This chapter focuses on the challenges of mediating cases that involve narcissistic individuals, particularly in the context of legal disputes. I share insights on the nature of narcissism, emphasizing the difficulty in getting narcissists to agree or see alternative viewpoints. I discuss strategies used to manage and settle disputes involving narcissists, such as valuing their contributions and giving them a sense of power through choices. The use of praise and strategic options is highlighted as effective in dealing with their black-and-white thinking. Additionally, I touch upon the logistics of mediation in my practice, including conducting sessions virtually via Zoom and in separate rooms to facilitate the process.

(00:02) Mediation in Divorce Cases

Natalie Baird King discusses the benefits of mediation over litigation in family law cases, emphasizing individual empowerment and tailored solutions.

(11:13) Navigating Narcissism in Mediation

- Managing disputes with narcissistic individuals in legal mediation, using strategies like valuing their contributions and giving them choices.

(18:09) Gender Differences and Mediator Qualification

Female narcissists use caretaking roles manipulatively in legal disputes, leveraging gender biases to their advantage.

(21:59) Key Factors in Choosing a Mediator

Select a competent family law mediator with deep understanding and experience, who actively engages parties and addresses emotional barriers.

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