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Your Mind Is A Fighter | Powerful Stoic Quotes That Will Change Your Life

Your Mind Is A Fighter | Powerful Stoic Quotes That Will Change Your Life

Released Tuesday, 17th October 2023
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Your Mind Is A Fighter | Powerful Stoic Quotes That Will Change Your Life

Your Mind Is A Fighter | Powerful Stoic Quotes That Will Change Your Life

Your Mind Is A Fighter | Powerful Stoic Quotes That Will Change Your Life

Your Mind Is A Fighter | Powerful Stoic Quotes That Will Change Your Life

Tuesday, 17th October 2023
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of

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ancient wisdom designed to help you in

2:02

your everyday life. On Tuesdays,

2:05

we take a closer look at these stoic ideas,

2:07

how we can apply them in our actual lives.

2:10

Thanks for listening, and I hope you enjoy.

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Your mind is a fighter. Marcus

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Aurelius hated the gladiatorial games.

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He despised the violence and the pointlessness

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of it, but it was also his job to

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attend them. So he did his best to distract

2:30

himself with a book, often to the

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bemusement of the crowd. When he was emperor,

2:35

he tried to give the gladiators wooden swords

2:37

so they wouldn't hurt each other. Seneca

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found the violence disturbing too, and he was wary

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of anything the mob loved. Yet

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both Seneca and Marcus Aurelius understood the

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power of the metaphor, which is why allusions

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to the games are threaded through their

2:51

works. They knew that life was a battle.

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They felt that the philosopher belonged in the arena.

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They knew that surviving, winning, depended

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on training, and courage, and tenacity. They

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didn't live long enough to read Boswell. They

3:03

would have appreciated his description of the mental

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facilities of his muse and hero, Samuel

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Johnson, what Marcus Aurelius

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himself called the command center, through

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the imagery of what Marcus and Seneca saw

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firsthand. His mind resembled

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a vast amphitheater, the colosseum

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of Rome, Boswell said, and

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the center stood his judgment, which like a mighty

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gladiator, combated those apprehensions

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that he, that like the wild beasts

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of the arena, were all around in cells,

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ready to be let out upon him. After

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a conflict, he drove them back into their

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dens, but not killing them, they

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were still assailing him. We

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don't have to revel in combat sports to

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understand that we are in our own desperate

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fight. We are fighting against false

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impressions. We are fighting against destructive

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emotions like greed and fear and envy and prejudice.

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We are fighting against our lower self in order

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to reach that higher plane, the

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one worthy of being cheered and celebrated

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and it's a fight that happens day in and day

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out and never really ends. We'll

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never win but we can be great in our brief

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moment in the arena. We can be mighty

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as we fight back the beasts that are

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let out upon us.

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Marcus Aurelius. Concentrate

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every minute on doing what's

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in front of you. You

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don't have to turn this into something. It

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doesn't have to upset you. The

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presence is all we have to live

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in or to lose. Stop

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whatever you're doing for a moment

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and ask yourself, am I

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afraid of death because I won't

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be able to do this anymore? Let

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each thing you would do, say

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or intend, be like that

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of a dying person. The

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things you think about determine

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the quality of your mind. Your

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soul takes on the color of your

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thoughts. Today

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I escape the anxiety. Or

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no, I discarded it because

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it was within me, in

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my own perceptions, not

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outside. You

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have to assemble your life yourself.

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Action by action. The

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impediment to action advances

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action. What stands in

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the way becomes the way. The

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best revenge is not to be like

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your enemy. You

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can also Also commit injustice

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by doing nothing. Receive

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without pride. Let

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go without attachment. If

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it's endurable, then endure

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it. Stop complaining.

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Have I done something for the common

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good? Can I share

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in the benefits? It

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never ceases to amaze me. We

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all love ourselves more than other people,

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but care more about their opinion

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than our own. It's

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unfortunate that this has happened.

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No. It's fortunate

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that this has happened, and I've

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remained unharmed. If

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it is not right, do

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not do it. If it is

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not true, do not

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say it. You

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always own the option of having

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no opinion. Ask

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yourself at every moment, is

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this necessary? If

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something is humanly possible, it's

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attainable by you too. Think

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of yourself as dead. You

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have lived your life. Now

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take what's left and live it properly.

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Everyone despises me. That's

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their problem. Everything

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is born from change. You

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have power over your mind, not

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outside events. When

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jarred, unavoidably, by

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circumstance, revert

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at once to yourself and

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don't lose the rhythm more than you

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can help. You

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could leave life right now. Let

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that determine what you do, say,

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and think. Our

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life is what our thoughts make

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it. If

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you don't have a consistent goal

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in life, you can't

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live it in a consistent way. Get

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back up when you fail. Celebrate

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behaving like a human. Limit

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yourself to the present. The

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tranquility that comes when you stop

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caring what they say, or

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think, or do. Only

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what you do. Don't

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you see how much you have to offer,

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and yet you still settle

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for less. Mastery

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of reading and writing requires

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a master. The

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struggle is great, the

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task divine, to

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gain mastery, freedom,

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happiness, and tranquility. Do

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not let others hold you back. A

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blazing fire makes flame and

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brightness out of everything that

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is thrown into it. To

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love only what happens, no

9:56

greater harmony. If

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it's humanly possible, you

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can do it too. Choose

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not to be harmed and

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you won't feel harmed. Don't

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feel harmed and you haven't

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been. Don't

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procrastinate. Don't confuse.

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Don't wander. Don't be passive

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or aggressive. Don't be

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all about business. Love

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the hand that fate deals you and

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play it as your own. Practice

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even what seems impossible. There

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is never any need to get worked up

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about things you can't control. People

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exist for one another. The

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nearer a man comes to a calm

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mind, the closer he

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is

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to strength. Seneca,

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we suffer more in imagination

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than in reality. Only

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strengthen the mind as labor

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does the body. Being

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poor is not having too little. It

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is wanting more. If

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a man knows not to which point

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he

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stands,

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no wind is favorable. It's

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better to conquer grief than to

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deceive it. Life

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is very short and anxious for

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those who forget the past, neglect

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the present, and fear the future.

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No man is more unhappy than

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he who never faces adversity,

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for he is not permitted to

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prove himself. Everything

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hangs on one's thinking. A

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man is as unhappy as

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he has convinced himself he is.

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It's not that we have a short time

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to live, but that we waste

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a lot of it. All

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cruelty springs from weakness.

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A

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gem cannot be polished without

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friction, nor a man perfected

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without trials. He

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who is everywhere is nowhere.

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As long as you live, keep

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learning how to live. It

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is not the man who has too little,

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but the man who craves more that

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is poor. Sometimes

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even to live is an act of

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courage. You

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can tell the character of every man

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when you see how he gives and receives

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praise. It

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is not that we have a short space of

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time, but that we waste much

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of it. The

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greatest remedy for anger is delay.

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How much progress shall I make, you

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ask, just as much as

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you try to make? Wisdom

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comes haphazard to no man. This

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is our big mistake. To

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think we look forward to death, most

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of death is already gone. Whatever

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time has passed is owned by

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death. If

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what you have seems insufficient

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to you, then though you possess

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the world, you will yet be

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miserable. Most

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powerful is he who has himself

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in his own power.

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It does not matter what you

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bear, but how you

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bear it.

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Nothing delights the mind as

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much as loving and loyal friendship.

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Whatever can happen at any time can

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happen today. Excellence

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withers without an adversary. Joy

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comes to us from those whom we

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love, even when they are absent.

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What progress have I made? I

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have begun to be a friend to myself. If

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my wealth goes away, it

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takes with it nothing but itself. I

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am contagious.

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If

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you wish to improve, be

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content to appear clueless

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or stupid.

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Don't just say that you have

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read books. Show

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that through them you have learned to

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think better.

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I cannot escape death, but

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at least I can escape the fear

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of it. philosophy,

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embody it. You

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become what you give your attention

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to. It's

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impossible for a man to learn what

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he thinks he already knows. If

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you are ever tempted to look for outside

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approval, realize that

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you have compromised your integrity.

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If you need a witness, be

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your own.

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How long are you going to wait

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before you demand the best for

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yourself? If

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your choices are beautiful, so

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too will you be. If

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someone succeeds in provoking

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you, realize that your mind

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is complicit in the provocation. It's

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not things that upset us but

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our judgments about things. Circumstances

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don't make the man. They

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only reveal him to himself. Welcome

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events in whichever way they happen.

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This is the path to peace.

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The key is to keep company only

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with people who uplift you, whose

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presence calls forth your best.

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The essence of philosophy is

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that a man should so live that

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his happiness shall depend as

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little as possible on external

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things. No

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man is free who is not master

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of himself. The

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more we value things outside

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our control, The less control

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we have.

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You are hurt the moment you believe

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yourself to be.

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Wealth consists not in having great

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possessions, but in having few

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wants. Seek

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not the good in external things.

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Seek it in yourselves. Observe

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your desire. Don't set

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your heart on so many things and

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you will get what you need. Devote

18:39

the rest of your life to making

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progress.

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Better to trip with the feet than

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with the tongue.

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If you lay violent hands on me,

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you'll have my body, but

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my mind will remain with still hope.

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Happiness is a good flow

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of life.

19:13

A bad feeling is a commotion

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of the mind repugnant to reason

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and against nature.

19:22

Well being is realized by small

19:25

steps, but is truly no

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small thing. Man

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conquers the world by conquering

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himself. We

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have two ears and one mouth, so

19:41

we should listen more than we

19:43

say.

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He is best of all men who follows

19:49

good advice. Good too

19:51

is he who finds out all things for

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himself. No

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loss should be more regrettable to the world.

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To us than losing our time,

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for it's irretrievable.

20:05

Follow where reason

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leads.

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Steal your sensibilities so

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that life shall hurt you as little as

20:16

possible.

20:19

No evil is honorable, but

20:22

death is honorable. Therefore,

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death

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is not evil.

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All the good are friends of

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one another.

20:35

No one entrusts

20:36

a secret to a drunken man,

20:39

but one will entrust a secret to

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a good man. Therefore,

20:43

the good man will not be drunk.

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All things are parts of one single

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system, which is called nature. The

20:54

individual life is good when

20:56

it is in harmony with nature.

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Seeing that the universe gives

21:03

birth to beings that are animate and

21:05

wise, should it not be considered

21:08

animate and wise itself? The

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end may be defined

21:14

as life in accordance with nature,

21:17

or, in other words, in accordance

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with our own human nature,

21:21

as well as that of the universe.

21:26

When a dog is tied to a cart,

21:29

if it wants to follow, it is

21:31

pulled and followed, making

21:33

it spontaneous act coincide

21:36

with necessity. But if the

21:38

dog does not follow, it

21:40

will be compelled in any case. So

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it is with man too. Even

21:45

if they don't want to, they will

21:47

be compelled to follow what is destined.

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Faith

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is the endless chain of connection, whereby

21:57

things are the reason

21:58

or principle by which the world

22:01

goes on.

22:04

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