Fear of being seen for fear of rejection, shame, or indifference is familiar to so many. Spiritually, we know these are old issues and do not fit our lives today. As we waste time in this dimension of fear, we age and begin to have a different fear. Now, we just wish someone could really see us. Visibility means someone can actually recognize or re-think who we are. The irony is that the re-thinking of self begins with us. In truth, one's capacity to see another is based on their own skill of self-reflection.