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the water the water, y'all. Come,

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come on your baby. Uh

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huh, I sure will

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a good morning everybody. You're listening

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to the voice, Come on, dig

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me now, one and only Steve Harvey got

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a radio show. Okay,

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okay,

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here's what I want to share with you. Stop

2:23

complaining. So

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I had to let you see how I let that one sit for

2:30

a second. Stop

2:34

complaining. Do

2:37

you realize without

2:41

us even thinking about it, oftentimes

2:44

we just complain about stuff and

2:49

it comes up in such subtle

2:51

forms. Man,

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I don't know why they're still letting that lady work there.

2:56

Man, If they don't fire this woman, man, I don't know

2:58

what I'm gonna do. She driving me, She

3:02

always got something to say. I

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bet to day though, the way I'm feeling right now,

3:10

I bet she'd been not saying nothing to me today.

3:14

M yeah,

3:16

yeah, because day it today it I'm

3:19

sick of her running

3:21

her mouth. Last time she says

3:23

something to me, I should have said something to it. You

3:26

know what I'm saying. I'm just giving you

3:28

a small example of how

3:30

it starts to snowball once

3:34

you start to complain. It's

3:37

it just carries over into so many

3:39

things. Man, Stop complaining

3:41

about your car, Stop complaining

3:43

about your bus pass, Stop complaining

3:45

about your kids can't seem to

3:47

get it together. Stop complaining about

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your man can't seem to get

3:51

it together. Stop complaining. Stop

3:56

Have you noticed? I'm just asking,

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have you noticed that in all of

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your complaining, it

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has provided not one solution?

4:08

The reason I'm telling you to stop complaining

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because God is able, Because

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God is capable. He

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is capable and able

4:20

of fixing anything, capable

4:24

and able of curing anything,

4:28

capable and able of allowing

4:31

you to get too adjusting

4:33

to things, and

4:36

capable and able to

4:39

strengthen you to get

4:42

through and change

4:44

anything. But the key

4:47

here is God is capable,

4:49

and God is able. A lot

4:51

of times I find myself

4:54

complaining because I have not

4:56

used my greatest asset

4:59

and my relationship with God. You all

5:01

have one now, you may not have nurtured

5:04

it. But you have one because God

5:06

created you as you as his child. He's

5:09

available to you now. The fact that you ain't

5:11

went to him. Okay, once

5:13

again, who fathers that? Stop

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complaining until

5:19

you strengthen your relationship

5:21

with God and formulate

5:23

this relationship. You

5:26

don't have enough weapons.

5:30

You ain't got a big enough shield to

5:32

fight this thing called life. It just

5:34

keeps coming. Man, And

5:37

unless you develop a relationship with God,

5:39

you need a partner in all of this. Maybe

5:42

you got another route you're gonna take. But

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every successful person I

5:48

know personally

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has a relationship with God. I

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have some really really some

5:59

people that's kind of up there in the success

6:02

term in terms of business and money

6:05

and statue. I'm just talking

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about that portion of success. And

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then I have a lot of people who are very

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successful in their spiritual

6:13

life, who have become great

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men of God and women of God.

6:19

But look at all of them, and all of

6:21

them have substantial amounts of you

6:23

know, possessions

6:27

and things like that. Also, most

6:29

successful people I know have

6:32

that even if you saw

6:34

them never with a big lot of

6:36

house and a lot of money or stuff like that,

6:39

they had so much respect, so

6:42

much love, so

6:45

much power. Was given them from

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people that

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their life was rich in that

6:51

area, you know, like

6:54

a man Nu the King or something like

6:56

that, or Gandhi or somebody who lived

6:58

their life in service or Nelson Mandela

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who came out and just man, people put

7:03

stuff at their feet because of their service.

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So all successful people I know have

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that, Every last one of these people

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that I know, they have relationship

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with God. They

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used the tool that was available to

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them to give them the

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strength, the bullets, the arrows,

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the slings, the shield to fight

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this thing called life and have the most valuable

7:26

partner right there by their side. They

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heavily father God because he will help

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you get through this thing called life. Man, stop

7:33

complaining all the time. It's not fixing

7:35

anything. Why don't you do yourself

7:37

a favor and strengthen your relationship with God?

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Man, why can I never get over? Well you

7:43

have not because you ask not. Man, how come

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I always got problems? Well, you keep

7:47

trying to solve them yourself and taking them to your

7:49

friends. You keep trying to do them with your

7:52

own thought process. Who are you? I

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keep telling you, man, you're

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going through stuff you ain't got no business going through.

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And if it's you going through something over and

8:03

over and over and over, and the same problem

8:05

keep coming back to bite you again. All

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that's saying is you still ain't

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strengthen your relationship with God. It's

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your relationship. He's not gonna make you have one

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with him. He is a perfect gentleman.

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He only comes into your life when you invite

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him in. But

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for those who do invite him men,

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they have a distinct advantage on their road

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to success, a distinct advantage.

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You can do it without him. Trust

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me, you can. How far you get. I

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can't promise you nothing, how

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well you handle it when you arrived there, I

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can't promise you nothing, how long

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you're gonna stay there. I can't promise

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you nothing. How

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difficult it's going to be without him. I

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can't give you that. It's going to be far more

8:53

difficult. But you can. Something

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can happen, and you know,

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receive a measure of success, and you think, is you

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and this move you made, And you

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can describe it as I got lucky. I happened

9:04

to be in the right place at the right

9:06

time. I got lucky. Lucky

9:10

is usually how other people describe other

9:12

people's success. Poor he was

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lucky. He was right there. Well, let me tell

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you what luck is. Luck is when hard work

9:18

bumps up into opportunity. If

9:21

you've been working hard at something, an opportunity presents

9:23

itself that comes a match. That's

9:26

not luck. But now,

9:28

if you haven't done that on a repetitive enough

9:31

basis, that opportunity could

9:33

present itself one time. You

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got to reconnect. Stop complaining, man, come

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on, listen to me. Stop complaining. It

9:41

hasn't fixed a single thing in your life. And

9:44

if you're a chronic complainer, it's because

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you really really have not fixed your

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relationship with God. He'll smove it out

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for you. That I can tell you for a fact.

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I know that for a fact he's moved mine

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out. All right, let's go, ladies

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and gentlemen. Can I have

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your attention please? And

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the reason I'm asking for it is because when

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I get it, I'm gonna do something with it. Now

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now that I have your attention, here

10:14

we go. You're about to be enlightened,

10:18

a little bit frightened, educated,

10:22

but then sometimes a little miseducated.

10:25

You're gonna be entertained, while

10:28

at the same time start the

10:30

process of being interchanged. Then

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we're gonna stimulate but

10:36

we're not gonna try to annihilate. And

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in other words, when you summon all this up,

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in the words of one of my dear, dear friends,

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the Steve Harvey Morning Show is

10:47

about to tad a mouth file. And

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the word is mouth m ou fl

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mouth. That's

10:56

how we say it, That's how we spell

10:58

it. Welcome to the show, surely,

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straw band. That is what we do. Steve

11:03

Harvey, Good morning for

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real, Good morning. What's

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happening crew? Hey, hey, hey

11:10

hey Junior morning unc you latchet

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mouse ever nephew

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Tommy, have your mouth out,

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just take it? Yeah,

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hung and all gums, all that

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thing in there. You have gental work

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like a fool that out. Got

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some more money. Feeling you're

11:35

gonna need some more work. Yeah?

11:39

Yeah, you look good today,

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Steve. You're feeling all right there? Yeah yeah,

11:43

you don't feel pretty good man. I've changed

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my attitude and I

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feel really great. I've

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taken everything, everything that I

11:53

used to have to do, I've turned it

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around and said I get to do it.

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Has made a world of difference. My days

11:59

are going much smoother. I've implemented

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the thought process of gratitude

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and everything I do and I'm just

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watching God to see what he got from

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me next, because He's always taken care of

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me, and I lived my life in the expectation

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that there's some greater things on the horizon,

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and I'm just watchful. Come

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on, man,

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watch thank you George.

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Yeah. Now, what I always try to

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make sure I do now is

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I try to give something for

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God to put his finger on. You

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know, God can touch it for you. I just

12:31

try to give him something to touch, you

12:34

know, I put it. I got a lot of balls in

12:37

there. You

12:39

know for sure he can take

12:41

any one of them balls he wants to and just

12:43

blow it up. That's right to

12:47

do that. But now he did. He did this,

12:49

and turns out it's better. Surely.

12:51

I can't really tell you how many times

12:54

what I wanted and what he

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gave me was two different things. Absolutely,

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how I wanted and how he gave it to me it

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was different, and it was way better

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than what I want.

13:05

Way, because

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his thoughts are not our thoughts. Man,

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such a blessed man to come to the realization

13:13

of how this actually works. Man, I

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wish I could teach people how it works

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without sounding preaching, because I'm

13:20

not really qualified to do that, but

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I wish I could share with people how how

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it works. Man, let's do it

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for you can

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do that all the time. Yeah,

13:32

all right, well you can teach here. Well I'm gonna

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try it in my closing remarks, all right,

13:36

and you could do it in the clo that's

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coming up next to Ask the Cello at thirty two

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minutes after the hour. Right after this you're

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listening to show

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all right, time now for ask the Clo.

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This one clo is from Jolie

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in Lexington, Kentucky. Jolie

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writes, I'm in my early fifties and

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I'm married to a woman that has gotten

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super holy since the pandemic started.

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If she's not a church, she's watching

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it on TV. This is billed

14:05

over to our sex life, and she says

14:07

freaky sex is out because sex

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is only for pro creation. I

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want to put her. I

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want to I want her. I want to

14:16

put her in all the positions she used to love

14:19

because she won't but she won't allow herself

14:21

to get into it. How can I get her Bible

14:24

off the nightstand and get her into

14:26

this pretzel position like the dog?

14:30

I can't, really, I can't.

14:33

Richie, guide you on this room right here, because

14:35

you asking me to get the Bible off, nice

14:38

thing in and get her foot back

14:40

over there up there by that lamp. And I don't.

14:43

But this is wife dost well

14:45

see she tripping, yeah,

14:48

CC tripping And you know you didn't

14:50

got real holy because you didn't have them. Something

14:53

happened to you doing COVID. But sex

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is for pre creation, but sex is a

14:58

lot of it's for pleasure. See,

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I'm not having no more kids

15:06

to stop. So I don't know what you're asking me

15:09

to do. But I'm in here clunding to

15:11

the best of my ability. I'm I'm showing

15:14

out when I can't you know what I'm saying, you

15:16

know, So I don't know what to tell you to sell

15:19

bro. I know she gonna have to

15:21

do something though, because what you can't do. You

15:24

know, it's changed on this man and have him

15:26

sitting up in here now you didn't

15:28

cut him off. I don't know what you think he gonna do.

15:31

But if he if he don't go down there and get

15:33

the same same I

15:36

don't know, converging, he

15:39

don't get that, he gonna go somewhere else later,

15:43

everybody on this shop, then

15:47

we're COVID. Everybody been clumbed, everybody

15:51

speaker. I don't

15:54

know why you try to drag these ladies into

15:58

just stayed over here with me, guys

16:01

Montavius. Montavius

16:04

and say that again in Baton Rouge

16:07

says, I got my EMT certification

16:09

and I need to move to a bigger city to get

16:11

a job. My girlfriend

16:14

just had a baby, girl, and she doesn't want to leave

16:16

our hometown because she needs her mom's

16:18

help with the baby. I'm trying to prepare

16:20

a good future for my family, but she's

16:22

tripping about me leaving. If I stay

16:24

in town, I could continue to manage

16:27

the restaurant where I work, but

16:29

that's not my dream. Do I make the sacrifice

16:32

for my girlfriend and stay, or do I make

16:34

the bigger sacrifice for my family

16:36

and go. Well, you could

16:39

go ahead and get

16:41

it all set up, and then when she get a

16:43

little bit better handle on the baby,

16:45

bring the family to you, and

16:48

then you on weekends, of course, drive

16:50

back. I don't know how far the city

16:52

is that you got to move to, because he's in

16:55

I don't know what city he is. He's

16:58

in Baton Rouge. You got some a lot

17:00

about your luge Baton Rouge, great

17:02

city. You gotta go to New

17:04

Orleans or you're gonna have them or

17:06

Houston. Not how far is Houston

17:08

from Baton Rouge. Yeah,

17:11

so you can go on up there and just

17:13

drive back on the weekends if

17:15

you ain't gonna call, or you can

17:17

go to Loui Louisiana. I

17:19

mean, I mean little New Orleans that

17:22

they're busy. Whoa is all

17:24

day? Loan down there? Yeah,

17:30

I ain't gonna lie to you. They probably

17:32

need you down now. And

17:35

then you know, it's

17:37

kind of tough because this man is trying to provide.

17:40

Yeah, and that's his dream to do emt

17:43

He on the tie of managing the restaurant. That's

17:45

why he went. Now I know she tripping,

17:48

but y'all got to sit down and talk about what's

17:50

best for the family. You'll be able to sit back

17:52

way more money than manage it. Yeah

17:54

all right, um wow man,

17:56

you know, but but girlfriend though not

17:59

wipe so yeah, exactly.

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Moving on Amazing in

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Riverdale, Georgia. Amazing

18:07

says I did a weight loss challenge with my co

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workers and we took

18:12

before and after pictures. It was

18:14

four ladies and four guys. We wore biker

18:16

shorts and sports bras for the before pictures,

18:19

and the men were shirtless in biker

18:21

shorts. My husband was snooping through

18:23

my phone and saw the pictures of me with my

18:26

coworkers. He got upset because

18:28

my male co workers saw me and a BRA. I

18:30

lost six pounds in a week and I won the

18:32

challenge. But he's ruining the whole

18:35

experience. How can I get him to understand?

18:39

Dog, Dog, it was a bra sports

18:43

brawl and some spandex dog best

18:46

equivalent to a bikini less

18:48

than a bikini, right, yeah?

18:51

So bro, come on, man, I mean

18:53

dog, they all did it for the

18:55

challenge, So I mean,

18:57

Bra, your wife in the house, she just lost.

19:00

It was for a challenge, before

19:02

and after picture sports brawl spannedex

19:05

short that was it. But

19:07

Steve, but dog, shudn't she a toll

19:09

him first? Though? He shouldn't find

19:12

that by just man, I don't know why

19:14

she didn't tell him. You keep

19:16

your phone unlocked, Tommy, So oh

19:19

no, NBI can't get in this phone right here,

19:21

Hall, I first read this that

19:24

l and lbs for pounds. I thought

19:26

it was sixty one pounds in a

19:28

week. Yeah, that's

19:33

she's been up for seven days and

19:35

she ain't eight. That's she's been running

19:37

round a yard. Wait

19:39

a minute, what she loves? How many pounds?

19:42

All right, all right? Reggie in New

19:44

Jersey says, I'm a forty four year old

19:46

married man and I think my wife is cheating on me.

19:48

She's been staying out late after work and her phone

19:50

is off. I retired military,

19:53

and I put a tracking device on her car so

19:55

it's always at the place she said that she's going.

19:58

But um, I think she's your

20:00

car and getting in with someone else. Um.

20:02

I don't want to sound paranoid, but I

20:05

am. We were home together for months last

20:07

year, and now she said she treasures her

20:09

time with her friends. Why does she need

20:11

to turn her phone off? Though? I

20:15

don't know, Bro, I don't want to start

20:17

nothing because you're a man and we have a tendency

20:19

to be ignorant. But you

20:21

know, she turned her phone off, but

20:24

she got the tracking device and her cars always

20:26

where you say it is. So I don't

20:28

know what to tell you, bro, because I don't want to incite the

20:30

ride or get you all worked up

20:32

about nothing. So you know, just

20:34

talk to your wife and see what's going on, you

20:37

know, but don't jump to conclusions

20:39

and do nothing crazy because I can't say nothing to get

20:41

your staughtered in that direction. Don't

20:43

tell her, don't tell him. Steve coming

20:47

up next, it is the nephew would run that

20:49

brank back right after this you're

20:52

listening show

20:55

coming up at the top of the hour, Miss Hannah

20:57

standing by with today's national news

21:00

and an entertainment news celebrity baby

21:02

news from Fantasia. That

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is our girl, She's a new mommy,

21:07

and Quincy Jones says Elvis

21:10

was a racist. We'll talk about all of

21:12

these stories that

21:18

we all ready to do that. Yeah,

21:21

right now, the nephew is here, would run

21:24

that prank back. What you got for us, nef yo

21:26

check bounce, yo, check

21:29

bounce. Let me tell y'all used to write bad

21:31

checks at the church back in the day, way back

21:34

not at the church. Yeah,

21:36

well, you know, not not intentionally, but

21:38

you know, as my aunt used to say,

21:41

per se,

21:44

you know, it used to amaze me. The church

21:46

would get that check on Sunday and I don't

21:48

know how ain't cleared Monday morning. It'd be

21:50

gone. The love worked it out,

21:53

just like yeah everything else. Okay,

21:57

yo, check bounce. Let's go Hello.

22:00

Hello, I'm trying to reach a Monica system.

22:03

Monica please, who's calling? This

22:06

is Brother de Sean. I'm calling Actually

22:08

I'm a member Greater Commissionary

22:10

Baptist Church. How can I help you? Calling

22:13

you actually about the offering? Now? Did you?

22:15

I know you paid your ties

22:18

every Sunday? Okay, Now you paid a love

22:20

offering as well? Right? Yes, I do? Okay,

22:23

Now this past Sunday. I'm

22:25

looking at a check that you left us with the

22:28

bank, right right, I sure did.

22:30

I wrote a check Sunday. Okay. Now

22:32

the check, ma'am was two hundred

22:34

and fifty dollars? Am I correct?

22:37

Right? Right? I wrote two checks for my ties

22:39

and the love offering? Right? I wrote

22:41

one for two fifty for the love offering? Okay?

22:43

Now what is this call regarding? Why

22:46

are you calling me? What I wanted to tell

22:48

you is that I hate to be a bar of

22:50

bad news, but your check

22:52

that you wrote for two fifty actually has

22:54

bounced. And wait

22:57

a minute, you said my check bound for two hundred

23:00

dollars. Your check bound. So what

23:02

I'm doing is calling you about recouping

23:05

the two fifth as well as you know you you

23:08

cost us thirty dollars uh

23:10

in bank fees. But wait a minute, now, I

23:12

wrote two checks. I wrote a check for one hundred

23:14

dollars. Did that one bounce? I don't

23:16

see to it that that that one bounced. All

23:19

I know is the one that the love offering has bounced.

23:21

What did you put them in at the same time? Because I wrote

23:23

them at the same time. They all go in

23:25

on Monday, ma'am. Now I didn't put them

23:27

in at the same time. I've been putting them in for the last

23:30

two or three years. The problem is why would

23:32

people write that is your name, m brother

23:34

Deshaun at Sunday I

23:36

was. I don't think it matters. And when

23:38

I was there, man, the problem is that I didn't

23:41

put these checks in. And I don't understand

23:43

why y'all write these checks to the track

23:45

knowing that they're gonna bound. Because a lot

23:47

of people write that good well not check

23:51

one clear? Why the other one didn't clear? Maybe

23:53

you didn't have enough money for both of them to clear?

23:55

What what did you just say?

23:58

Maybe you didn't have enough money in the ain't for both

24:00

of them to clear. I don't understand why people write the planning

24:02

money in the bank and all my checks

24:05

clear. I don't write no rubber checks.

24:07

Well, you wrote one on Sunday, and that's

24:09

the problem. How are you gonna try to give a look?

24:11

You wait a minute. I think you got me confused with somebody

24:14

else. I don't write no bad checks. You

24:16

didn't wrote that to be nice to you. I'm trying

24:18

to be nice to you. Win. Can we expect the two

24:20

fifty plus the thirty dollars? So thirty

24:23

dollars? That's the bank feeds man for

24:25

the dog gonna check bouncing. My check

24:27

didn't bounce. I don't check my bank.

24:29

And if my check clear, you're gonna pay me

24:31

thirty dollars for calling me harassing me

24:34

about a two hundred and fifty dollar check

24:36

bounce. I don't write no Why would you

24:38

write check? What? You want to sit up in the church and

24:40

write these big number checks when you know you ain't

24:42

got it in the bank. What did you

24:44

say? I said, why would you write these

24:47

checks when the money ain't in? Now, let

24:49

me tell you that's one thing. I

24:51

don't write no bad checks. And you

24:53

got a lot ners calling me telling

24:55

me my check bounce. Y'all check is the one

24:57

that has bounced and you tell you what you do. It's

25:00

my check bounce you paid them

25:02

since you got all the money, and don't call

25:04

me with this again. Hello,

25:09

don't you hang up on me no more? Why

25:11

don't we gonna get this two fifty and this thirty

25:13

dollars?

25:15

Somebody from the church to my I wrote a bad

25:17

check? I write you did write a

25:19

bad check. I didn't write no bad Yes,

25:22

dad, Why are you calling me?

25:24

Why the treasure? Don't call me at church?

25:26

The treasure is business. I ain't never

25:28

know the deacon called nobody about no bad check.

25:31

You're fully

25:34

thank you you got the money I ain't

25:36

got. Who in the hell is that in the background?

25:39

Who is that a mind? Who it is? We're both

25:41

going to the same church, and you're gonna call

25:43

me to my I wrote a bad check. You don't

25:45

you call me no more? And if the check bads,

25:48

you paid? Okay? Passed to

25:50

know you talking like this? You pass to

25:52

No you calling me? Can you ask for that?

25:55

Look? When are we gonna get this? Two hundred and

25:57

eighty dollars? Is what we're looking for from you? I

25:59

wrote a check for two fifty and

26:01

not get two eighty. You puts

26:04

with it. You put two fifty in there.

26:06

It bounced. Thirty dollars cost us on

26:08

bake fees. That's two eighty. Where

26:10

can the church expect their money?

26:13

Never not, No, two eighty. You

26:15

will never get to eighty. You're gonna make me come by

26:17

your and my check in But what

26:19

did you say. I'm gonna do what You're gonna make me come by

26:21

your house and get this money, bring it

26:23

own, bring it bring you what

26:26

is the address on this check? Check? I

26:28

got it off the check, bring your own.

26:30

I bet you you'll be limping back and

26:33

I'm watching you. You bet not be spending no

26:35

money nowhere. You bet not spend nothing until

26:37

I get this two fifty plus thirty whatever

26:39

I want to Okay, No, you you

26:42

know where I am. And you don't call me no

26:44

more with this because my check

26:46

did not bounce. I don't see how one check

26:48

went through and the other bounce. Let me say this to you,

26:51

we cannot accept you back into the

26:53

House of the Lord no more until you

26:56

are not don't you come in the sunday until

26:58

we get coming up in the sunday, and

27:00

I'm gonna make sure I find your because

27:03

you the person I want to see yours,

27:05

and you know what, I'm gonna call the pastor right now

27:07

and asked him because I don't believe my check

27:09

bounce. You fully let me say this before

27:12

you called pastor. I got no, I'm gonna called pastor.

27:14

No, you should have talked with pastor before you called

27:16

me with this information. I got one

27:19

more thing I need to say. You ain't got nothing to

27:21

say to me. You don't upset me with this I

27:23

talked about I bounced a check. You should

27:25

have went to pastor before you called me with you.

27:28

I tall a pastor one I got, but I got one

27:30

more thing to say before I leave. Did you listening?

27:32

What are you about to say to me? What do you

27:35

have to say now that you're gonna pay the check?

27:37

This is Nephew timing from the Steve

27:39

Harvey Morning Show. You just

27:42

got pranked by your girlfrid.

27:47

What did you say? Baby?

27:49

This isn't say What

27:52

did you say? I'd say? This is nephew time

27:54

me baby brother Steve Harvey morn. Until

27:56

your girlfriend has pranked

27:59

you, I'm gonna beat that. She

28:02

just left hid flying her.

28:05

She didn't let

28:08

me ask you one more thing though? Baby? What is

28:10

the baddest radio show

28:13

in the land, the Steve Harvey

28:16

Morning and

28:19

then you have it. You check bounce

28:23

there, you're gonna get it. She

28:25

was not playing with right about

28:28

her ties and offering when

28:30

deacons started calling about some chick that that

28:32

don't make no sense to me. The treasure all

28:35

right on land. Don't get ready. I have added a

28:37

show Thursday night. The Nephew has added a seven

28:39

thirty show. Tickets are on sale right now. As

28:42

you know, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Friday

28:44

and Saturday is what sold out. So

28:47

I added Thursday nights. I'm thirty tickets

28:49

on sale red now. Temple

28:51

laying in the cut late June. I'm

28:54

proud to say it. All shows sold

28:56

out. Yeah, the Nephew back. You

28:58

don't understand The Nephew back,

29:00

brand new, brand new jokes, brand

29:03

new suit, brand new haircut. Congratulation

29:08

coming up at the top of the hour, entertainment

29:10

in National News. Right after this, you're

29:12

listening to Steve Harvey Morning

29:15

Show. Well,

29:17

we have to say congratulations to our girl.

29:20

Steve. Check this out. Our girl Fantasia

29:23

had a baby's

29:26

mom. Yes, she and her

29:29

husband Kendall Taylor,

29:31

welcome their first child together. It's baby

29:33

girl, Kauziah London Taylor.

29:36

All right, this is the third child for Fantasia.

29:39

She has a nineteen year old daughter named Zion

29:41

and an eight year old son named Dallas from previous

29:43

relationships. Taylor also has another

29:46

child from a previous relationship. So all

29:48

we can say is congratulations. And did

29:50

you see the picture of Fantasia with

29:53

the elephant. Yeah, oh

29:56

yeah, it's just beautiful, beautiful,

29:58

beautiful.

30:02

Yeah, you gotta see it on Instagram.

30:06

You know that's your girl. Tommy

30:10

was a nursery, you know, from the baby and yeah,

30:15

really pretty. So

30:18

congratulations Fantasia.

30:20

Well, Steve, you'll be interested in this.

30:23

Quincy Jones has worked with almost every

30:25

big name in music, but he refused

30:28

refused to work with Elvis Presley.

30:30

He shared the story with the Hollywood Reporter, saying,

30:33

I was writing for bandleader Tommy Dorsey

30:36

back in the fifties and Elvis

30:38

came in and Tommy said I

30:41

don't want to play with him. Quincy said he was

30:43

a racist. MF. I'm going to shut

30:45

up now, Okay,

30:49

So Tommy Dorsey, when else Elvis

30:51

came in, said I don't want to play with him because Quincy

30:54

said he was a racist. MF mother

30:56

f That's what he said. I'm going to shut

30:58

up now. The Hollywood know what all these initials

31:01

mean. You see, you don't custom like with me,

31:03

so you think you gotta explain. We know what you

31:06

know. You ain't got to say mother elf. We

31:08

know what that is. If you thought

31:10

we think shirley, you thought we thought malfunction? What

31:12

you thought we thought

31:18

legal term. The Hollywood

31:20

Reporter series is called Icon and

31:22

in the article, Quincy opened up about his candid

31:25

takes on Hollywood racism and he reflects

31:27

on his career. Quincy Jones is eighty

31:29

eight years old. He's won twenty

31:32

eight Grammys. Twenty

31:34

eight. You know a lot of people twenty

31:37

eighty eight. He ain't got fixed nothing. He said, let

31:40

it go. Yeah, he's saying whatever

31:43

he wants to say. Pust that little song on

31:45

the movie frost the Frosty of

31:47

Frozen, let it go. The

31:52

movie is Frosty. It'srozen,

31:55

that's A and

31:57

D. It's not Frosty the Snowman.

32:00

Right. And

32:03

I just learned all this the other damn family.

32:06

Yeah, because the little girl on

32:08

the show named Anna, what I call

32:10

it Anna, but it wasn't Anna Anna.

32:14

Then she said Anna liking of

32:18

frozen? Well, what the hell is

32:20

that? I don't even know what that is?

32:22

She said, you don't know where a frozen

32:25

is an? I said

32:29

no, But I said, what

32:31

is the little girl's name that's

32:34

on the billboard? She said, on

32:36

what field board? Because

32:38

I kept getting it mixed up with Frosty

32:41

and you know, Wendy's Wendy's

32:47

hass Frosty boy,

32:51

that little girl thought I was. She was just looking

32:53

at me. Her mother was open. She was just shaking her head.

32:56

Mister Harvey, go, I'm

33:02

ripping off information now. Let

33:05

go,

33:10

Letty go, let

33:13

go. Let's get to the headline.

33:15

Steve, here she come.

33:19

Whoamies? Oh

33:25

thank you very much that introduction.

33:27

Good morning everybody, This is Antrip with the news.

33:30

Well, today marks the one year anniversary of

33:32

the horrific murder of George Floyd, and members

33:34

of the Floyd family have been meeting

33:36

in Minneapolis and they were met there

33:38

by racial justice activists over the weekend, actually

33:41

celebrating and remembering the life of the

33:43

forty six year old father, a white now

33:45

ex police officer we know his named Derek Chauvin,

33:47

murdered mister Floyd by pressing his knee into

33:50

Floyd's neck for over nine minutes. There's

33:52

a panel discussion yesterday which included

33:54

the families of other African Americans killed

33:56

by white cops, and at a rally, the Revenel

33:59

Shopton reminded the crowd that the fight's not over.

34:01

Convicting Chauvin is

34:04

not enough. We need

34:06

federal legislation, and that legislation

34:09

is called the George Floyd Justice and Policing

34:12

Act, which would ban chokeholes, among

34:14

other things, and make it easier to prosecute

34:16

homicidal cops. Derek Chauvin

34:18

was convicted of both murder and manslaughter.

34:20

He's going to be sentenced next month. George

34:23

Floyd's brother, Terrence Floyd, says

34:25

that his brother's murder did force people to

34:27

see and to believe. The world woke

34:29

up finally open

34:33

to what we already knew, that's

34:35

right and always said, oh, by the way. Members

34:37

of the Floyd family also scheduled to meet with President

34:39

Biden later aren't today at the White House. Several

34:42

states now either prohibit or limit

34:44

the use of chokeholes and neck restraints by police,

34:46

and more and more individual cities are taking

34:48

steps to reign in bad cops and make them accountable

34:51

for their actions. Meanwhile, the mostly

34:53

right leaning US Supreme Court refusing

34:55

to consider a case examining liability

34:58

for police shootings in suburban Cleveland.

35:00

In one case in twenty seventeen, a white

35:02

officer named Michael Rhodes shot and killed

35:04

an African American man named Luke Stewart,

35:06

and by shooting him in the chest and neck at close

35:08

range. Stewart's family father federal civil

35:11

rights lawsuit. The Israeli

35:13

Hamasses fire is still holding across

35:15

your fingers, folks. So Secretary of State Anthony

35:17

B. Lincoln is traveling to the Middle East. He's probably

35:20

there and now it's probably just arrived where he's expected

35:22

with Egypt's assistance to gain

35:24

the cooperation of other countries in the region,

35:27

Jordan, the United Arab Emirates, and

35:29

the Palestinding Authority that's Hamas's

35:31

main rival in the Godza Strip. He's going to be apparently

35:33

speaking to them. He says he's not going to have anything to

35:35

say to Hamas. Finally, a suburban

35:38

Atlanta restaurant that I told you about yesterday

35:40

issuing an apology to NBA Hall of

35:42

famer Dominique Wilkins, who was turned

35:44

away Sunday by the staff. They are claiming there were

35:46

no tables, and then when he said what there are, he said,

35:48

oh, well, you're not dressed properly. Yeah,

35:50

I'm trying to tell

35:52

you a story. Yeah, somebody's telling the story

35:54

not dressed properly. Right now, back to

35:56

the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening.

36:01

Well, the grass isn't always greener.

36:04

On the other side, twenty four year old Minnesota

36:06

NBA player Malik Beasley publicly

36:08

apologized to his wife after

36:11

leaving his family for forty six

36:13

year old Larsa Pippen, Scottie Pippen's

36:15

ex wife. Malik posted on his

36:17

ig yesterday, I want to say

36:19

sorry for putting you in the situation you

36:21

were put in the last few months. My

36:24

head wasn't where it was supposed

36:26

to be, Beasley wrote, alongside

36:29

a throwback photo of himself

36:31

and his wife cradling their son McKay,

36:34

who's now two, in the hospital after

36:36

he was born. I was looking for more

36:38

when it was right here the whole time. I'm

36:41

telling the world and you that

36:43

there's nobody like you for me.

36:45

His wife, Montana filed for divorce

36:48

back in December, and she publicly called

36:50

the apology a step forward in healing

36:52

for her family. Wow.

36:57

Now he's twenty four, Larsa

36:59

Pippen was forty six. He left his family

37:02

for her. Yeah, Warso

37:05

was out there bad with this thirst

37:10

is I don't understand that at all. You broke your

37:12

thoughts, Steve. You're you're awfully quiet right

37:14

now, you're processing. Yeah,

37:21

come on, bring it, baby, bring it and

37:24

publicly apologize he

37:26

humiliated her. Yes, I

37:29

mean what he's doing is the perfect thing to

37:31

do to try to make a right now.

37:38

Okay, I know all these people

37:40

I don't know know them, I know they

37:43

are. Yeah, and

37:45

you've met them as well. Well,

37:48

I've never you

37:52

can't talk about and you know too

37:55

much that I can't. Come on, give

37:57

me something, give me a little something. I

37:59

understand. I understand. I

38:01

understand the temporary lapse of judgment.

38:04

Okay, okay, we've all had that. Yeah.

38:06

Yeah, but he that temporary loss

38:09

of judgment. He came on back like he's

38:11

posted to. But I do understand the

38:13

temporary lapse of judgment. Well,

38:17

she broke his wife's heart. Yeah,

38:19

she said, it's a step forward. And see

38:21

that's that's what's crazy, old man. You

38:23

can't that you broke your girl's heart

38:25

over what and

38:28

and how is uh

38:30

twenty four he's twenty four and

38:35

Larsa is forty six.

38:38

Yeah, he lost his mind.

38:41

Well that out like looking

38:44

at pictures, like like everybody else

38:46

found out. But you know, yeah, that's

38:48

that's the cold part right there. Yeah. But

38:51

but Steve, you say this often, just

38:54

as he said, I was looking for more when

38:56

it was right here the whole time. He

38:58

went outside of his home to

39:01

try to fix something, you know, don't

39:08

trust and believe. Yeah, all

39:10

right, well, we wish them the best. Coming

39:13

up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll

39:15

have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

39:17

after this. You're listening to

39:20

this day show. Well,

39:23

Congress is set to miss President Joe

39:25

Biden's deadline today to pass George

39:27

Floyd's Justice in Policing

39:29

Act. It's a police reform

39:31

bill as negotiator to decide

39:34

how far the federal government should go to

39:36

root out law enforcement misconduct and

39:38

violence against black Americans.

39:40

It was one year ago today that George

39:43

Floyd was murdered by

39:45

former Minneapolis police officer Derek

39:47

Chauvin after he pressed his knee

39:49

into Floyd's neck for more than nine

39:51

minutes. Congress as yet to exert its

39:54

power to change American policing, and

39:56

according to CNBC, by partisan

39:58

negotiators have worked for weeks

40:01

to tweak the House pass George Floyd

40:03

Justice and Policing Act to win enough

40:05

Republican support to get it through the Senate.

40:07

A provision to curve qualified

40:10

immunity, which shields police

40:12

officers from most civil lawsuits,

40:14

poses the biggest remaining obstacle

40:16

toward reaching a deal. And today

40:19

is the day that President Biden will have a

40:21

private meeting in person with George

40:24

Floyd's family. Look, if you don't

40:26

get rid of that unity

40:29

is qualified immunity. This

40:31

is all for nothing. That's the

40:33

loophole. The qualified immunity

40:36

says that if a police

40:39

officer cannot be held accountable if

40:41

he's performing in the act of duty,

40:44

well, if he got his badge

40:46

out and and he talking,

40:48

he in the act of duty, so that so

40:50

that puts him back into safety's own Listen

40:53

to me, why is it that

40:56

black people have to constantly

40:59

beg and march

41:01

and plead and ask for

41:04

the same rights that you have.

41:07

Y'all need to quit acting like justice

41:09

is pie. Like if we get

41:12

a big slice, that's less for yours. Justice

41:15

ain't pie. Justice is a flavor,

41:18

y'all won't even do a simple act

41:20

of give it to us. And why you won't give

41:22

it to us because your ass is straight

41:25

up racist, because

41:27

you think the way you're treating black people

41:29

is sufficient for them. But if you were

41:31

getting treated the same way, you wouldn't

41:34

accept it for yourself. You would never

41:36

allow for your children to be murdered

41:38

the way we got to watch our sons

41:41

and fathers and daughters and

41:43

husbands and nephews and

41:46

uncles get murdered. But you sit

41:48

up here in there and you constantly want to say

41:50

America ain't racist, but you keep doing

41:53

racist stuff like this. You won't even

41:55

pass a simple act to

41:57

give us a chance at justice,

41:59

not for the bigger slice of justice,

42:01

but the same flavor that y'all getting. We

42:04

want the same damn spoon. Your

42:06

ass is eating your justice all for justice

42:09

ain't pie, y'all. Where if you give

42:11

us a bigger slice, you get less. That

42:13

ain't what this is. Justice is

42:15

a flavor, and we ain't been tasting

42:17

the same thing since our ass got here.

42:20

And that's what we're sick of, and we're

42:22

sick and tired of it. And you're gonna keep messing

42:24

around. Okay, now, let me tell you this here, you're

42:26

gonna keep messing around. Man. Black

42:28

folks tired it is. Black

42:31

folks is sick and tired of

42:33

being sick and tired. Were sick and

42:35

tired of you just sitting up in here, man, expecting

42:38

us to be patient. How much longer

42:40

we got to wait? Why

42:43

are we waiting on justice?

42:45

Ye give us the constitution, the

42:47

same constitution you got. Why are

42:49

we different? We built this country? Or

42:51

you don't want to tell that truth? That would be in the history,

42:53

but you'd have to rewrite too much for too

42:55

many adventions we've done, waiting too much from this

42:58

country. You're

43:00

not gonna tell that truth. Okay, sot

43:03

talking about the truth. Okay, See, so let's

43:05

just not talk about that for a minute. Ain't

43:08

nobody asking you for no damn reparations.

43:10

Let's stop that for a minute. Can

43:12

we just get basic

43:15

human dignity and rights?

43:18

Every story you hear is

43:20

about a black being treated unjust

43:23

by the police. Ain't no stories

43:25

of white people getting killed at

43:27

the hands of the police unjustifiably,

43:30

and stop using that little b

43:32

s that y'all talk about. It's just as

43:34

many whites getting shot by police, not

43:36

unjustifiably. It ain't now,

43:39

So if it's more whites being shot by

43:42

police, that must mean there's more white's committing

43:44

crimes. But when it comes

43:46

to unjustifiable deaths, we

43:48

are one hundred percent in front of

43:50

that. And we're sick and tire of y'all

43:52

with this monkey mess. But I'll

43:55

tell you what, We're gonna keep voting. You watching

43:57

C. You watching C. We didn't have enough

43:59

for this here. You will never go back to what

44:01

we were. We're gonna vote all y'all out in a minute.

44:03

Come all, y'all gonna be gone here, last

44:05

one of y'all as long as I got a Mike,

44:08

y'all gone, sir.

44:11

We'll be back with more of a Steve Harvey Morning

44:13

Show coming up right after this. You're

44:16

listening to Steve Harvey Morning

44:18

Show coming up

44:20

at the top of the hour, right about four minutes

44:22

after. It's my Strawberry letter for today and the

44:24

subject is in between

44:27

lovers. Okay, we'll

44:30

get to that in just a little bit. But right, yeah,

44:35

I'm not gonna knock it between

44:39

lovers, okay, in between cars.

44:44

Right now, the nephew is here with today's prank

44:46

phone call. You're here. I'm what you got for us now?

44:48

A stolen car. A

44:51

stolen car. Let's

44:55

go cat do Hello

44:58

Hello, I'm trying to reach it a Trevor

45:02

police

45:04

Sir. You purchased a two

45:07

thousand and one Navy blue

45:10

from a used car lot

45:12

dealership called a car Lot,

45:14

I don't know, maybe six or seven months

45:16

ago, am I right? Okay?

45:21

Now you've been paying notes on this car,

45:23

I know, for the last six months, and

45:26

you know, I hate to be a burden

45:28

of bad news. Actually my name is uh,

45:31

Detective Justin, and I'm

45:33

giving you a call to let you know that the actual

45:35

vehicle, this two thousand and one Navy

45:38

Blue that you purchased, is

45:40

actually a

45:43

stolen vehicle. And we've actually

45:45

been looking for this car for the last I've

45:47

been pretty much close to a year now, maybe a little

45:49

over a year, we've been looking for this I work in the

45:52

auto theft division, and say

45:55

you argue, Detective Justin,

45:58

sir, and I'm in the auto

46:00

theft division. Here at the police department. Let's

46:04

don't h I

46:07

think you got the wrong. I think you got

46:09

the wrong, god man, because um no,

46:15

sir, it's it's it's it's and I've done the trace

46:17

on on and I know this is probably a

46:19

shock to you, but you we're right on

46:21

point with this thing. You's got a two thousand and one Navy

46:23

blue. You did buy it. You did buy it at

46:26

the car lot dealership, and that uh,

46:28

and it's the exact one in the license plate,

46:31

sir, they do match up. And

46:33

uh. I know this is a bit of a shock

46:35

to you, but your car is actually a

46:38

stolen car. So the dealership,

46:40

sir, actually sold you a

46:43

stolen car. And I know

46:45

you did not know that. I know that it was not any

46:47

information that you already knew. And

46:50

I know you thought that you were just purchasing a legitimate

46:52

car. But you have a stolen

46:54

car, mister Trevor. And no,

46:58

man, no, I think you got the wrong because

47:00

this this car is not stolen for real,

47:03

and this is not stolen, sir. I can

47:05

go all day with you and try to make you understand

47:08

what's going on here, and I know it's

47:10

probably some some blurry information that's

47:12

not clear to you. But at the end of the day,

47:14

your car is stolen. I am gonna

47:16

have to either get someone to come out and impound

47:19

it or you

47:22

No, no, I think y'all might need to go back

47:24

over y'all records, man, because I think

47:26

y'all on the real, I think y'all got the wrong person,

47:29

sir, for real, I'm gonna tell you

47:31

once and I'm gonna tell you again. You

47:34

have a car that's stolen that I have to

47:36

have in my possession by the end of the day.

47:38

Now, by the end of the day, for

47:40

real, man, you got sir, you have

47:43

a stolen car, and you're gonna need

47:45

to bring that car into the police station so

47:47

we can get this thing rectified. I'm

47:51

man, for real. Man, hold on, let me talk about

47:53

this. Man. I don't know about all this she's telling me.

47:56

For real, Sir, I understand what you're

47:58

saying, But do you realize you're talking to a

48:00

police officer here. I am

48:02

detective. I am detective Justin.

48:05

I am who you are, man, I'm

48:07

sill. Hold it's

48:10

no longer, sir. We've

48:12

had to actually shut them down for the time

48:14

being until we get a quite a few cars

48:17

rectified that I've got more than just your

48:19

vehicle, Sir, that's been that that

48:21

has auto theft tied to it. Hold

48:26

on, that's two things. Either you're gonna bring

48:28

it to me or I'm gonna come get it now. Which one

48:30

do you want to do to You ain't coming to get

48:33

for real, sir. I don't want to have this

48:35

to have to get go to a level of where it doesn't

48:37

need to be. But I need to get that card

48:40

in my possession. Okay, look, look,

48:42

look listen while I'm telling you. Okay, you're listening.

48:44

I'm listening, sir. Okay, look, un

48:47

listen, somebody's gonna take me my three

48:49

hundred thirty third at fifty

48:51

two cents I've been paying for the last six months

48:54

unless you're gonna tall me that give

48:56

me back my trade ins that

48:59

get this. Man, I ain't out here you're

49:01

talking about for real? No, this is you're

49:03

coming at me with. Man, I went too hard to

49:06

be keeping up see notes like here, Man,

49:08

I got that and my rist to take care of, and

49:10

you come to talk about you saying take my car because

49:13

something that happened before I

49:15

bought it, and what I don't even know if

49:17

this is true. Like I said, I thank you missing. I

49:19

think you've got me mixed with somebody else. What

49:22

y'all just not coming at me talking this. I

49:25

ain't heard nothing about this before. Sure, it's

49:27

taking us a while to actually track down the car and

49:29

actually find out exactly where it was. I've I've

49:31

tracked this car so for the last

49:34

eight nine months, and I finally found it. You

49:36

are the one that's actually has it in your possession.

49:38

It happens all the time. It's an unlikely

49:40

situation, but I gotta get you to

49:42

bring it in, and I'm not. I ain't bring you,

49:45

hear me, I ain't brilliant. Y'all

49:47

got coming to get from me unless somebody

49:50

give me my three hunting at seventy seven

49:52

dollars fifty two cents I've been paying for

49:54

the last six months plus in my back.

49:57

Sure, I'm sure you're probably long gone by

49:59

now. It's problems. I'm

50:02

stopping. Okay, then then

50:04

y'all can need at least just come with the money. Come

50:06

with the money. I just don't get another roster somewhere,

50:08

em sir, I'm not. I can't sit here

50:10

and negotiate with you. I'm just a detective

50:12

that's on this actual case. And I

50:14

know it's a trying situation, but I

50:16

am going to have to send some officers

50:19

out there that that do this type

50:21

of thing. They pick up these cars and bring them into

50:23

the I wish you would send somebody out

50:25

here to get my car. And if you can't neg

50:27

go here with me. You need to find somebody can.

50:30

And no, you know, you

50:33

bring somebody out here if you want to, don't

50:36

bring somebody. I got some book here. I've

50:38

been working too. Oh man, I'm working

50:40

a grand ship. I'm putting all the time.

50:43

They got to stay late so that man, I'm I'm

50:45

working to order and try to get this car. Man,

50:47

it's gonna bring God here if you want to

50:50

for real, sir, sir,

50:52

sir, calm, I gotta get you calm

50:54

down. I mean, you get a little out to me here

50:57

and told me my car stolen, and y'all talking about

50:59

time to get it from me. Sure,

51:02

I know this is a surprise, and I understand

51:04

that, and you gotta great. You got an honest living, an honest

51:07

job, and I understand that. But some people have done some dishonest

51:09

things and that's what's happened here. Somebody

51:13

that is my problem right there? That ain't

51:15

the problem was dead when

51:18

I first got it, so right from the problem. Now

51:20

I'm not understanding that. All I'm staying is

51:22

is your cub with my car. I'm

51:25

on, y'all. Look, that's all I'm saying.

51:27

You know what, I don't want to go any further. Can I say one

51:29

more thing to you? Can I do that? What

51:32

this is? Nephew taught me from the Steve Harvey

51:34

Morning Show. You just got pranked

51:37

my young cousin, Eric. Who

51:40

did you to say? This was? This is nephew

51:42

tim me from the Steve Harvey Morning Shown.

51:47

You got pranked by your cousin. Man,

51:49

Truvor, You all right, old

51:52

on, I got even name

51:54

the cigarette running? All

51:57

right? Man, let me ask you something. You gotta tell

51:59

me, baby, what's the baddest radio show in

52:01

the land? Friend?

52:04

Man? It's that Steve Harvey Morning Show. Because

52:09

what I do, it's what I

52:11

do. All

52:14

I'm saying, Trevor, Man,

52:17

Man, somebody to come over here. I

52:19

need my three hundred and something something dollars

52:21

I've been paying for the last six months

52:24

and what I traded it in yeah

52:27

blank break. By the end of the day,

52:30

I got something for you to come over here.

52:37

Two cents. Shout

52:39

out to him. He was a hard working man.

52:44

Keep working hard, y'all, y'all got

52:46

hey, what is all this sympathy for? What

52:48

is that? What is all that? Ladies? What's all this sympathy for?

52:51

You mean? Ain't he

52:54

ain't? Nobody took his car. He that went on about his

52:56

day. He just got prank. Everything

52:59

is fat. Okay, all I'm

53:01

saying Orlando, I had and added

53:03

a show on Thursday night at seven thirty

53:05

and tickets our own sale. That's all

53:07

I'm saying. Temple is

53:10

sold out. That's all I'm saying. All

53:12

five shoulder is gone. What we

53:14

wait till tomorrow. I'm gonna prank somebody else. I wish

53:16

y'all will be up here just about to cry

53:18

for somebody? What is wrong with you? All

53:22

right? Thank you enough? You coming up next Strawberry

53:24

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54:01

In between Lovers is our subject.

54:03

Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty

54:05

four year old woman and I'm married. I

54:08

found the man of my dreams and

54:10

he's treated me like a queen since the beginning

54:13

of our courtship. We've been married

54:15

almost a year. Until recently,

54:17

my life and marriage were great. He's

54:20

in his late forties and he's having issues

54:22

with high blood pressure, so his doctor

54:25

put him on a high dose of medication. Because

54:27

of all the medicine, our sex

54:30

life sucks. He has to get

54:33

really worked up to get

54:35

it started, and then it's over for him at

54:37

the blink of an eye. I lost all

54:40

hope when his doctor said he need to be

54:42

on the medication indefinitely. He

54:44

has the medication for erectile dysfunction,

54:47

but he refuses to take

54:49

it because he's gotten excited at the

54:51

wrong time. I

54:54

had to suffer without sex for a while,

54:57

but then the unthinkable happened. My

55:00

husband's twenty eight year old son is a

55:02

personal trainer and he's got

55:04

muscles that pop out all over his

55:06

creamy chocolate body. He also

55:10

has twists in his hair, and since I was a hairstylist

55:13

for years, I help him by retwisting

55:15

his hair when needed. He'd usually

55:18

come over in the morning after his dad went to

55:20

work. He's always been a

55:22

little firtatious, and I'm sure he could

55:24

sense that I was attracted to him. He

55:26

finally admitted that he fantasizes

55:29

about his sexy stepmother seducing

55:31

him, and he suggested we role play.

55:34

I was so turned on and

55:36

in need of sex that I played

55:38

along with him. We have the

55:40

most amazing sex and have been

55:43

sneaking around for two months. I've

55:45

got the best of both worlds, with a husband

55:48

that spoils me and my stepson

55:50

that pleases me. I'm just doing

55:52

this until my husband gets his mojo

55:54

back. Do you think I should have a talk with my

55:56

stepson or do you think he's just in

55:59

it for the sex to please advise?

56:02

Well? Talk to him about. What

56:05

what are you talking to him about? And

56:08

yes, of course he's just in it for the sex.

56:10

You're you're his dad's wife, and

56:13

what does it matter what the reason is anyway,

56:15

I mean, you're sleeping with your stepson.

56:18

Okay, hello, you're sleeping

56:20

with your stepson. You can't rationalize

56:22

this, you can't excuse this. You

56:24

can't act like this is a normal affair.

56:27

You're not even having a normal affair. You're

56:29

sleeping with your husband's son. Come

56:31

on, both of you. Both of you are

56:33

really low for doing this to your husband

56:36

and his father. Your

56:40

man has a medical issue.

56:42

Okay, that's what that is, and this is

56:44

how you help him. This is

56:47

your version of being the supportive wife

56:50

to sleep with his son and gloat about

56:52

it to us. My husband spoils

56:55

me. Oh no, she said, I have the best of both

56:57

worlds. My husband spoils

56:59

me and my step son pleases

57:01

me. That sounds crazy

57:03

and how selfish of you. I mean, this is

57:05

not a movie, this is real life.

57:08

Well, what you're doing is really not cool.

57:10

You know, if you guys slipped up and your husband

57:13

found out about this, this would tear him apart.

57:15

He's already going through enough. I think

57:17

he would be as mad.

57:19

I don't think he would be as mad. I should say,

57:21

if you did go out and had like a normal

57:24

affair, of course he'd be mad. But with

57:26

his son, that's unthinkable. I'm

57:28

not telling you to do that, of course, to

57:31

go out and have any kind of affair. But what

57:33

I'm saying is that you should encourage

57:35

your husband maybe to get a second opinion,

57:37

get a third opinion, you

57:39

know, seek some natural methods or

57:42

something, some alternative solutions

57:44

to get your husband's blood pressure down. In

57:47

the meantime, you're gonna have to break it off with Junior,

57:49

because that's a go nowhere situation

57:52

that's going to hurt everyone. Steve,

57:57

Wow, this letter is

58:00

feel with nothing but

58:03

triflingness. I

58:06

mean, there's no there's no redeeming

58:08

quality in this letter at all. I've

58:11

never been so disappointed at well.

58:14

I can't say that I'm

58:16

just the whole letter. It's just trifling.

58:19

First of all, she's thirty

58:21

four, her husband is in his late

58:24

forties. Let's say forty

58:26

eight is late forty nine.

58:29

Forty eight forty nine, that's late forty

58:33

You the man of your dreams, treat you like a

58:35

tween a queen. Since

58:38

the beginning of our court, we've been married almost

58:41

a year a year

58:44

one year, and until

58:46

recently my life in marriage were great.

58:49

It's just been a year. You

58:52

go digging low down, no

58:54

good winch a

58:57

year. Man,

59:02

it's just is

59:06

winch, but winch is

59:08

when you're from the country, just

59:11

no good woman. You

59:14

know, without using no other words,

59:16

just to no good chick. You get

59:18

treated like a queen and up

59:20

and you've been the beginning that care. We've been married

59:23

almost a year and until recently, my life

59:25

in marriage were great. He's as late fearn

59:27

as. He's having issues with high blood pressure,

59:29

so it's doctor to put him on a high dose of medication.

59:32

Because of all his medication, our sex

59:34

life sucks. He got to get really

59:36

rucked up to get his started and then it's over

59:39

him at the blink of an eye. I lost

59:41

all hope when the doctor said he'd been needed

59:43

a medication and definite. So you lost

59:46

all hope in a year. Why was

59:48

you in it in the first place? Yo,

59:50

yo, vials ain't death do

59:53

us part meant? Nothing? Seeking

59:55

his health meant Now it ain't even been

59:57

a year and

59:59

your trifling behind. I

1:00:01

ain't even told the people what you did. Yes,

1:00:04

he got a reptile dysfunction. Oh

1:00:07

boy, old. We'll get back

1:00:09

to the wine all

1:00:14

right. We'll have part two of Steve's response

1:00:16

coming up in twenty three minutes after be our

1:00:19

today's Strawberry letters. Subjects in between

1:00:21

lovers. That's all she cares about. We'll

1:00:23

get back into it right after this. You're

1:00:26

listening show,

1:00:29

all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today strawberry

1:00:32

letter. The subject is in between

1:00:34

lovers. This girl,

1:00:37

thirty four year old, trifling woman

1:00:40

married. Now, she hadn't wrote this letter. She

1:00:42

didn't found the man of her dream. Treat her like

1:00:44

a queen, and it's been the queen

1:00:46

since the beginning by a core show. Now they've

1:00:48

been married almost a year, and

1:00:51

then your life and marriage were great.

1:00:53

He's in his late forties and he's having issues

1:00:56

with high blood so the doctor put him on

1:00:58

a high dose medication. Because

1:01:00

of all the medicine, our sex life sucks.

1:01:03

It's been a year, it's been one year,

1:01:06

and this trifling woman right here, he

1:01:08

got to really get worked up to get his start, and

1:01:10

then it's over for him at the blink of an eye.

1:01:12

I lost all hope when the doctor said he

1:01:14

needed to be on the medication indefinitely.

1:01:17

That's not true. High blood

1:01:20

you can. You can help change your high

1:01:22

blood with food. You

1:01:25

can change high blood with food.

1:01:29

I know for a witness, I am a

1:01:31

living witness to this that I

1:01:33

was given a diagnosis of

1:01:36

going into high blood and I was

1:01:38

put on a low dose of high blood. I

1:01:40

no longer take it, and I

1:01:42

did it with food and exercise. You

1:01:46

can. You don't have to be on that. I'm not saying.

1:01:48

You know, high blood is not incurable,

1:01:52

but you have to make some drastic steps.

1:01:54

You gotta get real holistic. His

1:01:56

medication and so the doc said he

1:01:58

be on medication and deva. He

1:02:00

has a medication for erectile dysfunction,

1:02:03

but refuses to take it because he's

1:02:05

gotten excited at the wrong time. What

1:02:09

wait a minute, You got some

1:02:11

medicine for erectile dysfunction

1:02:14

and you don't want to take it because you get

1:02:16

in direction at the wrong time. Where

1:02:19

the wrong time is now the right

1:02:21

time for us to get on any hill? Yeah?

1:02:25

See now,

1:02:27

yeah, time to check the time is now.

1:02:32

All that stuff come with instructions,

1:02:35

yes, but they got some stuff

1:02:37

out there. Now, man, you can take in this instant.

1:02:41

You ain't got to wear about no timing. This,

1:02:45

this don't make no sense, this twenty twenty

1:02:47

one. But now he

1:02:49

don't want to take it because it gets sex

1:02:51

after get excited at the wrong times.

1:02:54

I've had to suffer without sex for a while.

1:02:57

But then the unthinkable happened. Now I

1:02:59

see first right here. It wasn't unthinkable. This

1:03:03

what I'm about to share with y'all was not unthinkable.

1:03:06

You thought of this before. My

1:03:08

husband's twenty eight year old son is a personal

1:03:10

trainer, and he got muscles that pop out all

1:03:13

over his creamy chocolate body. He

1:03:15

also has twist in his hand, and since I was a

1:03:17

half stylist for years, I used to help him

1:03:19

by retwisting his halt when needed.

1:03:21

He usually come over in the morning after his dad

1:03:24

that went to work. He's always

1:03:26

been a little flirtations and I'm sure

1:03:28

he consents that I was attracted to him.

1:03:31

Well, then, when

1:03:33

you said earlier that the unthinkable happened,

1:03:37

who was you trying to fool in a letter?

1:03:40

Because it wasn't unthinkable because

1:03:42

Jeff, from twisting his hair, he

1:03:44

could tell that you was attracted to him,

1:03:46

see because you're thirty four and twenty eight

1:03:48

year old dude and his late forties.

1:03:52

He finally admitted that he fantasizes

1:03:54

about his sexy stepmother seducing

1:03:58

him, and he suggested we rolled. You

1:04:02

ain't have no problem. I was so turned

1:04:04

on and didn't need a sex that I played along

1:04:06

with him. We had the most amazing

1:04:09

sex and have been sneaking around for

1:04:11

two months. I got the

1:04:13

best of both worlds, with a husband that spoils

1:04:15

me and my stepson that pleases me. I'm

1:04:18

just doing this until my husband gets

1:04:20

his mojo back. What wait

1:04:22

a minute, see, let me let me say it to you.

1:04:25

Trifling. Yeah, you just said

1:04:27

it was gonna be in definitely and you've

1:04:29

lost all hope. So you're not doing

1:04:31

this until your husband get his mojo back. I don't

1:04:33

know who you thought you wrote this letter. Team. You're

1:04:36

doing it because you're trifling. You're

1:04:38

doing it because it's already been just

1:04:41

a year and your life is ruined.

1:04:44

See, you can't be a trifling person

1:04:46

and put a time limit and a set of

1:04:48

circumstances on when the trifles is

1:04:51

gonna surface. Trifling

1:04:53

people do trifling things all

1:04:55

the time, all

1:04:58

the time. You can't put it time when

1:05:00

your husband getting back. That's not gonna stop

1:05:02

you from being trifling. I got news

1:05:05

for you. You was trifling before

1:05:07

your husband had the rectile problem.

1:05:12

You've been trifling. See

1:05:14

this just bought it out. You

1:05:17

married him because you was trifling, because

1:05:20

you was getting small and getting treated right.

1:05:23

I'm doing this until my husband getting him. Do

1:05:25

you think I should have a talk with my stepson?

1:05:28

Like Sherley said, what you've been talking about?

1:05:31

What is you're talking about? Y'all ain't

1:05:33

been talking y'all schooling? So

1:05:36

what you want to talk to him about? Do you

1:05:39

think we should have talking about stepson? Or do you think

1:05:41

he's just in it for the sex too? In

1:05:43

it for the sex too? What

1:05:45

you think it was? He told you, fantasized

1:05:48

me. What you see? What you think is,

1:05:51

I'm just doing this my husband. Do you think I

1:05:53

should have a talk with my stepson or do you think he just

1:05:55

sent it for the sex? Please avide, lady,

1:05:58

listen to me. See what

1:06:02

else could he be in it for? Or do

1:06:04

you think this could be more? I'm

1:06:06

telling you this, chip, thanks, it

1:06:08

could be more. That's why she want

1:06:11

to have a talk with him to make see if he's just

1:06:13

in it for the sex too, or is he starting to hand

1:06:15

some feelers well, because she gonna go with him,

1:06:17

so she would leave her husband. Exactly

1:06:21

exactly became all hope is gone.

1:06:24

His son ain't sugar honey iced

1:06:26

tea, and his wife ain't sugar

1:06:28

honey iced tea. Bye

1:06:31

for Alicia.

1:06:33

All right, thank you, Steve. Post your comments

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1:06:45

Talk right after this. You're listening

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1:06:50

right, guys, time now Junior is here with

1:06:52

Sports Talk. What you got Junior? All

1:06:54

right, shutty, thank you, but I just got a reminder of about

1:06:56

it. June fifth, Dallas, Joe fifth,

1:06:59

the Market, Hunt hill Ridge, Meet your

1:07:01

favorite player cousin down there for the five K

1:07:03

run and fun walk. Uh man, We're gonna

1:07:05

have a great time. And plus we're gonna have vaccination, so

1:07:07

if you want to get vaccinated, we won't even

1:07:09

have that there for you. So man, yeah,

1:07:12

man, My part maybe you just want to know. We ain't

1:07:14

just run. It's gonna be a lot of great time, food, fun

1:07:17

games and everything, man, and a nice run. All

1:07:19

right. With that being said, Aaron Rodgers did

1:07:21

not show up for many camp. He is very serious.

1:07:23

He does not want to play for the Green

1:07:25

Bay Packers. He's not coming in the camp. So leak that

1:07:29

no way the OTAs. Yeah,

1:07:31

that's all. He ain't coming

1:07:33

to that nowhere. Well, he he

1:07:35

can't go. But they were just upset they say that he really he

1:07:37

didn't participate in none of the off season program. Long

1:07:39

he can do Phase one or Phase two, he just ain't.

1:07:41

He just was gonna want to be there in the moment and he is

1:07:43

the rain of MVP. But also I

1:07:45

don't know what else is going on in the NFL. But everybody

1:07:47

won't out the team they own right now? Did Yeah?

1:07:50

Julio Jones said, Atlanta,

1:07:52

you won't notice now here gor run

1:07:55

the day. You want to go to the Cowboys, Julio, Or

1:07:57

you want to stay in Atlanta? Oh

1:08:01

ideally, where would you like to go? No?

1:08:04

Want to win? Okay, Yeah,

1:08:06

that's how you tell your whole team. They

1:08:09

didn't even know Caller that he was going, you want

1:08:11

to out of there? He told him on underfuting. Everybody

1:08:13

found out Atlanta the same time out.

1:08:17

I saw you,

1:08:22

the head coach. You just heard that my best

1:08:24

player won't out. He sayin't

1:08:26

want to win, So you know that

1:08:30

now. I bet I know where he ain't going. Wait?

1:08:32

Wait, what did you talk about? Houston ten? We

1:08:36

need he has more news, Let him

1:08:38

talk. Go ahead, and man, we need

1:08:40

we need who do you know who's gonna

1:08:42

throwing the ball? Ain't

1:08:45

got no He said he want to win. Y'all

1:08:48

ain't one. Y'all ain't fitting

1:08:50

to win. Go ahead, Julie, I'm

1:08:52

just saying, we need a receiver. Two.

1:08:55

We can maybe Deshun to stay. If he comes.

1:08:57

What I'm saying, maybe he'll stay

1:09:00

it. Deshan can't

1:09:02

go nowhere. Deshan don't

1:09:04

want to play for Texas, but we want him to stay. Off

1:09:06

what I'm saying, let me ask you something. Junior

1:09:09

is going.

1:09:16

He's already told us the same thing, and Rogers

1:09:18

told his team he don't want to play. Junior.

1:09:21

He can't go nowhere, can't. Ain't nobody

1:09:24

trying to get de Sean right now? I

1:09:26

bet you, I bet you never take stealing,

1:09:34

y'all say Julio Jones coming, He'll stay.

1:09:36

Deshaan Washington not playing this year.

1:09:40

If we get Julio Jones, he could

1:09:42

offer, is all I'm saying. Yeah, wish for

1:09:44

a dream. You don't let us be

1:09:46

happy for nothing, dream killing Steve?

1:09:49

All right, thank you, Junior, coming up in the town.

1:09:53

You'll be great. Well, we'll be

1:09:55

back with more than the Steve Happy Morning sell right

1:09:57

after this. You're listening

1:10:00

morning show. All

1:10:03

right. So according to blackdoctor

1:10:05

dot org, I want you guys to really pay

1:10:07

attention to this. Okay, this is according to blackdoctor

1:10:10

dot org society.

1:10:13

What have you believe that men don't

1:10:15

have any feelings or show any

1:10:17

emotions? But in fact, men

1:10:20

are as much emotional beings as

1:10:22

women are. The power of the

1:10:24

spoken word is healing or

1:10:26

detrimental, depending on how you

1:10:28

use it. The men have spoken, and

1:10:31

here are nine things they want

1:10:33

you to hear. All right, So guys please

1:10:35

pay attention to jump in and comment. All right,

1:10:38

these are some things that the guys want you to

1:10:40

hear. So they're talking to us women. They

1:10:42

want Number one, I'm proud of you.

1:10:46

Yes, yes, yes, you want to hear that

1:10:50

why is that? Yeah, say yeah,

1:10:53

because you bust your butt the whole time. You want

1:10:55

to lease a little pat on the back. I mean it's

1:10:57

validation. You got to remember that

1:11:00

me and are all boys at heart, and

1:11:02

what we always want is validation.

1:11:05

We want our mothers to be proud of us and

1:11:07

our fathers to be proud of us. Just goes

1:11:09

from boyhood. Okay,

1:11:12

all right, thank you? Yeah,

1:11:16

yeah, thank you? Your dog going right.

1:11:18

Yeah, I'm out here like Tommy say, we're busted

1:11:21

our tail and y'all just taken. Ain't

1:11:23

no thank you. Now this is not to

1:11:25

say women don't want these things. We just

1:11:27

talk about me and my men right

1:11:29

now, just me and yeah, thank you would

1:11:31

be nice, okay, because

1:11:34

all men don't get that, and they deserve

1:11:36

it at to a lot of times. So yeah, because

1:11:40

yeah, yeah, you don't give it to us. All

1:11:43

right, here's another one. I see

1:11:45

you, I see you, I see you. This

1:11:47

is for you, know, like if you've been to the gym

1:11:49

and you're working out and stuff and you're taking

1:11:51

care of yourself, you want your wife to say,

1:11:54

or your girl or your partner or whatever, I

1:11:56

see you, give me some I ain't

1:11:58

been getting that either Yeah, you know,

1:12:01

I know I ain't going but

1:12:03

here fat ass over there? About

1:12:05

that? Wait? What what you know? I

1:12:07

know I ain't what I used to be, but look at his fat ass

1:12:09

over there. You know you have that, you

1:12:12

know, give me something, you know? Really?

1:12:15

Yeah? Okay,

1:12:18

okay, I trust you. How about that one? I

1:12:20

ain't hear none. Yeah, you know, if you got

1:12:23

something, if you're doing some makeup work, you can't live

1:12:25

fire. Trust.

1:12:27

I don't know. Yeah,

1:12:30

we don't even talk about. How about this

1:12:32

one? I don't care about your past.

1:12:35

I don't have to hear that. I

1:12:37

think women like that one. Yeah,

1:12:39

but I don't care about your bed what? No, that

1:12:42

ain't because I don't believe that. I mean, I don't

1:12:44

care about your bed. Well, I mean we're married now, so

1:12:47

your past bed nights, your pass don't need

1:12:49

to come up. That's you're

1:12:53

saying that as a as a man, your past

1:12:55

doesn't need to come up. So for the

1:12:57

woman to say I don't care about your past everything, no,

1:13:00

I'm saying. I'm saying my

1:13:03

one, my wife passed, and one don't need to come

1:13:05

up. Yeah, woman's pass That's what I'm

1:13:07

trying to Yeah,

1:13:09

okay, yeah, women like to hear that.

1:13:11

I think more than men. Okay, here are two.

1:13:15

I support you, gotta

1:13:18

have that. I support

1:13:20

you. Yeah, that's a that's a month. And

1:13:23

look, I support you. I know

1:13:25

what you're doing. Maybe a little, you

1:13:27

know, to the left or thinking out the box,

1:13:29

but hey, look you know you're

1:13:31

trying. I support the effort. Okay,

1:13:34

that gives me fuel. That gives me

1:13:37

fuel when you get to get up and

1:13:39

do it again. Yeah,

1:13:41

I appreciate you, man,

1:13:44

that's that's so and that's

1:13:46

beyond thank you, you know, because she's already

1:13:48

said thank you. That's that's appreciation.

1:13:51

It's like almost number one. Okay.

1:13:54

How about this when you make me happy? Yeah,

1:13:57

I mean that's helpful, you know, even though that's

1:13:59

not our jail Jakes

1:14:01

told me that one time. It's not your job to make

1:14:04

another person happy. To know it, Shoot, you make at yours.

1:14:06

But if we all and you're happy,

1:14:09

that's a very nice thing to say, and

1:14:11

you want her to be happy and if you have absolutely

1:14:13

role in that of course. Yeah.

1:14:16

Okay, how about this one? You

1:14:18

look handsome, you just lie on to

1:14:20

me that. Yeah,

1:14:22

I need that more

1:14:26

than anybody need that really.

1:14:29

All right, thanks you guys,

1:14:31

Sean, You've got to at least being cute.

1:14:35

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I never understood how I quite

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now for asked the clo. This

1:16:40

one clo is from Jolie

1:16:43

in Lexington, Kentucky. Jolie

1:16:45

writes, I'm in my early fifties and

1:16:47

I'm married to a woman that has gotten

1:16:49

super holy since the pandemic started.

1:16:52

If she's not a church, she's watching

1:16:54

it on TV. This has spilled

1:16:56

over to our sex life, and she says,

1:16:58

freaky sex is out because sex

1:17:00

is only for procreation. I

1:17:03

want to put her. I

1:17:05

want to. I want to. I want to

1:17:07

put her in all the positions she used to love

1:17:10

because she won't but she won't allow herself

1:17:12

to get into it. How can I get her Bible

1:17:15

off the nightstand and get her into

1:17:17

this pretzel position like dog?

1:17:21

I can't really, I

1:17:23

can't reach you guide you on this one right

1:17:25

here, because you asking me to

1:17:27

get the Bible off nice standing and

1:17:30

get her footback over there up there by

1:17:32

that lamp, and I don't. But

1:17:34

that's his wife coast well

1:17:37

see she tripping, yes,

1:17:39

cec tripping. And you know you didn't

1:17:41

got real holy because you didn't have this. Something

1:17:44

happened to you doing COVID. But sex

1:17:47

is for pre creation, but sexs a

1:17:49

lot of it's for pleasure for a lot

1:17:51

of it. See, I'm not having no more

1:17:53

kids,

1:17:58

so I don't know what you asking me to do. But I'm

1:18:00

in here clunding to the

1:18:02

best of my ability. I'm I'm

1:18:05

showing out, but I can't you know what I'm

1:18:07

saying? You know, so, I don't know what to tell

1:18:09

you your self. Bro. I know she gonna

1:18:11

have to do something though, because what you can't do?

1:18:15

You know, it's changed on this man and have him

1:18:17

sitting up in here now you didn't

1:18:19

cut him off. I don't know what you think he gonna do.

1:18:22

But if he if he don't go down there and get

1:18:24

the same same I

1:18:27

don't converging you. He

1:18:30

don't get that. He gonna go somewhere else later.

1:18:34

Everybody on this show, ain't

1:18:36

you Yeah, the

1:18:39

COVID everybody been clumb

1:18:44

I don't know why you try to drag these ladies

1:18:46

into She

1:18:49

just stayed over here with me. MOUs

1:18:53

Montavious say

1:18:55

that again in Baton Rouge Uh

1:18:58

says, I got my EMT certification

1:19:00

and I need to move to a bigger city to get a

1:19:03

job. My girlfriend just

1:19:05

had a baby girl, and she doesn't want to leave our

1:19:07

hometown because she needs her mom's help

1:19:09

with the baby. I'm trying to prepare a

1:19:11

good future for my family, but she's tripping

1:19:14

about me leaving. If I stay in town,

1:19:16

I could continue to manage the restaurant

1:19:19

where I work, but that's not

1:19:21

my dream. Do I make the sacrifice for my

1:19:23

girlfriend and stay, or do I make the bigger

1:19:25

sacrifice for my family and

1:19:28

go. Well, you could go

1:19:30

ahead and get it

1:19:32

all set up and then when she get a little

1:19:34

bit better handle on the baby, bring

1:19:37

the family to you, and then

1:19:39

you on weekends of course, drive back.

1:19:42

I don't know how far the city is that you got

1:19:44

to move to, because he's in I don't know what

1:19:46

city he is coming

1:19:48

up. It is our last break of the day

1:19:51

and at forty nine minutes after the hour, of

1:19:53

course, hardly all right, guys, here we are at

1:19:55

the end of the show, the last

1:19:58

break of the dare listening.

1:20:02

Come on tomorrow weekend? Come

1:20:04

onbecum,

1:20:07

won't come on? Come on? Yeah?

1:20:11

Yeah, and then I'll tell y'all Monday.

1:20:14

No, you shouldn't tell me. Go ahead, Did

1:20:16

I tell y'all that I have

1:20:18

been granted two more seasons? Or

1:20:20

Ready to love? That will be shot in Washington,

1:20:23

DC. That is a blessing

1:20:26

congratulation. That

1:20:28

is beautiful man. Yeah,

1:20:32

that's big man for shore good. It's

1:20:35

such a great show, it really is. Yeah,

1:20:37

I love hey,

1:20:39

Tommy, what do you think is a success

1:20:41

of the show? You

1:20:45

know, what I think is the fact that it's

1:20:46

it's it's not your normal dating

1:20:48

show. It's not people that's twenty years old

1:20:50

and their life just getting started. I think it's people

1:20:53

that's thirties, forties, fifties. You know,

1:20:55

they didn't they've been divorced, people

1:20:57

that's been career driven and they haven't taken

1:20:59

time for up. And it's it's interesting

1:21:01

to watch those kind of people. So and you get to see

1:21:03

black love at its best, and you get to see it for real,

1:21:06

and you get to see it hosted by you know what's

1:21:08

truly who's been taught by the best. Now what I

1:21:10

say it wrong? Since I've been talking Hello

1:21:12

was one I say, I

1:21:16

know you're self conscious about it, but get

1:21:18

it pretty good. At that time, I was surprised,

1:21:21

stunned. Actually, yeah, tell me a

1:21:23

great job as host on the show and guiding

1:21:26

them and leading them, you know, into

1:21:28

the different maneuvers and

1:21:30

because every week they're presented with

1:21:32

the task they have to vote

1:21:35

someone off, and you know, he guides them

1:21:37

into telling them what he needs. Listener

1:21:40

on the show got all of them. Yeah,

1:21:45

Tommy is a good listener on that

1:21:47

show. That show. Lord,

1:21:50

When did that happen. It's

1:21:53

so shocking to see it. I'd

1:21:55

be damn boy, that boy right here.

1:22:00

I'd hit it as hail. Yeah,

1:22:07

but we got you. We got you with support. Watching

1:22:10

very good and a lot of

1:22:12

them, you see why they're single, and a

1:22:14

lot of them you're like wow, because when they

1:22:16

first get on, they're so beautiful or they're so

1:22:18

handsome, and they're very successful,

1:22:20

and you're like wow, why you

1:22:23

know, Yeah, and you're talking for a minute.

1:22:25

As a show goes on, you get

1:22:27

okay, yeah,

1:22:31

well, lord Jesus hanging

1:22:34

there. It's

1:22:37

sad when they get voted off. Some

1:22:39

people do need to get voted off. But

1:22:41

yeah, there's a

1:22:43

lot going on. No, watching

1:22:45

a great show, Ready to love, but there's a lot

1:22:47

of serious things going on in the world too.

1:22:50

Yeah. The President will meet with the Floyd family

1:22:53

today at the White

1:22:55

House. Well, hey, you listen,

1:22:57

y'all my clothing remarks. I'm just gonna replay

1:23:00

something I said earlier that I

1:23:02

feel about them taking their time

1:23:04

passing as George Floyd Bill here it

1:23:06

is right here. Why is it

1:23:09

that black people have

1:23:11

to constantly beg and

1:23:14

march and plead and

1:23:16

ask for the same rights

1:23:19

that you have. Y'all

1:23:21

need to quit acting like justice is

1:23:23

pie. Like if we get

1:23:25

a big slice, that's less for yours. Justice

1:23:28

amet pie. Justice is a

1:23:30

flavor, y'all won't

1:23:32

even do a simple act of give it

1:23:34

to us. And why you won't give it to us

1:23:36

because your ass is straight up racist,

1:23:40

because you think the way you're treating

1:23:42

black people is sufficient for

1:23:44

them. But if you were getting treated the same

1:23:46

way, you wouldn't accept it for yourself.

1:23:49

You would never allow for your children

1:23:51

to be murdered the way we got to watch

1:23:53

our sons and fathers

1:23:55

and daughters and husbands

1:23:58

and nephews and uncle was

1:24:00

getting murdered. But you sit up

1:24:02

here and there and you constantly want to say America

1:24:04

ain't racist, but you keep doing racist

1:24:06

stuff like this. You won't even pass

1:24:09

a simple act to give us

1:24:11

a chance at justice, not

1:24:13

for the bigger slice of justice, but

1:24:15

the same flavor that y'all getting. We

1:24:17

want the same damn spoon. Your

1:24:19

ass is eating your justice all for justice

1:24:22

ain't pie, y'all. Where if you give

1:24:24

us a bigger slice, you get less. That

1:24:27

ain't what this is. Justice is

1:24:29

a flavor, and we ain't been tasting

1:24:31

the same thing since our ass got here.

1:24:33

And that's what we're sick of, and we're

1:24:35

sick and tired of it. And you're gonna keep messing

1:24:37

round. Okay, now, let me tell you this here, you're

1:24:40

gonna keep messing around. Man. Black

1:24:42

folks tired it is. Black

1:24:44

folks is sick and tired of

1:24:46

being sick and tired. Were sick and tired

1:24:49

of you just sitting up in here, man, expecting

1:24:51

us to be patient? How much longer

1:24:53

we got to wait? Why

1:24:56

are we're waiting on justice? Yeah?

1:25:00

Much? The constitution, the same constitution

1:25:02

you got. Why are we different? We built this

1:25:04

country? Or you don't want to tell that truth

1:25:06

that will be in the history. But you that to rewrite too much,

1:25:09

with too many adventions. We've done way too much

1:25:11

for this country. You're

1:25:13

not gonna tell that truth. Okay, So

1:25:16

don't start talking about the truth. Okay. See,

1:25:18

so let's just not talk about that for a

1:25:20

minute. Ain't about asking you

1:25:22

for no damn reparations. Let's stop that for a

1:25:24

minute. Can we

1:25:26

just get basic human

1:25:29

dignity and rights.

1:25:31

Every story you hear is

1:25:34

about a black being treated unjust

1:25:36

by the police. Ain't no stories

1:25:38

of white people getting killed at

1:25:40

the hands of the police unjustifiably,

1:25:43

and stop using that little b

1:25:46

s that y'all talk about. It's just as

1:25:48

many whites get shot by police, not

1:25:50

unjustifiably. It ain't so

1:25:53

if it's more whites being shot by police,

1:25:55

that must mean it's more white's committing crimes.

1:25:59

But when it comes to unjustifiable

1:26:01

desk, we are one hund in

1:26:03

front of that and we're sinking tie of

1:26:05

y'all with this monkey mess. But

1:26:08

I'll tell you what, We're gonna keep voting. You watching

1:26:10

C, You watching C. We didn't have enough

1:26:12

for this here. You will never go back to what

1:26:14

we were. We're gonna vote all y'all out in a minute.

1:26:17

All y'all gonna be gonne here, last

1:26:19

one of y'all. As long as I got a mike,

1:26:22

y'all gone. You're gonna get a body, sir.

1:26:24

Hey, that's it, y'all. I hope you have a good

1:26:27

one. Take care of yourself. Don't forget

1:26:29

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1:26:44

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