Over the years, She come a long way. When she was a youth and a pre-teen, her grandmother called me “Waterworks” because she could cry at the drop of a hat. Growing up, she felt powerless, isolated, restricted and most of all groomed. In my case, the “grooming” was focused on all my outside accomplishments and attributes rather than from a nurturing of my true self.  We’ve all got some kind of outer expectations, parental training and other social messaging that can cause us to go astray from our true self by following what’s outside rather than waiting to bloom from our inner soul.