. We were meant to be connected to a tribe of other men in some form or fashion. If you are going to succeed and become a better man please don’t overlook this powerful truth. You need a tribe to get you there.  And I’ll tell you why – We were built to feed off of others faith, encouragement and love. I’m telling you, If find your tribe and by that I mean find the men in your life that walk with you through every storm, men you can be vulnerable with and men you connect with on a spiritual level you’ll always find you way to the top and you’ll overcome any challenge you face. Without a tribe the journey become all the more harder. Remember this… Not everyone in your life was placed there by God. Some individuals are actually on assignment by hell to ruin your life.One of the most important choices you ever make is who you run with. if you want to win in your future Let go of those who are holding you back! Its not easy but it is necessary. Take time to evaluate the people with whom you spend time and decide whether their influence on you is positive or negative. I have listed some questions you can ask to better identify your relationships.·      Are they going somewhere?·      Do you want to go where they are going?·      Do they encourage you to seek God or seek pleasure?·      Do they challenge you to be a better man?·      Do they tell you the truth sugar coat things to make you feel better?·      Do they constantly complain as a victim or are they grateful like a champion?·      Are they wasting their life?·      Who do they hang with?·      Are they where you want to be?Many times the only link between you and your past is those whom you call friend. After you have gone through these questions and realize there are some folks holding you back, you can do something about it. I recenty was talking with a man who just got out of jail and he was telling me that most guys that get out go back into the same old ways simply because they get around the wrong people. I’ve hear men say “I don’t want to do this or that anymore.” Yet they continue to associate with wrong tribe. This temptation leads to action, and their action brings them right back to their old way of living.Remember Solomon said these words, He who walks with wise men will become wise. Walking is different than just being around. Walking with means connection, bonding, sharpening one another. It is important to Surround yourself with people who are positive. People who are going somewhere with their life.If you are around negative people all the time its only a matter of time before you become negative, too.Like the saying says, Birds of a feather flock together.Personal development expert, Jim Rohn, in his one year success workbook says, “You must constantly ask yourself these questions:Who am I around?What are they doing to me?What have they got me reading?What have they got me saying?Where do they have me going?What do they have me thinking?And most important, what do they have me becoming?Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay? Fellas, Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.”The most effective way I know how to separate myself from the wrong individuals is to pursue becoming a better man. You do this by adopting new values, tenets and goals. When you pursue excellence, improvement and character development you’ll start attracting the right people into your world.We all have a desire within us to be accepted.  Nobody likes to be rejected.  Hence, we have accepted the wrong people and entered relationships simply because they were willing to accept us as we are.  This fear of rejection has been the author of countless damaging relationships.  Negative people have accessed our lives, only to hurt us in the end.If you want to have a successful and purposeful life, you must fight the constant pressure of negative

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