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Let's talk about this for a second. If we're really honest, who here grew up
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loving getting a plus? Let me see what you're doing. Yeah. Let me see you
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a plussers. Let me see those hands. I love it. Okay? Now let me
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ask you a question. What's gonna block your purpose?
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You're like, shit. I raised my hand. Not getting a
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plus in this one. Right? I've coined a phrase
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called a plus syndrome. Because what's ironic is I'm a
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college dropout, the child of a PhD and a master's, Teaching
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people who are certified with degrees how to make money.
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That's it's Kipp of if you think about this, don't drop out of college Because
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why? You're not gonna get money for the job. And now
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I'm like, drop out of college so you can get money for the you know?
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Like, there's a ironic thing. Right? It's kinda cool. Right?
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And a plus syndrome is something I've noticed because I love education. I'm not anti
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college. I'm not anti school. I'm not anti education, but the way that
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we were taught learn is not helpful as an entrepreneur. It's not helpful for purpose,
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and I'm gonna prove it to you. Okay? So Eric Schmidt, Google
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chairman, said this. It looks like the thing that
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separates out capable students from really successful ones
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isn't their knowledge, but their persistence with something.
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How long are you gonna be persistent with something? Okay? So the dude who
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runs Google who's heard of Google? Anybody? That guy
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It's like, yo. It doesn't matter what you know. It's what you do long term
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whether or not you have a degree. Okay? So here are a few
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symptoms of a plus syndrome I have identified over the years?
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Comparison, procrastination, distraction, playing small, self doubt,
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Perfectionism to name a few. Anybody have at least 1? Let me see if I
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show a hands. Okay. We need to
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talk. Okay? We gotta talk. Okay? So this is the
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a plus syndrome mindset. Alright?
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The a plus syndrome says, you know what? I'm gonna get all this information before
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I take a test. I'm gonna get all this data. I'm gonna study for a
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long time, and then they're gonna test me. That's how we were taught to learn.
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Alright. Also, I have to be perfectly prepared for the questions
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I'm going to receive, and I'm gonna have an idea of what those questions are.
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Some people give you the questions before the test. Okay? In the
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a plus mindset, cheating
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is teamwork. Think about that. Could you imagine
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if you applied the academic mindset to your business? Think about that. Bless
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you. Right? Oh, I'm sorry. I know I'm supposed
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to be my unique ability, but is it cheating to help you ask you to
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do customer service because I wanna go teach? Or is it
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teamwork? In the a plus mindset, cheating is teamwork.
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Okay? Also, perfect grades are what lead to high paying jobs. That's a
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huge mindset, And you're taught to be a passive learner just like what's
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happening right now, which is one of the reasons why I love Jeff. Gets the
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movement going in this room? Because movement helps
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you learn. It helps you not be so passive because in business, you have to
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be active or passive. Active or passive, y'all?
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Passive. That's right. T. What? Oh.
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T. What? Now they gotta get the
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back of the room into it. T. T.
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That's right. You gotta be active in your business.
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And by the way, a plus mindset teaches you that you need permission even to
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go to the bathroom. Think about that. We
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had to ask permission to go to the bathroom. Could you imagine your business? I'm
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sorry. Do you mind if I go to the restroom? And they're like, no. Hold
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it. No. And by the way, that's just the bathroom. People need permission to raise
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their rates. They think they think they need permission to to to take the next
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step to invest. Whose permission do you need?
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Only yours, but we were trained otherwise. Okay? So a plus
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syndrome is very expensive. It's taught you that taking risks is
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risky, And here's why. It's actually a really good reason because
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all of my work is trauma informed. I look at, like, what's the real context
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of this belief? I don't shame people with limiting beliefs. There's no such thing as
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a bad or negative response. There's an adaptive response to a trauma underneath
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it. And so one of the things I realized is that most of us
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Where in 2018, almost 2019, most of us
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suffer from this lingering trauma called the great depression.
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In the great depression, the people who came out of that and thrived out of
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that were like, hey. Yo. You got a roof over your head. You got a
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job. You got some food. You're good. And that has
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stayed with us since the 19 thirties. And it's almost a 100
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years later. We're in an exponential world with artificial intelligence
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Basically crushing jobs left and right, going, I
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need a job, and I just, you know, got us this is my set point.
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And I think it's time to let go and honor our ancestors who went through
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the great depression to be able to give us the life that we have today,
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let that mindset go. And to realize, you know what? That's not the world that
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we live in today. People make $100,000 a year or more playing video
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games. Okay? Like, seriously. You're like, what exactly?
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Right? Like, man, I should've let my son play the video game more. Yeah. He
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could be paying off your mortgage right now. Right?
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We live in a different world today, and it's changing so quickly. Okay? So that
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trauma is time to let it go. And, also, we've been taught that perfection is
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what leads to financial success because perfect grades. Does Does that resonate with
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anybody, by the way? Perfection resonates with success. I gotta do it perfectly.
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You guys are yeah? Cool.
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Because we're busy being honest. Okay? I got perfectionism tendencies
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as well. Okay? And here's the hardest part, especially with the
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trauma informed piece. A plus syndrome taught parents
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to expecting perfection from their children is what love is.
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Right in the fields. Right? Like, oh. And so here's the
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thing. Messing up, not getting it right feels like a betrayal to
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the people who raised you Because of what they went through was
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probably harder than what you're going through in a certain sense. Who follows? Does it
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make sense? But here's the deal. Perfection It's not gonna
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help you anymore. Perfection is the opposite of success. In biology,
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perfection creates extinction. In in entrepreneurship,
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perfection is the opposite of profit. And so we have to
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bust through this and realize I'm gonna make lots of mistakes. In fact, Mistakes are
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the name of the game. So let me ask you a question if you're really
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honest. Is a plus syndrome killing your dreams a little or a lot? What do
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you guys think? That's right. And I wanna honor you for
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being honest because it takes a lot of courage and realness to be honest about
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something like that. But you when you get honest about it, that's when you can
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change things. And there is a cure, and I got 6 minutes to give it
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to you. Alright? Would you like to know what the cure is, guys?
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Alright. So Number 1 skill for the future is agile
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risk taking. Agile risk
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taking. I'm gonna break that down for you. Agile risk Kipp,
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flexible, strategic risk taking
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is the name of the game. It is the entire it is the opposite of
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the mindset of the 19 thirties post depression mindset? It's the entire
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opposite of it because we are in a different world today. Alright? Reid Hoffman,
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founder of LinkedIn. If you aren't embarrassed by the 1st version of your
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product, you shipped too late. Yeah. Exactly.
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Right? You gotta be embarrassed more. Right? The first stuff I put
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out, I look back, and I'm like, woah.
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Woah. But we got it out. Different priority. So if you're
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waiting around to get the perfect thing, the perfect, perfect thing, no. Ship it
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next, and you'll learn. That's the name of the game. Who's gonna be a little
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bit more embarrassed moving forward? Let me see by show of hands. Can we honor
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that? Alright. Great. Now here's some proof that failure
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It's how you become successful. Okay? So baseball
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players, the best in the world, 15 to 35% success rate
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in their batting stats. In academic terms, that's Mastin
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f, but it gets into the world series. Not beating the not
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beating the Boston Red Sox. I'm a Dodger fan. Okay?
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2 years in a row, I saw someone walking around with a Red Sox hat,
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and I will find you. Okay? But think about this. The
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best baseball players in the world, the 15% gets you in the majors.
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35% makes you an all star. The best salespeople in the world have
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a failure rate of 80 to 90%. They wouldn't pass their classes at
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that rate. Think about that. 80%
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failure, and they win. Who likes that data? Yeah.
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Abraham Lincoln only won 30% of the elections that he ran.
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30%. Abraham Lincoln failed 70% of the time in
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politics. Look at him. Change the world. Point this is
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staggering. I was trying to find stuff that's, like, not colonel Sanders because everyone uses
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colonel Sanders. So I was trying to find un colonel Sanders examples. 0.006%
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of Emily Dickinson's work was published in her lifetime.
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Yeah. Loser, though. Total loser. Didn't get anything
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right. Right? And then Tim Ferris, 26
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out of 27 publishers said no. That's 97%. 3%
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success rate, Tim Ferriss. And you're wondering
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Why it's hard to get a 100% and that you have to get a 100%
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to be there while everybody else is, like, 3% in their way to
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success? Who falls? Does it make sense? So the agile approach.
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Okay? And we give it to you fast, but, you know, just take it in.
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Remember, you're gonna get the slides, so don't take notes. Be with me. Okay? The
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agile approach. Alright? Take tests that
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you feel unprepared for. It's the opposite of what we learned.
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It's impossible to succeed without asking for help, and it's not cheating. It's called
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teamwork. You've gotta cheat more, which is asking
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for help. Alright. The only way to thrive financially is to
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get bad grades. That's the only way to do it. You gotta get f. So
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you gotta get 3 percents, 2 percents, 1% success, not a 100%.
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Also, you have to be proactive. You can't sit back and be Mastin and
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expect things to come to you. No client is like, yo. Let me show up
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at your house and, like, overcome all my own objections so they can buy your
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stuff? Because you let me introduce you. You know what? I've already overcome my injections.
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I found you, and here's $10,000. Like, that doesn't happen. You've gotta be
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proactive in that process. And whose permission do you really
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need? Come on, y'all. Whose permission do you really need?
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That's right. Just look left and Right? And go, I only need my permission from
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now on. That's right. That's right. Only yours.
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One last little thing. 15 and or more of these companies no
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longer no longer have, Require a degree. There's a lot more. A new,
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article on Glassdoor recently came out. Okay. Here's some companies where you don't need a
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degree anymore. Yeah. Yeah. And by the way,
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Whole Foods' not the checkout person. Corporate. And by the way,
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in my business, we hire the entry level in my business because we're trauma informed,
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you have to have a master's degree. Starting salary is $40,000 with a
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master's. Okay. So just think about that. Okay?
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And, by the way, let's talk about 1 more loser, Apple. Everyone ever heard of
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Apple? Those losers got a f and only captured 45%
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of the smartwatch market last month in September,
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but yet are they raking in the money? They got a 45%
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on their test, and they're crushing it. Who follows? Does this make
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sense? So we gotta fail more. Who wants to let themselves get a f from
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now on? Who wants, like, this f thing. Right? And the ultimate f word
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is faith because you're moving into an area of
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life maybe you haven't experienced before, Something that's new. People
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around you haven't been there yet. You're the leader. You may be the
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1st person in your lineage to do this work.
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The first. The first. Think about that.
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And especially if you're a woman. I work with 97% females.
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Strange. 6 for 5 white guy from Kansas. I know. But very
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strange. But they're usually the 1st in their lineage to speak up and
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earn and then out earn sometimes their partner? So
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you yeah. It's a beautiful thing, and you gotta be easier on
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yourself. You gotta be easier on yourself and say, you know what? I'm really the
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first. It's like some people are like, I'm the 1st in my family to go
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to university. You're like, I'm the 1st in my family to start a business.
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Same by the way, just as significant, if not more. So you
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gotta get yourself a pat on the back. Alright? So a couple of keys to
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agility. You gotta prioritize speed over
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precision. Stop trying to get it all perfect. Get it going.
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Speed is the most important thing. How fast can you get something up? Doesn't have
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to look good. You have to prioritize learning over perfection
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because how are you gonna learn? There's entrepreneurs aren't letting me learn everything, then do it. They just kinda
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bumble through things learning as they go. Right? You it's like we kinda, like, jump
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out the plane, And then we, like, build the parachute on the way down,
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like, oh, and then it works. Right? But, you know,
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you procrastinate if you're on the ground. That's why you gotta go so high up.
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Right? Also, you gotta prioritize, testing over other people's
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opinions. Let the data prove it out. People come to me all the time. Masten,
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what do you think? I'm like, I'm not your ideal person. Don't ask me. Go
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find out and tell me what the data says, and then we'll pivot. Okay? Because
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data doesn't lie. So until you've tested something, don't go asking your
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parents, Your partner, whatever, because they'll go, oh, that's nice. You should change this.
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Might be the by the way, my favorite stuff that we publish never
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converts. It's like, whatever my favorite one is, I know that one won't convert in
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the data. We just did a a a logo contest for one of the companies
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I'm starting. My favorite one got, like, 2% of the vote. Okay?
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So you wanna follow data, not opinions, and that's more never been more
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possible than today. Also, you know, I prioritize momentum over confidence.
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People think I have to have confidence before I get Started, but beginning started will
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build your confidence because you get more and more and more experience, which
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creates more and more confidence. And As soon as you learn something
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new, change the approach. Don't just, you know, bumble along. Go, I
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failed. Change the approach, And you wanna create and surround
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yourself with a culture of positive feedback because most of us who get f's on
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tests weren't like, yeah. Good job on those 45% you
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got right. What do they do?
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Yeah. There's a guilt and shame associated with it. So what you wanna do is
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you wanna surround yourself with a culture of people who Who are gonna take what
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you learn and take what wins and amplify that and change that, not focus on
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the criticism and the negative stuff? And probably everything
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perfect, Get everything perfect. Get everything optimized. And it's like, no. Let that fire
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burn. And there are some people, some opinions, and some problems
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you must strategically ignore in the beginning or in your pivot? Because
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if you take it all into consideration, you'll be too busy focusing on all the
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stuff that doesn't Mastin. Because what moves the ball forward Is
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momentum launching, pivoting, learning, revenue,
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delivering value, and you gotta ignore other things. Do you guys think there's
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some problems it's time to ignore? Some opinions it might be time to ignore? What
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do you guys think? All day long. So successful entrepreneurs
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know that taking risks is the safest
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thing to do because we pivot. We learn.
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We grow. We're surrounded by positive feedback. That's what this room
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is all about is positive feedback. So purpose is the cure for this
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because purpose is the thing that gets you going for your children To prove the
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naysayers wrong. It's the reason why you're like, you know what? I know that the
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fire is burning, but I'm gonna go anyway instead of overthinking things. Because
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You could overthink things straight into what? Your old
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job. Yeah. Yeah. Oh,
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You could go right back, but no one in this room is gonna go back.
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Why? Sucks. Who's done going back? It's only
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4 from now on. Let me see if I show of hands. That's right. So
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that's why. Because you're in the environment. You have a reason why.
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Okay? Purpose gives you a reason to take the risk. It
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gives you a reason to take the risk, and agility is your key
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because you can take the risk, not get it right. You can fail, but you're
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agile, and you're flexible, and you're gonna pivot. That's the name of the game. So
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I wish I had more strategic advice than this, but this is what you gotta
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do. You gotta do it messy, and you gotta do it afraid. I'm gonna
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use 1 cuss word. Is Is that okay? Yeah. Okay.
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Is this are you cool? Is it cool? Yeah. Okay. So here's what
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courage feels like. People think courage is like Superman. Right?
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Courage is well, fuck. That's what courage is. Now it's 1 customer 10
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times. You gotta feel that every day every day. So my
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fear maxim is unless you're in mortal danger, fear is a compass showing you
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where to go. Unless you're in mortal danger, fear is a compass.
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So you gotta do what you're afraid of every single day. Number one way to
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not to to cancel out of fear Is to do the stuff you're afraid of
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until you're no longer afraid of it in the right environment
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with the right levels of support. Okay? So I have 1
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last question for you. You guys have been great. Thank you for keeping up with
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me. I know I've gone really fast. I have 1 more. It's very important question.
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Okay? Anyone in the room
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looking for, been praying for, asking for a sign? You're like, please send
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me a sign. Is anybody doing this? Here is your
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sign. Okay? This is your
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sign. Alright. The angels and Mastin the
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clouds weren't available today, so this is your sign. Like,
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dear God, please tell me 1. Here it is. You gotta be courageous.
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You gotta mess up. You gotta do it afraid. You gotta fail. This is your
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sign. I hope I've overcome all the objections. So, ladies and gentlemen, why do we
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launch? Because now more than
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ever, Lodge Con, the world needs your purpose. I'm Mastin Kipp. Thank you guys
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so much.
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