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Audrey. I want to say 194. Am

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You're on Pod Daddy. Thank

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you for that. Wow. That

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made my eyebrows really... Now,

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we have to clear something. Name one time you've invited us on

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here, please. Every time. Every

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time. Every time. Every time. Every

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time I see you like you guys should come on. You guys should come on. Yeah,

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yeah, yeah. Yeah, but that's... a throwaway

2:00

comment. So I'm not that kind of person. Do

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you know people do that whole like... She means it like hard. We should go for

2:04

lunch. I never said that in my life because I don't want to.

2:06

I don't want to go for lunch. The same is that if there's

2:09

like a nice slice of pizza and someone's like, oh do you want

2:11

it? If I want it I'll never offer. Yeah.

2:14

Okay so it's easy to be like,

2:16

that's like, oh yeah, like, uh, that's like someone

2:18

saying, oh come around whenever.

2:20

Like there's an open invite. I'm not just gonna

2:23

pull up and be like, we're recording today. You

2:25

let us know your schedule and your work. Yeah.

2:28

So that episode that we recorded... That's the different... Because the thing

2:30

is, I didn't even know that it didn't come out. So

2:34

people always message and be like, oh you guys should do something.

2:38

Yeah that's not our fault. That was a circle

2:40

like, 20... That was not

2:43

our fault. It was after Covid. It was after

2:45

Covid. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I

2:47

don't know what happened with that. Yeah we

2:49

do. That's fair. Go on. Why

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are you looking at me like that?

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None. Oh right. So basically, we

2:56

were basically helping out. There

2:58

was, you know the studio we were at? Yeah. And

3:00

I went out then. The studio we were at, they had

3:02

approached us at the time and we're like, oh we really

3:04

want to start this show and

3:06

we want to get like, loads of different hosts

3:08

every week. Yeah. And

3:10

we were wondering if you guys should

3:12

be the host and we don't really have like, the budget for

3:15

it. We'd be really helping us out. We were like, yeah come

3:17

on. We'll help you out. So we

3:19

pulled up on the first day and then

3:21

we had the... Was it past the makeup guys? Yeah,

3:23

past the makeup guys came in and they were like,

3:25

so what we talked about today and I was like,

3:28

I don't know. Like, this is not

3:30

my thing. I'm here the same way you might hear

3:32

it. And about right. And then the next

3:34

week you guys came in. Same question. So what we talked

3:36

about, what we're doing and we were like, I don't know.

3:38

We were talking about your show. Yeah. We found that

3:41

out afterwards. Because they were using your name. Yeah, as

3:43

soon as you guys left, ZZ came in as well.

3:46

So the exact same thing. So we went for a

3:48

drink and we're like, what actually? And

3:50

he's got to be annoying. The question was, do

3:52

you guys want to come and get some gig?

3:54

That was tough. After

3:58

that day, we had to... We found... out

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that they were doing that and we caught five

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of them and that's why the episodes never came

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out. Right. Are they something you never say yes

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to now? Never say yes.

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Never say yes. Like you know like before you'd be like, yeah sure

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I'll do that favor. Yeah sure why not. I was like, no I'm

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not doing shit. Oh 100% yeah. It depends on what though. That

4:15

wasn't changing it. You said I'm not doing that. It depends on

4:17

what but yeah. Okay. Do you know when I knew you guys

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were like, obviously I've always known you guys

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were popping but popping and we did that Spotify trip

4:23

and we went to Thought Park. Oh

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my god. Oh my god. Right. You

4:28

have to put in the hostel. It says Spotify did like

4:30

a fun day out. Oh it was a good day. Spotify

4:32

run that again. Yeah please. That was fun. That was fun.

4:34

I was running that again. It was such a good time.

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We all went to Thought Park so it was us, you

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guys, for the bed. Yeah. Joyce was there.

4:41

Mother was there. Yeah. Who

4:44

else was there? Just bed. There was a lot of

4:46

us. There was a lot of us. We

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all had this fun day at TikTok at Spotify.

4:52

TikTok? You want my talk? If you want

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to have this fun day out you guys

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make me laugh. Fun day out at TikTok.

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Wow. You guys are making me nervous. Go on

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do your thing. Relax. Fun day

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out at Thought Park. We were all there.

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Oh yeah it's not often I speak to the podcast. Look

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my cheeks are high. I'm all nervous. I'm not going to

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tell you something. Anyway let me tell you something. Alright

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cool. Okay so we had this fun day

5:16

at Thought Park and we were in a group together. So

5:18

we were like did we have leisure? We were following.

5:20

You're like a shuffle. Yeah. I think it

5:22

was awful and a shuffle. Yeah. We were just following

5:24

this separate and Ashley and Jack. Ashley and Jack. Yeah

5:26

I was at the end as well. Now I should

5:29

have filmed that whole day because it was the day.

5:31

And we were just walking from where I

5:34

survived. Which there wasn't a minute. Not a minute.

5:36

That these stuff weren't getting stopped. I thought we were

5:38

saying minutes. No we weren't. Don't

5:40

you look at the feet. Everybody was like everybody won.

5:44

Oh my god. Oh my god that's them. That's

5:46

them. They were going mad. That was a busy

5:48

day. I was hung over that day as well.

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What did we do before? Because we went slow

5:53

down the night before. We did. In Birmingham. Yeah.

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We go straight for Birmingham. I remember. I was

5:57

hanging. That was a good weekend. It was a

5:59

good weekend. I was just hanging in. And so that

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all day from off the adrenaline. And then you were going

6:03

up and down on rides. I'm like, I'm not even over

6:05

with. You actually tried. Yeah, I tried my best. Every two

6:08

minutes, he's all getting stuck. And it was a... Because

6:10

the stuff on the side, it was the whispers. Like,

6:14

it was the demographic of people. It was

6:16

everyone. It was everyone. It was absolutely...

6:19

It was the old, the young ones,

6:21

the black, the white. The black, the

6:23

white, the Asian, every single

6:25

group of people. Yeah. Oh

6:28

my God, it said it's them. Grateful. I

6:30

hated it for me. You hated it for

6:32

you. Yeah, it is. Because you have to

6:34

stop every second. We have to stop every minute. Yeah,

6:36

I felt bad stopping all the time. Because I didn't

6:38

expect you guys to all start. I remember letting you

6:40

guys stop at your start. Everyone was stopping. I

6:43

was like, just go do your rides. Yeah.

6:46

You want to enjoy yourself and we'll catch up. And also, I thought you

6:48

should be in the person to take pictures of someone. Sorry

6:50

about it. I'm going to say it. Remember

6:52

you go out and you're finished, ain't there?

6:54

So you can just do it too. I'm

6:57

in the upper floor because it's humbling. Can

7:00

you hold my coat? Yeah, I'm like, no. I'm taking a

7:02

picture of 300 days in there. No,

7:04

but it's actually amazing to see. I don't know if you've actually

7:06

talked about this. Because obviously you guys have been going for what, seven

7:09

years now? Nah. Four and a

7:11

half. Four and a half. Four and a half.

7:13

Four and a half. Yeah, four and a half.

7:15

Yeah, four and a half. Yeah. But

7:18

it just kind of black. What's the magic? Yeah.

7:21

The seat. There is no magic. There's consistency, man. We

7:23

all want to say that shit, man. Fuck off. That's

7:26

what we said. What is it? Genuine.

7:28

Yeah. Genuine consistency. Yeah, you

7:31

are right. Genuine hard work. How long have you

7:33

guys been going? Eight years. Eight years.

7:36

Eight years. Eight years. Oh, about

7:38

a hundred and something. Yeah. A hundred

7:40

and ninety-something. We're on nearly 400. Not

7:42

including the seats. We're on about the same. Did you hear

7:44

the sign? What? Say that again. I

7:46

was saying we're on nearly 400 episodes. And then four years and

7:48

we're on... Yeah. We don't need that. We

7:50

don't need that. That's not the same. So that's the score.

7:52

We don't need to include your seats now counting. We're counting

7:55

in about 500. All right. Okay.

7:58

Fair, fair, fair. Okay. Yeah,

8:00

I thought, yeah. Hard wall.

8:04

It didn't have to be. You

8:06

really don't want it to be. I find it

8:08

thrilling. What I

8:10

was going to say, the other day,

8:13

we have a mutual friend. I was talking to him, I was

8:15

like, I can move to Freehand. No. It

8:18

was a serious question. Why

8:20

does he think you could move to him? I asked him, I said,

8:22

I can move to Freehand. I'd have it if I moved to him.

8:26

And I was just genuinely intrigued. He

8:28

said no. He

8:30

was like, no. I

8:32

was like, wait, why did he? I was like, why

8:34

do you think it was like, why do you think it would be like, because it's hard to

8:36

cross that, like you guys have played, and it's across that. I was like, no, I was thinking if

8:38

I put it on him, he would have it. He

8:41

was like, he wouldn't. Damn, it's confidence from you.

8:44

No, by the way. I

8:46

know. I

8:48

ran out of time. I was

8:50

like, no, I'm not. I'm not.

8:54

I'm not. By

8:56

the way. I ran it. I'm

9:00

shocked. If I put it

9:02

on you, if I moved to you, would you have it? No,

9:05

we're co-eds. We're co-eds. We're

9:08

co-eds. We're co-eds.

9:12

What's the same thing? I

9:14

must have fun fact. I

9:16

completely forgot about that. Were

9:18

you friends in school? We never

9:20

met each other in school. Yeah, yeah,

9:23

yeah. We never met each other. I

9:26

said he was like...

9:28

Yeah, apparently. What's

9:30

your basis? Just Leigner? I think it's

9:32

Leigner, of course. Okay,

9:36

what else? Also,

9:39

do you ever meet a guy that you're like, I can move to him.

9:42

I just look easy to you. That's

9:44

what I always sound like. It's not

9:46

a looking down thing. So what is

9:48

it? With the

9:50

right maneuvers, they never have her. No, I do a

9:52

young Zulao in my head and then

9:55

I'm confused. God

10:00

yeah no you don't I would

10:02

I've never looked at a girl in my life and

10:04

been like yeah I can get that's unless

10:06

it's vibes yeah unless he's yeah roving

10:09

vibes at me then I'm like it's

10:11

palace but I've never looked at someone

10:13

and thought yeah yeah me yeah approachable

10:19

maybe maybe wow

10:32

yeah maybe

10:34

not an individual to be like yet he's mine but

10:36

I know my levels I know what I mean I

10:38

like men that like me yeah yeah yeah so that's my

10:40

type I

10:44

mean I don't like to reach higher than

10:46

what I can yeah yeah I mean this

10:48

is pointless

10:53

why am I doing that I don't like labor I like so I

10:55

go for what I know

10:58

will like me so therefore yeah yeah

11:00

that's a difference in men and females

11:07

though guys guys want to give

11:09

you reasons as to why not

11:11

I just know what yeah a woman couldn't like if

11:14

someone that there's a girl could be in my lane

11:16

yeah and there's a

11:18

million reasons what shall they know right if there's a

11:21

guy that's in your lane yeah relationship is the

11:23

only reason why not if he's not in a

11:25

relationship and he's in your lane yeah if you single and he's

11:30

in your lane it's a yes yeah yeah so I

11:32

can see why you look at someone like yeah yeah

11:34

guys are just like I still don't yeah yeah

11:36

well I've been humbled I think it's very different anyway

11:39

when you see me do you think

11:41

do you look down it's not

11:43

a down thing explain

11:45

you just look like man that moves were

11:47

yeah yeah

11:50

yeah but I

11:52

don't even know if you do but I'm like yeah I can like your

11:54

every other nigga I'm

11:57

kidding yeah I'm kidding

12:00

Yeah, it's our show. It's

12:02

our show. And outside of this we are friends.

12:04

You know the one meet your fight back. So,

12:06

let's come and meet. Please, the love of God.

12:08

Let's meet our friend. You're not seeking a friend. Have

12:10

you seen the whole last week or two? You guys are not into it,

12:13

are you? I'm into it. You are

12:15

into it at home. All the conversations have

12:17

been about friends. It's just been about

12:19

people talking about like, oh, bad friends and just friends. And

12:22

girl trips. And blah blah blah blah

12:24

blah. You guys just came back from a boy's trip. We did. And

12:27

I think it works very differently to work out. So, something you

12:29

guys don't share rooms. Why on

12:31

earth? You can't just stop back from

12:33

a girl's trip. We share the room. Why? Well,

12:36

to be honest, we didn't book

12:38

it. Yeah, but Audrey would have shared the room. Why?

12:41

Every heart on the bottom would share the room. Why?

12:44

What's this happen to? What? Get your

12:46

own room. Your own independence. But why do you not have

12:48

the same floor? That's boring. So, that you're not on the

12:50

same floor. But that's what, that's what, like... I'm not gonna

12:52

talk to you for a reason. That's what living rooms are

12:54

for. No, we were in a hotel.

12:57

Oh, okay. We didn't get a suite.

12:59

I'm sorry. Yeah, but you know that. No, no,

13:01

no. We got Airbnb. We didn't get

13:03

a suite. But, like, I'm just confused. Why would we get

13:05

the same room? That makes it

13:08

so expensive. Yeah, the reduced

13:10

cost. Yeah, literally. The cheapest.

13:12

It's the reduced cost. Yeah, but you

13:14

guys are the receipt of your ballers, man. Stop acting

13:16

like you can't or don't want to do it. I'm

13:18

confused. But even that before you were here, you were, before your shit's

13:20

been here, it's like you go on holiday and not share a room. Yeah.

13:23

We're going to work in a separate room. Oh, of course.

13:26

We're going to share a room if needed. So,

13:28

like, we went to Miami the first time. We did

13:30

like... Oh, yeah. Yeah, so we did two in

13:32

each room and then one of us had one room. Yeah,

13:35

yeah, yeah. Three rooms. Three rooms among

13:37

five of us. Right, okay. That was 13 years

13:39

ago. How did you decide who got their own room? I

13:42

can't remember. I actually don't remember.

13:44

Probably a one-paper-scissors thing. Probably. Probably.

13:47

Probably with RPS. Probably.

13:50

Someone went, oh, my God. It's really long,

13:52

man. Oh, my God. Yeah, we had to...

13:54

We had to buy some shoes for

13:56

a club the night before. And then

13:58

the next day we had to clean our retirement. Damn

14:00

it, man. We were strong. We had no food because that

14:02

was the last day before we food. We had no money

14:04

for food. We had no money for food. Yeah. And then

14:06

one night we had to choose between. What

14:10

was it? Entering the club or money to go home. Yes.

14:12

It was like if we go to this club, we can't

14:14

drink and we also can't get home. Yeah. Or we can

14:16

just charge it and go home now. We

14:18

just went home. We just went home. Do you know what? It's funny, because I

14:20

went to Miami, but I didn't have any like

14:23

us piss balls, but

14:25

we're girls. Yeah, I was going to say you're a girl. Yeah. Yeah.

14:27

It's literally fine. We went to the club. Do you know how long

14:29

ago was Miami? R. Kelly was wearing the streets of

14:31

Miami. I swear that. I saw French Montana. I remember

14:33

him. They were all red outfit, leather jacket, red hat

14:35

and a white t-shirt in their trousers. That sounds so

14:38

wild. And R. Kelly was walking up and down the

14:40

streets of Miami. And

14:42

like all like this, like. What year was this?

14:44

This was years ago. I went to Miami. When

14:46

did we go? We went to 2000. We graduated to 13.

14:48

To 13, I think. 12, 13, 13. I think I probably went

14:51

to a man that same time, you know. And

14:53

we saw Christina Melian. I

14:56

remember that. You know, she was in a

14:58

hotel. I really. I thought you were at a decent hotel.

15:00

Yeah. We were in a nice hotel. The

15:02

only time I didn't get to go, I didn't get to go to live. I didn't get to

15:04

go to the club live. You can wait. Yeah. Because

15:06

that night we just weren't putting enough. We were putting it off at

15:08

a table every other. Yeah.

15:11

That militant. That live night, the guy was like, yeah,

15:13

no, unless you buy a table. We're like, well, we've

15:15

never bought it. Well,

15:17

we've never bought a table. That's one

15:20

thing I can be told I'm broke.

15:22

Yeah. But to say. To have pretty

15:24

privilege among the common clubs. Yeah. And

15:26

then be like, not

15:28

tonight. Yeah. Yeah. That's something I

15:30

can't. They are breaking. Yeah. Yeah.

15:33

Some like should just look like you're

15:35

assessing. But the pretty privilege is that

15:37

you just need to have money for a table. Yeah.

15:39

It's not. It's not a guy. Yeah.

15:42

Yeah. Yeah. Not at all. Yeah. Not at all. Like

15:45

a brilliant guy doesn't actually mean anything. Yeah. It doesn't

15:47

mean nothing. Yeah. It's not your company at all. No.

15:50

Like it only means to someone you have a teenager. Like

15:53

I've seen secondary school. You mean everything when you're

15:56

a teenager. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But once you've gone

15:58

past 28, once you start paying bills. even

16:01

sooner than 28. Yeah. Yeah.

16:04

When did you start feeling like, why don't you get money up

16:06

to get these in the, in the life of play? Soon as

16:08

we left in here, I think. For me. Um,

16:12

I need to get my money up.

16:14

Yeah. Probably when

16:18

I was in money. Yes. What

16:20

you did. I lived in money for five years. What were

16:22

you doing before? Podcasting.

16:25

I was in hospitality. Okay. So

16:27

I used to, I was, I started off as a bartender. I used to manage restaurants. Oh,

16:29

nice. I was a personal trainer. How

16:32

are you? Can you train us?

16:35

Was personal training. I have to pull up again because

16:38

I have the ability. Yeah. Yeah.

16:41

I haven't got the time on the patient. The connection

16:43

even concept. Forget

16:45

what's the fun for us and then you just give

16:47

us training. All right. In the bag

16:49

as well. Yeah. I

16:51

think it's something we can make

16:54

work. Yeah. I'm down. I

16:56

don't, I don't have patience for

16:58

foolishness. What would be foolishness though?

17:00

Laziness. Laziness complaints. Like. And

17:02

you know us. So you might take the piss with

17:04

the PTs. Facts. That's also true. You

17:07

know what I'm saying? You won't be. I

17:09

thought I've never PT'd a friend before. No, I think I'd be. No,

17:11

I was competitive. How? And I like to

17:13

impress people. So I think I would just do it over. Just so you

17:15

can say, oh, she's sick. She's much stronger. I'm lazy.

17:18

Oh yeah. I always see you posting your hip thrusts.

17:20

I'm so strong. Yeah. What's the PB?

17:23

At the moment, 125. Cute. Seven.

17:26

Right. And my. Did you find that cute?

17:29

I mean, we're going back to back, aren't we? No, no, I stopped

17:31

doing that. This is my retaliation. I thought we were cool. I

17:33

thought we were cool. No.

17:36

It's just the way. It was the way it came across. It's

17:38

the way it came across. How did it come across? It came

17:40

across with such... You said I'm easy. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You said

17:42

I'm easy to get. I'm easy today. That's

17:44

not a fact. I'm not. I'm not. I'm

17:47

not. I'm not. I'm not.

17:50

I'm not. I'm not. I'm

17:52

not. I'm not. I'm not.

17:57

I'm not. We

18:00

just cook up rice one time and they're happy. Yeah.

18:04

This comes with a lot of rice. I can't

18:06

take off. Are you giving her

18:08

something like, oh she's the one man. That's the

18:10

vibe you give her. That's

18:12

the vibe you think I give her. That's the vibe you speak

18:14

of. She's the one. Do

18:18

you know how many weddings I've gone to and that's been what it

18:20

is. Like she's brought me lunch one day and I knew she was

18:22

the one. Really? No, I don't think

18:24

it's that. Some men

18:26

eat food. You've heard

18:28

it before, isn't it? Yeah. And

18:31

then one time I was working at Late Shift and she said I'm going to come

18:33

and see you and she came with some food and chicken. We're

18:35

very easy to please. Yeah, that's

18:37

excellent. Guys just want peace. Facts. Yeah,

18:40

okay. I hear this a lot. Right. Are

18:43

you listening? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Facts. Are

18:46

you listening? I've said it before the podcast.

18:49

Peace is a byproduct of clarity. Explain

18:51

yourself. You're only going to

18:53

get peace out of me if everything's clear. I'm not

18:55

questioning how you feel about me. You've made me feel

18:57

secure. Then you're going to get peace. If you're going

18:59

to make someone feel insecure and they're not feeling great,

19:02

they're not going to be peaceful. But that's

19:04

the spectrum. If we're talking over the span

19:06

of years, what's constant?

19:09

Constantly. Constantly insecure

19:11

over years and years. You're not going to

19:13

be on the talking stage to death. Oh

19:16

wow. So what's how... But

19:21

do you take words or do you like... Because

19:23

I've been in relationship with a woman where I've

19:25

said exactly how it is. How have you acted?

19:28

And I act how I've said. Okay. But

19:31

they're like, yeah, but like... Yeah,

19:33

I understand you said that, but like you're

19:36

acting as if like you're cuddling me and you're

19:38

kissing me and it's not acting like what you're...

19:40

But I was like, yeah, but that's not

19:42

fair. Yeah. That's just how I am as

19:44

a person. But did you find out how she wanted to be loved?

19:46

Did I find out how she wanted to be loved?

19:49

That's a lot of words. We didn't get to how

19:51

anyone wants to be loved. Oh, like, we're never

19:53

going to be a loved one. Yeah, because the

19:55

love is we're not getting too loved. Right, okay.

19:57

I do think some people do conflate that though. Like, say... guy

20:00

is really really really honest

20:02

and he's like look I

20:04

don't want anything serious but I'm still happy to continue

20:06

seeing you some girls are like oh you're happy to

20:08

continue seeing me but bet I could change your mind

20:11

you're gonna want to yeah yeah yeah

20:13

yeah but then like I can

20:16

kind of see a guy's

20:19

perspective is

20:23

sometimes some women do attribute or just

20:25

anyone that you're dating do you attribute

20:27

like having manners to

20:30

yeah exactly

20:32

yeah exactly just because I've said we're casual it doesn't

20:34

mean that I'm

20:36

just I'm gonna spit on you and

20:38

yeah sometimes

20:41

don't listen to the words

20:44

I'm saying I say something

20:46

and you've heard something else

20:49

yeah yeah yeah yeah why

20:57

is accepted why many

21:00

women each true show movement of change

21:02

men's minds like

21:09

many women like I don't want anything serious now

21:12

you're maddening me like that happens quite a lot

21:14

yeah yes pressure

21:17

is on it what you mean like

21:22

you say women have changed men's minds

21:24

or like you stick it on a man blah

21:26

blah blah yeah they're gonna you somewhat women

21:29

can somewhat wear a man down in

21:31

a negative way except the same way you

21:33

see as a challenge you like okay cool

21:35

if I just

21:42

do this or do this or do this

21:44

over a year span yeah it's gonna necessarily

21:46

weigh him down like okay she's consistently doing

21:48

this okay she's consistently doing that so I'm

21:50

comfortable with this and this can then

21:52

go on to be something else does

21:55

that make sense so that's why I say in

21:57

terms of wearing a man down and quote-unquote quote-unquote

22:00

like pressure, but that's

22:02

because you're applying that pressure. Like

22:04

if I said to you, I just want it to be

22:06

casual and you agreed it's just going to be casual. You

22:08

didn't apply any pressure. You won't be married. Yeah, we'll never

22:11

get married. Do you see what I'm saying? We'll never get

22:13

married. nothing. Exactly. But

22:15

if you're putting more effort. But that's how I'm putting.

22:18

That's why we don't believe you when you see it's gonna be casual.

22:20

Because I realize like a corset. Some people have got rings off the back

22:22

of it. Yeah. Yeah, but it's the way

22:24

you came in. That's on you guys putting the pressure.

22:26

Yeah. Do you see it? See what

22:29

I'm saying? But

22:31

do you want me to like, I

22:33

would like to assume you would want

22:35

me to be like, I need to marry you

22:37

as opposed to kissing my teeth and saying fine.

22:40

Oh, 100%. Why can't

22:42

we do, your actions are not saying that though.

22:45

That's not, this is what I'm saying. I don't like later on. If

22:47

you change my mind is I'm just gonna kiss my teeth and

22:50

be like fine then. Yeah. Oh my

22:52

God. And do you know what? Unfortunately,

22:55

unfortunately, which is why even though I don't agree

22:57

with that type of like, the guy has to like

22:59

the girl more, I think, cause

23:02

I think that changes in relationships. But I think

23:04

when you're in that transitional period, he

23:06

kind of does. Because I need to know

23:09

that you want to marry me. Yeah. Which

23:11

is why I would never propose to a man. Nothing

23:13

makes a more- PSA, you birds out there.

23:15

You shramps. Oh, God. Sorry.

23:18

I have no reason or logical explanation for me.

23:20

But we should burn Janine and say, I

23:22

didn't believe I'd do that. You better fucking say no. Yeah,

23:24

exactly. Because if you're gonna say yes, I thought you asked me.

23:28

Is that what you're thinking about? That's what you're thinking

23:30

about. If I'm gonna ask you, you said yes. Okay,

23:32

so why haven't you asked me then? So if you're

23:35

down for it, say no. No, never. But

23:37

what does that say now? I'm not that far from a friend in the bag. You

23:39

have to say no to me. You have to say no to me. What

23:41

would that do for your mental? Oh, fuck

23:43

it up. But you wouldn't invite bare people and do it

23:45

in front of bare people. My mental is not okay if

23:47

I'm dropping it. You're already down back. You're

23:50

already down back. You've got nothing

23:52

left. Ah! I'm already

23:54

finished. I couldn't see. the

24:00

love of my life on the news stand up. What

24:03

would you actually think about both? I know. Because

24:05

you can't read a room. You don't know me. Yeah, you

24:07

don't know me. We're not aligned, huh? Yeah, yeah, yeah. You

24:09

don't know me, it's 100% it's no. Yeah.

24:12

Yeah, exactly. Yeah. That's

24:14

all. No, man. It couldn't work. You

24:16

actually have to say no. Yeah, it couldn't work. And I see

24:19

it now like leap year is just gone. Have you bought shawty?

24:21

No, yeah, women's feet. No. Shut the

24:23

fuck up. Well, people are actually being leap years for women's

24:25

and aropos. Yeah, that's the year that women have to pay.

24:27

29 for February. That's the day that women are

24:29

meant to pay. And that's the reason why it comes

24:31

down every four years because it's not supposed to happen. And

24:33

they hope that they didn't fall into the shoes against some

24:35

fucking common sense so you don't do it. Jesus Christ. Wow.

24:38

I remember tweeting it once and then I was like, hey,

24:40

man, man, man, shut the fuck up. Yeah, no. Like,

24:42

you can't, there's certain things you can't convince me of.

24:44

Yeah, there's one thing, I know that's a big drop

24:46

to your mind. But yeah, no. It's just

24:48

a no. Ew. That's tough,

24:51

man. Wow. And what kind of thing do you

24:53

buy? Exactly. You go buy a wedding band. Does that mean you don't

24:55

have a ring then? Yeah, you don't have a ring. I

24:59

didn't know it was a thing. I didn't

25:01

know it was a thing. Oh, you didn't know

25:03

the nuclear thing? No, I never knew that. I

25:06

don't know, like, proposal traditions, period. Right, OK.

25:08

I thought something I'm up to date with. Apparently the

25:10

ring is supposed to be three month salary. I

25:12

knew that. That's a piss take, by the way.

25:14

Yeah. You didn't know three month salary. It's a

25:16

piss take. One of our boys actually did it

25:18

right into him. That's a piss take. Why is

25:20

it a piss take? Because it's

25:23

like three

25:25

month salary is all

25:27

well and good when you're caked. Yeah, yeah,

25:29

yeah. When you're making 25K a year

25:31

and I can barely put food on the table,

25:34

do you know why I have to sacrifice to

25:36

save up three months? Yeah, yeah, yeah. What's that,

25:38

a quarter of the year? Yeah. Yeah. That's

25:41

a lot. If I had three month salary, I wouldn't be

25:43

struggling like this. Yeah, true. I wouldn't be driving a Corsa,

25:45

bro, if I had three month salary spend. And we'd spend

25:47

it on a ring. Yeah, that's true. After

25:49

that, I don't want to lab break them diamonds.

25:52

I don't want to build diamonds. I want to lab break

25:54

diamonds. Yeah. Who does that? What's

25:56

that face? That lab is like... That can

25:58

be a sahonia. I don't think

26:00

it's quite that. I don't think it's

26:02

quite that. But I don't want

26:05

like a... I don't want a blood dab.

26:08

You want like an ethical ring. I

26:10

was doing some research into it. I don't know why. I

26:12

just actually plan for my future. And

26:14

I've decided I want a lab room. I

26:17

lost that first. But you know the only reason why

26:19

I do see that perspective is because really and truly

26:21

they say the ring is supposed to symbolise your love.

26:24

So why is it like we're now attaching the whole

26:26

capitalism thing to it? Because if it's a symbol, then

26:28

why do you have to save up for three months?

26:30

You can just get anything and it should represent your

26:32

love. Like this is a symbol of my love for

26:35

you. So yeah. So

26:37

would you guys be livid if you got a small engagement ring?

26:40

Like the rock itself. Like

26:42

the memes where you see people and it's like you need a

26:44

magnifying glass of tea and stuff. Yeah. But this is what I

26:46

can afford. This is my love for you. I've

26:48

actually saved. I've done what I needed to

26:50

do. I'm striving a man they

26:52

would never look at. No, no, no,

26:54

no, no, no, no, no. You're a liar.

26:57

You're a liar. But

27:00

I'm just saying, hypothetically speaking, of

27:02

course. Would you? Would you

27:04

feel some type of way? Would you? Yeah, I would

27:06

hate it. I'm so big on like. You can tell

27:08

him. I love it, honestly. Oh,

27:12

good question. Oh,

27:15

because I know women that told men that they hate the engagement ring. So do I. I've

27:18

got a friend that went and brought her own one. That's a

27:21

fist. That's a fist. I never

27:23

made it for the whole time. I

27:25

know someone who the guy got into a

27:27

car accident. Like

27:30

he's fine. But the ring was in the car. She went to

27:32

take it out of the car. She saw the ring. She said

27:34

to me, she was like, she had an answer. He

27:37

was like, he's dying. I don't like that

27:39

ring. Oh, don't. Okay.

27:41

Yeah. Not liking the ring. It's just style. It was

27:43

small. She was like, I don't like that ring. I've

27:45

seen that ring. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. A

27:48

lot of people, I think even that it's kind of

27:50

semantic. There's a lot of people go and choose their own ring

27:52

and you know, there's only one ring. It

27:55

just kind of like that

28:00

you don't know me. Do you know what I mean?

28:02

No, no, it's not back knowing. They're saying if all

28:04

you can afford is a small diamond. Yeah, but you

28:06

still have to make it work. Because

28:08

the thing is, you can get something that's not a diamond. But why are

28:10

you getting me a little dot? I

28:12

mean, why are you getting me a full stop for my ring? That's not

28:14

cool. Stop. What would what would you

28:16

say to them to him? If you

28:19

would say anything? It would

28:21

be a red flag for me. I

28:23

can't. Why would I be a red flag though? You say yes.

28:25

I say yes. My

28:27

mind will start ticking. So

28:30

it's a countdown thing for you. No, my mind

28:32

will start ticking as in like, I'd be like

28:34

to have concerns. I feel like that's a red flag.

28:36

That makes sense. Because if you know me, you know

28:39

me really okay. Part of loving someone is wanting them

28:41

to be happy. Yeah. You know what I mean? So

28:44

you know me. So therefore, you know, I'm not going

28:46

to be happy with a full stop. Yeah. They

28:49

just did something else. Yeah, exactly. I would say

28:52

for longer. Like he's, I was, I remember

28:55

that give me a ring. Actually, I don't

28:57

know. I have a cubic zirconia that

28:59

looks like I can pass it off. I don't know. I

29:01

don't believe you.

29:04

I don't believe

29:06

you. I'm kind of like, I'm like, I'm really into like

29:08

alternative ways of showing up. It doesn't have to be okay.

29:11

Yeah. I'm not, it's very, very traditional. It can be like,

29:15

whatever it is that makes sense between both of us sort of things.

29:17

So if you just did something else that wasn't a thing, I think

29:20

I'd be internet. Fair. Okay. Like

29:22

a tattoo. A tattoo. That

29:26

makes your blood. Yeah. Did you fall

29:29

out of your fucking tattoo? But just

29:31

like something else. That's

29:34

fair. Yeah. Like, I

29:36

don't know, a book. Just, I don't

29:39

know. There's just alternative ways, whatever makes sense

29:41

of us. To be fair, yeah. If I'm broke, I'm not,

29:43

I'm not showing up with a dot. But the thing is, shit.

29:45

I'll explain it to you. But I do think

29:47

there's something, traditionists said that this is

29:49

how it goes. So I think there's

29:51

alternative ways of showing love, 100% that's

29:53

exclusive to you guys. Like I love that. But

29:56

let's be sticking to the rules of certain things. Do you know what

29:58

I mean? So like. Don't

30:00

come and be alternative now. Do

30:02

you know what I mean? Because you do everything traditionally

30:05

when it comes to your boys. You

30:07

do everything traditionally when it comes to the workplace. All

30:09

of a sudden you want to start being like, Wait,

30:11

what? Excellent. And being all alternative when it comes

30:13

to me. Like, don't be alternative with me, Han.

30:16

Like, let's be traditional. I just think like certain

30:18

things should stay as they are. Otherwise, don't call

30:20

them that. Like, I hate when people

30:22

try and remix things to like, suit their narrative. Okay,

30:24

but in the sense of a guy's trying to

30:26

be, he's been saving, he's saved like James has

30:28

25 k's and saving, saving, saving. And within the

30:30

three, let's say you want a bigger ring, or

30:32

you want a better ring. He just, he digests

30:34

that and okay, I'm not going to post you

30:36

in three months. I'm maybe going to post him

30:38

in five. But you've noticed a difference in

30:40

your relationship within those five months because he's struggling

30:42

to live. He's resenting you. Yeah, not in terms

30:45

of resentment, but because he's trying to save so

30:47

much, your life's done and the things you do

30:49

within those five months change. Do you see what

30:51

I'm saying? So that ultimately affects your relationship. Yeah,

30:53

again, this is why. Okay, date night's charged. Date

30:55

night's charged. In the back of

30:57

your mind, you're probably thinking, what's going on? Do you know

30:59

what I mean? Up until the day he eventually may propose

31:02

to you. But you don't, you might not know. You

31:04

might not get to that stage before your frustration

31:06

takes over. Well, let's be familiar. I know like

31:08

the day they proposed is a surprise, but

31:11

most of them know the man's going to propose to them. Yeah,

31:14

I'm not. Like when they proposed, you knew it was going to happen.

31:16

You didn't know how. Yeah, I knew at some point it was going to

31:19

happen. But when it happened, I had no idea

31:21

it was happening that day. So it's like,

31:23

we've talked about marriage. Yeah. I'm just trying to get to

31:25

a point where we can do it sort of thing.

31:27

So then I know that I could think that I'm like,

31:29

maybe it's time for him that he's saving for us to

31:31

be married. But also, but I generally don't believe in

31:33

spending all the money you have on the ring. I

31:37

completely. I don't think. I'm going to have that course.

31:39

Yeah, I don't necessarily. I know some people it's meant to

31:41

be a symbol of love. It's not necessarily a symbol of love

31:43

for me. I think the symbol of love is that you're

31:46

committed to and spend the rest of your life with me. I

31:49

can't really surprise that someone hasn't fully proposed to me. Like

31:51

it was the most offensive. It's

31:53

a crime against you. I was going to get

31:55

a post about the child. Oh, yeah. Her

32:00

in my chest go on probably I went made to make

32:02

eye contact but go on He

32:17

said I wasn't My

32:30

god, I want to go to the shard like go for a

32:32

meal whatever anyway, I was like Relancing

32:34

at some like was a mid or the day. He rang

32:37

me saying that I want to take you out for lunch This

32:39

is the next we don't that we talk about that. Well,

32:41

I must have been hungry Literally

32:48

I had like converters on and I was

32:50

very very casual So I

32:52

was like a call where should I meet you? I said

32:54

yeah, I've got out between my work I'll come and meet you. So he

32:56

was like, what is what station is either shop? London

32:59

Bridge, whatever station is that me? I had that station. I meet

33:01

there and I got there and it was I'll go up to

33:03

the shard and I was like And

33:10

then when we get there he goes to go talk to the waiter Because

33:21

I know when there's no way God

33:24

didn't have to come down So

33:29

let's go sit down and then the way it kept being

33:31

that really like attentive towards me blah blah blah blah blah

33:34

And then I'm just like, oh my god, he's gonna Did

33:37

you tell like a Like

33:41

what am I gonna do because I'm gonna say no I went

33:43

back and I was like, hi if you're gonna do anything Till

33:50

now we don't know if he was You're

33:52

gonna do anything just like just don't and like

33:54

I just say thing you should And

33:57

then at one point when I come back to him and he just like shook

33:59

his head Oh, wow.

34:01

Maybe one. I feel like

34:03

he was going to propose, but I was like,

34:05

just don't. Let's just have a nice tone. Because

34:08

it's not all of that for a dessert with your name on it, is it?

34:10

Yeah. It wasn't the

34:12

birthday. So that's the person I've got

34:14

to. I should have let it happen in said

34:16

location. Yeah. Why? Why? My

34:19

lick back. My get back. So

34:21

why did you go to lunch with him then? The shard.

34:24

For free. What

34:26

are you talking about here? Your parties are off.

34:28

Yeah. He probably is all over the start.

34:31

Remember I said I was a freelancer, so I just... Don't

34:33

try your caveat. I had no money.

34:37

I had no money. I just quit a good earning

34:39

job. I quit that job. The

34:41

first time he was going to Vegas to board you, like

34:43

an irresponsible adult, I spent money and I came back to

34:45

no money. All right. All right, then.

34:47

The free lunch at the shard. I mean, come on now.

34:50

He's saying no to that. He's saying no to that. I genuinely thought

34:52

I was just like, oh my God, it's going to be so

34:54

awkward if he proposes to me. Because I genuinely would have said no. But

34:56

I'm saying that to say that. Most surprises don't work like that. Most

34:58

would be no. Yeah. And the only

35:00

time most of them say no to it was a surprise, or if he'd done it after

35:02

he'd cheated. Or if he'd done

35:04

it like during a special occasion. Do you know that I fucking

35:07

hate that? Do you know what I mean? Special occasions

35:09

are like a birthday. Like you're celebrating an

35:12

achievement and then your guy comes to the

35:14

back. I think party beans fucks me off.

35:16

Why? You piece of

35:19

shit. Just because we should be separating these. Yeah. I

35:22

want a gold medal and then have perfect

35:24

boyfriends. I'm supposed. Why is that so bad?

35:26

Why is that so bad? No, that's not.

35:28

I'm sorry. Let me celebrate this moment. Yeah,

35:32

I think I'm on the fence with that. I understand both points

35:34

of that to be fair. I understand both points. I think that's

35:36

very kind of it. But I think you're lost if you think

35:38

any guy gives a

35:40

fuck about like... My gold medal?

35:42

No, no, no. If you think about any

35:44

guy gives a fuck about the spotlight being on him while

35:46

he's proposing. What do you mean?

35:49

Like if I was to get down on

35:51

one knee or whatever, it's entirely about you. I don't think it's

35:53

me. I would rather be anywhere else in the world. Maybe that's

35:55

just me. I don't think so. But like,

35:57

this is not about me. This is not at all

35:59

about me. equal. I think it's a bit more

36:01

equal. I think it's a bit more, I think it's like

36:03

60-40. I

36:06

don't think so. You think it's more about the

36:08

women? I don't have a single guy in my

36:10

life who is excited to propose to his

36:12

wife. It's all about her. What the

36:14

fuck are you doing? No, not excited as

36:19

in like... It's not for

36:21

you. It's literally all for you. Hence

36:23

why I'm on the floor. What

36:26

can you do? Like a beggar. I'm down on the floor.

36:28

I'm exactly who you should be. Yeah, and I'm not gonna

36:30

follow with that. I'm just saying it's not about me. It's

36:32

not about us. Because

36:34

if it was about me, I

36:37

wouldn't embarrass myself. I feel like

36:39

that moment... I'm mediating.

36:41

I think that moment to overshadow another achievement,

36:43

especially if it's a moment where it's an

36:46

achievement, like a gold moment. Yeah. I feel

36:48

like you're kind of like trying to... Maybe

36:50

I'm reaching, but I feel like you're trying

36:52

to reduce me. That's a

36:54

reach. That's a reach. I do feel

36:57

like that. I feel like I'm

36:59

not the first woman in

37:03

the world to do this, motherfucker. Now this is billing.

37:05

25 seconds. Bet. Bet. That's

37:09

your first thought process. Yeah. Let's

37:12

see how fast you are. It's very concerning. No,

37:14

you know what? That's me with my mindset. Now

37:16

I know that men don't necessarily have that logic

37:18

to them. It's just like, let me add on. Yeah. I

37:20

mean, let me add on to the greatness kind of thing.

37:22

But for me, I'll just be like, why are you trying

37:24

to reduce me? Why are you trying to take away my

37:27

shine and my mindset? Well, because the thing is as well,

37:29

women will tell you, oh, it would

37:31

be so amazing if when

37:33

you proposed to me, I was on top of

37:36

the Eiffel Tower and there was fireworks and everything

37:38

was amazing. All my family and friends jumped out

37:40

in the thing. So he would be thinking, what

37:43

other moment could possibly ever be like that

37:45

where all the spotlights on her, everything's raining

37:47

on her. There are fireworks, all of the

37:49

family and friends. The moment

37:51

she's just like, everyone's built her up to

37:54

this one big moment, let's

37:56

add 10% on top of that. And she gets engaged all

37:58

in the same day. No. unbelievably perfect.

38:01

Like engagement stories. always a

38:03

grandiose. That. A guy would think. Cool.

38:06

The most grandiose moment I can think of would be

38:08

this moment. Is. Not. Let. Me:

38:10

reduce Utah like is now. I. Glanced

38:14

up since. The I think is now that I've

38:16

won the silver medals I'm on the site and then

38:18

comes the bison. I wasn't much of a my family

38:20

A that is a little everyone's gonna forget about my

38:23

gold medal. Be I was. Gonna

38:25

die of Old man I. Mean

38:28

yeah that's racism been five years ago

38:30

thing he said. I should say I

38:32

would never do the on a us

38:34

out of opportunity for also as it

38:36

does love it on a professional com

38:38

and it's not just don't think is

38:40

appropriate. Exactly super. That's the thing. The thing is is

38:42

different with past days and stuff. Like. That, but

38:44

I'm sitting by moments of achievement. Yes,

38:46

I think that's very. Problematic A kind of

38:48

As he spoke, I didn't want a gold medal

38:50

of Freedom party. Please make them. Any

38:54

you come along. Black. folks

38:56

your gold medals usual ring. Last

39:00

night that you'll see if. I

39:03

think it's very selfish. I don't know a

39:05

guy who have like you have my take

39:07

away my side supply money my personal opinion

39:09

as from all the guys on a glare

39:12

from around. The best case scenario for us

39:14

would be for me to propose you in

39:16

the bedroom alone quiet thought. No one of

39:18

those know him. That is that what they

39:20

want. They did admit I do that. You

39:23

wouldn't mind a Sunday morning. And

39:25

are exiled Know. If

39:28

is regarded. As

39:31

if you listen. I'm

39:33

yes a We don't like the idea of

39:35

doing it probably already as hell Yeah. So

39:38

pleased I think for a second if you

39:40

do in that used on adult any of

39:42

your sign notes mom was very public uses

39:44

type of yeah. And I'm not for

39:46

him. Not with as the oh yes I'm I hear how

39:48

do you believe about. He. Lost it. For

39:51

he loved it. So. I don't

39:53

like for the been going to get people dancing

39:55

up and down to that's how will they think

39:57

Called again What? I still couldn't pay back loans.

40:00

Flashmobs, flashmobs, flashmobs. Yeah,

40:02

yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. We've been through so

40:04

much of the people. We haven't yet. Flashmobs

40:07

was a crazy time. Yeah,

40:09

no, ain't it? It's

40:11

fucking Bruno Mars. Hey,

40:13

baby. I remember.

40:16

I do remember, yeah. Leave

40:19

me alone. But

40:21

if you were to pose your way, it would be embed. Literally.

40:24

How do you do it? Not

40:27

necessarily, but in a secluded area, just

40:29

myself or my partner. It doesn't

40:31

have to be in bed. It could be

40:33

in a farmhouse. It could be anywhere. What

40:37

if your girl is a showboat-y type of person?

40:39

She won't be my girl. If

40:44

she insists that

40:46

this is how it has to be, again, what

40:48

you said earlier, we're not allowed to. Yeah, this is

40:50

not the person for me. You should

40:52

let the person that's going

40:54

to propose to you do it in their

40:57

style and not overly impose your way. But

41:00

I feel like there's a nice middle ground. I

41:02

completely agree with the middle ground. I think so as

41:04

well. I also want

41:06

to feel like, like you said earlier about, you want

41:08

to feel like they want to marry you. I

41:11

feel like when

41:13

it's very ridezilla stuff, I

41:16

don't want to feel like I could beat anyone.

41:19

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Inserting

41:22

man into this fantasy that you've already

41:24

created. It

41:26

could be me, it could be Phuhead, it could be anyone. I

41:29

don't want to feel like that. If it

41:31

was a case of like, she was like, no, no, no, no, it has to be this

41:33

and it has to be that. And I really, really want it to be like this. And

41:36

the wedding has to be here, this has to be this.

41:38

I would think, this is actually not any bread here. Because

41:40

you've been dreaming this and there was just a shadow the

41:42

entire time. No, literally.

41:46

You don't get it with me, you will get it with someone else.

41:48

So yeah, that bothers me. I don't

41:50

know if it means that necessarily. I think sometimes

41:52

you just have an image of how you, I think it

41:54

depends on how you dream. Everything I dream about,

41:56

all of my hopes and aspirations, I see it. So

41:59

like with whatever. why I want in terms of a wedding. I

42:01

kind of see how I want my wedding to go. I

42:04

know that I normally fucking hate all white. I want

42:06

people to wear all white. And I felt worse like

42:08

me. As in women, I want them to wear white

42:10

and men in tux. I want to be given away

42:13

by my family, like all of them. It's

42:15

so kind of safe. Yeah, that's something that's central about

42:18

me. Yeah, but yeah, but those things that you're saying

42:20

have nothing to do with the guy. Yeah, actions have

42:22

nothing to do with that. So it's not a copy

42:24

and paste situation with that. Yeah, that's just about like

42:27

background scenery. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But yeah, actual

42:29

things that involve the man. Yeah. That could

42:31

be like, but they still have to go

42:33

your way. It's just like, I

42:35

could be anyone. Yeah, I could be anyone. That's a fair point.

42:37

I want to think when they said two girls, this woman,

42:40

or women, stand up in the

42:42

room and say, we do. Oh, that's cute.

42:44

That's really cute. Sure.

42:49

We don't care. Why don't you think that's cute? I do think

42:51

it's cute. And I want to say it for the man. No,

42:54

no one gives him away, does he? See, why do I have to fucking give him

42:56

away? No one gives him away. Could you take the surname? Are

42:59

you or no? I'll take the surname. Okay, cool. Yeah, yeah,

43:02

I'm not. I'm not like, I'm not

43:04

a modern woman. In that sense. I can't

43:06

remember what I said. In that sense, I'm not a

43:08

modern woman. I don't want to say that second. You were like that at episode

43:10

11. You said yeah, yeah, yeah.

43:12

And I said that I wanted to take one man's name.

43:14

Yeah, yeah, yeah. You said you were. Yeah, yeah.

43:17

I would, but professionally, I'll just keep my

43:19

own name. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's not

43:21

even that deep. Like, it's not really that

43:23

deep. I think we romanticise that, oh my God, you get given

43:25

a new name or whatever. But the paperwork to do it, everyone

43:27

on the network is like the paperwork is long to actually

43:29

do it. I only just did it now. After

43:31

how many years of mine? Exactly. Six

43:34

years of your passport, your drive-in license, all your banks and

43:36

all the times. I'm not doing that. I'm not

43:38

doing that. Yeah, it's actually not a romantic thing.

43:41

It's just a lot. And I literally only did it because

43:44

my passport expired. And now Anaya's here

43:46

just for that reason. Do you know that if you

43:48

travel to Paris? Oh, you have to. Yeah,

43:50

yeah, yeah. That's why I did it. It is really

43:52

wrong. That's why I did it. That's exactly why

43:54

I did it. So, I was just like... Like, it's pop

43:56

my sister's got stopped. She hadn't changed her name when she

43:58

was taking my nephew. And sometimes... ask the kid

44:00

like who's this? They put those... I've seen it! They put

44:02

the brain in the kid! And

44:05

then the kid will say like her first

44:07

name because he's panic. And they're like swear!

44:11

That's a salt. You can send

44:13

pictures of her from like all of his lives and be

44:15

like this is my kid. That's so much for them. And then

44:17

they have to get the dad, against Sanjure, to get a bit

44:19

of panic like that, to get the dad to call

44:21

and say yeah this kid belongs

44:23

to her. He's laughing at the number one us hasn't

44:26

it? Like it's actually insane, I didn't realise it

44:28

was like that deep in terms of having to change. I

44:30

mean human trafficking is... People

44:34

are stealing people. We went to Romania the other

44:37

week. Yeah. What are you looking for in Romania?

44:40

I'm very Christian. Sometimes

44:42

I just exhale because you just take it.

44:49

What were you looking for in Romania? You

44:52

don't want to see the world. Yeah man. Why Romania?

44:54

What's in Romania? No there was like a spa thing there.

44:59

We'd gone to Romania but we can see. We'd

45:01

gone to Romania. To

45:04

be fair there were certain parts that

45:06

were really nice. Like giving

45:08

history and you know. We

45:13

were walking through a bar and then managed to

45:15

shout out Negros! You're

45:17

lying. I swear. So god. And when

45:20

I was like no but maybe Negros just means black.

45:23

I said totally was like yes exactly. You

45:25

said normal but it's just a black. That

45:29

could never run on Onky Street. Wow. And

45:32

because April 9th is one of the big groups of men. I just have

45:34

to ask you. Yeah you're right

45:36

Negros. I'll get

45:39

on the flight immediately. There's actually nothing we can do about

45:41

it. That was the day before we left. Like the night.

45:43

You hear you fighting. Were you the only two? The

45:46

black lady? The black lady? No that was a group of us. I

45:48

mean maybe it was like this is new. A

45:50

bunch of black women all working together.

45:53

But anyway we're talking to the Uber driver. And

45:55

we were like oh what are you here for?

45:57

We're like holiday in Romania? I

46:00

don't want to know as well. He was

46:02

so confused. But he lived in

46:04

London for 15 years or whatever. So he just

46:06

went back to Romania. He was accustomed to the

46:09

skin tone. Yeah, yeah, yeah. He

46:12

was completely used to us. Then he goes,

46:14

why did you move back? He

46:16

said, London is shit. So dangerous. I

46:20

always say, drugs he loves. Cool.

46:22

Fair. And he

46:24

said he used to sell and take. Wow.

46:28

He was taking so much coke every

46:30

week. He was taking like 25. Yeah, yeah,

46:32

yeah. Also, as

46:34

well as with a drug dealer, it

46:36

was about the TFL. And he

46:38

was saying, TFL, they took drugs. I was

46:40

fucked. Oh my geez. He's

46:44

back on his own terms. He

46:46

literally was like, a phone drug, made the money, and fucked up

46:48

that country. No, that's

46:50

not what happened. So with his coke

46:52

money, he gave a dick to the gambling. He did. He

46:56

said, I'm the most you've ever lost. And

46:58

he said, 100k in New Zealand. Wow. And

47:02

then, And he

47:04

was like, I said no. When he comes, when he

47:06

goes, 100k. He's a

47:08

real man. He's

47:10

a real man. I'm a drug

47:13

dealer. Money comes, money goes.

47:15

My wife's not saying. She's

47:18

not going anywhere. And then

47:20

after the gambling, he decided he was going to focus on

47:22

getting fit and health, so he started banging gyms. And then he

47:24

started taking stories. We're just

47:26

like, sir, you're not. You think you have

47:28

an addictive personality. From one vice

47:30

to another vice to another vice. And

47:34

then basically he ended up back. No, he's driving taxis

47:36

in. I think

47:38

it's safer for him. I think it's safer for

47:40

him. And he said he keeps him

47:42

away from the prostitutes and the cokes. The prostitutes.

47:45

So anyway, I say that because we're

47:47

talking about human trafficking. So this conversation

47:50

came up and we were like, yeah, human trafficking, you know,

47:52

it's a huge problem. And

47:54

then he goes. It's not

47:57

even funny. He said,

47:59

no. It's a game plan. He

48:01

was like, what? He was like, yeah, everybody gets

48:03

human traffic because they fell for the lover boy.

48:06

You're like, yeah, that's what he said. What?

48:09

He was like, yeah, man meets them. I love you

48:11

buys them gifts or whatever. They fall for it. And

48:13

that's the only reason why he can human traffic them.

48:16

And then they just take them. So you just said it's their fault. For

48:18

falling in love with a lover boy. He

48:21

said, some man splits games for you, buys you some

48:23

clothes, next thing. And then you

48:25

love it. Why weren't you smarter? We

48:28

don't know if it works. They said, yes, that's the

48:30

same. And he was convinced. He

48:34

was like, it's the same game I'm in football all the time. It's

48:36

like, because you want nice things. That's why you're in a position. Oh,

48:38

wow. If you

48:40

liked yours, that's why you're a hero. Yeah, that's

48:42

why. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well,

48:45

okay. Interesting. Yeah, he's terrifying. That is

48:47

very, very, yeah. I think about him being a robot.

48:49

Yeah, yeah. I mean,

48:51

practice that statement. Yeah, I mean, yeah,

48:54

I feel terrible. I'm sorry. But I

48:56

really enjoy Uber conversations.

48:58

Yeah. Because I always like the

49:00

stories. I don't pay attention to

49:02

you. No, headphones. Airpods not. Yeah,

49:04

I didn't even notice. But on the app, yeah,

49:06

you could, you could choose the temperature that

49:08

you wanted. Yeah. I knew about the talking thing.

49:11

I didn't know about the temperature

49:14

thing. I don't listen to the fucking talking thing anyway.

49:16

Yeah, if they want to talk, they're talking. Have you

49:18

ever had a driver be like, how do you mind

49:21

if I take this call? Almost always. I'm like, please,

49:23

please. I'm on the phone when I get in.

49:25

That's a mistake. Yeah, I'm always out there to

49:27

call that day. Honestly,

49:30

I love talking to them. I

49:33

just make it. I want you to make up a whole story. Why?

49:36

I said, you need to, it's just fun. What's

49:38

the wildest, it's a lie to strangers. Yeah. Okay.

49:44

What's the wildest lie you said? Now, make

49:46

up a situation to be like, oh, where you off

49:48

to? I've been on, I told him I'd like massively

49:50

cheated on my boyfriend. And I was going to his

49:52

house to like, apologize to him and hopefully get him

49:54

back. And honestly, he was giving me

49:57

so much good advice. telling

50:00

me about his partner and their relationship status and what's going

50:02

with him about how they live in the same house what

50:04

they don't talk to he's like he hates her but

50:07

she makes nice dinners they've been living for 25 years

50:09

not dinners yeah

50:12

we really helped each other well he

50:14

didn't help you he didn't help you

50:22

the journey's just fine i like being zoning

50:24

out or sleeping or i get sticking

50:26

at my phone when i'm in the car so

50:28

i just like the music close your eyes no it's fun

50:30

i like so i don't have to tell the truth so

50:33

i don't like if people ask me what i do

50:35

i don't like telling them because it stops giving the conversation

50:37

i'm really weird about it is what i can say i

50:39

work at a bank i say i'm a p.m why exactly

50:41

that i can't be bothered to explain the

50:45

podcasting thing or sometimes i say i work for spotify but then i

50:47

go what did you do interesting

51:12

conversation are you through hadia boom boom boom i'm

51:14

looking at my phone he will say something i will hear him

51:16

over the music and you ignore him i'll wait for him to

51:18

say it again and then i'll look up and then boom damn

51:21

i feel too rude i say pardon nah bro

51:23

it's not on this thing do you want to

51:25

speak or not i don't want to speak i'm

51:27

trying to get to my destination what's that so

51:29

you get to know people no no i don't

51:31

need to know him why is everyone so antsy

51:33

he's been doing this job all day he just wants

51:35

to feel a bit human interaction fair and they

51:38

have such interest and stories i tell you he's within

51:40

their car i'll show you who they picked up i

51:42

want to tell them what i do

51:44

i'll show you something here

51:47

i'll do these podcasts they'll come up

51:49

i want to tell them more listeners fair enough

51:56

why is there everything else you do you get to me say oh

51:58

i'm this and this this thing you can't

52:00

say it. What do you mean? If I'm

52:02

like a doctor, say I'm a doctor. If I

52:04

say whatever it is I do, but why can't I say what it is I

52:07

do? It's not the usual part, it's

52:09

the conversations around it. I'm not shading

52:11

you for saying it. I just

52:13

don't like explaining my life to strangers. So you

52:15

guys like talking to people? No, not really. I

52:18

hate talking to people.

52:20

I don't mind like other service

52:23

situations, but it depends on my journey man.

52:25

Like once you start, you're going to be

52:27

talking the whole way. When you're there for

52:29

an hour. I'm normally always there for an

52:31

hour. I'm at Flathead from Romania, me and

52:33

the guy next to me were talking about

52:35

that. We were like, yes. I would be

52:38

human. We could never be the right people.

52:40

We could never be. I was like stop

52:42

talking to people. Stop talking

52:44

to everyone. I was driving to you by your wrist. It's

52:47

enough now. I'm so tired

52:49

of it. Oh God. Stop talking to

52:51

people. She was like, she was like,

52:53

no, couldn't you tell? Yeah, I was like

52:55

talking about it. And then one time we were at the farm and

52:57

they felt like talking about the show, painkillers. And it was like, yeah,

52:59

it was a lot like that in the seventies, how

53:01

you'd have to smoosh doctors. And one time a doctor asked him

53:03

to buy him a TV for the reception and then he would

53:05

move all of his patients, the one drug that he was sending.

53:07

And then he bought the TV, but the man didn't even put

53:10

the TV in the section. He gave it to his daughter. He's

53:12

in the house. I

53:14

mean, that's somewhat interested. I mean, that's kind

53:16

of interesting. He probably is interested in mine.

53:18

Fair. Fair. And you wouldn't

53:20

know that if he didn't bother to talk to people. Yeah, but there's no shame, but

53:24

there's people like you that can talk to you. I'm just

53:26

not the one. This is no shame. I'm just being honest.

53:28

Yeah. They have people to talk to you. You're one of

53:30

them. It's not any of us. It's

53:32

one in four. It's one in four. It's

53:34

not me. That's log. I was able to

53:37

come to fight. It was really nice.

53:39

Really helped me. It sounds like travel sickness

53:41

is the impetus as to why you're having all

53:43

these conversations. Oh yeah. It's a

53:45

distraction to you. The thing is if

53:48

I'm by myself in a situation, I just have to know that

53:50

I am going to use someone that can help me. So does

53:52

that make sense? It's a safety thing. Yeah. Like,

53:54

okay, we're cool. We've got this thing. And also

53:56

sometimes they need to have a chat. You

54:00

feel like people need to offload as well. Yeah,

54:02

that's quite nice offload to strangers. Never

54:05

done it. The thing about girls' waffles, when a girl

54:07

will come up to you in the bathroom and we'll

54:09

just tell you, is that's kind of her partner and all

54:11

things like that. Maybe she's got a... Oh,

54:14

babe, just so you put, hey, have you got a lip gloss?

54:16

Yeah, then it's just... Girls off-line. Yeah,

54:18

that could never happen. I could never run in

54:20

a boys' bathroom? If it wasn't a toilet and

54:22

Donny came up to me like, bro, you're really

54:24

good looking. What fragrance is

54:26

that? Yeah, yeah, yeah, what fragrance is that? Guys

54:30

don't ask you, bro, what aftershave is that? No,

54:32

we look down, bro. Is it? We don't talk

54:34

about that. I'm not asking them why he smells so

54:36

good. Last time, I'm pissed. Someone asked

54:38

you the other day what you're wearing, innit? You're asking

54:40

about restaurants. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Someone's

54:42

asking me, Waiter was asking me what

54:44

fragrance I was wearing. But that was in a restaurant. Yeah,

54:46

that's religious. That's different. Oh, we saw, because I

54:48

literally constructed Texas with people and a girl was so like,

54:51

like, sort of an expert to a partner. Or

54:53

she'd be like, I want to go around by standing up to face him. I was like, OK,

54:55

baby, here's what you tell you. Who is

54:57

this woman? The stranger. The stranger. Yeah, that

54:59

happens. That one, I don't mind. That happens

55:02

all the time in drunken toilets. It's

55:04

very different for women, I guess. It's just not like that

55:06

in guys' toilets. That's what we're talking about. Fendishes.

55:09

OK, back to the impressions I was talking about. So

55:11

people were talking about fendishes, right? And it was, unless

55:14

it was predominantly women, being

55:16

like, oh, should it come to my dinner? There was

55:19

one that kind of did the numbers where they're

55:21

all out for dinner. And one of the girls was like,

55:23

oh, I don't feel like I'm going to go home. Then

55:25

they went to the next spot. And then saw the girl

55:27

there with a guy. So she did

55:29

go home. That's tough. That is tough.

55:31

That's tough. But it's a friend's birthday. Yes.

55:33

So they said it's your birthday. We're out, right? And I remember

55:36

that all the time. I don't know why I'm going to go

55:38

home. And then you got into a bar after. Then

55:40

you got to the next man at the bar. Jiggling.

55:44

I was free! Jiggling

55:46

is a piss take. Yeah, that's a piss

55:48

take. I should have been jiggling. Wow.

55:52

Jiggling. Oh, man. Oh,

55:54

God. No one notices that, oh, it's so hard to find

55:56

good friends. So they said that situation is just enough. Because

55:59

this is a piss take. tell me. It is best to

56:01

meet you. I want to go to the living room for

56:04

one day. Honey, go. Like absolutely go

56:06

to what you need to do. No, but that's a bit

56:08

out of order. It is out of order. You put your

56:10

friend's birthday for a day. She came. She came

56:12

for a day. Oh, that's okay. That's okay,

56:14

but lying about it. Yeah,

56:17

yeah, yeah. You're lying about it. You're lying

56:19

about it. As long as she came, I thought,

56:21

if you said, oh, I'm sick, I can't come up sick. No,

56:23

no, no, no. And then the next thing you're out on a

56:25

day and I see you, that's mad. No, she told

56:27

me that she went. That's completely fine. I

56:30

would have told you before I even got there. Yeah, just be

56:32

like that. You got me till nine and then I'm bouncing. Exactly.

56:37

I see you in a few years. I'm

56:40

like, oh, I

56:43

get it, man. How many men are

56:45

making you giggle? What plays every day?

56:47

Oh, I think women friendships are so

56:49

different from men. Oh, they are. They

56:51

really, really are. Yeah. Okay, question, question,

56:53

question, question, question. You guys went

56:55

to Romania, right? Aside

56:58

from YouTube, how many, as I say, aside

57:00

from YouTube, obviously, because you guys are friends,

57:02

I assume you guys don't argue like that. But

57:04

were there arguments in those friendship groups? No, but we

57:06

were in there for two days. It wasn't long enough.

57:09

Yeah. Okay. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Don't let us argue.

57:12

But like, there's, there is- Don't break off into cliques. That's

57:14

the one. And then bitch and then come back together. Come

57:16

back. That's it. We broke up into cliques. We didn't bitch

57:19

though. Yeah. But we did break up. We definitely did because

57:21

there was like 20 of us. Yeah, so we did. Yeah,

57:23

yeah, yeah. A lot of people hang out anyway. Yeah, we

57:25

went for 20 and do everything altogether. Okay, that's very good.

57:27

But do you like when you say our friendship break

57:29

up in Miami that absolutely happened? Same in

57:31

Miami as well. Yeah. The biggest fight me

57:33

and this girl ever had was, like I

57:35

said, it was, oh, like

57:38

I actually don't have often when I'm screaming out of my

57:40

mind. Fuck at him. Yeah, tell me who's like that. This

57:42

is many years ago, so it's fine, right? Okay, so

57:44

we're at Miami. There's probably about five of us. Like,

57:47

not like many of us, but whatever. So we'd

57:49

gone, she'd met a guy in Miami. That's

57:51

how it starts. Yeah. What ways are going.

57:54

They're absolutely fine. And then we'd gone to King

57:56

of Diamonds. So we're all having a good time,

57:58

whatever. And then she says to us, like, I'm going to... toilet

58:00

I'm coming back. So like

58:02

she's gone for time. And we

58:04

went to the toilet, couldn't find her in there. We can't now

58:06

get in the water with that shit, where is our friend? And

58:08

we're stood outside the toilet just waiting for her for time. Club

58:11

finishes. She's still not out of this toilet. Messaging

58:13

her, nothing, nothing, nothing. So we're like, we've got

58:15

to go home sort of thing. And remember this is a friend

58:17

that I've known for years, so I know her family. So if anything

58:19

happens to me, that's good to my mom to be like, aww,

58:21

auntie blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. She didn't

58:24

sleep the whole night. The next day she now

58:26

shows into the hotel smiling because she looks like,

58:29

thanks. And I was like, where have

58:31

you been? You thought I should have

58:33

been in the toilet? She

58:40

was laughing about everything. And

58:42

like she cleaned back this issue, she was excited, she said it's a

58:44

fun story. No, no, no, no, no. We've

58:46

all been wanting to drop it. Self awareness. We're

58:49

your techs. And also, don't lie. We've all

58:51

been wanting to. The toilet is a wild

58:53

one. We were!

58:58

So funny. I didn't mean that,

59:00

man. I didn't mean to say. Am I going

59:02

to tell her mom that? What am I actually

59:04

going to do? And also, mom will be like,

59:06

why didn't it happen to you? Why

59:08

will she look like that? Why

59:12

would she look like that when I got her? Oh God, yeah, yeah.

59:18

I never came across someone like, girl, you never believe it. I said, are

59:20

you fucking mad? I was like,

59:22

you're fucking sad! Leave

59:24

me! Why don't you put

59:26

your face to where you are? Flag behavior.

59:29

That's not the sex part. She's

59:32

not gay behavior. She just should have told

59:34

her friends. She should have said friends. She

59:37

was different. You're in

59:39

a foreign country, like, that's mad. And

59:41

this can even say she's going to the other

59:43

bar. Just say, honestly,

59:45

she was like, oh, girl, that guy I'm talking to is

59:47

here. I'm going to go with him. She's

59:50

going to be you up. And it's not like she came and

59:52

she didn't tell you the story. So what's

59:54

the difference between coming back and being like, oh, fuck,

59:56

guys, I'm going to fuck. Even if you saw him

59:59

on the way out. toilet. You'd be like, oh,

1:00:01

you're going to cut my girl. And you would lean

1:00:03

that knee and you'd go, like, just do the lifting.

1:00:05

Yeah. Would that be

1:00:07

a such a little problem with you guys? If you

1:00:10

went away. Of course it would be a problem. It would never

1:00:12

happen. It would never happen. Of course it would be a problem.

1:00:14

Yeah. Yeah, of course it would never

1:00:16

happen. It always comes with you. Yeah. We're

1:00:18

just like bro dipping. Okay. But it's not actually that

1:00:20

we could do. What would you say would be the problems

1:00:22

that guy relationship has? What do you

1:00:24

guys would say? I feel like it takes a

1:00:26

lot for guys to like. We've

1:00:29

never had a problem. He was one of these ever. It

1:00:32

wasn't even that deep. Yeah. It

1:00:35

was basically what we meet each

1:00:37

other. It was mean. Yeah. It

1:00:40

was basically it was just a fair. It's just a different

1:00:42

of I wasn't even Mars wasn't even Mars. Yeah.

1:00:46

Yeah. It was over cheeks

1:00:48

as well. Yeah. Yeah.

1:00:52

Yeah. It was such a minor,

1:00:54

minor, minor thing. I don't

1:00:56

even build it up. So basically we

1:00:58

were out. I met

1:01:00

a thing and I

1:01:03

was staying at his house that night and then

1:01:06

the thing was trying to roll back. So

1:01:08

I hit him up and was like cool.

1:01:10

Like keys. Keys. I'm gonna

1:01:12

need to yeah. I'm gonna quickly dip. She

1:01:15

won't be there by the time you get back. It's calm. And

1:01:17

he was like obviously not. And

1:01:19

I was like. You said

1:01:22

you must respect women. No, no, no, not even women. He

1:01:24

was like it was because it was his bed. He was

1:01:26

like, I was like, bro, chill. Like

1:01:28

we can change the sheets. It's fine. Like

1:01:30

it's just calm. You can change the sheet. I was like, and

1:01:33

there was a spare bedroom, but it was basically he

1:01:35

had a roommate. There was a anyway. I

1:01:38

was a bro. We can there's work around here. Like

1:01:40

I don't understand why you're making mountains up more hills.

1:01:42

He was like, bro, like it's not happening. And I

1:01:45

was like, bro, she's here right now. And we're looking

1:01:47

to go. I don't understand why this is. Yeah. Yeah.

1:01:51

And he was just standing on it and I was like, wow. Okay.

1:01:54

It was just a different understanding of like, I think the only reason he had an

1:01:56

argument because it was a case of like, I don't know how we've made it to

1:01:58

this point. in our friendship, where I'm

1:02:00

just finding out that this is the situation. Yeah, yeah,

1:02:03

yeah, yeah. That's mainly what the argument was about. Wait,

1:02:05

so after that very moment, he's like, no, I'm not giving you

1:02:07

the keys. Did you talk about it after? Nah, no.

1:02:10

Like, I told the girl, like, oh, it's harsh. I

1:02:12

think we probably didn't speak for five minutes. Literally.

1:02:15

Because we were in a dance anyway. Really? Yeah,

1:02:17

yeah, yeah. That was together. That's literally our only

1:02:20

argument. And then you left together and we're called

1:02:22

back today. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And

1:02:24

this was years ago. And you left in blue

1:02:26

balls and everything was fine. Facts. Yeah.

1:02:29

But I do hear with that. I don't care how you

1:02:31

can't have sex with my bed. Yeah, that's

1:02:33

a bit bad. No, I would let anyone. I

1:02:36

would let anyone. Is that like you let someone have sex on

1:02:38

your bed that you sleep on? Yeah. Really?

1:02:40

What do you mean? What do you mean the

1:02:42

fall? I hear it, but just that's what I'm talking about.

1:02:44

It just feels a bit like intimate. I agree, yeah. My

1:02:46

bed is so intimate. I have an active friend. You're a

1:02:48

dream. This is why. I think it's, I'm very. So my

1:02:51

boobs come alive. I'm a

1:02:53

very, like, it's different. Like, for

1:02:56

me, I'm all about, like, and

1:02:59

this is not to say that you weren't accommodating. Obviously

1:03:01

you are. I'm very, very much about, like, I

1:03:04

want this story for you. Like, my bed

1:03:06

is like a minor. It's okay, okay. Yeah,

1:03:08

this is such a minor detail. I'm not

1:03:10

excited about you fucking in my bed. If

1:03:12

there was any other option, I would prefer

1:03:14

it. Even if I could buy you, I

1:03:17

would even offer it to a hotel room.

1:03:19

But if this is all there is to it, I'm

1:03:21

not blocking the situation for you. If it's my bed

1:03:23

or she's not coming, there's no way I'm

1:03:25

saying she's not coming. Take the bed. I'll

1:03:28

burn the bed and buy a new bed tomorrow.

1:03:30

Okay. If that's the last resort, obviously I would

1:03:32

try and find every other way that can happen.

1:03:34

But if it's a case of you're either banging

1:03:36

in my bed or you're not banging this girl, period,

1:03:38

I would say take the bed. It's fine. Okay, I

1:03:40

hear it. And you're more, that's my bed, you're not

1:03:43

doing that. And you're serious? Yeah,

1:03:45

that's fair. And you know what, both parties are not wrong. Yeah,

1:03:48

of course, yeah. Because I can get the, why make the big deal

1:03:50

outfit? Like, let me just, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, but

1:03:53

like I said, that's why it wasn't even a big deal. No.

1:03:55

We've never had that. No, we haven't. Audrey

1:03:57

has never had an argument. She's done a hell enough

1:03:59

in a group. She wasn't that funny.

1:04:02

That was a gentleman. Yo?

1:04:04

What you funny? I

1:04:06

was like, what did I say again? I

1:04:09

remember. She ended it with do you understand me? Do

1:04:12

you understand me? And the cute chat was silent

1:04:14

today. What? You

1:04:16

understand me. Do you understand?

1:04:18

Do you ever do that again? And

1:04:21

then she finished it, do you understand me? Oh,

1:04:23

that was a cute last sound of what the context was. I

1:04:26

think it's acceptable. I did straight away. She

1:04:29

said, you've done this, don't let that happen again. I

1:04:32

could hear the gulps from my house. Fuck.

1:04:37

That was a general sweep though.

1:04:39

Yeah. I

1:04:41

should have been a little bit cool. I

1:04:44

was silent. I

1:04:47

couldn't say anything. I

1:04:49

was like, hey babe. Do you understand?

1:04:52

Hey bro. She didn't

1:04:54

say anything else. Do you understand me? I was human

1:04:56

that day. I was fear for

1:04:58

my life if I put an odd good touch. Do you understand? I

1:05:01

was fear for my life. Human. Because

1:05:04

I'm getting rocked. I was

1:05:06

so angry. Wow. Damn. How

1:05:09

long ago was this? Seven years ago. Oh, okay.

1:05:11

Not like that. We didn't really have a couple of

1:05:13

hours. We didn't actually know each other like that. We

1:05:15

didn't actually know each other like that. It was early

1:05:17

doors. Because we weren't obviously, we didn't meet a friend

1:05:20

to start doing this. We became friends whilst doing it. So

1:05:22

it was quite early doors. And nobody

1:05:24

had ever actually moved, no one had

1:05:26

actually been angry. So

1:05:28

for her to then be like early doors, you don't know

1:05:30

what anyone likes to fight. You don't know how anyone moves.

1:05:33

Yeah. Like to fight. And

1:05:37

also it's me because I'm quite a jovial person.

1:05:39

Exactly. She's so cool. So it's like, you don't

1:05:41

have any compensation or you're kind of like happy

1:05:43

go lucky. Yeah. Not that

1:05:45

day. I was like happy and I was like lucky. Yeah. What,

1:05:48

you're happy go lucky. Yeah. I'm

1:05:50

calm. I just don't need to like get stressed. Oh,

1:05:52

really? I'm actually quite the probation. Yeah.

1:05:54

To the fuck. Case in point. What

1:05:57

do you mean? We

1:06:00

can just tell. It's

1:06:02

not a bad thing to be confrontational.

1:06:04

You're not for no reason though. I'm not for no

1:06:06

reason. There's a conference. That is

1:06:09

sensational. A conference. A

1:06:12

conference. A

1:06:14

conference. Where

1:06:17

does that stem from though? Because

1:06:20

it can stem from a million different reasons. People

1:06:22

can be confrontational for different reasons. Some

1:06:24

people can be defensive of others. Some people

1:06:26

can be just defensive of themselves. Some people

1:06:28

just love to win. What is it with

1:06:31

you? I think I've got a... Not

1:06:35

as much now. I've got a big thing of people thinking

1:06:37

I'm a dickhead. You don't like people

1:06:39

taking a piss out of you. Yeah. Or when someone thinks they've got one over

1:06:41

me. So you like to win. Let

1:06:45

someone done something. And you're

1:06:47

now giggling thinking like... Well that's a cocks of the

1:06:49

whole breakdown. You can't do something to me. And

1:06:52

then me... In

1:06:55

my face. No. I know you

1:06:57

did this thing by the way. Be held

1:06:59

accountable. You can't do something

1:07:01

to me and just get away. Especially if there's something

1:07:03

painful. Little things. I'm like whatever. I

1:07:06

know you did this thing by the way. I

1:07:08

just leave it as that. You can't

1:07:10

leave it like that. That's

1:07:12

a very, very bit. I often leave

1:07:15

it like that. I know this by

1:07:17

the way. Nah. You

1:07:20

know how I'm in the wrong? Even

1:07:22

if I felt guilty. If you just came

1:07:24

out and like I know this by the way. And if they left it hanging.

1:07:26

I would then double down as the villain. And what? And

1:07:30

what? Do

1:07:32

something. 10 drop.

1:07:34

8 shot. This is my

1:07:36

location. Do something about it. Yeah I can't handle

1:07:38

that kind of fit. Okay. That's what

1:07:41

I'm like. I know you did that by the way.

1:07:44

I've got a question for you guys. How

1:07:46

do you feel when people say you're the only guys that can keep

1:07:48

your mind? I hate it so

1:07:50

much. I hate it. It's

1:07:53

unfair pressure. So like

1:07:55

we had this thing right. It happened

1:07:57

probably last year. Early last year. Something like

1:07:59

that. And it was just like, thing on

1:08:01

Twitter, whatever African thing. No, not stuff.

1:08:04

Good thing. Oh, okay. So yeah, yeah, yeah.

1:08:06

So, um... So

1:08:11

yeah, this thing happened where like, everyone was just gassing us up. I

1:08:13

saw that. That's where I saw it. They were like, that's probably the

1:08:15

same thing as we go back. I never saw... One of our friends

1:08:17

texted me and was like, I was just so good. And I was

1:08:19

like, this is hell. Because now there's

1:08:21

every reason for people to just like... Can I

1:08:23

take that? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't like people

1:08:26

building us up to be something that we're not.

1:08:28

And I've never claimed to be. So

1:08:30

when people are like, are these the only guys that deserve to

1:08:33

have mics? There's going to be someone that's like, there.

1:08:35

And someone's like, they're going to find a place.

1:08:37

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, can you see? I promise

1:08:39

you I'll find a reason why they shouldn't. Yeah,

1:08:41

yeah, yeah. And then when it comes, if anything ever

1:08:43

comes from it, everyone else feels lied to. And

1:08:47

it's like, how can you do this to us? Like,

1:08:49

how could you say this or do this? And it's like, I'm

1:08:51

just saying, bro, I was just like, everyone

1:08:53

else is creating the narratives. And then once you don't

1:08:56

fit the narrative that someone else made up for you,

1:08:58

you're an evil person. So when

1:09:00

everyone's like, oh, the only guys that have mics,

1:09:02

I'm like, oh. And everything is clipped out of

1:09:05

context. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So it adds

1:09:07

a lot of pressure. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's not

1:09:09

anything we've ever asked for. So it adds a

1:09:11

lot of pressure, a lot of stress. And also

1:09:13

you'd be interested to see how many people waiting for

1:09:15

you to fuck up. And then the

1:09:17

ones that would be like, I always knew him. Yeah, I would. Oh yeah, everyone's

1:09:19

like, yeah, I knew it. I knew it. Someone waiting in first row. I

1:09:23

always knew. That line fucked me off. Because it'd be new, genius.

1:09:25

Why don't you tell us before we can tell you? Exactly. Why

1:09:27

don't you give us a heads up? Why don't you give us

1:09:29

a heads up about what it was going to be? Like it

1:09:31

pisses me off so much. You were just waiting so that you

1:09:33

could jump on the bandwagon. But I think because you guys

1:09:36

are like, you're genuine friends. I don't think you have a

1:09:38

need to be fallacious. And I think you're

1:09:40

sneaking a tone that allows you to get

1:09:42

away with a lot of things. Because

1:09:44

you've done it here. I can see it. Clocks you, fuckers. What

1:09:46

did we say? What did we say? I know these

1:09:48

fuckers privately. They don't have a way to do it.

1:09:51

Oh, wow. You're sneaking in

1:09:53

a tone. I

1:09:56

think for the top of

1:09:58

my head, we very rarely take hard stances

1:10:00

on anything. So like,

1:10:03

we're very open to like, yeah, there's no like, when

1:10:05

we're having conversations about like, oh guys, this and this,

1:10:07

and like every time you guys do something, eventually

1:10:09

we'll be like, fair enough, make sense. Whereas

1:10:11

like, we're never like, that's fucking not true.

1:10:14

How it is. Wow,

1:10:16

yeah. Everything is always

1:10:18

like, well, yeah, makes sense. This

1:10:21

is my two cents. I'm hearing yours. Okay, cool. Whatever.

1:10:24

We're very jokey jokey about situations as well. So now

1:10:26

it could come up or a dilemma could come up.

1:10:28

We'll just riff off a tangent. We can laugh about

1:10:30

that and then get back to the concert. Yeah, and

1:10:32

this is, yeah, everything is just, we always used to

1:10:34

say find the funny in it. Find the funny in

1:10:36

everything. And I always used to be like, I'm always

1:10:38

just finding the funny. And that's what we try and

1:10:40

do. Don't get me wrong, people get pissed off us

1:10:42

all the time. And because like, there was

1:10:44

obviously like, things that we do that trigger people

1:10:46

and X, Y, Z and whatever. And we try

1:10:48

our best not to. But you can't make everyone.

1:10:50

You can't. Also people at like, podcasting

1:10:52

is in central listening. Just don't listen. Yeah,

1:10:55

yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

1:10:57

It's not like a thing.

1:10:59

You actually have to go find it. There was nothing on

1:11:01

my touch. I actually can't remember now. It

1:11:03

was a cheeky one. I felt like I was right there in my head. How

1:11:06

did you guys meet? You, first

1:11:08

day of the commentary. What

1:11:11

was your cue, a meet cue? I'll

1:11:13

meet you. I was talking to Renny. I

1:11:15

love that you guys know what a meet cue is. I've

1:11:18

had so many people. I don't know what it is. I would have

1:11:20

been like going to the butcher's. A

1:11:22

meet cue. A meet cue. Oh,

1:11:25

meet cue. Is it cue or cue? After

1:11:27

it was cue. I was trying

1:11:29

to go to the butcher's. Why would I ask

1:11:32

that? The itchy neck is. She was

1:11:34

like, why would I ask for that? I

1:11:36

don't know. I would have thought of meet cue.

1:11:38

I was like, how is the cue getting meet? Yeah, so what was

1:11:40

your meet cue? We

1:11:42

were in our first lecture, forum

1:11:44

room or whatever it's called. I was talking to Rem, one of our other

1:11:46

friends who actually worked on the show as well. And

1:11:49

yeah, we were talking, talking, talking. And then James came in

1:11:51

late. And then myself and Rem were the only black people

1:11:54

in the room. I

1:11:56

don't know. There was one other mixed race guy as well. And

1:11:58

then, yeah, we just kind of started to speak. I

1:12:01

begged it. I remember. I acted. You have

1:12:03

to be. I actually begged it. I

1:12:05

was waiting to hear something familiar and then one of

1:12:08

you might mention basketball. I mean,

1:12:10

I'm in. I'm not leaving. Yeah.

1:12:13

That was it. Okay. So do you know, obviously you

1:12:15

met a good group of people, but you would say you two

1:12:17

are closer outside this group, right? Where's this guy? Oh. Huh?

1:12:21

Oh, you're just trying to call me. What's going on? We're

1:12:24

closer than the people in our friendship group. Like, you

1:12:26

know, there's a friendship group. Yeah, there's like people blind

1:12:28

up. People are blind up into, oh, do

1:12:31

you guys not do that? It wasn't. That's only because

1:12:33

of work. Why should you kick

1:12:35

the other side of shit from doing this? No.

1:12:38

What do you think? They wouldn't say shit from me.

1:12:40

Come on. Don't do this. Don't do this. What

1:12:43

if one of them says could they join? Say again?

1:12:46

What if one of my friends' mouses they want to join? And

1:12:48

charge. That's their business. Charge and do what? Charge.

1:12:50

Join and do what though? Yeah. What if one of

1:12:53

your friends said they want to join? They

1:12:55

don't know. Our

1:12:57

friends are not talkers, are they? No,

1:12:59

it's just like a case of, so the reason we

1:13:02

were never closer. I guess

1:13:05

just before we started the show, I think it was when he

1:13:07

moved to Manchester, we probably came closer. A lot closer, yeah. Yeah,

1:13:10

so there's five of us. No, no, no, no. He came to

1:13:12

visit. I loved Manchester as a city. And

1:13:15

when I found out he was moving there, I

1:13:17

remember being like, you should do it, you should

1:13:19

do it, you should move, because you moved for

1:13:21

work. And then I remember making a point

1:13:23

of being like, I'll come and visit you all the

1:13:25

time. So it was probably like once

1:13:27

every three weeks, once every four weeks, I'll be up there.

1:13:29

That is so nice. Yeah, so I'll stay for the weekend.

1:13:32

And it's like out of aid of him feeling lonely and him just having

1:13:34

a friend, that was it. And then you didn't give him your bed. Oh,

1:13:36

a few hearts. That man deserves it. Don't even

1:13:39

start. I'm not even... You're

1:13:42

not even me. I'm

1:13:45

not... Don't entertain me. Don't entertain

1:13:47

me. Don't fight. Put

1:13:50

your finger down, I will put your finger down, Molly.

1:13:55

Fuck. So

1:13:57

yeah, I would visit him and then stay for a couple of nights. And

1:13:59

then basically what would happen... happened was I

1:14:01

had a podcast obsession at the time.

1:14:03

What got you into it? Um,

1:14:06

first ever. So, ah, okay. Now we're

1:14:08

really going back. I

1:14:10

used to work for a company, um,

1:14:12

when I was PT and basically the PT company that

1:14:14

I worked for, the owners were

1:14:16

like serial, like. Entrepreneur

1:14:19

mindset. And they were all, they

1:14:21

wanted all the staff to like listen to

1:14:23

all these audio books and take all these business courses

1:14:25

and this is all these podcasts. And then

1:14:28

the podcast part of it, I was like, this is, and I drive

1:14:30

everywhere all the time anyway. I was like, this is actually, I'm locked

1:14:32

in. And then I couldn't be bothered

1:14:35

to continue to listen to like motivational chat all

1:14:37

the time. Yeah. And then someone put

1:14:39

me on to like, um, who

1:14:41

did they, who did I start listening to first? I think

1:14:44

it was like Tim Ferriss's podcast or whatever. And

1:14:46

then he did an episode with Joe Rogan,

1:14:49

I think. And then I listened

1:14:51

to Joe Rogan and Russell Brand. Okay.

1:14:54

And that was a first ever like, yeah. Comedy.

1:14:56

And I was just talking about nothing. I

1:14:59

was the first ever time I listened to podcasts with it.

1:15:01

Just two people talking about nothing. And I remember I

1:15:04

pulled up to my house and I still had like 45

1:15:06

minutes of the show left. I just stayed in my car

1:15:08

and I was like, this is unbelievable. So

1:15:10

basically when I would visit him all the time, we would

1:15:12

go out and all we would do sit in his living

1:15:14

room or his bedroom or whatever, and we'd spend hours just

1:15:17

chatting about old times and stories and that would just be

1:15:19

laughing and laughing, laughing, laughing. So I remember saying to

1:15:21

him like, Oh, we should do this like a

1:15:23

little podcast thing. And he was like, nah. Absolutely

1:15:26

not. Um, so

1:15:28

the night continued for like five, six months. Um,

1:15:31

and I kept saying like, I think we should, I think we

1:15:33

should like leave with me. I'll just buy a mic or buy

1:15:35

a camera. You have to think about anything. Something's in that conversation.

1:15:38

Nothing else has to change. Um, and at

1:15:40

the time I had like a separate YouTube channel that

1:15:42

I've started. Um, so I

1:15:44

talked myself, had to edit, understood the camera, I did

1:15:46

the light and understood the mics. I was like, I

1:15:49

already know how to plan it. It's fine. So eventually

1:15:51

he was like, all right, cool. And then

1:15:53

every week from then, yeah. Well, got you to say yes.

1:15:56

Eventually you have to do it. I

1:15:58

actually don't know. I think that's just out of. if I was like,

1:16:00

fuck it, let's just try it because it could have been, he probably

1:16:03

asked me at the right time where, again,

1:16:06

we've gone out, we've had a good night and the next day we're

1:16:08

just reminiscing, laughing, blah, blah, blah. You're like, you know what, fuck it,

1:16:10

this could actually be funny. And I

1:16:12

think the more reason why I was saying no at the

1:16:14

time was probably because he knows I hated my house, my

1:16:16

lead job. I was always, that's all. I didn't

1:16:18

hate it. I just hated the amount of hours I was working.

1:16:20

So I was always tired. So the thought of adding

1:16:23

something else was a no-go for me. Now

1:16:27

look, when did you quit? I

1:16:29

quit my job May 31st, 2022. March,

1:16:33

March day first. March

1:16:36

day first. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And it was just

1:16:38

like, oh, I can get this, the goods go now. Yeah. I knew

1:16:40

I could give it a go in January, 2022. So

1:16:43

I dropped my hours, but I knew I was going to leave

1:16:45

by the end of March. When did you quit? I think

1:16:47

I went, you went January 22. I don't know

1:16:50

when. I think I quit properly January 22.

1:16:52

I went part-time like the year before. I

1:16:54

think I went part-time January 21. Maybe I

1:16:58

think I was doing part-time for like a

1:17:01

year. And then I quit

1:17:04

January 22. 22 quit. December

1:17:06

2021. Nice. You? I

1:17:09

quit really early. I quit. I guess

1:17:11

then like I, cause I think I quit like, I want

1:17:13

to say Yeah.

1:17:16

Like a year in. Was a year in because I remember I've had the girls down

1:17:18

and I was like, I want to see what it looked like when someone goes full-time

1:17:20

on it. I remember for

1:17:22

the same. I didn't want to quit when I quit.

1:17:24

I couldn't be able to quit. Like I saved

1:17:26

like a fuck off fund, right? But I was

1:17:29

like, this thing had started. I, cause

1:17:31

it's funny cause every time we get interviews, the girls were like,

1:17:33

oh, I didn't think it would get this big. And I was

1:17:35

like, not me, but it's not the same. Like

1:17:37

if it wasn't going to get this big, I wasn't

1:17:39

going to do it. It wasn't going to be a

1:17:41

fun chit-chat thing for me. This was going to be

1:17:43

like, I had aspirations of it being a big,

1:17:46

again, because I love podcasting and I saw people at

1:17:48

the readers down. I thought I'd seen what cereal was. And

1:17:50

I was like, no, you can't. Cereal? That

1:17:52

was my first. Oh, oh,

1:17:55

show. I was locked in

1:17:57

on cereal. Wow. Like

1:18:00

I went to my adanaleta, I wanted to say, I

1:18:03

went into the bag adanaleta. When he got free,

1:18:05

people emailed me, like he said he was my friend. Where?

1:18:08

You know that I'm not, I'm not saying. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1:18:10

boy that. I'm not saying anything. But yeah,

1:18:12

so I was just like, I remember it was like way too I've

1:18:14

aged you at the time. And I sat here and I said, I want to take

1:18:16

my job. I was like, I want to see what this looks like. It's one of

1:18:18

those full time. Like what, like if someone

1:18:20

is actually on this and actually tries to push

1:18:22

it, because I think, I

1:18:25

understand when people say they have part M tan beans, I

1:18:27

get it. I don't think it's important, but

1:18:29

sometimes a tan bean means you don't really focus. Focus on

1:18:31

the panay. Yeah, yeah. Because you're like, oh, there's no tannin,

1:18:33

there's no tannin. If tan A is all you fucking rock.

1:18:35

Yeah, but they say, there's a guy I

1:18:37

listened to, a business guy anyway, says Mark

1:18:39

Zuckerberg never had a side hustle. It's

1:18:42

just like doubling down on the thing. This has to

1:18:44

work. And I know we're in a way that, we can't, I

1:18:46

love him, can't afford to do that. We can't afford to do

1:18:48

that. You have to keep working. And I say this, I was

1:18:50

still like relauncing people there to make money, but I was just

1:18:52

like, no, I'm going to keep going to all the meetings. And

1:18:54

when people like this house, what if I do? I'd

1:18:57

seen someone got a job at what if I was here. I'd

1:18:59

DM'd her. I was like, hey, it'll

1:19:01

be great to meet up. You're classy. Yeah, yeah. I

1:19:04

was like, hey, I'll be great to meet up. Like, you know,

1:19:06

I do this podcast, blah, blah, blah, blah, did

1:19:08

a meeting and they were like, oh, would you

1:19:10

be interested in finding out? Bitch, I was like, oh,

1:19:12

should we come in? Yeah. Yeah. Ah.

1:19:15

And also, because I kept up with the news, I felt like Jerry

1:19:17

Budnett had got to find this place. I was like, oh, this

1:19:19

is what I'm giving. The money away.

1:19:21

Yeah, the money away. I'm giving money away.

1:19:23

It's going to be fancy. Yeah. Fair

1:19:26

play, man. All the money we

1:19:28

found was live shows. Yeah,

1:19:30

really. And we were like, what now money? And we recorded this and we did this

1:19:32

and all we made was a show. And we did a live show that when we

1:19:34

won safety. And when we split that money, we were like. And

1:19:37

both of them were like, give me, give me, give me. I

1:19:40

didn't even know. We were like, give me. Right. And we

1:19:42

were like, guys, we're going to have to get a business

1:19:44

account. We were all like. Oh. We

1:19:47

couldn't have put money. Yeah, but we had to do

1:19:49

it properly. Like, we had to put money in. Because

1:19:51

every time we get paid, we sit in four or

1:19:53

three ways. Like, every to the penny. Every six hours,

1:19:55

we got a penny to his name. I'm like, it

1:19:57

doesn't make any sense. Like, we're going to need to

1:19:59

pay something. all of us, I was like, let's do

1:20:01

a business account, let's actually treat this thing. And I think,

1:20:05

and that gives everyone the space, and I'm like, I'm gonna

1:20:07

quit my thing, I'm gonna quit my thing. There has to

1:20:09

be one person that's like, let's push this thing,

1:20:11

and then we'll see what happens. That's what happens to

1:20:13

you, I think, when you quit

1:20:15

originally, you said December.

1:20:19

When you quit in March, I

1:20:21

said December 22. No, no, no, no, actually, that's

1:20:23

the last of the line. I'm ignoring, because you said 22 was your last,

1:20:25

no, you said 21 was your last December. Yes. But

1:20:28

I don't think it was April was the original

1:20:30

pitch. And originally, I said I was still gonna

1:20:32

do this full time and probably do a couple

1:20:34

of shifts in our time. Yeah, I remember, there

1:20:36

was a time I asked him, how much money

1:20:39

do we need to be making for you to

1:20:41

quit your job? And it was outlandish. It

1:20:43

was outlandish. Are you there, are you there? I'm there

1:20:45

now. Yeah, I remember you. I can't

1:20:48

believe you have it, but it's the job, I love this. I'm

1:20:50

a humble guy, I don't need to. I think I said, if

1:20:52

you were making, I think I said,

1:20:54

if you were making 50K a year from

1:20:56

the show, would you still work your job? And you

1:20:58

were like, yeah. I was like, yeah, so I can

1:21:00

get 80 bucks. Yeah. In my head, it

1:21:02

makes sense. And I remember being like, you're insane.

1:21:05

Because I hate working. Like

1:21:08

working for someone else, I can't like. Nobody hates

1:21:10

working, the people are like, oh, you hate hard

1:21:12

work. I don't like any version of work. Yeah.

1:21:15

I don't like any version of work. I

1:21:17

feel like, any version of work.

1:21:20

I can't stand it. Sorry, I

1:21:22

needed to quit immediately. Yeah. Yeah,

1:21:24

any opportunity. Because I was talking to each other,

1:21:27

actually, from what I said, and we'd talk to each other about

1:21:29

like, we're both very similar. And then she was saying

1:21:31

that, what is it stupid that makes you want to keep going?

1:21:34

Like, I said, why are you so, because we're both very much

1:21:36

like that. And I was like, it's the freedom to have those,

1:21:38

where I do fuck all. It's

1:21:40

the freedom to be like, oh, for the next two weeks, I'm

1:21:43

not going to do shit. And I've worked

1:21:45

hard enough at a period, that I can now do

1:21:48

that. Do fuck all, yeah. And that's all it is.

1:21:50

It's such a freedom thing to me, to be like, I'll

1:21:52

work up and feel like, oh, that's freedom, that's enough. Yeah,

1:21:54

I'm going to go back to it. Yeah. That's

1:21:57

because I didn't feel like, where was the one I was working

1:21:59

for time? Sorry, man. I'm coming in at 11. I was going to push the

1:22:01

fire in the building. Everyone would be saying, I had that same thought. I'd be like, that's

1:22:03

like a dream come. It's like, just

1:22:05

that scenario. Yeah. time.

1:22:10

And I was like, wait, what? They're actually sending us home. I was like,

1:22:12

I'm going to do this. I'm like, I'm going to do this. I'm like,

1:22:14

I'm going to do this. I'm like, I'm going to do this. I'm like,

1:22:16

I'm going to do this. I'm like, I'm going to do this. I

1:22:19

remember coming back from like two and a

1:22:21

half hour lunch break. Yeah.

1:22:26

laptop time. And I was like, wait, what? They're actually

1:22:28

sending us home. I was like, this is lit. I

1:22:30

was so happy. And then after

1:22:32

three weeks, I was like, okay, this is

1:22:34

it. What were your worst jobs prior to

1:22:36

obviously being post-op? Oh,

1:22:39

I've had so many jobs, probably

1:22:41

when I worked in McDonald's, but I only worked there for

1:22:44

like eight hours. You did a shift. Oh, wow.

1:22:47

I did a shift. Yeah, that was hell. That

1:22:49

was an upbridge when I was in

1:22:51

uni every now. Yeah.

1:22:54

One of my worst jobs was whether we all did it. If

1:22:56

anyone grew up in Barking's, like, I'm sure you know it as

1:22:58

well. They recruited you in one food market and

1:23:00

it was selling double glazing. Yeah. We

1:23:03

did it in Gantel. I did that. No. Double

1:23:06

glazing. Double glazing. So I did

1:23:08

that. That's hilarious. It makes me

1:23:10

feel like I was so old.

1:23:13

In 2000. Double glazing. Who doesn't have

1:23:15

double glazing? At the time they didn't. At the time, not

1:23:17

everyone did. Yeah, at the time it was in. At the

1:23:19

time, for people to have... I remember people used to knock

1:23:21

on my mum's door. Yeah, I remember them talking to my

1:23:23

mum. So we were like calling to, like, my job was

1:23:25

to sell some people to ask for double glazing and

1:23:28

if they wanted to buy a double glazing. I

1:23:30

did one shift and the next shift

1:23:32

I came in and I was late. But they

1:23:34

hired bare people, like, you don't have a seat. It

1:23:37

was that hot stuff that worked. People don't know what they're

1:23:39

feeling. I went home and I never went back. I was

1:23:41

like, fuck this stupid job. What do you mean? Oh

1:23:44

my God. I was late. I was putting double

1:23:46

glazing and it was one time I went to a Caribbean

1:23:48

restaurant. It was called Caribbean Scene.

1:23:50

It was in Royal Docks and

1:23:52

we had to wear that. Honestly, the outfits

1:23:54

were like slave outfits. And we were like, what

1:23:56

a long skirt. It was a mess up.

1:23:59

I'm like, you know what I'm saying? I know you

1:24:01

guys are talking about it. It was literally barely

1:24:03

much like, no I don't know if we should

1:24:05

be, but hey. That doesn't sound right. I

1:24:08

can't hold a ball. I remember one time, why

1:24:10

did it piss me off? I said, I've

1:24:12

never done fine dining before. And they

1:24:14

said we had to pull our customers drinks. I was like, oh

1:24:16

my God, they're fucking pulling themselves. You didn't want to pull

1:24:19

their drinks. Because I didn't understand it. I

1:24:21

got fine dining. I'd have had some pizza, we'd just give them their

1:24:23

drinks. And I'd pull it in a glass.

1:24:25

Exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't want to

1:24:27

pull the drinks for you. I mean, a drink is crazy. Wine, other

1:24:29

things. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You don't have to

1:24:31

pull all of their dresses. Yeah, that's crazy. I don't want

1:24:33

to play. I don't want to play. That's

1:24:35

crazy. No. That's crazy. You

1:24:37

want me to do? Oh,

1:24:41

yeah, yeah, yeah. I was like, I went for lunch and this is a

1:24:43

comeback. How's that? Fair. No,

1:24:46

I remember I had this job, but I got it when I was down bad.

1:24:48

And I was like on universal credit. And so they

1:24:50

felt like sometimes they would find you jobs. Yeah. So

1:24:53

it was like this industrial cleaning company. Like, one day I

1:24:55

got there. And I got there. And I just thought it

1:24:57

was a good job. I got there. They

1:25:01

gave me the yellow pages and they were like, call every company from

1:25:03

A to Z. See if

1:25:05

they want industrial cleaning. Every single day

1:25:07

I would spend most of my time

1:25:09

on the phone for my best friend, cause she was a receptionist. And

1:25:12

I would just spend all day, like to make up the hours every

1:25:14

day. My boss would be like, or be any leads? And I'd be like, no

1:25:16

Jim. What'd he say? Audrey, any leads? I'd be like

1:25:18

no Jim. I'm like, oh Jim man, any leads? And

1:25:21

I'd be like, no Jim. Oh.

1:25:26

But I let you go. Like

1:25:28

I didn't even get a lead. Like I got, it's hard. It's

1:25:30

so hard. The phone in you all day. It's actually,

1:25:32

it wasn't easy jobs again. Yeah. I

1:25:35

don't know. I don't know. I

1:25:37

don't know. I don't know. I don't

1:25:39

know. I don't know. I don't know.

1:25:42

I don't know. I don't know. to

1:26:00

go into my personal account to pay for bills. But I was still

1:26:02

at home, it wasn't too bad. But I remember one time

1:26:04

I was on the phone to the minister and she was also

1:26:06

like, minister wasn't mail made me do it yet. We were both

1:26:08

fine for a while. I

1:26:11

was in funny things, she wasn't mail made me do it.

1:26:13

And at one point talking to her, I was walking to

1:26:15

the bank to transfer the last, I was

1:26:17

gonna take out five pounds. Did you know that you had to go to

1:26:19

the bank and go, I'm not on the

1:26:21

phone with that, no. What are you gonna do? I'm like,

1:26:24

damn. She's so fine, maybe we

1:26:26

can sell pictures of our feet, like people do it, it's

1:26:28

fine. What year was this? This was time ago. It

1:26:30

wasn't that long ago. I cannot lie to you, it

1:26:32

was not that long ago. Feet pics. Except

1:26:35

maybe half feet. And then both of us at the time, I was nervous

1:26:37

when we sold to the city, but like, I can't get a job. I

1:26:39

was like, oh. But

1:26:42

I wanna be creative. I wanna

1:26:44

be creative. Apparently I

1:26:46

don't understand that. I wanna be a

1:26:49

creative. My mum would

1:26:51

be like, why can't you just get something? Just get a

1:26:53

job. I know, I

1:26:55

was just like, I was like, I just thought, what are you doing?

1:26:57

And I remember I was crying at the phone, she was at

1:26:59

home, and then I was like, walking to the bank to get this one,

1:27:01

yeah. Then she was like, oh babe, I put like a £60

1:27:04

but I can send you, that gives me like, I

1:27:07

thought, baby, you're loaded. Yeah, exactly, you're a ring. I don't

1:27:09

know if you're that 50 pounds. That's what

1:27:11

I'm getting my last five times. You're telling me you got

1:27:13

50 pounds. Bitch, you've got some money. And it's

1:27:16

just so funny now, like, seeing that wasn't

1:27:18

that long ago. They were like, fuck,

1:27:20

what have we done? And that maybe I

1:27:22

should actually go get a job. And I remember at the point I did a full

1:27:24

interview for a job, because I was like, okay, I'm gonna get a job. I got

1:27:26

it and I was like, no, I'm not gonna pay for it. Which

1:27:30

is also a big thing, I was like, now, believe in what you

1:27:32

said you was gonna believe in. I,

1:27:34

when I quit, I had 400

1:27:36

pounds in my account. Yeah,

1:27:38

400 pounds. And I remember I quit. I

1:27:41

quit purely because I didn't wanna go in

1:27:43

that day. And then I

1:27:45

remember calling my boss being like, bruv, I'm not, I

1:27:47

can't do this. I'm not coming in today. And he

1:27:49

was like, hey, I'll see you tomorrow. And just hearing

1:27:52

him say, see you tomorrow. I was like, big man,

1:27:54

delete my number. I'm not gonna

1:27:56

see me again. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm not coming

1:27:58

in ever again. And I remember putting the phone down. The Our

1:28:00

Gang of queer. Eye. For a gym I

1:28:02

have four hundred and eighty two pound loving

1:28:04

had know that an animated what I literally

1:28:06

our what are my daughter yeah my car

1:28:08

costs more than me so yeah I remember.

1:28:12

And. Of fab. We. Had our first

1:28:14

like. Big. Amount of money. Oh

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yea yea yea and eleven I'm a

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buffet unicom. success. Check my hurricane or

1:28:20

wherever haven't got the check? Okay to

1:28:22

be as the May if I am

1:28:24

but what if I know one thing

1:28:26

justify and I just member the gift

1:28:28

and bigger. Like that band is? Yeah,

1:28:31

that literally We used to like Fight For The Best

1:28:33

they tested. It was Yeah, that's all we made this.

1:28:35

Thing. That the bicycle that summit I

1:28:37

buy a box of my estimate of

1:28:40

my as my main. Know

1:28:45

why are you I love added you don't like wow

1:28:48

that he would you put that brown paper your life

1:28:50

mm I bet you look about. Having

1:28:53

it can be well, don't see it and

1:28:55

is an affirmation. Demanded Friends that Are White

1:28:58

album out. That's what is it. Aside, signs

1:29:00

in one hundred and bullshit numbed I can

1:29:02

neither had that book. It

1:29:04

was over. We did. We have to make

1:29:07

it through with it. Might be hadn't I'm

1:29:09

an avid I way not. mother. Whose.

1:29:11

He gets it, Gets. Really?

1:29:13

Yeah, the idea what he was? your

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battery acid. Mm same settings,

1:29:19

Com. Because you're talking neither of these

1:29:21

are his mouth. Full

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is what best they deserve. A fab What

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com? Idleness? Yeah. Was.

1:29:32

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1:29:35

because it doesn't deny is like

1:29:37

it's not like that, but like.

1:29:40

Yes, Just. A fancy

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little best known about these Next my next

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month with as. Twenty. Second on

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the tough. On. Average.

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about the other, yeah I'm great.

1:29:53

You know were mostly roman holiday.

1:29:56

If I'm not know you're you're.

1:29:58

Not. A joke that it isn't what this information. Like

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common and permeable. Out of a sudden they put out

1:30:04

of this. Home

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for. Conversion

1:30:10

is miles away With this

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is the way. Part

1:30:15

of our that's the case

1:30:17

of wow. But

1:30:20

now you don't get me wrong, It's.

1:30:22

Not gonna carve a year and was not

1:30:24

been like that but uses yes I am

1:30:26

I so I like it's. At. At

1:30:28

I get what you mean the whole humble thing

1:30:31

I barely understand. I am also add on the

1:30:33

best not monitored supplement. It sounds like Hammond said

1:30:35

by to Be Dope. Ah, I

1:30:37

think it's something to look back to be that mobile app for

1:30:39

laughing. Get up in the car. And move closer to

1:30:41

him by a low light of this guy that

1:30:43

I'm. Aware snacks and in is

1:30:45

not any. More. Than a place should always

1:30:48

be Some mais amazing A army most dependable

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moon I'm just for our lives. I have

1:30:52

yet been able to decide yet I've not

1:30:54

been keep a salaried I let my did

1:30:56

like a whole like fla the by in

1:30:58

Oregon the stuff I'm not picking up and

1:31:00

and drive in it is ah is it

1:31:02

was reporting dice a he was in Sudairis

1:31:04

I didn't know at as will again cause

1:31:06

I think. We. Had our other in the

1:31:09

car who? it? And. As well

1:31:11

I member the ways as I seventies

1:31:13

were. Nervous. I'm so fucking

1:31:15

of his and he was. I'm so nervous as well. And

1:31:17

a camera say good. I don't know why I was. Petrified.

1:31:21

Petrified. But I was fired but I was

1:31:23

were really really really like I don't know I

1:31:25

was overwhelmed by emotion and in going upstairs and

1:31:28

miller and he has come outside. Yada. Yada

1:31:30

Yada love to specify know and

1:31:32

he was an app. Will.

1:31:34

Receive sense. Yeah it's a skill that was

1:31:36

some of the he wouldn't didn't know, I

1:31:38

just had a feeling like. Three. Weeks

1:31:41

before when I was gonna happen he said something

1:31:43

when we went from me and is like a

1:31:45

hand you something while a price buy you something

1:31:47

happens and will be so that. I.

1:31:49

Think a few weeks before that. And.

1:31:53

We. Had spoken about the com maybe the last

1:31:55

holiday when we spoke about the car. So.

1:31:57

In my head. That. was the only thing

1:31:59

that could that it could

1:32:01

be. For him to be gas over. Yeah. For

1:32:04

him to be gas over. Do you see what I'm saying? Because

1:32:06

I know him. For him to be excited to be. Yeah. Yeah.

1:32:10

So, and it's my birthday. I was like, what else could it be?

1:32:12

What else have I asked for? I said that I liked. There's nothing

1:32:14

in my head. So my assumption was, it has to be this. I

1:32:16

obviously never said anything. And then I

1:32:19

asked one of my other friends, you know, who are my other

1:32:21

mutual friends, oh, I'm looking at getting

1:32:23

this car. And he was like, oh, funny

1:32:26

enough, I could be able to patent you one in a few weeks.

1:32:29

I tried to get me. I tried to get

1:32:31

me. I tried to get me. I tried to get me.

1:32:33

Oh, cool. That sounds cool. I tried

1:32:35

to get me. But don't get me wrong. I was

1:32:37

still fucking gas. Like it was everything I had imagined.

1:32:39

Everything. Yeah. Yeah. Good

1:32:42

day. Yeah. Very, very good

1:32:44

day. Scratch it in a week. I was, I

1:32:46

was. Yeah. Yeah. Hard

1:32:49

to break. I fixed it. You man. As

1:32:54

soon as I saw it, you know, when like you got bad

1:32:56

news, you literally fucked up. Bad news. You

1:32:59

literally 40 and he's handing it. That's how I was on

1:33:01

road. On the roof. Yeah. No

1:33:03

pun intended. Yeah. Yeah.

1:33:06

Okay. So we know. Yeah. That's

1:33:09

so cute. I love that. That

1:33:11

is. If you plant his present now, when it,

1:33:13

when he's there. Don't do enough. It's not what

1:33:15

I'm not doing. That's what I'm going to do.

1:33:18

No, no, no. But have you planted his present? No,

1:33:22

purely because when on the day

1:33:24

of the thing, I was like, Oh, now I have to get him his

1:33:26

dream car. I mean, it was like, Oh, don't worry. I've

1:33:28

thought that already. So yeah. You see

1:33:30

what I'm saying? Yeah. So what are you

1:33:32

going to get him? I have no idea. Don't. Don't

1:33:35

do anything. I'd rather not have nothing. I

1:33:38

don't know. We don't just also, this is not something

1:33:40

we do. We

1:33:44

don't give each other presents. You see

1:33:46

what I'm saying? My whole life. Yeah. This

1:33:49

is like a very big one off thing. So

1:33:52

he doesn't need to get me anything for my birthday. I

1:33:54

don't need to get him for his next birthday. I think this is

1:33:56

probably maybe the first person I've ever got him. Maybe.

1:34:00

I don't know. I don't know. We don't really do something we

1:34:02

do. Yeah It's just

1:34:04

something It's

1:34:06

to be fair because he knows me. He's it's

1:34:08

something he knew I probably wouldn't have done like

1:34:10

ASAP by my you want that an action I

1:34:12

won't gonna actually buy said to him last year

1:34:14

that this year I will get you what you

1:34:16

know I mean, so it was kind of like

1:34:18

stars align in that way I think it's

1:34:20

not even a monetary that the amount of obviously it's a huge

1:34:22

amount whatever I think it's just To be

1:34:24

in the position to do that for your phone. I think it's amazing

1:34:26

I'm like, you know me like I just It's

1:34:29

very very very cool. I'm very very very grateful

1:34:32

and like just Yeah,

1:34:34

I do have moments where I'm like

1:34:37

I imagine every year. I think this is our

1:34:39

last year. Yeah Yeah, every I'm like

1:34:41

this is our last year So half

1:34:44

my mind is like let's just do all the experiences now because

1:34:46

next year we'll be looking for jobs Yeah,

1:34:48

and the other hand other hand. I'm like hoarding hoarding hoarding.

1:34:50

So I know when I got the car was like gang

1:34:54

And then turns out I didn't know what

1:34:56

benefiting kind men So I didn't realize

1:34:58

when you purchase shit you have to pay tax on

1:35:01

that shit like on top and

1:35:03

then I remember I got all the cost together and

1:35:05

then So now

1:35:07

he's insurance and I was like Yeah,

1:35:10

but he's gonna pay for his own insurance. I just had to sort

1:35:12

it All

1:35:16

of my fingers in goodness, I know

1:35:18

I know I know but yeah So going through it

1:35:20

and then once I'm lapping up costs, that's when I

1:35:22

was like, oh Yeah,

1:35:25

I got carried away. Yeah, I got

1:35:27

carried away but no that I definitely

1:35:29

think like very very grateful to be in

1:35:32

in the position Also,

1:35:43

I'm like I I really pride myself in giving

1:35:45

good gifts and people give good gifts Yeah,

1:35:48

like I like actually people think about it. What would

1:35:50

this person like do like what's their thing? Cool,

1:35:57

thank you Well

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we like to know about with I guess without

1:36:02

about the well he did not know class that's

1:36:04

why. We have a well

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within the really has things on A and you haven't

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seen you don't have to witness. The light blue

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light of the He to. Say participate in

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this will of fortune. Off

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or. Like us to keep have been changed for the world. Are

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going to cut us because

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his guys Nana Nana Nana

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deny that been. With.

1:36:36

His wife behavior on and a. Fluffy white

1:36:38

paper you seen on as I am Saturday night.

1:36:42

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a slight. Isn't a day? You. Will

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that yeah you didn't like to be one of

1:36:51

the food. Was.

1:36:55

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1:36:59

Is so boring I'm dislike or a

1:37:01

pit pity day that much isn't So

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if I do like I'm I'm a

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was someone doesn't equal m Even mad that. Are

1:37:09

that way we need it? Yeah. Like

1:37:12

was yacht shaking the table. She had a steak.

1:37:17

What Is this? Man

1:37:19

I think us as more about the

1:37:21

establishment mind about ability. To

1:37:24

manage it had a classroom affinity. I

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get it. got a crisis thinking you

1:37:28

how much as I was going to

1:37:30

have a handsome really the I they

1:37:32

hum disaster Listen to look at this

1:37:34

is of was behavior that this is

1:37:36

something I just don't particularly like. Isn't

1:37:38

a by comes from place of love

1:37:40

from said people. I if something's

1:37:42

wrong with my this and I'm not necessary

1:37:44

fussed about it. I'm not

1:37:47

making a fuss about like. Damn

1:37:49

and will likely her okay business. And.

1:37:51

It's crazy because. If is the buys was

1:37:54

I'll do the same for them by i would don't

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want that person is nonsense and I wouldn't normally think

1:37:58

of that our sake as what in his out. Eleven

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Am I an infinite ago? That was cheap?

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yeah and any run with the Isis thoughts.

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On my in the Mass Murder and

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who yeah I'll be have exceeded. I

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love for the am I let it. Burn.

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good. While this message sent. In.

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on. Nine off. The.

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The attempt seeds and yet and yet

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Amsterdam fees as a matter. yea I

1:38:35

didn't know whether you know the I

1:38:38

think so I'm happy I can. Yeah

1:38:40

on the top make it so we

1:38:42

either remember where does it from what

1:38:44

we come of. this is a couple

1:38:46

years ago at Yeah but with a

1:38:48

member we basically arena something that sounded

1:38:50

funny as we started storing him and

1:38:52

yeah and and get into a latch.

1:38:56

Onto my pillow. Yeah, yeah yeah yeah.

1:38:58

I'm so. basically someone wrote in and

1:39:00

they were lox. Ah, hate my boyfriend.

1:39:02

And. And. Com

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of a what the reasons why they weave Ryan

1:39:07

and Mom in a dilemma of lie? That and

1:39:09

then she was gone for of a case of

1:39:11

like he's a dick at his this is not

1:39:13

so the other day when he does the other

1:39:16

day. I. Try to pull bleach

1:39:18

into his beer. And. In the

1:39:20

back of his age when Blue saw fox,

1:39:22

it. So. And that a few

1:39:24

days lay off we were having a house party

1:39:26

and he got so drunk that he collapsed on

1:39:28

the floor. And. He threw up in his

1:39:30

mouth she isn't anything and yeah as she said I

1:39:33

left in there and she said have for his friend

1:39:35

came in and talk to my house I pissed off.

1:39:37

never really move like. Minded the sense

1:39:39

that it is a it isn't This is

1:39:41

an uncensored M Dia. What's that was the

1:39:43

wake up with is literally. I think that

1:39:46

we are heaps. Of

1:39:48

breaking up with him. Hot bike is that

1:39:50

isn't like death. Of

1:39:53

about. I'm. Sure without some other wild

1:39:55

ones that doc somewhere out there on the minds

1:39:57

of your life. While. We read.

1:40:00

That is very sinister. It reminds me of, I don't know

1:40:02

if you guys have heard of the comedian Daniel Sloss. He's

1:40:05

got a show on Jigsaw. I can never say it's

1:40:07

on Netflix called Jigsaw. It's

1:40:09

called what? I don't know what you said. I'm

1:40:12

not even taking Jigsaw. Yeah, thank you. Oh Jigsaw, what are

1:40:14

you taking Jigsaw? And he was talking about like when you're in

1:40:16

a relationship with someone that you hate and sometimes you get a phone call

1:40:18

and you kind of hope that someone's for their guys. It's

1:40:21

the way he's funny. He's

1:40:24

really dark comedy. He's like, you know what he has to do?

1:40:27

He's like, oh hey, it's time to let you know what this

1:40:29

is. He's like, oh, I didn't have to break up with them.

1:40:32

To be fair, I've been in relationships for like two years longer

1:40:35

than I wanted to be. Not that I wanted him to die,

1:40:37

but I was such a pussy. I just couldn't break up with

1:40:39

her. And I was just like, anything.

1:40:42

Yes, someone do something. Someone do something.

1:40:44

Help me. What's the matter with you?

1:40:46

Yeah. He looks like he's cheating on

1:40:48

you. Literally cheating. Yeah,

1:40:51

yeah, yeah. Because their best behavior was on

1:40:53

this shit. Oh my God. I remember she

1:40:55

found like a message in my phone or

1:40:57

something like that. And then I was

1:41:01

like, guess that's the end

1:41:03

of it. She

1:41:05

was like, whoa, whoa, whoa. I'm angry, but we

1:41:07

can be positive. I

1:41:10

was like, I think I said you

1:41:12

should respect yourself more. You don't want to

1:41:14

be with a guy like that. Don't

1:41:18

let the message sway you. We did everything. I

1:41:22

told him I love that. Leave

1:41:24

me alone. I'm not gone. Every

1:41:33

single time. Ask us anything. This is

1:41:35

fixed. Ask us anything.

1:41:37

There's something you guys can ask us.

1:41:39

It's only twice. Maybe that's not a

1:41:41

one-stop. Oh, that would be why. Every time the

1:41:44

other not in a favor. Ask you anything. Don't

1:41:48

go after one. How much

1:41:50

money do you have in your bank account? Okay,

1:41:53

good question. Very good

1:41:55

question. Wow. Good question.

1:42:00

I mean you

1:42:02

can believe it obviously my

1:42:05

month I think I'm putting my month Give

1:42:07

us the HSBC I've got

1:42:09

30 for the account Give it a biz The

1:42:13

business reserve My

1:42:16

month I can't even have £1.22 Can we at least see

1:42:18

the biz Okay let's We

1:42:22