With the tragic events that are so prevalent in the news these days, it's overwhelming to think that we could be so affected; the thought of recovery is just plain out-of-sight.How do we deal with the pain of a tragic event and turn it into a means of recovery? Why do bad things happen to good people? How do we deal with something that is so unfair? Did we do something to deserve such grief as the results of a mad man's destructive behavior?