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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi
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wa barakatuh. It is your lover
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girl, Aadar, and you're listening to the
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Digital Sisterhood Podcast.
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It's making me a little teary-eyed to say
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this, but we've officially reached
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the final episode of
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Love Timbre. I know, I know,
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sorrows, sorrows, prayers, sorrows,
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I know. It's devastating. I'm devastated
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too. But I want
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to say that today's guest is not
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mine.
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Today's story was brought to us when
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a girl one night made a sincere
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and heartfelt dua to Allah.
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Her dua was to be interviewed by me
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on this podcast. And of course,
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and of course, guys, it came true. So
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without further ado, I want
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to introduce you to Halima, who is here with
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me today, but is really
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Allah's guest. Halima
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is half Mexican indigenous and half
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American, girl living in the States. Her
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story, as many of ours, begins
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with a question or a few questions like,
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who am I? What do I believe in
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and why am I here? My
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birth name is Isabella. My
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grandma had gifted me a name that aligned
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with some other indigenous
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gods. And when I had converted
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to Islam,
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I kind of let that go. It wasn't
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something that I believed in and
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I didn't want to
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go into this, I guess, hypocrisy
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in
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a way. And I think I was
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just like really trying to find
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like something that
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was quote unquote
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right or acceptable. And I
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had landed on the name Halima. And
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I think that was really coming from a place of wanting
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to not do something wrong.
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And thinking that if I had an. Arab
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name that meant
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that I was doing something right. And
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after I had changed it, I was like,
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this just does not feel like
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me. I feel like I'm kind of jumping
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into this, I guess, culture
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that's not even supposed
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to be about Islam, you know?
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And
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I just felt very disconnected from myself
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and was questioning, is
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this how it's supposed to be for every
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cover? Are we just supposed to completely
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give up ourselves
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in order to be seen
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as quote unquote acceptable?
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And so I had
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told my dad I wanted to
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be gifted a new name. And then
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my family's a gift names after
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you were born. And
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it's basically based off like what that
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family member elder thinks your essence
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is and how it'll affect you later
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in life, because names hold so much power.
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And just like how in Islam,
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like they say that you should be named something
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positive, and something
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that will give you like blessings and
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stuff and not have
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something that is negative.
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And so my dad had
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named me Osei,
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and it means Jaguar. It's
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derived from a note for
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Jaguar. Yeah, a Jaguar.
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And basically, they
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would at least in our culture,
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like,
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Jaguars were one of the most symbolic
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animal that you could think
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of, they were something that
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was said to be very
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comfortable in this realm
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and in other realms. And
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they express that through being comfortable
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on land and in water. And
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I feel like that was very symbolic
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for me, because growing up,
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I had kind of done that
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my whole life.
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I was always
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throwing myself in different worlds,
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so to speak, and constantly
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changing who I was.
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And I was always comfortable with
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it. Like once I had decided
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I'm going to be this person, something
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would switch in me and I would be that
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person. And
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I would go on and
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just completely embody
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it until I was like, okay,
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this doesn't
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serve me. I'm gonna go do something else.
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And I had my very first
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boyfriend in the eighth grade had
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told me, and he was much older
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than I was, but and he definitely
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humbled me very quickly at an early
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age, and he had told
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me, he was like, you know what, if you reminded
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me of any animal, it would be a
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jaguar. And
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I was like, that doesn't really
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make any sense to me at the time.
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But now that I look back
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at it, since
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he had hurt me so terribly, I kind
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of used it as a fuel in my life
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and kind of just went with, yeah, like if I
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was an animal, I would
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be a jaguar.
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And looking back at it, I kind of
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feel like it was crazy to see
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how someone can see you
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before you can see yourself, even
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if it's apparent to the most cruel
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person ever.
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Because if you aren't like embodying
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who you truly are, that
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doesn't mean that other people can't see it before
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you even see it. But that's basically
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my name. Even in
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Halima's dreams,
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she was questioning the world around
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her. Feeling as though she was
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never given an answer to any of them.
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Also meant she felt lost in what to do. Despite
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feeling like this, she didn't let it stop
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her from continuing to question
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things. And her bravery plays
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a crucial
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role in her finding the
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true answer. to it all.
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From
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a very young age I was questioning
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God and everything around me.
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So we grew up Catholic
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and I was always
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the kid that every Sunday school
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teacher hated and I would always
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be questioning like why
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do we like
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take our lessons from the Pope?
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If God is God then
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why is there a time before God? And
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like you know why because you're really
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giving Jaguar feistiness. You
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were like I want to know right
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now. I'm seeing the Jaguar personality.
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Well I was honestly just very confused.
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I'd be like how if God is God
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then how is God a human or like all
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of this stuff like I just
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wanted to know and no one could answer it for
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me and I was just like why is it so
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hard to answer? We
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would go to church basically every Sunday
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and I just hated
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it. I did not like it. Everyone
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around me was so hypocritical
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and this is like young me and
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I would just be watching people and I'm like you
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are just coming here just to say that
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you came to church. Like you
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are really like talking about God. No one around me
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is really talking about God. It's just
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oh we're just here because we have to be here
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and if we're all questioning
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God why are we really like trying to
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figure out who
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he is? Then I started
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having nightmares
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about going to church and I
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knew I didn't like church but I didn't know
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I didn't know my spirit did not like like
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that. Wow. And I
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had the same nightmare
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every single week
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from ages 8 to around like 11.
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Every single week? Yes and
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I would be waking up screaming
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from them. I remember this stream
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so vividly to this
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day. It was honestly
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very symbolic.
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It wasn't anything like you would you
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would hear it and be
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like how is that scary? But it honestly
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shook me to my core. So
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basically I started at
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the front door of my church
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and I was already inside of the church and
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something very massive
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and bright and very overbearing
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was floating in the middle of
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the church and everything told me in my
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body to get down on the ground
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and crawl and As
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I was crawling through the pews
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there was like Nature
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like there was grass coming up from the floor there
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was like little creatures
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like as in animals like
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around me and they
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were all telling me to be quiet and
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to not make any noise or something
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was going to happen and As
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I looked around like the rest
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of the church They were still like more
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like nature like trying to come up from
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the ground and like all this stuff and
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I get to I think
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the front of the pews and
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I accidentally make a noise and
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this bright light looks
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over to me and starts illuminating
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so much to the point that I feel like my body
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is burning and
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I'm like in so much pain
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and all
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this stuff and that I wake up screaming
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How long
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and when I look back at
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it? I feel like it was kind of like
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a way to tell me like what
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I'm doing is not Serving
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God it's serving something else that
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will in the end be my
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demise Wow at the
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time I
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did not know this obviously I Was
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very young I
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just didn't like the dream and Something
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in me just told me like just don't go to church anymore
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This isn't for you and so
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I told my parents they were kind of annoying
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obviously, but my parents are pretty like,
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they're pretty chill. They're pretty like, you can do what you
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want to do if you really feel that's what you need
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to do. And so I would
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stay home every Sunday after that. I
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did not practice. It
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was kind of like a downhill
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spiral after that because I was kind of
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jumping into this ocean of, okay,
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what do I do now? I guess like end of middle
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school or through high school, I didn't even
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really
10:25
care about God anymore. I stopped trying
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to find Him. No one around me was
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trying
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to find Him. Other things became more
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important, like how much money we had
10:34
for the house became more important. My dad
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going to work all the time became more important.
10:38
School became more important. How
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others viewed me became more important.
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So I kind of just let
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it go, but I always had like
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a sense of I don't know who God
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is, so I don't know anything at all. So
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I might as well just live ignorantly.
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So I was kind of just making these
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other things my God, so to speak.
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I was living for other people.
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As a child, I was
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always questioning what love was. I didn't know what it
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was. I was very isolated a
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lot as a child. A lot of things had happened
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to me as a child that made
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me question it.
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And my parents also didn't always
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have the best relationship, so
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my
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house was very chaotic
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at times. And I really just didn't
11:24
know when anything was. And
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that kind of emulated in how
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I viewed my friendships,
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my relationships, myself.
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I became very
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into myself, I guess, so to speak.
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And I would base, if
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I had a good day or not, on how many people complimented
11:43
me or how many people looked at me.
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All I cared about was how I looked outwardly.
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And I think that came a lot from obviously
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being a mixed child and trying to please
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every side. And also growing
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up, I was like quote-unquote,
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oh you're so pretty, you're so pretty for
12:03
your age, look at your hair, look at your
12:06
skin, and blah blah blah. And
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also not knowing what love is and
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growing up as a woman and thinking that men
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are the center of love, the center
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of your being and
12:18
craving that attention. And if you
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don't have that attention, you don't know
12:22
what love is. You don't know who you are.
12:24
And so I was doing that a lot and
12:27
I was equating that to love.
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And it obviously did not serve me well. It
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led me into a lot
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of spaces that were dangerous for me, a lot
12:36
of spaces that did not care about
12:39
me, none of my friends cared about me.
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I was kind of like just
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recycling the same patterns over
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and over again. And I went through
12:48
a lot of anxiety and depression, even
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from a young child up until
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maybe I was
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I had been dating this
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guy for a while and
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he was very much older than me. I thought it was okay
13:03
because, you know, I thought that's what
13:05
you were supposed to do. I thought that
13:08
this would take me somewhere else because
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he was older than me. He knew more
13:12
than me. I had gone through a point
13:15
of very bad anxiety and depression in high
13:17
school. I was doing
13:20
a lot of drugs. I
13:22
was doing a lot of partying.
13:25
And so I had overdosed
13:29
off of like pain medication, not
13:31
to the point where I could
13:34
have died,
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but definitely to the point where
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I knew that I was sick and that
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I didn't want to do it
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anymore. And after being in that
13:44
abusive relationship for a while, I was,
13:46
I stopped doing drugs. I
13:49
didn't even drink. I didn't do anything.
13:52
And I would just go to work, but I worked the night
13:54
shift at McDonald's
13:57
and I was constantly sleeping throughout the day.
14:00
up at night, I did not have a good,
14:02
like nothing in my life was stable. And
14:04
I was living with that
14:07
boyfriend at the time. And
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he was pretty abusive. He was emotionally
14:13
abusive, physically abusive.
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And I think my lowest point
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was when I had gotten
14:21
very suicidal, we
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would fight a lot. And I
14:26
told him, I really just want to kill myself
14:28
at this point. And he told me to do it.
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And after
14:33
that, I just,
14:34
I couldn't do it anymore. And
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that's where I was living. I had no choice
14:40
at the time. Or I felt
14:42
like I had no choice. My family was always open
14:44
to take me back. But I was so dead
14:47
set on getting out of the house that I
14:49
didn't even want to go back. And
14:51
then he ended up cheating on me with someone
14:53
that we worked with, because I got him a job at McDonald's
14:56
because I had worked there for a long time.
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And
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he ended up cheating on me with
15:02
a girl who was 15. And he was in the paper
15:05
for it because she had
15:09
charged him with sexual assault. Wow.
15:12
And wow, even he even had
15:15
the audacity like when it when it
15:17
came out in the paper and everyone was talking to either
15:19
like, Oh, isn't this your boyfriend? Is this your boyfriend?
15:22
He was like, you're not gonna stand by me.
15:24
No, not gonna stand by. Why
15:26
would you stand by him? Is he out
15:29
of his mind? I don't know. Han
15:32
Allah. But either way, that
15:34
was my last straw. I was like, I can't do
15:36
this. And even even
15:39
then I kind of just saw myself in
15:41
the place of that girl and like realizing
15:43
like how
15:45
messed up it was that a man
15:47
could like defile someone
15:50
so young. Yeah. And realizing
15:52
that that's what happened to me.
15:54
And so of course, my family came like,
15:57
let me come back with open arms.
15:59
They never really wanted me to leave in the first place,
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but I was having like some
16:04
problems with my relationship with my mom.
16:06
And I was obviously
16:09
just all over the place.
16:11
And I wanted to grow up. That was like a big thing
16:14
for me growing up. I wanted to grow
16:15
up fast and just
16:18
leave. But I would say
16:20
that that was my lowest point. He also
16:22
influenced me to drop out of high
16:25
school. Wow. So I had dropped
16:27
out of high school at 17.
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And then I got my GED after we
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had broken up
16:34
and I started
16:36
taking classes.
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And I
16:40
had met someone else and
16:42
I was in a relationship with them. And I
16:44
had already went into the relationship thinking
16:46
like, I'm going to be different. I'm
16:49
going to find
16:52
God like I had always wanted to do as
16:54
a child. And I just
16:57
wanted to change my entire being because
17:00
I did not feel like myself at
17:03
all. And so I got
17:05
into this relationship still kind
17:07
of doing the same thing that I'd always
17:09
done of trying to please people, even
17:11
if they didn't benefit me at all. Mm-hmm.
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And I was finally in a relationship
17:17
where I wasn't being abused or manipulated
17:19
or whatever,
17:21
but it still wasn't like a
17:23
relationship that
17:25
would benefit me. Like he
17:28
was like this fraternity
17:30
boy. He would party all the time.
17:33
He sold drugs.
17:35
He wasn't a bad guy, but like
17:37
his lifestyle was just not what
17:40
I wanted. And ever since
17:42
I was young, like
17:44
if I liked you, I liked you. Like
17:46
we were going to get married. Like
17:48
that was it. Like I don't
17:50
want this boyfriend stuff. You're a lover girl. You're
17:53
a lover girl. You're like it's
17:55
marriage or nothing at all. Yeah.
17:58
But I was definitely. on that and he
18:00
was not so I was like okay
18:03
like I have no stability.
18:05
I feel like it was definitely
18:06
a test from God like are you gonna
18:08
do the same thing that you always do? Are you
18:10
still going to just give up yourself?
18:13
Are you gonna give up yourself for this idea
18:16
of oh like this man is gonna grant you paradise
18:18
basically?
18:19
You know the thing is for HanAllah as I'm hearing
18:22
you like I think so many women can relate to that
18:24
because you know sometimes we're told you know hold
18:26
on yeah but nobody ever teaches you how
18:28
to let go. When
18:29
I was finally out of that mindset I was
18:31
like wow I have everything like I have
18:34
everything on my fingertips. You
18:36
have to sacrifice something for
18:38
things that benefit you and I definitely
18:41
made that sacrifice and
18:43
I
18:43
was reaping the rewards and I
18:45
feel like love questioning love
18:47
and questioning God were two major
18:50
themes in my life and once
18:52
I had stopped giving my
18:54
love up for the wrong things then
18:57
love started pouring in
18:59
period.
19:03
After finally gaining control
19:06
over her choices and lifestyle, Halim was
19:08
feeling good. She felt proud of herself
19:10
for choosing better for her own well-being but
19:13
just around the corner Halim
19:16
had a new challenge she had to face. A
19:19
journey with her health that led her to
19:21
opening doors in a way that she had never
19:23
done before.
19:26
During my last relationship
19:29
I had gotten sick
19:31
and I had gotten an autoimmune
19:34
disease called Graves disease and
19:36
I had to get radiation
19:39
on my thyroid to kill it and a
19:41
lot of women do have it. They usually
19:43
have like problems with their thyroid so
19:45
I had to get radiation to kill it and
19:48
then they had put me on a medication
19:50
to give me
19:52
like the hormones that your thyroid
19:54
usually produces. Some women will
19:56
continue to lose it some will lose
19:59
it only for the beginning. And then once you
20:01
start like figuring out your dose
20:03
then your hair will be fine So
20:06
I started that medication right after
20:08
we had broken up My hair was
20:10
falling on chunks and my
20:12
hair is very important to me. I love
20:15
my hair my hair used to
20:17
be below my butt and
20:19
I used to just keep it long and
20:21
luscious and beautiful and
20:25
here's also very symbolic in indigenous cultures
20:27
and So
20:30
I felt very lost and
20:32
very sad and I started
20:34
wearing the hijab
20:36
because what I wanted to
20:38
take care of my hair and I
20:40
wanted to keep it covered and my
20:44
Very good friend in high
20:47
school who was Muslim. She saw me wearing
20:49
it and she's like, oh my gosh, she looks so
20:51
beautiful She was just
20:53
hyping me up and I felt like ten times better
20:56
about it
20:57
and I started
20:59
to get interested in the hijab because
21:02
once I had put it on I Knew
21:04
that that was a form of modesty and
21:07
I started wearing more modest clothes
21:10
because I didn't want to wear the hijab
21:11
and wear A crop top. Yeah, I wanted
21:13
to respect it It wasn't mine, but
21:16
I
21:16
wanted to use it for my hair. So we
21:18
we we so we were human So when you hear start
21:20
falling out, you're like, okay, I want to protect my hair, right?
21:23
Let me just wear the hijab Yeah, but you were a Muslim
21:25
at the time. No
21:27
At the time I knew what Islam was I
21:29
was very well versed in other
21:32
religions because I had tried researching
21:34
so many religions
21:36
to find out who God was throughout
21:38
my years and I never
21:40
like really stopped on Islam
21:43
But like I knew what it was So I
21:45
had looked up like how to take care of your hair when
21:47
it's going out and they said to cover it and I'm Like
21:49
I'm not gonna wear a hat like that would be dumb Yeah,
21:53
and so I
21:56
Was thinking I was like I'm gonna just wear a hijab I'm
21:58
gonna just do that And I was just
22:01
like, this might be beneficial
22:03
anyways, because I'm trying to change out my
22:05
whole demeanor, basically.
22:09
And I started dressing
22:11
more modestly, and I just
22:13
fell in love with it. I love this so much. Aw.
22:16
Aw. Aw. I love that. And
22:18
I think since
22:20
I had always craved attention,
22:23
the fact that no
22:24
one gave me attention after I put
22:26
on a job, I was like, yeah. This
22:30
is amazing. Yes. I went from
22:32
craving
22:33
attention and basing my
22:35
day, if it was good or not, on how many
22:37
people looked at me, how many people complimented
22:41
me, and growing up, thinking I had to
22:43
emulate a certain person in order to
22:45
be accepted to,
22:49
oh, no one's going to look at you now. No
22:52
one can judge you based off your appearance.
22:54
So I started looking into
22:57
hijab more, the meanings behind it.
23:00
I really resonated with it. And
23:02
then I started researching Islam
23:05
more. I was like, if this is cool, the
23:07
rest got to be cool too. How
23:09
long? Everything that I had researched
23:12
about Islam was
23:14
emulated in everything that I had gone through.
23:17
And
23:18
for my people and other
23:21
indigenous people, I'm sure, we
23:23
kind of go back to the teachings
23:26
of divine spiritual law.
23:28
If something is one way, then
23:31
that's because it has a deeper meaning. And
23:34
that's how I kind of view things for halal
23:37
or haram, and a lot
23:39
of it aligned with
23:40
spiritual law. I
23:42
was kind of hooked at that point. But
23:44
I wasn't ready to convert.
23:47
I was definitely just,
23:49
I don't know, this is not
23:51
what I'm used to. And coming
23:53
from a religious background as well, it's kind
23:55
of like you think all religions are bad.
24:00
who are quote unquote spiritual
24:02
can't
24:02
even utter the word God anymore
24:05
because they're so like
24:07
traumatized by
24:09
some religions and not even religions
24:11
but people trying to teach you
24:14
what God is.
24:15
Accepting a sound was a huge step to consider.
24:18
I mean, one Halim held back from
24:20
doing. As the memories of her past
24:22
experience with religion came to play. Halim
24:25
had reached the edge of her diving board
24:28
and knew she had to make the final jent.
24:32
During this period of uncertainty, a new
24:34
character appeared to Halim a story. Someone
24:37
who would change her perspective of what
24:39
a man could be.
24:41
I met my husband through school.
24:44
I was taking classes at
24:46
a community college. He was taking classes
24:49
at the university in my
24:52
town. They sometimes give
24:54
classes to those university
24:57
students through the community college if
24:59
they don't offer them. So he was
25:01
taking a math class there
25:03
in my class. He was
25:06
always very quiet, very
25:08
to himself, did not come to anyone,
25:10
got in, got out and left. We
25:13
love guys that mind their business. We really
25:15
do. Exactly. That
25:18
just don't care if one doesn't. It
25:20
just goes and does his thing. Yeah, he was very,
25:24
I barely even saw him look up from his desk.
25:27
So I knew who he was. I saw him a couple
25:29
of times. I liked him. I thought
25:31
he was cool. I was very
25:33
to myself as well. So
25:35
it was kind of cool to see someone else
25:38
just not care about anybody else because
25:40
I needed that. I was going my whole
25:42
life caring about everybody else. I
25:45
wanted people around me that were self-driven
25:47
and wanted to better themselves.
25:51
So I was interested right off the bat just
25:53
by looking at him. Okay, so describe what you look
25:55
like. You got to give us a piece. What exactly
25:57
were you looking at? a
26:00
tall athletic man.
26:03
He always had most
26:05
resting angry face in
26:07
the world. Oh, wait, wait, wait. Was he
26:09
a black man? Yes. Yeah,
26:12
he was. Oh
26:15
my god, athletic with an angry face. I was giving
26:18
black man. I was like, was he giving black man? Always
26:20
looked like he hated everyone around
26:22
him, but I like that. So...
26:28
I like that too. Nobody wants to be a friendly
26:30
man. No.
26:32
Nobody wants a friendly man. Nobody
26:34
wants a... There's a difference between a kind
26:37
man and a friendly man, Barakalafiq. And
26:40
I'm telling you right now, if
26:43
I ever had seen him talking and being
26:45
friendly with anyone else, my interest would have been
26:47
done.
26:48
It would have been out of there. Period.
26:51
And I was very surprised
26:54
as well because he's like
26:56
a conventionally attractive man. He's a
26:58
conventionally attractive man? Yeah. Like
27:01
we talk about this a lot
27:03
and he hates it so much. He
27:06
always says that ever since he grew
27:08
up, like everyone was always like talking
27:10
about him, commenting on him and he hated
27:12
it. Okay. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
27:14
no, no, no, no, Haleema, you hit the lottery ticket because
27:17
there was a thing that people always say, the
27:20
best men
27:21
are the men who aren't obviously given
27:23
friendly, but the ones that don't know they're handsome.
27:25
Right. Because when you mean a
27:27
handsome man that knows he's handsome and
27:29
is exercised that privilege, they're
27:31
the most shambolic.
27:34
But a guy that detests that he's handsome?
27:37
Where did you find him? The
27:39
thing is, it's crazy because
27:41
this man knows he's handsome.
27:44
Everyone's told him his whole life, but
27:46
he doesn't care. He doesn't care. He does not
27:48
care at all.
27:50
Out of curiosity though, why doesn't he
27:52
like it?
27:53
I think
27:54
all of our like themes in life,
27:56
me and my husband's kind of like mirror
27:58
each other.
27:59
Like for me, I was out there trying
28:02
to get attention. I was
28:04
trying to, you know, always
28:06
be the prettiest person in the room, always
28:09
be the coolest person in the room. And
28:12
he had that. He had it
28:14
his whole life. And he saw
28:17
just like I had seen that
28:19
people don't care about you
28:22
if you're not those things. And
28:24
people would assume things about him based
28:26
off how he looked, just the same way that I
28:28
was trying to get
28:30
people to assume things about me based
28:32
off how I looked.
28:34
So he kind of learned that lesson earlier
28:36
in life through different means than I had.
28:40
And I really respected it because
28:43
sometimes
28:44
a law will give you tests
28:46
in your life that don't always
28:48
seem like they're bad.
28:50
But there's still a test nonetheless, because
28:53
they're really like there
28:55
to see how your spirit will
28:58
go through with it.
28:59
Yeah. But can we
29:01
admit like, you know, in our like
29:03
Islamic traditions, right? Beauty
29:06
can also be a test. Yeah. Like
29:08
being given something can also be a test. Right. And
29:11
we know this because of Prophet Yusuf Alayhi Salaam.
29:13
Right. Prophet Yusuf
29:16
Alayhi Salaam was the most handsome man
29:18
in the entire planet. Right.
29:21
And where did that take him? A really
29:24
difficult path. Right. And
29:26
so, yeah, like I don't I don't know if people really
29:28
people beauty can also be a massive
29:31
test. Any pretty boys out there?
29:34
Fear Allah.
29:35
I'm kidding. I'm kidding. But
29:40
anyways, okay, so then so
29:42
you meet this guy. He's nice.
29:44
He's cool. You like how did you
29:47
guys snowball? Like how did I'm
29:49
sure maybe he was looking at you to the side of the aisle. What is the girl
29:51
trying to talk to me for? Or like, didn't you have
29:53
that kind of like, I'm not trying to make no friends. Like
29:55
how did you guys develop a friendship first?
29:58
So I know who he was. I
30:00
recognized
30:01
him and one day in the library he had
30:03
come in and we had like
30:07
these really big tables at the library
30:10
that we have on campus. Like they
30:12
could fit maybe like 10 people and
30:15
he sat down on one end of the table
30:17
and I was on the other end and I was like oh
30:19
that's that's that kid from my math
30:21
class and so
30:23
I kind of like pieced together and I finally
30:25
figured out like who he was because I
30:27
had not seen him on campus
30:30
besides that one math class so
30:32
like okay he probably goes here and he just
30:34
takes that class there.
30:36
He was working on the homework that we had
30:39
and I you know moseyed on over
30:41
and I was like hey like you're from my
30:43
math class can you help me with this because
30:46
I had no idea
30:46
what we were doing because I'm
30:49
horrible at math
30:51
and he helped me and
30:54
we were getting to know each other
30:56
like pleasantries and all that
30:58
and after that we
31:00
kind of just started studying
31:03
at the library
31:03
every other day together and
31:06
it was kind of just like a I don't
31:09
know it was very like genuine
31:11
experience I never had the man
31:13
like just be my friend I guess
31:16
or try and be my friend it was always like they
31:18
kind of had ulterior motives and
31:20
I don't know it was very it was definitely
31:22
a breath of fresh air and
31:25
we like ended up finding out that
31:27
we liked each other and all this for
31:30
after a while okay
31:31
okay wait wait we're
31:33
not gonna rush over that yeah we're gonna you're
31:35
gonna tell me how the
31:37
heck you thought he liked you
31:39
you liked him and how you guys admitted it so
31:42
please watch cuz I'm living by courtesy to hear
31:44
ya so you're gonna have to you're gonna have
31:46
to explain to me how that happened
31:48
I think it happened very gradually
31:50
I kind of had the little crush on
31:53
him a little bit but I didn't really
31:55
like him he
31:55
liked me a lot more than
31:58
I liked him
31:59
I was still on my like, I just
32:02
got out of a breakup, like
32:04
I'm trying to do me. But
32:07
the way that he was,
32:09
was so interesting to me.
32:11
I wanted to study this man. I was so
32:14
confused by the fact that like,
32:16
he looked the way he looked, but
32:18
he did not talk to nobody.
32:21
That was always so interesting to me because
32:24
I know so many pretty people who
32:26
throw away their lives for the fact that they're
32:28
pretty. I wanted to
32:30
like keep him safe from everything
32:33
that men were or
32:36
everything that people would see him as.
32:39
So I kind of like took it upon myself to just
32:41
be there for him.
32:43
Cause he would just be so pure
32:45
to the point that I would just be like, are we
32:47
living in the same world? Like how are you the way
32:49
that you are?
32:51
And when we look back at it, he says that he
32:53
liked
32:53
me a lot from the beginning. He
32:56
says the day that we met, he was
32:58
like, I'm going to marry this woman. I
33:00
don't really believe that. Okay,
33:04
no, he was actually amazing.
33:07
You were kind of like holding your cards
33:08
closer to your chest. Yeah. And I
33:11
also didn't really like him. Like
33:12
I thought he was cute, but I was like, I
33:14
don't know. Like I'm used to like bad
33:17
boys, I guess. And like, I'm
33:19
not used to this. And it kind
33:22
of seemed like awkward for me. Cause like
33:24
when you get used to chaos, like
33:27
silence and stillness is not
33:29
appealing to you. I was just so used
33:32
to like someone hurting me or
33:34
using me and blah, blah, blah, to
33:36
the point where I'm like, is this even like for
33:39
me? Would I even thrive in this
33:41
environment if this is all I've known? So
33:43
what can we do that night? So what happened? Where
33:45
were you?
33:46
So like give me, if you could describe
33:48
that in your most rom-com description.
33:50
We were in his dorm room.
33:53
The dorms are very small, but he
33:55
had his own room. And
33:57
it basically all that can fit in there is
33:59
the bed. in a desk. And
34:02
so he was sitting in his bed,
34:04
I was sitting in the chair in
34:06
the desk,
34:06
and we were watching a movie.
34:08
I thought it was just like we're just gonna watch a
34:10
movie, go study,
34:11
go eat, do what we usually do, leave.
34:14
And we always had a lot in common.
34:17
So, you know, the vibes were
34:19
there. But I didn't really know
34:21
that this man liked me,
34:22
like not to say anything
34:25
about my husband, but he doesn't really have Riz like
34:27
that. Like he's not like out here like,
34:30
good man don't okay. Like he was
34:33
out here like being pure man
34:35
don't. He wasn't
34:42
like out here like telling me I
34:44
was pretty or beautiful or whatever.
34:46
Like it was
34:46
strictly like,
34:48
I thought we were just you know, being friends,
34:50
being study buddies, whatever. And he
34:52
was also very respectful did not
34:55
ever cross the line. Nothing.
34:57
And so we're watching the movie. He was
34:59
like, this is gonna sound crazy. But he was
35:01
like, I love you. And
35:03
I was like, what? What
35:05
do you wait out of the blue
35:08
like that? Yeah. And I
35:10
kind of tried to pretend that I didn't hear
35:13
it. And I was like, what? And
35:16
then I was like, don't do it again. No, you don't.
35:18
Let's go. And so we studied.
35:25
And then I left and I texted him and
35:27
I was like, what did you mean by that? You
35:30
love me as a friend. You love spending time
35:32
with me. Like what is going on? And
35:34
he was like, No, I love you. Like
35:36
I love you. Unbelievable. I
35:39
was like, we're not even
35:42
we're not even a thing. We're not even
35:44
dating. After
35:46
that, I was
35:47
like, okay, but I kind
35:49
of love him too.
35:50
You know, like, I
35:52
do love him. Like I've always had
35:54
this sense of wanting to protect him. I've
35:56
always had this sense of being drawn
35:59
to him, even though.
35:59
though I didn't think that I liked him. Because
36:03
after the first time we had
36:05
met at the library, I was like, I'm never going
36:07
to see this man again.
36:08
It's OK if we don't. I was very
36:10
used to, I don't know, I think I was
36:12
very used to not thinking good
36:14
things were going to happen. I don't think
36:17
I could be with anyone else, honestly. That
36:19
leads me to one day,
36:21
we were walking after studying, we
36:27
were walking to Domino's to get
36:30
a pizza. As we were going
36:32
through this, I was also going through my
36:34
research in Islam. It felt
36:36
like everything was piecing together. I was
36:38
finding out what I wanted. After
36:41
I had sacrificed
36:42
my old life, I finally
36:44
had someone who was genuine
36:46
about me, which
36:47
I had never had in my life. And I was
36:49
finding Islam and loving it.
36:52
I was definitely
36:54
on the edge of the diving board, staring down
36:56
into
36:57
the deep water, not
36:59
knowing if I wanted to do it or not. I
37:01
just had this moment
37:03
while we were walking. And I was like,
37:06
yeah,
37:07
I'm Muslim.
37:09
And he just looked at me, he was like,
37:11
are you? He never said
37:13
that before. And
37:16
I was like, yeah, I think I
37:18
am. I know that I am. And
37:21
I love him, but he's just like, OK. And
37:24
I just kept going with his day. And
37:27
then we got the pizza, and we ate it. And
37:30
that was just the day. It wasn't anything
37:33
crazy.
37:34
And he was always that kind of person that would
37:36
be like, you can do whatever you want. I
37:39
don't really care. As long as you are being
37:41
true to yourself, that's all that really matters. So
37:45
after that, in my head,
37:47
I was like, that was my shahada.
37:50
But I did want to take another one. I
37:52
wanted to take a proper one. And
37:55
I did wait a while to do that because
37:58
we were
37:59
also
37:59
talking to each other and I was
38:02
like I feel like I can't go into this in
38:04
a haram like
38:07
I was like kind of dropping hints like here and there
38:09
like oh I don't think I could marry someone who
38:11
was a Muslim and I definitely think it was
38:13
like a test to like my
38:15
faith
38:16
it was definitely a test to see if I was gonna keep
38:19
doing the same things that I've always
38:21
done and putting people
38:24
in the place of God basically
38:27
when I had gone to the point where I had
38:29
met my husband I feel
38:31
like everything that I had gone through
38:34
was emulating in that moment
38:36
reaching up to my Shahada
38:38
and it was like God was
38:40
saying like you can have this man
38:42
but are you gonna have him in the
38:44
way that benefits me
38:47
are you gonna have him in a way that
38:49
benefits
38:49
the both of you are you
38:52
gonna have me at the forefront
38:54
of your marriage or are you going to
38:56
start it in a way that you've always
38:59
done where you
39:02
use your love for someone
39:05
as a means of living instead
39:08
of your love for me
39:10
after months of waiting and hoping
39:13
and praying that they could have a future together
39:15
haleem knew it was best for the pair
39:18
to part ways she knew the reasons
39:20
Allah would bring people into her life to teach
39:22
her lessons to test her to
39:24
test if she can let the cycles that previously
39:26
overcame her life continue to wreak
39:28
havoc on it this time
39:31
she wasn't going to let that happen so
39:33
with tears in her eyes and facing
39:35
her heart she let the
39:37
love of her life go now
39:39
I want you all to remember that these
39:43
really will never leave anything for
39:45
the sake of Allah subhana wa ta'ala except
39:48
that you will replace it with something better
39:50
for you and
39:52
Allah always keeps his
39:55
promise
39:56
I was definitely heartbroken he was
39:59
the first that had ever
40:01
been genuine about me, had ever
40:03
been respectful towards me, had ever
40:06
taken my
40:09
spirit into consideration. He
40:11
never like made me feel like I
40:14
was just this body
40:16
basically, or just the face.
40:19
And he never even like would compliment
40:22
me. He would compliment who I
40:24
was. And he would
40:26
always say things like, wow, you're
40:28
kind of like a role model to me. I want
40:30
to be like you, which is crazy. So
40:32
it was like, I kind of want to be like you.
40:35
But
40:36
six months later, he told
40:38
me that he was
40:41
converting and okay, wait, wait, wait, wait,
40:43
wait, wait, we'll pull the pause.
40:45
So with his text kind of like out of
40:47
the blue. Yeah, he had texted me
40:50
up. And we were pretty good
40:52
at being in touch with each other. But
40:55
I think our conversations definitely
40:57
started to die down. And I have
40:59
asked him before like what was going through his
41:01
head during that whole period. And he
41:03
had said that he was basically just
41:05
researching Islam and doing the most they could
41:08
in order to figure out if this was
41:10
for him or not.
41:11
And I really appreciate that he
41:14
didn't just jump right into it after I told
41:16
him that we couldn't be
41:18
together. But he definitely
41:21
took his time and I'm glad.
41:23
And it meant even more to me.
41:26
And so he texted
41:28
me up and he says, Hey, I just want
41:30
to let you know, I'm going to do
41:32
this. And I'm going to do this for me.
41:35
And I'm going to do this for a lot. I'm going to do
41:38
this for us. And so he told
41:41
me that he was going to
41:43
convert and I kind of
41:45
just left it at that I kind of just wasn't
41:48
really sure like how to feel about it because I
41:50
also didn't really know how to go about
41:53
it
41:53
perfectly through the sense of Islam
41:56
because I didn't have a Wali I didn't have
41:58
any of those things.
41:59
So I had told
42:02
him
42:04
like if he's serious he needs to contact
42:06
our mosque and let them know like
42:09
he wants to like you know go through
42:11
with this marriage and then find me a Wali.
42:14
And
42:16
so he did that and then I wasn't
42:19
a lawyer right away that he had
42:21
done that and he had come
42:24
up to my house and
42:26
asked my parents for
42:29
my hand basically. Wait, wait,
42:31
did you know he was coming that day? He said he
42:33
was coming over and I assumed that
42:36
that was why and I was very nervous and
42:38
very scared
42:41
and I left the house because
42:44
I did not want to be in the house. I went
42:46
outside to the backyards because
42:48
I did not want to be anywhere
42:50
near what was going
42:52
on. Oh no, you're like too nervous.
42:55
Yeah, you know you sound like a regular
42:57
blushing suit to be. It's
42:59
like anybody talk to anybody dad is like I
43:02
don't want to be. I don't
43:03
and also just because my parents knew
43:05
I converted to before this.
43:07
They're very welcoming. They're very you know
43:10
still do what you want to do. That's okay and
43:12
I was very scared for him to do this but I
43:15
think my parents have gone to a point
43:17
where like oh she's done so many crazy
43:19
things. This is just
43:20
another one. So
43:22
they were like yeah go ahead you know. He
43:26
asked for my hand and everything.
43:29
After the fact my mom had come
43:31
to me, my dad of course not. He
43:33
just you know he left it as it
43:35
was
43:35
but my mom had come
43:37
to me and she was like I've
43:40
seen how happy you have been
43:42
since meeting him because I had
43:44
told him about him before and
43:49
she was like I think this is
43:51
the most respectful person
43:54
that you have ever brought into this house.
43:56
Friends including. She was like if that's
43:58
what you want to do.
43:59
then go ahead and do it because it seems
44:02
like it's something good for you.
44:05
And so we had gotten
44:08
married February 28th
44:11
and it was very
44:13
small. I did not invite anyone
44:18
to the wedding or to the nikah. And
44:20
I think
44:21
the, my Wali was
44:23
there. He was a new mom there. And
44:26
his wife came with
44:28
her daughters and that was everyone
44:31
who was there. We were there during Magrav
44:34
for
44:34
the prayer and my
44:36
Wali had asked all the men who
44:38
were there like, oh, do you want to stay for a wedding?
44:40
And so they were there.
44:42
The almah sha Allah,
44:44
the kak greta came. Yeah. The Muslims were
44:46
invited. And
44:47
so it was very short, very small, but it was very
44:49
impactful. And
44:54
I was very happy. I didn't even have my parents
44:56
there because his parents
44:59
were in Germany and I felt like it wouldn't be
45:01
fair. And I just
45:03
wanted it to be us. I really wanted
45:06
the days just be about us.
45:08
So
45:09
we did our vows
45:12
in my backyard
45:14
with just the both of us. Because I
45:16
didn't want anyone else to hear them. I wanted
45:18
it to just be like words
45:20
that we were able to say
45:23
to each other in like our
45:25
own space. And I
45:27
could not get through my vows
45:30
for the life of me. And
45:34
I want you to imagine that when you read
45:36
them because it
45:38
was just so hard.
45:39
And I
45:41
felt like everything that I had ever
45:43
prayed for was just
45:46
coming to me. And
45:49
it was just a really great moment. What
45:51
did it feel like to have the first halal hug?
45:54
It was great. Halal embrace. It was great.
45:56
I was like, wow, okay,
45:58
this feels right. It feels better.
46:01
Congratulations, Ma'bruk! Ma'bruk!
46:04
Ma'bruk! Thank you. May Allah subhana
46:06
ta'ala bless your union.
46:07
Make it feel wahayr. May
46:09
Allah continue to allow you guys to be the coolness of each
46:11
other's eyes. May Allah subhana ta'ala
46:14
make it a means for you both to enter
46:16
the highest level of Jannah.
46:18
What would you say was like
46:21
the most beautiful moment that you remember during
46:24
that time?
46:25
When we got to pray together, that was
46:27
the first time we had started praying together ever.
46:30
And it was definitely something to get used
46:32
to. We would
46:35
laugh a lot and we would have to
46:37
like separate sometimes because it would just be
46:39
too much. But
46:43
whenever we did get it right,
46:46
it was very like, it
46:48
just felt like so beautiful to like
46:50
have
46:51
that to do with someone. He was
46:53
always there to remind me like,
46:56
bro. What
46:58
do you all put in this podcast? Everyone be
47:01
crying. It's okay to cry, Halima.
47:03
Listen. Listen. Listen,
47:05
it's not every day you have to be a jaguar, okay? It's
47:08
okay. It's okay to shed a tear
47:10
because I'm about to shed a tear myself.
47:13
So he was always
47:15
there to remind
47:18
me like,
47:19
you know, Allah is there for you. He loves
47:21
you. Like
47:22
he has blessed you with
47:25
so much. It's okay
47:27
to rely
47:27
on that and not just
47:30
rely on yourself.
47:32
Yeah.
47:33
So, you
47:35
know, I just kept doing that and it really
47:37
paid off. And
47:40
I really think that Allah has blessed
47:43
me with a partner who
47:45
was always there to remind me
47:47
of that.
47:48
Girl, I'm sorry. I'm just like
47:53
so beautiful to have Allah Allah.
47:56
He has definitely blessed
47:57
me with a partner who.
47:59
is a constant reminder to rely
48:02
on him and
48:05
to
48:06
believe in yourself, believe in
48:08
the creation that Allah has made.
48:10
And we are
48:13
a part of that.
48:14
And
48:16
I was just so disconnected from
48:18
everything for so long. And
48:21
it's just
48:22
like to this day, I still
48:25
am in awe by the fact that I
48:27
am blessed with such a union
48:29
because the way that
48:32
like marriage works today sometimes
48:34
is,
48:35
you know, like they say that once we get
48:37
married, half of our Dean is completed.
48:40
But I think a lot of people think that that
48:42
just happens right when you get married
48:44
or right when you say like I do
48:46
and everything. But it's a constant
48:49
like give and take and it's something
48:51
that you have to find through the other
48:53
person and,
48:55
you know, like tune to
48:59
like how you live your life through Allah.
49:01
It's not like you just say I do and then half
49:04
of your Dean is completed. It's
49:07
a test, it's a job,
49:09
it's, you know, like finding
49:12
yourself through another person, mirroring
49:14
each other, growing, fixing
49:17
what you have done
49:19
in the past.
49:21
Once you finally let all
49:23
of that go
49:24
and find your relationship
49:27
through Allah, then that's when it's
49:29
completed.
49:30
When you amplify each other's love
49:32
for Allah, it's
49:34
not just right off the bat.
49:37
But he would show me time and time
49:39
again that he was someone to be trusted.
49:42
And there
49:42
were a lot of times where I was kind of just making
49:44
stuff up in my head and thinking like, oh,
49:47
like he's probably out here doing this, he's probably out here doing
49:49
that. He says that he likes me,
49:51
but how would I know?
49:53
And he would always,
49:55
you know, prove the point that he
49:57
wasn't doing stuff like that and that
49:59
he was serious. and that he
50:01
was a genuine person. And I
50:04
think like in marriage, we
50:07
have this, I guess, fantasy,
50:10
like mindset about it that it's just gonna
50:12
be this perfect, beautiful
50:14
like thing. But
50:16
we all,
50:18
unfortunately sin, it's
50:20
in our human nature to not
50:23
be perfect. And when you come together
50:25
with someone,
50:26
you have
50:28
to accept that and you have to grow
50:30
from it.
50:31
You choose to better each
50:34
other and better yourself
50:36
every day.
50:38
Do you remember the hadith I mentioned
50:40
earlier? Halimah's
50:43
story was all about her love
50:45
for Allah subhana huwata'ala and
50:48
her life in exchange bloomed in
50:50
the brightest ways due to it.
50:52
Giving up what was so close to her heart
50:55
meant that Allah rewarded her with so
50:58
much more. And
51:00
I really mean this guys, there will always
51:02
be barakah and reward in leaving
51:05
what Allah dislikes and embracing
51:08
what Allah loves instead.
51:13
I hope you all loved LoveKember
51:17
as much as I did. I mean, it was an
51:19
incredible season. I can say
51:21
personally, okay, I'm like, y'all,
51:23
but personally, I feel like
51:26
I feel differently about love now. I
51:28
felt a little bit negative before. I
51:30
feel real rejuvenated, real replenished, you
51:32
get me. It was an extremely,
51:35
extremely special season. And as a team at
51:37
TDS and you guys, of course, our audience, I'm
51:40
excited about stepping into the new era together hand
51:42
in hand. I also want you
51:44
guys to keep each of these love stories
51:47
for Habur-ahmah all the way to
51:49
Halimah, AKA Osei, close
51:51
to your heart like I do. I
51:53
want you to remember the power of Dua and
51:56
of having faith and most of all
51:58
of being Muslim. May
52:00
we all let our love for Allah guide our lives, and
52:03
me. And to end out
52:05
the last episode of season 3, I
52:07
want to remind you, it was only
52:10
Halimah's love for Allah which brought about
52:12
the love she now shares with
52:14
her husband. But
52:16
before I go, you already know,
52:18
you already know the dealio.
52:20
I have to give a shout out to my
52:21
team, you guys. I'd love
52:23
to give a shout out because you know we love shout outs here
52:25
in Toronto. To our incredible
52:28
episode producer, Khloe Mizzaid,
52:29
you killed it bro, man. This episode,
52:32
sad favor, I already know. Also, I'd love
52:34
to give a shout out to our lead producer, Hana Avin.
52:37
It's been a pleasure working with you,
52:39
sis. Our writer, an
52:41
oldie but a goodie, right? LaVisa
52:43
Chattery, our graphic designer,
52:45
Wasila Fada, or as I like to call
52:47
her, Sima Sima with the keys to my Viva,
52:51
our project manager, Vihin Khan, our
52:53
sound designer, Youssou
52:55
Dao and our marketing
52:57
extraordinaire. You already know because you heard
52:59
it so many times. But I'm going to tell you
53:01
again, Sosan Abdulahi.
53:03
I love you guys all. Thank you so much for
53:05
listening to this episode this entire season
53:08
and just overall for being who you are. Like,
53:10
you guys mean so much to us. You have no idea.
53:13
I am so appreciative of all the patience you guys had
53:16
in our return. And yeah, I
53:18
hope you really loved this last
53:19
episode. I really hope you did. And
53:22
yeah,
53:23
I'll see you guys in Ramadan.
53:26
Yeah.
53:26
First Friday, you already know, we're going to
53:28
pull up. So you can see you guys next Ramadan
53:31
in your ears, in your speakers.
53:34
Stay with me, telling you a good
53:36
story. See you then guys. Bye,
53:38
Aisha. All right, guys, before you
53:40
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