Well-meaning teachings on divorce have left some abuse victims unsure of what to do about their situations. Yet the Word of God gives us insight into the hearts of people who abuse behind the scenes, and what God’s heart is on the matter.

Don't Be a Flying Monkey

Jun 28th, 2021 15m 49s

Narcissists love to enlist Flying Monkeys to abuse their victims by proxy. Today’s message defines what Flying Monkeys are and how to avoid being used by a narcissist in this manner. Are You a Narcissist's Flying Monkey? The Narcissist's Pl

Tares Among the Wheat

Jun 20th, 2021 10m 33s

Narcissists and Antisocial personality-disordered people are often the tares that the enemy sows among the wheat at church. Yet, we can identify them by their patterns. Today’s message discusses three of these patterns and the gift of discern

The Curse in Relationships

Jun 6th, 2021 13m 46s

We are under the curse when we are under the law and this is true in the family unit as well. Today’s message discusses three ways that the curse might show up in family relationships and contrasts it with the freedom that is now available to

Intergenerational Trauma

May 23rd, 2021 12m 46s

Intergenerational trauma is often accepted as part of a culture without an investigation into the source of it. Yet, living from trauma does not produce healthy and thriving families. Today’s message identifies examples of intergenerational t

Transactional Intimacy

May 16th, 2021 12m 25s

Transactional intimacy is at the core of many dysfunctional relationships. It comes from the human desire to replace God with what we can receive from other people. Today’s message focuses on how to achieve freedom from this relationship trap

Submission and Personality Disorders

May 9th, 2021 13m 3s

Personality disorders have the potential to wreak havoc on a marriage due to the lack of empathy that accompanies them. We must think differently about submission in cases like this because it could be unwise or even dangerous. Today’s messag

Submission and Mental Illness

May 1st, 2021 14m 58s

Submission is a teaching that has been abused in the Body of Christ and has therefore led to abuse. Not much guidance is given to women expected to submit to men who are impaired in their ability to lead. Today’s message offers hope and encou

Don't Give Your Kids The Spirit Of Fear

Apr 25th, 2021 13m 10s

Fear-based parenting is rampant in some cultures. While the goal is to curb undesirable behaviors, it can later interfere with walking by faith. We’ll explore how to lead our kids in the right direction without resorting to intimidation.

Family Scapegoats

Apr 18th, 2021 11m 42s

Dysfunctional families select scapegoats to avoid the acknowledgement of any sinful or toxic dynamics. Scapegoats often shoulder this undeserved blame well into adulthood. Today’s message uncovers why this dynamic occurs and highlights steps

Don't Be a City Without Walls

Apr 11th, 2021 10m 29s

Narcissists are all about other-control. Therefore, a person without self-control sets themselves up to be abused. Today's message discusses how you can experience the freedom that self-control brings.

Raised To Life

Apr 4th, 2021 12m 29s

For those who have experienced narcissistic abuse, life can seem hopeless. Yet, Easter gives us the opportunity to consider what Jesus has done for us through his death, burial, and resurrection. His provision through the cross applies to tho

Idolatry in Relationships

Mar 28th, 2021 9m 59s

Idolatry is easily recognized in things like materialism, alcoholism, or arrogance, but can sometimes be overlooked in how it shows up in relationships. Today's message encourages us not to make gods out of our individual preferences.

Spiritual Narcissists

Mar 21st, 2021 11m 23s

Spiritual Narcissists are out to control you with God's Word while dismissing any personal accountability. Today's message highlights a few characteristics of spiritual narcissists to watch out for in order to protect yourself. Biblical Persp

Generational Assignments

Mar 14th, 2021 10m 24s

Every generation has an assignment. A misunderstanding of this fact can lead to division. Yet, each generation declares the works of the Lord to one another and builds upon the assignment of the other. This building together should inspire u

Are You a Feeler/Knower Prophet?

Mar 4th, 2021 9m 31s

Do you often sense the energy in a room, building, or environment? Have you ever been called overly-sensitive? Do you struggle to function and stay motivated when something doesn't feel quite right? If you answered yes to these questions, you

False Prophets in Your Family

Mar 2nd, 2021 13m 49s

Not everyone in your family is speaking for God when they give advice or express opinions. Some are well-intentioned and don’t mean any harm and others want to sabotage your success. Today’s message focuses on how to identify false prophets w

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