I'm so happy to be back. Huge apologies for the impromptu four month hiatus, but I'm excited to be back and excited to answer these questions on our Book of Love Hotline. If you are interested in learning more about the Compound Dating Technique community created in January, feel free to follow the following link to learn more:   bookoflovecanada.ca/cdt   Questions answered on today's hotline:   Q#1 : jean-eva I need help. I am a woman in my early 40’s and I have created an amazing life for myself. I have a high paying career, my own house and car, a great group of friends and I am very happy. My issue is, when I date, I can’t find men at my ‘level’. I meet a lot of great guys, but I have yet to meet someone who makes the same amount of money as me or more (200k+). I have dated men in the past that make less than me and it usually turns into an issue. What should I do?   Q # 2 : I’ve been seeing this woman for about 3 months. She is my dream woman and I can’t believe she is interested in me. Since we started dating we have seen each other about once a week. I like to put together fun dates and we typically spend Saturday night and Sunday morning together. Around the 6 week mark she started asking me if we could see each other more, or if I could maybe text her more throughout the week. She says she feels disconnected from the time we aren’t together. I’m super busy, and don’t always have time to text, plus I really don’t like texting. If I’m being honest I’m also afraid to be spending more time with her. What if we spend too much time together and she gets bored or annoyed by me. I’ve been told by exes that I can be pretty annoying. What should I do?   

Q # 3: Dear Jean-eva, I’ve been dating a new guy for a few months now and things seem to be going really well. So well, in fact, that I’m starting to get worried that this is the best I’m going to get and I’m going to miss out because I don’t feel ready to commit. I’ve been hurt before and I don’t want to relive that. How do I tell if this is the right person for me? I don’t want to string him along, but I don’t want to break things off either. Help me!

What do you think of this advice? Do you agree? Do you disagree? Feel free to share, I would love to hear your thoughts. 

Love, Jean-eva