In this episode, we speak with Mackenzie Gray, a madre of two, who had her first child in Italy, and then right before the pandemic hit, had moved back to the states.  However, the EFF IT moment was a little different. First, she said EFF IT and had it in her mind that they were going to move back, and everyday was wanting to make it happen.  However, the reality of their situation just wasn’t going to allow that to happen, at least not at the time that she was really itching to go back.  So, she said EFF IT again, but this time, surrendered to what the reality was going to be, which was staying here because of her husband’s stable job.  So, even though her original EFF IT moment of wanting to move back didn’t work out when she wanted it to, that mental shift to surrendering to what they current circumstances were got her to start taking care of herself physically and mentally with joining a gym and finding a community of like-minded moms who are able to support each other.  Whether your EFF IT moment works out or not, it’s about the mindset shift that happens that makes you start doing, thinking and seeing things differently.  You just have to EFFing find your peace in whatever situation you find yourself in because the only thing that you can control is you and how you react to things.  To check out Mackenzie and help her grow her following for her fashion brand that helps inspire moms through fashion, go to Instagram and give @mackenzie_gray.