We had another 3-way...via phone! Jezula's back, again, and we introduce you to a new and wise friend, Arien. We discussed many things: from the death of Chadwick Boseman to the views of fornication in the Bible (and how they stack up for life

Getting Through Covid-19: The Coronavirus Quarantine and Social Distancing Has Us All Messed Up

Jul 19th, 2020 1h 16m

We had a 3-way! For this episode, we actually had to talk to each other on the phone. Covid19 has the whole world upside and we're all doing things differently than normal. Jezula and Lola returned for some juicy topics; so much was shared and

Getting Through Covid-19

Jul 19th, 2020 1h 16m

'Ships and Benefits

May 14th, 2020 26m 56s

Is there a new trend that's about to make white people a hashtag? Prepare to have your breakfast ruined. Now, the good news: those first two sentences aren't related and after a year away, we return with a heart-to-heart episode like we've neve

Bonus

Special Message: Not Quite A Dear John Letter

May 10th, 2020 52s

A quick message to our fantabulicious listeners as it's been a while since we've recorded an episode.

That Other Kind of Work: THOTs, Digital Exhibitionism, Education, and Revenue Streams

May 3rd, 2019 1h 15m

She works hard for the money. He works hard for the money. They work hard for the money. Everyone's working...for that money! Some are working in ways that are risque-er than others and some are doing meaningful sex work. Victoria McCullough jo

Role Models: Think Long and Hard On The People Who Influence Your Life

Apr 22nd, 2019 52m 52s

You choose your role models, they don't choose you; many people don't seem to realize that. Someone went after Cardi B for being herself, when she shared a tweet they didn't deem appropriate for those who have appointed Cardi B as their role mo

Your Friends Ain't Sh*t

Apr 11th, 2019 1h

Your friends are worthless, rotten trash. They ain't sh*t; you know this, somewhere...deep down. Perhaps not all of them, but there are those the verdict is still out on. Don't worry, we'll help you make the call. You'll need pen and paper; or

Toxic: Fragile Masculinity and Things Straight Men Can't Do

Mar 18th, 2019 1h 19m

Brunch. Bathing. Eating whole bananas. Cuddling with another man. Prostate exams. Brojobs. Apparently, these are some of the many actions straight men aren't allowed to do without being considered gay. Are you feeling confused, twisted, and per

Through Sickness And In Health: How Deep Is Your Wedding Vow?

Feb 25th, 2019 47m 46s

People take their wedding vows for granted and then jump on their high horse when it's time to act on them. They also have an opinion on how other people should behave toward and fulfill their own wedding vows. In this episode, we welcome back

Under The Radar: Adult Interests You've Probably Never Heard Of

Feb 4th, 2019 1h 26m

Don't call it a comeback; call it a comeback episode or the return of your favorite podcast. A new year, but the same raunchiness, the same realness, and your favorite people haven't changed, either. In this brand spanking new episode...the fir

Under The Radar

Feb 4th, 2019 1h 26m

Food, Money, Lies, and Things You Missed In 2017

Dec 31st, 2017 1h 7m

The guest we've waited years for pops up...unannounced. We end 2017 and start 2018 off on the right foot -- by ruining your appetites, making you distrust your friends, and giving pointers on how to step up your side hustle so you can have a pr

Erogenous Zones, Baseball as a Sex Metaphor, and our Oprah Inspired Favorite Things List

Nov 20th, 2017 1h 10m

Three of our faves are back in the house: hot spots, sex, and code names! Jezula, Maxine, and Aurelio...three of our other favorites...are on this episode, as well...it's a definite party and humor fest. A lot is covered and personal truths one

Gold Star & Platinum Gays and 5 Ways Zodiac Signs Influence Your Relationships

Nov 13th, 2017 1h 15m

Elite status and societal labels; people love them, people hate them, people can't get away from them....but, what happens when they collide? We discuss what it means to be a Gold Star or Platinum Gay. We, also, touch on Silver (and conflicted)

Girl Talk: Spilling the Tea, Throwing Shade, and Keeping It Real

Oct 22nd, 2017 1h 27m

After a short break, we’re back and joined by Lola for a classic I-Can’t-Believe-This-Really-Happened episode! Spilled tea, epic shadiness, confessions, educations, and unbridled realness. From Janet Jackson to Little Richard, from Publisher’s

The Comeback: Tanning, Contraceptives, and Consumer Electronics

Aug 14th, 2017 54m 54s

Summer is almost over and we're serving a comeback episode -- it's the return after our summer hiatus and Derek Johnson joins as guest co-host, the archaic pullout method is making a comeback, too, and we're sharing the hot and interesting find

69-ing and Oral Transactions: Myths, Tips, Tricks, and Skips

Jun 5th, 2017 1h 13m

69. The art, the act, the milestone and celebratory episode with Jezula and Martino! We cover the sex position (do you like yours standard or standing) and get the unsweetened sweet tea on an actual couple! We bring you up-to-speed on the lat

Weddings: When You Say I Do and Things Not To Do

May 13th, 2017 57m 27s

Wedding Season has arrived and we're here to help you not screw it up. We're giving you things people are doing that they shouldn't be, offering tips on what not to do at your wedding, and giving you and your guest the scoop on making your mome

Interracial Dating 101

Apr 14th, 2017 1h 7m

When friends come together, things happen: all hell breaks loose, problems get solved, fun is had, and one of the hosts can't keep it together. Jezula Antoine joins us again to discuss some very interesting topics: celebrity sex tapes we wish

Soda Pop Social

Apr 3rd, 2017 56m 42s

Sometimes you have to have faith and trust in your friends and let the spirit guide you where it leads. We made some plans and did the rest by chance. Places we landed include the smell of some body parts and the taste of some bodily fluids (an

To The Left, To The Left: When to End a Friendship

Mar 8th, 2017 1h 10m

When there are three people and two of them have names that sound exactly alike, things can get downright hilarious and confusing. Nevertheless, we had fun (like we always do when Derek Johnson joins us in the studio) and went in on numerous to

Is Casual Sex The Cure For Loneliness Or A Breakup?

Feb 20th, 2017 53m 20s

If you could color between the lines of casual sex, loneliness, and a broken heart; it would look a lot like this episode: vivid, wildly entertaining, and real. Derek Johnson and Ken Shadford make a return visit for some friendly and revealing

Prenuptial Agreements, Divorces, and Reasons to Stay Single

Nov 20th, 2016 59m 33s

You asked...and they returned! Jezula Antoine and Derek Johnson...both in one episode. They showed up and turned it all out and upside down. We talked the good talk: from Mariah Carey's prenuptial agreement to Mary J. Blige's divorce; from when

Sleeping With The Help

Nov 7th, 2016 1h 7m

Special Guest: Leah Linder We hear of celebrities doing it all of the time, but how many average joes do it: sleeping with the help (those you pay for personal/intimate services) -- including those outside of nannies and tennis instructors. S