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protiviti show like a natural extension of what
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we're doing and I always like to do
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is park. As with my co host Brooks
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Duncan, how are you Today I'm. Great! Listeners
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we like to start every episode where
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the top three favorite resources and we've
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figured since it's a book episode let's
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talk about. The classics when
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it comes to productivity? So Brooks,
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what are the classics that we
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consider around our industry? Yeah.
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Mean you could go the obvious direction
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in getting things done by David Allen
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over steep work by Cal Newport. Bad
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that I think the three that will
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narrow it down to this time are
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Atomic Habits by James Clear as probably
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a book I recommend more than any
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of the Be One: Number Two, Four
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Thousand and Weeks by Oliver Berkman We've
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talked about it on the show a
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number of times. almost like the anti
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productivity productivity but but in a good
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way. And number three, the One Thing
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by Gary Keller which is basically shows
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that. If you can narrow down on one
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specific thing to focus on a really clears
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up the rest of your life and your
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work. so I think those are the three
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that we're going to select. is our top
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three resources. Yeah, we have links to all
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the books in the shown us of you
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haven't read them Yeah, these are the classics.
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You should definitely check em out. Ah, I
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would say the Four Thousand and On Balls
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or Berkman a few listens. A while back
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ago we actually had him on our podcast
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as well and there was an interesting conversation
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because he's been following his efficiency for. a
3:33
close a decade and so i was in
3:35
sync to have him on our podcasts to
3:37
talk about how asian efficiency has grown and
3:40
my philosophy around productivity has changed over time
3:42
and how a kind of a lines because
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a user can i make fun of somebody
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ideas that we talked about and coming full
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circle we are now both a line on
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a lotta different ideas now so if you're
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like api cassie feel like asian efficiency content
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and i think you're gonna have to do
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love that book as well so fluffy about
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books. I was talking to you, Brooks, about,
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hey, what are some episodes we want to
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do this year? And one
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of the classics episodes we always like to
4:08
do is talk about tools, you know, apps
4:10
and so on, but also books. And I
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know you're an avid reader and I'm
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an avid reader myself. I
4:17
like to read maybe 10 to 12
4:19
books a year. I think that's for
4:21
me most consistent, I would say, and
4:23
also achievable. Sometimes I read more, sometimes
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I read less. How many books
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a year do you typically read, just out of
4:29
curiosity? You know what? I actually have
4:32
no idea. I don't track the number of
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books I read. I should actually figure that
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out because I do keep a list of
4:38
everything that I read. What I do is
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I read a minimum, literally a
4:42
minimum of 30 minutes a day, every single
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day. So I always have a book going
4:46
on. And I've talked about
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on the podcast before, I have
4:51
this weird reading system where I
4:53
rotate between fiction, nonfiction, biography, fiction,
4:55
nonfiction, biography. So right now in
4:57
the cycle, I'm reading Foundation
5:00
and Empire by Isaac Asimov. So
5:02
I'm in the fiction part of my
5:05
cycle. But yeah, 30 minutes a day,
5:07
never miss it. It's one of my
5:09
core productivity morning routines. I
5:11
was really excited to do this episode. I'm
5:13
kind of doing it on hard mode in
5:16
a way, because what I would usually do
5:18
in these type of episodes is I would
5:20
turn around and look at my bookshelf to
5:22
see what books jump out
5:25
at me that I want to recommend. But
5:27
as listeners will know, I'm still out of
5:30
my house living at my mother-in-law's. All
5:32
my books are in boxes in storage
5:34
right now. So I had
5:36
to do some scrounging around and looking through
5:38
my lists. Thankfully, I do track every book
5:41
that I read. So I was
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able to figure it out. Yeah, so I have
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three books to share today. You have three books.
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And I think before we start off, I
5:50
want to say that if you're not reading
5:52
right now, I think audiobooks are fine as
5:54
well. Everyone consumes information a little
5:56
bit differently. And I think the big idea that
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I want to highlight and stretch is that I
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think books and audiobooks included are kind
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of like key codes in life because
6:06
if you think about
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it, some people spend 10 years,
6:10
20 years of their lives to
6:12
figure something out, whether it's research,
6:14
a concept or idea or a
6:16
framework, right? And you and
6:19
I can spend maybe, I
6:21
don't know, two, three hours reading a book and
6:23
get that life experience that took this person 10
6:25
years to do to get
6:27
it in a fraction of the time.
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So if you think about cheat codes
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in life, this is one of the best ones that are
6:33
out there. So if you're not reading
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on a regular basis or listening to an audiobook
6:38
on a regular basis, I think that is something
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that you want to consider for
6:42
2024 to make that a habit. And
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it's also one of those things where I've
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consistently thought about, man,
6:49
all the things that I knew or read
6:52
in, let's just say, like 2014 is actually coming into
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fruition in 2024 because I read
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a book many, many years ago and
7:02
now I see the thoughts and connect them this
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year or in this moment. And so the
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accumulation of reading and
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consuming curated information, and
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that's the thing about books too is oftentimes it's
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a little bit more polished, it's a little bit
7:17
more curated, right? There's a lot of noise when
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it comes to like some other mediums
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like podcasts, for example, because
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part of it is also entertainment, which
7:26
is valuable in itself. But when
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someone writes a book and it
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goes through a publishing house, there's
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a lot of editorial standards that
7:35
are being met. The
7:37
quality of information typically is a lot better.
7:39
I know you have a grip, Brooks, because you always
7:41
like to say that some books that are 250 pages
7:44
could have been written in 40 pages, right?
7:47
But that aside, I do want to stress
7:49
that, hey, if you're not reading right now
7:52
on a regular basis, I think Brooks' habit
7:54
of reading 30 minutes a day is a
7:56
life changing habit. So I Want to
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mention that before we kick things off. There Now
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with that said, I want to start
8:02
with my first book and that I
8:05
don't have You saw this on coming
8:07
works but I wanted to put this
8:09
one here and it's got Lucky Guy
8:11
spells I K I G Ai and
8:13
subtitles the Japanese Secret to a long
8:16
and happy Life by Hector Garcia. Now.
8:19
The reason I wanted to put as bargain
8:21
here is that if you may following his
8:23
efficiency for a while you might have heard
8:25
of this concept called eg. I or if
8:27
he's been studying productivity in general. But if
8:29
your. Brand New are unfamiliar
8:31
with this concept. It's a
8:34
Japanese term and it's roughly
8:36
translated to a reason for
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being or the happiness of
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always being busy. At. First
8:42
glance I might seem like have what
8:44
it would zack's a mean but the
8:47
summary of the bucket is that the
8:49
author basically studied the residents of Okinawa
8:51
in Japan sanders actually Netflix show right
8:53
now to where they talk about longevity
8:55
and as got the name of the
8:58
shell but it's all about longevity and
9:00
assay the study the residents of Okinawa
9:02
Japan because they're mostly known for longevity
9:04
to have the most number of people
9:06
that I live longer than one hundred
9:08
years and centenarians and this book kind
9:11
of reveals his secrets. To Happiness and
9:13
Longevity and I once had a the
9:15
Netflix show is called Blue Zones if
9:17
I remember correctly or thoughtful about the
9:20
Blue Zone concepts. Now if you listen
9:22
to keep yes you know that One
9:24
of things I was like to say
9:26
is that happy people are productive people
9:29
and this catchphrase came from my own
9:31
reading of difference books about happiness, different
9:33
bucks about longevity and as kind of
9:36
learned over the air some running Asian
9:38
efficiency as well that typically the most
9:40
productive people are also very happy. And.
9:43
Productivity is actually a byproduct of
9:45
happiness said. the happier you are
9:47
as a person, the more productive
9:49
you'll be. And I think everyone
9:52
understands this conceptually right. If you
9:54
and I Brooks are similarly skilled,
9:56
we have the same apps and
9:58
tools, but yeah, If you're kinda depressed
10:01
and I'm very happy now be person, Guess
10:03
what? I'm going to be a lot more
10:05
productive than you are, even though we have
10:07
everything else being the same and I think
10:09
everyone kind of gets that. But what can
10:12
you do on a practical basis to be
10:14
happier? On. A day to day. Basis.
10:16
And that's what this book is all about. So
10:19
easy guy. Most people if they've heard
10:21
about this, they know this idea that
10:24
is this intersection right? As you think
10:26
about different circles, concentric circles that overlap.
10:28
Sticky Guy is all about what you
10:30
love. What? You're good
10:32
at what the world needs.
10:35
And. Would you can be paid for? and
10:37
if the overlap those circles that. Middle.
10:40
Spot is what they call eg. guy
10:42
save You can seek out a way.
10:45
To. See. What you love,
10:47
what you're good at, what the world needs
10:49
which is I think often miss and also
10:52
what you can be paid for. That's.
10:55
The whole concept of self and that's
10:57
what this book talks about. This you
10:59
discovering what south is through those different
11:01
circles does other concepts in the bucks
11:03
but I wanted to us are offered
11:05
to spark. Have you have your own
11:08
retrospect? Brooks. Yeah. I have
11:10
read it. Actually, I think they'll learn
11:12
about it from Productivity Academy member Alice
11:14
Ferris, who has been on the podcast
11:16
before as she was psyche by that
11:19
Yes, he did a you Tube video
11:21
all About It which are linked to
11:23
in the show notes as well and
11:25
I thought that was really fascinating. And
11:28
yeah, it is a book I really
11:30
enjoyed. I'm always fascinated by this whole
11:32
Blue Zone concept. I have a Watson
11:34
Affleck so I had sounds Like I
11:37
said and. I think you're right
11:39
that much of the advice out there
11:41
has been like follow your passion, follow
11:43
your bless, and that sort of thing,
11:45
which is. not bad advice
11:47
except that if you're following your
11:50
passion and you're not able to
11:52
do something with it back can
11:54
be a recipe for unhappiness like
11:56
it's anti a guy but if
11:58
you can find something
12:00
that you enjoy, something that you
12:03
like, but also that the world
12:05
needs. I think you're right, that
12:07
is the missing piece. The author,
12:09
Hector Garcia, also wrote a book
12:11
called A Geek in Japan, which
12:13
Marmel from the Asian Efficiency
12:15
team and I both enjoyed as well. So
12:18
that is a completely different book, but
12:21
I really enjoy this author's work. Yeah,
12:24
this book also goes into other concepts
12:28
about happiness. So for
12:30
example, they study the
12:32
habits of the residents of Okinawa
12:34
and if you've ever studied
12:36
happiness in general, you know that having
12:39
community or people around you is
12:41
really important and they talk about this concept as well.
12:44
And so when you read this, it's
12:46
not just about discovering self, but also
12:48
the different habits that they have that
12:50
you wanna consider. So for example, I
12:52
think we all know that exercising on
12:55
a regular basis is a good thing, right? And
12:57
it helps with our brain health, with
12:59
our overall health and focus and energy.
13:02
And it just kinda clarifies those even more.
13:04
And it talks about all the other steps
13:06
as well. So go check out Iki Gai
13:08
by Hector Garcia. All right, my
13:11
turn for my first book. And
13:13
my first book is called Five.
13:16
Where will you be five years
13:18
from today? And it's by
13:20
Dan Zadra, though there is a
13:22
new edition, which has another author,
13:24
Coby Yamada. I've only read the
13:26
old edition, so I'm not sure
13:29
what's new about this new edition.
13:31
But basically what this is, is a
13:33
coffee table style book. And
13:36
it's one of those books where
13:38
you open it up and it's not just a wall
13:40
of text. There's a lot of diagrams
13:43
and tables and exercises and like
13:45
it's really heavy on the design,
13:47
which I think maybe some people
13:49
don't like, but weirdly I'm starting
13:52
to respond to more and more.
13:55
And The general idea is to help
13:57
you think about where you want to
13:59
be. Five years from now
14:01
and also giving you kind of
14:03
exercises maybe not the right word,
14:05
but prompt to go through to
14:07
kind of get into thinking that
14:09
way. And I like it because
14:11
it's. So. Easy for us to
14:13
get stuck in colleague the day to
14:16
day and focusing on our to do
14:18
list. Or maybe we're doing quarterly planning
14:20
which were big fans of here on
14:22
the productivity show or annual planning, but
14:25
we don't spend as much time thinking
14:27
more kind of like long term the
14:29
way I kind of approach. this book
14:32
is. I. Don't think of it as
14:34
like. Coming. Up with five,
14:36
your goals are making a big plan
14:38
for the next five years. It's more
14:40
just kind of like a trigger that
14:42
helps think a little bigger and cause
14:44
I I don't tend to naturally gravitate
14:46
that way. I tend to naturally gravitate
14:48
more in the day to day. So
14:51
something I guess I found really really
14:53
valuable and you might think five years
14:55
doesn't sound that long by. the book
14:57
gives a bunch of a different light
14:59
examples an inspiration like for example a
15:01
quote from the book is that are
15:03
at age thirty Amazon founder. Just be
15:05
those was living in a five hundred
15:08
square foot apartment five years later his
15:10
net worth Ten billion Dollars Select has
15:12
shows you how much can happen in
15:14
the span of five years now and
15:17
I really targeting for ten billion dollars
15:19
by it. Does. Having this idea
15:21
of thinking bigger I think is really
15:24
helpful and what I found really interesting
15:26
to is. This. Is a good
15:28
example of how. The. Context to read
15:30
a book in can really impact. Your
15:33
take away from it does by fluke
15:35
I happened to be reading this book
15:37
on vacation summer with know why fi
15:39
or know cellular service at all so
15:41
I had really nothing to do accept
15:43
focus on those but and my wife
15:45
and I were a like taking a
15:47
lot walk so we use visit that
15:49
prompts in the book to trigger discussion
15:51
and I think that. Helped
15:53
a lot as well. So the have someone
15:56
else in your life. It's a really good
15:58
prompt for discussion. so one of. Criticisms
16:00
of the book is that it's
16:02
kind of short and doesn't have
16:04
a huge amount of contents are
16:06
which is funny cause usually that's
16:08
my criticism of productivity bucks as
16:10
as you mentioned town but I
16:13
think in this case it kind
16:15
of works because it's almost the
16:17
opposite of normal productivity books where
16:19
it's not so much focus on
16:21
the content is focusing on what
16:23
you can do with that information
16:25
and I I think it's a
16:27
good antidote for their the usual
16:29
productivity. Books that we sit there reading
16:32
and they don't really implement anything either.
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Your future self will thank you. Yeah,
18:46
I've never heard of this book. So
18:49
this is something I want to check out and
18:51
to the same point that you mentioned, I'm
18:54
very practical when it comes to day-to-day. I'm very practical
18:56
when it comes to 90 days. I'm
18:59
very practical when it comes to the next six
19:01
months and up to a year.
19:04
But if I think about my five-year
19:06
plan, I'm very much less practical. Having
19:09
prompts is very helpful
19:11
to kind of get my thinking in that
19:13
direction. So, anytime, usually every quarter, I start
19:16
to think about, okay, what
19:18
are some things I want to accomplish in the
19:20
next year or so? That's
19:23
very helpful as well. But imagine
19:25
having a five-year vision for something
19:27
or a plan and being able
19:29
to chip away at it month
19:31
after month after month for many,
19:33
many years. Then
19:36
that compound effect over time can snowball
19:38
into something so much bigger because
19:41
you just keep going at
19:43
it for many, many years. So, having
19:46
a five-year plan, I think, is
19:48
very helpful. It's always
19:50
this tricky balance of, okay,
19:52
it's great to have something so far away, but
19:55
you also have to do stuff today. You also have to do
19:57
stuff tomorrow. You also have to do stuff that... dictates
20:00
what you need to do over the next 30 days
20:02
because we might have to move
20:04
to a different house, we might have to go to a
20:06
conference, we have to go to a wedding, we have to
20:08
do all these different things, but at
20:11
the same time, we also have to
20:13
accomplish some things in a
20:15
little bit of a shorter term so that
20:17
we can keep the momentum going, stay motivated,
20:19
right? That's why I'm a big fan of
20:21
90 day goals because we can have something
20:24
that's a little further away but still practical
20:26
enough to stay motivated, to have a sense
20:28
of urgency to do something
20:30
on a day to day and weekly basis
20:33
to accomplish something. However, if the
20:36
90 day goal is very much in alignment with
20:38
something that you want to do five years from
20:40
now, that's even better. I think that's kind of
20:42
like the masterpiece move
20:44
if we can make it. However,
20:47
having prompts like this book would be
20:49
very beneficial for that. So I think
20:51
I'm gonna copy you and
20:53
say, hey, I'm gonna pick up this book,
20:56
go somewhere on a trip where I'm stuck
20:58
and have no wifi, no connection
21:00
and just sit there with my thoughts and just
21:02
see what comes out of it. Well,
21:05
one thing that was really interesting that I never
21:07
thought about until you just mentioned that is a
21:10
logical next question to this is
21:13
why not now? So for example,
21:15
you come up with your, oh, it would be nice
21:17
to do this in the next five years, a follow-up
21:19
to that could be, okay, well, why don't
21:21
I just do it now? And
21:23
that actually, I forgot about this, but that actually
21:25
is what led to me doing, for example, the
21:28
Trans-Siberian Railway at the time is I went through
21:30
all this and be like, oh, it'd be neat
21:32
to do this sort of thing, that sort of
21:34
thing. And then an opportunity came in up to
21:36
just do it. And so just because
21:38
you come up with these things to do
21:40
in the next five years doesn't mean you
21:42
have to wait until then, it might actually prompt
21:44
you to do it now. So yeah, that's a great
21:46
point. I didn't even think of that. Well,
21:49
actually that brings up the second book that
21:51
I wanna recommend, which is Die With Zero
21:53
by Bill Perkins, because it actually speaks to
21:55
that point exactly. So Die
21:57
With Zero by Bill Perkins. is
22:00
a book I read maybe last year or so in the
22:02
last two years when it first came out. So
22:05
Bill Perkins, he's a hedge fund
22:07
manager and in his book, he
22:09
shares his philosophy around spending money,
22:11
saving money, and financial planning. But
22:13
it's contradictory to what most
22:16
advice is out there. And
22:18
based on the title of the book, what he actually says
22:20
is that life is essentially
22:22
about collecting memories and
22:25
experiences and ideally you die
22:28
with nothing left in your bank accounts. That's
22:30
kind of like his philosophy. And what he
22:32
means with that is if you die with
22:34
zero, you spend all of your
22:36
money maximizing life and fulfillment
22:39
to the best way possible and
22:41
in the most optimal, efficient way
22:43
as well. So the
22:45
example he gives in the book is
22:47
when he talks about the concept of
22:49
utility value of money or in a different
22:52
way, you can think about the opportunity cost
22:54
of money. In the book,
22:56
he talks about this concept of the
22:58
average age that someone receives
23:00
in inheritance. So Brooks, if you
23:03
think about this, what do you
23:05
think is the average age that someone
23:07
receives in inheritance? My
23:10
guess was it probably used to be 30s to
23:12
40s, but I bet now it's like 50s to
23:14
60s. So
23:16
very smart. So I believe in the book,
23:18
he mentioned that it's 61 or 63, but
23:20
it's somewhere in the early 60s. Now
23:23
imagine for a moment that your
23:25
parents left you a million dollars
23:28
of money at age Now
23:33
this is like the typical thing that most
23:35
people do is that their parents or us
23:37
even, we accumulate all this wealth,
23:39
this money, we buy home, we
23:41
have all this property, we have land, we have
23:44
all these different things, maybe even companies. And
23:47
then when we die, we pass it on to our kids. And
23:50
that's very typical. However, if you
23:52
think about the utility value of
23:55
money, if you receive a
23:57
million dollars at any point in
23:59
life, you're like, oh. Oh man, I made
24:01
it, great, right? But at 61, you're
24:04
pretty established in life already. You probably
24:06
have a decent savings, at least I
24:08
hope so. You probably already
24:10
have a home. You probably live somewhere where
24:12
you wanna be at. So
24:15
you're pretty established already. So having another
24:17
million dollars is not gonna be as
24:19
life changing compared
24:21
to saying, hey, if you have a million
24:23
dollars to give to your kids, but
24:25
let's say you give your kids, let's say
24:27
$50,000 when they turn 18, then
24:30
$100,000 when they turn 25, another
24:33
$100,000 when they turn 30, another
24:36
$100,000 when they turn 35. At
24:39
those different stages, you could offer them
24:42
being debt free by going to school,
24:44
for example. You could help them
24:46
get a down payment on their home, which
24:49
might be their first major purchase they ever
24:51
make. It could be offering
24:53
them the ability to travel the world for
24:56
a whole year. And
24:58
you start to see that the utility value of
25:00
money at those different ages is
25:03
so much higher than getting one lump sum
25:06
at, say, age 61, even
25:08
though it's maybe, quote unquote, the same amount of
25:10
money that you give to your kids, right? And
25:14
so it talks about, okay, that's the opportunity cost
25:16
of money. $100,000 you spend when you're 18 is
25:18
very different and
25:21
has different utility value than getting that same $100,000 at
25:23
61. Now,
25:26
anytime you get free money, quote unquote, I think is
25:29
a good thing, right? But if you
25:31
think about the utility value of it or
25:33
the opportunity cost at different ages, you
25:36
really start to rethink how
25:39
you wanna do estate planning or financial planning
25:41
for your kids. And even though I don't
25:43
have kids myself, it made
25:45
me rethink, okay, why hoard all this
25:47
money or wealth till retirement or till
25:50
I die and then pass it on
25:52
when in actuality I can
25:54
spend and use some of that today to
25:57
your point going on the Siberian trip, right?
26:00
Let's just say that cost you $5,000, for example. I
26:04
know from our conversations on the podcast and
26:06
also you and I in between, that's probably
26:09
one of your favorite stories and memories in
26:11
life, like the fact that you went there
26:14
and all the different things that you encountered. But
26:17
if you just saved that extra $5,000 to
26:19
put it in the stock market, sure, you
26:21
might have received an extra 7% a
26:24
year for the last three years or whatever since
26:26
you've done it. It doesn't have
26:28
the same value as you
26:30
doing that trip now compared to if you did
26:32
it 20 years from now because you might not
26:34
have the health to do it. You might not
26:36
have the energy to do it. You
26:39
might not have the same type of
26:41
experience because the example I
26:43
always like to use is going
26:46
to Vegas when you're 21 is a very different experience
26:48
when you're 31 and a very different experience
26:51
when you're 41. At 21, you're
26:53
going out with your buddies, you're having a few
26:55
drinks, you go to the casino, your party till
26:58
4 in the morning. At 31, you're
27:00
like, oh, I have a girlfriend now. I'm going to
27:02
go watch a show. And
27:04
then you go with your wife and now it's like,
27:06
hey, let's stay in till 9 o'clock. We
27:09
call it a night. We did all the fun stuff in
27:11
the daytime. We did all the walking. And
27:14
even though it's the same city, it's a very different
27:16
experience in who you do it with and how you
27:18
do it at the different
27:20
ages, even though it's the same destination.
27:23
All of this is to say what I really
27:25
just like about this book. It just makes you
27:28
rethink about happiness, how
27:30
you use your money and utility value of
27:33
money at different stages of your life. It
27:35
makes you rethink how you spend it today
27:38
versus saving it as well. I
27:40
just was in Vegas a couple months ago
27:42
and I can confirm it was the most
27:44
boring Vegas trip of all time. So what
27:46
you said is exactly true. Yeah,
27:49
so if you haven't checked out this
27:51
book yet, go check it out again.
27:53
I can't stress this enough. My
27:56
philosophy when it comes to Happy people or
27:58
productive people have been influenced by all of this. These
28:00
different bucks and I just circles back to
28:02
the same idea. And so anything we can
28:04
do they increase our happiness is something that
28:06
we should strive for. So what is your
28:09
second recommendation for To that. Yeah,
28:11
my second recommendation is called
28:13
Mindfulness in plain English by
28:15
the Better Ball And a
28:17
polite printer at basically a
28:20
name pretty much sums it
28:22
up. Ah, it's available. As.
28:24
A book on Amazon or is
28:26
also free online will link to
28:29
both of them in the show
28:31
notes. And it's really about the
28:33
concept of mindfulness and meditation, but
28:35
it does it in really simple
28:37
language. It. Just talks about.
28:41
Why? to meditate? the basics, what
28:43
you need to do, then talk
28:45
about what to concentrate on, what
28:47
your body and mind should be
28:49
doing, but what they will probably
28:51
be doing, so how to deal
28:53
with problems and distractions and I
28:55
really like it. I read it
28:57
back in Twenty Eleven he was
28:59
actually I specifically remember this. It
29:01
would is recommended in a podcast
29:03
episode on the Back to Work.
29:05
Podcasts are Back and Twenty Eleven
29:07
and it was my. Introduction
29:09
to this whole concept of mindfulness and
29:11
meditation. I knew nothing about it. I'd
29:14
thought it was for like woo people
29:16
and monks fi decided day. Check it
29:18
out and there's so many resources out
29:20
there about meditation. I don't think there
29:23
are sponsoring this episode but Com for
29:25
example is an app. Both you and
29:27
I love tan and it's a great
29:30
introduction. The meditation by a lot of
29:32
the materials out there kind of feel
29:34
like. You're. Supposed to already
29:36
know what to do. like it'll save focus
29:38
on your breasts but you know what? What
29:41
does that mean? What What happens when I
29:43
start thinking about other things. I've been meditating
29:45
for a week and I don't have this
29:47
like com mind like water state that everyone
29:49
says unfurls the have and I'm supposed to
29:52
be more com. So much of it is
29:54
your spouse the already know what you need
29:56
to do and this is to me this
29:58
book. is one of the
30:00
clearest introductions to people who might be a
30:03
little skeptical about it. For
30:05
those high-fact finders like you and I
30:08
and myself who want
30:10
to know what is involved, this
30:12
is a great introduction to mindfulness
30:14
in plain English. Awesome. That
30:16
sounds like a great book to recommend and
30:18
give to people who want to explore this
30:20
whole idea of mindfulness. I
30:23
personally don't know a good introductory book on this.
30:25
I've read a bunch of different books on it
30:28
and there's a lot of great YouTube
30:30
content and podcasts that are out there
30:32
to talk about this. I
30:36
haven't really found a book where everything is just
30:38
in one place that you can gift
30:40
to somebody because I think that's one of
30:42
the best things that we can do with
30:44
books is giving somebody the gift of a
30:47
podcast episode is not quite the same as
30:49
gifting somebody a physical book that they can
30:51
read and put on their shelf and go
30:54
back to. That's one
30:56
of the, I think still main values
30:58
of having a book is that you
31:00
can gift it because the information that's
31:02
inside can be so transformative for somebody,
31:05
especially if it's the right thing at the right
31:07
moment for them. It sounds like this
31:09
is something I will have to pick up myself
31:11
not because I need it but mostly because if
31:14
I think this could be a good book that I
31:16
could gift to people who would benefit from
31:18
this, that would be super valuable to
31:20
me. All right. What's
31:22
your next choice here? Yeah,
31:24
my third and final book for
31:27
today's episode is again a classic
31:29
but more about team productivity
31:31
rather than individual productivity. This
31:34
book is called The Five Dysfunctions of a
31:36
Team by Patrick
31:38
Lencioni. Now the Five
31:41
Dysfunctions of a Team is a classic.
31:44
I have read it multiple times. I
31:46
actually make everyone at Asian Efficiency read this book
31:48
as well as part of their onboarding. Also,
31:51
we tend to reference this book at
31:53
least once a year. Last time I
31:55
had Marmel give a presentation on this if you
31:57
remember this book. revisit
32:00
this concept because she's our scrum master. If
32:04
you're unfamiliar with the book, it's basically a
32:06
fable about a business and
32:08
the challenges they're running into as they're
32:10
growing the business, specifically the challenges they
32:13
have within the team because the team
32:15
is holding back from being its best
32:17
version it could be and reaching its
32:19
full potential and hence the business as
32:22
well. It talks about five
32:24
different levels of dysfunctions that every
32:26
team pretty much goes through. One
32:29
of them is for example absence of trust. If there's
32:31
no trust in the team, it's really hard
32:33
to perform at a high level and I
32:35
think most people understand that. One
32:38
other one that the author mentions is fear
32:40
of conflict and this is actually a big
32:42
one that we had age and efficiency and
32:45
I think a lot of people struggle with
32:47
this in their own teams and various companies.
32:50
It's this idea that we
32:53
just maybe sometimes take marching orders from somebody
32:55
and we just go, okay, this is what
32:57
we're going to be doing and that's about
32:59
it, right? Whether it's a strategy meeting, an
33:02
annual meeting or just like a one-on-one. What
33:05
Patrick actually argues in the book is that if
33:07
you want to have a high performing team, people
33:10
should feel safe enough to
33:12
engage in discussions and
33:15
maybe even challenge some ideas
33:17
or things that are being brought up
33:19
in meetings or other places so that
33:21
there is no fear of conflict and
33:23
that's how we tend to make better decisions. This
33:25
is how we tend to optimize things better but
33:28
if you think about most teams and companies, I
33:30
would say there is a lot of fear of
33:32
conflict because if you're the one who is challenging
33:35
your manager or your boss or someone else on the
33:37
team, it can sometimes feel like
33:39
an attack or it can sometimes feel like you're
33:41
acting out. In reality, I think
33:44
if we all have the same outcome or goal
33:46
that we're striving for with the team and company,
33:49
you have to have conflict and
33:51
it's not a bad thing to have conflict. Obviously,
33:53
there's nuance to it in the sense that
33:56
you don't want to name call somebody, for
33:58
example, but it's more the idea. of
34:00
having active discussions and sometimes being
34:02
comfortable enough to challenge something when
34:05
you really think or feel that that's not the
34:07
right chess move. So
34:09
that's something that we've implemented through
34:11
the exercises that are mentioned in
34:14
the book. And
34:16
honestly, it has been really beneficial. And I
34:18
always find that this is a book that
34:20
you always want to go back to at
34:22
least once a year, especially if you're an
34:24
entrepreneur or a founder or you manage your
34:26
team in a company. This
34:28
is one of those things where if you just
34:30
make a few tweaks to the different
34:33
dysfunctions that you know are
34:35
there in your team and you just improve
34:37
them, you just
34:39
create so much leverage because it's not just one
34:41
person becoming better. It could be a whole
34:43
team, which could be anywhere from two or
34:45
three people to 10 to 50 or whatever. So
34:49
high leverage. And I
34:52
definitely recommend that everyone checks out this
34:54
book. I feel like after that we
34:56
should be having conflict about this, but I enjoy this
34:58
book a lot too. And
35:01
you were mentioning earlier about books
35:04
and audiobooks. I think
35:06
Patrick Lencioni's books actually benefit a lot
35:08
from being in audiobook format just because
35:10
they are told in a fable and
35:13
a kind of a story setting and
35:15
it lends itself really well to audiobooks,
35:17
although it's a little harder to revisit
35:20
audiobooks on a yearly basis. Maybe
35:23
having the physical or Kindle copy is a
35:25
little better for that, but I listened to
35:27
all his books on audiobook and it was
35:29
a great experience. All right, I'm
35:31
going to wrap it up with my final pick.
35:34
And since I was talking about how I
35:36
do biography, nonfiction fiction, I figured I'd wrap
35:38
it up with a fiction book. And
35:41
the book I'm going to recommend is Kafka on the
35:43
Shore by Haruki Murakami. Murakami
35:46
is my favorite author. I've read pretty
35:48
much all of his books. He's a
35:51
Japanese author. For Those of us in
35:53
North America, we're actually reading a translation
35:55
because his books are initially in Japanese
35:58
and then translated. They
36:00
don't know if it's. Murakami. Writing
36:02
I like or the translators I'm
36:04
not really sure but I'm gonna
36:06
recommend this book because I feel
36:08
that this is a good introduction
36:10
to the world of Murakami. My
36:12
wife and I actually different mess.
36:14
We both love his books. The
36:17
thing about them though as they
36:19
can get pretty weird and so
36:21
it just so happens that I
36:23
gravitate more As is not as
36:25
surprise he taps, I gravitate more
36:27
to the less weird parts and
36:29
my wife gravitates heart of. A
36:31
weird or parts are so for her
36:33
she really likes. ah and iod these
36:36
books to what like the Wind Up
36:38
Bird Chronicle A Wild Sheep Chase Those
36:40
Com Like more out there elements are
36:42
whereas my first markham he was Norwegian
36:44
wood or which is more straightforward and
36:47
I think this book Tough Guy on
36:49
the Shore is a good mix of
36:51
the two and a good interaction of
36:53
the world. It's basically about two stories
36:55
are one of them is a fifteen
36:57
year old that runs away to find
37:00
his missing mother and sister. And
37:02
the other one is about an older guy
37:04
who can talk to cats and as I
37:06
can I buy gives you an idea of
37:08
the sort of thing where I were talking
37:10
about and market me to bucks. I guess
37:13
eight as resonate with me because they're about
37:15
Japan which seems to be a theme this
37:17
episode or but also music is infused a
37:19
lot food and that are definitely different. So
37:21
a tech america me and be cast on
37:24
the sir of the Great Start. I'm
37:26
glad you're recommended a Fiction Books because
37:28
if you look at all the things
37:30
that we've talked about right now they
37:32
were all nonfiction and the as to
37:35
make a confession. I haven't read a
37:37
six bucks since, probably two thousand and
37:39
eleven. So I was perplexed over thirty
37:41
years and I don't. Think. That's
37:44
Patrick who wants the oh nice
37:46
books or section. right? It's
37:48
really a purpose behind that.
37:51
And so am. I don't know I'm going
37:53
to pick up his book Brooks because and
37:55
I think I'm going to keep my streak
37:57
alive. Was just reading a nonfiction books. And
38:01
it's not because I hate on fiction
38:03
books or anything. If I think about
38:05
the utility value of fiction, it's of
38:08
about relaxation, getting your mind off whatever
38:10
is going on in life, right? and
38:12
canal like diving into something that keeps
38:15
you engaged. But I find that I
38:17
can do other things that have the
38:19
same effects. For example, going to the
38:21
spot or a health club. Ah, I'm
38:24
watching tv shows doing all sorts of.
38:26
I like playing a sport like there's
38:28
all these different things. To can have the
38:30
same benefits to me. And
38:33
so when I'm reading, I'm. purposefully,
38:35
Reading to acquire information and knowledge not
38:37
you are kill time so that's my
38:39
philosophy. I'm not saying that's the right
38:41
thing for everybody I know, I gonna
38:43
lie pushback from other people who love
38:45
to resection and I'm say kudos to
38:47
Down and kudos you Brooks for doing
38:49
that. I'd like to spend my time.
38:52
Doing different things that panic at the same
38:54
outcome South If you're making it all the
38:56
way to the end and you disagree with
38:59
me, let me now email me a podcast
39:01
it easier for since either com i love
39:03
to hear your thoughts on it's me will
39:05
do it a different episode on ah maybe
39:08
fiction books that we like and that will
39:10
pretty much be a soul episode. Buy books
39:12
because again I have nothing to at that
39:14
point. So and aca them for today's episode
39:17
is. You. Might have guessed it. Pick.
39:19
Up a book that resonate with you
39:21
here today. If there's a book that
39:23
you like, go check out the link
39:25
that we have. Forty bucks and start
39:27
reading. It's honestly I think Brooks is
39:29
thing as reading thirty minutes a day
39:31
is a life changing habit that everyone
39:33
can pick up. To pick up a
39:35
buck today. Read. It for thirty minutes
39:38
and that's all the commitment or you could
39:40
be making and if you enjoy it's continued
39:42
to it the next day and overtime you
39:44
might end up reading more than ten bucks
39:46
a year from just starting with thirty minutes
39:49
a day is can be that simple. South's
39:51
thank you so much for listen to to
39:53
Productivity Show. We will look forward to seeing
39:55
your back next week and everything that we
39:57
mentioned can be found at the Productivity Show.
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