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slay isis has a physically remove myself

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i walked away and left her with us soil

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that would undermine living can have it can

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happen i'm a feminist and

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one here ever if

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no one's ever sent me pictures i will

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either i haven't asked for as or the

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house the one

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minute source a loss and i said was trace

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far i've never had an absolute

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classic anonymously of never adding on his

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i'm told is there a people in there were

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women and comedy that's not a comedian

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thing

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there were women in comedy receiving more than

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one penis a day and

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that's all for know when i when

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i don't get any and i don't

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want any is not an invitation but there's a

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month i go and eat well i guess

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i hadn't to the teddy this as an email from

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a man could tony instead to that says

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hear about i do hear that there's nothing worse

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yet but yeah i get that kind of thing

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as well

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sega recovered i'd even of rather have seen

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his testicles i

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feel i would not

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brown has seen it but i do understand the

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i onset the some the most

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of behind that sense yeah because

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yeah for season i took about a sometimes that were

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like we don't obviously

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want this

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don't want that guess any don't want

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it and it's also that a happens to anybody

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the out weird

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when someone we know get so

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many unsolicited pictures and

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if we don't get any or hardly any

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we started in a bit i was wrong with this isn't

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that terrible but it's true i do feel

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sometimes it

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i am i not somebody you want to see

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you're exposed penis what

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should be us in this way no

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i'm to series behind some aside when

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that's even go there what shame because

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they would be great dick pic discussion

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that i'm i'm a

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feminist that feminist don't know what i want

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and i genuinely i'm struggling to their what progress

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looks like for women during late stage capitalism

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yeah hi

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i sometimes think what do i bought this

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for my career or do i bought this said

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the well the do i what this with it's what

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do i one i mean probably want to shoot once

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as a real feminist is revealed

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to slow down

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less do a a less

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and

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nobody to be very successful

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for a thousand years. That's

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probably what we should won't.

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makes the decisions would be good but

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so like at the moment the way everything runs

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our analysis of the system i'm just looking

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at it going i've forgotten what feminism

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for

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get an early don't know i thought

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of know but sometimes i guess you know

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yeah that anybody else

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it's impossible to navigate that in in all

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of the things without due to be better versions

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of ourselves there is an impossible

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to southam boundary as

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where you ruin it by itself

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care icing often meets

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up with vanity and sucks

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how can you know

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where those boundaries of blind and always get

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that royals are also sometimes now this

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whole self casting which obviously we should self

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cats this is not anti self

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tennis fans sometimes

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it's just like

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don't do anything for anyone else ever set

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your batteries and have self care and of yep

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i also would be good friends i want

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to be a good daughter is okay to sometimes

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be like well you really want to do that that person

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some going to be really tired and

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i'm gonna have for them before i kept myself

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that i'm not for me get like to self care

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to meetings like a boss

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the week and laser light up

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i love that he says that that that

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wouldn't release some call signs

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this should be a as appear as if

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you break that was two thousand and seven the

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christmas season seven yet get

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good times at the static time to say

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i say i became very successful

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fans that women in comedy were

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allowed to be a success with the most successful many

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comedy

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that successful many comedy or private jets

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you know what to say

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that's very confusing because

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the moon have one last night where women are like

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i noticed that many getting more and

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i'm like sure

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but maybe sometimes

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the more he is the

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not good yeah not that i

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see it or what i don't

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want you to despair the but also on

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i just get confused about

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what women want and day yeah

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yeah feminists the

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m

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even if a brand or company or

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out and out murderers run

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by the most the worst

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most evil man i

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will cry that christmas that christmas

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ha ha it's

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treat you know i think

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sometimes not all time but

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sometimes the most sociopathic come

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christmas investments because i know how to on

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hundred published under the same issue buttons a pretty

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strict my friend

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i mean they are the ones because

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it's a bit like if you meet as that if either

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one of those narcissist to plop

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of your whatever me how to push the buttons

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i'm just saying is that he were people who could

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make

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you cried their ads i'm a feminist

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but other as is said it

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i'm a homeowner i'm , family

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says this is under seventy five

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accidently to my six showed some

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what of fishes line of passive

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aggressive and i

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i found myself feeling

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i see what we do the see splash

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out for that money a situation

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and get him and , calendar

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the involves a small toy

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every day yeah it's a playmobil one

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right right all christmas stuff

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the seventh was sansa the think is cool

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as cool so i'd be very grateful

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for that i'm with get over the

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small the intense

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and unhelpful mania caused

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by a piece of chocolate first thing in the morning

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every day before school for month

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right so fine that happens

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he's not unimpressed with it the

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bloody why it was really spend days

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but every day there's been a different reality

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to flee phrased comment

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along the lines of oh

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, just was gonna play my so and i are his senses

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are a like i just about say that i'm i

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just for a second by forgot that it wasn't

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outlet in it as italy italy ah

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everyday several times several day and

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night rather than being like use it unlike

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draft day wow really nice yeah

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really nice

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complex person new becoming to you

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think if he could have chocolate

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instead of the toy even though the chocolates gone

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the toilet seat up the chocolate

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my son also

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sugar when your child's drugs has no

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coconut particularly for him has always had

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some kind of kryptonite set his sights

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do the cocoa the caffeine and sugar

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sigur alone is fine what

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chocolate sign some he stay with milk

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chocolate or dog took them the just is

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moment to now what's done is mike could i asked

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him into a higher tolerance while

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the spasms parents exactly

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as i wanted to be like an allergic reaction

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say his other ones ruin his childhood topless

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delicious but even

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you know they can't speak the chocolates and up and

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color the now and it's enough for him to be

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little bit of a weapons assisting twenty minutes

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which in the rest of the school readying moon is

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unhelpful necessary you gonna

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do you could do the upper canada in the evening

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or is that that know

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you you feel like you would never get much worse

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salacious that this before but yeah

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it's a bit like i don't really know what

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i'm hoping some , sees

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a light states capitalism parenting similar

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isn't it you not so wasn't trying to achieve

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ready sometimes nice is it just trying to

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get them to be alive

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it's an easier life for me that that

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doesn't sound like i said ministers the ss

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the it up there may be that self care the

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all comes back down to that yeah

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we simplify self care and

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then where do we and backup and victorian times

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that times that like you should be seen and not heard

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what an easy life as parents have

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from a variety of bedrooms and kitchens

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via the was was

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project

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that are very special guests lexi seat

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have korea food mcnaughton covers

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and Vivian, Chandra talking about

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Yes. We

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a

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are talking about power through movement.

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I'm just supposed to keep

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food. We had guests on your

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life, has really changed through

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your commitment to movement, and

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I see you all the time on the socials,

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lifting things that are bigger than you

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Problem

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is now on Maury. i pay

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to come as a oh i know

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that enough us it the transition

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career wise but your rights see

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i part company know really know

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i did as complicated as i love

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how it makes me sale and

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have found it hard to say the my boat as

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absolutely fallen in love with am

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i feel grateful

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and privilege i think what's

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interesting about it is it looks

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like i'm doing all that stuff more but i've been doing

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it for a while and i

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just i made it with myself

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quite recently in the grand scheme of things

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to post more videos and pictures

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of myself doing things am

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, i thought actually my reasoning behind

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not doing that wasn't i said minister

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so it up twice and minister game and

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decided to post a lot more like this

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thing and other fitness eight bullets

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eight do

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coming up nonexistent bit really inspires me

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i'm , of could ask you is

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as a challenge for this episode cause

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i come to

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your weight lifted him with you i could we

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feel on this could we record like radio

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me lenny some is things sitar

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us i've no body strength to speak

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of i may have some of his late

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because it at the hands and stuff

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but ah it's sunni pay

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me to change that definitely not

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so what i'd love to do with common record

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me learning to lift anything

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i mean a

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the info and it likely

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than the lie my of the the one that was my head

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like dots far as a strict press

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deaths his mind they're beautiful

15:21

am i but i want to do one of the ones that you do

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what you kind of put a lock ababa like in

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a cartoon actually got ah

15:28

but i won't be able to

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do you olympic lifting you want go

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out like a cleaning to

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the same you disappoint not ancillary technical

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you pull for as well i flick

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are on are range of bass stabs but

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i can i would love

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the any excuse for us today to the gym

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together and to say okay great

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some if i do that someone would you come

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and learn a little bit of tap dance

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with me i love that i

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bought a shocking at that bible

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the to give a guess i'm priceless i think

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one of the most chilly full sets

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off a getting older

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the and out well the older

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i get the less all i care that

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there's like look up me up i'll give it go like

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i don't feel a there's anything

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the lose like a teenager or

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now finally in a where

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some teenage girls could be the only

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, and the corner not like focus

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or mom and or mom time i think that

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some of the great thing about

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like then i just other now

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that my anymore so

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i will give ago give would be terrible

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at all dance

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well i'm excited because the was

16:38

you are tap dance the more

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comforted i'm going to feel about

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not we have to wait list so get

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some if you could even if you more accidently

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get attacked on see if you could pretend to be a little bit as good

16:49

the new all that be helpful for me otherwise

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i'll be okay said well i'm going to makes a terrible

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by saying i'm prepared to be terrible at

16:56

the dance i would also love it

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where you to find yourself incidentally

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excelling at way out where you are

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a much better service and may right there well

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what you're gonna learn is it such silly that

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singly simple i

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don't think so but i am excited to

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find out how we're going to swap as a chance

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for this episode we will smell

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the things that we've done three

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lock down and around the last few years to

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find ourselves physically for me it's been dance

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some ballet boss some tap

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dance some jazz

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some let like i said jazz like

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chechens we

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could do a little bit of chicago some that

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will be just as you enjoy musicals is just

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i call a nearly wife

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nearly wife not set some gonna say

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i got a mixture of

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feelings about to move on

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to solidify the slobber love of a

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musical the musical the a little bit so much as i know

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how i am i mind my disdain

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can you might we can see what we're looking

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at here

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okay that that's , as as as waving

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guy yoda

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no no this so

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first of all let they showed

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as and korea

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when you from the shift foundation could

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you tell us what the shift foundation is place

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and founded in two thousand and

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sixty by our amazing

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founder from mccune and

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, started as a physical

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activity intervention to improve

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the wellbeing of teenage girl very

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quickly shifted when we realized that

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physical activity wasn't the kind of one

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solution to enhancing them woman's while

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they as we

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work with young women experiencing

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abusive or someone's contemplating

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suicide or you know

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is there a teenager looking after young children themselves

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and telling them to go for fucking run

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just isn't gonna work the

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we know the physical activity will

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make people feel much better and we see the heat value

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one small part of the whole picture

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in the way that we build resilience the and

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women the the

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, a full and marty health

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model for understanding hellenistic

24:19

welding cold tiffany tapper far which

24:22

describes health and wellbeing as and wellbeing new he which

24:24

is a ahmadi meeting house and the

24:27

each of the walls of the house and

24:30

the lighter than aspects of a person's

24:32

well being for this and

24:34

spiritual have mental and emotional

24:36

house the family and social house

24:38

and then physical health and the think the that she sits

24:40

on now that that and it

24:43

belonging ah connection to the land as

24:45

they are there is that it kind of one of the facets of wellbeing

24:47

of one of the walls of missing or damaged

24:50

and than damaged person collective

24:53

can become and balance and and

24:55

while and so that really and depends

24:57

a lot of the work that we don't we try and work in

24:59

all of the weight ways to wellbeing that's

25:01

really at the core of everything that we do is just

25:03

son and joy and sisterhood

25:06

but we could shift heard he ,

25:08

he says soaps can you just

25:10

say the five things again

25:11

the balance because i'm sure i'm a bio

25:14

bio things are definitely not

25:15

the spirit

25:17

, health health

25:20

mental and emotional home family

25:22

and social health physical health

25:25

and then are kind of connections to the

25:27

land or our roots or

25:29

up along and it kinda like you

25:31

know i like to think of it as like her stool

25:33

and he's got one legs it's wobbly

25:35

or missing is not a stool and more consistent

25:37

it didn't work and says the same with humans were

25:39

it were not if we're out of balance and we

25:42

can become really and well i'm making

25:44

a know essays yeah i think says

25:46

it has also office

25:49

amazon now you decide to exploded

25:50

that would be grinding oh it comes

25:52

with a case pitches out remember somehow

25:56

this is might be seen king oh

25:58

well i am physically and

26:00

the law i am i do have mental health

26:02

problems i'm not i'm not a form a jehovah's

26:04

witness groups because i am a former jehovah's witness a lot

26:06

of people to be some by the whole family

26:08

and it's nothing they can do about that no one of their

26:10

family will speak to them ever again and

26:12

they just our on around so

26:15

one of those is lacking in your life because

26:18

there's nothing you can do about it that's how you are that's how you live

26:21

how does this philosophy

26:24

back to that in dc what i mean

26:26

yeah we kind of and we

26:29

, it to inform us human centered design

26:32

so he takes us to form is the principle

26:34

that young women are the experts in their

26:36

own lives were never come in with an intervention

26:38

that you know we know what

26:40

will work best for them the first

26:42

thing that we always do when we worked with young women as just

26:45

meet them where they are and we has

26:47

and the kind of

26:49

sweet of programs that we will offer

26:52

but everything that we day will be code is and

26:54

alongside the young women and they will tell

26:56

us what their needs us and we constantly

26:59

shift to meet their needs we got a few

27:01

different cool programs which are and

27:04

you know physical activity program a leadership

27:06

program we have a program specifically

27:08

said marty and women to connect them back

27:11

to their coach us and we'll

27:13

the have a mental health program but these

27:15

can be kind of anything depending on what the young

27:17

women once they're like for instance and on mental

27:20

health program which could shift your mind they

27:22

, ask as to do sessions on

27:25

of a tough of a and how

27:27

to cope with anxiety and how to adult

27:29

and consensus and how to talk to

27:32

their parents and and

27:34

healthy conversations with adults and such as

27:36

so basically we just meet young

27:38

women were they are and always

27:40

acknowledge them as the experts in their own lives

27:44

interesting so if something if one

27:46

part of your life what

27:49

ever reason

27:51

a struggle or challenge for you or

27:53

it's it's something you live with and you have

27:55

to manage can these other four

27:58

elements or you however

28:00

many elements that you

28:01

in maybe drive in control can

28:04

they so maybe to make for

28:07

yeah no i don't have enough science two

28:09

of them say your parents he just

28:11

say that have any family

28:13

for whatever reason the and you'll really

28:15

struggling with a long time

28:17

health issue that you have to live with unmanaged

28:19

can they they the three what i'm trying to figure out is

28:21

kenneth other three and anyway compensate

28:24

for these are the two and is that why

28:26

we not shown our some or a youth

28:29

from my gun will say you painter didn't have any family

28:31

this could operate as a way as use

28:34

a facsimile family or family

28:37

structures

28:38

exactly so we could create

28:40

the family for them so we would be the

28:43

sisterhood on the sisterhood and

28:45

any kind of element that

28:47

feels like it's a bit wobbly or

28:49

a bet on while or a bit lacking we would

28:51

grow that with the and women if they didn't have

28:54

family of fun of themselves then and

28:57

the group would become family

28:59

didn't need to look a particular way am i

29:01

just need to be kind of the spoke to

29:03

the needs of the young women we were going

29:06

i'm korea when young women turn up

29:08

like how will i groups and you're dealing

29:10

with here

29:12

amy conference on isis is

29:14

so we did clattering

29:16

really we define and young woman is

29:18

sort of a live and all the last twenty four

29:21

and and what program

29:23

they want to do all that kind of stuff really depends

29:25

on them for like licks he said it's

29:27

it's hard to explain what we do because it's

29:30

whatever any individual young woman wants

29:32

us to bay will let loose shape shifters were moving

29:35

to become whatever they made and what if

29:37

a couple the day answer yet i

29:39

live in turn twenty four

29:41

s and some of our program

29:43

like and for not guilty corpora is

29:45

just targeted to that and oh that demographic

29:48

to kind of really

29:50

take advantage of that leadership position that there

29:52

and working within you know often

29:54

sport and recreation and play your house

29:57

and a promotion and i think it's also

29:59

worth noting on how water the

30:01

model licks he's talking about that it is amount

30:03

a model of while being so we're in

30:05

new zealand it's pretty common to kind of use and reference

30:08

but also to signaling that i'm that

30:10

molly's he will have a lot more knowledge and expertise

30:12

in that area and we describe kind of privilege to be

30:14

able to borrow at and use it and

30:16

take their guidance and how it fits into our

30:18

work but i'm easily not our

30:20

number one big cities

30:24

so it's something that you work with

30:26

married people on to

30:28

use this model date do you get

30:30

lots of indigenous young women coming to the program

30:34

we get quite a lot of and targeted

30:36

funding to work with mode am pacific he use

30:38

and the model itself it's

30:40

quite mainstream and knew the answer is lots of

30:42

different marty models of wellbeing and white people

30:45

look at things a casa and her program uses

30:47

a specific one that has escaped him he likes him

30:49

you might remember it's and but

30:51

it's it's the one that's like taught in schools now

30:53

so i remember going through school and you sit down

30:56

the house costs and this is kind of how they will method

30:58

out for you so it's pretty common these days and

31:01

it's just the one that most people seem to find

31:03

kind of a lines to the values and is

31:05

quite well known so we can go into schools

31:08

or work with young people and i kind of already have an idea

31:10

what would that going on about were not coming in with a completely

31:12

new model to try and teach them that can

31:14

you also lends six pages of notes about this

31:16

brand new sam have a demo talk about your wellbeing

31:19

it's they've already got that inside

31:21

selling and right so it's already something

31:23

is kind of established in new zealand or out iran

31:26

we don't really have that much hit us do we really because

31:29

britain i have that same

31:31

the indigenous model i mean we'd have to look at beowulf

31:34

it rains

31:37

, doesn't have those sunsets

31:40

arm especially up earlier in terms of semitism

31:43

but it's not it's ipo to see left us with five

31:45

by biting principles that allows us

31:47

to the honest and ourselves and ourselves sisterhood

31:52

ah it's it's it's slim pickings

31:55

what is what i'm saying here though i

31:57

think it's no good really learned from us

31:59

you have anything like this at school jess or

32:02

after school

32:03

no i don't see like this is something

32:06

that was it happening in any skills

32:08

and the uk certainly not in

32:10

the eighties and nineties it

32:13

will just physical is

32:15

, lot of pressures is it makes me let's have to have

32:17

physical health but i mean mean

32:19

on leaps and bounds even in terms of the

32:22

as scientists and primary education

32:24

hair education family

32:27

and social house with what a good relationship

32:29

a like and that's all changed

32:31

in the last twenty four months

32:33

as net a months impulse to acknowledge

32:37

that kids might be for my and massively

32:39

diverse number different family

32:42

households that their families or

32:44

might look really different but

32:46

now an emotional or mental

32:49

well being that sets us some schools here now

32:51

have got counseling involved

32:53

last school counselors that was around

32:56

when i was going to and

32:58

then i don't know i think spiritual no

33:01

not unless you are religious school do you think

33:03

this would have benefits it's use

33:06

it's child's because i think it would

33:08

have

33:08

made me enjoy moving more because

33:11

i did not enjoy living as a child

33:13

and i just mean in terms of the

33:17

you any formal team sports

33:20

i , not enjoy moving is a child's full stomp

33:22

on wants to eat hey can lie down the

33:25

only thing onto a desert office ah

33:29

but the eye and room for couple of years and then

33:31

i did that was on the wrong night or something's my mom

33:33

in a to are doing goes for guide and other

33:35

stuff but i should just kept don't

33:37

think of i did not like me thanks how

33:39

do you get young women

33:42

and girls to enjoy moving

33:44

if they don't because i think there's a lot of in

33:47

this world that is about if

33:49

not for singles being to meal

33:51

the gulf not you know i'm running

33:53

really fast and looking like

33:55

there enjoying a throwing

33:58

themselves into it may want to be know that

34:00

the world around him tells them they need to

34:02

be cool and eighty to be look look like they're

34:04

posing for an instagram photo

34:06

the totally could wait we know that young women drop

34:08

out of sports and physical activity because

34:11

it's too competitive and it's masculine and

34:13

you know that body change and they have lots of complex

34:15

things going on in our lives which is why we kind

34:17

of do physical activity by stealth

34:20

like you know the heart of everything that we do his

34:22

son and so you know we might take

34:24

a group of young women an ice

34:27

, going might take them for a walk to

34:29

get an ice cream and yeah the get a feel much

34:32

much better for moving their bodies that really it's

34:34

about and and out with

34:36

a supportive group of young women in

34:38

creating a sister hood and connecting with are

34:41

amazing youth amazing are

34:43

you know it's about the ice cream and the vibe

34:45

and the falling over and made no sense of

34:47

accomplishment but it's definitely about

34:49

the fun and it's all of those things

34:51

together that are going to make them feel bested and that

34:53

power shifts see movement so

34:55

all young women nice neat improved nice

34:58

health and but no old

35:00

town or want to move their bodies

35:02

and so that's why you know we see movement

35:05

as being part of the puzzle but

35:07

says influence as be fun

35:10

that probably would have helped flick

35:12

sees bang on around the whole like sisterhood

35:14

moment like really what it is is creating

35:17

a expats first and foremost i took

35:19

a bunch of girls are that last

35:21

week out to drain on forest which is like a huge

35:23

tree tops climbing course we spent

35:25

the day before doing like team building a getting

35:28

snow it tell us knew when to jenna forest

35:30

and i was talking to one of the girls and

35:32

and to me how she so glad the boys

35:34

went there because i would have been like all you sat carry

35:37

out like keep moving into think it was so nice

35:39

to be in an environment where everyone wanted

35:42

you to do your best and it didn't matter what you looks

35:44

like a how fast you in or whatever it was

35:46

it was you have them safe kind of community

35:48

setting you up first and foremost said

35:50

the movement the have that pressure on

35:53

top of that can

35:55

i just say he said the play the called adrenalin

35:57

for rest adrenaline

36:00

rcs and boy i believe is at stake

36:02

as yeah like i yeah i was on the ground by looking

36:04

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37:22

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37:24

this might plane and the complementary way

37:26

because you're also based in new zealand

37:29

zealand is it that you're that a

37:32

quarter of a cool rucksack

37:35

all the struggling a little coyote old

37:37

kids another business education and

37:40

i'm the guy outta here manager

37:43

to have another person with a visitation

37:45

and person said another as another comprehensive

37:47

wrap around program that empowers

37:50

apparatus events and particular young

37:52

girls that women and pistons

37:54

of other marginalized changes within changes

37:56

and fictional feminists framework using

37:59

physical like

38:00

the day and and can

38:02

seem to need to cash and calvin

38:04

people of minority genders

38:05

you cater to take lexi

38:08

and korea do you include young non binary

38:10

people

38:11

kings to be often and case by case

38:14

and not isn't that people would have come

38:16

up to us and say hey i really want to be part of your program

38:18

but i am i identify as non binary

38:21

i'm kind of quitting my gender identity nice

38:23

to work out and the ounces always yes so

38:25

i have quite a few am young people that don't

38:27

i didn't that and the gender binary in our program

38:30

the about specific gender

38:32

and non binary great the

38:35

non binary folk who wanted the in

38:37

a safe space with and

38:39

other non binary fuck right

38:41

so rough see what happens

38:44

in your

38:45

hey i was a young person

38:48

who was in and me either the new

38:50

zealand and are the else maybe i'll jump

38:52

and yet as i'm i'm one of the kayak

38:54

though a teacher steps in and

38:56

that does the closest rivals think

38:58

so yeah so i've been i've been doing

39:01

as close as with tell him that him for

39:03

quite a few years now and adam

39:05

schiff you can also

39:08

be paycheck kid from

39:10

simone from simone to

39:12

above a little live up to

39:14

i literally no upper limit and

39:17

the and sorry a lot of altai fo

39:19

the teachers are the same he

39:22

gets voted off a younger feature with

39:24

hundred and

39:27

i i i never know

39:29

you're running a loom band making calls

39:31

eminem incredible

39:33

and so we were founded in

39:35

the eighties and looking

39:37

at us and societal attitudes

39:40

to abuse and looking

39:42

at intimate partner violence i'm sorry

39:44

and the eighties we sorta looked at more that kind

39:46

of older age group and with moved with

39:48

moved and we're doing a lot am out sort

39:51

of bread and butter course you would say we'll see our

39:53

eleven and twelve year old in

39:55

schools am an edge

39:58

hi i hate that word hello really

40:05

that they put it on a tour around

40:07

and what it means to be safe and

40:10

sar and we will teach some

40:12

physical moose and when

40:15

people call it self defence ah

40:17

i don't like that because then it's kinda

40:19

puts into your mind this like gigantic

40:22

six foot to do with

40:24

like a shoulder that's twice as

40:26

wide as as hit a home telling

40:29

you how they're like punch someone

40:32

and that so know what we do

40:34

because ah looking

40:36

for be able to see me but i'm not a six foot

40:38

to do it but

40:40

i can't punch someone if i need to and

40:43

what we said he is feeling we're

40:45

not we're know now the then i

40:47

suppose that i'm sorry for that matter

40:49

where you smile what he said it

40:53

add up

40:54

i mean if you're coming to new zealand

40:57

soon sir um i'll show you i

40:59

i can take you to um some things

41:01

that i do and show you how can really

41:03

really hard yes please lovely

41:07

of you to offer that but you new warned

41:10

if it's kind be to offer she will then

41:12

make you go tap dancing with her

41:14

the line

41:18

that yesterday and what we

41:20

usually read that around am all of

41:22

that try to

41:24

increase it has told a month and thirty

41:26

one of my favorite things that we did and i

41:28

didn't even with my uncles and aunts mad

41:31

at the beginning we asked him to choose a

41:33

name that they're going to be using

41:35

for that cause far as we

41:37

call it the a bright my and i thought the

41:39

chinese received full of adjectives

41:42

and they're all sorted by alphabetical order

41:45

for then you can be like i can be my

41:47

one of the with the nation's the the an arm

41:49

and they're all strong brave

41:52

i'm and is a mix of tell mahdi

41:54

as well as english in there and it's

41:56

to really reinforce because they knew every

41:58

time we give them the right name badge

42:01

thirty here you could be

42:03

like jubilant ah

42:05

the or like the airing

42:07

give any and i will refer to you

42:09

as that throughout the whole course they

42:12

want to be carrying tab for phone calls

42:15

yeah wanting to the guarantee for the rest of

42:17

this

42:17

all of you i'd love some years later are

42:19

you happy with simple answer or

42:22

would you like something else yeah you

42:24

want to like cheaper than

42:26

yeah i do actually i'm in a good has

42:28

space to duplicitous into

42:31

and your have a cs and that's your brand

42:34

names and said it reinforces that adjectives

42:36

just allows you to be a little bit braveheart

42:38

when you done these physical skill

42:40

yeah so like one of the games i

42:42

play with some of the younger kids for example

42:44

it's son what it

42:46

called when like kids played at school but basically

42:49

have to split them into three and

42:51

an infidel like using

42:53

like one two three or a b c or whatever

42:55

i use plain strong clever

42:58

and so the and his team plays team strong

43:00

anti climber and that like

43:03

a bow and talk around our

43:05

course as it's to reinforce that

43:07

i'm and it's really because to refer

43:09

back to what you said earlier days about

43:13

how to further their intent if you

43:15

don't mind scaring started this and

43:19

i'm actually i'm not gonna i'm gonna have i become

43:22

when he , she

43:24

has made as many as seven since i saw was

43:27

the process is why i'm

43:31

getting through in my

43:32

right now dabs heads

43:34

the pacifist

43:37

and and change your photos the light lynda

43:39

carter was something yeah

43:43

me to wonder woman costume aren't because

43:45

also wants to the night where we were coming as serve

43:47

feminists icons and i have a great

43:49

pics of me just as wonder woman i will

43:52

be

43:52

taking that out for my daring deb ah

43:55

, parents have week and so

43:57

divisive sorry you were telling us

44:02

the game

44:04

i'm and everything like all the stories

44:06

and old i like am i we've a lot

44:08

of real life stories

44:11

of success and to my cause i'm

44:13

at just to show the kids that

44:15

are that i'm teaching or else depending

44:18

on her own that

44:20

like that that suffer

44:22

with you the non whites and i'm one of

44:24

my favorite thing story of all time

44:27

actually have nothing to do with physical defense

44:29

at all and that really reinforces

44:33

that gives the fence what and what

44:36

it means a bright the narrative on an

44:38

intimate partner violence or after decal

44:40

violence at all amazing

44:43

so this is when girls a young and

44:45

your and people of monarchy genders are

44:47

a young and you

44:49

are having that conversation

44:51

so early the and also

44:54

giving them physics oh

44:56

training

44:57

with in that conversation which is really

45:00

interesting because you're scaring them in any

45:02

number of directions

45:04

and you're asking questions

45:06

that i think a not

45:07

normally asked in society especially

45:09

not of young female non binary people

45:13

we're providing options to them as well

45:15

that are not normally provided to the

45:18

, young called hit our young girls young

45:20

when an adult women and

45:22

pieces of marginalize genders wheram

45:25

wheram people who already have violence

45:27

or abuse and their lives were

45:29

empowering them with said the

45:31

chosen the the knowledge and

45:34

that support that they need to be able to break those

45:36

intergenerational cycles of abuse for themselves

45:39

or to imagine a different outcome

45:41

for themselves and quite often

45:44

says we will take disclosures of abuse

45:46

or particularly from the younger children from

45:49

the super night year old girl

45:51

and they are you know that the

45:53

teenage girls that of still and secondary

45:55

school and we do have quite we high proportion

45:58

of disclosures of abuse many

46:00

of them quite serious get from

46:02

three hours or the way we take

46:04

on those disclosures and we went

46:06

with the students and with other agencies

46:08

that change resolve these issues

46:11

to get the girls help they need and help

46:13

them change their own future and show them

46:15

that unique this isn't normal

46:17

this isn't ok and even as has

46:19

been normalized and your experience

46:21

and your lifetime it's not normal

46:24

or acceptable and society so we

46:26

provide them that them to that need to be able

46:28

to lift themselves out of

46:31

those terrible situations which terrible think

46:33

it's another really unique aspect or of what

46:35

we show as and organization

46:39

absolutely my brilliant

46:40

and here homaro has

46:42

been going for over thirty years as equipped

46:46

for , and sixty eight thousand

46:48

individuals and a half

46:50

a million says life changing a prominent

46:52

safety education skills as a that time thus

46:54

incredible abseiling credible and

46:57

the shift foundation what kind of geographic

46:59

spread the work over how many

47:02

young do you have coming to you

47:04

lexing grant

47:06

the we a base of the wellington region

47:08

so that is and capital city where

47:10

i work and let's all the way out the white

47:13

rapper the with broken down into sex

47:15

kind of little pods and and met

47:17

just really allows us to really target

47:19

the needs of those community so for example

47:22

up a hot which are low but up north for may

47:24

have a lot more kind of that shift your mind

47:26

mental wellness sort of thing grayson said

47:28

a wave a lot more canada mind that kind

47:30

of physically kennedy support such a

47:32

thing split up across sex many

47:35

regions inside one a great aunts

47:37

and allows us

47:39

the rate people in different ways

47:41

although we do often came out west and

47:43

people like sport new zealand to look after the whole country

47:46

to deliver things that the women and girls summit which

47:48

is well technically international and

47:51

kind of bigger picture and events and things

47:54

and in terms of numbers really depends

47:56

on the year alex he probably has

47:58

a bitter overview with him

48:00

the jury hat on intensive specific

48:03

know , we're talking about like and can

48:06

we have hoping to different prototypes as well and so

48:08

one of the ones the and we lords during

48:11

the first round of lockdowns was and

48:13

was podcast called conversation collective and

48:16

which korea can talk about the second issue the second host

48:18

of the focus but at the reach of that

48:21

alone is like i'm on it i'm like ten

48:23

thousand people have something so we has

48:25

a whole bunch of programs some of which national some

48:27

of which original i said we probably reach

48:30

but now like maybe ten to fifteen

48:32

thousand and women are you most and that's

48:35

incredible jewelry

48:36

during an extraordinary would say

48:39

if he won in new

48:41

zealand these are for the organization

48:43

to a young girls and

48:45

the minority changes in your lives could

48:47

access answer look them

48:49

up and if you are nuts

48:52

in new zealand but you think the sound like

48:54

phenomenal things

48:55

google what's available in your

48:57

territory and if nothing it

48:59

this exists why don't you start

49:02

or in fact campaign a group that's

49:04

already doing

49:05

things or your counsel to start something

49:07

like this even locally even if you started

49:09

a with a ten

49:11

some people might not end is near you is

49:14

he really was doing and i'm sure

49:16

it would be worse looking on the key

49:18

amari website and she found a website

49:21

of for some ideas they will both

49:23

be in the show notes that

49:25

is there anything else lexi agree that it

49:27

seems say that you did not get to say

49:30

yes sir

49:33

i guess like many organizations

49:36

i'm a over the world covered nineteen

49:39

has really increased at the numbers

49:41

of people needing or helps and decrease

49:44

our ability to and race

49:46

fun and

49:49

you're being a teenage girl in girl zero

49:51

at his

49:52

generally hard anyway that club it's made it much

49:55

harder and and of course pandemic

49:57

this proportionally affects women and girls

50:00

so we recently launched a crowdfunding

50:02

campaign to raise funds to support

50:05

three thousand five hundred to young women's mental

50:07

health over the next year we didn't quite

50:09

make our target so that anybody

50:12

would like to donate

50:14

and you can go to www

50:17

dot shift and that dot old

50:19

and give us your money how

50:21

much money do not have enough not lexi

50:24

how much money do them any money or does

50:26

it was gonna be in a some limit debs the sad but

50:28

yeah era

50:28

is there a sort of you know we need

50:30

this to keep going to you have a sort of

50:33

really i think we're we're about five

50:36

thousand dollars which is only two thousand and the hundred

50:38

pounds short so

50:40

they made any one of our list as a new zealand is

50:42

this into this might just give you that and that everyone

50:45

else should put in

50:46

between ten and fifty dollars so

50:49

if there's anybody in new zealand he

50:51

thinks this thinks this so wonderful we don't want

50:53

our country not to have this he's got

50:55

five grand and that could be

50:57

your company doing some corporate responsibility

51:00

it's clearly you think best

51:02

if he's had a deceptively and most this

51:04

christmas out for

51:05

that's exactly right and he's got

51:07

some go to a t exactly it

51:10

could be that you work for a big accountancy

51:12

think you have we the we can scrape up five grand or

51:14

it could be

51:15

you want for this is has company where you could go look we're

51:17

going to do a quiz it's ten

51:19

bucks to do the quiz and then

51:21

in a wig and i'm past the hunt around

51:23

or something with i'll have a talent competition at work

51:25

or something so the ship foundation and you

51:27

could raise that in one go and it's of

51:29

or it's really lovely winter the some at that as you go

51:32

we person they've kept the she foundation

51:34

going is a few different companies

51:36

did some the shift would be really

51:39

able to do wonderful things and

51:41

not just be keeping the head above water but they'd actually

51:44

be free to swim and even build a

51:46

small boat so

51:48

i'm really if you could if you're from

51:50

new zealand you could do that

51:53

read his you know that is think it sounds like a great thing and

51:55

something you wish you'd had as a kid korea and

51:59

yeah of course

52:00

follow us on instagram i'm actually foundation

52:02

in say it is always good things doesn't

52:05

involve and along this am but i think also

52:07

from like a big the picture perspective of

52:09

hannah key message or take away his the site

52:11

really listen to young people and empower

52:13

young people on earth actually young women

52:15

were if he can be nice

52:18

to young on the in your life set to was to was

52:20

that the we were says he can't like lack

52:22

of any cash like maybe hundred a nice

52:24

to someone you know and as a really

52:27

just that take home as listen to young

52:29

people they they know what they want they know

52:31

what they made they just need a bit of

52:32

support to get there and if you can

52:35

offer that these do and

52:37

yeah

52:39

great and roxy and veil

52:41

veil is is there anything you came say that you didn't

52:43

get to say do you need money to

52:47

ah only rockies of that money for she as

52:49

you work for us to ah

52:52

to that wasn't saying is that of

52:54

with the relaunch about website which happened

52:57

just before the all actually

52:59

as going live and where put a

53:01

whole bunch of public closest sir i'm talking

53:04

about them in the future which

53:06

actually happened about as

53:08

far as you living anywhere

53:10

now that are you should be on find one of our forces

53:13

enjoy and enjoy and gonna try to keep

53:15

the prices low as he can just so that

53:18

we can get our message out there and

53:21

that's funny at all which means top the

53:23

and the stories that we we tell

53:25

and as far and wide as we can't and

53:27

in the other one is i did and i'm a feminist

53:30

but and i'd like to do as as you go

53:35

yeah so does cause of

53:37

all the way that to the beginning when gave literal sad

53:39

steps are gearing give your

53:42

head start on we

53:44

don't fan girl hurt by

53:46

my my i'm a feminist but i'm

53:49

a feminist but feminist feel too geeky

53:51

when i referenced bell hooks or rather

53:53

vs referred to fly

54:00

my boxes beyond better

54:02

than that so i have another

54:04

yeah

54:05

the of ally i did not make that up for

54:07

this i literally sitting on a what's

54:09

that one , my

54:11

other friends like three weeks ago

54:13

of her since ,

54:15

i to say i'm fine i'm the pool

54:17

woman's boho

54:19

i see accessible bell hooks

54:21

i will be the nicest forever as

54:24

i didn't really mind that you found go to i love

54:26

ice and go to swastikas one and i'm delighted

54:28

that my dates are it was just when i

54:30

heard i was off as it i'm just gonna get

54:32

my fondling as the way and i'll just like oh

54:35

just of you're amazing and on our

54:37

case it the manager for fuck you

54:39

didn't get a dick pic ah i

54:43

thought the facts and i will happily be

54:46

excessive let intellectual bell hooks

54:48

bill feel hooks fell yes

54:52

we are some i just use your whole

54:54

bell hooks bell hooks myself

54:57

feel his yeah my parents we have the and ups

55:00

real know about this rock

55:03

, is there anything you came

55:05

to say that you didn't get to say

55:07

absolutely i always have lots to say

55:10

safely as if you are you

55:13

are community organization

55:15

india governmental organization

55:18

literally anyone else hero and

55:20

you want texas our

55:23

the lead comprehensive as specialized

55:25

planes as pencils i see education

55:27

which covers off physical techniques and

55:30

an emotional harm reduction an

55:32

education we talk a lot about can scenes

55:35

and healthy relationship all that good stuff

55:37

place your cat our website we have

55:39

free and accessible cole says we run

55:41

for years the lasers

55:44

yes even to eighteen thirteen

55:46

women in history institutions we have

55:49

could occur top of modi courses

55:52

which has delivered fully and said and said that i

55:54

n's we have to add

55:56

to specialize disability causes we have

55:58

specialized rambo called we have migrants

56:01

for the way he has specifically

56:03

russian course content to help and

56:06

try and ensure the safety of every

56:16

that love to have you along the

56:18

more than in a pittance a voucher lot of

56:20

changes that we can be in contact with the

56:23

cipher other country we have here and

56:25

all three at all

56:26

the second that i wanted to states or

56:28

as opposed to fear money and

56:31

as an injury i we are

56:33

i'm dead seen us play by the government's

56:36

am by charities other charities

56:39

lotteries commission's we're

56:41

we scrape them with her what we can have

56:44

the impact of carthage not only on

56:46

the the little that and

56:48

smut partner violence and generalized

56:50

violence and now she had or towards women

56:53

with same the the rights of violence is

56:55

absolutely skyrocketed over the last for

56:57

two years and

56:59

that demand has outstripped our

57:01

funding completely so

57:03

once again if there's anyone out there

57:05

who has any has any

57:07

change rattling around that they wanna say go

57:09

towards helping improve the lives of

57:12

women and children and

57:14

else he had a lot in place since

57:16

it our way would be more than happy to take that

57:18

this on a fuel school could do a fundraisers

57:20

your office your company could your fundraiser

57:23

if your book group could do a fundraiser feel

57:25

what's up group would all go yeah we'll check

57:27

been in and ten bucks or something that

57:29

would make an enormous difference of all the list as of the go from

57:32

his to new zealand did that on

57:34

one and can i can they check out your website

57:36

find out how to night

57:38

yes absolutely we'll have full donation length

57:41

and all the information on there m goes

57:43

be brand new website would you be launched by

57:45

the time goes to it's so we'll

57:47

be dubbed a dot kaho maru

57:50

dot org dot inside so

57:52

that spelt k a a h

57:54

a you m a

57:56

are you does or doesn't say is

57:58

great and check out the show night if you want

58:00

a direct link otherwise

58:03

give it a google and i'm sure you gonna find

58:05

it it'd be great from this podcast ah

58:08

we could

58:08

race at least five thousand dollars for

58:10

each of these brilliant organizations that

58:12

are doing so much for

58:14

girls women and people have

58:16

much less genders in new zealand

58:19

it's really wonderful stuff that you don't you must

58:21

have all have very fulfilling really realize

58:24

his ribs really got really reason to get out of bed haven't

58:27

i'm not going i'm looking for recent gallup adam to single

58:33

eight i'm kidding i'm kidding

58:35

of course i have sinus are

58:37

also roxy when i'm over i'd love to see

58:39

you do this man lgbtq

58:42

plus drugs and cabaret says

58:45

yeah i have that private i

58:47

went to lot with the local queer community here

58:49

and to fundamentally unsound i'm willing to ah

58:52

shoutout to ivy bertha hosting

58:54

all of the queer cabaret shows that i used

58:56

to produce them play i'm we've

58:59

had to take a little bit of a seat back from that's

59:01

our

59:02

the west as the coven situation and

59:04

what not but the performing arts must go

59:06

on and i'm looking forward to getting back until it as

59:08

well can i can i'll be back punch line because

59:10

great patron are coming back out in july

59:12

and last time we were in wellington we have the best

59:15

time with know either of us have been that we

59:17

walked into a lesbian bar and i said your money's no good

59:19

here we were lost by frederick absolutely

59:21

either about it you winter what about the out

59:23

about it

59:25

we are today that's really the only way about here

59:27

in wellington okay that before we went to them

59:30

for , i i i

59:32

do love to begin as guitar course could i

59:34

may as well yeah absolutely you

59:36

want

59:36

the would you act with grader and torres strait

59:39

i can do the triangle

59:42

are listen these these good suggestions

59:44

listen if you learn to tap proficiently

59:46

enough you can tie to black tie tonight

59:49

i would be

59:49

would feel really wrong not bringing you

59:52

to wellington to go into all that on

59:54

a tool the lesbian balsa framed by all of

59:56

them i do you mean that one yeah

59:58

that one it says as yeah

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