The reason I don’t ask anyone’s opinion on anything…and the story about yesterdays elevator pitch crashing and burning.

I built my new mastermind and I didn’t ask a single person what they thought about what I was doing.

Because I realized something recently.

If I’m not doing it from my heart, and if what I create isn’t coming fully from me, I’m not going to attract the most aligned members and I’m not going to enjoy myself nearly as much.

I didn’t ask for advice on my personal brand colors (I LOVE them)

I didn’t ask for advice on my landing page (I don’t love it right now, but I think the right women will see past it)

I didn’t ask for advice on what I should provide (I woke up at 4:30 am this morning so freaking excited to work on my mastermind because I’m providing what felt aligned to provide)

I didn’t ask for advice on my ‘elevator pitch.’ 

Right now I’m winging it.

I crashed and burned in an online networking group last night on my ‘elevator pitch’ LOLOL. 

I forgot we were going to do one so I just decided to say what would come to mind.

I thought I had a flash of brilliance…which turned out to be hilarious…

So I said ‘I started a mastermind, it’s like Only Fans for Entrepreneurs and Women who want to work on their mindset. They get to ask questions and I give them an inside peek into what life is really like for me and how I actually got here…from miserable and broke to happy and a million dollar a year business.’

Okay, I don’t REALLY think I crashed and burned. 

That’s impossible.

It’s about the energy, not the words. 

And the women who are drawn to my Mastermind can feel that they want to be in it. 

I can’t say it wrong, can’t do it wrong.

‘You should charge more.’ I’ve been getting this a lot, and it’s such a freaking compliment.

Thanks for telling me I’m valuable.

But I want to charge what I’m charging because it feels good to me.

And I don’t need the money from my mastermind right now.

One day the Mastermind will be $500 a month for new members, but right now it’s, oh, 95% less.

I’m not asking for opinions on what I wear or how I do my hair or what pictures I choose for things.

I do like hearing from my bf but honestly he just tells me I’m beautiful and yes, he does like my hair parted down the middle, but it’s fun the other way too.

I don’t ask people’s opinions on what I’m doing…but I DO love hearing what other people are doing. 

I love getting that little spark that ignites my own flame.

It’s like I’m a candle and I put my candle against their candle and then all of the sudden I’M LIT…but it’s my own flame. It didn’t take from their flame…they still have theirs and it’s theirs alone

Brainstorming is amazing! People are fun!

I didn’t ask anyone if I should go by the name Rhino. 

I just liked it.

What if you could create anything and you couldn’t do it wrong? You couldn’t mess it up? What would you create?