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the law cause someone you disrespecting people treat

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people back. So we in his room and

0:07

we call ourselves christians are we create We've

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taken our employers are treating people pay all

0:11

that's not what coach with what I'll say

0:13

oh he just did a whole new he

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just did a whole message off. If you

0:17

say you a christian a you raises yeah.

0:21

I said no he just didn't sit

0:23

there for forty five broke down when

0:25

you when you love got He said

0:27

i'm will be real which are There

0:29

was a time. I wouldn't do this

0:31

message because I was more concerned about

0:33

what you thought about media, what Coach.about

0:35

me. You

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read. The

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0:58

Everything to do. You go about making it. Sometimes

1:00

you know what I'm saying. like so you you

1:02

look at net. You'd. You'd think and

1:04

like. You. Think is spin and elect

1:06

a lot of who. Because. You

1:08

know so it's so when you go approach making

1:10

get. This. I make says like

1:13

birch you gotta understand like and I'm China's and we

1:15

just talked about these days. I really think it ought

1:17

to weed through, but I'm like. Yeah.

1:19

You see more with with graves doing as

1:21

they. But. You would understand

1:23

the approach to why he was okay doing

1:25

those time things. If you know how he

1:27

goes after the ask that question even harder

1:29

to net you know what I'm saying and

1:31

I think some people you know united you

1:33

scary when it cause you know you scary

1:35

witty. There's. That makes a lot you. The

1:38

whole circle is a San. Is it that way?

1:40

society's? I bought even Ramona he now I work

1:42

at that. I tried disrespect more. I'm

1:44

just say work in his are like.

1:47

Mall. And I'm like no know I was not

1:49

work in a way ya think he work know let

1:51

me set is. Most. Of you are

1:53

working to har oh what u f o

1:55

like well don't you don't make their yeah

1:57

though at the level of work that you

1:59

put only. I'm gonna tell you something. Let me tell you

2:01

something. Let me tell you something. It don't even make sense.

2:03

I worked at General Motors on the line for three months

2:06

and worked more in that three months than I

2:08

worked the rest of my entire life. I'm talking

2:10

about till they put me on the dirt. That's

2:12

work, bro. Work, bro. Bro, I'm on

2:15

the line at six o'clock in the morning. We

2:17

was in Fisher Body. This was before the Delta

2:19

plant was built in Fisher Body. It was 95

2:21

degrees at six o'clock in the morning when you

2:23

started your shift. I'm talking about to die. And

2:25

I was in pain. My daddy worked in the

2:27

body shop. Sparks flying. You

2:29

this close and can't hear a word he's

2:32

saying. Earplugs, sparks flying everywhere. How does all

2:34

get out eight, nine hours a day? Hard

2:37

labor, bro. I'm talking about, I was in

2:39

there like, oh, this

2:41

is work. That's work. Wow. I'm

2:43

talking about, I'm on the pod talking right now. About

2:46

to go to South Vegas. Bro, I'm just saying, but

2:48

here's the deal. I studied black history

2:50

for real, for real. Like I

2:52

was calling some names out to Dedede. He was like, where

2:54

you learn that? When you learn that? They wasn't teaching that.

2:56

I said we went to HBCU. They were teaching that. Let

2:59

me tell you all, if I ain't learned nothing else from black history, bro.

3:04

The people who worked the least was making the most

3:06

money, bro. The people that

3:08

was in the plantation were making nothing.

3:11

The people that were working meeting with their

3:13

hands, bro. They went, bro, I studied it,

3:15

bro. They went to,

3:17

they dropped us off in every

3:19

place that has resources. Every

3:22

place, bro. From cotton

3:24

to rice to beans to sugar

3:26

to sugar cane. They

3:29

put us, like once they figured out,

3:31

it's only one group

3:33

of individuals that can work in

3:36

any climate, bro, under any circumstance.

3:39

There's only one group of people. What

3:41

people don't realize about history is they

3:43

did not start with Africans, bro. They

3:46

started, whoever was living in America when they

3:48

got here, including them, they

3:50

tried. They couldn't handle, they Couldn't

3:52

do the cold or didn't do the winter,

3:54

the summer. They Couldn't do it. Damn, we

3:56

was so dope that not only could we

3:58

do it, We start creating

4:00

stuff to make a vibrant. We created

4:03

the cotton just like we created the

4:05

machine a big that. We. Every

4:07

day like we was work or hard we had

4:09

to work at and we had to mine so

4:11

everything we would do with plus to say going

4:14

along out a bit of arguments cards in a

4:16

logo others are go work for seven we just

4:18

figured it out the have been printed it out

4:20

as much. As

4:23

we figured it out for guess who's making the

4:25

money. The. Present where the system

4:27

in place and visit a person

4:29

would division was the was so

4:31

I'll my whole life. Yo.

4:34

The more you work. Brown.

4:36

From Detroit brought. Before.

4:38

His own every day oh no they

4:40

was in a plant were just one

4:42

they brought I owe everything in Detroit

4:45

brusque from estadio out think they know

4:47

nothing about for boys abbott it they'll

4:49

know about football brought us but brought

4:51

a still own a d n a

4:53

soda see the nobody was because that's

4:55

how you make your money you brought

4:58

the stadium be bad for years and

5:00

we have a was we want to

5:02

play offs brought a step epithets so

5:04

what our rulers was no broad work

5:06

and pay. That. It has you

5:08

make your money, Division. Boy.

5:11

That's. How you make your money to think and voice

5:13

as as you make your money. So when you came

5:15

to me more. And was like real

5:17

estate. I knew from what our

5:19

study what what I couldn't put it all

5:21

together I was like oh as the road

5:23

states in was sold me he did you

5:26

got answer is a rose day but our

5:28

have people come to me will be like.

5:30

Off. Off your first date

5:32

does dangerous businesses that are as

5:35

is working as a as a

5:37

display of staff. Would

5:40

die to. The thicket is

5:42

dangerous like that. know what

5:44

part of rather us I

5:46

resolve so for me more

5:48

when you say it was

5:50

like. Oh. No, that is

5:52

the A D C. Up to

5:54

what I've been reading and studying

5:56

I couldn't get from the plebs

5:58

as his suit. And then

6:01

when you came it was like no you can

6:03

and then when you said it I told you

6:05

I was like yo I feel more but

6:09

Marjus unlock everything for me.

6:12

This is real estate for me. I Was

6:15

like whoa Marjus said he owns a

6:17

property for ooh my voice

6:19

is real estate This hot

6:22

so when I came out with a book. I'm

6:24

like, bro I've never sell my book for what

6:26

they tell me to sell my book. I never

6:28

sell my book I'll never give my book away

6:30

from $30 again. Why that's my life Yeah, but

6:33

this is gonna be a course and

6:35

I don't think I'm gonna make it a course

6:37

the first year I'm gonna give it away for

6:39

a grand after that it's going up and the

6:41

reason why somebody was like each a book sold

6:43

out No, I'm not selling an individual no more.

6:45

Why because when you get my book, you don't

6:47

understand the mindset So you're gonna take

6:49

my book and not do what you supposed to

6:51

do. So you'll never be disconnected from the author

6:54

again Yeah, you'll never you'll net brah. That's what

6:56

Tim Tebow told me that blew my mind So

6:59

so so, you know, I just spoke Ignite

7:01

conference. Uh-huh. So so it was me rich and Tebow

7:04

and so, you know, Tebow cool dude Like you're a

7:06

real Christian. So he just out there whatever so he

7:08

was like II what you gonna be talking about. I Was

7:12

like for real. He's like no for real what you

7:14

about to talk about. Yeah, I was like yo my

7:16

talk about the playbook How you

7:18

gotta follow the playbook? He was like, okay,

7:20

give me more so I guess you know more you

7:23

studying Studying football. I don't I don't

7:25

play like that. But I'm saying is I love

7:27

football the light He was like, oh, you know,

7:29

the playbook ain't about just the playbook. Don't you?

7:31

I was like what you mean by that He

7:33

was like, oh no. No when you're a great football player The

7:36

playbook is about the relationship you build with the

7:38

coach You don't

7:40

you know, he said you don't have a you know, he said you he

7:42

said you don't have a relationship with the playbook He the

7:45

relationship was with the coach. Yeah, the coach

7:47

just happens to give you his thoughts on

7:49

paper He

7:51

said he said so you always knew who was

7:54

gonna shine in the game or not or who

7:56

was gonna be dope Because of

7:58

the relationship they had the coach.

8:00

So people who didn't like the playbook, they also

8:02

didn't have a relation with the coach. So they

8:04

also didn't get play time. The playbook wasn't designed

8:06

for them. He said bro, the

8:08

playbook is about you having an intimate relation

8:10

with the coach. It's the coach's

8:13

thoughts and writing. He said,

8:15

so the closer you are with the coach, the

8:17

closer you are with the playbook. He said, he

8:19

said, he said so much so. He had to

8:21

switch his whole message right. I didn't use the

8:23

PowerPoint. Let me just say that. This is the

8:25

thing that he said was

8:29

so deep. He said, he said, he said,

8:31

and it's so deep because if you

8:34

don't know the coach and you only know the playbook, sometimes

8:36

you'll run the plays that you

8:39

need, you know, the coach wouldn't really want you to run

8:41

in no circumstances. He

8:43

said, see, when we ain't practice, it

8:46

ain't a real circumstance. So coach, give these plays.

8:48

He said, but then once you get in the game,

8:50

you got to be so close to coach that,

8:52

you know, yo, this ain't to play based on what

8:54

the scheme they run it. This ain't what coach really

8:56

wanted to run. Cause I know coach is mine

8:58

and coaches heart. So this is what he want me

9:01

to run. So I'm about to

9:03

run this play right here. Cause that's what

9:05

coach really want, but coach ain't out here

9:07

so he can't run it. So I'm me

9:09

and coach are one. So I'm, when I

9:11

get out here, I'm gonna run coaches play.

9:13

So when he said, bro, God don't care

9:15

nothing about you reading the Bible, it

9:17

has nothing to do with the Bible. The Bible

9:19

is just what he wrote, but you got to

9:21

establish a relationship with him. And then once you

9:23

establish with him, this is what he preached about.

9:26

He said, it's a different between people

9:28

who go to church and Christians that people go to church.

9:30

I don't really know what they'd be on. They'd be like

9:32

trying to get the word for what they can get from

9:35

it. He said, bro, when you really love the coach, you're

9:37

trying to figure out what coach wanting. You want to give

9:39

coach what coach want, bro. Let

9:41

me tell you what he did, brother. When you

9:43

talk about everybody got their own gift, I

9:46

heard him address racism in his speech in

9:48

a way that I couldn't address it. So

9:50

what he kept saying more was, yo, if you

9:52

really love coach, you run coach play, you do

9:54

what coach wants you to do. What does coach

9:56

want to do? Coach wants you to love according

9:59

to Corinthians 13. The coach wants you to

10:01

love. Coach don't want you disrespecting people, treating people

10:03

bad. So we in this room and we call

10:05

ourselves Christians, but we taking our influence and treating

10:07

people bad. That's not

10:09

what coach would want. I said, oh, he

10:11

just did a whole, he

10:14

just did a whole message on, if you say

10:16

you a Christian and you racist. I

10:19

said, no, he just didn't sit there for 45,

10:22

but he broke down. When

10:25

you love God, he said, I'm gonna be real with

10:27

y'all. There was a time I wouldn't do this message. Because

10:30

I was more concerned about what you thought about me than

10:33

what coach thought about me. What

10:36

I really needed to say, because all that other stuff don't

10:38

matter if you don't make it to the kingdom. I

10:41

should have been telling y'all about God, but I

10:43

was worried about what you thought about what I

10:45

thought about God. Now I only

10:47

care what coach thinks. And he

10:49

said, you already know when you coach favorite. You

10:53

already know. And you win the Heisman.

10:55

You call your number. You feel like saying so.

10:58

So I'm just saying everybody that's listening, don't

11:00

just be on here listening to us. Do

11:03

a reset. So when Ma said,

11:05

real estate, I said, book, movie,

11:10

screen write, voiceover.

11:13

Ma, I said, you gotta have a

11:15

voiceover for every, you

11:18

gotta have a course for every, you

11:21

gotta have a movie for every, the

11:23

movie is called Torn. It's breaking down me and Dee

11:25

Dee relationship when we was teenagers. It's called Torn, how

11:27

I wanted to go to Oakwood with her, but I

11:29

also wanted to be in the streets. Cause

11:32

I love Dee Dee, but I couldn't be with her all day. I

11:34

still have my homies. So God was like, come

11:36

on, come on, come on, come on. And so when you

11:38

said that, I was like, this is my real estate. And

11:41

then you said, yeah, but that other real

11:43

estate was already yours anyway. So

11:46

I did a hard reset and I

11:48

took your mindset, which offend

11:50

some people. I'm like, I don't even know why

11:52

you getting offended. This don't have nothing to

11:54

do with you. This is not me saying I'm not

11:56

grateful for everything I was taught. This is saying I

11:58

don't know what I was taught. But you

12:01

gave me the baton now you

12:03

can't run too So

12:05

give it to me and let me and

12:07

so God has put people in my life

12:09

And you were one of those people that

12:12

was like yep left side all left side

12:14

Yeah, this point for left side

12:16

left side left side. I'm gonna die so

12:18

why live on the other side so Dee

12:20

Dee Why not get palm

12:22

trees? Yeah, what you gonna do with the

12:25

money save it and what you don't know

12:27

is the more purpose I have the more

12:29

money I make So so

12:31

now that I have something that I want to

12:33

do Dee Dee still why you buy Rolls Royce

12:35

cuz I could Cuz

12:38

I could and I know I could and

12:40

I knew it wouldn't change our financial situation And

12:42

whether and whether you like it or not you

12:44

like getting in it when you Are

12:49

you real cause there but no

12:51

they don't even know what they

12:53

like, right? You And

12:55

that conversation I've had with people that I care

12:57

about dearly and it's just like yo the only

12:59

reason that you don't like it Yeah, you say

13:01

you don't like it. I need to finish the

13:04

sentence You don't before the pot for the podcast

13:06

like you claiming like you got coming back. It's

13:08

gonna burn We don't need to get all that

13:10

anywhere, but the moment that you

13:12

experience it you enjoy it. Hmm.

13:14

I'm confused So if

13:16

you don't want it, like don't go nowhere near

13:18

like don't go out to a nice restaurant Don't

13:20

do nothing don't buy a nice house if God

13:22

coming back and it's gonna burn Hey, he don't

13:25

want told you anyway on earth as it is

13:27

in heaven I've heard that and the way you

13:29

prove that you really get the way

13:31

I prove tomorrow I'm really getting the principles is

13:34

when he comes to the house and see

13:36

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13:38

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13:40

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13:43

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13:45

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pillow in our own. has by while

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you wait and the goal they take

19:45

care of. Customized Sold as we had

19:47

to wait. When. You grew up in a city

19:49

that says you got way to you sixty. Or.

19:51

You go vacation every boom always somebody working

19:53

for tell you when you when you can

19:56

you this brown out of find to see

19:58

our our soil after but there. is

20:00

a house. It's a house in Barbados that

20:02

I found online, but

20:05

they made a beach at the house. Wow. Like

20:07

you, you put a pool on. No, no,

20:09

no. The beach is beautiful, bro. I don't know. I don't know

20:11

how they did it. I don't know. They didn't want to drive,

20:13

but they didn't want to drive to the beach, but the longest

20:15

distance in Barbados, like 20, some 21 miles. So

20:18

a beach is 20 minutes away from

20:21

anywhere you are, brother built a beach

20:23

at the house. I'm gonna

20:25

find a show y'all. So to your point, but

20:27

what I've understood again, ma, thank you for the

20:29

book. Thank you for our conversation. What I've understood

20:32

and this, thank you for being

20:35

a friend, I need y'all

20:37

to hear this. E none

20:39

of it happens until

20:42

you experience and believe it first. Yeah.

20:45

Yeah. That's as simple as I could

20:47

break it down. This is the process that I'm

20:49

studying and learning. Now it does. I don't care

20:51

what your dreams are. I don't care what you

20:53

think. You have to experience it first so

20:56

that your subconscious mind actually knows what

20:58

it feels like. Then

21:01

it brings it to reality. No question. You

21:03

know what I'm saying? Like you, you can't

21:05

just wish, you can't just hope. No, no,

21:08

no. You have to experience it first. So

21:10

now you are, that's the reason. How are

21:13

you experiencing it? Oh, let me tell you

21:15

some all day, every day you immerse yourself

21:17

in it in the vision, in the vision.

21:19

Exactly. That's what makes you experienced. Absolutely. Yeah.

21:21

The mind. So bro, when I read

21:24

chapter seven chapter seven, I was

21:26

like, Oh, it's making sense. Well,

21:28

here's the reason why

21:36

you can't spend time in vision when you

21:38

got so many tasks. Can't do it. So

21:41

if you don't have an hour or two every day

21:43

that you can sit there and imagine, all right, I'm

21:45

gonna stop with this, bro. I never

21:47

understood what it meant to be creating God's

21:49

image. It means that you have the ability

21:51

to imagine and create what you think that's

21:53

it. That's all that is. I don't know

21:55

the guy that has, I'm saying in

21:58

God's image. I don't know if people assume.

22:00

that you got two hands and two feet

22:02

in a neck. But no, no, no, no,

22:04

that's man and our imagination. Yeah. Yeah.

22:08

The ability to see vision,

22:10

imagine and create is God.

22:13

That's what it is. So all these years again, I

22:15

thought God looked like me. I thought

22:18

God had feet. I didn't

22:20

know that he wear J's, but you know

22:22

what I'm saying? Like that's how I interpreted

22:24

growing up. Now I was like, Oh no.

22:26

They killed us. Bro, animals cannot have vision.

22:29

That's the one thing that separates. And

22:31

we are operating like animals, just instinct,

22:34

survival. I got to pay for by,

22:36

I got to move. That's all the

22:38

part survival and they strip you of

22:40

your imagination. And I'm gonna say this

22:42

to all my fathers out there, man,

22:44

especially those of you who are having

22:46

challenges with the kids, mamas, whatever

22:48

you do, man, understand that a part,

22:50

not a part.

22:53

I'm saying the wrong word. God's

22:57

plan includes a man

23:00

somehow speaking

23:02

to his children in a way that makes him

23:04

believe in that. Some kind of

23:06

way that is a, that is like a

23:08

part of the equation that fathers

23:12

are supposed to be there. So

23:15

don't give me none of that. My baby mama

23:17

tripping. Don't give me none of that. You

23:19

know, they live in a different state. You

23:22

do whatever you have to do

23:24

to make sure your

23:26

children know. Therefore, Ma got in trouble for

23:28

saying that before. Saying what? Fathers

23:31

need to be in the kids' lives. Apparently that

23:33

was controversial at one point. I'm picking three more.

23:35

I'm gonna take it. I'll take all of it.

23:37

I'm taking all of it. I call hell. I'm

23:39

taking all of it. What did I say? That's

23:41

crazy. I'm taking all of it, Ma.

23:44

You have to, because you can't, what we can't

23:46

do, oh man, you don't know my situation. I

23:48

got all kinds of stuff. And I'm saying, oh,

23:50

bro, you just talking for the women. Yeah, yeah,

23:52

no, but what I'm saying is we're speaking about

23:54

God now. He has a plan. For

23:56

whatever reason, God

23:59

created. away. Man, let

24:01

me tell y'all, man, I'm like, fathers, please hear

24:03

what I'm saying. So my babies

24:07

have that creative thing because they've been

24:10

around it. My

24:12

daughter came home the other day and was like, all

24:14

right, for my 26th birthday, Carl, I'm not lying. It

24:17

might have been Tuesday or it might've been Tuesday

24:19

or Wednesday. Jay was like, all right, I want

24:21

to go to Vegas for my birthday. I'm

24:25

like, okay. She said,

24:27

I work on my birthday Wednesday. She got

24:29

her mom thing. So she worked on her birthday. She's

24:31

like, I get off Thursday. I took off Friday. So

24:33

I get off Thursday at five. Can we get a

24:36

flight? I'm like, yeah, done deal. So

24:39

my wife, who's not always in the creative, did

24:41

he still got a lot of that Detroit working

24:44

class thing on her. So did he was like, all right,

24:46

so here's what we'll do. Jada

24:48

will leave Thursday or Friday morning and

24:50

we'll go, you know, the two of

24:52

us. So I was like, nah, I'm

24:54

like, nah, Jaylen, what's up? I know my son. He ain't

24:56

doing that. So I'm like, Jay, what's up? Jay was like,

24:58

oh, I'm good. Dad, I'll go. I was like, all right,

25:02

bet. Bro, my wife was like, okay,

25:04

me, Jada and Jaylen will go because

25:06

you have a flight. You got

25:08

a gig in Lynchburg. So

25:10

you need to leave Friday because we was going

25:12

to leave together. And I was like, the

25:15

devil is a lie. I'm like, that's

25:17

why I got in trouble younger because I

25:19

used to be working on Jada's birthday because

25:21

her birthday is spring break. So I would

25:23

always have a week of prayer or something

25:25

to do doing spring break. I remember that.

25:27

It was you. I always

25:30

worked on a birthday. So it was like before or

25:32

after we'll celebrate. So I was like, I made that

25:34

mistake as an adult. Listen to me, fellas, if you

25:36

want to blow up, ladies, if you want to blow

25:38

up, stop moving forward. I'll

25:40

correct in the past. Some

25:43

of y'all, that's what you want to do. You want to act

25:45

like the past didn't exist and you just want to move on.

25:47

You can't do that. You have to fix the past. Not

25:50

live in the past, but you have to correct

25:52

the mistakes of the past. So God was like,

25:54

son, I'm giving you an opportunity to correct the

25:56

sins of the past. So I called

25:58

Brandon was like a brand. Let's

26:00

start what we're doing right now. Let's look up a flight. So we

26:02

look up the flight. So I was like,

26:05

yo, you would have to leave Saturday morning at 5am.

26:08

You fly into Charlotte. You

26:11

would land at 230. Nothing

26:13

goes wrong. You land at 230. You

26:15

got to get up to speak at 330. So

26:18

you'll get to the venue probably at three. You

26:20

have no room for air. I was like, bet. Let's

26:23

do it. I said bet. I

26:25

said, now let me tell you this. Whatever

26:29

50% that they gave me, go

26:32

ahead and look and see how much that is because we might have

26:34

to write them a check for that 50%. But

26:37

what I'm not going to do is miss my daughter's birthday

26:39

again. That's what we're not going to

26:41

do. So we'll give them the money back if we have to. Book

26:45

flights. She met us

26:47

after work. She drove. So she

26:49

got her car there. Me and Dee Dee Ubert there.

26:51

Thursday night we got them. Like I said, anything you

26:53

want to do Thursday, I'm on mall. I ain't going

26:55

to sleep. Whatever you want to

26:57

do. We got plans. We woke up the next day.

26:59

She wanted to go on what is it

27:01

called? ATVs. So

27:04

we drove an hour out to the best one.

27:07

Went out, spent two hours on the eight, having the

27:09

ball. My wife was like, this is crazy. Like her,

27:11

you know, she got MS. So it's a

27:13

lot of, and I was like, look here, boo. If

27:15

you want to stay at the spot, you stay. But

27:17

I'm not. This is my daughter's birthday.

27:19

Jalen, I don't want to hear what you want to do.

27:21

I don't want to hear how you feel. This

27:24

is Jada's birthday. Bro, we stayed up all

27:26

night. I got up at three o'clock in

27:28

the morning, packed, did my

27:31

thing. I said, God, if this

27:34

your will, no doubt. First of all, when I get

27:37

there, if it's not your will for me to speak,

27:39

don't even let me, let me get on the plane.

27:42

Make something go wrong. I hang out with them all

27:44

Saturday. But

27:46

I'm, but father, this is what I'm saying. And

27:50

it's so dope y'all because I did

27:52

it. I got on the plane to

27:55

Lynchburg. I don't know what happened. I kept saying, yo,

27:58

you counted 43 is on. I'm only

28:00

42, but they must have counted five times. I'm

28:02

on the plane like, all right, God, I know

28:04

you didn't let me. We

28:08

ended up taking off an hour trip was 30 minutes.

28:10

They got there in 30 minutes. Got

28:12

to the venue in time for my boy, Rich

28:15

Despeaks. Blew my mind, bro. Rich's father got up

28:17

and introduced him. So I'm

28:19

healthy now. I'm healthy now. I would have

28:21

been jealous of that years ago. I'd have

28:23

been hurt. Rich is in the next level.

28:25

He played for Clemson. Oh, for sure. Yeah,

28:28

yeah, he played for Clemson. So I heard

28:30

his father do his thing, right? And

28:32

so his father's a little older than me. His father's a little

28:34

older. Father, I think, has

28:37

an illness or something, but he fought through his treatment

28:39

or whatever. He was like, oh, I drove the first four

28:41

hours. These boys was knocked out. I told him, don't go

28:43

out at night. But then when I, dad, you could tell,

28:46

his treatment is what, like, weak. So

28:48

dad drove. He's like, I got him. So we sat down

28:50

and we was talking. And I was talking to him, because

28:52

he's the only grown person in the room. They are young.

28:56

So I was telling him, like, yeah, I stayed. He

28:58

said, let me tell you something, boy. He

29:01

said, oftentimes your kids, especially the ones that

29:03

are strong, will tell you, it's

29:05

all right, dad. Go ahead and

29:07

go to Lynchburg. We know you got to work. He

29:10

said, but let me tell you something. They just

29:12

talking. In their heart of hearts, they

29:15

want their daddy there. So

29:17

always be there. And

29:21

afterwards, you'll see that smile. What else they say?

29:23

Thank you for staying. He's

29:25

like, oh, they're going to tell you. Oh, it's all good.

29:27

Don't worry about it. But deep down in their heart, they

29:29

don't really mean it's all good. They don't

29:31

really mean you don't got to come. They really

29:34

hoping that you're going to say yes. He

29:36

said, so sometimes they'll tell you no. Don't even fall. He

29:38

said, don't even fall for the bait. Don't

29:40

even fall. Because Jada was like, oh, no, dad. Ma,

29:42

we good. We don't even need. Bro, it

29:44

was such a great feeling taking that picture with all four of

29:46

us there. And then getting up that

29:49

next morning and boom, getting on

29:51

that plane, knowing, like, yep, I was there. So

29:53

you can't say, I was there for that joke. So

29:56

I'm saying, father, show up, even if they tell you

29:58

you don't, if your wife tell you. Why? you

30:00

buying that? Why are you doing that? I'm

30:02

like, okay, okay, Dede. Her

30:05

cousin was like, one last time y'all drove to Dede's like,

30:08

he got in the box. We don't never.

30:10

I thought you, I thought, all right, let's

30:12

get in there. So we drove

30:14

around a little bit more in it.

30:16

You feel what I'm saying? When my

30:18

parents came, it was like, y'all do

30:20

whatever y'all want to do, buy food,

30:23

whatever. And Dede like, praise God, you

30:25

know, for your creative imaginary, because

30:27

I still be on that nine to five stuff.

30:30

And she'll be asking me, how long you think

30:32

I'm like, don't come to me with that foolishness.

30:34

When something ever happened to you, the

30:37

insurance this much, the taxes this much, I don't even

30:39

know if we'd be able to stay. I said, no,

30:41

you're going to be able to do more than stay

30:43

in this joke. Just stay by yourself. Just

30:48

stay by yourself. You don't

30:50

have anybody here in my jade. Right.

30:52

So I just want to say to

30:55

the podcast, like here, here, you are

30:57

close to us. Some of you are closer

30:59

than others. Don't just hear

31:01

what we're saying. Make sure you

31:04

go, oh, this is what they own. Oh, they

31:06

said restart versus reset. Where do I need to

31:08

reset? Where do I need to restart? Because nobody

31:11

in this room is

31:15

superhuman. We regular humans.

31:18

We regular. That's it. We regular. As

31:20

Toba always say, I ain't no regular.

31:22

Toba always say I'm from Africa. I

31:24

ain't regular black. I ain't regular black.

31:26

You're not regular. There's nothing about you

31:28

that's regular. We're not regular in

31:31

that, you know, like we ain't that deep,

31:33

but because we attach ourselves to God and

31:35

learn from each other, you know, we,

31:37

we, we had another level. So yeah,

31:40

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31:52

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success. All right. So

32:47

we're going to transition into a little

32:49

phase of the show that we call

32:51

coaching with ET. And we

32:53

are going to allow our Patreon

32:55

squad up there to

32:58

ask ET coach ET a

33:00

couple of questions. But first of all, man, if you want

33:02

to be down with ET and you want to

33:05

be coached by ET, we

33:07

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33:11

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33:15

If you want either be your personal

33:17

coach, go to coaching

33:20

with et.com is going to coach

33:22

you this year. And listen, man,

33:25

coaching is literally one of the most essential

33:27

things. It's so funny. Like I was thinking

33:29

about people with trainers and stuff like that.

33:32

And, you know, more like again,

33:34

somebody who could clearly work out on his

33:36

own, even if his trainer told him, here's

33:39

exactly what I want you to do some kind

33:41

of way working out with a coach. And I promise y'all

33:43

think about this the other day, cause I don't work out

33:45

with no coach. I work out by myself and I'm like,

33:47

well, if somebody told me

33:49

to do five more right now, I could. Like,

33:52

like when I quit, I felt myself like I was on

33:54

the road and I did a bunch

33:56

of my arms was sore. And I was like,

33:59

ah, that's it. And I was like, I put it down

34:01

and I was like, you only put it down right

34:03

there, but if somebody would have been like, yo, give me three more.

34:06

You could have done it. And so many of y'all, man,

34:11

you leaving so much on the table. So much

34:13

meat on that bone. I'm

34:15

talking about you to throw it out.

34:17

Oh, bruh, I want to smack you

34:19

up, shout out. Come on, I'm just

34:21

telling you, like when

34:24

you say, ah, man, I'm not this, I'm not, you don't

34:26

have a coach telling you three more. And

34:28

if you did, you would actually be producing

34:31

more in your life than you're producing right

34:33

now. So go to coachingwithet.com so he can

34:35

be your personal coach. We are going to

34:37

go to, let's take three or four. Can

34:40

I say something before we go there? Why this is so

34:42

important? So, you know, we

34:46

talk. Get your questions lined up real quick.

34:48

I said we all have the desire, right?

34:51

So I finished speaking. I was talking

34:53

to this dude named Doug. That's a

34:55

part of our next level speakers Academy.

34:57

He was one of the individuals that like,

34:59

he got to shadow us. So

35:01

it was a few of them. So he had pulled me to

35:03

the side and we was just kicking it. I was like, what

35:05

do you do outside? He's like, well, I'm a runner. He's like,

35:07

he ran a hundred miles, Marl. Wow. And

35:09

one day. What? 24

35:11

hours. He ran a hundred miles, bruh. Showed

35:14

it to him. I was like, it's crazy. He's like, I

35:16

run marathons, but that's kind of like, not

35:18

trying to be funny, but marathons is like, you know, you

35:20

decent. You know, he's like, these are

35:22

high level, you know, whatever. And

35:24

I promise y'all, this is why coaching is important.

35:26

I promise y'all just running my mouth. Now I

35:28

wasn't lying, but it's one of those things. Like

35:30

she said that I've always had a desire to

35:32

do, but I just been on my own. And

35:35

I was like, first time this ever happened to me. I

35:37

was like, bro, I've had a dream, bro. I was like, I did a

35:39

5k. I always wanted to do

35:42

10, you know, marathon. He was like,

35:44

you serious? I was like, yeah. Like

35:46

in terms of desire, I told my man.

35:48

Yeah. I'm saying here in terms

35:50

of my desire, I'm serious. He's like, no, no, no.

35:53

In terms of your desire, are you serious? I was

35:55

like, yeah. He's like, all right, let's go run right

35:57

now. I'm gonna help you run a marathon. But

36:00

let's go run right now. And I was like, what?

36:03

I got to go to work. You said right

36:05

now. Bro, I had to finish speaking, bro. Yeah,

36:07

I'm just saying. Ma, I promise you. Three

36:10

minutes later, bro, we had to hop

36:12

defense. We was at Lincoln University. Oh, really?

36:14

Oh, I hopped defense and we did eight

36:16

laps, bro. He was like,

36:18

bro. Wow. He was like, bro. He was like, E,

36:20

you just did eight laps, bro. He was

36:22

like, bro, come on. He said in the end, you

36:25

start sprinting at the end. He's like, bro,

36:28

all you gotta have, Ma, I never had

36:30

nobody go. Let's

36:32

go right now. I

36:34

never had that before. Ma, he didn't send me a full

36:36

book. He did his homework, research. All right. I'm gonna see

36:38

you there. I'm gonna get you there. We're gonna do this.

36:40

I'm gonna be, I'm gonna have mine on. So I'll be

36:43

able to see what you're doing in real time when you're

36:45

doing it. If you could do eight laps and

36:47

I just told you, come on. You could do, he said, I

36:49

wanted you to do, I wanted, I wanted you to do 12

36:52

and I know you had it in you to do it, but

36:54

you just finished. Ma, nobody had ever

36:56

told me, let's go

36:58

right now. Everybody I ever met was

37:00

like, okay, I got you. I'll show you. My

37:03

man was like a real coach. Let's

37:05

go right now. Put a full plan together. I need you

37:07

to do this. I need you to do that. So I'm

37:09

saying the same thing to some of you.

37:11

You got eight laps in you financially. You got

37:13

eight laps in you as a speaker. You

37:16

got it. You just been by yourself. And

37:18

I always say this, when you start paying,

37:21

the more you pay, the more you

37:23

take it serious. When you get something for

37:25

free, you leave a lot

37:27

of meat on the bone. But when you pay that,

37:30

that fund, it makes you go. So yeah, let's

37:32

go. Let's keep it real y'all,

37:34

but it's something you've worked out, gone to

37:36

work, took care of your family. Like there's

37:38

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39:10

I don't know exactly what's going on here. I

39:12

can't see nothing. My eyes are tearing. Jonathan. Jonathan

39:14

got a question. Just scroll down and let's see

39:16

Jonathan. His hands should be at the top. Shout

39:18

out to our Patreon. Go to patreon.com and S2S

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Podcast. Y'all

39:23

sign up on the Patreon. Just unmute.

39:25

So you can be live. We're doing

39:28

this live for our Patreon audience. Just

39:30

unmute Jonathan. What's up Jonathan. Unmute.

39:33

All right. Jonathan go on once. Go

39:35

on towards the. Take it off mute Jonathan. You got you got to push

39:37

the mute button. You talking but we can't hear you. Don't push the mute button.

39:40

I'm gonna give you three. Yep. There

39:42

you go. Three. Two.

39:45

Two. Three. Three.

39:48

Three. Three. Three.

39:51

Three. Three. Two. Two.

39:55

Two. One. Man.

39:58

I tried Jonathan. We tried. All

40:02

right. Come on, Catherine. Hey

40:06

fam. What's

40:09

up? Man,

40:13

another powerful, powerful

40:16

pocket. So look, even

40:19

you say it, reset,

40:23

restart. It's

40:25

all about mindset and renewing your

40:27

mind. We've got

40:29

to renew our mind. And

40:32

for me, that's

40:34

one of the things I need

40:36

to do for, let

40:38

me stop. Cause you always talk

40:40

about don't look back, don't go back.

40:43

I'm going forward. So my focus

40:46

is now resetting myself up for letting

40:48

Jamal always

40:50

say for my future me, for

40:53

my husband, our future us. So

40:57

I just want to ask this

40:59

question. It's probably

41:01

not a question. Probably the same. When

41:05

you were Diddy was to get right.

41:09

You start now. Was

41:12

it a struggle for Diddy? Oh,

41:15

absolutely. Cause

41:20

you didn't have a vision at the time. It

41:23

is a struggle for Diddy right now. Yeah,

41:31

yeah, yeah. I'm just saying that. So keep asking, but I'm telling

41:33

you, right now I still hard for Diddy. Okay.

41:38

But, so I'm just saying, what are you asking me? I

41:41

want to answer it, but I want to correct you. Diddy

41:43

ain't free up yet. Yeah. So what are you asking?

41:47

Well, then you already answered the question. She's

41:49

not freed up yet. She's still in that

41:52

same mindset. But she's still fine on you

41:54

though, right? Yeah.

41:57

So this is what I'm going to tell you. Some

42:00

people faith is

42:03

without evidence. Some people faith is

42:05

with evidence You feel

42:07

me? So Dee Dee is following on

42:09

with evidence. Yeah, is that

42:11

faith it is Something to

42:14

hope for the error. It's no

42:16

it's the evidence right? But if you already have the

42:18

evidence, you don't need faith But we

42:20

all got evidence God is God some

42:22

people need to explore that a little bit more Some

42:25

people just say like bad explore, but you know I'm

42:27

saying like God is God like he is who he

42:29

said he is Some of us just go. Oh it

42:32

is some people gotta go through the Bible and

42:34

read a whole bunch of scriptures and go Oh,

42:37

yeah, Noah did okay. Yeah, Joshua. Okay. Yeah, I'm

42:39

not that person you tell me I got it

42:42

Did he has faith listen to me very

42:44

closely? Did he pack

42:46

up? Here's what I

42:48

always tell people did she come to last

42:50

and fighting? Yes, but she came And

42:54

anybody know Dee Dee Jeremy, you know

42:56

Dee Dee love the church and do whatever she got do for

42:58

the church She ain't necessarily like

43:01

She did she not working for the church in the way.

43:03

I work for the church meaning Like

43:06

just know that this is what God called me to do,

43:09

but she's still doing what God called her to do So

43:12

so you don't get it twisted just

43:14

because she not skipping like I skipped

43:16

She's still being obedient listen to me if

43:18

the church didn't have Dee Dee there would

43:20

a park would have been closed down, bro

43:22

I promise you I would have shut it

43:25

down After Covid I would have

43:27

shut it down. Why I want to be

43:29

in, California I have no desire

43:31

to be in Michigan this wrong from I

43:33

have no desire to be here I don't like

43:35

to go from Cali mountains to Cows

43:40

in trees Dee Dee is here because she

43:42

knows this is God's calling for our life

43:45

So her faith doesn't look like my faith,

43:47

but it's faith that keeps bringing

43:50

her back here. So Dee Dee

43:52

just needs Evidence and

43:54

here's what I mean by evidence Do

43:57

execute on what I said. I was going to execute on I I

44:00

wanted Dee Dee to follow me when I was

44:02

just talking about it. She's

44:04

not into that. But every

44:06

time this house here, Dee Dee didn't want cleaning

44:08

and making sure it's taken care of. The

44:11

one in Cali, Dee Dee making sure that it's

44:13

taken care of. Dee Dee like, you got this vision,

44:15

but I'm the one that got to maintain all your

44:17

little visions. You feel me? So

44:19

Dee Dee's faith is different. She's not the one

44:21

that's going to start it, but she the one

44:23

that's going to finish it and make sure it

44:25

gets to the promised land. So because your spouse's

44:28

faith may not look like your faith, it don't

44:31

mean it's not faith. And

44:33

you got to keep showing up

44:35

and executing so that person who's

44:37

not necessarily the starter

44:40

can look at what you're doing and go, all right, I'm

44:42

going to help you finish this thing. Yup.

44:44

So Dee Dee's faith is just different in my,

44:47

but trust me out, it's faith. All right. Thanks,

44:49

Catherine. Let's get to a couple more. Let's get

44:51

to the executing, Catherine. Yup. All

44:53

right. Who we got? Hey,

44:57

what's going on? Fellow. How are you guys

44:59

doing? Wonderful, brother. Yeah. So

45:01

my question is, you guys talked about reset and

45:04

versus restart. Can you expand a bit

45:06

more on like some practical steps to

45:08

evaluate? This is how I restart

45:10

or I need to restart. This is what I need

45:13

to reset. Yeah. So reset is

45:15

I don't need to be doing this no more because

45:18

it's not going to take me to my goal. So

45:22

reset is I don't need to drink

45:24

pop anymore. That's

45:26

a reset. I only need to drink water. Now

45:28

between me and you out

45:30

of 31 days, I may fall two days

45:33

out of 31 days right now. So

45:35

at one point it was 10 days. I'd

45:38

fall out of 30 days. Then

45:40

it was five days I would fall. Now it's

45:42

like when I'm on the plane and I'm spending

45:45

1500 on the flight and

45:47

they asked me, do I want something to drink? I'm

45:49

like, I got to get something. I just spent 1500. I

45:52

get to give me a little small, give me a little

45:54

spike. You feel me? There was

45:56

a time where it was like completely, but I'm

45:58

resetting. Meaning what? know I know

46:00

Nolan needs sugar in my body. I

46:03

do not need sugar at 53 years old. Sugar

46:07

is deteriorating my brain. It's

46:09

ruining my blood. My blood

46:12

is killing my body. So that's

46:14

a complete reset. It's over. I need

46:16

to be done with it. Arguing

46:18

with my wife reset. There

46:21

is no reason ever that

46:23

you indeed you should be getting into it.

46:25

Period. Right now and I'm gonna say this to you

46:28

because I want to make sure this is clear. So

46:30

Dee Dee said to me, okay you don't be

46:32

fussing and fight with me no more but the

46:34

other day you didn't say anything. My girl

46:37

B Smold she like don't get it

46:39

twisted. You thought it was the the

46:41

loud I didn't like. Now

46:43

you didn't communicate with me. That's still the

46:45

same thing. That's not different.

46:48

You're still you're still arguing with

46:50

me. Whether you're not talking or

46:52

you're screaming it's the same thing.

46:54

So don't get it twisted. Don't

46:56

think because you're like I need

46:58

your energy. You're not giving me

47:01

energy. So you still fails. That's

47:03

a reset. There should never be

47:05

a time based on my energy

47:07

where she don't feel like she get my natural

47:09

authentic energy. There's no excuse for that. I don't

47:11

know how long I'm gonna be alive. So

47:14

that's a reset. Does that make

47:16

sense? That's a reset. Here's

47:18

a restart. A restart is bruh

47:20

I always been active. I

47:23

ain't never been a dude that just sit

47:25

there and watch TV. I don't even watch TV.

47:27

I've never been a dude that eat and watch

47:29

TV at the same time. I don't I don't

47:31

do that. I've always worked out. Now I've never

47:33

worked out the required amount

47:36

which is at least

47:38

four or five days cardio four

47:40

or five days resistance. So I

47:42

had to restart. Meaning I'm already

47:44

on my treadmill. I'm already riding

47:46

the bike. I'm already getting 10,000

47:48

steps in but I'm not doing it

47:51

regularly. I already know

47:54

I shouldn't be eating french fries. I already

47:56

know I shouldn't be eating carbs. So

47:59

complex. So, so I

48:01

got a restart, meaning E, you

48:03

got to do this five,

48:05

six days with, I can show you my phone right

48:08

now, at least five or six days, 10,000 steps

48:11

or more E. One day I had like 18, 19,000.

48:14

So I had to restart. You

48:17

know it's right. You know it's

48:19

healthy. Let's get it going, son. Let's

48:21

go. Reset. It's not, you're not

48:23

supposed to be doing it anyway. So

48:25

get rid of it completely. Does that make sense?

48:29

Absolutely. Appreciate that. Thank you. Beautiful.

48:32

Next. You were talking a little

48:34

bit about poverty mindset earlier and you were

48:36

talking about getting to that left side and

48:38

that the amount of money that you,

48:41

that you spend isn't as important as

48:43

the exposures that you, that you're trying

48:45

to enter into. How do

48:47

you find that balance between entering into

48:49

those exposures and not living beyond your

48:52

means? There is no, there is no,

48:56

what's the word you use? What's that word

48:58

you use? Means. He used

49:00

another word, more balance. There

49:03

is no such thing as that. You

49:05

can't live in poverty and live in

49:07

wealth. There's no balance. You can't be

49:10

in one and be in the other

49:12

one. There

49:14

is no means. What do I mean by that? He

49:16

owns a cattle on a thousand hills. There is no

49:19

means like God is your supplier. There's no means. Here's

49:21

what I would say to you. Here's

49:24

when it's wrong. When

49:26

you're living by faith and no works. He

49:31

never, he mentions them together. He says

49:33

faith without works is dead. So

49:35

I'm working right now. We just spent two hours

49:37

and some change sitting here talking to y'all. I'm

49:39

working and God has taken

49:41

note of the working. We can look at the

49:44

amount of work we do and

49:46

the content that we provide. There's data and

49:48

the data will show us if

49:50

we're providing enough value

49:53

that it will, we will make

49:55

money from it. Right? So it's not,

49:57

so I don't, I'm not, I'm not here by faith. How

50:00

many downloads do we get? How much is Organifi willing

50:02

to give us for what we do? I know what

50:05

I'm going to make. When I

50:07

speak, I charge a certain amount. I

50:09

got to do so many gigs a year. I

50:12

know by faith

50:14

that I'm going to make a couple million as a speaker.

50:17

Why? Because when they call me, I'm ready to work. All

50:20

right. So if they call me and say, 200 grand, okay,

50:22

100 grand. Okay. If

50:24

I say I don't want to speak for less than 100

50:26

grand, but no 100 grand, it's called. And the 30 call

50:28

at some point I'm going to have to go to work

50:30

for the 30 grand. It's not rocket

50:33

science. Right? So we have

50:35

to ask ourselves, is

50:38

the work we're doing matching the faith

50:40

that we have? So faith

50:43

with our works is dead. What's

50:45

work with our faith? Dead. I

50:48

didn't know if it would go to opposite way

50:50

too. It doesn't mean frustration. Oh, okay.

50:54

Frustration. No,

50:56

no, no. Straight up. That's what I said.

51:00

But if I could say back to that thing. Because

51:02

some people working, but you ain't got no faith in

51:04

what you're doing. You're doing your work, not God's work.

51:06

But whoever said, you know, when you ask that question,

51:08

how do you know you're not living outside your mean

51:10

year? That's

51:12

that. What is your mean? What's your means? Like,

51:15

like, right. Like who, who

51:17

sets that standard of your means? What

51:19

does that really mean? What does your means really

51:22

mean? You know what I'm saying?

51:24

You're trying to start another five, man. What does your

51:26

means really mean? No, seriously. So,

51:32

All right. I'm going to tone it down.

51:34

Take your time, pastor. We've

51:36

only been on here for three hours. I'm just

51:38

saying. So

51:40

you got to look at everything like an investment,

51:42

man. Yeah, that's what it is. So

51:45

now, am I wasting my money on something that's not going to

51:47

give me a return? That's

51:49

something different. That's something different. But

51:51

if I'm taking a trip and

51:54

on this trip, me and my wife, we

51:56

are, we are resetting.

51:58

Yeah. And

52:01

this is going to make her a better mother,

52:03

a better wife. It's going to make me a

52:05

better man. We creating a vision while

52:08

we away and we getting this

52:10

quality time together. What,

52:13

how much is that value? What

52:15

price tag is you going to put on that? If

52:18

I'm going on a cruise, I'm going to

52:20

the world's largest cruise next week. Yeah. Taking my

52:22

whole family on it. Where is it? It's in

52:24

the ocean. I

52:27

didn't even heard nothing about it. Mahoney, tell me

52:29

nothing about it. This is the first time I've ever

52:31

been here. My wife is over here having me send

52:33

credit cards right now. That's what I'm taking pictures of

52:35

that had a means to go. And

52:39

so it's, it's, it's,

52:41

it's, I didn't even ask

52:43

my wife how much it costs, but I,

52:45

she asked what credit card should I put

52:48

this on? And I pulled it from his

52:50

Louis. And I was going through the credit

52:52

cards and literally that can't make this up.

52:54

Pick one. I can't make it up. Why

52:56

are we on here? Talk to look, look, look. Car. What does it say? What

52:59

is this? She said, what did she

53:01

say? She said, what? What card

53:03

do you want to use for the

53:05

cruise? I'm about to check in, uh,

53:08

and book our show. Now look, what did I, what

53:10

did I, what did I say? Oh, he sent the

53:12

card. What does the card say? The name.

53:15

Jamal, the bottom JK and

53:18

associates. And then it's a

53:20

JK associate. What did I say right there? Corporate

53:23

family trip. And then

53:25

what'd she say? Oh, the

53:27

perks with the heart, with the heart, with

53:29

the heart. And then what

53:32

I said, the real estate JK and

53:34

associates is owned by the family trust.

53:37

Can't even make this stuff up. That is how

53:40

much is this is a reset. This is my

53:42

family. He would talk to his wife like that.

53:44

I talked to him on the podcast. Well,

53:47

I'm talking to y'all like them talking about rights like that.

53:49

I got a podcast when he said that. And

53:52

it's vital. You got

53:54

to start knowing what to put value, everything. So

53:56

this is not, this is, I'm writing this off

53:58

as a corporate family trip. because it is. I'm

54:01

talking to my family about the trust. My children

54:03

going to be there and I'm telling them about

54:05

the trust. We're talking about investments. We're talking about

54:07

things. So it's not living outside my

54:09

means. I'm not worried about what it costs. It's

54:11

about what is it going to cost you if

54:13

you don't do it. That's what you need to

54:15

be asking about. Hey,

54:19

Jus, I want to do this exercise

54:21

with Jamal real quick. So Jamal, I

54:23

have a home that I've invested in.

54:26

So the home is worth whatever is worth. So

54:29

how long if

54:31

something was to happen and we

54:33

needed to cash value from it, I need to

54:36

get the cash out of it. How

54:38

long, let's just say,

54:41

worst case scenario, I passed. So

54:43

Diddy needs that money. Let's

54:45

say the house in California. How much

54:47

time would it take? Because this is

54:50

my money, but honestly the moderate

54:52

amount of time it would take for me to be able

54:54

to get that. 30, 45 days. Good.

54:57

How much would it take? I want you

54:59

to hear this, Justin. You already said. So Diddy would

55:01

have to wait 30 to 45 days. How long would it take her if she

55:03

sold a Rolls Royce? It's

55:10

a discount, right? Because

55:13

it lost value. That could

55:15

take, I don't even know. This is all about who want

55:17

to buy a Rolls Royce at that point. Give me the

55:19

quickest amount of time it could get. I

55:22

mean, somebody could buy it in a day. Listen

55:24

to me, just my wife said to me,

55:27

like, man, we could do this, do this, do this. I

55:30

literally buy the stuff I buy in the event that

55:32

something happens to me. So

55:34

you have something in the garage that

55:37

you don't have to talk to nobody about. You

55:39

can go sell it tomorrow if you want to. You can sell it

55:41

for a hundred grand, 300 grand, 400 grand. I'll

55:44

buy it for a hundred grand. I can get it

55:46

to go for that level. If she dies, I can

55:50

get a lit one Oh five. I'm just showing you though.

55:52

Cause somebody might look at it like why you buy that?

55:54

Cause I want my wife to have something that you need

55:57

to sell. And that's it. She got a half a million

55:59

dollars. And it was Eric Thomas

56:01

car. So, so that's

56:03

why when we say, so somebody in a poverty

56:05

mindset might go, bro, you just spent that. No,

56:07

I took money and

56:09

hid it somewhere in the event something

56:11

happens to me or Diddy that the key has got a

56:13

half a million dollars instantly. No, I mean, he'd like that.

56:17

I'm going

56:19

to be gone. So I don't know what's going on with

56:22

it, but you see what I'm saying? So

56:24

nothing that we do, everything that we do. Now,

56:28

if you got a poverty mindset, you don't understand it. So

56:30

I do have annuities, but you know how long it's going to take. How

56:33

long is it going to take for me to get 30, 45 days? My

56:36

wife, baby, Lincoln, cotton, NN or get

56:38

that's yours. It's

56:41

yours. So I just want you to say

56:43

you have to not see means you have

56:46

to see what do you want and

56:48

then God show me how to get

56:50

what I what I want. Not need

56:53

some wants. What is it going to

56:55

take to? So there are certain things I've done to

56:57

the house and I'm doing to the house

56:59

that will that that will what's the

57:02

way I'm looking for a mall that will fingerprint that

57:04

this that we had something to do with

57:06

this house. Oh, the Eric Thomas was here. I

57:10

have a fingerprint. Watch when you come to the

57:12

house, you go see. Oh,

57:14

CJ, Jamal, you go see certain

57:16

things. And so when somebody

57:18

buys the house, they're going to be able to go.

57:21

Oh, this is the house that this crew bought like

57:23

this. Oh, this they

57:25

work. So when his values go up, not

57:28

just my house, but they're going to be

57:30

things there that when people bring

57:32

people to their house, they're going to be able to

57:34

say this was so much more does it more was

57:36

like mother the king was in his joint joke. So

57:38

and so was in a joke like when Ma takes

57:40

me on a tour, I always go to the mother

57:43

the king spot whenever I go. And then I told

57:45

me and Ma got a running joke. Then they're going

57:47

to be able to say 100 years from

57:49

now, Jamal King, Eric Thomas was in their

57:51

house. You feel me? So I see. Yeah.

57:55

I forgot. Yeah. Yeah.

57:58

Yeah. Yeah. My

58:00

bad, I forgot to make a degree. But

58:04

I'm just saying, we look at it differently, just, we

58:06

look at it as what do we want, what do

58:08

we need, and then is

58:11

it a house? Is it a speaking gate?

58:13

Bro, I was doing, he taught me real

58:15

estate to make money. Now he's speaking, making

58:17

money. You understand? Before

58:20

he met us, he wasn't making money speaking.

58:22

He making money speaking. Before we met him,

58:25

we weren't making money with real estate. So

58:27

we just showing you how the

58:29

reset, and so whatever D.D. needs, is

58:31

it coming through this house

58:33

real estate? Is it coming through this real

58:35

estate? Is it coming through this real estate?

58:37

Is it coming through that real estate? That

58:40

real estate, that real estate, you feel me?

58:42

Is it Ma's shirt, real estate hat, real

58:45

estate? Where is it coming from? See Brandon,

58:47

somebody else, real estate, Carl with the book,

58:49

the court. So you

58:51

got to ask yourself, what do you want and

58:53

what gift did God give you? Because

58:55

the way God created you, you should never

58:58

have means. Why? Genesis said,

59:00

be fruitful. That's the gift

59:02

that God gave you. He said, multiply the

59:04

gifts that I gave you, subdue

59:08

the earth. That means that

59:10

you taking over it, then dominion,

59:12

the highest level possible. So as

59:14

a speaker, being number one in

59:16

the world, I follow God's blueprint.

59:19

I have dominion in the speaking industry.

59:22

I have dominion. So whatever you do,

59:24

CJ and Brandon, dominion, real estate, dominion.

59:26

I tell Carl all the time, I

59:28

don't care how insufficient or insecure. I

59:30

don't know what were you. I don't

59:33

know which one of them words he

59:35

said. I was an advertisement. It was

59:37

the car. I don't know. Inadequate.

59:40

Inadvertisement. Inadvertisement. Whatever

59:42

the word is, I remind

59:45

Carl, every Negro in

59:47

America that has videos out,

59:50

that's you, that's speaking with B-roll, you created

59:52

that. I don't care how you feel about

59:54

yourself. That ain't got nothing to do with

59:56

me. I'm telling you before you, Carl, all

59:58

you saw with Tony. Robins was a two

1:00:00

two set shot one camera here one camera

1:00:03

and they would blend in going back for

1:00:05

you can see his face and Then his

1:00:07

other face coming in the face and merged

1:00:09

out of his face Same

1:00:14

day two camera shot my

1:00:16

way car was the first

1:00:18

one that put go show

1:00:21

behind speaker Period so everybody

1:00:23

in this room We got dominion over what

1:00:25

we did and you don't ever have to

1:00:27

worry about money when you have when you're

1:00:29

excellent You only have to worry about money

1:00:31

when you have do what you're doing or

1:00:33

when you're only doing it for money When

1:00:35

you do what you do at the highest

1:00:37

level people will pay you whatever you worth

1:00:40

Hey here that dark. Let me let me add

1:00:42

this mall beat me upside the head is like

1:00:44

are you stewarding what you have? Yeah Because

1:00:48

and and mall we shared

1:00:50

this already, but mall was investing as

1:00:52

a police officer, right? You're right.

1:00:55

I don't know if you thought invest I promise y'all it's

1:00:57

easy to look now like he always said like man I'm

1:00:59

all you there. You don't understand Mall

1:01:02

said he was putting money in

1:01:04

Investments then life insurance

1:01:06

then then $50 $50

1:01:09

every two weeks. So I'm no issues Are

1:01:11

you you and it's not this everybody

1:01:13

like are you stewarding because if you steward

1:01:16

it like moss it it sees you planning

1:01:18

It's stuff coming back. So don't

1:01:20

forget that it ain't no like this it outside of

1:01:22

means once you start stewarding Now you

1:01:24

can live in expectation and stuff coming back a got

1:01:26

everything you gave me I used it to the best

1:01:29

of my ability. So as I learned

1:01:31

I'm gonna execute that way. So just want to

1:01:33

add that Now I'm

1:01:35

gonna change the coaching with ET Carlin Jamal

1:01:47

Coaching with ET comm we're gonna take

1:01:49

one or two more got Jordan and

1:01:51

Melvin and then we out of here

1:01:54

This is from all real quick. I'm trying to sell

1:01:56

my house and Talking

1:02:00

know, get my equity, give half to

1:02:02

my ex fiance, keep my half, we

1:02:04

split our way. So we're not really

1:02:06

trying to put in money into the

1:02:08

house. So my question is what's like

1:02:10

the first thing that people see,

1:02:12

like when you walk into a house, what's the thing

1:02:14

that you would recommend for me to put in

1:02:17

so I can sell the house quicker because part of

1:02:19

my equity I'm going to invest into getting to make

1:02:21

real estate too. So I'm trying to get in, get

1:02:24

on that as well. Yeah. So

1:02:26

you're saying what's the first thing that people see?

1:02:28

What does it help them sell the house faster?

1:02:30

What can they increase the value? Yeah. So you

1:02:32

want to wow. Yeah. You want

1:02:34

to create wow factors, right? So

1:02:37

that's the thing, the wow factors. I think you just

1:02:39

saw what I, um, what I did to my house,

1:02:41

my other house, um, on a

1:02:43

video, right? You want to do focal walls. You

1:02:45

want people eyes to go straight to a certain

1:02:47

area of the house. You want to

1:02:49

have light fixtures. It's got to flow, like

1:02:51

literally upgrade all the light fixtures in the

1:02:53

house. Um, definitely paint color

1:02:55

focal walls. You want to take their attention

1:02:57

to certain walls and if their eyes go

1:02:59

to certain walls, you got to make sure

1:03:01

that maybe trim it out with some

1:03:04

nice woodwork on the wall area. Uh,

1:03:07

people definitely go to bathrooms and kitchens,

1:03:09

uh, take up, you've got laminate countertops,

1:03:11

put the granite countertops, possibly paint the

1:03:13

cabinets. Uh, change the door

1:03:16

knobs. A lot of times you want to

1:03:18

make them contemporary. You know, you can go

1:03:20

with the black door knobs or the stainless

1:03:22

steel, black hinges or stainless steel hinges, you

1:03:24

know, it's things like that. Definitely upgrade the

1:03:26

landscape and to draw them to the inside

1:03:28

the house. So those are, you know,

1:03:30

most of the things that people look at, man, people walk

1:03:33

around all the time. Nobody looks at the foundation of the

1:03:35

house, even though that's the most important part of the house.

1:03:37

Nobody looks at the electrical and the plumbing.

1:03:39

Well, you're talking to the investor side now.

1:03:43

When you're selling the property though, I'm

1:03:45

telling you, it's the paint, the paint.

1:03:47

You got to paint the light fixtures

1:03:49

and focal walls. Cool.

1:03:51

Appreciate it. Pablo. Let's go

1:03:53

to Jordan. I don't know

1:03:55

if Jonathan hand just still up, but we take two

1:03:57

more Jonathan and Melvin and get out of here. Yeah,

1:04:01

I hear me. Yeah, that was good. Look,

1:04:05

I just wanted to say this to the people

1:04:07

that's here, bro. They're not capping

1:04:09

to you guys. If you guys aren't signed up

1:04:11

in the communities, if you not signed up in

1:04:13

a group like this past week

1:04:15

and I have one of the greatest experiences

1:04:18

in my life, Shadowing Eve, Internet level Speakers

1:04:20

Academy. And bro, when I tell you I

1:04:22

saw things, met people that I would never

1:04:24

ever have access to all the hard work

1:04:27

that these men sitting in front of us

1:04:29

has put in. Like, guys, if you get

1:04:31

off this call and you don't tap

1:04:34

into the access that you have, you don't really

1:04:36

want it. Honestly, these

1:04:38

men sitting here right in front of us

1:04:40

is giving us game and everything that they're

1:04:42

giving us is true. I'm living

1:04:44

it. They're open up doors that I've never thought

1:04:47

I would. Okay, talk about some of the people

1:04:49

you met. Don't do them like that.

1:04:53

I met Tim Tebow. I met

1:04:55

the CEO of the Nite Conference

1:04:57

as part of American Association of

1:05:00

Christian Counselors. They potentially

1:05:02

may even be working with C, with

1:05:04

blowing out their conferences. They had 11

1:05:07

conferences of women, 8,000 women

1:05:09

plus in rural Virginia. And

1:05:11

they have a 5,000 plus Nite

1:05:14

Conference of men that they host two times a year.

1:05:16

These people were bringing in the next- Get

1:05:19

ready, Doc. Doc, get ready. He said, for

1:05:22

me, Doc, get ready. We

1:05:25

setting you up. If

1:05:27

you're not a part of this community and

1:05:29

really want to lock in and take your life to

1:05:34

the next level, guys, I'm telling you, it is

1:05:36

the real deal and I'm living it right now.

1:05:39

Let me ask you this though, because that's easy to say that, but

1:05:41

when you met Tim Tebow, how

1:05:44

was that experience? Was it on

1:05:46

some groupie stuff or was it

1:05:48

like, yeah, I got something from

1:05:50

me? So

1:05:52

yeah, like even in

1:05:55

that moment, I was able to, so I'm

1:05:57

a sneaker reseller. I provide people with sneakers

1:05:59

and resources. And one of

1:06:01

the things that I tell a lot of

1:06:03

people, your shoes says a lot about you,

1:06:05

with your status and with what you do.

1:06:07

I was able to connect with his team and

1:06:09

potentially I may be able to do some

1:06:11

work when it comes to nonprofit and things

1:06:13

with his team because I have resources and

1:06:15

connections in my area. And it

1:06:17

wasn't on a group like, yo, let me get your autograph.

1:06:20

It was like, no, sit back and listen. And that moment

1:06:22

that he talked about where I'll run the

1:06:24

play and the coach's heart, I saw

1:06:26

that moment in real time and I

1:06:28

heard the message. And so it

1:06:30

ministered me to, oh my goodness, it ministered

1:06:33

me so much differently than maybe what

1:06:35

y'all are hearing it now, because I got to

1:06:37

experience it firsthand. And you're talking about once you

1:06:39

stretch a rubber band, it doesn't go back to

1:06:41

the original size. Same thing with your

1:06:43

mind. When you get stretched, when

1:06:45

you see these experiences, it's going

1:06:47

to stretch you. And when you go back to

1:06:49

your situation, you're going to be so uncomfortable. Your

1:06:51

body and your mind is going to fight against

1:06:53

your own reality and take you to another level.

1:06:56

Let me ask you this last question because I

1:06:59

wasn't here's where a lot of y'all have a

1:07:01

challenge too. And

1:07:05

when CJ talked earlier, he said a

1:07:07

lot of us don't want to fight. I

1:07:10

didn't invite Jay. I

1:07:12

didn't invite Jay there. I

1:07:14

didn't invite him. And so a lot of times

1:07:16

what happens to a lot of y'all is y'all

1:07:18

have access, but then y'all want me to baby

1:07:20

y'all. It's like, you want me

1:07:22

to hook you up and I got to walk your hand

1:07:24

to it. I got to call you

1:07:26

and I don't got time for that. I have

1:07:28

the opportunity. I don't have time to walk the

1:07:30

dog. I'm trying to get

1:07:33

there myself. Jay, how did you, it was a few

1:07:35

of y'all, Jay. How y'all end up getting there? So

1:07:39

for me, I drove two hours from North

1:07:41

Carolina. I saw the adults. I'm saying like,

1:07:43

how did you know it? How did you

1:07:45

get yourself there? What took place? Yeah,

1:07:49

so Rich was speaking, which is the

1:07:51

president's chapter of Next Level. He hit

1:07:53

me up and was like, yo, I'm

1:07:55

speaking in Virginia and E is going

1:07:57

to be there. I

1:08:00

don't have any more tickets. So let me, um, so see

1:08:02

if you can reach out to E and get a ticket.

1:08:05

I hit E up like, yo, can I shout at you as

1:08:07

a speaker and just really see the how

1:08:09

it works and how it goes on. Hit E

1:08:11

up and he was like, no problem. You

1:08:13

can come shadow. I didn't hit up E. I won't like,

1:08:15

yo, what time like all I did was I got in

1:08:17

the car and make the car

1:08:19

there on time, make I won't bother. No,

1:08:23

I made sure you got a ride from the

1:08:25

airport. Cause I knew it was a small town.

1:08:27

He said he was straight and I got, I

1:08:29

hopped back. I hopped in the car. I got

1:08:31

about five, four, five in the morning, drove into

1:08:33

Virginia and I made sure I won't know burden.

1:08:35

I made sure that I won't like, you know,

1:08:37

lay or like, Hey, where, where are you at,

1:08:39

where to go? I made sure I knew the

1:08:41

whole layup before I got there. And I just try

1:08:44

to make sure that I serve you while he was

1:08:46

there. If you need a water, if you needed anything,

1:08:48

like I made sure I was value. And I wasn't

1:08:50

just there being a groupie. Let me say

1:08:52

this to y'all. The one thing that

1:08:54

pissed me off and

1:08:56

I ain't never talking about one thing. I

1:09:00

never talked about Jordan just said it. For

1:09:03

I can't tell you how many times people want to shadow

1:09:05

me and I got to do all the work, what time

1:09:08

is the video? You know, I don't know. I

1:09:10

don't even do that stuff. I don't even know what I was supposed to

1:09:12

be. Where I'm supposed to be. I don't know where it's at. And

1:09:15

I promise you people like the day of call

1:09:17

me 50 times. Okay. Where's

1:09:19

parking? I don't know where parking is.

1:09:22

I don't got nothing to do with that. I'm

1:09:24

letting you come figure it out yourself. Just

1:09:26

get to the spot. And once

1:09:29

you get to the spot, we good to go. And like

1:09:31

Jordan said, not, I got to hold his hand over and

1:09:33

up. Jordan like, okay, he go

1:09:35

to door E we walking in his joke.

1:09:37

He went met Tim Tebow met everybody. Not

1:09:39

E can you take me to go meet

1:09:41

Tim Tebow? Can you tell him, tell

1:09:43

him my name? I don't know. I can't I'm

1:09:45

about to get ready to speak. Right. And so,

1:09:48

uh, that was a good part right there. Figure

1:09:50

it out on your own. I have opportunities for

1:09:52

you, but I don't have time to cook the

1:09:55

grocery shop, cook for you, clean

1:09:57

for you. I like grow up.

1:10:00

Like he said it's gonna be

1:10:02

a fight. You gotta do your part

1:10:04

You can't ask for somebody to cook for you

1:10:06

and do all the other stuff, too You gotta

1:10:08

do your part. Hey if I could piggyback just

1:10:10

on this ET and

1:10:12

Jamal I

1:10:15

mean listen man. I feel convicted. I

1:10:17

just feel convicted. I gotta say something.

1:10:19

I gotta say The

1:10:23

reason why I gotta say something Is

1:10:30

always gonna be one of the class Register

1:10:35

now The

1:10:41

reason why I gotta say so yeah, I got deal with

1:10:43

man Sit

1:10:46

next to you know Miss

1:10:49

man just stayed in my house. He don't talk to Chicago

1:11:00

Chicago yeah, is there anything I can do

1:11:02

for you? Well, you know,

1:11:04

he's a leader here more Getting a

1:11:06

mission to get a little comfort That's

1:11:08

all right. I was just gonna say for all

1:11:10

y'all look I this I started out Is

1:11:13

exactly how I started out and just a little praise

1:11:15

you poor It's crazy when you talk about Jordan you

1:11:18

saw my shadow on him all that stuff Yeah crazy

1:11:20

he called me up about I don't know man It

1:11:22

was about a couple months ago and say hey, I

1:11:24

got to speaking engagement in Chicago and you

1:11:26

like memories like mom You know, hey, come on with me In

1:11:29

front of the principals or whatever he had me coming.

1:11:31

I know I was about to speak. I'm just sitting

1:11:33

there I didn't know it so he called my name.

1:11:35

It was like yeah, I'm all telling what I was

1:11:37

like I know but he put

1:11:39

me in front of not only

1:11:41

a room full of principals. He put me in front of a

1:11:44

deputy of chief and Next

1:11:46

thing I know now they got me Creating

1:11:49

a financial literacy course for the whole Chicago

1:11:51

Public Schools. I Promise

1:11:53

you I can't make this stuff up.

1:11:56

So but it's about proximity about being in the right

1:11:58

place being connected to the right people. All right.

1:12:01

Last one. Melvin Lego.

1:12:06

Oh, what's up fellas? How y'all doing? Good.

1:12:08

Melvin, what's up, bro? I was good to

1:12:10

CJ started talking. He got my

1:12:12

ball. He got my blood ball. I

1:12:16

tried to start my video, but for some

1:12:18

reason I can't, but so whatever. So I

1:12:20

just wanted to, um, so like in 2020,

1:12:24

me and my wife, we purchased a home. I

1:12:26

had Douglasville, Georgia. And, uh, I

1:12:29

think what is it? 20, 24. The house values,

1:12:31

like, it went to like three 50

1:12:33

right now. We bought it in like one 50. So

1:12:36

the value is around three 50. And, um, I'm

1:12:40

just thinking like, I

1:12:42

know sometimes in life to get what you

1:12:45

want, you got to give up certain things

1:12:47

and like sacrifice. And,

1:12:49

um, I really been thinking about like,

1:12:51

should I sell our homes so we

1:12:53

can invest into other things like real

1:12:55

estate and, um,

1:12:58

I just kind of been weighing on me. Like what

1:13:00

options should I choose? I've been wearing on them all.

1:13:03

It's been way. The good thing is, man, is your wife on

1:13:05

here? Oh

1:13:07

no, she's not, but she definitely down with

1:13:09

me, man. We, we, uh, we went on

1:13:11

one day when we met in 2014, we

1:13:14

got engaged that same week. So

1:13:16

she definitely a keeper. She been down with, we've

1:13:18

been married for 10 years. Yeah.

1:13:20

Something good. You don't have to sell. I mean,

1:13:24

I like you would give me here. You're going to accomplish

1:13:26

both, you know, right now, if you just wanted to keep

1:13:28

the house, you said you bought your house a one 50

1:13:30

and it's valued at three, three, three, three 50. Um, the

1:13:34

bank could give you up to 75% loan of value. Right. So

1:13:38

right now, you know, with purchase

1:13:41

plus, so you had 262 of you subtract

1:13:43

that by the one 50 of what you

1:13:45

owe. That

1:13:47

means you had 112,000 in equity at the bank and give

1:13:49

you a line of credit for. So

1:13:51

you got $112,000 at the bank will give you a home equity line

1:13:53

of credit or that

1:13:56

money could just sit in a separate account and

1:13:59

then you can utilize. that money without paying no

1:14:01

interest until you utilize that money. So

1:14:03

imagine if your investment property now is let's say 50,000,

1:14:05

they only going to charge your interest on the 50,000,

1:14:08

but you're going to have access to 112,000. And then

1:14:10

that way you can still

1:14:13

keep your house. And in that way you pretty much burn

1:14:15

money from your own bank. Okay.

1:14:19

Yeah, that makes sense. So like, I think in

1:14:21

my mind, maybe 50,000 as far as the down

1:14:25

payment, I mean, I did, I joined to make real

1:14:27

estate real of course. So I know the whole plan

1:14:29

that you set out, I don't think

1:14:31

it may be 50,000 to be a entry point,

1:14:33

you know, to start.

1:14:37

Yeah. But I mean, like I said, you can get,

1:14:39

you got enough equity, you got enough equity in your

1:14:42

home to just get, I would try to get as

1:14:44

much as possible that way, just in case you

1:14:46

need 60,000 or you might

1:14:48

find a second property, you're not going to be

1:14:50

charged on the money until you use it. So

1:14:53

it don't hurt you to have it. So I always tell people get,

1:14:55

get it. They approve you for 75,000 and you

1:14:57

think you might only need 50 take the 75.

1:14:59

You're not paying. It's not like a refinance. If

1:15:02

you refinance it to 75, that's different.

1:15:04

Your parent interest on that whole amount while waiting

1:15:06

on an investment to come. But with a line

1:15:08

of credit and money just sitting in the bank

1:15:10

waiting on you to find the right investment. Okay.

1:15:14

I guess my appreciate Tom bros. Man, I've been falling

1:15:16

out for a while. I don't

1:15:18

know. Yeah. No, no, no,

1:15:20

no. Yes, sir. Appreciate you.

1:15:23

Um, man, appreciate all the Patreon

1:15:25

fan for tapping in with us

1:15:28

live, man. Y'all are rock stars.

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Y'all sat through with us, man. That's amazing for

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