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Dr. Mindy Pelz: Okay, Resetters, I've got another solo episode
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for you. And this one is a tool that I've created to help you
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customize your fasting lifestyle. And really to help
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you understand your relationship to food, understand the healing
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that's going on while you fast. This is a really fun tool that I
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created last year. And it's now available to you. And I'm really
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excited to walk you through it. So here we go. Are you ready?
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What the tool is, is it's called the fast cycle girl journal. A
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little side note, when a book does really well, on Amazon, all
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of a sudden, some workbooks will show up. And last year, so many
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workbooks that were not endorsed by me, many of them were created
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by AI showed up all over Amazon. And unfortunately, some of you
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actually bought those workbooks and were disappointed in them.
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And so I love this idea of taking the information that I
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laid out in fastonic, a girl and now having an experience with
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it. And so I love the workbook idea, but I wanted to make sure
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that we had one that was based off the principles I teach. So
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we decided to go in to building you a journal. And for those of
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you that are Journalers, you're probably like, oh, yeah, I've
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learned in writing a journal, that we have some people that
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are like journal obsessed. And I think that's amazing, I would
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not necessarily fall in that category. But I have heard from
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so many people that have shared with me that journals and
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writing down their experience while they're fasting is really
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helpful. Now the other unique thing before I go into the
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journal and how to use it, and why you're going to find some
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real healing within these pages, is that a good friend of mine,
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her name is Alex Elle. She teaches people how to use
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journaling for their therapeutic healing. And when fastonic Girl
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first came out, she reached out to me and she's like, You really
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need to do a journal because my experience as I've been fasting
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has been that I'm really changing my relationship to
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food. Without my body having to deal with the digestion of
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fasting, I'm actually now able to have more insight in how I
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use food. And that's where a journal would be great. So when
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I decided to collaborate on this journal, I went to Alex and I'm
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like, you already know what it's like to build a fasting
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lifestyle helped me make this journal, the best fasting
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journal we possibly can. And so she did. So this is a
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collaboration project with her. If you don't follow Alex L, I
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highly recommend you follow her on Instagram. If you haven't
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read her books, my favorite one is the one she most recently put
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out a few years back, which is called how we heal and you will
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see that she is a fan of using journaling for the healing
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process. So with that in mind, what I want to do is I want to
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break the journal down. And there's a couple different ways
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that you can use this podcast. One is you could just listen, I
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promise I will be teaching the different principles of fasting
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lifestyle throughout this podcast. Some of you are really
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working to overturn your food addictions. And if that's you
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please listen through because I had you in mind when I wrote
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this journal. Some of you are discovering that you are
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starting to get some real spiritual and mental insight
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when you are in a fasted state. And you need some more we call
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them prompts and ways to dive deeper into the incredible
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clarity that fasting brings you. And so some of you are going to
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actually use this journal in the fasted state to really have a
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deeper understanding of this intimate relationship you are
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creating with your body as you are building a fasting
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lifestyle. And you may have some aha laws that you are going to
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discover throughout the different sections of this
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journal. And then some of you if you're like me, and you have a
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bit of an add brain, you need something to do during your
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fasting windows. And so I have a whole activity section at the
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back of the book that I'll go through that I'm super proud of.
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And by the way, this journal is available now on on Amazon or in
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bookstores so you can order it if you have it and you want to
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follow along or you order it and then you want to come back to
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this podcast and follow along with it. That's great as well.
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For those of you that are watching this on YouTube this
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you can see what the cover looks like. It's a beautiful coral
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color with the fastonic girl logo on the front. Welcome to
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the resetter podcast. This podcast is all about empowering
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you to believe in yourself again. If you have a passion for
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learning if you're Looking to be in control of your health and
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take your power back. This is the podcast for you.
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So I started with the first part is called the foundation. And
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just so we're you all are sort of clear on my mindset when I go
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to write, you know, I, I really have you in mind, I'm really
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writing to you all. And so many of you have been so gracious at
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like putting in where your struggles are. And one of the
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things that I've noticed amongst women in general is that a lot
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of us really struggled to believe in our bodies, and
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especially to believe in the healing power of our bodies.
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Yet, we begin to fast and all of a sudden, we have this new
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relationship of the power of our body within. And then sometimes
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we're in the middle of a fast and we start doubting, we're
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like, my brain is foggy, my heart is racing, I'm hungry,
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does my body really know what to do. And so because there is this
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inconsistency in us really feeling the power of our own
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body, the first part of this book, I have a letter from me,
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to you all. So please read it, I wrote it with my heart wide
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open, if you and I were sitting in a room together, this is what
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I would want you to know. And then I have a part of the part
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one called you are your best healer, which is absolutely
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something that I strongly feel that we need to start looking
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at. We have a doctor within we are our own best doctors, we
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have spent way too many years, giving the power away to doctors
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who have gaslit us who has have given us prescriptions instead
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of lifestyle tools. We have walked into too many doctors
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offices and felt unheard, unrecognized. And so if that's
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you, I have to tell you, you are your best doctor. So I really
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wanted you to get to know that doctor within which is why I
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have a whole page for you a whole couple pages on your your
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best tailor. Then I also wanted to put in some of the fasting
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questions answers to a lot of the fasting questions like what
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breaks a fast? And what do I do if I feel X, Y and Z and a
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fasting window? So I have some of my fasting FAQs in there? And
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then what is it? How do you read the healing responses that your
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body is giving you because symptoms in a fasted state are
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are just messages from the body? But how do you interpret them?
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So the first part of this whole journal is exactly that. It's
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let's let's line you up with believing in your body. Let's
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understand this healer within let's understand the symptoms
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it's giving it and those of you who have been like I've been
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asking these questions, and I'm still not getting answers, I put
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a whole FAQ section in here. So that's how that part one starts.
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Now I also if you're like me, I like a Cliff's Notes version of
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something so fast, like a girl had a lot of explanation of the
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six different length fast. But I wanted to just boil down the six
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different length fast. So if you ever had like, a moment where
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you're like, I don't know, should I fast? 17 hours, should
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I fast? 20 hours? How would I make that decision? What I did
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in the first section is I have like, here's why you would do a
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36 hour fast. Here's why you would do 48 hours, here's why
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you would want to lean into a three day water fast. What is a
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gut reset fast? Like how would you use that? So I boiled it
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down into very into bullet points and into simple short
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paragraphs so you can choose the fasting lifestyle that works for
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you. Okay, so that's all part one. That's just part one. Part
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two. Part two is where Alex's genius came in. And she and I
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worked diligently on what are some questions we can ask
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ourselves in our fasted state to get to know our body better. Now
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I want to talk about the way our body talks to us. I have over
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the last several podcasts. I've been really trying to explain
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this concept that your body holds information. So if you
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listened to the podcast I did with Dr. Sarah Godfried, or the
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podcast interview I did with my breath worker, Cape horseman,
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you will hear that I'm a big fan of this idea that the Body Keeps
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the Score. And if you don't know that book, I highly recommend
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you get it. It was the one of the first books that really
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pierced the culture that explained that our traumas are
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within and that the body holds on to traumas. So when we try to
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fix any traumatic situation, we try to fix it from the mind, but
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really we should be fixing it from the body. And what you'll
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hear Kate and I discuss what you know Sarah and I discuss is that
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fasting is one way to hear what your body is speaking to you. So
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when you're in the fasted state, what I did is I broke these
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questions In these prompts into several categories, I broke them
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into, like what mentally needs to improve in your life? Like,
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how do you become more grounded? What in your life? Do you need
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more clarity on? What in your what in your health? Do you need
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to be focused on? So these prompts have let's see how many
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questions we have 50 questions per prompt. And each morning, I
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have a tracking system. So that's in part two is a tracking
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system, where you will take a question from one of these
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sections, and you will journal on it. So you will write down
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the question, maybe the question is, what does my body need from
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my lifestyle right now? And you'll write it down. And then
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you just write like a journal, you just answer it and let your
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body speak to you. So the questions have been broken down
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into what do you mentally need? What do you emotionally need?
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What do you spiritually need? And what do you physically need?
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So I've put it into categories. So you get to choose my goal, or
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my hope with this journal is that you will wake up and in the
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morning, and you will be like in a fasted state, and you will go
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to your 60 day tracker, and you will pull one of these questions
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out, and you will journal on it. And you get to choose Do you
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want to go down a spiritual journaling path today? Do you
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want to go down emotional, do you want to go down what you
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physically need, but in that fasted state, there is wisdom.
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And why what motivated me to do this journal more than anything,
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was, I don't want you to lose the fact that your body is
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speaking to you. And you if you just quiet your mind, and you sit in
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a location where you're journaling, and you're asking
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these questions, your body will tell you what you need. Now, a
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lot of you are data hounds, and I love this. And a lot of you
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are really trying to understand what lathe fast works for you.
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Some of you are trying to understand what how to break
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your fast. So in the the 60 day tracker section, not only do I
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have the the prompts, and you can journal on the answers to
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those. But opposite that page, I have a fasting tracking sheet,
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this actually was born out of something I've used with my own
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personal clients. So when I go to customize a client's fasting
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lifestyle, I track a lot I track glucose, I track how many blood
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sugar spikes they have, in a day, I look at how quickly the
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blood sugar comes down, I track their HRV and their sleep, their
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total sleep and their deep sleep and their REM sleep I track
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symptoms like bloatedness, and breast tenderness and
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constipation, like I have a whole tracker system so that we
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can start to see patterns. And I think this is the beautiful
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thing about the longer you stick with a fasting lifestyle, the
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more these patterns will be revealed to you. And so I wanted
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to create prompts for you to see the pattern. So let me just give
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you something an example of what you'll see, in this fast
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tracking. In this 60 Day tracker, you're going to see the
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reflection questions that you'll be journaling on. And then
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you're going to see little boxes and the little boxes have things
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like what kind of fast are you doing today? And is it longer
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than the day before. So you can use that prompt to either to
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remind yourself of what you're doing today or what you did
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yesterday, but it starts to help you see because you'll go back
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or if you do this over 60 days, you'll start to see your
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favorite length fast, you'll be like whoa, I did a lot of 17
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hour fasts or oh my gosh, I haven't done a 24 hour fast and
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a long time because you'll be using this tracking system for
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60 days. So it's enough to see that pattern. Then underneath
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that I have a way of but I have a little box that for those of
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you that track ketones, I want you to look at your ketone
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levels when you wake up. And the reason that that's important is
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because that tells you how your fasting lifestyle work for you
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the day before. So if you're trying to stay in a ketogenic
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state, it's great to look at your ketones when you first wake
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up. I also have a section those of you that have CGM or you're
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using a Keto Mojo, where you're going to record your blood sugar
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values. So you're going to look at what your blood sugar is like
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when you wake up your blood sugar midday and your blood
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sugar before you go to sleep. And the reason that I like to
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look at ketones and blood sugar is it's it's an A bill it's a
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way remember blood sugar tells you how you're doing within your
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your eating window. And ketones tell you how you're doing within
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your fasting window. So they're like data driven points that
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tell That's how the sugar burner system is doing and how the fat
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burner system is doing. And when you track them over several
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days, you'll start to see the changes. Okay, then I put in
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there, how do you track your moods when you're fast. And the
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reason that this is important is that when you first fast, some
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people will notice that their moods may not be great. But over
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time, you may start to see your moods improve. So why I want
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that wanted that there. And I give you options that you can
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put, you're angry, you're sad, you're neutral, you're happy or
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you're overjoyed is that I want you to start to look at the
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length of your fast and your moods, because every one of us
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is going to have a different fasting length. And so I want
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you to be able to see again, what's the right fasting length
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for you. So we're looking at your ketones and your blood
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sugar, and we're looking at your mids. Then I also for those of
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you that are cycling, I have a tracker in there where you can
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track your what day of your cycle are you are on. I also
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those of you that are very active, I have a section on talk
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about the activity that you did. And how was that? Was it better?
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This is where I really want you to focus in on it. Was it better
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to eat before you worked out? Did what did you when you got
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done working out? What Foods Did you break it with these all
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matter when you're looking at patterns around your fasting
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lifestyle. And then we look at sleep? How many hours sleep you
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have those of you that might have a tracking system you can
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put in there like did you get a lot of deep sleep did you not?
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So you can start to see where too much faster you may be
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affecting your sleep, were certainly fast can improve your
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sleep. That's what I'm hoping those prompts will will show
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you. And then I have two more sections within the tracking
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system where you can look at your energy levels. And you can
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look at what you broke your fast with. So again, remember the
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purpose of a journal is to have self reflection. So I tried to
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think of the things that if you and I were sitting down, and we
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were customizing a fasting lifestyle, what questions what I
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asked you to be able to help you customize the best fasting
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lifestyle for you. And that's what I put on this tracker
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system. Now, I do want to point out that if you're lost at all
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with your fasting lifestyle, I am doing a solo episode like
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this one, I have available that I did a whole hour to my reset
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Academy people where I talked about all everything you need to
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know about customizing a personal fasting lifestyle. So
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that episode mixed with this episode mixed with with the
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journal is really going to help you take this to the next level.
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And one of my value systems is that I'm not here just to give
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you information to entertain you, or to make myself feel
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better. I am here to give you information to change your life.
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And I am so proud to say that between the journal and this
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episode and the other episode, I feel like you have some really,
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really solid tools to be able to customize this for yourself. And
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their time efficient. I have some amazing tools on my YouTube
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channel. But there's 1500 videos over there. So I've synthesized
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this fasting lifestyle path into these two resetter podcasts and
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the journal to make it easier for you. Okay, now, after you've
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done and I'm hoping you'll do the 60 day tracker, like commit
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to it for 60 days. So you can see the patterns you can get to
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know the questions will help you see this a little deeper. And
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then my favorite part of the whole journal is the back end.
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So I have created activity pages. And the activity pages
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are multiple. There's multiple things for starters, there's
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some coloring pages, I got into adult coloring pages about a
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year ago. And I went into the neuroscience of it. I was like
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why when I color a page, like when I was a kid, do I feel
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calm? And sure enough, coloring is one of those and just, you
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know, either free flow, but you'll see that I've got
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motivational affirmations on these coloring pages. But it's
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one of those ways that we move out of our amygdala and into our
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prefrontal cortex. It calms the thinking mind. Now the amygdala
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is the part of the brain that's always trying to keep us safe.
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And when you are in longer fast, especially that amygdala may be
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screaming at you. It may be like why are you doing this? The
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amygdala really is it can squawk at you. And so if that's you,
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and you find in a fasted state, you don't like the mindset that
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you develop, try coloring. It's really common and it puts you in
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that predicament frontal cortex and the prefrontal cortex is the
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part of the brain that that shows you hope and possibility
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it and it soothes you. So I'm hoping you'll use this the
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coloring pages, there's one, let's see 12344 different
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coloring pages in here with affirmations, and my designer
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designed them. And so I hope you enjoy it. And that helps you
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there. Okay, but I didn't stop there, then I go into some real
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key parts of these activities, pages one is a page I call I
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matter. And you'll see that I really am hoping especially
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those of you when you go into these longer fasts, that you
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really get clear on why you matter. Because if you don't put
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yourself as a priority, if you don't have a sense of your
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worthiness, when you go into these fasted states, you might
20:48
start second guessing yourself. So I want you to hear your inner
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voice, I want you to commit to your worthiness. And so the eye
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matter page is about putting down short little statements
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that will help you understand why you matter. And you might
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put on there like I matter because I'm a kind human, I
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think that's that's one of the greatest reasons to matter. And
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I bring kindness to every conversation that I have, you
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might put I matter because I am in charge of three little humans
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that I need to make sure I stay healthy for I matter, because my
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thoughts are important to the world. There's a lot of
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different reasons you you matter. But I really want you to
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emphasize that. Then I on on the next page, I have something
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called my circle of support. This one's really important in
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this I learned from a patient of mine who was going through a
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cancer diagnosis and was really trying to assess who in her life
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she wanted to keep close, and who was a negative influence
21:45
that was affecting her healing that she wanted to keep far
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away. So I gave it different levels, level one through level
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four. And in the circle support, you can color it too. But I also
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want you to put in there in level one who's in your front
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row who's cheering you on, who's you know, I did a whole podcast interview with my
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friend Dr. Gara, Karen Gordon about the middle chair, people
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that cheer you want and want to see that you're well, that would
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all go in the level one. People that are like they bring you
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joy, but you don't. Sometimes you don't completely feel like
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they have your back, they would be level two. And then level
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three and level four would be people that you intentionally
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need to to be around less, that they derail you from your health
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habits. And they they can they can make you feel bad about
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yourself. So I explained how to use each one of these and I even
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put level one is front row cheerleaders. Level two is the
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inspirers. The men, the mentors, level three is friends with
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boundaries. And level four are the naysayers. And it's just a
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reminder, when you and you might do that one in pencil because
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those people move around and they change but it's a good
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opportunity to look at that. Okay, then the next thing I put
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is a whole beautiful page on what you're grateful for. And
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it's in a it's in a picture of a sunflower. And I love it because
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sunflowers are my favorite. And so you get to write down all the
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things you're grateful for. I personally spend 20 minutes
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every morning listening to music and going through a just an
23:08
analysis of everything I'm grateful for in my life. I think
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this is a great prompt to do in the morning, after you've done
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your tracking sheet. Go to I am grateful. You might put a couple
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of things every morning in there, and then it can change
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over time. Okay, then the next page is health goal page, which
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is how do you pick? How do you set health goals and create a
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strategy around achieving those health goals. So I put in here,
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everything from the top health goals, you have people who are
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going to support you and in achieving those health goals,
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daily actions, you're going to take rewards, you're going to
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give yourself information you need to help you hit those
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health goals. How you're going to feel when you when you hit
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the health goal. And in supportive environments you're
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going to put yourself in. So if you're trying to lose weight, or
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you have a big health goal, put it right in the center of this
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activity page. And then over time, fill in the other pieces
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because the other pieces are important. If you don't if you
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go in there and you're like, Well, I don't know the daily
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actions. Okay, well, that's you need to work on what your daily
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actions on. Or if you're like, reward myself after I hit a
24:14
goal. If that's not a strategy, do you need to reward yourself
24:18
when you hit a goal? Or people who support me I hadn't really,
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you know, we tend to be like, I want to lose 20 pounds. Okay,
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well, who's gonna support you and helping you achieve that
24:27
goal, we all need human connection. So I mapped out all
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the little things you might not think about when it comes to
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achieving a health goal. And again, you can color these that
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are beautiful. And then I didn't stop there. Again, the activity
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pages are my favorite. I put a whole thing on kind things I
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hope you say to yourself, when you look in the mirror, I put a
24:48
whole activity page on what makes you beautiful. And this is
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why this pack page I really wanted you to get people out of
24:55
thinking that beauty has to be a number that you See on the
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scale, or it has to be a certain pant size that you are, there
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are so many different ways we are beautiful. And I really
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wanted to highlight that. And then the last part of the
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activity page I put in there is like what do I What do I love
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about my body? We're so conditioned to think what we
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hate about our body, I want you to start thinking about what you
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love about your body. And so there are prompts there and
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coloring pages that you can lean into. And then we have some
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charts like what how do you break a fast? How do you break a
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longer fast? How do you break a shorter fast, and then I have a
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bunch of bonus gifts for you. So hopefully you can see, I'm
25:36
really proud of this journal. It's like if I could, you know,
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sit next to you and help you take the principles I taught and
25:44
fast like a girl and customize it to you. This is what I have
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done. This is the closest thing I can get to sitting right next
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to you. And I'm really proud of it. I'm really excited for you
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to get it. And I think I'm the most excited about what you're
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going to discover about you in this process. I have seen people
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with eating disorders use a fasting lifestyle to overturn
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eating disorder disorders. I've seen people who are now using
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five fasting lifestyles, for performance states really
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understand how to, to use a fasting lifestyle to enhance
26:20
mental and physical performance. I've seen people go into the
26:24
spiritual side of fasting and really discover some huge
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insights authors use this a lot for creativity, I write a lot in
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a fasted state. So there's, this is a juicy one. There's a lot
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within these pages that will expand how you feel about
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yourself, and make sure that you're on the right track of
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your fasting lifestyle. So I hope it helps. As always, if the
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journal resonates with you, reviews matter, I would love a
26:51
review, both here on the resetter podcast but also
26:54
wherever you bought your book from so that others can see how
26:58
helpful it was for you if it was and so we can really predict
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together collectively start to overturn the Chronic Disease
27:06
situation we're in fasting lifestyles are free. And we need
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a tool that everybody can lean into, to point them in the right
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direction at this critical time in human history, where chronic
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diseases are becoming the norm. And we've got over 50% At least
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here in America of people with one Chronic Disease 40% with two
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or more, that's horrific, and a fasting lifestyle is our way out
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of that and this journal is going to deepen your your
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understanding of view your relationship to food, and how
27:39
you can save yourself. So as always, I hope that helps. Thank
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you so much for joining me in today's episode. I love bringing
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thoughtful discussions about all things health to you. If you
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enjoyed it, we'd love to know about it. So please leave us a
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review, share it with your friends and let me know what
28:00
your biggest takeaway is.
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