0:00

Wake up, wake up, wake y'all. You're

0:03

trying to get it off your chat with

0:07

the Man of Black. We want to hear from you on the Richard

0:11

Yo, what's up? Sid? Okay,

0:14

So you know I have this thing on

0:16

my mind forever, mister Ramper.

0:18

I don't know if you guys knowing from author mister

0:22

Ramford, Oh yeah, yeah, from yeah, yeah, the teachers

0:24

on author. Yeah. Now, the thing

0:26

about it is after that ball is fisted up, yes,

0:29

the art mark, are you an whoa?

0:32

I think it's an age now. I don't know if you

0:34

guys. Mister Ramport now has us he's

0:37

gay. Now. I don't

0:39

have a problem with this, I

0:42

care less, but I feel like they

0:44

push a lot of agendas by kids

0:46

that it don't need to have on

0:48

their plate right now. And I understand,

0:51

you know, it's quality for everybody

0:53

and what's not. But at the end of the day, it's

0:55

not boys were supposed to kid so we shouldn't

0:57

even be butting ourselves into a certain situation.

1:00

The Lion, the Lion King is not for the kids,

1:02

sir. Okay, The Lion King is for everybody. The

1:04

old one, the first one was for a

1:07

thousand newer version just for the kid The

1:09

first one in the cartoon talking

1:11

about the first one is a cartoon. The new one is

1:14

a live action film that looks like a horror movie.

1:16

The newer version is for the kids. No

1:18

way, it's the same movie. It just

1:21

it just it's like a picture of red kool

1:23

aid with no sugar in it. That's all they

1:26

don't have. No, the new one has no soul to

1:28

it. Okay, well, I guess that's

1:30

that's your opinion to do with me. By the way, sear

1:32

Man, I love your bus man, read them buzz man. Thank

1:34

you, sir. I appreciate the good thing man and

1:37

being keep it up with the seminars man. You guys

1:39

are awesome. Answer that you're not there, but

1:44

okay, well, thank you for being bush

1:46

there you guys. Well, thank you,

1:48

thank you, sir, Thank thank you. Ricko.

1:50

What's up at Charlotmagne

1:54

King? So I'm gonna do this on behalf

1:56

of all the people that listen to you guys in

1:58

the morning that the in late and

2:01

y'all the tone for people's morning

2:03

every morning. I've set the tone for the days

2:05

for people that listen. I'm not late. Stop

2:07

not you Angela now you're poking to Charlottagane

2:10

especially stop being late. Stop

2:12

coming in late, because a lot of people out here

2:14

listening to you, guys set the tone for all morning

2:17

and how we get to work. And when you're not

2:19

here for those couple of minutes, y'all throwing

2:21

tall and we'll be having bad days.

2:23

Man late, Bro,

2:26

you got you got angela ye? How

2:28

you got Angeli?

2:30

Yi? Bro, Bro, you got Angeli ye.

2:33

I think we all have a responsibility to be on time

2:35

and be respectful to I listening. How you take

2:37

this, Charlottaagne's gonna determine how people

2:39

listen to you going forward, because all

2:42

the time, Bro, I understand people be late to

2:44

work and to be turkey than but you

2:46

be late all the time, and it's almost like you're taking the

2:48

audience for granted. So hey,

2:50

my brother, my brother, can I'm gonna

2:53

tell the audien. I'm gonna tell the audience this for a million

2:55

times. My my

2:57

my clock says my contractors

2:59

I get here say oh five yep.

3:02

I don't know what to tell y'all, and I just changed

3:04

mine yesterday.

3:07

Hello. Who's this? Hey? This is Antonio

3:09

from La Antonio from La man

3:12

Get it off your chest. Hey. First off, I

3:14

just want to say thank you for accepting my call.

3:16

Me and my girlfriend. That's there. I love you, I

3:18

met I. I can hear

3:20

you guys all the time, and I'm really happy

3:23

to be on here. All right, get it off

3:25

your chests. Eight hundred five eight five one

3:27

oh five one. If you need to vent, you can hit this up

3:29

at any time. It's the breakfast club. Good morning,

3:32

the breakfast club. Pick

3:37

up the mother mother phone and dott this

3:39

is your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're man

3:41

least you

3:43

want to hear from you on the breakfast club. Please better have

3:45

the same energy malakai. Yes,

3:48

what's up, Brokeet it off your chests. Oh,

3:51

I can't take these lying behind brother,

3:53

I can't take it blue out on you, brouhon.

3:59

We're talking about it. Don't have a girl. They

4:01

to buy themselves. They single, come

4:03

to find out they have a whole situation. Are

4:05

you talking about you talk about the guys you be

4:07

dating. Yeah, well I don't date them. You know,

4:09

you meet them my heir and I'll put all my stuff

4:12

for the table. I'm fifty one years old. One

4:14

thing you get at fifty is clarity. It's

4:16

even hell yeah. It's like hell no, And

4:19

maybe they just don't like you. Birlfriends. Well,

4:21

they're why they're hollering at me, right, Oh, they

4:24

they hollering. But my thing is, I'm

4:27

fifty one years old. I don't

4:29

have time for games. You're not trying to be nobody's

4:31

side piece. Old. If

4:34

you do have something, let me know so I could

4:36

move on. You got

4:38

nobody that you know. I'm fifty

4:40

one. You know you got the search to be a background checks.

4:43

I'm not gonna lie, but are you too old to be out here chasing

4:45

trade? You need to find you find

4:47

you a man. You should know. I don't chase.

4:49

I work. You should try to find you

4:51

a nice little man and settle down. Bro, you

4:53

too old. It's

4:56

not as far as being honest in these people out

4:58

here lying to him. Yeah, you're a trade chasing

5:01

You wanna do a show called trade Chase? No?

5:03

No, no, no, I never chase. Okay, they

5:05

chased me, all

5:07

right, bro, I hope you find the right person. At least

5:09

you know. You shouldn't settle down. You gotta

5:11

find absolutely. I said at Sift, it's

5:14

either hell yeah, hell not. You keep going

5:16

home looking all right. We hope you find the hell.

5:18

Yeah, all right, bro, you're too old at this point

5:20

though, Bro, people

5:23

want some new stocks to tree.

5:25

Hello, who's this? Good morning everybody?

5:27

How can rebark to us today?

5:30

Get you off your chest? I saw at

5:32

ya. This is my lest work for like a

5:34

week and and a half. I'm going over. Yeah,

5:38

where are you going? I'm going to stay

5:40

nice? I call.

5:43

I got into show hip and to

5:45

say it's my ship to stay

5:47

well. Enjoy mama, and I'm so happy.

5:50

All right, thank you, happy for you. That's

5:52

job. I love things to look forward to. You got to plan

5:54

a lot vacation sometimes. Hello, who's

5:56

this? This is Tanidler from Columbus,

5:58

Ohio doing hey chant? What's

6:01

up? Bro? I realized I'm old because

6:03

I was dying. I went to DC and

6:05

was dancing, and my knees basically gave

6:07

out, where my nie, my bro had to hold me up.

6:09

Welcome to my world and it's

6:12

bad man. And then south West kind

6:14

of ruined the day day for us because

6:17

you're supposed to take off at like five

6:19

and get there at six, and they pushed our flight

6:21

all the way back to like eleven thirty at night.

6:23

For no reason, trying to say, oh it

6:25

was mechanical problems, but still like they

6:27

kind of ruined the day. I

6:30

can get about. Bro. You said Southwest, Bro,

6:32

Yeah, you deserve what you get when you fly Southwest. I

6:35

wasn't just a bust in the sky. It's so cheap

6:37

though, man, and the back yep, and you get

6:39

what you paying. Hello. Whose is he?

6:42

My name is Lloyd? Um calling all the way from

6:44

to lend Hey, Lloyd for Switzerland. What's up?

6:46

Get it off his chest? I'm happy

6:48

that I come through because the leasten to the podcast all the

6:50

time. I'm away to work. What time is it in Switzerland

6:53

and it's noon?

6:56

Okay, Well, we appreciated

6:58

you calling us and talking us all the way from Switzerland.

7:01

What you have for breakfast? Um?

7:03

From press juth? Okay, I have some

7:06

press us right here. Yeah. I was

7:08

waiting for YouTube coming, but I guess

7:10

it's far night. Cost

7:12

a lot more to ship it than to actually buy

7:14

it. Thank

7:17

you for listening. Hello, who's this? Hey?

7:19

My name is Will? What's up? What's

7:21

going on? And to get

7:23

off my test man? I want to apologast and my

7:25

wife for for stepping

7:27

out on you know it's

7:29

a delity issue. Man. I know black men don't

7:32

cheat. I am now part

7:34

of the faithful Black mankle I don't cheat

7:36

community. Now, how long ago did you cheat? Sir? Yesterday?

7:39

That was it was almost

7:43

a year ago. No, you're not in part of the community

7:46

yet. Now let me ask you a question. Why are you apologizing?

7:49

Now? Did you just find out I'm

7:51

apologize? I actually been was trying

7:53

to call y'all and you know it's just what

7:56

time I call y'all. Let me into water. Okay,

7:58

well I'm going. I'm glad that you're

8:00

on the right path now, but you're not yet approved

8:03

to live in the faithful Black Mentle community. Okay,

8:06

now you back in the crib. Hey, Look, one

8:08

more thing I want to ask if y'all could get

8:11

Pastor Dno Jennings on the show. Google

8:14

his name are YouTube. Man, that's a ninth U.

8:16

It's a nice brother man, the nice pastor. I

8:19

think y'all should have him on this show. Pastor Geno

8:21

Jendens g I n O. His

8:24

last name is j E I

8:27

N G S. All right, get it off

8:29

your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one

8:31

oh five one. If you need to vent you can hit this up

8:33

at any time. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning,

8:36

the Breakfast Club. Yeah,

8:40

it's the world most dangerous morning. Short to Breakfast Club. Charlomagne

8:42

and God Angelie. We got another good brother in here

8:44

right now. He has a new album out called Long

8:47

Lived Block. I'll never forget the name of this album. Yeah,

8:49

I know, especially the day

8:53

Freaklin is here. Ladies and gentlemen, how

8:55

are you, brothers? God? Hell do you

8:57

stay looking so young? Man? You're vegan or something.

8:59

I'm borderline when you say you

9:02

almost vegan with your Presbyterian not

9:05

Prepyterian church. Gian,

9:09

It's like, it's so what you see me soon see?

9:12

It was crazy, you know, I was trying to figure it out. I was trying

9:14

to figure out. I don't want to talking. I

9:16

don't know we were going, but I was okay, well I gotta be on my

9:18

feet, no kind

9:21

of you

9:24

know, first it was boring and Presbyterian.

9:26

I'm trying to I'm trying to make sure that

9:28

I'm ready. I'm trying to make a church that serves

9:30

seafood on Sundays, Prepyterian Presbyterian

9:32

Church. No, no, no, it's

9:36

I do maybe steak um,

9:38

you know, maybe like once a month and

9:41

and you know some lean like fill

9:43

you know, but decided that I do, uh,

9:46

you know, like whitefish and

9:49

chicken. Okay, well, congratulations

9:52

on the new album. Man

9:54

already, what I love about listening to your music it is

9:56

is like, you know, people always have this idea in

9:58

their head. I didn't know that you listen to my music.

10:00

Thank you. That's really due. Well, you know, of course I got

10:02

to prepare because you're coming, but I was in here jamming to

10:04

it and so

10:07

that and congratulations on the BT of where nomination

10:09

is. Well, thank you. Well there's a specific event that

10:11

led you to name the album Long Live Love. Of

10:13

course. Of course, it's just very obvious

10:16

what we are and just the climate of culture,

10:19

just the polarization, and even

10:21

my Christian brothers even across the aisle,

10:24

and their lack of empathy for

10:26

black and brown people and not

10:29

being able to understand that the

10:31

creative love is challenging us

10:34

to be able to learn how to love people

10:36

that are not always the most lovable, because

10:38

we're at times not always the most level.

10:41

When you say get rid of its lack of empathy, right,

10:43

I start thinking about old

10:46

white males. Yeah,

10:48

because I feel like they'll never have

10:50

empathy just because they're so stuck in their ways.

10:53

Like a lot of it is racism, a lot of it is sexism.

10:55

You see what's going on with the abortion band. You see how they

10:57

has historically treated us. When I when

10:59

you say get rid of, get rid of people

11:02

would know in it's like they got

11:04

to die. Well it's well, wow, it's

11:06

I think that the mindset does have to and

11:09

and even there were white men, you

11:11

know that that were abolitionists that

11:13

contributed to to the

11:16

betterment of black and brown people

11:18

at some point, but but at some point, You're right,

11:20

it appears that if you're

11:22

not asking the questions and engaging

11:24

in a group of people that are not like you,

11:27

you're not aware of what the

11:29

systemic issues now

11:31

causing creation and more people have to feel human

11:33

the humanity of things. Like I was looking at

11:35

how in conversion therapy and

11:37

how they're starting to outlaw it in some places, but I

11:39

can't even believe that's still legal. Yeah, yeah,

11:41

yeah, And I think it's very embarrassing

11:43

to think that we have to

11:46

make people exactly the way that we think that

11:48

they need to be to be able to do life with them.

11:51

No one group of people willever

11:53

be monolithic. You know, everybody has

11:56

different views, even inside of different communities.

11:58

But it's all about learning how to agree,

12:01

to disagree and still letting

12:03

love lead the narrative. You

12:05

know, even when you say that, right, like, and I know that sounded

12:07

like a Disney World, but it's true. Yeah,

12:09

Like, even when you think about the Bible, right, I look at

12:11

the Bible, and I've got to know that I study the

12:13

Bible, and you you know, you can read things about

12:16

you know, being gears an abomination,

12:18

or you can read them when he said I think he said, Jesus

12:21

told him that the devil is the Father. When he was talking

12:23

to Jewish people. Some people thought that was anti Semitic. And

12:25

you have homophobic stuff in the Bible. You have anti

12:27

Semitic stuff in the Bible. And it's like this

12:29

ain't love, this don't sound there's no God.

12:31

And it's not homophobic stuff in the Bible.

12:34

What it is is that there

12:36

are men and women who have not necessarily been

12:39

trained and to be able to exogute

12:41

scripture, to be able to understand the

12:43

totality of the text. Because if

12:46

you are going to call one thing

12:48

a sin in the Bible, you cannot isogeet

12:50

that text and realize that pride,

12:54

jealousy, envy eating Paul,

12:57

well, you know that's old testament that you know,

12:59

you know it any saying that bacon,

13:04

it's I don't need baker, it's I don't need baker because

13:06

it swells you up. Okay, yeah, that's so funny

13:08

how we were just getting everywhere into this thing. But I'm

13:10

just weirder. The Bible says all, it says all

13:12

scriptures of God. All

13:14

scripture is God breathed. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

13:17

yeah yeah, the whole piece of body being low Gods.

13:19

So but but what we have to understand

13:22

also is that the cannon

13:24

of scripture still is coming from a place of

13:26

a loving God. God is not

13:28

built to hate gay people. The

13:31

Bible is not a manual on how to

13:33

hate gay people. And so if

13:36

we continue to keep isolating these

13:38

individual things and make

13:40

that the premise of what God is and who

13:42

God is, we're missing the standpoint is that

13:45

there's room at the cross for all

13:47

of us, that all of us got something, and

13:50

to make your something bigger than my something

13:52

is to miss how Big, the

13:55

love and grace of God is we got more

13:57

over? Kirk Franklin coming up next. It's the Breakfast Club,

14:00

The Breakfast Club. What's

14:04

episode You're like, Ye, it's the Breakfast Club and we have

14:06

Kirk Franklin in the building now, Charlomagne,

14:08

you have a question, how do you approach it when it comes

14:11

to, you know, being in a certain

14:13

position now, But then people want to pull up stuff

14:15

from ten years ago, fifteen years ago. I'm

14:17

fine. You might have said things, you might have tweeted.

14:20

I'm fine with that. I'm fine with that. I'm

14:22

fine with talking about the

14:24

broken parts of my life. I'm fine

14:26

with talking about how I'm trying to grow. I'm

14:28

trying to get right. I listen. I could

14:30

impress you talking about accomplishments, but

14:32

I can impact you talking about my mistakes.

14:36

Yeah, that's amazing. You said

14:38

something like that, you said in twenties. Everything you said, Millennials, we're

14:40

leaving the church because we showed them our scriptures without

14:42

showing them my scars and man and man.

14:45

People want to see the Gospel before

14:47

they read it, and we've

14:49

got to do better. That's why I'm very grateful,

14:52

Like as Big as y'all are life. You know, for

14:55

y'all just allowed you know, somebody like me come

14:57

through or call come through or Divon

14:59

come through or John you know,

15:01

you know, like like you know, like this is the

15:03

breakfast club. You know, people need that word.

15:06

You gotta be a balance of ratchingness and righteousness. But

15:08

yeah, but y'all got to do it though,

15:10

you know what I'm saying, Wow, I feel like

15:12

God all punishmen. I

15:14

feel like when you got a platform and you know

15:17

they say, when you know you got a platform and you're

15:19

you got a big stick in media, you control the minds

15:21

of the massage. You can't. You can't just

15:23

keep giving them and

15:25

we need it. So if we need it, then

15:27

we feel like our audience needs it as well. That's

15:29

where it starts right there. If people

15:32

and culture can find the things that people

15:34

are doing and the things that you see

15:36

that they don't have to do, let's make

15:38

that big. Let's make that huge. So let's

15:40

celebrate because I'm telling you, man, what are our

15:42

kids going to do in the world that if they make a

15:44

mistake, they get canceled? And

15:46

then what about when it comes around at your time

15:48

and you make a mistakes everybody around

15:51

your time. Everybody gets dude, everybody

15:53

gets a turn to fall. But that's what growth

15:55

is about, falling right. You

15:57

are who you are. It's the bi part of

16:00

all of your lessons. It's Kurk Franklin loved himself.

16:02

Because you talk about albumselves and feeling like

16:04

if you didn't sell a certain amount of rent, have no validation.

16:07

Yeah, yeah, because Kurt Franklin loved himself.

16:09

Like what gives you validation now? Like true

16:11

validation my kids, my kids

16:13

and my wife, but because you know, they ain't getting

16:16

paid to you

16:18

know what I'm saying, Ain't no woman gonna stay with you twenty

16:21

three years so much that she's proud of you and believe

16:23

in you if she don't not after no twenty

16:25

three years, maybe the first you know, maybe remember the first

16:27

twenty three months. Maybe maybe

16:29

right early on.

16:31

Boy, boy, did I take her through

16:34

a lot. But I mean she married a bipolar

16:36

Christian, you know what I'm saying, And you know, I

16:38

just I did not know how to do it. Like my

16:41

wife comes from up well, it's not a perfect

16:43

family. But like my wife's daddy,

16:45

like man he is tripolo g

16:48

I mean you know, I mean just a loving

16:50

man. Like he married Tammy's mama,

16:52

and Tammy's mama already had a you know, like

16:54

three kids, and then you know, and

16:56

and and he was taking care of his

16:58

four kids. And so when they got married,

17:01

they had like seven kids, and he was

17:03

at every one of their games, just super dude.

17:05

And so she came to the table a

17:08

more healthier person, and she taught

17:10

me how to fly. We had we had yg

17:12

up here. I watched that. That was powerful. What

17:15

did you think of that? Like, you know, he questioned it? Yeah, how

17:17

home girls, Kendrick g called me out today, like don't you ever question

17:19

God? What loving father

17:22

would turn away questions from

17:24

their children? Right? Yeah, this is

17:26

a dark Yeah, it wouldn't be reality if every

17:28

time something misport any type of misfortune

17:30

happened, you automatically just accepted

17:32

it as God's will. Yeah,

17:35

And I see that's that's the thing. What Angela you said

17:37

is exactly what I'd be. My point is, I'm like, I

17:39

think sometimes things are just the absence of God,

17:41

Like like somebody is submitting their will to the devil,

17:44

you know, like somebody walking to you with the gun right now and blows your brains

17:46

out. I don't think that was God's will for you.

17:49

Wow, wow, wow. You know that's

17:51

some deep water. But because when you talk

17:53

about the sovereignty of God and and

17:56

and why God allows bad things

17:58

to happen to good people, I don't

18:00

always know why. And I'm not going to

18:03

take away the pain and anguish

18:05

the people go through when a mother

18:07

loses her child is I don't think that

18:09

that's the time to talk about, well, Heaven

18:11

needed another angela. It's like, that's

18:14

just the most ignorant thing. Yeah,

18:16

yeah, you know, But but you know, what I've learned,

18:19

and what I don't know doesn't

18:21

cancel out what I do know. We

18:23

live in the now. We don't know what will be

18:25

revealed as ten twenty thirty years from now,

18:27

why this happened, why that happened, and how all

18:30

things are working together for good. Because we are

18:32

living in twenty nineteen, God

18:34

is already in two thousand and ninety, you

18:36

know what I'm saying. And we don't know how the pain of

18:38

then will be the beautiful

18:41

platform for something else later on. We

18:43

don't know. But while we're here, we're

18:46

to weep with those that weep, rejoice

18:48

with those that rejoice and more, and with those that more, I

18:50

love to titily you knew album Long Live Love, just because

18:52

that's why I'm so big on the mental health thing, because I feel

18:54

like, you know, brothers don't love it. And I've been so

18:57

proud of you, man, bro, I've been so

18:59

proud. Well, I'm proud of all y'all man, just

19:01

watching y'all, you know, but I'm so proud

19:04

because I've seen mental

19:06

health attech my family. I've seen mental

19:08

health people try to shout it away, try

19:11

to speak and tongue it away, and you

19:13

abody and soul and so to

19:15

be able to minister to the whole

19:18

man, it's the right thing to do. And so

19:20

I've been very proud of y'all man, and yeah, long

19:22

Live Love. Yet we gotta love each

19:24

other the more we gotta. We gotta tell our brothers we valued

19:26

and we appreciate them. Yes, yes, do

19:28

that, Yes, But congratulations on your consistency

19:32

and your career. We always appreciate you coming through.

19:34

Fask you love

19:37

Right now is Kirk Franklin is the breakfast Club.

19:40

It's topic time called

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eight hundred and five eight five one oh five Want to join?

19:48

It to the discussion with the Breakfast Club, talk

19:51

about it wanting everybody

19:53

is DJ Envy and Jela

19:55

Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast

19:57

Club. Now if you just joined us, we're talking about

20:00

all in an older woman auntie or

20:02

mama. Now, this came from a conversation from

20:04

Oprah Gail and actually

20:07

actually it came from Van Layton's Red Pill

20:09

podcast. Dubai

20:11

was on it and she said that she don't like to be called

20:14

auntie, right, and then she also

20:16

had referenced that in Old Magazine. She

20:19

said, I cringe being called auntie or mama

20:21

by anybody other than my nieces or god

20:24

children. That's what Oprah said, except if

20:26

I'm in Africa, where it's a custom for everybody

20:28

to refer to anyone older as sister or auntie,

20:30

depending on the age difference. Now, listen,

20:32

if they don't want to be called something, you

20:34

have to respect it. I also

20:37

feel like if it's a tradition in Africa, and I

20:39

don't see what the problem is with us as black

20:42

people using it over here. But my biggest problem

20:44

with this whole conversation is I just don't like

20:46

them putting a negative stigma on the word auntie.

20:48

Like the word auntie is not old,

20:51

you know what. I don't call anybody auntie

20:53

or any of those things. But I'm also not the type of person

20:55

to call somebody that's my sister, that's

20:58

my brother, unless it really is. But that's is how

21:00

I've always been, Like I don't really call people of

21:02

family members if they're not really my

21:05

family members. Well I have, I have, I have

21:07

a lot of sisters, and I called my brothers

21:09

brothers because they're all my brothers, like even if they're not,

21:11

even if I don't mean it in that way, I'm just saying, yo, what's up brother?

21:13

Are you doing? Brother? How are you doing? Sister? How you doing? Sistein

21:15

in that way. But I just don't think that the word auntie

21:18

is synonymous with old like tailors and the tailors twenty

21:20

six years old. She's somebody's aunt you know what I'm saying.

21:22

So why are you putting a negative stigma of oldness

21:24

on the word auntie. I don't understand

21:27

that. I agree with you, and I don't think auntie's

21:29

disrespectful, even Mama on mine. I don't think it's

21:31

just they don't like it. I see your mom, I call

21:33

your mamma, hey mine when I see it. And by

21:35

the way, I think that's disrespectful. Y'all know I'm a Pinkett

21:37

Smith. When three knows called it. You know what I'm saying. I love Oprah,

21:40

I love Gail. They're sixty something

21:42

years old, like they're

21:44

old. Like they can get free pancakes that I hope.

21:46

Like that's what it is. What it is, what Gail

21:49

got one more years. So it don't matter. No, fifty

21:52

five, babifty five, that's

21:54

what I called my boot I call them bab fifty

21:56

five. You known

21:59

call them about the bag, all right. Now, that's one thing,

22:01

that's one thing I just don't do, all right, But

22:04

fifty five can get pa what I'm

22:06

saying, It don't matter, like they're

22:08

like they got to get to the point where they're just day. I have to

22:10

accepting of the fact they are the elders. You

22:13

understand what I'm saying. Now, Ava is only

22:15

forty six, so I can understand her feeling

22:17

a way that they lumping her with the Oprahs

22:19

and the Gaels because opening Gail sixty five, sixty

22:21

four years old, all right, but they are

22:23

the elders. So they're gonna get called Auntie, they're

22:25

gonna get called ogez. I bet you they don't like old

22:27

geez. I bet you if you're calling them, and

22:30

I think they do. They do a podcast

22:32

called the OG podcast. Oh

22:35

my god, it's somebody at own

22:37

that got them doing the OG podcast. And they think

22:39

OG stand for Opra and Gael. They

22:41

have no idea stand for old

22:44

gangsters. I guart ted, let's

22:46

go to hello,

22:49

who's this, suprena.

22:52

It's being called Auntie a mama disrespectful.

22:54

I feel like it is because a

22:57

lot of girls, like their posts are

22:59

in social media. You're like, oh, you're trying to dress

23:01

like you're you're trying to look like me and live

23:03

your best lives. Go sit down, Auntie,

23:06

and I'm thirty two looking older

23:08

than we sometimes so in that in that

23:10

form gonna be funny, it does sounds disrespectful.

23:13

Sit down Auntie here as

23:17

down at might get

23:20

looking crazy. I just got sound

23:22

disrespectful. Ain't that wrong? Understand

23:26

everything out for everybody, But in that sense,

23:28

it's disrespectful, So that it might be

23:30

that just sound disrespectful. I'm trying to

23:33

act. Sit down, Auntie, you look crazy

23:35

and that's fashion over, Auntie,

23:37

yea fashion

23:41

over. It's okay, Mama, Hello, who's this?

23:43

This is a yarn? Hey, Mama

23:46

on to somebody, Auntie, I say, Mama

23:48

all the time. I can't hope it. You can't

23:50

stop that disrespectful this

23:52

morning. I just want to say I agree with Charlomagne

23:55

of God, you know, it shouldn't be any negative

23:57

communication put on the word auntie

23:59

or mom, you know what I mean, and especially

24:02

finished from our culture, you know, from our

24:04

ancestors and ask for us. We should

24:06

bring it over to this state to represent. But

24:08

Charlemagne, I do go get on do this morning though

24:11

you know we're saying that UM able

24:13

to do what they need to separate yourselves from

24:15

UM, Gail and Oprah because

24:17

they might be the ones that's old old.

24:19

You gotta find more user friendly

24:22

words, you feel me like chore like

24:27

like we got we gotta knock this off, like

24:30

all means it's and old as that there's no it

24:32

shouldn't be negative connotations on the word old

24:34

either, like you're old, dirt age,

24:37

we all age. We can't fight that. But you

24:39

know, like I'm forty five years old,

24:41

I got a sudden twenty nine, and

24:43

he likes to say that I'm old. Noah, im

24:46

old. I just had you at a young age. How about

24:48

experience, experience. I guarantee

24:50

you. If Abra Dovane was trying to explain

24:53

this that you and as it turned out over here,

24:55

known mean you old? I old you old?

24:57

You almost thirty years old? Right, listen, I

25:00

guarantee you. If Able was trying to explain this situation,

25:02

she wouldn't say, look, I'm forty six opening

25:04

yellow way more mature than me. No, she would

25:06

say, but forty six opening yellow

25:08

twenty years older than me, years

25:11

more mature than oh god, okay,

25:15

right, all right, why are you hanging up on the mature

25:18

lady? Man? Matureity don't got to let to do it. Age.

25:20

You could be a sixty year old person,

25:23

hang up on the mama. You could be a seventy year old

25:25

and I didn't hang up on her. You could be a seventy year old and mature

25:28

person. Okay, you know after the age eight.

25:30

Maturity don't gotta do it age, goodness

25:32

gracious, all right. We got rumors on the way through us,

25:34

and the moral of the story is it's

25:36

not what they call you. It's

25:39

about that date. Your answer to when your goddamn birth certificate?

25:41

All right, okay, if you're

25:43

born in the forties, you're born in the forties. Accepted. All

25:46

right, Well, thank you, Auntie Charlotte. I'm uncle

25:48

Charline. Guess what. I can't wait. I love

25:50

it. I'm I'm telling you so

25:52

many people dying young and don't get the chance to be

25:55

called uncoln man,

25:57

please, I don't know. I'm just happy to be alive. Call

25:59

me what you want to call me, but call me alive. That's it,

26:02

old ass alive. I

26:06

can't damn, I can't wait

26:08

with me down. Wait, oh man, when I get we get a T shirt

26:10

that the old ass alive. Wait,

26:12

Tim, I

26:16

just hope my kids don't put me in the big baggy jeans.

26:18

Just keep me out of the big baggy jeans. Now address

26:21

yourself, Envy, all right, keep

26:24

it lock. We have more coming up next. It's the breakfast

26:26

Club, the breakfast Club morning.

26:31

Everybody's DJ mvy

26:34

angela Ye, Charlomagne, the guy we all

26:36

the breakfast club. I'm kind of confused this morning at

26:38

this next guest, Why are you confused? Last time he

26:40

came up his post malone. Yes, the time

26:42

before that he was Takashi six nine,

26:44

I thought he was gonna come up as Kodak Black today,

26:46

Nah, Joseph Sakora today,

26:58

Jarry, old ladies, Jerry, what up?

27:01

What up? Happen? Often

27:03

you get mistaken Jou. I see it happened on social

27:05

media. But my god, Now I went to um.

27:07

I went to Essence last year down New Orleans,

27:09

and that's what I figured out. I said, when black

27:11

women get really drunk, I turned into

27:14

Tommy from Power. Wow. I never got

27:16

stopped so much Tommy

27:18

Tommy, And I'm like, I'm not him there st

27:20

here. You ain't got the scared time. You

27:22

know I'm not. I'm not him. You think he gets mistaken

27:24

for you? Also, I bet, I bet

27:27

I like I

27:30

look like his older brother, like he was a freshman. I

27:32

was a senior in high school. That's what it looks like. Did

27:34

you pay your taxes? Man?

27:37

Nothing hurts to

27:39

bring bring an interview down? Angel?

27:42

How much the oe? How much you ended up having to cook?

27:45

I do want to talk about it? Man? Huh

27:48

is that crazy? Yeah? It's a lot better

27:50

or worse for you than previously, because I see a lot of people

27:52

talking about how it's harder to pay your taxes

27:55

with alling more money, but some people got tax

27:57

breaks. We got a lot of overhead though, comedians,

27:59

because we write off. You know, we got we got airline

28:01

tickets and hotels and clothes

28:06

personalities. Do you guys can do that? Yeah,

28:08

there's a lot of write off. So if you got a good accountant,

28:10

you guys can work. Let the record show Gary, you

28:12

didn't schedule this interview till late last night. Now

28:14

I know why you needed to be here to promote

28:17

your upcoming shows and make sure they're so allowed to get some

28:19

of that money back. You ain't lying, yea, Yeah, I'm

28:21

out this weekend. I'm at Harra's Yeah, and

28:23

Atlantic City on Friday, and then Saturday,

28:25

I'm at the NJ Pack and Newark

28:28

Okaye near Newark. That

28:31

right, I feel like y'all could get so much his

28:33

comedian to do it that you don't have to report a lot.

28:35

Don't say that on the we're

28:38

talking about. I don't know what you're

28:40

talking about. I'm legal, Yeah, all the way

28:42

I put in my contract check only. Don't

28:46

give me no cash, bro, I don't want no kickbacks.

28:48

What were you doing that essence, just hanging

28:50

out people. I'm

28:54

just hanging out, man, I go to essence. Yeah,

28:57

can't you go to essence? Yes you can't. But what I mean? Were you

29:00

performing? Are you just? Nah? I actually I had a

29:02

show. I had a show like hour and a

29:04

half away, and I was like, I'm

29:06

just gonna go drive over to New Orleans see what

29:08

it's all about. So I just went over there and hung out

29:10

for a couple of hours. Yeah. I really do

29:12

hang with black people in this free time. I love black people.

29:15

Yeah, I love them, oh

29:19

without question? Yeah. Yeah, That's why I was like,

29:21

I'd rather do your show than like the Tonight

29:23

Show. Really, Kimmel, I

29:25

get more out of the Breakfast Club than I would that. We're

29:28

Stephen Colbert without question.

29:30

Yeah, you guys really are like the hip hop early

29:32

morning late night talk show. Like everybody

29:34

want to get on Carson back of the day nowadays.

29:37

I bet you more comedians, especially black

29:39

comedians, were rather do the Breakfast Club than

29:41

Kimmel. I would you get more out

29:43

of it? What am I gonna going Kim and be like hey I met

29:46

NJ Pack Wow? Not really move the dial,

29:48

you know what I mean? Like you gout like, I

29:51

guarantee me being all this gonna it's gonna sell

29:53

some tickets. We're doing fine, it's gonna be

29:55

packed, but it's gonna be packed. Let

29:57

me ask you this, what happened with the ho Delta situation

30:00

with your wife. I saw you. I couldn't

30:02

because I want to hear about Delta. That's

30:05

not delta. It was an employee

30:07

at gay B twenty one on the particular day.

30:12

I'll don't forget. I mean, I flat it since the all the time.

30:14

But my my wife is in line and she always

30:16

gets in line early because she wants to overhead

30:18

space. Say

30:21

so, she's in line and you know, the guy

30:23

goes, mamor you on first, and she was like she

30:26

was like yes, and then she sat there for a second. She

30:28

was like I should let this go, but she couldn't because

30:30

there was like all white dudes next to her. She

30:32

goes, am, I the one you're gonna ask. He goes yeah,

30:35

and then she goes, cool, you're not gonna ask all.

30:37

He goes no, and she's like why not. He goes

30:39

come, don't have to. And then when she gave the guy

30:41

her ticket, he was like oh and I wasn't profiling you either,

30:44

say it. He said it, he was pushing it. Yeah, So

30:46

then I I she's from since San

30:48

Francisco. My daughter's with her.

30:50

So I picked him up and I could tell she was a little

30:53

aggravated. I thought I did something when I picked

30:55

her up. Right.

31:00

Also, I'm on, I'm on, I'm on boss up,

31:02

I'm on World stor googling

31:06

your name to make sure. Okay, And

31:08

then my daughter's in the back, and my daughter's

31:10

the military one of the family. She's sixteen, but

31:12

I call her Kennedy Kaepernick because whatever

31:15

cause. She goes to get ready then

31:17

protesting the marchesa But she's like, tell

31:19

him, Mom, tell him, I go tell

31:21

me what she goes? Tell him. I was like,

31:23

what tell him? Since she tells me a story

31:25

that my daughter's like, what are you gonna do? A bad dan? White

31:29

people do make a pose. I'm

31:31

gonna talk about it.

31:33

Did they out? Yeah, immediately

31:35

to reach out to me, and they said they're gonna send

31:38

a nice little gift. We haven't received anything yet,

31:40

but they said they're gonna. And then they they

31:42

got ahold of the guy, and I don't know what happened.

31:45

Well, if you're at BEAT twenty one in Cincinnati,

31:48

all people know who it was. I have people reach out

31:50

to me that worked for the airline.

31:52

It was like, that's how he is. So when you see the

31:54

guy, what is Gary Owen gonna

31:56

do as a husband? What are you gonna do when you see home? What at

31:59

B twenty one? You didn't know what it is called

32:03

my wife's cousin. That's

32:07

a good thing about being in a black family. Everybody

32:09

got some good old cousins. He ain't talking

32:11

calling my wife cousins on your trust.

32:13

I know Brock and Michelle got some good old cousins. Brand

32:16

you know Michelle

32:19

we here definitely Michelle.

32:22

Did your daughter you say she's like a little activist

32:24

into making? Does she always demand

32:26

her daddy use her his privilege? Bad

32:29

prejudice talking about

32:32

Charlotte question you guys, You

32:34

guys, at least you know what you're getting

32:38

that was coming. But she don't never challenge you like daddy.

32:40

This is how it is. Nah.

32:43

Oh'm good, I'm on the good one. I'm on the good white guy.

32:45

Yeah, you know I would have been if I was in twelve

32:48

years slave, I would have been Brad Pitt I would have

32:50

been the one to be like, you know what, I

32:52

gotta call somebody says it right,

32:54

come on, finish making

32:58

he's doing the whip or not. I'm like, how you're going? Gary,

33:06

Guys, we got to find different way.

33:10

Now. You've also commented on Kodak Black

33:12

on your podcast, and we've been watching this back and forth

33:14

with him and Ti. I know so telling

33:17

now because in

33:20

special needs and even she goes he little

33:22

flow for Florida.

33:24

No, he's slow, he's difference. He's

33:27

slow. He got some he

33:29

whoever is in his corner making some of them beats.

33:31

That's the real MVP. Come

33:35

on now, I'll get put off my

33:37

community where he said

33:41

the way he said community, it's like, oh

33:43

my god, you ain't Brandt.

33:46

I'll be I'm my community

33:50

like white men talking about him now, like we're gonna run

33:52

into each other. Am I going

33:54

to be the

34:00

black women they got them back Cincinnati one?

34:03

Yeah? I might both be there

34:06

anywhere. In comedian, I'd be like, my fault, dude,

34:10

I'm different. Alright, we have more with comedian

34:12

Gary. Oh when we come back, don't move. It's to

34:14

breakfast club. Good morning morning, everybody.

34:16

It's DJ Envy Angela

34:19

yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast

34:21

Club. We're still kicking it with Gary Owen

34:23

Ye. So you know we've been talking about Kardak Black.

34:26

He has a new song called Expeditiously right

34:28

where he's going out expeditiously.

34:31

But he can say, but do

34:33

you think that Tian needs to just ignore this

34:36

now or how do you resolve a situation with

34:38

this back and forth? Because now Cardak's going at wife

34:40

ugly, oh my god, kids Yeah,

34:44

whoa, yeah, well he's really going in. Yeah,

34:47

I'm out of that coming

34:55

make fun of have fun, comedian. You

34:58

don't go out to people's kids. And that's my

35:00

point, Nap for Tia to leave it alone. Tia

35:02

have the grown man in this situation. You're not gonna

35:04

throw it away for Kodak Black exactly.

35:07

Yeah, yeah, you just had the what

35:09

what was the movie The Trap just come

35:11

out on Netflix? Yeah, I watched

35:14

it, calling it there's not gonna

35:16

be the Trap two. I'm calling it

35:20

that's the one that's not gonna

35:22

be a Friday. Serious. I love

35:24

Mike, but that was

35:27

like The Trap. Look, it was come on Now.

35:31

There was one see where Mike was talking

35:33

and it was

35:36

like a bad portough like he

35:38

was talking about movie like it was

35:40

I think hit at this time on

35:44

it could be it's gonna address you expeditiously

35:47

above. Look,

35:49

am I am I being I'm not being hitter. I'm

35:51

just being honest. I watched it. I haven't seen

35:54

a they wing that they that's

36:00

what they giving you a part in it, Gary, I would have taken

36:02

it. And with that question, I feel like this, Yes,

36:04

it's great. I

36:07

would have been right there making fun of myself like

36:09

I didn't. I didn't. Uh, you know, we didn't beat the

36:12

Blacks too. I heard about it. Man,

36:15

Dean's killing it right now. But I died

36:17

in the first one. Like I died. I'm

36:19

not trying to ruin it. It's been out three years, but I died

36:21

in the first one. Dion, the director

36:24

calls me like, geeve got good news. Baby got

36:26

picked up for me the Black Too. I go, great, But then I

36:28

died and the first one they go, yeah,

36:30

we don't worried about that. So

36:32

literally, when you speak the Blacks two, I'm playing

36:35

a different person that looks like the person

36:38

and nobody brings up that I was the person who

36:41

does that

36:43

but that's like dude boys and the

36:45

more chesters just walking on the street. Steve

36:51

back Woods

36:55

tackle was good people burning one bridge.

36:57

I'm sorry about that. I don't mean any of that smoke.

37:03

Right now, we were talking about

37:06

Tagle Wards. These people are saying that they shouldn't necessarily

37:08

congratulate Tiger Wards because he has such a strong

37:10

relationship which Trump. What's

37:12

that got to do with golf? Because you know how

37:14

people aren't consistent, Like some people that support

37:17

Trump, they don't support right, But

37:19

when it comes to Tiger, everybody's like, oh, okay,

37:21

he's great at golf. I'm not. I don't care

37:23

what people do outside of their

37:26

profession. Like if I watch a football game,

37:28

I'm watching it. You know, I want to know

37:30

what you do on the field. I don't care what you do off the field. You

37:32

still watching football? Yeah? I watching football?

37:35

What do you mean capinick gout this settlement?

37:37

Bro? You late? Oh yeah no, I still

37:39

want Yeah I

37:41

wasn't. I'm supporting Cap, but not

37:43

to that extent. I'm

37:46

sting man, I'm still watching

37:49

you know what I mean. Speaking

37:51

to my Midlitont daughter, she was like, in

37:53

my but like you you're watching football,

37:56

Dan, I'm not watching capiticks back in the league.

37:58

She just never wants football to begin with. Exactly, I'm

38:00

exactly. I was looking at like this. Okay, I want to watch it

38:02

on Tuesdays and Wednesdays thanks

38:06

to baby Steps. I'm with you.

38:08

My daughter got mad because I stood up during the national

38:11

anthem. You're just gonna stand I go. It's seventh

38:13

great volleyball game. Let's bring it down just a little bit.

38:16

There's eighteen people in this church. Did you watch

38:18

golf? I only watch from Tiger

38:20

plays. Okay, that's what I'm saying. A lot of people only

38:22

watch the numbers. The numbers went

38:24

up. I mean, it did great for the

38:26

game of golfer everyone, but it did get more black

38:28

people. And I woke

38:32

when it's kind of the tea time up. I

38:34

woke up early black and Tiger. I'm

38:36

definitely more black and Tiger. That's west up

38:39

question. You think, Oh my god, I

38:42

saw his kids. I got my

38:44

kids are darker than Tiger kids. Yeah.

38:48

I don't even understand golf. I've never watch golf

38:50

for my life. I watched it for time. I

38:53

learned golf because the Tiger Woods. Really

38:55

yeah, watch it. I know

38:57

what a birdie is, and I know if I'm playing

38:59

on a tenda we back in the day.

39:01

Yeah, that's how I know. No, I you

39:04

know people I don't care, I say, and

39:06

I don't care what people do once

39:08

they're off work. What about Kanye,

39:10

People were very upset about what he was doing right

39:13

as far as him supporting, But you didn't care about

39:15

that. Nah. I mean if I like his music,

39:17

I'll just listen to it every now. Kelly

39:19

was a little that's a little touching. Go though, that's

39:21

a little touching. Yeah. Really, I

39:23

don't think I'm gonna listen to him though. Well, it's hard to separate.

39:26

It's hard to deal with the new one to R Kelly because

39:28

a lot of his music reflects his action very sexual

39:30

true and his performances true. I

39:33

just wish you didn't have so many hits. Gosh,

39:35

I don't really like all Kelly like that. Bro, Like, there's

39:37

no ar Kelly song I have to listen to. Yeah,

39:39

I just didn't I watch that documentary. I didn't realize

39:41

how many hits he had post piss right.

39:44

It was right after he was outre Ignition

39:46

was pretty pissed. Nah, after whole

39:48

talklate Factory album. I didn't realize

39:50

he got a lot of he had a lot of hits. I believe I could fly before.

39:55

That's what made a hit because he had come up the Olympics and

39:57

he sung it at the Winter Olympics and Utah and everything,

39:59

and then all of a sudden and then the petape

40:02

came out. Man, thanks lifetime,

40:04

appreciate that. Do you think that the Tiger

40:07

really like overcame overcame

40:09

like obstacles though? What do I mean? That's what

40:11

they're saying, like he overcame a bunch of obstacles to regain

40:13

the masters. He just che wife. No, no,

40:16

no, he had like the three back surgeries physically,

40:23

what are you talking about? All that money?

40:26

Man? And that's mention that every expect

40:28

was saying that every

40:31

sports anals like it's done. He should give up,

40:33

he should retire, boom and then boom

40:35

shut down, clown. You do know a lot of that was

40:37

based off the fact he was black, though, so a

40:40

lot of those white uh sports anchors.

40:42

It's a lot of black white sports acers

40:44

never thought that he was. He should have been the face of

40:46

golf anyway. So when he started getting caught cheating.

40:49

They were looking at him like, oh he see, look at what type

40:51

of person he is. He shouldn't represent this sport. Oh

40:53

that's crazy. So the number

40:55

one athlete in his sport is

40:58

only sleeping with one woman. That never happened. That's

41:01

that's so stupid. When people get I think it's

41:03

so stupid. Guys in their early twenties,

41:06

they get a lot of money, a lot of fame.

41:09

Look, don't get married guys. That'd

41:11

be one advice I would give. Get it out of your system.

41:14

Dude, you know, twenty nine thirty and

41:16

then you might be ready. But how old were you when you got

41:18

married? It was twenty nine? Okay, you

41:20

can't. You can't be doing that. Man. Were

41:23

you all in your twenties? Oh man?

41:27

That was at all the summer jams. I

41:30

like this. Okay, okay, black street

41:45

shy, come run back at your baby. Oh

41:50

my god, I wasn't. I used

41:52

to go to all the black cubs by myself. I

41:55

used to when I was single. I would go to hip hop like

41:57

black Us by myself. People thought you thought

41:59

you a definitely, But I would dress

42:01

really white. That's how I meet black girls. I

42:03

wouldn't dress all hip hop dressing white

42:06

all dockers in

42:09

on my belt loop drinking like

42:12

a brew. I

42:14

was by myself and black girls always come up, why are you here?

42:16

Hey? Why are you here? They feel like you got

42:19

confidence. Man, anybody that you got that money.

42:21

I wouldn't go there. I wouldn't no money. Nah,

42:24

but uh yeah. We have more

42:26

with comedian Gary old when we come back, don't

42:28

move. It's the breakfast club. Good Morning, yea with Fat

42:31

Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy

42:33

Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy. We all

42:35

the breakfast Club. We're still talking with Gary Owen,

42:38

comedian Charlomagne. Do you do a lot of political comedy?

42:40

Nope, I'm not that bright. Just go to deal Hugleis Page.

42:43

Yeah, I was saying, one

42:45

know how I feel about pols. Just go to deal Lease

42:47

Instagram Paige, no

42:50

Trump jokes, no nothing, I can't. I'm not that smart,

42:52

dude. I'm just not that bright. I talk about

42:54

myself and my act, and you know, I'm

42:57

just not that bright. Deals always gets it. You're smarter

42:59

than me, d l smarter than me for sure

43:01

when it comes to politics. You know, I'll know if you're smarter.

43:04

Just computer you're a donkey

43:06

of the day, a little bit or a beast

43:08

at reading it research. I

43:11

know, don't you the day? And I've been thinking,

43:13

I've been thinking your freestyle, like, man, I'm

43:16

going and then i'd be watching it and oh

43:20

he reading this, Oh

43:24

you wrote you write it every day every

43:26

day. That's crazy. I can never on

43:30

my donkey of the day. This is my donkey the day. You

43:32

know, my dony day is cut up black. All

43:34

right. I've been I've

43:37

been to some big stand up shows where they got the prompt

43:39

out. Oh really yeah,

43:41

maybe having some jokes out. I can't do

43:43

it. You don't freestyle and stand up stick. I've

43:45

never writ a joke down in my life. Stop lying

43:48

a freestyle. But you

43:50

probably had the outline of in your head. You got

43:52

your jokes your head because you're on stage, okay,

43:57

whatever, whatever, Hey,

44:00

it is real in here. Man. I

44:02

just can't believe I'm that good. Just see

44:04

you to believe you've never written a joke down, not not

44:06

written a joke. It's in my head, right, give me

44:09

something right now, give a boom. It's not right

44:16

now. I

44:19

write, don't know. I think writing

44:21

is a great skill. It is you dot a lot

44:23

of money. Right, That's why I'm able to write book. That's why IM able

44:25

to write scripts. That's good man,

44:28

Well, I just tell jokes you

44:31

want to You want to know who didn't never write her trap?

44:39

Look, I like all those guys. Let's

44:42

just let's be honest when you

44:44

watch it. I thought movies that weren't that great.

44:46

You know, man, the College

44:48

that a movie called College that was the only movie

44:51

my dad was all white and it tanked people

44:53

like you can do the black stuff and those legs. I do a

44:55

white movie and nobody when I saw it, I go whoop, back to the

44:57

black, back back to

44:59

the audience made me watch the Trap. Man, I meant

45:01

to watch it already. I gotta watch it. Listen. It's

45:03

a funny movie if you're just hanging onto. I

45:07

did not say trash and not say whack. It's

45:10

not gonna wint to be to award. He said,

45:13

it's not gonna be a part too. If anybody gets

45:15

dominated for End of baysb Image Award. It was

45:17

a slower and entertainment, That's what I'm saying.

45:19

It wasn't on Netflix, what network would have been on TV

45:22

one. I

45:26

like all those guys. Man, we're all

45:28

friends, but I'm gonna be honest with them.

45:30

Oh boy, come on now, So

45:32

gay, what do you think of Kim Kara dash and being a lawyer she

45:36

likes can't be

45:38

can't be sleeping with your clients. She's

45:40

bad? My god, what you

45:42

just assuming a hard client's gonna be black? I didn't

45:44

think it's gonna be a criminal lawyer. Sorry,

45:48

you guys agree? Oh

45:51

I didn't just assume that too. Get my brain.

45:55

Black clients, you

45:59

know, white guys, come on here, people, come on. They tried

46:01

to deny what was in their brain. Just

46:03

rend my brain. What were you saying our clients coming black?

46:05

Oh my god, did you just read my brain? But she could

46:07

You could flip that and say she's an entertainment

46:10

lawyer. She's representing rappers. True

46:12

boom, real talk a gun

46:15

get ready boom. No, I

46:17

think she's in a good place. Would you hire Kim Kardashian

46:19

as the lawyer? No? I would

46:22

not hire Kim Kardashian. I

46:24

just wouldn't. I just I'm not gonna risk

46:26

it. Maybe after like ten years where she's established

46:28

herself, but I'm not gonna be her first client. Remember her

46:30

dad was a lawyer. Right, my dad

46:32

drove a FedEx truck. I'm not delivering your mail. What

46:35

is that gonna do with I would trust you to deliver

46:38

doing anything. Who your dad was, he

46:42

was a construction worker and he sould crack boom,

46:45

whoa what

46:47

about you? Vy? My possive police officer? Police

46:49

officer? And look where he's at. Maybe just an interviewing

46:52

criminals all day. Another

46:54

white moment, but

46:58

you know you're robbing him? By man, what

47:02

do you think criminals?

47:05

Oh my god, you guys, I

47:09

can't. I'm

47:12

never working again. Thank you, guys, appreciate

47:14

this. Byron all your

47:19

stuff? Man, Byron,

47:22

you be a don't meteorolog? Just on the Weather Channel. Byron

47:25

on the Weather Channel all he does, right, dude,

47:27

people don't know that dude's bawling. Were

47:30

bawling Byron Allen

47:32

is balling. I had a meeting

47:34

with him. I was like, oh my god, this dude's so sharp.

47:37

He knows exactly who he is. A lot of peoplen't know

47:39

who they are in his business. He knows exactly

47:41

his lane where he's gonna se seed. And that

47:43

dude, man, he's smart. He brought the Weather

47:45

Channel with three hundred million dollars. Yeah, I should tell

47:48

you everything. We're calling him

47:50

like black, people were calling him like square.

47:53

Yeah, really exactly, that's a square.

47:56

That's the kind of black dude that I want my daughter dating.

47:59

Right, My are like stug dudes. Okay, she's

48:03

sixteen. Oh it's awful. Is

48:05

she bringing any of her boyfriend's home to meet you? No?

48:08

No, they're all gay. Every time

48:10

she talks to her guy, I'm like, he gay. That's

48:14

gay. Yeah, Rick's gay, Charles

48:18

is gay. This is what we're

48:20

gonna do. Is every rapper and artist you mentioned

48:22

in this interview and comedian we're gonna put the

48:24

name. And he gave gang black

48:27

gay gay.

48:32

You guys, give a splice. I'm just giving you just

48:35

create this

48:38

week. But she got Kelly Kay even

48:41

mention him. I don't know why I brought him up.

48:47

I met Harris Atlantic City.

48:50

Hey, look who here he gay?

48:54

Hey? We want but listen, Hey, you were

48:56

awesome in the tray on

49:05

the phone. Right now. Man, there's

49:07

no way Dall read that script and goes make sure

49:09

I'm in this. There

49:12

was no script, was it? Man?

49:16

You want to air Man movie

49:19

is a great movie, you

49:23

know, what Mike,

49:28

amazing movie, amazing

49:32

cast. That's

49:36

when you know they're lying that when when guys

49:38

starts staying amazing, the movie sucks.

49:40

What do you go? We have an amazing cast with an amazing

49:43

right, even Duke ball out when he

49:45

goes to trap you come

49:47

on now staying obvious? What

49:52

do you think? What do you think? I must

49:55

think people got paid off the trap to

50:00

drink Menday,

50:06

it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Slemaine

50:09

say the gang. Don't get the shape

50:11

man you are, talk

50:18

you today, Do not discriminate. I might

50:20

not have the song of today, but I got to donkey that. If

50:22

you ever feel I need to be a donkey man, hit

50:25

it with the Breakfast

50:27

Club bitches. They just don't give today today,

50:30

Talk you today for Tuesday. June fourth goes

50:32

to a woman named Linda Fairstein.

50:35

That name may ring a bell for some of you right

50:37

now, but I have no idea why her last name is

50:39

Ferristein when there's nothing fair about her. In

50:41

fact, her middle name should be don't play, because

50:44

Linda don't play fair sneed by now

50:46

you all should have watched when they see us on Netflix,

50:48

The latest masterpiece from Queen Abra

50:50

duven A trough in the clues bomb for Abra Duvena.

50:53

Anybody doing activism through

50:56

art better than Ava right now, Jesus,

50:58

God bless avall right't God blessed Quena.

51:00

She is truly making making a difference on this planet.

51:02

It is very inspiring. But we're not here

51:04

to talk about gods are righting

51:07

goddesses this morning. We're here to talk about

51:09

devils and Linda fasteing. Linda,

51:11

don't play fasting. It's indeed a devil. Oh. She

51:13

has allowed Satan to use her in a way I have never

51:16

seen see. Satan loves mayonnaise. Satan

51:18

puts mayonnaise on everything. Ninety percent of all

51:21

evils in the world have too

51:23

much goddamn mayonnaise on them. Okay, too much

51:25

mayonnaise ruins everything, all right.

51:27

You need just enough, not a lot, just enough. Too

51:29

much of it ruins any dish, all right.

51:32

Too much mayonnaise makes tuna disgusting.

51:34

Too much mayonnaise makes potato salad disgusting.

51:37

Too much mayonnaise makes any sandwich disgusting.

51:39

And that's exactly why Satan loves to spread

51:42

the evil that is mayonnaise. Everywhere

51:44

because he wants to ruin things. Now

51:47

the human jar of helmets we are discussing today.

51:49

Linda Don't Play Fairstein. She was the

51:51

former Assistant DA and head of the Sex Crimes

51:54

Unit of the County of New York from nineteen seventy

51:56

six to two thousand and two, and she oversaw

51:59

the process of the Central Park jogger

52:01

case. Oversaw is a great word for what she did

52:04

in this case because she moved like an

52:06

overseer. Overseers were

52:08

paid to get the most work out of the slaves.

52:10

Therefore, overseers often resorted

52:12

to whatever means were necessary to get

52:14

what they wanted out of slaves. And the case of

52:16

Linda Don't Play fair Steam, she was

52:19

an overseer who resorted to whatever

52:21

means were necessary to wrongly convict

52:24

five kids, Okay five Raymond

52:26

Santana, Kevin Richardson, Corey Wise

52:29

use of Salam and Antroon McCray,

52:31

who were wrongfully convicted for the rape and assault

52:33

of a twenty eight year old woman in Central

52:35

Park. Now, there was no evidence tying them

52:37

to the crime, and at the time the young

52:39

men were fourteen, fifteen, sixteen,

52:42

respectively, and they spent six and thirteen

52:44

years in prison before a serial rapist by

52:46

the name of Matias Rays admitted

52:48

to committing the assault in two thousand and two.

52:50

Now, if you've seen When They See Us on Netflix,

52:52

and you know that the overseer, Linda Don't

52:55

play fair, Steam demanded law enforced me

52:57

to build the case around these innocent young men.

52:59

In fact, her exact quote from When They See Us

53:01

is every young black male

53:03

who was in the park last night is a suspect

53:06

in the rape of that woman who was fighting for

53:08

her life. By the way, don't think that quote

53:10

is a one time thing, all right. Might be my

53:13

own black paranoia, okay, my

53:15

black anoia, but I have a sneaky suspicion.

53:17

That is how they see us at all times. Every

53:20

black man in America period is a suspect

53:22

for something. That's why they profile us the way

53:24

they do, because that's how they see us. All right.

53:26

We have a target on our backs at all times, the

53:29

exact same way. Almost immediately, every

53:31

young black male who was in Central Park that night had

53:33

a target on their back. And if you saw When

53:35

they see us, you know that Linda

53:37

Don't play Fairistein was accused of

53:40

leading intimidation efforts to generate false

53:42

confessions from these young men white

53:46

people. Linda don't play Fairstein

53:48

should embarrass you if you are white and

53:51

watched when they see Us and you didn't feel disgusted,

53:53

disturbed, angry at the way Linda don't

53:55

play Fairistein and the rest of those devils

53:57

in that law enforcement treated those

54:00

young brothers, then you probably got Manna's pumping

54:02

in your vericle's veins too. Now, what

54:04

is the reason we are all gathered here today? Well,

54:07

if you know anything about the history of overseers who oversaw

54:09

the plantation and oversaw the slaves, they sometimes

54:12

would drive the overseer off the plantation.

54:14

Oh yeah, and we so often slaves would get

54:16

fed up and forced the overseer off the plantation.

54:18

And that's exactly what happened yesterday. Because

54:21

almost thirty years later, after watching

54:23

When they See Us, people are calling for a

54:25

boycott of Linda Fairsteam's books and

54:27

demanding that Amazon and other retailers remove

54:30

her novels from their shelves. Who

54:32

in here feels sorry for her show of hands? Not

54:35

a goddamn hand in the room raised? All

54:37

right, let's listen to what one of the victims,

54:40

Raymond Santana, told TMZ about

54:42

Linda don't play fairsteam in nineteen

54:45

eighty nine, when all those articles are written about us

54:47

in the first two weeks of this case, and ninety

54:49

percent of those articles never mentioned alleged.

54:52

That was the backlash that we receive, and now

54:54

she's receiving it. When you do dirt, you

54:56

can't run no matter how long it is. The truth

54:58

comes out. And even though thirty years later,

55:01

she has to pay for her crime, whether it's

55:03

in the courtroom or whether it's socially,

55:06

it is what it is. So at the end of the day,

55:08

there is no correction for her. There is no

55:10

saying I'm sorry. We don't want an apology

55:13

from her. You know, she has to pay

55:15

the consequence. She has to pay for her crimes,

55:18

simple as that. I mean, it was indeed a crime, all

55:20

right, the real crime Linda wasn't

55:22

interested in solving, all right. Linda was interested

55:25

in sending five minutes in black men to prison called

55:27

crime they didn't commit. Her hatred for black

55:29

people trumped her love for her own

55:32

gender. I repeat, her hatred

55:34

for black people trumped her love for

55:36

her own genders. She's so anti black

55:39

that she forgot to be pro woman, because if she

55:41

actually cared about this young woman being sexually

55:43

assaulted, she would have spent that time, that energy,

55:46

and those resources on finding the real

55:48

perpetrator. My ts Raised, whose

55:50

DNA was found at the crime scene. Yes, the DNA

55:53

at the crime didn't match any of the five

55:55

black young men Linda s into prison, but it

55:57

did match my tars Raised, who at

55:59

the time of his confession was serving a life

56:01

sentence for raping three other women

56:04

near Central Park in addition to raping

56:06

and killing a pregnant woman. Oh but

56:09

Tiers Rags was a serial rapist. But tis

56:11

Raised, four months after the Central Park rape, raped

56:13

a woman in her Upper east Side apartment. That woman

56:15

got away and the superintendent of the building

56:18

was able to hold my Tears down, and he played guilty

56:20

to raping her, two other women and raping

56:22

and killing a fourth. If you keep in score, that's

56:24

five rips in total in two attempted rates.

56:26

Linda, don't play fast team. I don't know if

56:28

you realize it or not, but you are complicit in

56:31

any of those raps that he committed

56:33

after the Central Park rape because you had the opportunity

56:35

to remove the real threat off the street, but instead

56:38

you was too busy trying to convict five innocent

56:40

men. Now, I don't

56:42

know if you know you felt like you would rather

56:45

send five black men to jail instead of one,

56:47

But for whatever reason, you ignored the real

56:49

threat, and that real threat continued to victimize

56:51

other women. Now, social media has been on Linda

56:54

Don't Play Fast Team's ass. Oh they

56:56

drove that overseas off the plantation Because

56:58

Lindon Don't Play Fast Team has deleted all

57:00

her social media Yes, after hashtag like

57:03

boycott Simon and shoot to win, viral and cancel

57:05

Linda fair Steam went viral, she has decided

57:08

to cancel her social media account

57:10

once again, raise your hand

57:12

if you feel sorry for her in this room, nobody

57:16

does. I don't feel sorry for her at

57:18

all. I've seen this play before. See what Linda

57:20

Fairsteam is gearing up do. I guarantee

57:23

is sue. That is what white privilege

57:25

entitled people do, even when they are dead

57:27

wrong. They sue when they should be holding

57:29

the mayonnaids. They decide to put mayonnaise on everything

57:32

and sue. She's gonna sue everyone involved,

57:34

and when they see us, she's gonna sue Netflix.

57:37

She's gonna sue queen A with Duvena, the studio

57:39

production company. She's gonna say this film caused

57:41

her emotional distress and mental anguish,

57:44

white privilege. People love the word anguish,

57:47

probably because it sounds like something you would buy it whole

57:49

foods. Can I get a turkey avocado

57:51

with anguish and Hillapino

57:53

mayonnaise? Lots of Hillapino mayonnaise?

57:56

All right, Linda is gonna claim she was traumatized

57:58

by when they see us and her life has become

58:00

a living hell because of this. Many series where you want

58:02

to talk trauma, Linda, you want to talk living hells.

58:04

Will meet Raymond, Kevin, Corey, Yusuf and and

58:07

Tron. You remember them, right? I mean, I'm sure you've

58:09

gotten so many innocent black and brown people sent away

58:11

for good, so it's hard to keep up. But you have to remember

58:13

these five, right. They were traumatized by your

58:15

actions. Their teenage years and most of their adult

58:18

lives were stolen from them. They had to live in a

58:20

hell in a cell. You know,

58:22

you want to talk about being traumatized, emotional

58:25

distress, mental anguish. Those brothers will never truly

58:27

be mentally healthy because of you. Lifetime

58:29

and therapy needed because of you, PTSD

58:32

anxiety depression forever because

58:34

of you. Reach out to one of them, sit down

58:36

and have a conversation with one of them so you can

58:38

really see in here with a victim. Sounds like because

58:41

Linda, don't play fairs team. You are not one,

58:43

all right. You don't get to play victim to a set of

58:45

circumstances that you created. I don't understand

58:47

how people don't respect the laws of karma. I

58:50

don't care who are what you are Karma

58:52

karma, Karma comes back to you hard word

58:54

to Lauren Hill. There is a natural law of karma

58:56

that vindictive people who go out of their way to hurt

58:58

others will end up real alone. I don't

59:01

know your circumstances, Linda, don't play fast team,

59:03

but it's not too late for you to end up broken

59:05

alone. And you deserve it. Okay, if you end

59:07

up broking alone, you earned it. You got

59:09

a mighty god to answer to, and there's no amount

59:12

of white woman weeping that can make anyone

59:14

feel sorry for you. You can whimple, snivel,

59:16

blubber. I wouldn't give a damn what mayonnaise

59:18

flavored? You know, liquid comes

59:20

out of your eyes and smears your mask garret.

59:22

Until you properly apologize to those five young

59:25

men and finally acknowledge that they are innocent, No

59:27

good, it's gonna come to you, okay. People

59:29

like you create their own storms and then get

59:31

upset when it rains. People like you create

59:34

your own sandwiches with too much goddamn

59:36

mayonnaise and then get upset when it tastes disgusting.

59:38

You can't even start the process of forgiveness,

59:41

Linda, don't play fast team until you apologize,

59:44

or Kay. Repentance is a process and not

59:46

something that happens in one particular moment. It

59:48

requires consistency, and you've only been consistent

59:51

with the lie that these men are guilty

59:54

for your own sodium flavored mayonnaise

59:57

based soul. You need

59:59

to start the process of repentance, okay,

1:00:01

by admitting the truth. But you won't. All right,

1:00:04

America has an apologize or attempting to correct the

1:00:06

evils of slavery and Jim Crow segregation.

1:00:08

So it's just not in your nature to apologize

1:00:11

for something you did wrong. You're just following pale

1:00:13

face protocol and reminding the world

1:00:15

that man is It's truly Satan's

1:00:18

favorite condiment. Please let Cathy

1:00:20

Griffin handle my white work and give Linda don't

1:00:23

play fair steam the biggest he hall. Please

1:00:25

give this giant jar of male the biggest

1:00:28

he hall. All

1:00:32

right, yes, sir, thank you for that donkey

1:00:34

up the day. Since he still works at

1:00:36

safe at rising us out of there. Yet, I have

1:00:38

no idea what Satan is doing this morning. All right, we

1:00:40

got more coming up next with all the

1:00:44

relationship advice, need personal

1:00:46

advice, just the real advice.

1:00:48

Call up down for ask ye morning.

1:00:51

Everybody is dj MD Angela

1:00:54

Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast

1:00:56

club. It is time for ask yee. Hello.

1:00:59

Who's this? Um? I'm staying anonymous?

1:01:01

All right, what's your question for you? Anonymous? Yes

1:01:03

we can, all right. So I have a

1:01:06

dilemma. Um, when my boyfriend

1:01:08

and I first started dating, we're gonna, you know, do

1:01:10

it in the car, and he pulled his pants down or

1:01:12

the foul older didn't

1:01:16

he didn't fart, He just like had

1:01:18

took a dump and like didn't wipe his but hey,

1:01:22

now we like looked together and whenever,

1:01:25

um, we're are you gonna

1:01:27

do it? I always, you know, hesitant because

1:01:29

he doesn't wipe his butt, so how

1:01:33

older, and you know he always has

1:01:35

some days of his boxers skid

1:01:38

marks. That's what they call him, Yes,

1:01:40

skid marks. So how do you tell your man, like, babe,

1:01:42

can you please wipe outs? Is he a grown

1:01:45

man or a baby wearing a diaper?

1:01:47

That is disgusting? First of all, I'm

1:01:50

gonna tell you, oh, is this envy we're talking

1:01:52

about you? All

1:01:56

right? So first of all, do y'all have wet wipes

1:01:58

in the bathrooms in the house? I think I need

1:02:00

to keep him there. But you

1:02:03

gotta help him out, man, because there's first of all, there's

1:02:05

no way he don't smell the doodoo coming out his butt when

1:02:07

he pulls his pants down. Number one. Number

1:02:10

two, you might have to tell him

1:02:12

you gotta get up in there when you wipe yourself and wipe

1:02:14

yourself good. And you might have to buy him some

1:02:16

wet wipes to carry with him when he goes places and tell

1:02:19

him to use those when he uses the bathroom because

1:02:21

this is not something that you can dance around. You

1:02:23

have to be direct about this hygiene.

1:02:26

She's right, but I'm not his mama, though, embarrassing.

1:02:28

One time you're gonna have you

1:02:31

have to tip him because you know what, if you don't say

1:02:33

something, you're gonna just end up having to smell Doudo every

1:02:35

time you have sex. Yeah, I can't do that,

1:02:38

so just tell him be like, babe,

1:02:40

look at your underwear and see this, you're

1:02:42

not wiping yourself. Well, are you getting up in the

1:02:44

hole so you have doodoo stains

1:02:47

on your sheets too? Huh? No, No, I

1:02:49

would never do have to if it's in

1:02:51

his underwears in the sheets, But you gotta, you gotta

1:02:53

point it out because if you don't say anything, then

1:02:55

I don't are you just having sex? And then during the smell,

1:02:58

Oh girl, I don't go down here,

1:03:00

but I won't go down on him a lot because of

1:03:03

that. Like I'm even afraid, Like I don't

1:03:05

want to. Why is it so hard

1:03:07

to tell a man his ass thing? I don't know, but you could

1:03:09

get can't you get? You call lit or something?

1:03:12

I mean, if you eat an ass, I can't wait

1:03:14

till you ask you to eat his ass. I don't

1:03:16

want to. Oh hell, no, I don't want to hurt his ego.

1:03:18

That's it. Well, girl, I don't want you to get

1:03:20

some type of disease either, bacteria, infection.

1:03:24

But this is this is for his own good.

1:03:26

First of all, if you're doing laundry sometimes

1:03:29

you don't want to have to touch that and clean that, right,

1:03:32

right, And this is for his own benefit.

1:03:34

This is to help him out in his life. You

1:03:36

gotta show him. Look, baby, these

1:03:38

are wet wipes. Now, me and you were having

1:03:41

this conversation. Don't be embarrassed because we could talk about

1:03:43

anything. And trust me, if you're having sex with this

1:03:45

man, I'm protected. You should be able to tell in his

1:03:47

ass things and he's not wiping himself. If

1:03:50

you can do that, and you could lay up with him

1:03:52

and do all of that, then you should be able to communicate

1:03:54

with him and tell him, baby, you need to clean your butt.

1:03:57

It's gonna be so funny when you tell him. It's gonna

1:03:59

be so funny when you tell him his but stinks. And he was like, man,

1:04:01

I was thinking the same thing about your poom poom and

1:04:04

guess what and guess what she would do white

1:04:06

pep poom poom with a wet wipe. You

1:04:10

ain't crap crap. You don't even crap,

1:04:12

don't you I ain't crap? Thank you, and just

1:04:15

listen. This isn't time when it when you got to

1:04:17

be directed be like, look, you know, I

1:04:19

don't know if you're just not wiping yourself right, but there's

1:04:21

these stains in your underwear and sometimes I can smell it.

1:04:24

So I just want to say, you gotta wipe yourself

1:04:26

better. Here some wet wipes every time you go to

1:04:28

the bathroom. And you shouldn't even have sex with him

1:04:30

to after he showers, but if he's not cleaning his

1:04:32

butt hole in the shower either, and then get an like

1:04:35

that. I don't know what I'm the radio says,

1:04:37

but it's cleaning hisient.

1:04:40

I will say. I've been on my wife twenty one years

1:04:43

and I do remember a time about fourteen

1:04:46

fifteen years ago where she

1:04:49

went down and she was like, hey, man, you

1:04:51

need to go take a shower or something, because you

1:04:54

know, and you appreciated it. Yeah, I wouldn't.

1:04:57

Maybe I didn't wipe properly. I don't know what it was, but

1:04:59

she told me and hurt my feelings. I just went

1:05:01

took a shower. Between

1:05:04

none, Like, I don't understand. I don't think

1:05:06

it was a comment to me before once or twice,

1:05:08

three times, four times, five times happened to me before.

1:05:10

Yeah so, but like so, that's why you got to point it

1:05:12

out. One day y'all will laugh about it, and hopefully

1:05:14

that day that chella laughing his butt will be clean. She

1:05:17

got embarrassed and pick up the underwear and be like, what's

1:05:19

this and then let him see to do those stains, and

1:05:21

he'll get embarrassed and I'll never do it again. I

1:05:24

like that, you know what I mean? And check

1:05:26

your sheets, and I bet you gotta do those stains in your sheets.

1:05:28

Yeah, and bet you he knows trust me.

1:05:31

Tapping to me once or twice put the skin marks in

1:05:33

his face? You go too far? Thank

1:05:36

you, mama. How do you like it? That's

1:05:38

actually that's some young boys stuff though,

1:05:41

because you know, like, that's that's one of the reasons after

1:05:43

I do a number two, I do go take a shower, except

1:05:46

if you're at work. Yeah, if I'm at work, but then I'm still

1:05:48

like I'm going home and like me and my wife's gonna get right

1:05:50

to it. I don't want to go home smelling like you never pooh,

1:05:52

and then have sex right after. Hell, you can

1:05:54

take a shower. We don't want your money, butter you

1:05:56

better white, better bro. All right, ask you

1:05:58

eight hundred five eight one to five one if you need

1:06:01

relationship advice. Ye Now it's the breakfast club. Good

1:06:03

morning. You

1:06:06

did some real advice with Angela. Ye's

1:06:08

ask ye morning. Everybody

1:06:10

is DJ Envy Angela

1:06:12

Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast club.

1:06:15

We're in the middle of asking ye. Hello, who's this

1:06:18

Edgar? Are you there? Oh? Yeah, hello, hey

1:06:21

ed girl? How I'm good with you? I'm

1:06:23

doing great. What's your question for? Ye?

1:06:26

So, I was dating this girl for

1:06:28

weeks? Right? And uh

1:06:31

I was? I was, I'm oways here we see my money

1:06:33

and start playing your nice stings to barter nice

1:06:35

flowers, flowers and anything. Two months right

1:06:38

and uh so a

1:06:40

few like or two weeks

1:06:42

back, I'm over here to Texas here, you

1:06:45

know. Then I call it say hey, look baby, I

1:06:47

want to have something with you. It's like, nah,

1:06:49

I gotta be trew with you. I've daing

1:06:52

this guy for two years, you know, he's eighteen

1:06:54

and stuff. I'm like what and

1:06:56

I'm saying, definateven league and show hella. I

1:06:59

don't give a club, and y'all, I don't know what to do

1:07:01

now. I mean, there's nothing you can do. She's with

1:07:03

somebody else. Yeah, and you brought us something,

1:07:05

You brought us some things. Yeah. Yeah, he was being a

1:07:07

nice guy. I wasted

1:07:10

my money on her. Listen, we're always money

1:07:12

in relationships that don't work out. What do you

1:07:14

call flowers about her?

1:07:16

Yeah? I bought her flowers, butter and a few

1:07:18

blouses. So what are well?

1:07:23

I would say this, Edgar, you never buy people

1:07:26

things as a gift intending

1:07:28

to get something back, So you

1:07:30

buy things out of the goodness of your heart in that moment,

1:07:33

and looks like you found out some valuable information.

1:07:35

At least she didn't lie to you. I mean

1:07:37

when I actually said she was single, it was

1:07:39

at that last moment that you said, I'm dating

1:07:42

somebody. That makes it worse. Right, she's

1:07:44

dating somebody, but you weren't her man ever. Yeah.

1:07:46

And thingiously, it's not even legal

1:07:49

because she's sixteen and the guy she's dating is

1:07:51

eighteen. How old are you? I'm

1:07:54

sixteen? Ooh, he said, it's

1:07:56

not even legal. It's

1:07:58

a sight you. It's not legal. You should

1:08:00

get your blouses back though. No, you

1:08:05

guys are very young right now. And so you

1:08:07

know the fact that you dated somebody you went out

1:08:09

of you where you bought her some things. That's a lesson learned.

1:08:12

That wasn't your girlfriend. So buying

1:08:14

somebody flowers when you're courting them, it's really nice.

1:08:16

But maybe you went a little overboard with the blouses.

1:08:18

With the blouses, yeah, yeah,

1:08:21

buyers shirt next time. Okay, it's cheaper,

1:08:27

but yeah, listen, you do nice

1:08:29

things for people because you want to do them, not because I

1:08:32

expect to get this in return or I want this

1:08:34

from you. You buy somebody something out of the goodness

1:08:36

of your heart. Unfortunately things didn't

1:08:38

work out. Chalk it up as a loss and move

1:08:41

on. There's nothing you could do about it. You can't dwell on the

1:08:43

money that you're spent and lost. Yeah, I

1:08:45

mean we're still friendly, you know, we don't talk much

1:08:47

now, but it Yeah, I'm moved on. Yeah,

1:08:50

does it hurt when she wears those blouses? Sixteen

1:08:53

year old? True? Like

1:08:56

when I see her with it was I

1:08:58

bought a pink roose flouse

1:09:00

and I say I was right from

1:09:03

where fashion just come from.

1:09:05

Fashion Novo a rainbow, Fashion

1:09:07

Nova a rainbow. One

1:09:10

year a rainbow.

1:09:13

Yeah, yeah, I know the scruggle bro. When

1:09:16

I was sixteen years old, that's all I could

1:09:18

do to man, I remember buying stuff from out of Rainbow,

1:09:21

and then I upgraded my game to Charlotte

1:09:23

Roofs. You know what I'm saying. When I got about seventeen

1:09:25

eighteen, got a couple more jobs. I ain't going

1:09:27

from well Edgar. Listen. I

1:09:29

think you gotta continue being the sweet person that

1:09:31

you are and hopefully the right woman will

1:09:33

come along. But maybe just reserve

1:09:36

those rainbow blouses for when

1:09:39

you're actually in a relationship. In the meantime,

1:09:41

nothing wrong with buying some flowers and courting

1:09:43

a woman and continue to be sweet and

1:09:45

don't listen to these rappers thinking that you can just trick and

1:09:48

buy a woman something that she owe you something, because

1:09:50

she really doesn't, especially if it comes from

1:09:52

Rainbow. Alight, I'm

1:09:54

not going front. If you see it, go on a date with

1:09:56

your rainbow blouse with the other guy, I

1:09:58

might want to snitch man, because he I might call the

1:10:00

police on him. You don't gotta since just welcome to her,

1:10:03

and welcome to her, and grab that little piece of thread

1:10:05

that's hanging from the shirt and start pulling it. The whole thing

1:10:07

starting to come off. All right, okay,

1:10:13

yeah, all right, good luck

1:10:15

man, All right, take care poor

1:10:18

EGGA man, I know that struggle. Bro,

1:10:20

you need to do it, go for me, for Egg to get his money back from

1:10:22

them blouses. Bro, ask you eight hundred

1:10:25

and five eight five one oh five one if you need relationship

1:10:27

advice, ye, Now it's the breakfast club. Good morning, hello

1:10:31

the relationship advice. Need personal

1:10:33

advice, just the real advice?

1:10:35

Haul up down for asking dj

1:10:39

Envy Angela yee, Charlomagne the guy.

1:10:41

We are the breakfast club in the middle of ask

1:10:44

yee, Hello, who's this hey?

1:10:48

Man? What's up? And what's your question for you? Bro? So this

1:10:50

is my situation. I was in a married

1:10:53

right, me and my wife being married now

1:10:55

I am about a year. So we got in a situation

1:10:58

where, um, the relationship

1:11:00

got physical. We had a physical upcation in

1:11:03

our relationship and basically

1:11:06

her family won't forgive me for

1:11:08

that. Being her We had our issues,

1:11:10

you know, we went through we know why the things

1:11:13

happened, and they happened. We still want

1:11:15

to work on it, but her family really

1:11:17

does a two of it because when we putting my hands

1:11:19

on her, well, of course her family.

1:11:22

Yeah, I'm trying to figure out, like how

1:11:24

could we possibly work around it. Well,

1:11:26

her family's very protective of her, so of course

1:11:29

they should feel that way, and so you

1:11:31

shouldn't look at that as something detrimental. Of course

1:11:33

they should feel like you put your hands

1:11:35

on our family member and a woman,

1:11:38

and they should definitely side at

1:11:40

you for that. So first you have to understand they're

1:11:42

very valid and their reason for looking at you and

1:11:45

the way that they are, and that's a punishment that you have to

1:11:47

take. And I totally I totally understand

1:11:50

that, you know what I'm saying. It got physical, but

1:11:52

I wanted you understand this for over the years,

1:11:54

right being her both being back before we both

1:11:56

had put our hands on each other, right, and it's

1:11:58

kind of like it's like I knew what they ain't right

1:12:01

for nobody to do it. But it's like if

1:12:03

I would have been something wrong, you know what I'm saying. You

1:12:06

go through my phone and she see something in my phone

1:12:08

don't be my phone, and she attacked me because

1:12:10

of that. She's seen in my phone when she put her hands

1:12:12

on me plenty of times. Right this time it

1:12:15

was the other way around. I see something in

1:12:17

her phone, so I put my hands on her because

1:12:19

of that, you know what I'm saying. So it

1:12:22

really got out of hand because she had

1:12:24

bruised the scars in a situation. And wow,

1:12:27

that really really pushed it, you

1:12:30

know. Yeah, And you bruised and scarred

1:12:32

your women up and that that should make you feel

1:12:35

terrible. And I just want

1:12:37

to say a couple of things. First of all, it's never

1:12:39

right for a woman to put her hands on a man either. And I tell

1:12:42

people that all the time. Women shouldn't

1:12:44

be putting their hands. Nobody should be putting their hands

1:12:46

on each other. I think that, as

1:12:48

you said, what happened was worse because

1:12:51

you ended up really physically harming her,

1:12:54

and you could have ended up in jail for

1:12:56

that, and things could have gotten even

1:12:58

worse. You could have permanent damaged her.

1:13:00

You could have you know. And one

1:13:03

thing my boyfriend was tell me is that anytime,

1:13:06

and his mom has always told him this, if

1:13:08

you feel like you have to put your hands on a woman, that's you

1:13:10

need to walk away. That's not the right woman for you. But

1:13:12

you said, this is the one time that it happened.

1:13:15

She wants to forgive you for it. And I can't tell

1:13:17

a woman what to do, but I

1:13:19

suggest that you guys have got to get

1:13:22

real help. And

1:13:25

that means that y'all have to go to therapy. You have to figure

1:13:27

out why you reacted the way you reacted. She has to figure

1:13:29

out how to keep her hands to herself as well. But

1:13:32

there really is never an excuse for you to

1:13:35

basically beat your woman up. And that's what you did.

1:13:37

Yeah, it take what happened

1:13:40

or why I did it? You went through

1:13:42

her phone and saw something? Yeah,

1:13:44

well, thank you? Well what I saw. Let me tell you what I saw

1:13:46

though. I went through her phone right and

1:13:49

I saw that she was affair

1:13:51

with my subs football coach. Listen,

1:13:54

I feel you, and there's

1:13:57

but there's still no matter. It don't matter

1:13:59

what you saw. There's no justification. I

1:14:02

see. Yeah, I'll understand what you say at

1:14:04

the time like that, when you see that, you're

1:14:06

still trying to justify it. I

1:14:09

know. Okay, Can I call to every every listeness,

1:14:11

So yeah, I'm listening. I don't agree with you,

1:14:14

my brother, I'm

1:14:16

gonna ask you if you your wife hoold

1:14:19

right now? You see that she was

1:14:21

the heaven up there with somebody that was

1:14:23

socially y'all, and you had a little leak in

1:14:25

your system. Your very first action first

1:14:29

to lead a damn house. You

1:14:31

can't move off a motion in a situation like that.

1:14:33

You got to move off strategy number one, number

1:14:36

one, because you shouldn't hit a woman in number two because

1:14:38

you just got too much to lose. Brother, that's right now.

1:14:40

I look at my system, I probably cry, and

1:14:42

I'm in

1:14:45

the fet position. But what I

1:14:47

am concerned about is that you are still trying to

1:14:49

get people to back you up for your actions, and

1:14:52

you cannot justify your actions. You cannot

1:14:54

put your hands, You can't appeal to the men in

1:14:56

the room and think that they're gonna be like, yeah, hit it

1:14:58

too. I can understand why you that. There's no

1:15:00

explanation. There's no way that you are

1:15:02

in the right in the situation. I feel

1:15:05

you you were hurt, but that doesn't mean that you're

1:15:07

supposed to physically harm your

1:15:09

woman. Now, I will say you, I can understand why he

1:15:11

did it. I don't agree though, I can understand the emotion

1:15:14

and the alcohol, but I don't agree with you. Yeah, you can't

1:15:16

justify it. You can't say, well, this is why I did

1:15:18

it, so all good and so you

1:15:20

cannot ever do something like that again. And you have to

1:15:22

own the fact that you were wrong in your

1:15:24

reaction. Now what she wrong? Dead wrong. You

1:15:27

could have left her. You could have said I'm never gonna be with

1:15:29

you again. You could have cut off whatever you

1:15:31

know, support you give her or she gives

1:15:33

you, whatever it is, but you physically

1:15:35

put in your hands on her. It's never the solution.

1:15:38

You like, I really

1:15:41

great it right now because like I feel, we're separating.

1:15:43

I don't move that and you know what I'm

1:15:45

saying, and move away from my kids and family, family

1:15:49

and a whole army spit from me before. But

1:15:53

yeah, you bruise her up. You know how crazy that looks.

1:15:56

What you need to do is get yourself

1:15:58

into some therapy and show her that you're serious

1:16:01

about rehabbing yourself and take that time

1:16:03

apart to work on you. I'm

1:16:06

doing it. Don't feel like a wrong with me. I just

1:16:08

had a bad situation at one time. I stopped

1:16:11

listening. There is something wrong. You shouldn't

1:16:13

have reacted that way, and you gotta acknowledge

1:16:15

that if you did it once, you'll do it again. So

1:16:17

it's so wrong with me because of a mistake.

1:16:20

Everybody makes mistake. I don't that feel like I had to go

1:16:22

get yea. Everybody. Everybody does make mistakes.

1:16:24

But the problem is is first of all, you're using liquor

1:16:26

when you're upset, and that's that's the worst thing to do. You upset,

1:16:29

you mad, You're using liquid to to take

1:16:31

away the pain, and you want up be an abusive and yes,

1:16:33

you have a problem. You need to deal with that problem. You don't

1:16:35

want to make sure that happens again. And then the next

1:16:37

time you're saying, yeah, I made two mistakes. You just want to

1:16:39

make sure that old to you, sir, he

1:16:41

sounds older. Yeah, I made I made

1:16:44

that mistake when I was seventeen years old, you know, putting

1:16:46

my hands on a woman, you know, for the same situation.

1:16:48

But you know I was I was had low

1:16:51

emotional intelligence. Then I was immature,

1:16:53

I was insecure, I had low self esteem,

1:16:55

like my ego was bruised. But

1:16:58

at thirty three years old, Nah,

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I wouldn't make that mistake. If you're

1:17:02

serious, go get some help for yourself and

1:17:04

acknowledge that you're run because I don't think you really truly

1:17:07

grasped it. Okay, I could

1:17:09

reel all

1:17:11

right, I wish you the best. Oh

1:17:13

please, chef alrighty well, ask

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1:17:29

note is simply this. You are where you're

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