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welcome to another episode of our special series
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on sleep science and sleep health and today
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we tackle a subject which doesn't get a
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lot of air time and that is the
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subject of menopause and its
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effect on sleep and as usual
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I have my co-host Dr. Jill Warner here
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in the studio with us and we
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have a special guest and that is on
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the way all the way from the UK via Zoom Dr.
0:56
Zoe Shadal who
0:58
has 15 years experience as an NHS GP with
1:01
expertise in menopause care sleep problems,
1:04
sexual health and contraception. She's
1:06
an accredited British Menopause Society
1:08
menopause specialist and is
1:11
a member of the BMS Medical Advisory
1:13
Council. Welcome Zoe. Thank
1:15
you, thank you for having me. So
1:17
first of all let's just have a look
1:20
at exactly what menopause is when does it
1:22
happen, how long does it go on for
1:24
from the bit of reading I've done obviously
1:26
it's a very different experience for lots of
1:28
different women and those experiences vary very much
1:31
from not only the time it starts to
1:33
the experiences and the symptoms that they have
1:35
during menopause and how long it lasts. Absolutely,
1:39
so really menopause marks the end
1:41
of reproductive life so it's where
1:43
the female reproductive hormones stop being
1:46
produced and clinically we actually
1:48
define it just as a day in time
1:50
so the menopause is one
1:52
day which is one year after your last
1:54
menstrual period but when we're talking about the
1:56
menopause we're really often talking about a whole
1:59
phase of it. of life and we actually
2:01
think of it as much more as a transition. And
2:04
because actually the hormones don't stop
2:06
being produced just overnight, it's not
2:08
one day, there's quite a long lead
2:10
up to that. And what happens
2:13
is this phase we call
2:15
the perimenopause, which starts many years
2:17
before that last period. So it can be five years,
2:19
it can be 10 years. And
2:22
since puberty, the female reproductive
2:24
system has been managing regular
2:26
menstrual cycles with predictable ups and
2:28
downs of estrogen and progesterone. And
2:31
what starts to happen when on average people
2:33
hit their 40s is actually the
2:35
ovaries don't have such a good
2:37
supply of eggs, the hormone production
2:40
isn't as good and as predictable
2:42
and it can become very chaotic
2:44
and you get these sort of
2:46
surges, highs of estrogen and lows
2:48
and also some cycles that you
2:50
won't ovulate, you have these an
2:52
ovulatory cycles so no progesterone is
2:54
produced. And what it kind of
2:56
causes is a whole sort of mess of
2:58
hormones, very unpredictable. And
3:00
the key thing with that is it
3:02
can cause symptoms. So there are estrogen
3:04
receptors all over a woman's
3:07
body from their brain,
3:09
the heart, the skin, the reproductive
3:11
organs everywhere. And so when the
3:13
hormones start to misbehave a bit,
3:16
we start to see symptoms and there can
3:18
be lots and lots of different symptoms.
3:20
So that's the perimenopause, you then stop
3:22
the periods and you enter something called
3:24
the postmenopause which is when there's no
3:26
hormones being produced by the ovaries at
3:28
all. And so we see this
3:30
whole thing as a transition and in terms
3:33
of how long symptoms last, you're so
3:35
right, it is very, very individual.
3:37
The average woman will have symptoms
3:39
for about 10 years but at
3:41
least one in five women, the symptoms will
3:44
go on for 15 years or more. So
3:46
it can be very lengthy, some people will
3:48
just be a couple of years, it really
3:50
differs and it's quite unpredictable. And
3:54
Joakim, we just say, when we
3:56
talk about symptoms, what are the
3:58
most common, the most frequent ones? that people
4:00
experience, that women experience. So
4:03
we always, when you think menopause, we always
4:05
think of the kind of temperature symptoms,
4:07
so hot flashes and night
4:09
sweats. These are very commonly
4:11
associated, so 75% of
4:13
women will experience these. And there
4:16
actually is the body's, basically the
4:18
thermostat has basically been a bit
4:20
broken with the hormone changes. So
4:22
the effect of losing estrogen on the
4:25
hypothalamus means that out of nowhere, the
4:27
blood vessels will just suddenly dilate, try
4:29
and release lots of heat from their
4:31
skin, someone can turn quite red and
4:33
also have quite a lot of sweating
4:35
for no good reason at all. And
4:37
this can happen frequently during
4:39
the day, but also very importantly
4:41
at nighttime. And you can have
4:43
these, a similar process leading
4:45
to these kind of prolonged sweats at night as
4:47
well, that we call night sweats. These
4:50
are the really classic symptoms of
4:52
menopause, but actually it's often other
4:55
symptoms that impact women even more.
4:58
Because there are receptors everywhere,
5:00
you can get symptoms like
5:03
headaches, like heart palpitations, skin
5:05
changes, changes to the menstrual cycle.
5:09
And the brain is very affected
5:11
by the varying levels of
5:13
hormone. So the brain tends
5:15
to like regular cycles or
5:17
flat. And when you get
5:19
these kind of chaotic hormones in the perimenopause,
5:22
very commonly we'll see mood changes.
5:24
So we have double the rates
5:26
of depression in the menopause,
5:28
which is an increased risk of
5:30
developing anxiety symptoms. And
5:33
also, cognitive changes, so changes with the
5:35
way people think and remember things. And
5:37
I think these are very important, particularly
5:39
in the workplace. Women can
5:41
really struggle with this sort of condition they
5:43
call brain fog. And this
5:46
is the number one thing often women will say,
5:48
this really makes work very, very difficult. And we
5:50
know that about one in 10 women will actually
5:52
leave work because of the
5:55
symptoms of menopause. I've
6:00
shown a lot of women out there have experienced some
6:02
of them. So, Jill wanted to take the opportunity to
6:04
talk to somebody who has gone through it and here's
6:06
her case study with Sadie. Sadie,
6:14
thank you so much for talking to us
6:16
this morning. Perimenopause
6:18
and menopause are such important topics
6:20
at the moment. People are so
6:23
aware that we really are talking
6:25
about an illness for a lot
6:27
of people and just how debilitating
6:29
it can actually be for women.
6:32
Could you just describe to us
6:34
some of the symptoms that you've
6:36
experienced during perimenopause and menopause? Yes,
6:40
sure, Jill. So, I think
6:42
probably initially I suppose
6:44
looking back, I'd say maybe my early
6:47
40s, I started to have
6:50
a few little indicators now of what
6:52
would have been the perimenopause, although I
6:54
wasn't necessarily aware at the time. So,
6:57
they were quite
7:00
insignificant things really, but
7:03
things like a nice bit
7:05
of hair loss, sometimes
7:08
sort of sore breasts, but
7:12
nothing that was sort of
7:15
impacting really on life. But in
7:18
my late 40s, certainly there was a bit
7:20
of a shift and one of the things
7:22
that I really became
7:26
something that was a bit more challenging was when
7:29
my sleep seemed to be affected. So, I had
7:32
a busy job, I'd go to
7:34
bed and literally hit the pillow
7:36
and fall asleep, but I
7:39
would find that I would wake early
7:41
and from perhaps normally waking
7:43
at something like 6am to get up pretty
7:45
early to head off to work,
7:47
I was commuting. That
7:49
kind of started to nudge earlier in
7:51
the morning, the wake up
7:54
may be 5 o'clock and
7:56
then... Did that make you feel
7:59
anxious as a... Well would you say
8:01
say the it's that was happening to you
8:03
is making you feel uncomfortable in other situations.
8:06
It didn't really at that's fine my
8:08
arm i sort of I had a
8:10
lot of energy as was person had
8:12
called lot of energy I didn't sort
8:14
of sit down watching much T v
8:17
as car active so I kind of
8:19
power dawn the and are trying use
8:21
that time to are trying still that
8:23
sign a lot of. I. Do
8:25
that. Perhaps you know, catch up on
8:27
where call or do things I could
8:29
do quietly in house that wouldn't disturb
8:31
anyone else in the household on but
8:34
I try to use the time positively.
8:36
but I just sort of. Pulled.
8:38
It. Ended up working
8:40
longer hours on and. Not
8:43
really. realizing. The
8:45
impact that it was having such took
8:48
some time outside before. That
8:50
lack of sleep or those were it
8:52
wasn't good. That
8:55
that really started to have a bit more of
8:57
a. Physical Effect
8:59
and. You. Know how
9:01
are coping really? Data dials, I'm
9:04
a little bit more and in a
9:06
grumpy or grouchy. At times. So
9:09
perhaps as others. Around me who were
9:11
experiencing you know that as well, but
9:14
I'm be I coped it's quite quite
9:16
a long time actually and was just
9:18
sort of managing. Ah, but yes, it
9:20
did lead. To I'm certainly nicer
9:22
on on that sort of an
9:25
impact that. Ah, had
9:27
some of anxiety we've gained. much
9:29
was a new experience for me.
9:31
as if. Nothing. Else to
9:33
go to that thinking about it that
9:36
the sleep deprivation and at she didn't
9:38
sleep deprived causes quite a lot of
9:40
the same symptoms as the men opposed
9:43
to the to have perished drinks at
9:45
the in in terms of of the
9:47
symptoms that you experience. but see you
9:49
then am that the lack of sleep
9:52
was one of the most troublesome symptoms.
9:56
It. Was yes and I think it has out there
9:58
was that. It's we are. Say
10:00
that was probably like a cumulative
10:02
effect and ah, perhaps if I
10:05
could have sold status an early
10:07
a point and perhaps you know
10:09
understood a little bit more about
10:12
the. Impact of pass
10:14
which sing easter jin arm and that
10:16
that was a very natural process and
10:19
other such something has to be expected.
10:21
I'm on land bit more how to
10:23
manage that I've seen I would. I
10:26
could have improved to sleep which
10:29
would have prevented. Some other things yes
10:31
and he he mentioned just now as well
10:33
that you have been trying to be very
10:35
quiet in the house when you're up early
10:38
and didn't get it concern you that your
10:40
symptoms and being a little bit grumpy might
10:42
be affecting other members of the family as
10:44
well. Yes,
10:46
Definitely. Ah and ah. You
10:49
know you're not. You're. You're not
10:51
your best self and you are aware that you're
10:53
not your best version. Of yourself
10:55
on. And and it's
10:57
difficult for a single much more you worry about
10:59
it, the more it can impact. On your sleep
11:02
so am I Was was lucky that I
11:04
could. Get get to sleep praise late but.
11:06
It would be the early
11:08
breaking that was difficult and
11:10
I was fortunate the my
11:13
husband's already heavy sleeper so
11:15
I wasn't actually disturbing should
11:17
sleep on Thoughts are nevertheless
11:20
yeah, the impact on the
11:22
or on friends or family
11:24
unit colleagues When when you're.
11:26
Not. Claiming that your best com. A
11:29
and in that and that where is
11:31
it safe if once you'd realize this
11:33
was this was what was happening which
11:36
treatments which you say with most helpful
11:38
for you said. So
11:41
I kind of. I.
11:44
Think during the The Perry Men a
11:46
pause I wasn't really aware of what
11:48
was going on says really when the
11:50
men masaccio met a puzzle that I
11:52
rarely had the sort of health impact
11:54
and that just happened to coincide with
11:56
cause it's so there was some. as
11:59
to be a longer worn out experience of
12:01
actually being sort of
12:03
starting on hormone
12:05
replacement therapy. But I did
12:07
that probably after about 18 months and
12:10
did quickly see an improvement in
12:13
my sleep. And yeah,
12:15
and that helped everything. But
12:18
I think experiencing, when the menopause
12:20
actually experienced quite a lot of
12:22
cognitive issues.
12:24
So that was, I
12:27
think, a lack of sleep was really impacting
12:29
on those as well. So could you just
12:31
expand on those a little bit? What sort
12:34
of cognitive issues were you experiencing? So
12:37
I noticed changes in my memory.
12:40
I started to forget things. I
12:43
became very reliant on post-it notes,
12:45
on alarms on my phone. I
12:48
really had to plan my days
12:50
very carefully. And
12:53
something like an important appointment, I could just
12:55
completely go out of my head. So
12:59
it kind of had an impact on
13:02
my executive function, my
13:04
planning, time management, all those things
13:06
were really affected. And
13:08
it was quite bewildering actually, because
13:10
I was aware there was something
13:13
significant going on, but it
13:15
wasn't something that I
13:17
could just change by attitude. It
13:21
was something that just,
13:23
things weren't working in my brain was working
13:25
in a different way. And
13:28
yeah, it was just baffling,
13:30
bewildering, very hard to explain
13:32
to anyone. So
13:34
I did talk to doctors,
13:37
whatever, different people about it,
13:39
but it just felt quite
13:41
bewildering to talk about. But I now...
13:43
Once you started on the HRT, how
13:45
quickly were you able to return to
13:49
a more normal type
13:51
of what you would expect of yourself? Very
13:55
quickly, the sleep improved. I
13:58
think the... Probably
14:01
the lack of estrogen, once that
14:03
was being replaced, serving that
14:05
seemed to have an impact, positive
14:07
impact on sleep. So I was
14:09
sleeping for longer, sleeping better, less
14:12
quality of sleep. And
14:15
yeah, gradually things started to
14:17
improve. It
14:20
took some time for the dosage to
14:22
be sort of tweaked, so it suited
14:24
me. I think it's a very sort of
14:26
individual process. People
14:33
can respond differently and not everyone can take
14:35
HRT, of course. But
14:37
that was really helpful for me. That was a turning
14:39
point. It was, yes, absolutely.
14:42
And then I know that you've
14:45
also tried some other ways
14:47
of helping with the various symptoms.
14:49
Could you describe some of those
14:51
as well, Sadie? Yes,
14:53
sure, Jill. So as I explained, there was
14:56
quite a long sort of gap between treatment
14:58
just because of
15:01
COVID and so on. So I'd
15:03
had breathlessness, the
15:06
cognitive issues, diagnosed
15:08
with asthma, allergic
15:10
background. So I
15:14
started to look into things that would help
15:17
dial down, should we say a response to
15:20
any allergic response? So there
15:23
were all sorts of things. I tried most
15:25
things, but certainly things like exercise,
15:28
yoga, meditation, so perhaps shifting
15:30
from more high
15:34
intensity cardiovascular
15:36
type of exercise, perhaps dialing it down
15:38
to the gentler form of exercise,
15:40
you know, and say
15:42
things like Pilates yoga were really good. And
15:47
then I think about it, actually sort of
15:49
listening, learning
15:51
from other women about their experiences
15:53
through the menopause and
15:56
things, the Davina
15:58
McCall programs that were shown. here
16:00
in the UK were really
16:02
helpful. There were two of those.
16:04
My husband actually
16:07
watched them first and he suggested, you know,
16:10
they might be helpful. And, and
16:12
that was really helpful to have an understanding
16:14
of what's going on with my cognitive function.
16:17
So once I
16:19
think I had an understanding of what was
16:21
going on, I could then use
16:24
tools like nutrition, exercise,
16:28
managing myself, so
16:31
there's more. Are you now in a situation
16:34
where everything's totally under control and you're
16:36
fine and you're back to being you?
16:39
Exactly. I feel like me again, yes, it
16:42
was like from going from someone sort of
16:44
switching off my brain or part of my
16:46
brain, it was the
16:49
difference in the hormones, just it was like someone had switched
16:51
my brain back on again or that part and
16:54
I could remember things, I could plan
16:56
things, I could sort of have fun again.
16:58
So yeah. That's such
17:00
a positive message for everybody who is
17:02
listening to this today, that if you,
17:05
if you follow these programmes, if you
17:07
do everything that we just
17:09
talked about, you can go back to being
17:11
you again. Definitely, without
17:14
a doubt. Sadie,
17:17
thank you very much indeed. It's great to
17:19
talk to you and lovely to hear that
17:21
you yourself are now feeling very well. Thank
17:24
you. Thank you, Jill. Well,
17:30
thank you Sadie for sharing your experience and
17:33
lots to take in there. Of course, lots
17:35
of mentions of the sleep aspect of menopause
17:38
amongst other things and certainly sounds like she
17:40
had struggled through that phase but lots to take
17:43
out, very positive message in the end but sleep
17:45
being one of the main reasons why
17:48
she was feeling pretty rotten for a couple of
17:50
years. Absolutely. It's really
17:52
huge. So we know that more than
17:54
50% of women will experience sleep
17:56
disruption and the research says sort of 40 to
17:58
60% that... surveys,
18:00
recent surveys suggest more than 80% of
18:03
women will have disrupted sleep
18:05
during this phase. And sometimes it can
18:08
be the first symptom. So, you know,
18:10
you can be going along in your 40s
18:12
having had perfect healthy normal sleep and
18:14
suddenly you can't sleep. What
18:17
we see with sleep is lots of
18:19
different things can happen. But the most
18:21
common thing is broken sleep. So you
18:23
might fall asleep okay at the beginning
18:26
of the night, but actually you wake
18:28
up frequently during the night and that
18:30
can be it can be hot bushes. Night is
18:32
quite small in that, but sometimes it's just
18:34
out of the blue and you don't know
18:36
why and it, you know, it can be
18:38
very difficult for people to know what's going
18:40
on, particularly if they're not having other symptoms
18:43
of the perimenopause or menopause at that time.
18:46
And that's exactly what Sadie has
18:49
described. She said
18:51
it's so disturbing. You're awake early in
18:53
the morning having gone to sleep okay
18:55
when you first went to bed. But
18:57
then what do you do with yourself
18:59
at five o'clock in the morning? And
19:01
it seemed to affect other
19:03
issues for her as well. She ended
19:05
up with breathlessness. Is that something
19:07
else that's frequently a symptom? Well,
19:09
it's not a frequent symptom, but what we know
19:11
is that there are almost any
19:14
system of the body can be
19:16
affected by menopause. So breathlessness is
19:18
something we can see partly because there
19:20
are estrogen receptors in the lungs as
19:23
well, but also sometimes related to anxiety.
19:25
So, you know, there can be lots
19:27
going into that sense of breathlessness. And
19:30
actually it's interesting. We
19:32
think about these sleep problems over
19:34
the menopause, but there is an increase in one
19:37
of the respiratory sleep problems as well obstructive
19:39
sleep apnea. And we
19:41
think the reason for that is that it doubles at the time
19:43
of the menopause in women. We
19:45
think the reason is that part of
19:48
the respiratory tone that we have, what
19:50
helps us regulate our breathing overnight is
19:52
driven by the hormones. And when they
19:54
drop, we're not so good at folding
19:56
this kind of tone and keeping the
19:58
airways open. ways
20:00
the respiratory system can be affected
20:02
by low oestrogen. But also,
20:04
you know, it can be nights when
20:06
hot flushes causing it. But
20:09
actually sometimes women don't have any of
20:11
those or they don't actually have any
20:13
anxiety or depression. It's
20:15
just the hormone changes themselves that affect
20:17
sleep. And we know if we monitor
20:19
hormone levels over time, as
20:23
oestrogen falls and as follicle stimulating
20:25
hormone goes up, which happens
20:27
around the time of the menopause, we'll
20:29
start to see less deep sleep, shorter
20:32
duration of sleep and just overall worse
20:34
sleep quality. So even in the absence
20:36
of any of those symptoms, sleep just
20:38
seems to get worse. And
20:41
we talked quite a lot during this series
20:44
about sleep quality and that it
20:46
isn't necessarily length of sleep but
20:48
quality of sleep that is so
20:51
important for our general well-being. When
20:54
people come to you, Zoe, and they say
20:57
this is what's happening, what do you advise
20:59
them in terms of how to improve their
21:01
sleep during this period? Yeah,
21:03
you're so right. So that fragmented sleep
21:05
is often the most hard to
21:08
cope with. And I think it's
21:10
that kind of frequent waiting that can
21:12
also really have an impact on the next
21:14
day's functioning. So what we see is
21:17
so unfair for people experiencing the menopause.
21:19
Not only are they dealing with feeling
21:21
a bit crappy in the daytime anyway,
21:23
a bit depressed, a bit
21:25
anxious, then all sleep just makes all of
21:28
that worse and also makes the cognitive function
21:30
worse as well. So I think for
21:32
me, sleep is the absolute key symptom
21:34
to get on top of in menopause because
21:36
I think then it can have a knock-on effect on
21:38
other things. And I think the
21:40
first thing to do is try and work out what
21:43
is it? So is there something that's
21:46
going to be more difficult for people? It's a
21:48
really individual experience. And is it obviously
21:50
a hot flush as a night fit? Is it
21:52
obviously the anxiety that's creating that
21:54
kind of empathetic nervous system activation?
21:56
And try and pinpoint it. We
21:59
might not think out which might
22:01
just be the hormones causing havoc and
22:03
then think about how to treat those symptoms. So
22:06
the most effective
22:09
treatment is something like hormone replacement
22:11
therapy or menopause hormone therapy
22:14
and this is where you replace the
22:16
oestrogen. So you give them an oestrogen
22:18
and if they have a uterus you
22:20
might also need to give a progestogen
22:22
to protect the lining of the womb.
22:24
So it's often the use of two
22:26
hormones and this is the most effective
22:28
way of treating lots of the symptoms like hot
22:30
flushes, it can help with the mood and the
22:32
anxiety as well but
22:34
it also can help improve sleep and
22:37
so we know it can improve sleep architecture,
22:39
we see a bit more deep sleep when
22:41
you use HRT and it can help to
22:44
reduce those makings as well. So for some
22:46
people this will be a really good first
22:48
option and it will make them feel better
22:50
in lots of ways. Some people
22:53
can't take HRT or they might choose
22:55
not to and this is particularly for
22:57
women that have had a history of breast cancer.
22:59
So this is a group that HRT
23:01
is usually contraindicated. So for
23:04
those people we would always want to think
23:06
is there something else we can do about
23:08
the symptoms? Actually there's lots
23:10
of treatment options but lots of non-phonomal
23:12
medications that we can use. Some of
23:14
them are antidepressants that are also quite
23:17
good for sleep as well. And then
23:19
we also need to think about some of
23:22
the non-pharmacological treatment, so
23:24
cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia.
23:27
Now I don't know if you've spoken about this
23:29
before on other podcasts but
23:31
this is a really really effective program
23:34
where you're really targeting some of the
23:36
thoughts and the behaviours around sleep and
23:38
you might think well if someone's hormones
23:40
have gone wrong how can this help?
23:43
But actually we know it can be really
23:45
effective for women during the menopause transition
23:48
and it's partly because although
23:50
the hormone problems have started the sleep
23:52
problem and they've triggered it, actually
23:55
it can become an entrenched
23:57
habit partly due to the
23:59
anxiety leaping and also some of
24:01
the changes people make to their behaviour.
24:03
And so whether or not
24:06
you have HRT, CBT-I can
24:08
be also really, really helpful
24:10
and particularly if you're not going to access
24:12
HRT, that might be a really good option. And
24:15
also make sure... I was just going
24:17
to say, we have talked about CBT
24:19
on a previous podcast, but again, could
24:21
you just expand a little bit more
24:24
on the sort of questions that you're
24:26
asking people so that they do consider
24:28
what's happening to them and what they
24:30
can do to control those
24:34
anxieties and problems? Yeah.
24:36
So the idea really is it's
24:38
all about how insomnia develops. So
24:41
we know that insomnia is this
24:43
chronic ongoing sleep problem. So it's where
24:45
you struggle with sleep at the beginning of the night,
24:47
wake up a lot or wake up too early. And
24:50
if that's been going on a long time, often
24:52
it means that there's
24:54
this kind of mismatch between
24:57
what the body... you want the body to do and what
24:59
it does when you get into bed at night. And
25:01
so often there has been
25:03
a sense of anxiety around sleep.
25:06
So lots and lots of people
25:08
that are seeing clinic are really
25:10
focused on their sleep. They're actually, even in
25:12
the daytime, they start worrying about whether they
25:14
will be able to go to sleep at
25:16
nighttime. And as they lead
25:18
up to bed, as they get more
25:20
and more tired, they're absolutely exhausted. That
25:22
sense of anxiety builds. And the moment
25:24
they hit bed is where their mind
25:26
starts racing and they feel absolutely exhausted,
25:28
but they feel tired but wired in
25:30
bed. And some... CBT
25:34
is a program. So you will have
25:36
heard of CBT for things like anxiety
25:38
and depression, but it's actually very specific
25:40
and very practical when it's applied for
25:42
insomnia. It's a slightly different
25:45
version. So one of the focus is on those
25:47
cognitions, those thoughts, those anxieties.
25:50
And how can we actually challenge those
25:52
thoughts and actually give almost replacement
25:54
with something that doesn't create that
25:56
same kind of activation in the
25:58
nervous system? But I think
26:00
the key and one of the most
26:03
effective things is the behavioral technique. And
26:05
what's often happened, and we see this a
26:08
lot for women in menopause, is that
26:10
although we don't get much sleep in bed,
26:12
it's an awful long time spent in bed,
26:15
but I see women that are absolutely exhausted,
26:17
this is incredibly busy time of life with so
26:19
much going on. And they can't
26:21
sleep, and they're having terrible sleep, so they
26:23
go to bed earlier and earlier. And in
26:25
fact, you know, have people getting into bed
26:27
at nine, getting up at about
26:30
6.30, they're in bed for sort of nine,
26:32
10 hours a night. But when
26:34
you ask them how much they're asleep, they're asleep for
26:36
five or six hours a night. So
26:39
a lot of that time in
26:41
bed is spent awake, often feeling
26:43
quite anxious. And what
26:45
this creates is this really unhealthy connection
26:47
with bed and being awake. And we
26:49
call this conditioned arousal. So you're
26:51
almost training yourself to be awake
26:54
overnight. And so some of the
26:56
techniques in ZBTI to
26:58
try and reduce that, if you have
27:00
something called sleep or bedtime restriction, where
27:02
you get someone to go to bed a
27:04
bit later and wake up a bit earlier,
27:06
and actually try and sort of squidge together
27:08
the time and actually force them to have
27:10
that sleep in that time, because they're not
27:12
lying there for a really long time, creating
27:15
this unhealthy habit. So there are other
27:17
techniques like that, and I think they're very powerful. And
27:19
that will often be advice I give to someone is,
27:22
we really need to think about your early bedtime, I'm
27:24
not sure it's actually helping you to get
27:26
into bed so early and give yourself this
27:28
huge sleep opportunity. And
27:31
one of the things we've heard from
27:33
quite a few of the people on
27:35
the previous podcast is that a regular
27:37
routine is incredibly important as far as
27:39
your sleep patterns can stand. Absolutely,
27:42
and I think the key thing
27:44
to kind of anchor that is the waking
27:46
up time. So if you can do one
27:48
thing, it's trying to get your waking
27:50
up time as consistent as possible. And
27:53
then the bedtime, regularity is
27:55
important, but also when you choose to get
27:58
into bed matters a lot, they're really... is
28:00
so many people I see get into bed and
28:02
then lie there for an hour waiting for
28:04
sleep to come and it's like getting to
28:06
the table when you're not hungry and just
28:08
sitting there waiting to get some appetite. We
28:11
really don't want, you know, regularity
28:13
is important but don't do it
28:15
too early if you're not sleeping.
28:17
Actually wait until you have that
28:19
really good sleep drive that builds
28:21
up throughout the day and that
28:24
gives the best chance. The
28:27
other treatment I've heard that potentially
28:29
can be helpful is melatonin. Melatonin
28:34
is a hormone that we produce ourselves from
28:36
the pineal glands and as we
28:39
age actually the pineal gland can get
28:41
a bit calcified and sometimes the reduction
28:44
is less. So melatonin
28:46
is controversial and actually there's
28:48
not great data to say that
28:50
it really helps that much with things
28:52
like insomnia. It more helps with timing
28:54
issues so circadian rhythm disorder things
28:56
like that. Actually
28:59
when we're looking at an older population
29:01
melatonin is something to consider. Certainly in
29:03
the UK you can actually prescribe
29:05
it, it's licensed for people
29:08
over the age of 55 only for
29:10
a short term use but if
29:12
it's effective then it can
29:14
be very helpful even in slightly
29:16
longer term use. However in
29:18
my experience that often isn't the
29:21
underlying problem for women in menopause
29:23
so I tend to focus much more
29:25
on the menopause symptoms first. Let's really try
29:27
and get those under control but melatonin can
29:30
be a useful option. There are other
29:32
prescribed options. There are things like
29:34
sedating antihistamines and antidepressants
29:36
and again all
29:38
of them are problems with them. There isn't
29:40
a kind of perfect medication that
29:42
will always work. I
29:44
think when people are struggling you've got to keep an open
29:47
mind and you've got to look at all the options out
29:49
there and try and work with someone to find something
29:51
that really really helps. So
29:54
we've talked about the pharmaceutical options and
29:56
the CBT. Are there other lifestyle changes
29:58
that can be helpful Zoe? Yeah,
30:02
I suppose just sleep hygiene
30:04
or sleep habits but I'm sure you've spoken
30:06
about so things like making sure
30:08
your room is very dark, you know,
30:10
very quiet, have earplugs if they help
30:12
you, that sort of thing. I
30:15
think things very specific to menopause
30:17
is also thinking about the temperature.
30:20
So we know when we want
30:22
to sleep, we have to drop our
30:24
own core body temperature a little bit
30:26
to get to sleep and that should
30:28
ideally remain lovely and low and
30:31
stable throughout the night. So
30:33
obviously that's where the hot flashes and night sweats are
30:35
very problematic but
30:37
actually just really being conscious of that
30:39
temperature issue, making sure your room is
30:42
nice and cool, packed up,
30:44
having a hot bath or shower before you
30:47
go to bed to allow that release of
30:49
heat from your skin and drop the core body temperature
30:51
a bit can help. Some people who
30:53
are experiencing hot flashes and night sweats have
30:55
shown me actually, they've taught me in clinic
30:57
a clever hack which is you
30:59
can buy these cooling pads for bed and
31:02
I've had a number of patients who
31:04
really swear by these sort of chilli pads
31:06
that they put in their bed and help them to
31:08
cool temperature and apparently it's much cheaper if you buy
31:11
them from the pet aisle rather
31:13
than the menopause product aisle. So
31:15
you can buy a cooling pad for your dog and actually use
31:17
it in your bed but
31:19
things like that can be helpful.
31:22
I think also the things you've
31:24
taken in the day, so we
31:26
always talk about caffeine but caffeine
31:28
can also make menopause symptoms worse.
31:30
So I've had plenty of women
31:32
with palpitations and headaches that they
31:34
really improve if we can reduce
31:36
that caffeine use and keep that
31:38
to the early hours and unfortunately
31:40
metabolism changes in menopause and alcohol
31:42
can become much easier, much more hard
31:44
to tolerate as well so avoiding
31:47
those things as well. Exercise,
31:50
so this is a phase of
31:52
life that we see people's activity
31:54
drop so it's partly I think
31:56
just life stresses pressures,
31:59
getting a bit old. are. And I think
32:01
it's also partly the symptoms of the
32:03
menopause just make everything a bit harder
32:05
for people. But we know that if
32:08
we can get really good regular exercise
32:10
or activity, that can really help with
32:12
sleep health as well. And then like
32:15
we always say regularity. So exactly as
32:17
you said earlier Jill, the timings,
32:19
make sure you're having regular waking
32:21
up times and often not too
32:23
early a bedtime. And
32:27
just listening to all of these ways
32:30
that people can manage their
32:32
symptoms. It's striking me
32:34
having listened to people talking for
32:37
the last year in a series of podcasts about
32:40
how much the menopause symptoms
32:42
are the same as sleep
32:44
deprivation symptoms. And therefore
32:46
the two are inextricably linked aren't
32:49
they? So focusing on your sleep
32:51
has to be the first thing
32:53
that you think about. You're talking
32:55
my language. This is exactly why the
32:57
sleep is just so important. So I've
32:59
been working as a menopause specialist for
33:01
quite a long time, but I've had
33:03
a really long standing interest in sleeping.
33:06
And weirdly, I haven't really put
33:08
them together until a few years
33:10
ago. This is clearly the most
33:12
important thing for women in the menopause to really
33:14
focus on because if you get that right, it
33:17
really can help with so many things. So
33:19
it's something I think is very
33:21
important and we lack in a
33:24
lot of research. We really need more
33:26
research to fully understand these links and
33:28
the ways we can use hormones and other
33:30
things to help people. But I think I hope
33:32
it's coming. What's
33:35
fascinating about this discussion is that it doesn't
33:38
seem like it's something that's been
33:40
very much highlighted when it comes to the stage of
33:42
life. And I guess what's interesting is
33:44
that because there hasn't been a lot of research
33:46
and other research is coming out or is that
33:49
because it just hasn't been publicized
33:51
and given enough here, Tom? I
33:55
think you're right. I think for a long time, so
33:58
about 20 years ago when I was at medical school,
34:00
I was told that really the only symptoms
34:02
of the menopause were being hot
34:05
and sweaty and actually
34:07
we know a hell of a lot more now, we
34:10
really have learnt a lot more but I
34:12
mean to be fair even 15 years
34:14
ago, there was this idea of core
34:16
symptoms of the menopause and sleep was
34:18
one of those four core symptoms so we've
34:20
known it's been important but I think
34:23
like lots of things to do with sleep,
34:25
it's been a bit dismissed and it hasn't
34:27
had the spotlights on it and it's been
34:29
a bit ignored and I think that's been
34:31
really cultural, actually we haven't always
34:34
put that importance and really understood sleep as
34:36
being as important as it is, it was
34:38
something that we could give up and actually
34:41
busy women across the world give up their
34:43
sleep for all the other things they've got to
34:45
do all the time, it's something people just think they
34:47
can do without. We can do everything,
34:49
can't we? We
34:52
expect to just manage everything. Yeah, everything
34:54
and who cares if you don't fall
34:56
into bed till three hours, you know,
34:59
lace them and everything needs to be
35:01
done but I think also
35:04
the increasing research about sleep and
35:06
the impact on health that
35:08
we've seen over the last five
35:10
years has really helped put a focus on
35:13
it in the menopause as well and actually I
35:15
suppose the negative sign of
35:17
that is people will often worry much
35:20
more about losing sleep now so people will
35:22
come to clinic and they'll say not
35:24
only is it awful because I'm not feeling good
35:26
in the day but I'm really worried what it's
35:28
going to do to me, you know, I'm worried
35:30
that this is going to lead to dementia or
35:32
lead to heart disease and things like that and
35:34
often during the menopause
35:36
because your brain isn't functioning so well, that
35:38
is a worry that people have. So I
35:40
think obviously we really need to
35:42
reassure people about that and we don't want to
35:45
create lots of anxiety about that but also to
35:48
really know how important sleep is and
35:50
to put that focus on it but
35:52
I've been surprised myself in my menopause
35:54
training over years,
35:58
I couldn't find anything. really
36:00
helpful on sleep and that's why I published
36:02
an article a few years ago on this
36:05
and I really couldn't find that much
36:07
to guide what we should do and
36:09
often in menopause clinics, people
36:12
would help all the other symptoms and when someone still couldn't
36:14
sleep at the end it would be oh
36:16
sorry about that don't quite know what to do
36:18
we'll send you back to a GP and you know
36:21
see how you go good luck and
36:23
I think it was almost an area they
36:25
don't have confidence in you know actually there
36:27
isn't very good sleep training in certainly in
36:29
the UK in medicine we get very little
36:32
sleep specialty training so I think people just
36:34
can't really know how to approach it or what
36:36
to do about it. So
36:39
a final question that we've been asking this
36:41
of all our specialists that have been on
36:43
this series, what's your bedtime routine look like?
36:46
Okay I am actually quite a good
36:48
sleeper annoyingly to everyone I'm a
36:50
good sleeper I find it very easy to sleep
36:52
I think it's very important so I do make
36:55
time for it. I don't always
36:57
follow all of the advice correctly so I tend to
36:59
work quite late in the evening I make sure I
37:01
take a bit of time off to have dinner with
37:03
my kids and when I've got my youngest down to
37:06
sleep I hit the computer and do lots of work in the
37:08
evening so I'm often finishing work
37:10
and jumping straight into bed but
37:13
what I do tend to do is I do
37:15
tend to close off my day really well so
37:17
I'll finish the day knowing that I've done all
37:19
the tasks I need or I'll make a little list for
37:21
the next day and so I have
37:23
a little kind of my own little toast work
37:26
routine and that really helps my brain
37:28
switch off I don't get into bed I don't
37:30
think about work when I'm in bed and
37:32
I fall asleep quite quickly and actually I
37:34
suppose I don't drink any caffeine at all
37:37
so I cut out caffeine some time ago
37:39
after just my own research and
37:41
that probably helps me a
37:43
little bit as well. Actually
37:45
the biggest thing is when I know my sleep is on
37:48
the edge of doing something a bit unhealthy
37:50
is when I wake up in the morning and
37:52
I check my phone and I look straight to
37:54
emails that then has a knock-on
37:57
effect to make me wake feeling anxious.
38:00
So I never, when I'm being good,
38:02
I never look at my phone first thing
38:04
in the morning. I don't check my emails. I'll always
38:06
make sure I've got up, I've gone and had a
38:08
drink and done other things before I walk, have a
38:10
look. And actually that, the morning, is more important to
38:13
my sleep than anything else actually. Ah,
38:16
that's a good tip. Thank you very much,
38:18
Dr. Zoe Sadell. Thank you for your time
38:20
today. And thank you to my co-host, Dr.
38:22
Jill Warner, who's been such a brilliant to
38:24
ask of good questions throughout the series. And
38:26
for now, it's goodbye. A
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