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CJ joined. There's always about a Beijing

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station, mister Carl Wesley Philip.

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What's going on y'all? What it did? that

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contract sorted out. We got Carl back.

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You know what I'm saying? Welcome back. We hear you.

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Mark, Zach, sir. He said he won't go negotiate

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during the season, but we're able

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to get him under a franchise tag.

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Hey. Good thing though. He got that w, you know. Yeah.

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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

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It definitely does. Yeah.

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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So I go back

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That's one more. That's one more

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one. They say they say appliance We're

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all finding that area now. I I

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think this lion can't find a

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nut there. Oh, wait. There he is.

2:21

Slow down. slow down. Yeah. Yeah.

2:24

I'm little escrow camp on the line. Okay.

2:26

Now Jokesy. No.

2:31

My bad doing good, and you stepped

2:34

on your insurance. Doctor

2:36

King, how are sir. I'm blessed brother.

2:38

I got a chance to sit down with my hub

2:41

dinner, with my with my daughter. Yeah.

2:43

So this this actually makes the podcast

2:46

a little bit more of meaning from that

2:48

saying that you gentlemen Yeah. I wasn't.

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Oh, no. That was yeah. No. Why

2:52

is it crazy? What's your why?

2:54

Right. This was this was this was part of the vision.

2:56

Yeah. This was like, you know, I get that to come

2:58

right now. Yeah. You just go talkin' hot letter

3:01

man. Crazy thing, though.

3:03

you know,

3:03

my daughter, like, I was selling the seat of the day, man. Like,

3:05

my daughter really, you know, was in college,

3:07

but I was like, she getting a different kind of experience.

3:10

Right? I was on the phone with her. before

3:12

I you know, before I got here. And I was just like,

3:14

you know, hey, man. How you doing? And she's

3:15

like, I'm doing good. And she's just on the phone. She's

3:18

just smacking down. I said, man, that capitarious fool

3:20

good. And I was like, man, it

3:22

must be I don't remember about that. Like, the

3:24

food being a good. And she was just like

3:26

and I was like and she like, I didn't go to the cafeteria

3:28

today. She was like, I like telling her weekends. kinda

3:31

just, you know, we order out. And and

3:33

she was, like, you know, during the week, I go to the cafeteria,

3:35

but she's, like, doing, you know, weekends. I kinda

3:37

she's, you know, Uber Eats. I said,

3:39

oh, we used to say, wow. Okay. she probably No.

3:41

We do that at and we do that at home all too much.

3:43

She had big time she called me. So I was like, oh, man.

3:46

Just so happy. I was like, man, I really Like,

3:48

it tastes good. Why is it? And she's like,

3:50

oh, I'm just eating some red lobster.

3:52

It's like red lobster. back

3:56

to college. Resolute Real.

4:00

Yeah. No. Not enough. For real. Real. I think I

4:02

went once before I started paying myself.

4:04

Like From me, it took us to

4:06

real life. Me and to real special time.

4:08

Well, when we, like, anniversaries, surveys.

4:12

It's -- Oh. -- surfing. You won't the surfing.

4:14

Like, the turf. You did. Oh,

4:16

right. Yeah. It's crazy how when

4:18

you start making money, it's face bloods changed

4:20

up. You know what I'm saying? Like, I'm just being

4:22

real, like and now mine don't what I'm

4:24

saying? Let me purface by saying that. But

4:26

some kind of way it used to be fired, but now

4:28

my wife won't She own something about

4:30

she own, like, the carpet in there. Yeah. Yeah.

4:33

She says she own she's like, I'm feeling I

4:35

don't know how y'all cleaning this. I do

4:37

drink the smell, the night. Yeah. Yeah.

4:39

But Yeah. You don't like a smell? No.

4:41

Or, like, seafood? No. I don't. Some of

4:43

these different kinds of things. No. It

4:45

just seemed like some of those places have been for

4:48

a long time. Yeah. And they have been

4:50

smell I'm afraid. You know what I'm saying? like

4:52

a senior home. Yeah. For real. Right. You know,

4:54

it's weird. Last time I

4:56

went in the house, it's I told Dean, let's

4:58

let's

4:58

roll. It just yeah. It didn't it didn't

5:01

it

5:01

didn't smell like, oh, where where is?

5:03

Wait. Wait. Wait. The set of biscuits though.

5:05

Oh, fire, but I I did the environment. I was like That's

5:07

what I'm saying. You got a couple dollars now, because

5:09

not in order that you would have been. Yes. He's still

5:11

in the middle of fire. No,

5:14

sir. It might be at home, but I just

5:16

don't like anything. Oh, you used to be at

5:18

Fire Mountain too. Oh, that's no question.

5:20

I feel there. ran live.

5:22

He was one of the go by my husband. He was

5:24

one of all your senior kids. Oh.

5:27

You you don't remember Ryan's Oh, yeah. Right. Oh,

5:29

you said it was like a break.

5:31

No. No. It wasn't our break. first came

5:33

out. Yeah. Whoo. Fire

5:37

the hell, the hell, the hell, the hell.

5:39

Fireball was no. It was fire because

5:42

when you went in there, they have take your

5:44

steak, like, right in front of you. Yeah. Now

5:46

it was a low gray steak, but

5:48

there at least it was hot and fresh, like,

5:50

you could get it. You know what I mean? So it was

5:52

in there. know what I'm saying? It was five. Right? It was We

5:54

used to hit the one right by the morning. Yeah. But I

5:56

was fired. But then I'll tell you somehow

5:58

how to wear over at Naima.

5:59

over the years,

6:02

they start taking

6:03

for granted. No. Your money

6:05

went like this, and you started to came first.

6:07

because that's because it shut down. No. It's

6:09

shut down. blessing. So all of us

6:11

funny didn't go on. Yeah. Listen.

6:14

Cheesecake Factory, those you you start eating

6:16

there and grand luck so much that. Oh, no.

6:18

That was the Yeah. It was the Yeah.

6:20

Yeah. But I think COVID kinda have

6:22

something to do with cheesecake is hit or

6:24

miss. No. Right. Cheesecake is Well, let me tell

6:26

you something though. I'm be rude, sir.

6:29

Red lobster is still

6:31

fire. Okay. It's still fire.

6:33

Okay. I don't know what? Listen. Well, as you've

6:35

been. 00I go to RedLocker

6:37

for her. Yeah. Yeah. No. I've been in that job. I

6:39

say cat. Yeah. No. We said I've been

6:41

with you out of three hundred seats days,

6:43

I'm probably going to three hundred sixty four.

6:51

a big old chain cranking on that.

6:54

That sound good. That sounded good.

6:56

No. No. I'm serious. Like the one bedroom Shack.

6:59

No. No. No. No. No. No. I go

7:01

to Red Lobster sir. But, like,

7:03

with the kids, they, like, looking at the lobster and

7:05

the thing, but really, obviously,

7:07

shout out to my younger question. You

7:10

know where my spot was? Oh, yeah. Alicia,

7:14

at the Chapado. Chapado at Chapado at

7:16

Chapado at Chapado at Chapado at Chapado Chapado at

7:18

Chapado. Yeah. Yeah. If I don't

7:20

wanna go to popular you know, all the way out to

7:22

popular, it's a red light spot to create, we'll

7:24

slide through that drink. And, you know, get

7:26

a little salmon. You know what I mean? Some

7:28

shrimp. It's something like that. And it it's

7:30

decent. It's decent. Yeah. So, hey,

7:32

Shauna, if you're watching I just wanna

7:34

know when to come. Are y'all still hitting rare

7:36

lobster y'all still with me or oh my

7:38

god. Y'all still do it? Oh, red lobster

7:40

olive. You gotta put olive garden down. Oh, yeah. No.

7:42

No. No. Oh, no. That I

7:44

never do olive garden. You know, I'm

7:46

not AAA car pasted

7:48

kind of fan. So it's like, it's just too much

7:50

of a family thing. You know, whatever the whole

7:52

family is, somebody perfect. It is safe.

7:54

Super sad. It's It's super sad,

7:56

brother. Get everybody. Get everybody. Get everybody.

7:59

Get to the big bed. Get a little room off to the

8:01

bed question, brother. But that's we

8:03

that's why we used to go. especially as

8:06

a church, they were the only ones that

8:08

could sit -- Yeah. -- fifty two hundred dollars.

8:10

Yeah. You can feed them with Supers salute

8:13

and all the breadstings. The breadstings for

8:15

sure. Yeah. Well, what was it? How was it doing? owe

8:17

me some money, though. I'll tell you about that. 0E2

8:20

for paying them under minimum wage. you,

8:22

buddy. You said, hey, Janie, there.

8:24

When I you know, here go Janie again, Brian. She was

8:26

there. Before she left. Yeah. She took

8:28

her car, you know, her car sister, they all

8:30

went out to the out guard and they go eat, I don't

8:32

believe. In eighteen. Yeah, bro. I'm talking

8:34

about day was all out eating. And I guess We're

8:36

on a wish to go. Right. Right. seventeen.

8:40

Yeah. Is she the twenty eighteen of Brussels?

8:42

They bring the food out. Yachting said it was,

8:44

you know, great service or whatever. And

8:46

I guess my cousins, they all want to fill they made it,

8:48

you know, so they all putting out twenty dollar bill paying.

8:50

You know, they all putting up paying a bill.

8:52

Y'all need to go ahead and bear with me. I think the

8:54

bill is a hundred fifty dollars. Right? You know,

8:56

they they even though -- Mhmm. -- the bill is a hundred

8:58

fifty dollars, bro. And

9:00

Camille said, yeah, I mean, how much does he tip

9:02

the guy? And the guy said, oh, I took them a

9:04

hundred dollars. She said she said

9:06

she's ready. She said she didn't come

9:08

out. She said she's, like, a hundred bills

9:10

a hundred fifty dollars. You took the guy a hundred dollars.

9:12

And she said, yeah. She said, that's what Daddy

9:14

woulda did. Yes. Yeah. I'm always yeah. I'm

9:17

always, like, cool. Look at me. What's she gonna say

9:19

to her? And I'm like, Wait.

9:21

Wait, daddy. I was

9:23

like, oh. Yeah. You got your

9:25

father's oh. Bryan. Tell

9:27

the doc. It's the doc. You didn't tell me eat

9:29

this, but I'm gonna start at the end. I promise you,

9:31

bro. I promise you. You're ready.

9:33

Cara. Man. It's

9:36

out. Let me just say that. Let's get

9:38

you round of applause. Man, we are

9:40

here. We are here. We are You

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owe you Same

9:45

on you if you don't have a copy in

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your hands right now, but you

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can still order it. We still need that support. That

9:51

love. U0UE Come on, man. Just I I

9:53

only had to bring the introduction in too

9:55

far. You said I'm sorry. You said it

9:57

was all you know, them, Jay. Come on,

9:59

Jay. You all

10:01

saying? Let's go. I do wanna say this, though. Let's gonna

10:03

start the podcast.

10:05

you know, somebody was asking me the

10:07

other day like, why should I read the book? What's

10:09

the book about? And I'm

10:11

just gonna say this, man. I

10:13

figured it out. You know, I figured

10:15

it out. And that's what this book is

10:17

gonna help you to do. We we had You

10:20

know, we do the Sunday call. Yeah. The horror back.

10:22

So by the way, we just put those in. I don't wanna miss

10:24

the horror back, doctor. Yeah. So just

10:27

Mister Prack, this boy. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's the

10:29

practice boy, let that be knowing that they're watching.

10:31

Yeah. It's the practice boy right

10:33

here. But we we know we

10:35

had a a last not this time the

10:37

week with the week before our

10:39

Sunday call, we were talking about our coaching

10:42

call. You gotta get on that. You're trying to get

10:44

to the next level. You just need to be around.

10:46

that I've been really heavy on on who's saying

10:48

both and how America was dominating

10:50

and track and field and one

10:52

man came and raised

10:54

the bar. And and and not only

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he went, but he told

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her other man how to win. And then the

11:00

women -- Yeah. -- started dominating her.

11:03

And so for a lot of you, you're not training

11:05

with who's saying both. And you're wondering what the problem

11:07

is. You need to come train with who's saying both.

11:09

You know, we hear you know, we practice

11:11

and we train in and we gonna show you how to elevate

11:13

your game. But but we start

11:15

off with a question. And one of the

11:17

questions was, about

11:19

challenges. You know, are you running from

11:21

challenges or are you facing

11:23

challenges? You know what I'm saying? Like, are you

11:26

welcoming them? Not just like, dealing with him, but,

11:28

like, are you welcoming him? And,

11:31

you know, I was QDZ was

11:33

talking about the book on a three AM

11:35

boy. And I was just, like, man, god.

11:37

there are a lot of people. You are literally,

11:40

you know, running from challenges.

11:43

Right? And is and what's happening is,

11:45

not even tripping on the challenge per

11:47

se, but you're actually

11:49

living the same experience

11:52

over and over and over again.

11:54

Right? and I'm talking I'm I'm talking to

11:56

y'all because I think what happens

11:58

is I I, you know, I same people

12:00

who, you know, ET, you know, I wanna, you

12:02

know, be like you in terms of speaking, I won't be

12:04

on stage you one day. And one of the

12:06

challenges is when you watch the podcast, you

12:08

watch me speak, you come to a conference,

12:10

whatever. A lot of times you get

12:12

the you know, external boy

12:14

like my voice and my passion and my

12:16

energy. And you like, man, if I could

12:18

get the right social media, if I can get the

12:20

right energy, you know, I'm gonna be

12:22

legendary, but I'm gonna be honest with you.

12:24

If you're gonna be successful and

12:26

sustain that success, that's why I was

12:28

talking to the Rams about I was like, look,

12:30

y'all I'm just gonna be real. Y'all want a Super

12:32

Bowl. It could be an event or could be a

12:34

lifestyle. For Michael Jordan, it wasn't

12:36

an event. Mhmm. Michael Jordan won one

12:38

championship. And before know,

12:40

what's your boy named Tom Brady. It

12:42

wasn't an event. Gross a lifestyle. You know

12:44

what I'm saying? I'm like, you can

12:46

be successful as an event or

12:48

you could be successful and, like, had that for

12:50

the rest of your life. And,

12:52

you know, we were talking about, you know, just

12:54

this whole thing about challenges. and

12:56

I want y'all to read this book because I want y'all to

12:58

see. I figured it out. Like, that's what

13:01

I want y'all to see. Like, I figured it out. You

13:03

feel me like, And and when you read

13:05

the book, I go back to my

13:07

grandma my great grandma because

13:09

I want you to see how I started.

13:11

I you to see, like, this wasn't just one generation

13:14

of, like, chaos. Like, this has

13:16

been this had been three generations

13:18

of poverty you know, this

13:20

had been three generations of don't

13:22

nobody know who day daddy is. This

13:24

had been three generations of ain't nobody

13:26

going to school. Ain't nobody taking

13:28

it. You know what I'm saying? Like, this is this is generational

13:31

thing. And my grandma, you know,

13:33

resting peace, she ain't had two kids.

13:35

Right? She had bunch. And this

13:37

book is about Yo.

13:39

I figured it out. And there are a

13:41

lot of you who I talked to. Man,

13:43

you just can't. It's like

13:45

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13:50

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13:52

through it. You're gonna get the right cameras.

13:54

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13:58

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e e, you you left home at the

17:14

early age and didn't get all the development. You

17:16

gotta figure this out. e, you got married

17:18

in nineteen. You gotta figure this out. You

17:20

got a gift that can make room for you.

17:21

You gotta figure this thing out. You know what I'm

17:23

saying? And there's just a lot of you out there.

17:25

You think you're gonna

17:26

take a shortcut.

17:29

like, you really think you're gonna buy a course

17:31

only. Now, we got some phenomenal

17:33

courses, but I'll tell you all the time.

17:35

Mars course

17:38

didn't change my

17:40

behavior first. Make real estate real

17:42

change my minds at first. Mhmm. Like,

17:45

it literally showed me where I was

17:47

messed up mentally. Like, yo, eat this is what you

17:49

like, bro, you ain't gonna never you ain't gonna never

17:51

get it if you don't get this part. So

17:53

it was some mental stuff

17:55

I'm like, I don't know, you know, I

17:58

don't make sense, and I don't know,

17:59

and whatever. And I and I realized,

18:02

you have a problem with the way

18:04

relationship

18:04

to money. You got a problem with

18:06

your relationship to money. You got a problem with the

18:08

way you see money. You got a problem with

18:10

the way you you

18:11

you you spend money. Like, you got a problem understanding investment.

18:14

You got a you have a money problem.

18:16

You grew up in a certain way

18:19

and that's not wealth. And so I'm telling y'all, man, this

18:21

book, how to like, yo, I'm you're

18:23

gonna learn how to

18:26

figure it out. and

18:28

I'm so excited because I'm

18:30

taking you not from

18:32

you know, I'm not taking you from

18:34

success to success. I'm taking you

18:36

from rock bottom -- Mhmm.

18:38

-- emotionally, mentally,

18:40

like rock. But I was I was watching something

18:42

with Didi the other day,

18:44

it

18:44

was about prison, and they was really breaking

18:47

down solid like, you

18:49

know, guys going in solitary

18:51

confinement. And just what that

18:53

does, you know, to the mine or whatever, and they were

18:55

just breaking it down. I just was like, yo, I ain't

18:57

trying to, like, you

18:59

know, dramatize this, but I was like,

19:01

yo, to an extent I was in that

19:03

bro. I was in an abandoned building by myself.

19:06

Like, bro, no running water,

19:08

no electricity, no heat. I

19:10

had a kerosene heat of bro.

19:12

that I was using to keep myself warm on

19:14

a cot out brother. That was this out

19:17

there. Goodbye. And I know exactly what they

19:19

meant because they was like, it was not the building

19:21

in the small little space is not

19:23

having nobody to talk to and how

19:24

you go crazy when you're just

19:26

talking to yourself. I handle TV in

19:29

that joint, I had no

19:31

VCR. No cell phones. Wilson. I

19:33

had no cell phones. So I had no

19:35

telephone, bro. Like, you know, back in the day when

19:37

no cell phones. And, bro, I'm

19:39

trying to tell y'all I figured

19:41

it out, and

19:42

I'm not trying to play on words, but you owe

19:44

you to figure it out. And I'm telling

19:46

you you don't have as much time as you think

19:48

you do. My boy, David Arnold,

19:51

comedian,

19:52

going at first and foremost. That's

19:55

crazy. Right? I went to school, David Key, and his

19:57

sister, we went to Oakwood together. My

19:58

boy, Dave Van Fu Shey, was

20:01

my dean. going at maybe fifty three, fifty two,

20:03

fifty three. I know you weren't that much older than

20:05

me. I'm saying, y'all, we

20:07

don't, like, you assuming that

20:09

you got another fifty, and I'm a

20:11

tell you what's gonna piss you off. When

20:13

you figure

20:13

it out, you're gonna be so pissed

20:15

when you figure it out.

20:17

because you're gonna be mad at yourself that you didn't figure it out ten years ago. You're

20:19

gonna be pissed that twenty years

20:21

ago, you could have figured it out. But

20:24

you for whatever reason,

20:26

And man, I wish I could say I wish I could tell

20:29

y'all what

20:29

what really hit me, but I I can't

20:32

really disclose that. But let me

20:34

just say, it it

20:36

is somebody that I love and I've watched them

20:38

not deal with a situation and

20:40

I've literally watched that situation.

20:44

hender them to some extent from really blowing up and

20:46

going to the next level. Mhmm. They try to do

20:48

everything but deal with that situation. They

20:50

try to act like

20:51

it don't exist It

20:53

try to act really bother them. It try to act like you

20:55

really don't hurt them. And I'm just like, yo, I've been with you.

20:57

My you know what I'm saying? Like, I

20:59

know it does. You know

21:01

what I'm saying? But you've avoided it. But

21:03

you

21:04

can't avoid what's is

21:07

unavoidable. Like, is your life? Is

21:09

what? It's what happened to you. It's your experience. And

21:11

I'm just trying to tell y'all, man, I'm not here

21:13

because I'm a great speaker, and it really

21:15

pissed me off some time. Oh, you gifted and

21:18

talented. Right.

21:19

You think I'm the only one with a

21:21

voice. You think I'm the only one with passion.

21:23

You think I'm the only one that God

21:25

has given this anointing. But I'm not

21:27

the only one. But I have

21:29

it because not just reading

21:31

the bible, but I really looked

21:33

in that mirror. I

21:35

got out of the window, some of y'all in the

21:37

window. looking at Airbus, compare

21:39

Airbus what they doing. I got in the

21:41

mirror and was like, e, this messed up,

21:43

this messed up, and and me say this, this

21:45

is my last piece. This is, look, you gotta figure it out

21:47

more like, I I use the electric shavers.

21:50

Right? So, you know, me, bro, I'll be waiting till the

21:52

last minute. So sometimes you

21:54

know, we'll get on the road and we'll do something. And I'll shave

21:56

in the car. I'm like, I'm good. So I'll,

21:58

you know, just I'll be feeling more

21:59

like, okay. I got this. I got that. Brown

22:02

Kimball,

22:02

how many times I shave without

22:04

the mirror. When I go into mirror, I see.

22:06

I see. Like, oh,

22:07

I missed that. Uh-huh. I missed that. Yeah. Let

22:09

me say this to you on H and B deep.

22:11

I have never missed a spot when I was in the mirror. Mhmm.

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25:12

spot when

25:12

I wasn't in the mirror. I've

25:14

never missed I've never walked out

25:17

the bathroom. would attach your hair. Somebody, you missed

25:19

the spot. I've never missed a spot in the in

25:21

the mirror. I've only missed a spot when I

25:23

wasn't in the mirror. I'm telling y'all get in the

25:25

mirror. I'm gonna show you how to get in the

25:27

mirror. I'm gonna show you

25:29

how how sometimes been in the

25:31

mirror hurt. Like, you

25:33

hurt looking at your your faith.

25:35

Like, how do I let this get like

25:37

this? Like but I'm a show you how to go

25:39

in there and shave and

25:41

come out -- Mhmm. -- and come out

25:42

and man make the rest of your life. I wish

25:44

I could have said, you owe you make the

25:46

rest of your life. They wouldn't promise to come and wouldn't

25:49

let me. But I wish I could do you

25:51

owe you make the rest of your life the

25:53

best of your life. You owe

25:55

you to make the rest of your life the bet okay.

25:57

One more time. you owe you to make the rest

25:59

of your life, the best of your life. And I'm just telling

26:01

you, I just went in the mirror and was

26:03

like, bro, I'm not gonna die

26:06

wishing and wanting and hoping, I'm

26:08

not gonna die, you know,

26:10

with stuff that I could have dealt with, that I

26:12

didn't with, I'm dealing with everything. And so

26:14

I just wanna say to some of y'all man.

26:16

Figure it. Figure it. Figure it out. Take

26:18

say, I'm only gonna give it three months. I'm gonna figure it out

26:20

six months. I'm gonna figure it out. the New Year, I'm

26:22

gonna figure it out. But figure it out. And

26:24

this is a book of how one man

26:26

with God and the help of a lot

26:28

of people figured it out. And now

26:30

I'm not living the dream. Y'all, I'm living beyond now

26:32

I'm living beyond the dream. Y'all, I'm just

26:34

being real. Like, I'm living beyond

26:37

the dream. This this stuff

26:39

that I have and I'm doing, I sit

26:41

back sometime like, wow, God. You entrusted

26:43

me to do this, and I got this.

26:45

So yeah, man. I just

26:47

Yeah.

26:47

I've I've I got some real heavy. I got we

26:49

were talking taxes the other day, and it

26:51

was, like, half a minute. You know what I'm saying?

26:53

Why we're talking taxes? Yeah. Talking in

26:56

the millions. And I'm like, well, I'm talking to

26:58

the millions with taxes. Mhmm. So, yeah,

27:00

I I just praise God for

27:02

for figuring out and we wanna help

27:04

just

27:04

saying a book about us, just trying to get bread. This

27:06

is a book about helping you figure

27:08

it out. I mean, I was I had

27:10

somewhere I wanted to go to. You started saying

27:12

taxes. now. But It's

27:14

it's real. No. It's

27:16

real. Yeah. Check out the heat on it. It's

27:18

real. Yeah. It's real.

27:21

No. So I wanna I wanna be

27:23

clear, you know, what he's

27:25

talking about is that mental freedom.

27:27

Right? And, like, you know, a

27:29

a lot of times, you put

27:31

we put that last. Right? Like, you you think

27:33

it's like, what came first to chicken of the egg? It's like,

27:35

oh, if I have money, I have mental

27:38

freedom. if if, you know, if I had money,

27:40

my marriage would be better than I would and

27:42

it's like, what you're talking about now is

27:44

starting with you. You know what I'm saying? Like, because of

27:46

who you are now, because you dealt with those

27:48

things, things flow to you that would not

27:50

have otherwise flown to you. You know what I mean?

27:52

And I think people missed that part.

27:55

It's like we're not telling you to work on you because we want you

27:57

to sit there and and and be

27:59

traumatized all day thinking about what went

28:02

wrong. we're trying to let you know that you free up

28:04

mentally. So talk about for real.

28:06

Obviously, there's a lot of heavy stuff in

28:08

the book. You mentioned the

28:10

relationship with your father And

28:12

I said this to this day. To

28:14

his day. To his day. To

28:18

his day. See? This

28:20

is date. I got it.

28:23

So I'm a be real just

28:25

from my perspective. you

28:27

know, e and my wife about the only ones

28:30

I know that fully, you know, got

28:32

the victory over you

28:34

know, they relationship with their father. I'm just being

28:36

real. Like, that them is the tool that,

28:39

like, I see them let it

28:41

go in terms of that burden that

28:43

was on them. Right? And I know obviously, you know, a ton of

28:45

people, you know, grew up without a father, and you could

28:47

see some of you.

28:49

But and you could but say that part.

28:51

Yeah. Yeah. You could you can see it in. Oh, you

28:53

can see it. Just tell my father's whatever you're Yeah. Yeah.

28:55

Whatever it is. No. No. No. You don't think nobody

28:57

can see it, but you can't see it. It

28:59

affects the people that closest

29:01

to. It affects the people you closest to, and

29:03

it affects what you're able to ultimately

29:06

attracting. You know what I mean? And so

29:08

I don't know how much of that way you

29:10

wanna break down. Obviously, the book talks about

29:13

it in-depth, but, you know, talk

29:15

about that mental freedom and at a

29:17

point where even though you had the

29:19

talent, you had the gift that

29:21

was in you, you didn't have that

29:23

mental clarity and mental freedom to be

29:25

able to do what you're doing

29:27

now. Yeah.

29:27

Yeah. And it's I don't mind me, you know, using

29:29

him as an example. But I

29:31

only wanna use TJ as an example

29:34

because this is Money Talk right quick. I wanna

29:36

make sure y'all understand this same person development. This

29:38

is Money Talk.

29:40

You you when you

29:41

when you speaking to a certain group

29:44

of people or a

29:45

certain organization. It's

29:47

like you can't talk to them

29:50

unless you are you are you are at least equal to them or

29:52

greater than them. It's not comparing yourself.

29:54

You understand what I'm saying? So for me,

29:56

I find it. I found it easy

29:58

to do corporate. when

30:00

I found my lane, and what

30:01

was my lane, personal development, like, really

30:04

growing. So I walk in the room with people

30:06

who might be you know,

30:08

making millions, millions,

30:10

billions. But it was easy for me

30:12

to stay on that stage and talk to them

30:14

because I had gotten a victory

30:16

in terms of you know, manhood.

30:18

You feel me like, money

30:20

wasn't my thing. It like, I have become a

30:22

man. I become a man. Spiritually, I

30:24

become a man in terms of responsibility. I'd never forget, man. It was

30:26

in front of my house. It was I was leaving

30:28

the front of my complex. B and

30:31

CJ were together, and this was

30:33

after one of the biggest events we've

30:35

ever done together, and I remember CJ

30:37

being, like, yo, Ibrahim. Like, bro, I

30:39

look up to you, bro. Like, spiritually, you're not

30:41

a level bro. Like, I'm not taking nothing

30:43

away from me. Like, you were a man, but

30:45

e, you ain't gonna never be able to

30:47

get to the next level if you can't deal with challenges.

30:50

He was like, bro,

30:50

I don't know what it is about you, but

30:52

anytime a a serious challenge

30:54

come, bro, it's just like like

30:57

you run.

30:57

Like, you take flight. It's like you just get

31:00

this spirit of anxiety and you

31:02

just clamor frees up. You like

31:04

paralyzing. Like, I don't know what it

31:06

is and I'm not gonna try to act like I know what it is, but I'm gonna tell

31:08

you this, who you say

31:09

you wanna be, Martin King, Malcolm King,

31:12

wherever it is, you say you

31:14

wanna do, You're not about to do that because all those

31:16

dudes dealt with serious challenges.

31:18

You feel me, and I

31:19

never forget that conversation. We see, like,

31:22

I didn't take it as, oh, you trying to dog me out.

31:24

You think you better than me because you whatever.

31:26

No. I took it as, like, yo,

31:29

e. this is an area of your life that you

31:31

gotta conquer. And I'm just trying to

31:33

tell y'all when I conquered that,

31:35

like y'all was

31:35

so easy to make money because

31:38

ninety percent of people don't wanna

31:40

deal with challenges. Mhmm. So the fact that I

31:42

can deal with them and not deal with them in a way

31:44

that's whatever, it it's like,

31:46

yo, I'm I'm not better than you, but I'm

31:48

above you. You know what I'm

31:50

saying? Like, like, I'm dealing with something that you're not

31:52

dealing with. So of course, you're gonna bring me in

31:54

a room and ask me to help you create some

31:56

whatever because whatever. So when I was talking to the

31:58

Rams, It was QDZI was

31:59

like, bro, you spoke to the

32:02

Rams. The Rams lost. I was like,

32:04

absolutely. That's why I went.

32:06

You filled me. And he was like, I don't I don't get it. I

32:08

said, well, first of all, last year they lost five games.

32:10

So, you know, I'm saying, like, you ain't gotta win all

32:12

your games, win a suitball. I said, but the

32:14

reason why I went was

32:16

to tell the Rams

32:18

success is

32:20

also one of your greatest weaknesses

32:23

because after you're successful, you

32:25

you feel me, like, you gonna put your guards down. Right?

32:27

And I and and and again, I I like,

32:29

don't like to share everything. I share. But

32:31

no other team wanna suit both, so I

32:33

guess it's not applicable to them.

32:35

But I literally showed them the clip

32:37

on three hundred. Wherein

32:39

three hundred, they won the war, and

32:41

then they chilled, and then my man came out of

32:43

nowhere a cup a man's off.

32:45

You feel me they

32:46

they had just had the biggest victory ever.

32:49

Right. They were you

32:52

know, everybody, they got people laying on the ground.

32:54

They like AI3 hundred. You

32:56

know what I'm saying? They celebrate. And

32:58

what was so funny was my man

33:00

told him, Don't bring your son. He too immature.

33:02

But he was like, oh, no.

33:03

My son know how to fight. He was like, oh,

33:05

yeah. He know how to fight, but I don't know if

33:07

he's mentally strong enough. I

33:09

know I I know physically he could do it, but

33:11

I know and sure enough. He's smiling and

33:14

they coming out of nowhere

33:16

and poof. cut my man Mhmm.

33:18

You feel me. And so for me,

33:20

man, III feel like I'm where I

33:22

am financially because people

33:24

are calling me

33:26

because I've gotten to a place that you haven't

33:29

gotten to. Yeah. Yeah. So I was talking to a young man

33:31

yesterday, bro. He was like, you know, marriage, you know,

33:33

going through. I said, bro. I'm you bro. We

33:35

gotta say a personality. said, do me a favor. Either

33:37

you're gonna go

33:37

all the way in with this thing or you're

33:40

not. I'm like, your brother. This ain't dad.

33:42

Brother, like, I know where you're from. You're from

33:44

Detroit. I know what you all. But

33:46

this marriage ain't bad. Like

33:48

marriage ain't sex. A marriage

33:50

ain't we go on to the movies. We go have a

33:52

good time. Now, bro, marriage is the development of

33:54

two human beings, bro. Like, just

33:56

say that, bro. Like, just stay

33:58

single and just mingle. You know what I'm

33:59

saying? And just mingle. Just say

34:02

it. Just stay single or just mingle. Just

34:04

stay single and mingle. What? You you talking

34:06

about being a husband? Then you talking about a

34:08

father? Yeah. You're talking about raising

34:10

some child? male,

34:12

female, chopped, bro. That's old enough.

34:14

So for T. J. you know,

34:16

T. J. had

34:16

been, you know, C. T. you said, bro, I would

34:18

III gave him on a buy So

34:20

they could hear from him. But he was like, yo, I was hurt. You know, we

34:22

travel they travel and

34:23

I got to stay here. CJ

34:26

traveling. I'm holding and CJ. We

34:28

play ball

34:30

together. You feel me and I used to tell TJ

34:32

all the time. Like, all of that is why you ain't on the

34:33

that's why you ain't on the next level. All of that, you

34:36

gotta get over that. So what I told

34:38

TJ was, Jobra,

34:40

you are you you are a jock like

34:42

God has blessed you to be

34:44

a natural born jock. You

34:47

know how many jocks in the world? He he birthed

34:49

you to do that. You've been doing push ups since

34:51

you were six. But T. J.

34:53

was like, nah, I wanna be a scholar. And

34:55

I'm like, man, y'all better hear what I'm saying. Yeah. Yeah. You

34:58

better grow up as a human.

35:00

You better stop looking out the window

35:02

when going Like

35:05

I told y'all, it's some stuff that, you know, everybody up here might do.

35:07

I'm not looking at what they do and

35:09

wanna do what they do.

35:12

I'm inspired by what they do and I understand it

35:14

as a human. I could do it. But I'm not trying

35:16

to do what nobody else is doing.

35:19

I just couldn't be good at doing what Marl

35:21

is doing, but I do understand,

35:23

oh, getting up in the morning and being in

35:25

the bathroom and taking care of yourself. Oh, I

35:28

get it. Makes sense. Alright. E. Whatever that whatever

35:30

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35:32

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37:37

I CJ made great decision.

37:38

I'm not no decision. Make it like that. But

37:41

I do understand that you gotta lane

37:44

that

37:44

he dominate he ain't playing in and so e, you gotta have

37:46

your lane if it's speaking. Carl gonna take

37:48

something to laugh and break it down. I'm

37:51

not necessarily a scholar. but

37:53

it's like e. Whatever you if you speak and you better

37:55

look at this crowd, you better break this crowd down

37:57

and understand and dissect this crowd so that

37:59

you could be able to and T. J.

38:02

was on trying to be a scholar, trying to hide from being a jock. And

38:04

I was just like, bro, I'm not I'm gonna be real with

38:06

you until you can grow and

38:08

develop and appreciate

38:10

your jock There's nothing

38:11

I can do for you. But the day T. J.

38:13

was like, Yo. I'm a job. I've

38:16

been doing push ups since I was sick. Like, I

38:18

understand how athletes think. I

38:20

understand how they watch. I know how they

38:22

dig. But as soon as he got it, I was

38:24

like, let's go. Minnesota Viking. He didn't

38:26

put up a pick the other day when they beat

38:28

Green Bay. He had his pick up with a

38:30

GM and a coach. Brah. But

38:32

I told J. J. we could've done that five years ago.

38:34

I've been doing NFL NBA. Mhmm.

38:36

But it wasn't until he grew

38:38

up internally. Yeah. in the

38:40

mirror and realize, you know, I gotta stop

38:42

comparing myself. Like, I gotta I

38:43

gotta I gotta be grateful for the

38:45

church opportunity and

38:48

not want to be on the road. And once he settled into, like,

38:50

the church is my thing, then God was like,

38:52

you know, what time for you now? Mhmm. To you

38:54

know what I'm saying? And so a lot of y'all

38:56

wanna make

38:58

money but

38:58

you were three and you're asking to go to institutions

39:01

that are fives. You wanna go to

39:03

sevens. You wanna go to ten. And it don't work like

39:05

that. And I'm just

39:08

being real. there is no NFL team. I'm go I did

39:10

chapel for the Rams other day. But I mean, my wife was like, how

39:12

did you do? I'm like, what? How

39:14

did I do?

39:15

I'm probably doing. I

39:17

don't even I can't even count how many

39:19

sermons I've done. You don't have to say, I'm wrong. I

39:21

don't know how many sermons I've done. Right. I can't just

39:23

They called me to hit my preaching for

39:26

a reasonable. I'm I'm I'm doing services. I was sixteen.

39:28

You you mean to tell me I'm a go in the room just

39:30

because they got a title. Right. Bro, I've been doing

39:32

this. I've been doing service

39:34

bro, I'm in the room. I was

39:36

doing them with nobody. We was in the

39:38

basement. We was in the backyard. I was

39:40

here for two years speaking to

39:42

nobody, bro. like, go back and look at some of them

39:45

service, bro. Those are service with nobody

39:47

in the room, bro. Like, you

39:49

you are watching me by myself with with with

39:51

nobody in the Joker hearing my own voice,

39:53

but I've been doing it for so long, you

39:55

know? And so you

39:57

know, when saw ATJ grow

39:59

up, then he

40:01

started growing

40:02

out. Yeah. You you bill me.

40:04

And so for a lot of you, you

40:06

think You

40:07

think money let me tell you something. Money is the

40:09

easiest thing of all things for us to get. It's

40:11

the easiest.

40:14

Integrity is brought up in some

40:16

of these podcasts and I let all

40:18

these dudes. I'm on a podcast,

40:20

bro. All of them was like, Yo,

40:22

e. Bump all the money stuff

40:24

like bro. you're a phenomenal human being, bro. Like

40:26

like a lot of us are in this

40:28

industry, but it ain't ain't nobody

40:30

in the industry

40:32

like you. Like, you are a

40:34

phenomenal person, a phenomenal

40:36

human. So, bro, I can

40:37

go anywhere. I'm I'm

40:39

I'm in Ohio state and his cats who

40:41

know our rock would state. And they're like,

40:43

E. D. You saved my life. And so I'm just trying to tell y'all when

40:45

you figure it out when

40:47

you figure you out, you've it

40:49

it unlocks everything.

40:51

it unlocks everything, but

40:52

you're trying to figure out money, you're trying to

40:54

figure out profession, you're trying to figure out and

40:56

there was a I don't remember it more,

40:59

but there was a

41:00

saying, you know, I dudes had these stories when they preached.

41:02

Might even been Joe O'Neill. And he

41:04

was like, a son came to his father

41:06

and was like, dad, he looked at the

41:09

world. The world so messed up, dad, how can we ever

41:11

fix it? You know, and his father was like, yo,

41:13

do me a favor. You got the you got

41:15

the puzzle on the

41:18

wrong side. flip it over. Mhmm. And then you'll see that

41:19

it's a man. Fix the man and then

41:21

you fix the world. Mhmm. You

41:23

can bill me He was like, son

41:25

in the world. It's a lot of little blue,

41:28

but it's gonna be hard to put the world

41:30

together, so it's not a lot of you know, say,

41:32

you try to put a world together. It's gonna be

41:34

tough, sir. But flipping around, you know what you look like.

41:36

Put you together, son. And

41:38

once you put you together, you flip

41:40

that joke over the world's gonna

41:42

be together. And so I'm just saying,

41:44

like, a lot of y'all spending a lot of

41:46

time on profession, on money, on

41:48

houses, on clothes, on stuff. But may

41:50

I be real with you? I'm going

41:51

to restaurants and I'm eating for free.

41:53

I'm going

41:54

in the stores and they giving me clothes.

41:56

I'm wearing shoes and they send them in

41:58

shoes. When you fix you, you fix everything else. When

41:59

you try to fix everything else, you

42:02

may not necessarily fix you while

42:04

you try to fix everything else. But I

42:06

guarantee you

42:08

once you get you right, you owe you, once you get you

42:10

straight, bro, the world the

42:12

the world is going to be yours

42:15

because most people wanna do the easy work, which is

42:17

make the money or whatever. They don't wanna do the hard work. And I gotta

42:19

say this. If you look at our

42:21

life, there's

42:22

a lot of people making money,

42:24

but

42:26

I'm just gonna say it's a lot of people

42:28

making money y'all, but it's a lot that

42:30

comes with it

42:31

when you got money, but you but

42:33

you but your money you

42:35

got more money the bank than you are than you are a

42:38

human being. It's a lot that

42:39

come with that. And I

42:41

don't wanna, like, jinx nobody,

42:43

but it's just stuff that we don't have to deal with because we're

42:45

not just considered as money makers,

42:47

we're considered as men. and

42:49

there's a certain level of respect that other man have for

42:52

it and there's a way we move through the

42:54

earth that I don't I

42:55

don't have to have certain

42:58

vehicle and I still get that same type

43:00

of. I don't gotta show you no house

43:02

and I still get the same. You feel me

43:04

it's just a

43:06

level you know, I've I've had some of the top celebrities

43:08

in the world men call my

43:10

phone, and I never put it up online

43:12

so you could hear the conversation. Mhmm. I don't

43:14

record it. but it's some

43:16

men who call me and say, yo, e. We

43:18

don't even listen. We don't listen to and

43:20

we don't but I fool with you. I'm talking about

43:22

men. who are older than me, who say, yo, bro, we fool with you, E.

43:24

So yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You owe it to

43:26

you to figure it out. So let me say

43:29

this. and I don't

43:31

think I've ever really said it like this before, but obviously, you know,

43:33

my role on the squad is,

43:35

you know, first of all, he's

43:37

right hand and you know, help

43:39

him get from whatever level he was at. We're not

43:41

gonna throw numbers out there. No. We're

43:44

not. Oh, no. It's not. No. We're not gonna throw

43:46

numbers. We don't sell it. If she if

43:48

she book But

43:57

obviously, now there's you know, we have a track record of

43:59

helping people out.

43:59

And people always come to me and they're like, oh, see.

44:02

Like, what's

44:04

the difference?

44:05

And I so I've

44:07

I've said it before, like, I could train you

44:09

on a lot of things, but I can't

44:11

always train the effect. Right.

44:14

Right. Like, I told Mark that. And Mark was, like,

44:16

yeah. Why you think, you know,

44:17

you wanted me to come in and do this? And, like,

44:19

I never was in person to them. I never spoke.

44:21

I never did. I was, like, You know, one, because

44:23

you got phenomenal you to people, but two, you're gonna blow up because you got the

44:25

e factor. And so and

44:28

then people ask me, like, what is the

44:30

e factor? And

44:32

I'm like, I've kinda struggled over the years to,

44:34

like, say what that is. Like, that's my number one

44:36

gift being able to sit, like, in Toby. And

44:38

I'm saying, like, Toby, who, again,

44:41

No money, no audience,

44:44

no crowd, never rat before. Yeah.

44:46

But just being around

44:47

a foot, thirty

44:49

minutes, I was like,

44:50

oh, this kid got the it factor.

44:53

Yeah. And what

44:54

the it factor

44:56

the is is self understanding and

44:59

understanding who you are as a

45:01

person and being okay with that. That's all it

45:03

is. Like, that that's all the

45:05

if factor is. just being real, like I never heard you breaking down like that. This

45:07

is the first time. I've never heard you because I've Yeah. I've been asked you that for

45:10

No. No. No. That's what I'm saying. As he's sitting here

45:12

talking, this is important. I'm like, hang.

45:14

I'm like, that's it

45:16

right there. Like, when you see

45:18

somebody who I

45:18

don't they ain't even I'm talking about,

45:20

they ain't gotta be six five, they ain't gotta

45:22

be in shape like more. They don't have when

45:24

you see somebody who has that it factor is most likely because

45:27

they are fully comfortable with who they

45:29

are. Mhmm. That that mean, look,

45:31

I ain't say perfect.

45:34

I

45:34

say you don't want better health and more money and a better marriage

45:36

and not like that, but when you see people

45:38

who are comfortable and who

45:41

they are, and they're comfortable in what they've built and

45:43

what they've accomplished, that's what attracts us

45:45

to

45:45

people. So here's the

45:47

thing. So e

45:50

attracts people because they look at E and C that he really got the victory

45:52

over certain things. Right. Like, you you were

45:54

homeless and and you you talk

45:56

about it, but you don't talk about

45:57

it in a way that sounds like

45:59

you

45:59

still hurt. Mhmm. So what you're looking at and what the

46:02

attraction is the e is really

46:04

not his speaking is

46:06

his health.

46:08

Yeah.

46:08

Does that make sense? Mhmm. And so what happens

46:10

is and I'm telling you

46:12

it's dangerous, bro. A

46:14

lot of you out there, you're not healthy.

46:17

And so what

46:17

you see, you let somebody else

46:19

who's not healthy but got money.

46:22

Right. Right. That's

46:23

who you go.

46:24

you go influence influence. So

46:25

I'm saying,

46:28

imagine, I'm not healthy -- Mhmm.

46:29

-- and I'm trying to get healthy by

46:31

following somebody who not healthy -- Mhmm. --

46:33

because the illusion of they have

46:35

money. Notice how they say, bro, Notice how they say I

46:37

had nothing to do with more money. I know a lot

46:39

of super lame wealthy people. Yeah.

46:42

I promise you. and some of y'all will

46:44

follow them. Mhmm. Mhmm. Because you think because they have you've decided

46:46

that that's your precursor -- Money

46:48

is due to health. -- and it's not.

46:52

It's really

46:53

not like like historically we've seen it as I'm just

46:55

being real. I know people with a hundred million dollars

46:57

who I would never sit down

47:00

and like, hang out. Wow. And not not that they're a bad person. I could just

47:02

tell, you're not healthy and you're not really

47:04

on what I'm on. Yeah. And so we've

47:06

gotten comfortable. That's why we talked

47:08

about it before. Well, you you know, people like,

47:10

when

47:11

I say, don't don't try to

47:13

come sit at our table. get

47:15

yourself healthy first, create your own

47:17

table, and then if our tables

47:19

collide, more, like, there is a reason,

47:21

more is with

47:23

us now. It's not because more came in and have how

47:25

many people have had money that came around

47:27

us. Mhmm. Bert, I'm talking about millions, right,

47:29

to leverage the money. I'm say I'm Brad, I'm

47:31

just talking about. I'm talking about. More

47:34

money than more. I'm talking about these dudes is like

47:36

-- Mhmm. -- a hundred two hundred,

47:38

three hundred million. They have wanted to be

47:40

in the circle, but it's like, I can

47:42

see what you own. And

47:44

so,

47:44

like, some kind

47:45

of way, one, you have to stop.

47:47

Right? Like, you gotta stop. Like, you said

47:49

it looking through the wind up burr.

47:51

You some of y'all got your own kids.

47:54

Mhmm. You got your own

47:56

kids. You're looking at another

47:58

man and going, oh, I wish I

48:00

Mhmm. Oh, he's got this, and I and

48:02

your own kid's looking at you, like,

48:04

so when you become enough to yourself --

48:06

Yeah. -- like, when you really go, like, yo, I'm

48:08

good. Like, again, I wanna get better

48:10

but I'm not trying to be somebody And think one thing that

48:12

we've always understood, man. Like, I'm not

48:14

trying to be anybody else. Like

48:18

like, I

48:18

could learn for more without try being like, man, I wish I could be more. And some of

48:21

you are looking at people who are unhealthy and then

48:23

you want it's like this vicious circle

48:25

of, you're not

48:27

healthy. then you're trying

48:29

to learn and glean and from other people who are not healthy. Mhmm.

48:31

But they tricking you into thinking

48:33

they healthy because, again, you

48:35

see money as health. So then

48:37

that's the that should be the new focus as

48:40

health. Yeah. It it really

48:40

is what you're saying. That's what you're saying.

48:43

Oh, that's so helpful. That's

48:45

so helpful. physical -- All of it. -- all of

48:47

it. Yeah. Now I will start working

48:49

real. I'm talking about, to be honest

48:51

with you, I'm talking about Mitchell here too right now. Yeah. Right right now,

48:53

they're like, I'm cool with and I'm cool with physical help. I

48:55

think you'll if you're physical in him, right, then you

48:57

have Mitchell kinda get me No. No. No. No. No. I'm saying I'll

49:00

take this off

49:02

the next I'm just saying I know some people

49:04

who are obese. You know? No. No. No. I'm just saying I know some people who

49:06

are obese. Oh, yeah. No. No. No. No. have

49:08

a very healthy. Biggie have

49:10

to get No question. You say

49:12

him so. That's what I'm saying. So I'm not I'm not telling

49:14

you that you don't need to strive for more, but

49:16

I'm saying Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I know some

49:18

big goals. and they didn't they didn't do. Yeah. And I'm talking about people wanna around

49:20

them. The ladies wanna be around like,

49:22

coming up. It counts. Oh my goodness. Biggie said

49:24

it. Burrah. He's he talked about himself.

49:28

not being a model. Black and ugliest ever. However -- Right.

49:30

-- you know what I'm just saying. But he

49:32

said it, though, like, I know I'm not

49:35

what the world would say, you

49:37

know, the model type of male

49:39

-- Yeah. -- but I am. You feel I'm saying And

49:42

so confidence that he had him

49:44

in so know who he was -- Yeah. -- had dual -- Yeah. --

49:46

and young wanted to be around. Like,

49:48

yo, this like, whatever the

49:50

humor he

49:52

had the self awareness. He he said it black and ugly as

49:54

though. Yeah. I wouldn't say it. I'm just telling you.

49:56

He said he but he I'm not unaware that

49:58

I'm unattractive. Yep. He

49:59

said it. Yeah. But here's

50:02

here and so I

50:02

I love it. See. So health, mental, emotional

50:04

health is what you should

50:07

be

50:07

striving for. and just

50:09

understand what she said.

50:11

You're striving for money because you believe

50:13

that is going to give you that. It's

50:15

a substitute. Right. And and it's a substitute. And

50:17

we've seen throughout history. It is we have

50:19

evidence that this is what I told you all the time. If

50:22

money was that deep, I'd take you to a

50:24

bank myself. We robbed that

50:26

choker and

50:28

going and and and we go and rub in it. But but money has its purpose,

50:30

but it's not on that. So I like what she said

50:32

about health because here's what I was here

50:34

here's what blew my mind. I

50:37

was

50:37

talking to somebody and I was like,

50:39

yo, how are you ashamed of

50:41

that? But it

50:43

it blows my

50:46

mind that I

50:46

I know that dudes that went to prison for doing some

50:48

stuff, bro,

50:48

they come out of prison and, like, they didn't

50:51

turn it into a nonprofit. They

50:53

save in kids lives. They like your

50:56

brother. Worst thing I've ever did was sell

50:58

dope. Now I'm about to change the

51:00

world. The other people come out

51:02

and hide. because they like

51:04

people going to know that I so don't. Mhmm. You

51:06

feel me. And and and here's how okay.

51:08

Good. Here's that one of how

51:10

I knew This is how I

51:12

knew I was on the path to

51:14

health because I

51:14

no longer cared about what other

51:16

people thought about my -- Yeah. -- like,

51:19

I no longer cared that you are a

51:21

sinner and you tripping on my brand to

51:23

sin. Mhmm. Like, I I got like, I never

51:25

forget today. I was like, yo,

51:28

everybody did. Like, everybody got something that -- Yeah. -- like,

51:30

everybody ain't strong in every single thing.

51:32

Mhmm. There are things that people are strong in

51:34

and stuff

51:36

that's not And I I remember it's like yo, e. You didn't ask to be

51:38

born. You didn't ask not to have your

51:39

daddy in

51:40

your life. Mhmm. There are consequences. I was literally

51:42

I was I was literally with a

51:44

kid the other day. Brah.

51:47

Finished college, smartest all get out.

51:49

This kid is smart. Brah.

51:50

He was like, e man,

51:52

I'm struggling to trans. I said, Brah.

51:56

your mom died unexpectedly when you was eight.

51:58

Well, you can't act like

52:00

that trauma dealers. drugs. Mhmm.

52:02

And then I'm telling you I

52:05

know you father is an alpha

52:07

male. So I'm already known when your

52:09

mom passed,

52:09

what your dad was on.

52:12

But he

52:14

was on. We gotta be strong y'all. We gotta get through this. And

52:16

you and he was darn skippy right.

52:18

Uh-huh. But you lost

52:20

the nerd

52:20

sure -- Mhmm. -- that

52:22

was supposed to be there for you. Mhmm. But

52:24

you was eight years old.

52:28

Mhmm. your mom died unexpectedly.

52:30

There's no way possible. You're not gonna be affected

52:32

by it. But you're letting society

52:36

tell you that you

52:38

shouldn't feel some type bra, you should feel

52:40

some type of way, and it could take

52:42

four years three. I don't know. You

52:44

ate. It could take forever. And I remember getting

52:46

to the point where it's like, first of

52:48

all, bro,

52:48

y'all judging me for being whatever. Like, yo,

52:50

I ain't here as part you had.

52:52

Brah,

52:53

you sitting here, like, oh, you ain't what?

52:56

Brady had a start you had. Like, I

52:58

literally I bro, I

53:00

literally had a mother who was

53:01

in high school

53:04

scared because she found out she

53:05

was pregnant. Mhmm. Knowing that she

53:07

bought to get kicked out

53:09

the crib, bro. Like,

53:10

my mom knew. Grandma was like, you're not bringing

53:12

another child in unless you get on welfare. My mom

53:14

was like, I'm not getting on welfare. My mom was like

53:16

my grandma was like, then you gotta go. Brah,

53:19

I came into the world with a high she

53:22

was in high school

53:23

by herself, grandma,

53:26

like, out of here, My grandfather

53:28

wasn't her life strong. At that point

53:30

like that, my father decided that

53:32

he wasn't gonna be with her. Then my

53:34

mom dealing with the fact that not only are

53:36

you not with me, but you

53:38

win you win other people. So

53:40

not her self esteem is

53:42

not. I'm thinking, you really love

53:44

me. You won't really love me like that.

53:46

You win. Brah, I'm com I'm being raised by a

53:48

child. You filled me and I

53:50

remember the day where I realized I

53:52

Yo E. Brah, you

53:54

you not no no district's bank,

53:56

but you ain't plan for Tampa Bay.

53:58

You

53:59

fill

53:59

me, like, You ain't got Brady and you ain't got brown

54:02

and you ain't got Evans and you ain't

54:04

got, like, EII

54:06

remember the day I got free

54:08

y'all is the day I got out of the

54:10

window. Mhmm. The window was killing

54:12

me. The window was I'm

54:15

looking at this person. And I'm like, he's

54:17

so super smart. And it's like no day. I'm not taking nothing

54:19

to wait. He was smart. And she

54:21

was smart. But you also had a daddy

54:23

that went to college. And

54:25

you also had a daddy who was a lawyer. And

54:27

your daddy was a doctor, and your

54:30

mama was a doctor. So I'm not saying

54:32

that you had, like,

54:34

some advantage. but I'm telling you my mom was seventeen in high school

54:36

pregnant, scared, didn't know what she was supposed.

54:38

So the day I started winning was the

54:40

day I got out of the mirror got

54:42

out of the window, got in the mirror. In the

54:44

day, I stopped worrying about what other people

54:46

thought. And I started saying to myself,

54:49

like, Let's

54:50

let's figure out what let's figure out And it's so crazy

54:52

that when you do that and then things come

54:54

to you. But it's weird because it was like, I was explaining

54:56

my son. Right? We're talking you know, he's

54:59

in grade

54:59

school. So he's talking about leadership and, you know, he's doing

55:01

a phenomenal job as a leader. And I it

55:04

was real, like, it was on the baseball field or

55:06

something. I'm, like, his

55:07

teammates, like, they're making good plays. And I'm

55:09

like, nobody's saying then. You know what I'm saying?

55:11

I'm like, yo, tell your boy, like, good job. You know what

55:13

I'm saying? It's just quiet out here. Like, they making plays and

55:15

they, you know, they young. I'm like, he like that.

55:17

What you want me to do? That's the coach's job. And I was like, I know

55:19

it's not. But it's funny because we were just talking about leadership

55:21

in general, and I was just

55:24

like, he was asking me like, alright. Cool. What does leadership look

55:26

like? And, you know, being somebody who, you know, people

55:28

wanna file. And I was like, oh, it's really crazy because I'm

55:30

describing it to him and I'm like, like,

55:33

people, like,

55:34

wanna be like e and look at e and go,

55:36

oh, I wanna do everything he's doing,

55:38

but then you're not taking any action

55:41

on what he's doing, you're following his action

55:43

instead of taking you know what I'm saying? I'm

55:45

like, so, like, everybody wants to be around

55:47

Duke because

55:48

Duke says, He's the

55:49

leader. I wanna do this game. He's

55:51

just taking the lead. Like, oh, we're going to

55:53

play kickball. He's just saying, because that's what he wanna

55:56

do. Yeah. So he's

55:57

doing what he wanna do or she's doing what she

55:59

wants

55:59

to do so that everybody else wanna

56:02

follow them instead of being like, how long? What

56:04

if I just start? doing what

56:05

I want I wanna do. You see what I'm saying?

56:07

Like, that's the crazy part and we do that

56:09

as adults. I see it. Don't do it.

56:11

It's like, okay. man, look at Moore.

56:13

Mhmm. Like like everything that Moore is in the

56:16

mooves that he makes is the

56:18

reason that you

56:20

follow Moore. And the reason you love malt and you wanna be like malt, but instead of being

56:22

like malt, just start making those decisions for

56:24

yourself. What what I'm

56:26

laughing at it sees, I

56:26

think this is the first time that we've

56:30

gotten on the ability to self assess. Mhmm. Mhmm.

56:32

But we finally Oh, we talked about it. Yeah. But

56:34

we didn't never I'm I'm I'm people

56:36

are listening. This ain't never going away.

56:39

Well, we've done the same years now. It's never go I'm talking about

56:41

the conference tomorrow. Super power. But you

56:44

but you get what I'm saying, though, like, now we're

56:46

not talk we're talking about the reason

56:48

why you're following somebody is because they have found they're like, they have

56:50

assessed themselves. They don't understand it.

56:52

They found their smart power.

56:55

They found a superpower. Now you go, oh, okay. Cool. But

56:57

that may not be your superpower. power. So

56:59

e I'm I'm I'm a preach for a

57:01

second. Forgive me I literally

57:04

was you you talked about the children of Israel

57:06

at the beginning, and I remember listening to the

57:08

story as a kid. They talked about how

57:10

at one point in time they did dumb stuff as always. And

57:12

now there's a plague of snakes all

57:14

around. You what you just said,

57:15

like the same thing that got

57:17

you in problems.

57:19

Man, What God told Moses to do

57:21

is take a snake and put it up

57:24

on a cross and told

57:26

them look

57:27

up and live.

57:29

look up

57:29

and live. And I'm sitting here. So

57:31

the same thing that was killing you.

57:34

Same. Now you gotta look at

57:36

for life. and

57:37

the people that looked up more lived.

57:39

The people

57:39

that didn't look up died.

57:41

Mhmm. You know, I'm

57:42

just like, yo, this is and I'm understanding

57:44

that bible story context on the holy

57:47

crap. The very same thing that was just killing you,

57:49

the same thing you went to prison for, the

57:51

same disease you had, whatever it was,

57:53

is the same thing

57:55

that's up and live. Like,

57:56

that's where you actually go find your life. Why?

57:58

because it's your story. It's

57:59

the thing that's happening to you. It's the thing that you

58:02

have the unique

58:04

experience with that now you can share with other people that they don't have

58:06

like, now they got some, oh, I

58:07

can see, oh, there's a way to get through. I

58:10

never saw that before.

58:12

Just look and live. Like, yo, that

58:14

just blew my mind. Like, I'm being being real. I never

58:16

thought about it like that. It's the same. He could've

58:18

put a rabbit on the dog on

58:20

cross. He could've put something else up there. He

58:22

could've put Christmas decorations up there. It's the same thing that was killing you that

58:24

he put up there. But the only reason it was

58:26

killing you is because you didn't wanna address it.

58:28

Mhmm. you

58:30

feel that's why I was killing you because you didn't wanna address it. Once you addressed it, it

58:32

wasn't killing you no more. So so once

58:35

you go, I don't wanna deal with

58:37

it. Okay. Of course,

58:39

you

58:39

feel whatever you feel about it, and you're worried

58:41

about what people think. But

58:42

once you say, I'm going to take

58:45

control -- Yeah. -- that's all you owe

58:47

you is. I'm taking control. Once you take

58:49

control, the situation is no longer the same. Why? Because

58:51

you're taking control. And when you take

58:53

control, you no longer need them

58:55

to take control. So you no

58:57

longer need to worry about what somebody think about you or

58:59

what somebody says about you because you

59:02

take control. So I'm on social media. I'm watching what's

59:04

happening on social media. one person to do

59:06

something nearby doing it. I'm not sit

59:07

look, I talk look, we said this the other day.

59:09

I let's do

59:11

me. You

59:12

you you either follow trans or you

59:14

said trans. one other. So when

59:17

I'm watching social media, I

59:19

don't

59:19

necessarily feel like I got to show

59:21

you what me and

59:23

my wife eaten. if

59:24

I don't wanna show you what my you know what I'm saying? But social media

59:26

is saying, in order to be successful,

59:28

you gotta show

59:29

people the

59:32

backstory. Like, they need to see the behind the scenes. Yeah. Okay.

59:34

If you believe they need

59:35

to see the behind the scenes, then they need

59:37

to that's what

59:40

you believe. you believe I'm not gonna be successful unless I

59:42

show these people what's happening in

59:44

my personal life. If you

59:46

believe that, then you you

59:48

absolutely right. you better show

59:49

him, I don't believe that.

59:52

Mhmm. I believe my message is

59:54

strong enough. I don't believe

59:55

that I need to put on

59:57

a Louis outfit and point in

59:59

the camera, and you take a still shot

1:00:02

of me. And that would look sweet.

1:00:04

No. That would look

1:00:06

sweet. You don't say

1:00:08

that. You will a look and You owe

1:00:10

you a luio. You owe look. And again, if I mad at Louis, absolutely not, I'm just

1:00:12

saying, I don't believe

1:00:14

I need the Gucci, Louis,

1:00:17

I don't believe I need to wear that and put that on for me to get the

1:00:20

NFL to call me. As a matter of

1:00:22

fact, I listen to me. I don't know if y'all

1:00:24

heard it. but coach

1:00:26

McVey -- Mhmm. -- you get you heard what he my man

1:00:28

was like, we only had three speakers coming here.

1:00:30

Mhmm. We only had three speakers

1:00:32

coming his Joker. you feel me and bro

1:00:34

was crazy when I went to worship, like when I went to worship, you'd be shocked the

1:00:36

players that were shown up to worship is

1:00:40

not forced. you'd be shocked that some of the dudes at the top

1:00:42

in the world was at

1:00:44

worship. Mhmm. You you'd

1:00:46

be shocked. So so

1:00:48

so then if I get to come and

1:00:50

I get to talk about

1:00:52

God, bro, you think you think you

1:00:54

think a dude in the inner belt

1:00:56

is making hundreds of million dollars is about to look up

1:00:58

to me because I got on Louie. You're

1:01:00

thinking about to look up to me because III

1:01:02

got on a go chain. He got a go

1:01:06

chain. but

1:01:06

you think of a of a football player is twenty six years old

1:01:08

and he just had his

1:01:10

first child and he noted I

1:01:12

got two

1:01:12

kids and he see how the Lord has

1:01:16

blessed me. and he hear me talking about God. Like, I'm just

1:01:18

trying to get you to understand something.

1:01:20

All of Louie, the Gucci, the

1:01:22

stuff. He got all

1:01:24

of that. So

1:01:24

by me being spiritual and me having to

1:01:26

walk with

1:01:27

God and me growing up

1:01:29

as a man, that's not

1:01:31

something necessarily he could go to Louis and buy. He

1:01:33

can't go to Gucci and buy that. So he like

1:01:36

yo e. Teach me bro.

1:01:38

Like yo, how did you get close

1:01:40

to guy? Why was you getting up at three o'clock in the morning? How do you have so

1:01:42

much spiritual confidence? Like, where did you

1:01:44

get this from? And so I'm trying to

1:01:46

tell y'all tell ya that

1:01:48

you got a lot of y'all are worshiping the low hanging fruit.

1:01:50

And here's the danger in it. It

1:01:52

is going Cheetos

1:01:54

will fill you

1:01:56

up. They will.

1:01:57

You eat enough Cheetos, I can drink enough pot. It'll fill you up.

1:01:59

Don't get it twisted.

1:02:00

Mhmm. But I promise

1:02:02

you is not any

1:02:04

sussed substance in that

1:02:06

foolishness. It's not.

1:02:07

And so you all this money and this

1:02:10

stuff, I promise you if

1:02:12

if if you make that your God,

1:02:15

It's

1:02:15

gonna be a long road. But if you make

1:02:17

God's your God, Topes

1:02:18

said it. Topes said, something about in

1:02:20

the last song, get the bag.

1:02:22

Right? But he said, get to

1:02:25

bag, but don't think that this money is going to

1:02:27

get you to

1:02:27

heaven. Don't think this money

1:02:29

is

1:02:29

gonna get you spiritual. Don't think

1:02:32

this money is gonna get you

1:02:34

close to God. He said, get the

1:02:36

bag. But I love what Top said.

1:02:38

Top said, get the bag. Fats said, get

1:02:40

the bag and

1:02:42

go hide. They might

1:02:42

have missed that. Top said, go get the

1:02:45

bag. You know, they went out the way.

1:02:47

Like, don't like, don't get

1:02:49

the bag and then You

1:02:52

know, everybody, look at me. I got the

1:02:54

bag. Tom said, get the bag

1:02:56

and get out the way and for

1:02:57

what? Get the bag for

1:03:00

your family. get the bag for the mission. Get the bag to take

1:03:02

care

1:03:02

of your get the bag and get out. And so I'm

1:03:04

just saying, man, like, for real, we gotta get to

1:03:08

the point. She said it, man. So so with so

1:03:10

much clarity, health is

1:03:11

the

1:03:12

new money. Health is the new

1:03:14

currency. emotional and It'll

1:03:16

bring you everything you want. It'll bring you No. I'm just saying

1:03:18

I'm like, like, yo, you like, when you meet

1:03:20

some like, and it's so crazy, man, don't ever

1:03:23

like, a lot of times, don't meet

1:03:25

your heroes. because, man, I talked to,

1:03:26

like, a I was thinking it told me

1:03:28

since you said that, but, like, I mean, he met with

1:03:30

somebody, and he called me,

1:03:31

like, the August crazy. Like, I

1:03:34

thought this person had it going

1:03:36

on. Like, I'm so I've been watching this person

1:03:38

make millions and millions of dollars

1:03:40

for years. He's like, bro, it's hallow. There's nothing in there. He was like, oh,

1:03:42

there's nothing in there. He's like, I'm not even not

1:03:44

even in a he's you know, matter of fact, he called me. He

1:03:46

was like, yo, I think he need to talk to my

1:03:48

man. Like,

1:03:50

It's like that. He was just like, bro, he was like, I was un

1:03:52

he was uncomfortable because the person wasn't healthy

1:03:54

and he didn't know it. Because again, from

1:03:56

the outside looking in Man, you look

1:03:59

man, I swear you are. Because Right.

1:04:01

As many times we try to say, you

1:04:03

watching people on Instagram, you

1:04:05

watching, you know, baby girl who looked like she

1:04:07

got it going on, my man who looked like, and it's like, bro, it it's

1:04:10

nothing they are

1:04:12

purposely trying to lead you somewhere, and they're

1:04:14

not healthy.

1:04:16

And now you didn't got there. You both end up unhealthy, and it's yo, fine.

1:04:18

I'm gleaning from the people who are

1:04:20

healthy. Again, like we talked about with

1:04:23

the gray school example. find

1:04:25

out what Marla is doing. Yes. Learn what

1:04:27

he is doing. Study under their

1:04:29

example, but not so that you can become

1:04:31

them so that can apply it to your life. What does that look like

1:04:33

for your own life? You know what? You know why

1:04:35

I'm all got the impact because guess what?

1:04:38

Most of y'all y'all come on, I'm gonna just

1:04:40

be real. Most of y'all come

1:04:42

around, eat, and you'll be trying to get it back three o'clock in

1:04:44

the morning.

1:04:44

Right? Mom was like, I don't get

1:04:46

up better. I'll review No. I'm just

1:04:48

saying. No. Listen. Let's be up this one.

1:04:51

No. No. No. Listen to what I'm

1:04:53

trying to say. We're white people as

1:04:55

much reverence and love as Paul

1:04:57

got for e. When he came in

1:04:59

this circle, at no point

1:05:00

was eat eat

1:05:01

a mar like, hey, eat get a bad

1:05:03

three. You think I should get a bad three? Mom, like,

1:05:05

look, I'm a grown man and I love eat. So,

1:05:07

like, I'm not somebody head off

1:05:10

to eat. But me and my wife be up till

1:05:12

one o'clock in the morning watching movies. That's what

1:05:14

we do. I'll be up at six thirty seven

1:05:16

or five thirty whatever the time my

1:05:18

workout is. and I get up. When I get and I'm out us, I trying do

1:05:20

no podcast that are Right. Right. Right.

1:05:22

So again,

1:05:24

nothing disrespectful. That's

1:05:26

his life. Yeah. And most of you, you're like, oh, he could have been three. I gotta get

1:05:28

him three. Yeah. No. What's the principle? His

1:05:31

principle is I get right

1:05:33

with God first. Mhmm. And then I do

1:05:35

my thing so that I can be in alignment.

1:05:37

So more, I'm sure, because he'd been listening to e for

1:05:39

a long time. He said, oh, okay. I'm going to

1:05:42

apply that. here's what my three looks like. What's your

1:05:44

three AM? My three. No. I'm saying, what's your

1:05:46

three AM? Like, you have to have your

1:05:48

own routine.

1:05:50

So don't do it. I love it. Eat. How many hours do you get to sleep? You

1:05:52

might need more sleep then. Wait. Well, a

1:05:54

hundred percent. Yeah. I need more sleep

1:05:57

to eat. where if I'll seven hours, I'm like, yo, I'm not

1:05:59

feeling a function at a high level all day. Now

1:06:01

if I get six and

1:06:02

a half, I can

1:06:03

go all day only. No. Not only. None.

1:06:05

I'm going a hundred miles an hour.

1:06:08

We're up early four o'clock today.

1:06:10

I'm not gonna be at a hundred.

1:06:12

Come three, four o'clock this

1:06:13

afternoon. Get home. The kids ready to play.

1:06:15

I'm not gonna just be bouncing around,

1:06:17

but I'm saying, so you can't look at

1:06:18

ego, I'm just gonna do what he

1:06:20

does

1:06:20

and hope I become him. the

1:06:24

principles, the the lessons

1:06:26

and embody that spirit and say,

1:06:28

okay, I get why he does that

1:06:30

for him. That's what he

1:06:32

needs, what do I need for myself, and

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then when you become that, then everybody else start

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looking at you like, oh,

1:06:37

what you're doing? What's going on, S2S fam?

1:06:39

Listen, y'all, we got caught up. I'm talking about bad on

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this episode. Like, we literally talk for another

1:06:44

hour after

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this. and the guy decided, man, like, yo, this is a lot of content. Let's just kinda

1:06:48

split this into two episodes. So we got the

1:06:50

rest of it for you next week, man. We continue to

1:06:52

unpack this topic because again, this one

1:06:56

was heavy. there are a lot of people mistakes not just

1:06:58

healthy, man, and we wanna make sure that,

1:07:00

like I told you guys before, this podcast

1:07:02

is about

1:07:04

transformation. You wanna bring transformation and not just information.

1:07:06

So what action steps do you

1:07:08

take from the information that you heard today to

1:07:10

get yourself healthier? None of us

1:07:13

is perfect. Right? You get all of us to a

1:07:15

healthier statement. So that said, we are out of here,

1:07:17

man. I will see you

1:07:19

guys next week. want

1:07:21

you to focus on here right

1:07:22

now. Don't you worry about when you get

1:07:24

home? You make that you concentrate on

1:07:27

this opportunity. You don't worry

1:07:29

about tomorrow. You can't

1:07:31

trade on this opportunity with all your

1:07:34

might, with all your soul,

1:07:36

with all of you.

1:07:37

Thank you so

1:07:39

much for with us as always. Right? We don't take

1:07:41

it lightly, guys. And we hope that we've provided

1:07:43

transformation and not just information. We want you

1:07:45

to become the best version of

1:07:48

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