In today’s episode, Sheridan and Juliette guide you through the art of crafting the perfect wedding vows. 

A lot of pressure is put on making your vows super special, which can often become overwhelming. But at the end of the day, writing your vows should be the easy part of wedding planning! 

Did you know that you don’t actually have to write personalised vows?? 

You can also say them privately before or after the ceremony! 

We recommend briefly discussing your vows with your partner to help remove some of that pressure. Go through the kind of things you want to say, the vibe you want your vows to be and if you have anything that you definitely DON’T want them saying! 

We give you our easy 4-step formula for writing your vows, and top it off with a bunch of tips to make sure you can execute them perfectly on the day. 

Start writing your vows early, and allow yourself the time to simmer on what you’ve written, it’s super normal that your first draft won’t be final. So give yourself the grace to change them as much as you need. 

And once you’re done, practice, practice, practice! 

Say them aloud multiple times, this will help to ensure you don’t stumble over as many words and gives you the opportunity to take out any potential tongue twisters! 

At the end of the day, if you don’t say them perfectly during the ceremony - it’s not the end of the world! Let the tears fall if you feel them coming, and embrace the feeling of speaking your feelings to your partner. 

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See you next week!