0:00

Yo, what's up? What's up? What's

0:02

up? It's your boy

0:04

E.T. Hey, this is

0:06

the Secret to Success podcast. This

0:09

episode is a continuation of episode

0:12

418, the

0:14

exit row. Principal.

0:18

Principal. Then Jesus comes and

0:20

says, I don't feel like

0:24

Don on the cross. Mm-hmm. I'm just

0:26

saying. Yeah, he just said, I don't

0:28

feel like Don on the cross. Three

0:31

times he went back like Father.

0:34

I ain't feeling this. I'm

0:36

not feeling this. I know you got. There's got to be something else you

0:38

could do. There's another way we could do it. There's got to be. And

0:40

it is, but... Principal.

0:43

Like, even Yahweh. Even

0:47

Yahweh is principle-driven

0:50

to the point that he like, yo, I know you don't want to do

0:52

this. You and your feelings.

0:55

But after you finish, you know, telling me how

0:58

you feeling about it. Yeah. Let's get to work.

1:00

We got to... You got to down the cross.

1:02

Or nothing that you've done works.

1:08

You ready? All right.

1:23

The thing that pisses me off most, whatever

1:26

you think you love about me, I

1:28

want to be around more. I want to be around you. I

1:30

want to be around Carl. Cool. We

1:32

trying to tell you how you didn't got

1:35

to worry about being around me. You can

1:37

become that person. And consistency is that. People

1:40

want to be around me because you know what you're about to get. I'm

1:43

not going to have no attitude. I'm going to

1:45

be cool. We're going to do this. Like, bruh, how

1:48

we move is a

1:50

principle. And if you understood the principle of

1:52

how we move, you could start putting your...

1:54

Not my principles, your principles, and

1:56

move by those. And that I'm telling you.

1:58

I think... I looked at how me and

2:01

Mark connected. I looked at Mark, I was like, yo, he

2:03

moved. You know what you're getting with him and

2:05

Camille. Like, it's just, you

2:07

never have to worry about like, oh, I could

2:09

be walking into a, like you,

2:11

I'm not trying to be funny. Me and my,

2:13

bruh, me and my wife, you come around,

2:15

you know exactly what you're gonna get. How many times

2:17

you've been around me in Kansas and been tensioned in

2:19

the air? Zero. I'm just

2:21

being real. Yeah, oh man. And it's not that me

2:23

and my wife are perfect. But our

2:26

stuff is so principle driven, and she follows

2:28

me on them principles now, to

2:30

the point where, oh, it's a disagreement? What's the

2:32

principle? Cool, it's done. Does that make sense? And

2:34

it's like, that to me, when

2:36

you deal with people, most

2:39

humans, the reason I'm full with you,

2:41

the reason I can't answer your call every time you

2:43

call, the reason I can't be around you and your

2:45

wife like that, the reason I can't come around and

2:47

be all in your space is because I don't know

2:50

what I'm gonna get. And I'm,

2:52

and most people, if you're

2:54

attracted to consistency, you're

2:56

unattracted to. And

2:59

I'm not even gonna say unattracted. Oh,

3:02

I am. You're inconsistent, bro. And I'm just

3:04

saying on whatever. I wanna use this word

3:06

though. I wanna use the

3:08

word. People

3:10

who are inconsistent have to understand that

3:13

it's not personal, but there's no

3:15

way to build. You

3:18

can't build around that. No, you can't. So

3:20

I always tell my guys that I coach,

3:23

NBA, NFL, whatever, bro, I'm

3:25

not asking you to

3:27

score 20 points a game. I'm

3:30

asking you a simple question. At

3:33

your best, consistently, what can you

3:35

score? I

3:38

got somebody now that's in a very

3:40

sweet position. They're on a

3:43

team where they have an opportunity. So

3:45

when they talk, who going to the championship? This

3:48

team is in that conversation. My

3:50

thing is, bro, here's all I wanna ask you.

3:53

I've seen you put up big points, and then I've seen

3:55

you put up zero. Here's

3:58

all I'm asking you. What? can

4:01

you do consistent? Yep.

4:04

Because if you do this and I just

4:06

want people to hear, when

4:08

your feelings driven, it's

4:10

Evan Flows. And the problem

4:12

with Evan Flows is I can't

4:15

look at the weather and

4:18

base a trip on, it's sunny

4:20

one day, it's raining the next

4:23

day, it's cloudy one day, it's

4:25

snowing the next day. It's

4:27

like I can't even put my

4:29

suitcase together with that. So, but

4:31

if you got, it's going to

4:33

be sunny seven days in a row,

4:36

72 degrees, I can't, or

4:38

if you go, it's going to be

4:41

raining for seven days. Yeah, bro. I

4:43

was in Seattle. I promise you, you

4:45

go into the blooming, bruh, they got

4:47

the sweet rain boots and the sweet

4:50

raincoat. Like bruh, it's full of umbrellas

4:52

in that joke, full of umbrellas. My

4:55

daughter brought her Jeep to San Diego, bruh,

4:58

she had the snow thing in the back. I was

5:00

like, oh, you ain't going to need that. You can

5:02

go ahead and send that. They should have left that

5:04

in Michigan. It ain't about to be snowing. So what

5:06

I'm trying to explain to people is

5:09

when you're up and down and

5:11

up and down, it's not that

5:13

people have anything personally against you.

5:16

You just make it difficult for

5:18

them to be able to rock

5:20

with you or use you in any kind

5:23

of way. So again, of course, Sean is

5:25

doing my videography. It's like, okay, I know

5:27

what quality I'm going to get. So

5:30

then I know I can ask you to do all

5:32

that is. Of course, Sean just got

5:34

started. I can't ask him to do a Marvel

5:36

movie for me. That's not,

5:38

he ain't no, but I can say, hey,

5:40

I got these students coming up or I got this

5:42

gig over here. I need to record and then what's

5:45

your turnaround? I can't have one time he edited and

5:47

get it back in 24. The

5:49

next time he do it in a week, the next

5:51

time he do it in a month. Right. So what

5:53

I'm going to suggest for those of you who are

5:55

in your feelings, man, ready to

5:57

shift over. Let

6:00

me say this too though. I know I hate

6:02

to cut you off. I know my crazy thing

6:04

about it is When you

6:06

consistent you don't even have to be as sweet

6:08

you don't That's the

6:11

crazy part if you listen,

6:13

it's like, okay, you got a

6:16

restaurant. That's crazy But

6:18

you never know when they open and

6:20

they don't never update their website. You go there.

6:22

Oh, we've been you are my point exactly Me

6:26

and can't we me and Ken's ready going to date Whatever

6:29

we get there boom closed up. This is our

6:31

favorite food. I'm so much they going crazy You

6:34

go to the other spot ain't quite as good,

6:36

but it's open. Sorry, you know, you count on

6:39

and guess what you happen again Next Friday

6:42

night you go all ain't open Yeah,

6:44

you go over there. Excellent. They can sit in the guess

6:46

what the consistent person now, they know your face I didn't

6:49

know your name now They know what table you

6:51

like to sit at now They bringing your

6:53

appetizers and your drinks before you even order

6:56

them because they already know they just consistent

6:58

That ain't nothing crazy. They ain't got the

7:00

best chef in the world. They just consistent

7:03

Meanwhile the joint that's fire We

7:06

didn't we ain't been back cuz we like yo,

7:08

you don't know what I'm wasting my time going

7:11

there now I'm irritated by so the crazy thing

7:13

about consistency and when you get in your your

7:15

principles and get out your feelings You don't cuz

7:17

I'm gonna be real people in they

7:19

feelings can be sweet. Yeah, don't get it.

7:22

Yeah I'm talking about Phenomenal and it could

7:24

be attractive for a second when they went

7:26

in when they whatever when they want you

7:28

Want them to be yeah, but when they're

7:30

inconsistent now you go. All right, where

7:32

can I find consistency? Yes So I'm saying it I don't

7:35

need to have to be the best

7:37

in the world I don't got to be the

7:39

richest I don't gotta be the biggest fastest strongest

7:41

if I'm the most consistent Yeah, people

7:43

will find and so I was thinking that when you were saying

7:45

I'm just like wow It's not even what you think it is

7:48

the the principles and just being principle

7:50

driven and consistent over time Well automatically

7:52

most are consistent So I just wanted

7:54

to say before I gotta get out

7:56

of here. I transition from

7:59

feelings to So I had

8:01

to make the shift. Yep. Right.

8:04

So what I'm trying to explain to people is, first

8:06

of all, principle driven is way easier. I

8:08

promise you it is. Principle driven is just way

8:10

easier. It's just like, for real, there are some

8:12

things that, and I'm made up in my mind,

8:14

for those of you who are listening, I think

8:16

before you become great at everything, you got to

8:18

become great at one thing. You

8:21

feel me? And I'm made up in my mind when

8:23

I look at the five pillars, I'm made up

8:25

in my mind that these

8:27

are the ones that I'm going to murder.

8:32

And then the last one, we

8:34

just going to pray that, you know, that

8:36

one clicked with the other ones. But for me,

8:39

you know, and you know, see

8:41

them got me the shirt, the D.D. shirt you saw.

8:43

For me, my marriage is, that's

8:46

like the one for me. Love my

8:48

kids to life, but it's like bump them kids. You

8:50

know what I'm saying? Like, y'all all going to

8:52

make decisions one day and be gone. And this

8:55

nuclear thing is going to turn it whatever y'all

8:57

turn it into. That's like my

8:59

goal to God has been my go to speaking.

9:01

It's my goal to so so I

9:03

just want people to know when you principle driven,

9:05

it's way easier. Right. So

9:07

the first thing I had to realize is you have to get

9:10

a set of principles. I

9:12

mean, just for real, like you have to hang your hat

9:15

on something. So in this group,

9:18

for all of us, you know, it's

9:20

like you're going to come to eat for certain things. For

9:23

real, like it's just certain things you're not going to come

9:25

to me for. We talked about real estate. Well, you're not

9:27

coming to me for that. And I'm not trying to do

9:30

that. Like we have a cruise like Botry. I

9:33

have my thing that I'm consistent on.

9:36

I'm already knowing if your loved

9:38

one is sick, they

9:41

got cancer. You know what I'm saying?

9:43

Your kids is whatever automatically

9:45

you calling me for prayer. Like

9:47

people call you can you pray for me. I'm

9:49

that's my thing. Like me and God, that's my

9:51

thing. The

9:53

first thing you have to do is you

9:56

have to figure out your principles. And

9:58

then when you figure out your principles, you have to stick

10:00

with them and you have to stick with them for everybody.

10:02

I'm going to say this. So

10:04

we run in a business. It

10:06

was like two people in the business that

10:09

just were not following the

10:12

principles. You feel me? And

10:14

it's like, yo, you got to follow the principles. Like, I ended up

10:16

having to just like, yo, I'm not paying you and I ain't paid.

10:19

And it went for about two, three months. They was

10:21

like, you

10:23

not look, I was like, I asked you to

10:25

do one thing. We filling out paperwork now. We

10:28

structured. It ain't

10:30

even on a debate. I ain't holding nobody money

10:32

up. I'm just saying, nobody else getting paid no

10:34

more until you put it on paper. I see

10:36

exactly what you're doing when you're doing it and

10:39

I see how that's making me. That's the principle.

10:41

So it's like, we don't even have the feelings.

10:43

That's where you get jammed up because you can

10:45

go anywhere. You could blame the principles.

10:47

You could just blame it on the roof. Hey, if

10:50

we look here, we said this is what we, this

10:52

is how we handled X problem is supposed

10:54

to be a fine. Like the league got a

10:57

fine. So you do this. It's a fine.

10:59

We ain't got a, and it brought, I love

11:01

it. I got nothing to do with it.

11:03

It's a right here. If you get ejected, you

11:05

got a technical file. Like this, we went

11:07

to you out. We brought a principles is so

11:09

cool because we went two months without talking

11:11

and they was talking to everybody and I

11:13

was like, Hey, let me know when you finish talking to everybody.

11:16

The paperwork's still here. It's still

11:18

the paperwork's still here. Once you finish

11:20

doing all that, complaining and whatever

11:23

your money is available. He's

11:26

here, but we doing this now. We

11:29

figuring out what time people work at. What

11:32

you doing exactly how it's been. If

11:34

we contract it out, I don't got to do that

11:37

because I don't get your check until you give me

11:39

my product. So I don't have no problems with contractors.

11:42

You got, I ain't giving you no bread till

11:44

you give me my, it is what it is.

11:46

Like, but if you work it, you can hide

11:48

up under. So I just need to know

11:50

where everybody, it's a new sheriff in town. It's

11:52

called structure organization. Watch this though. This

11:56

where y'all going to blow up for those of you trying to blow up. What

12:01

was dope was I did it to them and

12:03

then I called my son and said hey bro you

12:05

got to follow the rules too. You don't get no

12:07

breaks right. Matter of fact you got to do more

12:09

because you mind I said let me tell you why.

12:11

My staff won't

12:14

respect me if they see I got one

12:16

standard for you and one standard for them.

12:18

I'm just talking about my respect. People

12:20

don't respect people who got one standard for their

12:23

kids and one standard for their employees. People

12:25

gonna be having a sidebar call. Oh Jaylen ain't

12:27

gotta do it. Jaylen ain't gotta do it but

12:29

you telling me to do it so it ain't

12:32

real. So I let my son know bro let

12:34

me tell you something. Your check getting cut off.

12:37

You need to call right now. You need to get

12:39

organized. You need to get whatever. So

12:42

for me that's the beautiful thing

12:44

about principle not me and him ain't even

12:46

got to get it. It

12:48

is what it is. This where you

12:51

go everybody who getting the check this where they

12:53

at I need to see you in all of

12:55

me. I need to see you in the... I

12:57

think that's the good thing about maybe

12:59

the corporate structure that we wasn't able to implement

13:01

like I'm not trying to be funny like my

13:04

brother work at a hospital. Yeah it ain't no...

13:06

You got to clock in clock out. Right. And

13:08

it's certain things that got to be... It's benchmarks

13:10

and all of that. Bro if you ain't clock

13:12

in. So if you ain't there. And if

13:15

you there. If

13:17

you working and didn't clock in. That's

13:19

what I'm saying. We

13:22

could have done your job. My dance department saying

13:24

we ain't got a record. Oh you saw me.

13:26

You saw. You didn't put that little... And

13:28

that's to me why principle is so important. I

13:31

got to say this in like Marlon

13:33

Carl feel free to jump in as well but like

13:36

as you look at like our

13:39

company and our success this is all

13:41

it is is a byproduct of principle

13:43

and consistency. Yeah. Yeah. Like

13:45

Carl if they only knew how long

13:47

we've been doing this and

13:50

by this I just mean getting up every

13:52

single day. Again to East consistency.

13:54

Bro we went up to the

13:56

office every single day. days

14:00

off. Yeah, we went up there every

14:02

single day, Monday through Friday, every single

14:04

day we were up there and we

14:07

got there early and we left late

14:10

every single day. So this is consistent.

14:12

This ain't sexy. This one's the overnight

14:14

blowup. I promise you it's not. This

14:16

one's the guru story and that Oprah

14:18

hit us up. Right. This is just

14:20

consistency and I would argue that every

14:23

single person who's listening to this,

14:25

you would be so much, take any area

14:28

of your life. I guarantee

14:30

you if you're struggling, it's because you've

14:32

been inconsistent. It's not because you never

14:34

did it. You took your white flowers

14:36

before. You've never been consistently romantic. Yeah.

14:39

You worked out before. Hey John. You

14:42

worked out before. Yeah. You've never

14:44

consistently worked out. It's funny. Somebody,

14:46

I think Corchon said to Mar

14:49

yesterday before we started a pod

14:52

or whatever he said, yo, how

14:54

did you something about what was the question you asked

14:56

him about working out? And

15:00

Mar said I never was inconsistent. Right. So

15:02

Mar looks the way he looks at 46,

15:04

not because

15:09

he started working out when he wants to or

15:12

when he felt like it. He

15:14

worked out consistently. The

15:16

reason he is a great speaker is not because he

15:19

woke up day after day and went, I'm

15:21

gonna see if I want to speak today and work on my

15:24

gift. Oh, this gig ain't paying this thing. No,

15:26

he consistently worked on it. You

15:28

look at any area of your

15:30

life. If you felt, bro, I'm

15:32

okay. Let me put myself on

15:34

the line. Before when my

15:36

dentist appointments was whack, solids

15:39

is a toothbrush. Yeah. But somebody

15:41

working on that. Every time you I get a honey,

15:48

I don't know. I ain't got the toothbrush. I got it. He

16:00

don't. He don't. But

16:02

I didn't got it. Well what's happening S2S

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when my dentist appointment, I'm just being

17:42

honest, when

17:44

my dentist appointment was whacked, I

17:49

was supposed to be flossing and they told me, stop

17:51

using the pay. You

17:53

got to really floss. Like

17:56

with floss, right? I wasn't doing that. I Had

17:58

my little floss pay. get get get get get

18:01

get of them. Are they gonna do awesome? They.

18:04

Would tell me that I was still do and a

18:06

mob when will be wet. Then. I guess

18:08

what I would do a damn when mob when those whack

18:10

and they will guide you know you. I'd.

18:12

Say but two weeks I'm tom of

18:14

the hey my are denied it. Oh.

18:17

You're. Getting on a six month and said

18:19

were a month later on back this last

18:22

three I'm only last one I got comes

18:24

down stuff you know it I get no

18:26

no I'm not. A my appointment would

18:28

be whack again. They. Miraculously.

18:31

I. Got the new to browse kenzo me to

18:33

suit see I'm from broke c. C.

18:36

Literally said that I'm just like agreed upon

18:38

has some I got sas did so we're

18:40

already on a timer and it's law and

18:42

several other one person month long as I

18:44

said because the is on a timer so

18:46

you'd hit it in it's not as as

18:48

on time of them are still be like

18:50

it I finish at guess is as I

18:52

thought everyone so you know a neighbor as

18:54

a whole team many rothys run and is

18:56

like at the incident but when I go

18:58

upstairs the baby time to anyway. Long.

19:00

Story Short: Okay so this time.

19:03

Bomb on flaws. A day of a woman.

19:05

Or. A way of the my point. In.

19:08

Credible reason: Incredible results as

19:11

late as is so in

19:13

your life right now. You

19:16

you. Not broke because. You. Spent

19:19

money last week. You. Not

19:21

brokers. You bought a car eight much

19:23

like you broke because you don't consistently

19:25

believe in the principle of investing. The.

19:29

It and this is a track record is

19:31

so if we're really and in, here's the

19:33

crazy thing to do as we talk about

19:36

it. Now the principal any consistency is actually

19:38

easier to do it like that, whereas the

19:40

credits a known as is, but boots or

19:42

Feelings is what allows you to be inconsistent.

19:45

So. On. For like. I.

19:47

Woke up. The. Gym down the street.

19:49

Is cold outside. I feel like being

19:51

cold today so I'm not gonna go

19:53

to the gym. More.

19:56

a promise you we joked about it saying in

19:58

a gym or the time but as like There

20:00

is nothing out, bro. I'm

20:03

talking about funerals, weddings,

20:05

wakes, bar mitzvahs,

20:09

mall with me in the gym. Don't make a difference. I'm

20:11

saying that's what he's decided. And I'm

20:13

saying in your life, you haven't made

20:15

a decision to do anything consistently but be inconsistent.

20:17

And you know what, though, man, too, and I

20:19

think somebody really need to hear this because what

20:21

you're saying is life changing, right, for a person.

20:24

But for me, when you eat corschine, when you ask me that

20:26

question, I thought about it. Like the

20:28

reason why I have been consistent and

20:31

haven't been inconsistent with it is because

20:33

I understand it takes way

20:35

more energy to dig

20:37

yourself out of the hole. Come on,

20:39

bro. It takes way more heat. The

20:41

people, man, I think we talked about

20:43

it one podcast. Everywhere you go, they

20:46

always let you know they own a diet. They got

20:48

the broccoli. They got the little chicken, the protein. They

20:50

got the fruit. And they bring you at a conference

20:52

and they bring in a little meal to let you

20:54

know, like, yeah, I'm on this and I'm on this

20:56

diet. I'm trying to lose. And it's like, brother, it

20:58

takes a lot. I ain't got to do that. If

21:01

I want to go eat a hot dog or steak

21:03

or whatever, I can do that because I'm working. I'm

21:05

consistent in my workout. And I know that a hot

21:07

dog or a piece of pizza ain't about to mess

21:10

up 20 something years

21:12

of consistency. But

21:14

you, because you're inconsistent, you can't

21:16

eat a slice of pizza because

21:19

your inconsistency, you know, that it's

21:21

adding on. This pizza is adding

21:23

on to your inconsistency. The pizza

21:25

is exponential growth. Right.

21:28

So if you look at that same thing, even

21:30

with a person finances, it's like,

21:32

bro, I have been consistent. When I was doing

21:34

the One Property Away Summit yesterday,

21:37

Carl, and I was just only there talking

21:39

to people and I was showing them evidence

21:41

of my consistency. I was showing them

21:43

properties that I bought in 2001, 2002, and then

21:45

I showed them different time periods. Man,

21:49

the market crashed in

21:51

2008, 2009. I never made more money

21:53

in my life than in 2008, 2009. And

21:57

Then all of a sudden now we in 2022, 23. And

22:00

I'm Shaun I'm A. Consistency is

22:02

the mark. Consistency to has lit

22:05

world's enough consistency. He said what

22:07

wealthy off consistency of consistency not

22:09

was now though it's residents like

22:11

the lottery. A modified organisms una

22:13

heard you say year when sixty one are

22:15

got the build knows do and twenty five

22:18

hundred a month or in return to me

22:20

at that time that him leave well and

22:22

nobody could see it was bore other have

22:24

one Providence cares for twenty five on it

22:26

but if you say like I say it

22:28

another with it was actually tassels will miss

22:30

I use gas or three thousand and fifty

22:32

dollars a month. Other a castle.

22:35

In a grand scheme of things are paid as

22:37

does now the much that he really. Likes

22:40

Season Bonus: so dumb. That.

22:43

Three thousand over over over

22:46

over twelve months. Thirty Six

22:48

thousand, Thirty Six thousand multiply

22:50

times. Twenty two years. Eight

22:53

hundred. Over. Eight hundred thousand

22:55

dollars. Consistency. Been.

22:57

Abba say they must say you bought

22:59

his build. You. Only put their

23:01

have that same thousand dollars is what time you

23:03

put their food say thousand dollars. In

23:05

In In twenty years on the get a hundred

23:07

thousand. Almost a Million Dollars Everybody Black Oh My

23:10

God. Yeah yeah I do that. But

23:12

as like. You. Bad as

23:14

I'm some as you right now like literally I'm showing

23:17

you the best the same thing. Over.

23:19

Though like people don't understand that. Consistency

23:21

boys and that's the super putting when

23:24

you have our bodies comes as But

23:26

how about his name is is that

23:28

worn York Illinois Narratives This of his

23:30

compound interest is a compound interest in

23:33

your marriage year and you knew you

23:35

Could you cut it short in Newport

23:37

Equity? Yeah you can. You point and

23:39

moody out of your marriage without letting

23:41

them. Would sure. You

23:44

point at forty hours you work in

23:46

up with three for most consistently and

23:48

also. Because you see some results, do

23:50

you pull equity out? A

23:53

D and you go. He'd stopped working out and use

23:55

of I Look At Me and in I'll send you

23:57

back to square one again. And. It's so

23:59

crazy that. Then again would you go for

24:01

equity Gaza good equity go us bigger harm

24:03

in some I would he go now you

24:06

know for equity out immediately so not as

24:08

making your payment hi you know that causes

24:10

stress the own a business right because I

24:12

have more as would normally you sort of

24:15

business summit for for as well as you

24:17

got some was equity in the property that

24:19

it's a better ways that causes stress has

24:21

to be second two sisters you call the

24:23

struggling a mouse because you have was of

24:26

new call stressing up to the hell's. Gonna

24:28

you gotta? You gotta eat broccoli and all out

24:30

as you gotta go running So and everybody get

24:32

to the garbage bags long as you got to

24:35

sweat it out. When. Normally I'd you

24:37

had to do was his main compound has

24:39

since I've moved into your abloom school could

24:41

be allowed us to give forty eight feet.

24:43

Forty nine at a fifteen. Give it a

24:46

agree with you on a curve one principal

24:48

don't help her ever no audio Maritza principle

24:50

as one hundred percent while sit of who

24:53

gets forty out of one hundred percent you

24:55

failed. but we allow people to grant on

24:57

the curves You did better than everybody else

24:59

for this for this particular time. For a

25:02

number that suits and and so as to

25:04

what the house Ontario that I've. Noticed

25:06

about Dd. Seizures

25:08

and I had to adopt. His

25:10

death. As. Difficult as

25:13

he may be, If. Dd.

25:16

If. You ask her how well

25:18

was your speech she nago raise

25:20

your knickers Don Knotts integration of

25:22

her because she doesn't see where

25:24

grainy on a curve is beneficial

25:26

for you. See see that is

25:29

instantaneously. Your. Feelings. But.

25:31

Then now you have a false sense of

25:33

and I'm telling you are see us do

25:35

that all the time His wow I'm telling

25:37

you not to do it. I'm.

25:39

Telling you not to do it because

25:41

I've seen the results, have not seen

25:43

a result of people overlooking a you

25:45

know exactly where I'm going with his

25:47

people who overlooked the behavior of their

25:50

children. My. Old an

25:52

eight hour day and you say sultan?

25:54

And. I've always up brought us it is.

25:57

of as a sermon but i say your that's or

25:59

point for real where, because

26:01

I love the relationships

26:03

I have with people, I

26:06

ain't know their kids. Their kids didn't exist when

26:08

we first hooked up. I don't know your kid.

26:11

They weren't even here when we first got up. I love

26:13

you enough. I ain't about to say nothing to you. I

26:15

want to preserve the relationship. You can do whatever you want

26:17

to do. But I've seen people

26:21

change the standard and

26:23

I've seen, I end up seeing their kids dead. Or

26:26

seeing their kids in prison. And

26:28

it could have all been avoided. By

26:30

you just not grading on the curve. Or

26:33

I've seen people who are close to people and

26:37

it's their best friend or they somebody they close

26:39

to and they curve them out. And

26:42

I'm telling you, here's what I tell everybody who

26:44

knows me from when I was younger and know

26:46

the people that I ran with. Like, yo, how

26:48

you and Dee Dee make it? Or why are

26:50

y'all successful? Like, what did y'all do? I said,

26:52

we ain't do nothing. Dee Dee just didn't grade

26:55

me on the curve. I saw a homeboy wife

26:57

grading him on the curve. She

27:00

would let my man get rid of it. Let's

27:02

not overlook the fact that he put her in

27:04

the position to grade him on the curve. Okay,

27:06

whatever. Because he ain't want

27:08

the real anyway. No, he didn't. So

27:11

she felt like she had to

27:13

get, you see what I'm saying? I don't think

27:15

she came in like, oh, I'm just going, but

27:17

because that thing you got, she

27:19

don't feel empowered to say nothing like that anyway. Or you're

27:21

going to have an attitude and you're going to get in

27:24

your feelings. Because most people can't say what Dee Dee say

27:26

to you and you take it. How you

27:28

was hot about like, oh, she said something. Most

27:31

men, I'm just being real. They not trying to

27:33

hear that. You see what I'm saying? They not

27:35

trying to hear real feedback from them. They not.

27:38

But you're not trying to have your wife sit down and be like, yo, that was

27:40

whack. You shouldn't have did that. You ain't acting

27:42

right. You're not leading this family right. You're not stepping

27:44

up to the plate as a man. You're not taking

27:46

care of my needs. Most men don't want that feedback.

27:48

They don't. They want to be affirmed. Yeah,

27:51

we talked about it. You want to be

27:54

confirmation club. But that's why I said, that's

27:56

not principle driven. And it's not going to

27:58

ultimately take. I'm just saying. like where

28:01

you really want to go and

28:03

so because I really want to be like why

28:05

would I be married and not get all the

28:07

benefits from it so so when I go to

28:09

God and say you know why she talking to

28:11

me in front of people like that first

28:14

of all and then he say because you want the

28:16

illusion of success more than you right to success right

28:18

but I'm saying we can't want that that's when you

28:20

say I don't even care

28:22

if Diddy talked to me like that yeah if

28:24

you talk to me like that in front of

28:27

somebody yeah it's like you're putting the illusion of

28:29

a great marriage ahead of an actual great marriage

28:31

because a great marriage will go okay iron sharp

28:33

and iron let's get this fixed absolutely and we

28:35

could be on a whole nother level the illusion

28:37

is everybody think we got a great

28:39

marriage and that's what most people where they mess

28:41

up is you want the illusion of success

28:44

the illusion of money the illusion of

28:46

a great health and you know why

28:48

don't I think people I

28:51

think people feel like and to some extent

28:53

on a instantaneous

28:55

level it could be some truth but

28:57

I think we live in a culture

29:00

that if I act

29:02

like I own a jet I

29:05

might end up owning one because people think

29:07

I got one and they go so to

29:09

some extent we live in a world where

29:11

being fake is rewarding

29:14

now I know cuz I'm

29:16

53 you can only live

29:18

off of some fake for

29:21

so long like it is like bro

29:23

you just can't live off a lie for 30

29:25

years or you can't do something wrong

29:28

and it and you will blow up from it

29:30

forever like that don't work but I'm saying there

29:32

are a group of people who want was right

29:36

but we get into our feelings and I'm

29:38

just saying to that group cuz I used

29:40

to be there like yo make this shift

29:42

so that you could really have it so again God

29:44

said to me well man

29:48

the man I think the hardest thing Dede

29:50

has ever said to me I've

29:52

never said this publicly I think

29:54

the hardest thing she's ever covered was whack

29:57

the Thor Oh,

30:01

what I tell them and then later

30:03

they got a big billboard of a

30:05

lawyer on the thing he got. But

30:08

you just didn't give it time. My

30:11

man got the big sword. I was

30:13

ahead of my time. I was

30:15

ahead of my time. Bro, here's

30:17

the hardest thing he ever said to

30:19

me, Ma. Man, the

30:22

hardest thing she ever said. Yeah,

30:24

yeah, yeah. Come

30:26

on. The hardest thing she ever said to me. So let's

30:28

just say what happened at the grocery

30:31

store. It started with something that I

30:33

said. So Diddy's like, yo,

30:35

I ain't never been saying the hardest thing she ever said, but

30:37

Diddy said to me, like, yo, for real, like I ain't even

30:39

the one that started the conversation. You started it. But

30:42

the thing that he told me, man, that really made me

30:44

a leader and made me grow up, she

30:46

said, your biggest problem is you could dish it out,

30:48

but you can't take it. She's

30:51

like, yo, I ain't never been the one to

30:53

say we in the mall and you said something

30:55

to me and it hurt me. She's like, you

30:58

ain't never heard me say so and so we're

31:00

watching and I was in my feelings about it.

31:03

She said, you ain't never heard me say that, but you

31:06

like to throw rocks and go hide. I

31:09

was like, oh, but it was the truth

31:11

that, yo, you could dish it, you could

31:13

say it, but then when I say it

31:15

back to you, you can't take it. And

31:18

I was like, yep, I'm not a leader. Yep,

31:21

that's it right there. That's it right

31:23

there. And I had to eat that, Ma. I

31:26

had to eat that, that she's absolutely right.

31:29

Oh, you can get up on stage

31:31

and talk about me, good, bad

31:33

or indifferent, the kids, good, bad, indifferent. I

31:36

ain't never said nothing to you about preaching about me,

31:38

bad, good or indifferent. I never said nothing, but let

31:40

me say something to you in public. You

31:43

the main one on the stage talking in public.

31:45

You in public. You in public, public,

31:47

public talking. You in public. You're still doing viral.

31:49

I had 100 million views. I had 100 million

31:51

views. You tripping because I

31:53

was in the mall and I said

31:55

something and somebody looking. Ouch. And

31:58

so I was like, yeah, that's good. I

32:01

got around y'all clowns and thought I'm a mouth to

32:03

Tamecia one time. Yeah, you said you know what I

32:05

got around y'all I say I'm gonna I'm a mouth

32:07

to Tamecia No

32:24

It wasn't like a bad mouth I'm just saying like

32:26

you know I

32:30

demand to be demanding we was walking up

32:32

the hill I don't remember what we was

32:34

talking about until we should say something I

32:36

was like yeah, here we go And

32:39

I said something right back to her breath. She

32:41

turned at me and snapped back so quick and what I

32:43

looked at her Bro, I just I

32:45

busted out laughing just like that like to be should be

32:47

be real with you I'm upset, but I ain't even got

32:49

a second round us. I Need

32:53

a second my best part that was my best

32:56

Down That's

32:58

all I got For real

33:00

for him to your pointy. It's like bro. You

33:02

got to get to the point where it's not

33:04

even to you man It's not conflict. Yes, press.

33:06

We're trying to resolve something and move past it

33:08

She had one way of looking at I had

33:11

another way and she wouldn't just convince that

33:13

my way was was right You see

33:15

what I'm saying, so that's nothing wrong. Why am

33:17

I getting all of my feelings about it now?

33:19

Let's figure out how are we going to

33:21

move forward with this? What's our standard and not

33:24

me versus you kind of thing? Of course, I

33:26

just busted out laughing No, and it's true when

33:28

you got in this crazy when you got the

33:30

principles our kids understand the principle everybody understand

33:32

So the household just flows like yeah, it's certain

33:35

stuff that is like every might be like that

33:37

and I'll be like You

33:39

know that's for your mom It's like that's like

33:41

that's your thing like that ain't my but then

33:43

it come to certain stuff with me It's like

33:46

okay dad like that's his thing like everybody kind

33:48

of understands And when you have those principles, like

33:50

I said, it allows the house to even flow

33:52

And so we don't have a lot of conflict

33:54

in the home Because we moving

33:57

off those principles and they understand them. It's like dog.

33:59

Do you understand? your feelings changed by the

34:01

second literally. Can I add something to that

34:03

right there? Wait, hold it real quick. What

34:06

was the thought about you have

34:08

how many bad thoughts? Negative thoughts. Oh, bro. It's like

34:10

80,000 to 60,000 thoughts roughly average per day. 80%

34:15

of the 80% of those are negative. 54,000

34:18

are negative and 90% of those are repetitive. I

34:21

don't turn to feelings. Yeah. Yes. And feelings

34:23

turn to actions. Yeah. Okay. So if you,

34:25

I'm just saying, I'm mad. 64,000. You

34:28

wonder why you living in hell. Yeah. And

34:30

why your life is so chaotic. Yeah. You

34:33

moving off feelings with 64,000 negative thoughts,

34:36

turning into feelings throughout the day, bro,

34:39

you're going to be chaotic. Yeah. What's

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when you start talking about family and I

36:25

started just thinking about it. Do you know, I never

36:28

told little Jay, like, Hey, you got

36:30

to work out because

36:32

of my consistency. He just thinks that

36:35

that's why he's the same way. He

36:37

saw me take showers. He saw me,

36:39

you know, he's already talking about, you

36:41

know, his future wife. He's already talking

36:44

about things because he see the consistency

36:46

in it. So it's like y'all, some

36:48

of y'all just being inconsistent, not showing

36:50

your children. You're creating

36:53

an inconsistent child. Yeah, they

36:55

just buy, just buy based

36:57

off of your inconsistencies. Little

36:59

man down at night every single day with me in

37:01

the morning, even when I'm out of town, he's showing

37:03

me pictures on him. Hey dad, I went to the

37:05

gym this morning because he sees the consistency. He thinks

37:07

that's what a man is supposed to do. I

37:10

heard little Jay once I asked his friend, like how many times

37:12

you and your dad work out and

37:14

a friend didn't even know what workout was. He's like,

37:16

workout. He's like, what are you, what are you talking

37:18

about? He's like, where's

37:22

your gym? It's

37:24

something taking place already. That's

37:26

just going to become his super power. One of

37:29

his super powers. And it's not

37:31

really, you're not showing your kids really about

37:33

working out. That's the byproduct muscles and all

37:35

that stuff. The byproduct by really just being

37:38

consistent and something. And some of y'all like

37:40

consistent and being inconsistent. Right. Like that's a

37:42

consistent for you. Absolutely. Like that's the only

37:44

consistency you got in your life is being

37:47

inconsistent. So it's a few reasons why you

37:49

would be inconsistent. One, your feelings. That's

37:52

nothing more than things

37:55

happening around you. Right. Being

37:57

real life happening like dog. like

38:00

fear. So again,

38:03

so if you can acknowledge these things, right? Cause

38:05

the goal is to get you back to, and

38:07

let's just be, you know, practical now, 2024, he

38:09

give them, and

38:12

I know you got to roll in a minute, but get them.

38:14

Can we roll? I'm going to go and do 10 days. No,

38:18

I'm not. The young lady is speaking. I don't even

38:20

want to go to beyond, but I heard what you

38:22

said in terms of maybe, can

38:25

we just all go in and just come right back? I

38:28

got to catch the plane at 12, but

38:31

I can, I can go for a second. Maybe. Um,

38:35

so practical, being

38:37

able to write down, what are your principles? Yeah.

38:39

What are they? I didn't, you know what I'm

38:41

saying? I identify and then do me a favor.

38:44

Find one or two things you can

38:46

just absolutely be consistent with. Please. Like

38:48

just literally like, yo, this is what

38:50

I'm committing to and stick with it.

38:53

Not for 10 days,

38:55

not for 20, not for 30, like

38:57

literally for 2024, find

39:00

some things that you say, yo, I'm about

39:02

to blow this out. Like I don't care

39:04

what it is. And when you find

39:06

those principles, don't let the environment or

39:08

certain people operate

39:10

differently. God says,

39:12

I'm not a respected person. Like

39:15

period, like one of

39:17

the greatest men of God, Eli

39:20

died. He ain't do nothing.

39:22

His kids was off the charts. And

39:25

because he wouldn't deal with his kids, God killed them. God

39:28

is consistent. God, like your brother told you,

39:30

they can't be doing that in the sanctuary.

39:34

I don't care who it is. They

39:36

cannot, your kids got keys to the church.

39:39

They can't be up there doing that. How

39:43

many times I got to tell you to tell him to stop.

39:45

He couldn't tell him to stop. So God's like,

39:47

here's what I'm gonna do. I'm not going to take, they're like, I'm gonna

39:49

take yours. Cause you're not

39:51

following the principle that period David, you

39:54

can't build a temple, bro. I love

39:56

you. You're the apple of my eye.

39:58

You can't build a. You can't

40:00

build a temple. You got too much blood on your

40:02

hand. So yeah, you did kill

40:05

thousands Okay But

40:07

you can't build a temple you're not pure enough

40:09

for it. Well, I let your son do it,

40:11

but you can't do it Principle he

40:13

didn't go That's dave.

40:16

I'm gonna let him adam eve y'all

40:18

broke the rules Y'all

40:21

gotta go I gotta kick

40:23

y'all out. I'm not about to see here and go

40:25

is adam and eve is the first ones Bro,

40:28

I said to the I said the other day because

40:30

I don't understand religion like it's still

40:32

confusing to me I was just like God if

40:34

you got Literally

40:37

this was I was just thinking I ain't trying to

40:39

go religious but I was like God if

40:41

you God why couldn't you just forgive us? Like

40:46

why do you have to send your son To

40:48

die on the cross. I don't even make sense to me

40:51

Why do you like you got the power to join

40:53

you that is principle and yeah, it's And

40:57

I'm willing to do it and I'm not actually Mess

41:00

up again. You know Just

41:02

saying you could have just been like yeah,

41:04

you could have just been like I created

41:06

this thing where yeah You just could give

41:08

forgiveness and you just come and say you

41:10

saw her. That's all you gotta do I

41:12

don't want to get deep me but again,

41:14

I'm I started back reading consistency my bible

41:16

from genesis, right? And I've well chapter a

41:18

day. I sit down and I take notes.

41:20

God gave very very specific instructions Somebody

41:23

gonna study it if you doubt

41:25

me, bro. He made them build

41:27

a whole sanctuary a See

41:29

a whole I'm talking about every detail

41:31

how many inches this to be what

41:33

it's supposed to made out of and

41:35

the whole thing Pointed to Jesus dying

41:38

on the cross unbelievable. This

41:40

is an exodus the second book

41:42

of the Bible Yeah, he made

41:44

this whole system laws rules that

41:46

they can follow that all pointed

41:48

to Jesus So the point was

41:50

y'all sacrifices every doubt. I'm sitting

41:52

reading this lady guy you some

41:54

kind of savage Where they killing

41:56

lambs every day morning and evening,

41:59

but his point was Because because you're so

42:01

dumb and y'all don't keep messing up I

42:03

already got an ultimate sacrifice, but I'm going

42:05

to train you for how many of a

42:08

years all y'all in the wilderness all through

42:10

Bro, I'm gonna train y'all this whole time

42:12

of what the sacrifice actually looks like and

42:14

why bro principal

42:17

years just think about killing a

42:19

lamb every single morning and evening,

42:21

bro years First

42:24

principal then Jesus comes and says

42:26

I don't feel like Hmm

42:29

dying on the cross I'm

42:32

just saying he just said I don't feel like down on

42:34

the cross Three times

42:36

he went back. Yeah, like father. I'm

42:38

sure in all the way. I'm

42:41

not feeling it I know you got it gotta be something.

42:43

That's another way we can do it gotta be and it

42:45

is but principal

42:49

Yahweh Even

42:52

Yahweh is principle

42:54

driven to the point that he like

42:56

yo, I know you don't want to do this in

42:58

your fill But

43:01

after you finish, you know with telling me

43:03

how you feeling about it get to work

43:05

We got it. You got a down across

43:07

or nothing that you've done Works,

43:09

so I gotta have you and I'm just saying

43:11

like that's the thing I had to realize like

43:13

yeah I'm being real. There was a time where

43:16

I was like ah Jay

43:18

ain't really God's like

43:20

I take this whole company from you Take

43:22

this whole company from you He

43:25

need to follow the rules Period

43:27

so and so and you know

43:30

God showed me God was like look this new

43:32

person and that person you making them all follow

43:34

The rules but the people that

43:36

started with you you giving them a kind of

43:38

pass that you know I'm giving you I'm giving

43:40

you to the end of this year to fix

43:42

it. I'm taking everything from me Fix

43:45

it I could care less how

43:47

they feel. Yeah, I ain't gonna do

43:49

with me I told

43:51

you to go more structure if they decide that

43:53

they don't want to do the structural boy Go

43:59

My fact I said I said to them, I

44:01

said, listen to me very closely. I'm

44:03

not saying it's out of anger. I really believe

44:05

with all my heart, you need your own. You

44:09

need your own. Because we're

44:11

having a conversation that you

44:13

could only have if you had your own. I

44:16

said, I just want to tell you, this is the last

44:18

time we doing this. As we go into 2024, this is

44:20

my company. You

44:25

don't get to tell me how you feel about how

44:29

I'm running my company. I

44:34

swear, I swear. Freedom is this way.

44:37

No, I swear, I seen my wife. Bruh,

44:40

principal, bruh. I seen

44:42

my wife tell my daughter, Dad,

44:45

can you go? She said, hold on now, you're 25. That's

44:49

not your man, that's your father. That's my

44:51

man. That's reserved

44:53

for me. Yeah. He don't do

44:56

that. You gotta go get you a husband. Or

44:59

get yourself. You gotta get you a husband. You tryna. Now

45:01

you infringing on. That's my

45:03

husband that I need available to make

45:05

some runs. And you telling him that.

45:08

She's like, oh no. Now you didn't got beside

45:10

yourself now. And

45:13

not on no bad stuff. But she

45:15

just like, yo, that's my man. Like

45:18

that's your father. And

45:20

then there was a time when he did that. You're

45:23

25 now. You

45:25

do not have the authority to whatever.

45:27

And I'm saying, looking at, I'm feeling some

45:30

type of way. That's your daughter. I'm

45:32

feeling some type of way. And God said, why you feeling

45:34

that type of way? She telling the truth. And

45:37

the more you do that, the less

45:39

likely she gonna get up. Exactly. So

45:42

you messing stuff up, being in your feelings.

45:44

She need to understand that, no, you don't

45:47

get that no more. So guess what she's

45:49

gonna do? She's gonna be praying to me

45:51

to give her what she need. Now you

45:53

trying to get in the way and be

45:55

the savior. Get your butt out the way.

45:58

So I'm just saying, even my creation. has

46:02

principles and he ain't going by

46:04

his feelings because his

46:06

son said, why has thou

46:08

forsaken me? Like Jesus went

46:11

that far. He was in

46:13

his feelings like all the

46:15

way. Like

46:18

I never had a

46:21

mark and as he's saying with

46:23

you and your son, God there's

46:25

never been a time in the

46:27

history of our existence that we've ever

46:29

been separated. And I ain't do nothing

46:31

wrong. But

46:34

God was like, yo, you got sin on you and

46:38

sin separates you from me. Right

46:40

now you took on the sins of the world. So I gotta

46:44

back off because you gotta until

46:46

you die and get res, I got back

46:48

off. Yeah. So right now I gotta let

46:50

them do what they doing. He

46:52

already knew the assignment. He already knew

46:54

the assignment. He said that's why he can't. He's

46:57

so glad he's on the curve. He

47:01

had done that curve. He's like, oh, that's

47:03

right. Yeah. You hear him. My man was

47:05

blind. He could walk in. I gotta get

47:07

you out. I'll get you out. I'm not

47:09

trying to be funny. We are born in

47:16

the shape of the nigga. It's trash. Yeah.

47:19

And so that's why God was like, you

47:21

gotta stop doing that because feelings take you

47:23

from the plan. It deviates. And then

47:25

when you get the outcomes, bro, I'm

47:27

trying to tell you, I'm

47:29

trying to tell you, I got, I got, I got

47:31

loved ones, bro. Yeah. 225

47:33

got loved ones in the curve, bro.

47:35

We gotta tell them the

47:37

hard stuff early so

47:40

that they make the adjustment. And

47:42

there are things that, you know, I felt some type

47:44

of way about telling my son are doing to it.

47:47

But my man was in Tokyo, got in Tokyo, made

47:49

it back. I'm just saying, there's

47:51

people who go out of the country, get

47:53

locked up because you don't have the ability.

47:55

Jalen got there. I was like, dad, it's,

47:57

it ain't a democracy. He

48:00

said, dad, it ain't no democracy. You ain't

48:02

over here saying what you want to say,

48:04

doing what you want to do. Streets is

48:07

clean. You can't throw nothing on the track.

48:09

Everybody's like, I'm sorry. Everybody respectful. He said,

48:11

dad, it's order. It's

48:13

order, dad. But why was it easier for

48:15

him to get in the order? Because

48:18

he came from order. Ma, he came from

48:20

so much order. He went to the mountains

48:22

with the monks. Jaylen called me

48:24

and was like, dad, I'm coming home early. I've seen

48:26

enough. I got to get to work. Vacation

48:29

is over. His people were still over there.

48:32

He came home. I got to get back to

48:34

the crib. We got this mastermind we're doing for

48:36

the youth every Sunday. I'm over here. I

48:38

need to get back to the crib. I need to

48:40

get home. I'm like, bro, you leaving your

48:42

people? Yeah, I got to go. I got to

48:44

get back and get up. The playtime is over.

48:47

So part of me is like when he was

48:49

younger and I had to discipline him, I'm feeling

48:51

the type of way. But him being an adult,

48:54

riding through the cities, LA,

48:57

all the places he's going. And he coming

48:59

home safe, it's like, yep,

49:01

he understood order. Order was rough because

49:04

his personality does not naturally like

49:06

order. Sister was a little different

49:08

because she don't mind order. He don't

49:10

have a natural proclivity to order. But

49:12

it's like, because you don't, I

49:16

got to do more order on you so

49:19

that when you get older, you

49:21

won't be looking at order crazy because

49:23

I can't always protect you and have

49:25

you with me. You feel me? I'm

49:27

just being real, bro. We see people all trying to go

49:29

out the country, get locked up, or go and get

49:31

killed. Or go and kill

49:33

somebody. Boke been going over to Dubai

49:36

with the Detroit swagger. You

49:40

can't talk to me that way. No,

49:42

I sure can. All right. You're

49:45

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So for those of y'all who can only do

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people that is like, yo, y'all feeding, you know,

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So it's kind of like church, but we do

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going to keep putting extra stuff in there as well.

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So, um, yeah, no, I know,

50:53

uh, save the world. All right. Let me

50:57

get the car back to my pops. I took the

50:59

car and tell him I was leaving and

51:01

then, um, yeah, I meet you

51:03

up there. Oh no, you ain't got to meet me up. I wanted

51:05

to just go all together. You ain't got to meet me. And I

51:07

remember this morning I asked you to come get me. You ain't text

51:10

back. So I just told her, I was working. I was like, yo,

51:13

pops ain't up yet.

51:15

I don't zoom. I do the mastermind

51:17

morning. I ain't think to, I didn't

51:19

know I didn't want to

51:21

be late. So I was like, all right, let

51:23

me just get in the whip and bounce it.

51:25

You know what I'm saying? Some of us working. Everybody's

51:28

got to work. Hey, what's working last night? Come

51:30

out, work. Hey, someone was working last night. Yeah.

51:32

I said, God be working dead night.

51:34

Um, people always used to ask,

51:36

what does he do? Oh, what

51:39

is he doing? Tell us what

51:41

I know. I know his principal

51:43

driven. What is he doing? So

51:46

this goes all the

51:48

way back to whole keynote about action, about the

51:50

action figure. Yeah. Remember I was naming all the

51:52

action figures. It was one person I

51:54

left out and that's the, which

51:56

one is that? Iron man. No, the ball head

51:58

man. Old man in the wheel. Yeah, that'd be

52:00

playing a little my people. Oh, yeah, that

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