Now that I’m in my second trimester, it's time for another audience Q&A episode! I'm answering all of the questions that you sent through my IG stories box recently. Join me as I discuss the rollercoaster of our 20-week anatomy scan which unveiled that my baby's umbilical cord has one artery instead of two. Single umbilical artery (SUA) is, as I've learned, not as uncommon as they made it sound. While this discovery was scary at first, I offer comfort and insights for those facing similar prenatal concerns, highlighting how every pregnancy can bring its own set of unexpected turns. On a lighter topic, I share the creative process behind naming our baby, touching on why some beloved names didn't make the cut and the anticipation of a different postpartum experience in our suburban home. Balancing professional and family life with two children is a theme that resonates deeply in this episode. From deciding when to announce the pregnancy to contemplating a step back from work to prioritize family needs, I open up about the complexities and joys of transitioning from one child to two. Join me for a conversation that's as real as it gets, where we celebrate the joyous complexity of adding another heart to the family's beat!

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00:00:00 - 00:08:12 intro + 20-week anatomy scan00:08:12 - 00:10:49 choosing a name00:10:49 - 00:14:30 things I hope to do differently with baby #200:14:30 - 00:17:35 differences between my two pregnancies00:17:35 - 00:19:34 does Milo know what's going on?00:19:34 - 00:21:31 Songfinch00:21:31 - 00:24:30 having enough time with Milo00:24:30 - 00:25:55 hiring a baby nurse00:25:55 - 00:30:09 breastfeeding tips & feeding plan for baby #200:30:09 - 00:31:22 when I started feeling baby moving00:31:22 - 00:32:31 my energy level compared to first pregnancy00:32:31 - 00:34:52 how I feel about giving birth00:34:52 - 00:35:50 diet changes for high blood sugar00:35:50 - 00:36:36 introducing Milo to his baby sister00:36:36 - 00:38:58 cost of raising a child in the city00:38:58 - 00:41:33 sibling age gaps00:41:33 - 00:42:56 did this pregnancy affect how many children we want?00:42:56 - 00:44:05 sciatica pain00:44:05 - 00:45:32 announcing my pregnancy00:45:32 - 00:49:53 fears about going from 1 to 2 kids00:49:53 - 00:50:55 outro

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