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#121 - Abbey Rae Wilson: Understand Your Purpose With the Power of Human Design

#121 - Abbey Rae Wilson: Understand Your Purpose With the Power of Human Design

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#121 - Abbey Rae Wilson: Understand Your Purpose With the Power of Human Design

#121 - Abbey Rae Wilson: Understand Your Purpose With the Power of Human Design

#121 - Abbey Rae Wilson: Understand Your Purpose With the Power of Human Design

#121 - Abbey Rae Wilson: Understand Your Purpose With the Power of Human Design

Wednesday, 6th December 2023
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0:03

One of the absolutely most

0:05

fascinating parts of my journey

0:07

has been the understanding of

0:10

human design as a whole and

0:12

my human design. And on this

0:14

week's episode of The Higher Self, get ready because we're

0:16

going to have an incredible conversation

0:19

that is going to absolutely

0:21

blow your mind. And

0:23

the conversation is going to be all about you.

0:27

So we're just coming off of Awaken. It's

0:30

Sunday. I've never done a podcast recording on

0:32

a Sunday. I don't even think I've ever worked

0:35

on a Sunday in the last 15 years.

0:39

But you live where you live and we thought we would do

0:41

this. So you ready to rock and roll? I'm here.

0:44

I'm ready. First off, how was your

0:46

Awaken experience? Amazing. Yeah.

0:49

What was your favorite part? I think my

0:51

favorite part for sure was the

0:54

masculine and feminine exercise. I

0:57

have never, I think

0:59

with the exercise that we

1:01

did with the masculine, you

1:04

know, where we would speak to... Yeah, don't tell them

1:06

the secret. Okay, I won't tell them. But

1:10

the exercise that we did, I mean, I learned

1:12

a lot about myself in that exercise, but also

1:14

about the man and the men in my life

1:16

as well. And that's

1:19

the powerful part of what

1:21

you illuminate and what you bring

1:23

in these events. So it was

1:25

amazing. If it were up to

1:27

you for the human being that

1:30

is watching and listening, should they come

1:32

to Awaken? Absolutely. Yeah.

1:35

Like no doubt about it. You know?

1:37

That's how I feel. I feel every human being should. Yeah.

1:40

It's like this, like this ignition.

1:43

It's like this starting and this

1:45

bringing you towards your transformation and

1:47

to your highest self. Yeah,

1:49

that's exactly, that's, yeah, absolutely. And speaking

1:52

of bringing you to your highest self,

1:55

one of the things that helped

1:57

me understand myself

1:59

was... human design. And

2:02

we've been friends for a while now. Yeah. And

2:05

you are a human design expert.

2:07

What's your title? Yeah, I mean,

2:10

human design expert. I love the sound

2:13

of that. But I always think there's

2:15

so much more to learn. So how

2:17

could I really call myself an expert?

2:20

But I'm a

2:22

human design consultant, advocate,

2:24

person. Whatever.

2:27

So what is human

2:29

design and who started

2:31

it? So human design

2:33

is the science of differentiation is what

2:35

makes me me and what makes you

2:37

you. It is a blueprint

2:40

of who you are and what you're

2:42

here to bring, essentially. It was channeled

2:44

by raw

2:47

or who in the 80s,

2:50

I believe, but it's a

2:52

combination of not only

2:55

astrology, but it's astrology, the

2:58

chakra system, the

3:00

Kabbalah, the

3:03

quantum physics, the

3:06

Chinese Yiching, it is a combination

3:08

of all of these ancient modalities.

3:10

And this is what makes it

3:12

like so powerful and accurate

3:16

and layered, you know, so

3:18

rich with information. So for

3:20

sure. So the 80s,

3:22

this was just discovered. Yeah,

3:25

it's kind of like, I mean, some might call

3:27

it new age. But for

3:29

me, I actually see

3:31

the perspective of it's based on all

3:33

of these ancient modalities that have been

3:35

used for thousands of years, you

3:38

know, for different cultures to

3:41

understand the laws of the universe to understand

3:43

why we came to be. And that's what

3:46

it is. I got it. And when you

3:48

say we came to be your meaning

3:50

you can help people or human

3:52

design can help people literally

3:55

understand their purpose, their

3:57

path. And this is one of

3:59

the biggest questions that I get is

4:01

that how do I find my purpose?

4:03

This is it. This is it. Yeah.

4:05

How does it work? So

4:08

your human design, it is based

4:10

on your time of birth, your

4:13

time, time of birth, place

4:15

of birth, and what

4:18

it creates is a blueprint, essentially.

4:21

And when you look up your

4:23

own human design, you know, it can kind

4:25

of look a little bit confusing. You're like,

4:27

what is this? There's so much information, but

4:30

the information in it is

4:33

incredibly rich. And it's just, yeah,

4:36

it shows you your

4:38

purpose, your strengths, your

4:40

weaknesses, your vulnerabilities, and

4:43

how you can lean more

4:45

into your gifts. Yeah. And

4:48

Abby, it's so accurate. Yeah.

4:51

You know. I know. I

4:53

have one done for myself, for

4:56

Jen, for Selena, the moment Selena

4:59

was born, we literally Jen was

5:01

like, call Abby to her what

5:03

time. And then we'll get into that in

5:05

a second. But each of my boys, I

5:07

have one for like, I, I

5:10

it's, it's so accurate. It's

5:13

so dumbfounding how this report could

5:15

tell you so much about you.

5:18

And for me, the beautiful part was understanding

5:20

the parts of me that I always thought,

5:23

you know, were wrong or that, you know, there

5:25

was something weird or that like, why do

5:27

I obsess over certain things? Why am

5:29

I always thinking about certain things? And

5:32

this is the gift that human design

5:34

gave me. It helped me to

5:36

understand why I am the way

5:38

that I am so that I

5:41

feel normal. I feel calm

5:43

and even like safe being

5:46

me, the real authentic me.

5:48

And that's why I say it was one of the

5:50

tools that helped change my life. You

5:53

know, that's exactly it. And it

5:55

just like, it gives

5:57

people I know, and I say this

5:59

because I know the clients

6:01

that I work with have echoed this

6:04

to me, but I've also experienced it

6:06

myself. It gives me the affirmation to

6:08

be who I know I am. And

6:12

there's so many times

6:15

that I will say something, I've

6:17

had the conversations with you where I've

6:19

told you something about your design. And

6:22

there's almost like this, I see this

6:24

look in people's eyes where it's just

6:26

like, oh my God, that's

6:28

why I am the way that I am.

6:32

And human design is here to tell

6:34

you that you're supposed to be like

6:36

that. And

6:38

this is why for doing it

6:40

for Selena and your boys, this is

6:42

why it is so important for people

6:45

to know from an early age as

6:47

well. Because what happens is

6:49

as we go through life, we get

6:52

conditioned, we start

6:54

developing narratives and

6:56

from our schools, from

6:59

our parents as well.

7:02

And this is when we start, I

7:05

guess, questioning parts of ourselves

7:08

and trying to mold ourselves

7:10

to be what

7:12

we should be. Right. It's

7:14

so interesting you say that, but that's why

7:17

I got them done. And that's why

7:19

I got one done immediately for Selena

7:21

was because I can only

7:23

imagine how many, like

7:25

I remember sharing with my son his

7:28

and he goes, you know what,

7:30

that's why I'm in school. And half of

7:32

the time, like I'm looking at

7:34

the carpet and seeing like little action

7:36

figures in the carpet, like because

7:38

I'm so visionary and like, that's why I'm

7:40

always getting in trouble by the teacher, by

7:43

I'm not even doing anything wrong, but it

7:45

was all, it all came from these studies,

7:48

the human design, you know? And

7:51

that's why I think it's so important even as a

7:53

parent to do it with your kids, because it

7:57

breaks my heart is what it really does. The

7:59

millions. of children whose

8:02

parents are

8:04

upset with them, yell them,

8:06

hit them, beat them, simply

8:09

because they don't act the

8:12

way the parent thinks they should

8:14

be acting, right? Instead

8:16

of the parent understanding or

8:19

researching or finding out

8:21

what makes my son or my

8:24

daughter unique, what makes them tick,

8:27

what is their purpose, they

8:29

lash out. And then the little

8:31

child starts to believe that

8:34

who they are, their real authentic

8:36

version of themselves is wrong.

8:39

And you know, with the work that we

8:41

do at all of our events at Awakened,

8:43

it's like, this is like life altering stuff.

8:46

That if a parent with a

8:49

child or, you know, even

8:51

oneself would get this report, I believe

8:53

they would feel so much peace

8:56

about their existence. Absolutely.

8:58

And there's a quote that I

9:00

actually love when it comes to

9:02

children and it's children are not

9:04

something to be molded, rather something

9:06

to be unfolded. And

9:08

I just think that is,

9:11

that holds the essence of what human

9:13

design is about, you know, and there's

9:15

a reason why I like what I

9:17

like and why you like what you

9:20

like, you know, it's something that ignites

9:22

something with my soul, you know,

9:24

and same for you. And so

9:27

when you see like a child

9:29

and they're, you know, excited about a

9:31

certain thing, that is a chance for

9:33

them to lean more into it and

9:35

for you to guide them in that

9:37

rather than, you know, okay, this

9:40

is the way the world wants you

9:43

to live. This is the way we should be.

9:45

This is how we make money. This is how

9:47

we, you know, like, it's

9:49

so interesting you said that, but I keep thinking of

9:51

my friend Sarah. She

9:53

was in the front row at Awakened. She's in our

9:55

inner circle. And I know her story so well, because

9:57

the other day we're on our call and she said,

9:59

says to me, Danny, my dad basically

10:02

pulled me and my brother aside at like 13 and

10:04

said, here's how life is going to go. Um,

10:06

you're going to get a job, you're going

10:09

to hate it. You're going to make very little money.

10:11

You're going to hate your boss and then you're going

10:13

to die. He literally said

10:15

that. Right. And so all

10:17

of our work has been about helping her

10:19

to unravel that right. And to

10:21

drop into yes, her feminine, but

10:23

to her heart herself. And

10:26

you know, she's one of the most wonderful human beings.

10:28

Like she's a comedian and she's so

10:30

funny so she can make a joke out of it.

10:32

Obviously. But like, it just makes me

10:34

think about how many kids, you know, have

10:37

had those types of conversations

10:39

with their parents because

10:41

the parent is trying to mold them based off of

10:43

their own pains and wounds and trauma. Exactly.

10:46

And you know, to, um,

10:48

sort of elaborate on the story

10:50

that you shared, you shared it

10:52

at Awaken and I remember thinking

10:54

her dad was definitely a generator

10:56

and this is what

10:59

I was thinking because, you know, like

11:01

generators, which is one of the energy

11:03

types, you know, they

11:05

are, I mean, you think

11:07

of an actual generator, it has energy,

11:09

it does things, it builds, it does,

11:12

it creates, you know, um,

11:14

and the shadow side of that is

11:16

that we have to be a workhorse.

11:19

Like life is just about work and

11:22

work is supposed to frustrate us. It's

11:24

not supposed to be fun, but

11:26

generators are activated by passion.

11:28

So when

11:30

they're excited by life, that

11:33

is when their energy comes out.

11:35

That's when they overflow and in

11:37

turn they uplift others. And you

11:40

know, so when you shared that story,

11:42

I definitely had a generator. So let's

11:44

go. How many of the energies are

11:46

there? Let's leave mine for last. Okay. So

11:49

we'll have fun with that one. How

11:51

many energies are there and describe to us

11:53

each one. And as you're out there listening, I

11:55

want you to maybe think of and you know,

11:57

maybe, maybe take a guess at which one you

11:59

are. Yeah, so anything else about

12:01

generators? Yeah, so I

12:03

mean, okay I'm gonna share what I

12:06

absolutely admire and love about generators is

12:09

Generators have this

12:12

devotion They have

12:14

this staying power. So when they

12:16

have a passion They

12:19

have this ability to just devote their lives

12:21

to it. It becomes their life's work you

12:24

know, Jen is a great example of this

12:26

actually Jen is a generator and She

12:29

is so passionate about yoga and

12:32

she just made it her business

12:35

her life's work and That's

12:37

the that's the power, you know, and so

12:40

that's something I incredibly like

12:43

admire about generators just this

12:45

ability to devote

12:47

their lives to something Could

12:50

you give me an example of like a

12:52

famous generator Oh David Attenborough David Amber? Oh,

12:54

he's one of my favorites Yes,

12:56

you see and you see like what is

12:58

his passion the earth earth? Animals

13:02

like the natural world that is

13:04

his passion and his whole life

13:06

is about that his whole life You

13:08

see he made a career that span what

13:10

75 years

13:12

or something on this and Imagine

13:16

the time that he grew up in and

13:18

if he said oh like I

13:20

want to work with animals What would

13:23

have people have said you're crazy.

13:25

You can't make money from that, right, you know,

13:27

like how can you Create

13:30

a job out of that. All right, if

13:32

he would have listened to these people what

13:35

would have happened? We want to have all these

13:37

wonderful specials on Netflix Like

13:39

that's his life's work and he devoted his life

13:41

to that and I love that How about like

13:44

an American generator? Maybe or on

13:46

that somebody? Um It's

13:50

not coming okay top of my head what's the

13:52

next one? Okay,

13:55

so manifesting generator. So

13:57

what's the difference there? Okay, so actually

14:00

Let me start with Manifesto. So then

14:03

a Manifesto and a

14:05

Manifesto is literally someone,

14:07

a trailblazer. They

14:09

hold the torch, they're super

14:11

independent, they need freedom, they're

14:13

here to take us down

14:16

roads that we've never been

14:18

down before. A

14:21

great example of a Manifesto is

14:24

J.K. Rowling. She

14:26

completely created a new world with

14:29

Harry Potter. Well,

14:31

that's so many literary

14:35

companies didn't want anything

14:37

to do with, by the way. Nobody wanted

14:39

to develop this book for her, but

14:45

she found the right people and

14:47

that's really, like, for manifestos, is

14:49

important. But

14:52

yeah, manifestos are powerful.

14:55

Their voice is powerful. And

14:59

often the shadow that manifestos

15:02

really have or the conditioning is

15:05

that they're too loud. They're too much.

15:07

They're too much. That

15:10

was a big thing at Awakened. A lot of women,

15:12

did you hear that? Yes. A lot

15:14

of women are like, I've always been told I'm too

15:16

much. They're manifestos. Maybe. Wow. I'm

15:19

too loud, I'm too much. And you

15:21

know, I've been around children that are

15:23

manifestos. And yeah, like, they have

15:25

a voice. Yeah, they

15:27

have a voice. And you can't tell them

15:29

what to do either. You know, is

15:32

that like, that need for independence.

15:34

And if you think about it, that

15:36

need for independence, it comes from the

15:38

fact that they're here to lead. You

15:41

know, so if they're listening to other people,

15:44

they're not in their essence. Wow,

15:46

so powerful. You know, and yeah,

15:48

so that's like the magic of a manifesto.

15:51

And what is a manifesting generator?

15:53

Yeah, so the manifesting generator is

15:56

essentially that combination between the manifesto

15:58

and the generator. So a

16:01

manifesting generator is a powerhouse. They

16:04

are someone who has the ability to

16:07

not only initiate things, but to also

16:09

do them and follow through on them.

16:12

So often they have the

16:14

biggest sort of energy, the biggest

16:17

power, and a manifesting generator.

16:22

I'm a manifesting generator myself. We're

16:25

expanders. We tend to do

16:27

many things, very multi-passionate,

16:30

have a lot of paths that we go down. Sometimes

16:34

we can change our minds a

16:36

lot and that's the conditioning that

16:38

we have. That I

16:40

need to stay in one place, I need to

16:42

settle, I need to do one thing. But

16:46

there's so much energy that comes with

16:48

being a manifesting generator that they're here

16:50

to expand. And

16:53

sort of challenge, break the

16:55

mold, challenge what we believe

16:57

is the right

16:59

path. Got it. So who's

17:02

a manifesting generator? Elon Musk.

17:04

Elon Musk, really? Yes. And

17:06

I think. Yeah, of course, yeah. Look

17:08

at him. How many companies does

17:10

he have? That's a manifesting

17:13

generator. He has multiple companies

17:16

and he doesn't do things by the book.

17:19

That's right. He's outside of the

17:21

lines. He sees not

17:24

so conventional. And

17:27

the manifesting generators are here to

17:30

expand. And with their

17:32

own expansion, they expand how we see

17:34

things and what

17:36

we believe we can grow. Okay.

17:39

Yeah. So if you've

17:42

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17:44

while, you'll know that I'm a strong

17:46

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17:48

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17:51

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17:53

that is deeply rooted in my own

17:55

personal experience with both ayahuasca and psilocybin

17:57

mushrooms. And many of you, for years,

18:00

have always asked me, you know, Danny,

18:02

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18:04

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19:16

and get ready. How about

19:18

a projector? Projectors.

19:21

I love projectors personally

19:24

as a manifesting generator. And if people are

19:29

manifesting generators, they may

19:31

find like I found.

19:34

I have a lot of projectors in my life around

19:36

me. And a projector

19:39

is a guide. They're

19:42

visionaries. They're able to see things

19:44

from kind

19:48

of like an up high

19:50

perspective. They see things that essentially

19:52

we don't see sometimes. And

19:56

yeah, so for me as a manifesting

19:59

generator. a projector really

20:01

grounds my energy because my energy

20:03

is fast, right? So

20:05

a projector can sort of bring things

20:07

into perspective for me. They

20:10

have this higher perspective on life

20:12

and a conditioning

20:15

that a lot of projectors

20:18

come to is because they're all about

20:20

success, right? So they're all

20:22

about this higher perspective that

20:24

they have has the ability to

20:26

get us from A to B

20:29

much quicker, you know, with more

20:31

efficiency. And

20:33

so they're about success. But

20:36

what is the success that we are

20:38

told is important, you know, some

20:41

success is subjective, you

20:43

know, on projectors, they have to

20:45

really tap into what their own success is,

20:47

you know, how they see success, what it

20:49

means to them and move

20:51

in that way, you know, rather

20:54

than this conditioning of success looks

20:56

like this. Got it.

20:58

You know, so who's a projector, a famous

21:00

projector? It's

21:03

gone out of my head. Projector.

21:09

We can come back. I

21:12

can't believe it. Wait, what's that

21:14

projector? Completely

21:17

gone out of my head. That's OK. OK, they don't

21:19

come back. So it comes back. So I have a

21:21

question for you. I don't know if this is my ego

21:23

or what. I know there's one more, right? I,

21:28

as you're saying all of those things,

21:30

I saw myself in all of those.

21:33

And I'm like, is this my ego

21:35

right now? So what

21:37

was that all about? OK, because you're

21:40

a reflector. See,

21:42

I never knew that. OK, whatever you're about to

21:44

tell me, I never knew because I literally was

21:46

sitting there thinking like, I'm that one. Wait

21:49

a minute. I'm that one. No, I'm really that

21:51

one. It was it was pretty wild. So

21:54

you, you're reflector. Reflectors

21:57

are one percent of the population.

22:00

the rarest one. Yeah, super, super

22:02

rough. So, and I remember

22:04

when I heard that I was me. Of

22:07

course. Like reflectors are, you

22:10

know, your aura is sampling,

22:13

which means you're here to taste life.

22:15

So you taste different energies all

22:18

the time. Yeah, you know, and this is,

22:21

I have this theory about

22:24

reflectors. And, you know,

22:26

be reminded reflectors are 1% of people.

22:28

So, you know,

22:30

it's kind of limited how much we

22:32

know about reflectors, right? But

22:35

I have this theory because I think

22:38

reflectors literally embody the meaning of life,

22:40

because they are here to taste

22:43

and experience and gather wisdom. And

22:45

they have this ability to just

22:48

like walk into a room and

22:51

feel the energy, you know, and

22:54

when they can taste that, and, you

22:56

know, I mean, I always say to

22:58

reflectors, be a sieve and not a

23:01

sponge, you know, it's not about absorbing

23:03

the energies around you and attaching to

23:05

them. It's about tasting them, letting them

23:07

to through you, letting them be. But

23:12

they're all about flow,

23:14

surrender, finding the joy in

23:16

life. And for

23:19

me, really like embodies sort of like

23:21

this meaning of life of we're here

23:23

to experience or here to taste where

23:25

he had to move through and flow

23:28

through what life brings our way. And

23:31

yeah, I think, you know, reflectors

23:33

really reflect that. But

23:36

you know as well. And I think this

23:39

really shows up in what you do

23:41

as well. You were telling me that

23:44

you were as you were at Awaken, you

23:46

were like tripping out on some of the things that I said,

23:48

and you were like, that's a reflect

23:50

like, yeah, sure. I

23:53

think this is just so interesting to this happens

23:55

all the time. But yeah,

23:57

like a reflector. So you're here to illuminate.

24:00

you know, the energies of the

24:02

room and how that can look

24:04

is you are able to sense

24:07

the blocks that we have. You're

24:10

able to sense the gifts that we have

24:12

and either you know move

24:14

us into a place where you're taking

24:16

blocks away or you know move us

24:18

into a place where you're you know

24:21

shining a light on our gifts as

24:23

well and giving people that affirmation. There

24:26

was a moment in Awaken, there's a

24:28

couple of moments but there was one

24:30

particular moment I remember and there was

24:33

a guy and he got up and

24:35

he shared and you said to

24:37

him straight away, why am I

24:39

sensing that you're nervous? And

24:42

this was your feeling, you're

24:45

literally feeling this energy. Yes,

24:47

yes, it was Abby was so

24:50

wild because here I am, guys you should have

24:52

seen this, it was like this, he must have

24:54

been six foot four like blonde like beautiful

24:58

like hunk of a man like

25:00

just like you know you see this guy on

25:02

the shoe you're like you gotta be some sort

25:04

of super madder and I could just

25:06

sense it in him and I like stopped him I

25:08

was like why are you nervous

25:11

because it felt so weird to

25:13

me that if you looked

25:15

like that based on the society that you

25:17

would be dealing with anything. It sure has,

25:20

he was dealing with a lot. As

25:22

a matter of fact remember on the last day his share

25:24

in the final session yeah but

25:26

go ahead. Yeah, but

25:28

yeah so as a reflector you can

25:30

really tap into as

25:32

they say the energetic frequencies around

25:35

you so you're able to sense

25:37

how people are feeling, sense their

25:39

fears, sense what they're thinking. There's

25:41

so much that reflect a consent

25:43

and so that was one

25:46

example. I

25:48

remember actually from another Awaken, from a

25:50

previous Awaken that I came to you

25:52

shared a story and I was like

25:54

oh my god this is classic

25:57

reflector but you were

25:59

sharing this story. about how you were

26:02

in this workout group or something, you felt

26:04

like you were on the outside looking

26:07

in sort of at this

26:09

group. And then towards

26:11

the end, you came into the center.

26:14

And this is, I mean, if you think

26:17

about reflectors being 1% of

26:19

the population, see that as one

26:21

in 100, right? Like

26:23

one in 100, you're supposed to be at the

26:25

middle. And that

26:27

is like, if we think

26:29

back to say hundreds of years ago, the reflectors,

26:32

they would have been like the wise

26:34

sages who they

26:37

would come out and come to

26:39

the middle of the groups and

26:41

reflect like wisdom and share what

26:43

we needed to know in order

26:46

to move forward collectively. That's

26:48

the magic of a reflector. Can I tell you

26:51

something really crazy? Go on. This

26:53

is gonna sound very weird, very,

26:55

but for you, I don't know, I'm just gonna say it.

26:59

Do you remember, I can't believe I'm

27:01

gonna say this. I'm a little embarrassed

27:03

right now. Okay, do you remember the

27:05

movie Happy Seat? Yeah. How

27:08

long has, I can't believe I'm gonna say

27:10

this right now. How long has that movie has been around

27:12

for how long? A long time. 20 years. Maybe,

27:14

yeah. This was way before

27:17

my spiritual journey started. Okay. This

27:19

was way before I knew about any of this stuff. Do

27:21

you know which character I associated with? Which

27:23

one? The fat guy. The fat,

27:26

like spiritual leader, that they would come and

27:28

they would leave him the fish. And

27:30

then he would be like, well, who's the guy? He

27:32

was like, he was just this fat guy,

27:35

the fat penguin with like, he was like

27:37

sitting on this like chair and he

27:39

would give people wisdom. Wow. You

27:41

know which one I was talking about, Cass? Lovelace.

27:44

I was like, I

27:47

was, and I remember back then I was like, I

27:50

think someday I'm gonna be like Lovelace. Oh

27:52

my God. It was this thought, right? That

27:55

like someday I would give people like advice

27:57

and stuff. And that

27:59

didn't make sense. This is wild. Yeah.

28:01

This is wild. And I mean, I

28:03

was just sharing with Jan something about

28:06

your design that blows my mind as

28:08

well. And you know, obviously, human design

28:10

is very layered. There's so many different

28:13

components that makes up someone's design. So

28:15

you know, one of the main ones

28:18

and the one that I encourage everyone,

28:20

especially if you're new to human design

28:22

to go to is your energy type.

28:25

So it is the five things that we've just listed. We

28:29

have also have, you know, our

28:31

centers, our gates. Now the

28:33

gates are where we get specific.

28:36

So where they're really like purposeful

28:39

attributes that you hold, right?

28:42

And one of your gates, it's in

28:44

two parts of your design. It is

28:46

in a part of your design is

28:48

where your soul shines and

28:51

it's also in your prosperity. And

28:53

I actually call this gate the motivational

28:56

speaker. Oh, wow. And this

28:58

like this blows my

29:00

mind. This is like one of those, you

29:02

know, mind blowing things that I that I

29:06

see. And those

29:08

are the numbers, right? Like five,

29:10

one, whatever. Yeah. Yeah. So

29:13

these are the numbers, not the five one. These

29:16

are like, so this is gate 35 that I'm

29:18

talking about. Okay. So we have 64

29:20

gates. Okay. And

29:22

they all have hold these

29:24

like really powerful gifts. And

29:28

when we, we can tap in and

29:30

understand them, that's like a really deep aspect

29:32

of human design. But I

29:35

always say your foundations are important

29:37

because when you align to the

29:40

foundations, all of those things fall

29:42

into place naturally. So for example, if I

29:44

want to find my purpose, I

29:46

find it through the gate. You didn't

29:48

teach me that, but I just, I just figured that out. Because

29:51

so many people, it's like, if you know what gate,

29:53

what is it called? What gate is open or what

29:55

gate is activated, activated.

29:57

So whatever. So you're saying

30:00

that based off of the day that we're born,

30:02

the place that we're born, the time that we're

30:04

born, we come, we get imprinted

30:06

or whatever with a human design, like this

30:08

is you, right? And then

30:10

and based off that human design, we

30:12

are either one of the energies. On

30:15

top of that, we have several

30:17

or one or more gates that are

30:19

open or closed. And the ones that are

30:21

open are the ones that can tell us

30:24

essentially what our purpose is. So

30:27

the ones that are activated, activated,

30:29

activated. So we have, you know,

30:31

there's an opportunity, there's

30:33

64 different gates. What are your top

30:35

five gates? I don't know. Oh, wow.

30:38

Like, okay. One of my favorite

30:40

gates, we actually share this gate, which makes sense

30:42

for the conversation that we're having. But

30:45

gate 48 is one of my favorite gates.

30:47

As soon as I see this on a

30:49

client design, I'm

30:51

like, okay, permission to go

30:53

deep, because this gate is

30:55

called the well. And it's

30:57

about depth. And people

30:59

with this gate, they love to go down

31:02

the well, like they love to just like,

31:05

keep going and learning and getting

31:07

deep. And so people

31:09

like this, the conversations that you're going

31:11

to have, they're not going to be

31:13

really selfless level, they're going to be

31:15

deep. Yeah. And so this is an

31:17

energy that I love. And for me

31:19

personally, I think this is why human

31:22

design found me, you know, because I

31:24

love going down the well. Okay. Okay.

31:32

Gate 64, I'm thinking 64 is

31:35

all about curiosity.

31:38

So people with this, and it's

31:40

the last gate. So

31:42

if you think the last gate, it's

31:44

kind of like a closing energy. And

31:46

this curiosity, it's like looking back and

31:48

reflecting and almost wanting to

31:51

know like the meaning of life, the meaning

31:53

of all of this. And

31:55

so people who have this energy, they're

31:57

going to be really interested in you

32:00

know, kind of ancient texts or, you

32:02

know, um, histories of life and why

32:04

we came to be and all of that

32:07

kind of stuff. Jen has this gate

32:09

actually. Okay. Um, so I

32:11

think this is a beautiful gate as well. Okay.

32:13

I'll give me another one.

32:16

Uh, what was this one? Gate 41.

32:18

Gate 41 is very

32:21

creative. So if anybody

32:23

has gate 41 in

32:25

their chart, as soon as I see that in

32:27

someone's chart, I'm like, what are you doing creatively?

32:30

And you know, creativity, it's subjective. Like

32:33

it doesn't have to be that you're

32:35

an artist can be, but you know,

32:37

it's when I see this

32:40

in a chart, I encourage my client

32:42

to make sure that they're, you

32:44

know, bringing in that creative element into the

32:47

work. You know, your work is something that

32:49

you tend to do every day. So it's

32:51

like, how can you bring in that creativity?

32:54

You know, even if you're, you know, someone

32:56

like a stay at home mom, they're

32:59

going to be creative with their kids. Just

33:01

kind of thing. It's bring it into your

33:03

day, bring it into your life. It's important.

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This seems like it's a

34:16

lot because the other thing is like

34:18

your channels. Yeah. So we

34:20

have just to give like a sum up

34:22

of the, um,

34:25

of the parts of your design. So

34:27

the foundations, they are, you know,

34:29

your energy type. So what your aura says about

34:32

you when you walk into a room, you

34:34

know, you, you understand that when you meet

34:36

someone, I can feel it when I meet

34:38

someone, they have an energy, right? Then

34:42

we have our authority, which is how you

34:44

make decisions. Life

34:46

changing. This changed my life. Why?

34:49

Because for me, I am what

34:51

we call emotional authority. And

34:53

so for me, I am supposed to not

34:56

make decisions in the moment. I'm

34:58

supposed to sleep on it and

35:01

you know, just really like allow

35:03

a decision to marinate a little

35:05

bit. And what I

35:07

realized is I'd spent my whole

35:09

life impulsively making decisions. Wow.

35:13

And I mean, yeah,

35:15

opposite. And this is

35:18

very common. It's very common for people

35:20

to make decisions from

35:22

the opposite of how they're supposed to. I

35:24

see it all the time. This is life

35:27

changing. Yeah, this is, and we're making

35:29

decisions constantly in life. And so it's kind

35:31

of like if you're aligned

35:33

with how you best do that,

35:37

you're going to make better decisions. I think I

35:39

make decisions based off the moon. Is that

35:41

correct? Yes. So it's kind of, you know,

35:43

that's what I want to, how does that work?

35:45

Cause I don't know. I don't think I understand

35:48

that. So it's for

35:51

a reflector. The

35:53

authority is to wait a lunar

35:55

cycle. So you're more

35:58

in tune with the cycle

36:00

of the moon, right? So 28 days. It

36:03

doesn't mean that you can't make decisions for

36:05

28 days. But it can mean

36:07

that it takes you a little

36:09

bit longer to come to decisions.

36:11

But I always say

36:13

to reflect as follow your own cycle.

36:16

You know, so follow your own rhythm might

36:19

be shorter, sometimes might be longer, like

36:21

just allow it to flow. Okay,

36:24

how it best works for

36:26

you. What else? So

36:30

that's our authority. And then

36:32

we have your sentence. So

36:36

your sentence these are based on

36:38

the chakra system. So we have

36:40

nine different energy centers. Each

36:42

of them means something else. Whether

36:44

they are defined, that's if they're

36:47

colored in, or if they're undefined, which

36:49

is when they are colored in white. So

36:52

our defined sentence, that's kind of

36:54

like your power and the power

36:56

others come to you for. And

36:58

your undefined centers,

37:01

these are they can be quite vulnerable

37:03

centers as well. And you can experience

37:05

this as a reflector because all your

37:08

centers are undefined. Yeah. But it can be a place of vulnerability.

37:14

But it can also be a place

37:16

of wisdom. Because it's why

37:18

you take in the outside world. So

37:21

depending on your awareness to that,

37:23

right, like if you're aware that

37:26

you're taking in

37:28

emotions, then you're going to

37:30

be able to set boundaries. It's

37:33

so interesting, Abby, when I remember, you

37:35

know, true story,

37:38

the first four or five

37:40

awakens that I would do on

37:42

a Sunday, the day after

37:45

I would be knocked out,

37:47

completely knocked out.

37:51

Because I didn't understand that

37:53

about myself. And now

37:56

before Awaken, I set very

37:58

clear energetic boundaries. meditate on

38:00

it. I just create, I know how to

38:02

do this obviously. And I'm, I

38:05

mean, we're out just playing football with the kids. I

38:07

feel great. It's been life changing for me. And

38:10

I even remember, somebody asked me this once,

38:12

they asked me a question or something, I

38:14

don't exactly remember. It was maybe on a

38:16

call. But I remember there was

38:18

like this victim energy around it. Like, Oh

38:21

my God, I taken everybody's energy

38:23

and it's so, it's just

38:26

part of who I am. And it

38:28

was, and it was like, almost

38:30

just like martyrdom thing, you

38:33

know? And it's

38:36

the only way I was able to get out

38:38

of that is to understand my human

38:41

design. And guys, I'm telling

38:43

you, this is how, I

38:45

don't know that the word important justifies.

38:49

It is you, it's

38:51

everything. It is you

38:54

as a human being, finding

38:57

out who you are as a human

38:59

being. That's not important. That is vital.

39:02

That's vital for your life. Yeah.

39:04

And it's kind of like, I

39:07

think that brings back to, you

39:09

know, your message of, you

39:11

know, separation and how separation, you

39:13

know, how we want to evolve

39:16

into oneness. And I actually

39:18

believe why this is the power of human

39:20

design, because when we

39:23

step in and celebrate our individuality,

39:25

we empower ourselves to become what

39:27

we're here to be and bring

39:29

what we're here to bring. And

39:32

when we do that, we become

39:34

one. I love that. One

39:36

with ourselves, one with everybody

39:38

else. Yeah, one with our purpose, one with

39:41

our mission. Yeah, you know, it's so funny.

39:43

And this is why you always catch me

39:45

seeing this. And that's when life is in flow. I'm

39:48

trying to get everybody in flow. That's

39:50

it. Yeah. And you see, and it's

39:52

kind of like, even for you, like,

39:54

well, for me as an observer of

39:56

you awaken, for example, you know, I'm

39:58

saying, Oh, I see. see this energy

40:00

and that energy and you're like, I didn't

40:03

even realize that's the whole point when you're

40:05

just in flow with yourself and in flow

40:07

with the foundations of your design, all of

40:09

those other things, they fall into place. It

40:11

just falls into place. It's just natural. And

40:15

so many times that I will

40:17

talk with a client, they will

40:19

talk about how a particular

40:23

energy, it's just like, how do you know that

40:25

about me? Or

40:27

it's like this affirmation of this

40:30

specific quality that they have and

40:32

they don't know what to do with it. Or they

40:35

haven't understood it and it's like, oh my

40:37

God, now it makes sense. Now I

40:39

can be that. I can step into that. Yeah.

40:42

And I guess people power. Yeah. I

40:45

love that. Yeah. Is

40:47

there another? So that was the chakras. Yeah. And

40:50

then of course the gates. The gates. As I

40:52

spoke about. Yes. The gates are

40:54

those specific powers. So specific qualities

40:56

that you're here to bring your gifts

40:59

and there's a duality to the gates

41:01

like everything in life. So the

41:04

more that you understand them, the more that

41:06

you can lean into their gifts and sort

41:08

of, you know, kind of, I'm

41:10

not going to say let go of their shadow

41:12

because shadow sometimes has a place, but you know,

41:15

kind of, um, not be absorbed

41:18

by the shadow. Yeah. Um,

41:20

and then of course our life profile. So this

41:22

was the five one you were talking about. Yeah.

41:26

So for me, the life profile, it's

41:28

part of your life path. It is

41:30

how you express your purpose, you

41:32

know, so for you, the

41:35

five is the guide, the

41:37

networker, you know, and so just

41:39

your events that awaken, it's like

41:42

bringing all of these people together

41:44

and being that guide. And

41:47

that's why it's incredibly important. You have

41:49

those boundaries in place because for

41:52

a five, most people, they

41:54

will try and come to you and they will.

41:57

And this is where there's that feeling of martyrdom.

42:00

Abby, you have no idea

42:02

how I have evolved

42:04

into understanding people's energies. Like I can

42:06

see it from a mile away now.

42:08

Like I can see it when someone,

42:11

because the other thing about reflectors is

42:13

that we have the savior thing, right?

42:15

Like we're like, people think like we're the answer. And

42:18

this is why you always hear me always reflect

42:20

back and then go, no, it's you. You're the

42:22

one. But I, but it's because, but

42:25

it's because, and now I see this even going back to

42:27

my real estate broker days. I

42:29

remember people would come and they would

42:31

be so excited. True story. They'd be so excited

42:34

to like sign the contract and start working

42:36

for my company because I could see

42:38

them seeing in me the

42:40

ability to help them change their life. The

42:44

problem was back then I was in my ego. So I

42:46

did think it was me that was changing their life, you

42:48

know? And then I could

42:50

see that, that that were like wears off

42:53

and the minute it wears off,

42:55

I can true story, Abby, all

42:58

the realtors were like be resentful with me. And

43:00

then they would like leave and they would hate

43:03

me. Like absolutely hate me.

43:05

Right. And they hated me because

43:07

now I see it. It's like, eventually

43:09

they realized that they were let down by

43:12

me, but it wasn't that they were let

43:14

down by me. It was that they were

43:16

let down of their energetic

43:18

expectation of what I was going

43:20

to do for them. Isn't this

43:23

crazy? Oh, wow. Yeah. And,

43:25

and, and, and instead of should have been, which

43:27

now I understand it from the minute I casted

43:30

it, I say, no, it's you, it's

43:32

you discovering you. You don't need

43:34

me. You don't need anybody. You

43:37

need you. Right. And,

43:39

and for you business people out there, this is

43:41

why this is so important because if I would

43:43

have known this back then, Abby,

43:46

the amount of like successful real

43:48

estate is that I created like

43:50

in Southern California or not. I created

43:52

that our system created. That,

43:55

that literally like we could have all

43:58

been working together. Yeah. Like probably. probably

44:00

still to this day, but

44:02

I didn't understand any of this. And

44:05

this is where like, if you're a business

44:07

person, my God, this stuff is so important.

44:10

Oh yeah. I mean, it's important for every human being

44:12

on earth. I

44:14

kind of like, I have this

44:16

sort of like vision of where human

44:18

design is going to slot in eventually

44:22

and schools is one of

44:24

them. We

44:26

spoke about this before,

44:29

but if we

44:31

can understand how children should be

44:33

taught, I

44:36

mean, the whole system is archaic, the

44:38

whole system is old. So

44:40

it's kind of like, if we

44:42

understood where our kids come from, we can just sort

44:44

of empower that. But

44:49

also in businesses, instead

44:51

of taking a CV, take your

44:54

human design, and people

44:56

can understand, okay, this is the magic that

44:58

you're here to bring. Not

45:00

only that, but they can, how can

45:03

they support you as an employee as

45:05

well? Like, how can I bring

45:07

the best out in you? So

45:12

this is like another, I mean, health care as well.

45:15

I actually see it in these

45:17

places. I love it. So the sky's

45:19

the limit. Yeah.

45:24

Really? Abby, so it's

45:26

been my dream to help

45:28

bring all of these things that have

45:31

changed my life to the world. Yeah.

45:35

And that's why I'm so excited about this

45:37

podcast, because this is

45:39

the first, I've been waiting, Abby. I wanted

45:42

this moment. You live, where do

45:44

you live in? Hong Kong. You live

45:46

in Hong Kong. Wait a minute. You

45:48

live where? Yeah, I live in Hong Kong. Since when did you

45:50

live in Hong Kong? Like a year ago. I'm

45:53

a manifesting generator. I changed. You got to

45:55

move around. I love that. We got to

45:57

talk more about that later. Yeah. But

45:59

you lived in the U. Yeah,

46:01

UK, Sweden. Sweden, yeah. Okay, alright.

46:03

Been around. You've been around. But

46:06

I wanted it to be you because you're the one that

46:08

helped me with this and you're the one, I love the

46:10

way your reports look and they're

46:12

so detailed and you've

46:15

created a system that allows people

46:17

to literally, like what do they

46:19

need? They need, you just need

46:21

your birth date, your birth time

46:23

and the place you were born.

46:26

That's it? That's it. If

46:28

I have that, we're going to

46:30

send everybody, you're going to go to dannymorrell.com

46:32

backslash human design. It's

46:35

going to connect you directly to Abby

46:37

and she is going to create for

46:39

you, like how detailed the report is.

46:41

Oh, this is like super detailed. And

46:44

personalized? It's

46:46

personalized. So it's going to, it

46:49

gives you the information on your

46:51

energy type, your authority, your life

46:53

profile, whether your centers are defined

46:55

or undefined and what that means

46:58

and every one of your activated gates.

47:01

Wow. It's magic and

47:03

it's literally, I call

47:05

this a forever reading. I

47:08

think any reading I do, I tell

47:10

clients, come back to it, rewatch

47:13

or reread, however

47:15

the format is, but it's

47:18

a forever reading because your design

47:20

doesn't change. That's right. We

47:22

can be influenced by cosmic

47:24

energies or by the people that we're

47:26

surrounded by, but the

47:29

core of you is static. And

47:33

so you can come back to these readings at

47:35

different points in your life and it's going to

47:37

talk to you in different ways. Wow. That's

47:39

beautiful. It's forever. So

47:42

how do people, so dannymorrell.com backslash

47:44

human design is to get the

47:46

human design. And then how do people

47:48

get a hold of you if they

47:51

see the report, maybe they have

47:53

questions. Sure. Yeah. So you

47:55

can reach me on Instagram

47:57

at abbyraywilson. And that's at?

48:00

How do you spell it? A-B-B-E-Y-R-A-E-W-I-L-S-O-N.

48:06

I love that. I love that. Thank

48:08

you for being here. Thank you so

48:10

much. I think this is so

48:12

important. And if you're out there watching this, I

48:15

can't tell you enough, like I said, I have one done

48:17

for myself, for Jen, obviously, my partner,

48:19

for every one of our kids. Selena,

48:23

I kid you not, if

48:26

I could call Jen right now and I were

48:28

to ask her what is the one thing we

48:30

wanted when Selena was born, it

48:32

was her time of birth, and she texted

48:34

me, she said literally, text Abby right now. You

48:36

were the first person to know when Selena was

48:38

born. Oh, I loved it. Here's her date, here's

48:40

her time. And I go to work. And you're

48:43

like, I'm on it. I go to work. But

48:46

I mean, just to say about Selena's

48:48

design as well, because, you know, something

48:50

that you talk about a lot in

48:52

Awaken is how we choose our parents.

48:55

Yeah. She chose you

48:57

guys, for sure. I know. A

49:00

lot of what her purpose is and

49:02

a lot of her purposeful energies, let's

49:04

say, because I believe we have multiple

49:06

purposes. And that's me being

49:08

a manifesting generator as well. Right. But

49:13

yeah, I mean, her incarnation is

49:15

the incarnation of healing. Wow.

49:19

That is wild. That is wild.

49:21

Yeah. Thank you, Abby. Thank

49:23

you for everything that you do. Thank you. Thank

49:26

you. Thank you for Human Design. Thank

49:29

you for what you've done for our family and I

49:31

think what you're going to do for hopefully hundreds of

49:33

thousands. No, I'm going to declare millions of families all

49:35

over the world. It's amazing. I love it.

49:38

Thank you for having me. Yeah. And

49:40

that's a wrap for this week's episode of The Higher Self. Please

49:42

do yourself, your children, your everybody that

49:44

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49:47

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49:49

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49:51

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49:53

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