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From day one, I knew somebody's
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done something to her. Her cat
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that she had at her house, that was her
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family. She would have never left her
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cat like this. She doesn't have the money to
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stay under the radar like that. It
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makes me very sad because it's
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hard to
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mourn my friend without a body,
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without laying her chest rest, just
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like everything's just up in the air. She
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was too good of a person for her to
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just be deemed missing
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and everybody shut the case and that's it. These
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people need to be looked at more. I've
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tried to play out a million scenarios in
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my head trying to figure things out. But
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if Theresa put her foot down about something,
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she wasn't gonna budge. Something
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bad happened to her, that's all I know.
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In recent years, 66-year-old
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Theresa Hartley, a Florida native who
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lived in St. Augustine, was learning
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to live life on her own after her husband
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passed away several years earlier. In
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March of 2023, Theresa
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vanished, supposedly in the company
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of a friend, looking for firewood in
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the Ocala National Forest on March
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11th. But when she was reported
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missing to police on March 15th
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by another friend, the details didn't
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seem to add up. Even police
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couldn't pinpoint the exact date, time,
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and location that Theresa vanished. But
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their own investigation places her disappearance
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on or around March 11th. In
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a real-life horror story filled with shady
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characters with a history of defrauding people,
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to others with a long criminal record of violent
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offenses, Theresa was a vulnerable
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woman who was the perfect target for
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predators.
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And she vanished not into thin air,
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but among people who can't answer questions,
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have laid claims to her assets, and
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never once searched for her. Is
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it because they know where she is? This
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is a story you won't want to miss. I'm
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Marissa
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and from Wondery, this is episode 415
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Teresa had been married to her husband John for many
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years. They were deeply madly
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in love from the day they met until the
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day in 2014 when John passed away
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suddenly. By March of 2023, Teresa
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was still grieving his death. She
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had isolated herself after he died.
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And then the COVID-19 pandemic isolated
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people.
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She was living on a fixed income and struggling
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to keep up with her financial obligations.
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She was also struggling with her own medical conditions
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and possibly suffered
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from memory loss or dementia, though
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it was never formally diagnosed. She
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was defenseless, susceptible, and open
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prey for people who did not have her best interest
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in mind.
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At the time of her disappearance, which is where
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we're going to start today's story, she
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was living
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with a man named Steven, who
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her friend Robert had introduced her to, and
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suggested he move in with Teresa as a
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roommate to help her out with the bills.
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Robert plays a key role in Teresa's
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story, and you'll hear more about him later.
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When we dive into the events that led to Teresa's
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disappearance, but first,
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we want to tell you about the day she vanished.
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We spoke to Teresa's niece Kara, who
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was the person who reached out to us and asked
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us to cover her aunt's story.
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This is what she told us she knew about that day
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sometime in
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the first half of March of 2023.
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St.
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John's County is where Teresa lives, and
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it's where she was seen leaving her house,
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reportedly by the person
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who was staying with her. So the guy that
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she went missing with, I guess, is like a known like
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mess head from the cops told me this.
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So he goes to pick up Teresa.
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He drives them to a Cola
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National Forest about an hour,
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like a half, maybe a little over an hour from
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Teresa's house. They go to the Lake Delancey
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area to collect firewood for his
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words, a bonfire or cookout.
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Don't know why they have to drive out there to get
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firewood, but then he
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turns off onto an ATV trail. So
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like I was saying, it's not a driving road. It's not a road
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you would turn off onto with a truck, with a giant dully
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truck. And gets stuck in the sand from
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what he told police from the police report.
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He said that this happened in the
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evening. It was dark out. It was like between
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late Saturday night and early Sunday morning.
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They tried for a few hours to get the
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truck unstuck. It ran out of gas
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eventually. Then they started
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walking. He said they walked for two or three hours
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in the woods. He said,
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eventually Teresa said that she
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felt like they're going in circles and wanted to go back
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to the truck, but that Sydney didn't
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want to go back to the truck because he was afraid of
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the animals in the woods. Okay, so he
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gave her a knife and told her to go back
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to the truck. And he kept looking and said
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he would go get help. He didn't say whether
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he gave her like a flashlight or like
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keys to the truck or anything.
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He gave her a knife. So
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then don't know really what
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happens between early Sunday
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morning until later that
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day around noon
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or one. This part is verified. A couple
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picks
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up Sydney walking pretty far from
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where
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the truck was stuck quite a distance. He's
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walking barefoot along the road carrying his boots over
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his shoulder. The couples that they picked
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him up and asked him where he wanted to go. He said
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he wanted them to take him just down the road a little
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and like drop him off. But where he wanted them to
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drop him off was just woods. So they were
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like, no, we'll take you to the dam. His bathroom's
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there. You can get like water. So they
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said he was really out of it. Talking nonsense.
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He used their phone. She had to make phone calls
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on speakers so she could hear what he was saying. I mean,
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he said he couldn't find the truck, but he told
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the couple where it was. He said that
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they saw ATV riders passing
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them when they drove into the ATV trail. That
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was what he told cops. He said, Oh, I thought she got a ride
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with them maybe assumed she made her own way
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out. He said he didn't want to go back to
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the truck because he was afraid of animals. But then he like gave
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her his knife, decided to walk by himself in the
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forest. Sydney called Sydney's sister
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or Sydney's wife to come pick him up from this
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couple's phone. And so
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the couple dropped him off at the
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dam out there, the Rodman Dam. From
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there, Sydney got picked up by his sister.
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Sydney told the couple his truck was
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stuck, but he didn't mention anything about Teresa.
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He told them where his truck was stuck, but
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he didn't tell them to go drive over there or anything.
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In the police records we obtained Sydney,
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the man that Teresa supposedly left with
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to go find firewood called his
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sister Pamela and told her that he had
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gotten his truck stuck and he needed
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her to come and get him. When Pamela came back, she was in
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the car
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came to get Sydney. Kara told
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us something she learned from the police
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that stuck out as very strange.
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So Sydney's sister
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picked him up at the dam. Supposedly
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they drove around looking for the truck and
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couldn't find it. Sydney's sister
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said that Sydney was really
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out of it when she picked him up, that
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he was talking to his dead
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father and about a woman named
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Teresa. But the sister didn't realize
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it was the same Teresa that Sydney had told
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her the day before that he was going to collect firewood
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with. She said she didn't put two and two together.
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He did not, as far as I know, tell her that
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he left Teresa out there. And then on Monday,
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the US Forest Service found
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the truck, took pictures of it and
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contacted Sydney and assisted to tell them to come pick
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it up. They came and got the truck. And
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then I'm not sure when this was
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either Monday or Tuesday. Sydney's daughter
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told police that he
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took Sydney to the hospital
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because he was having anxiety, that
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he had a dream that he stabbed someone to death.
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So yeah, that's the basic story. He also
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said he was hallucinating because he forgot
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to take his seizure meds.
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So
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that was a comment he made to the police as well.
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Police in multiple jurisdictions were familiar
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with Sydney. In fact, Kara
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told us that he had been out of jail for only days
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prior to the trip into the National Forest
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with Teresa.
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I mean, it seemed super suspicious to
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me, but also maybe just a giant
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bunch of coincidences. Maybe he just looks
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guilty and he's actually not. Who knows? Why
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didn't he tell anyone she was missing and why didn't
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he come back for her like he said he was?
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If you look at the map, there's a paved road
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very close to where they were, multiple roads.
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His criminal record is insane. Like he had just
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got out of jail two days before he
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picks up my aunt. He was in jail for eight
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days for a domestic assault charge, which
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I believe I don't know 100%, but
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like putting two and two together, I
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mean, the woman he's living with, they were
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in like a camper together.
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he assaulted her and it said
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that they had a long history of assault. I'm assuming
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it's his wife. The name's blacked out in the police report.
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We will come back to the aftermath of Teresa's
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disappearance and dive into Sydney's history
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later in this episode. But first
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we need to explore why Teresa was even
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in a forest looking for firewood with
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a man she had only recently met. We
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also have to ask if there's any evidence that
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Teresa was even in the forest with Sydney
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that day. According to police records,
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Teresa was reported missing
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by her friend Robert on March 15,
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After the missing persons report was filed,
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the police tried to work backwards to
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find the last traces of Teresa.
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One of Teresa's debit cards was used for
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the last time on March 7.
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The next day, her neighbor told police
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that he saw her in her backyard with
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several other people and identified
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one of them as her roommate, Steven.
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On March 9, Teresa's cell phone
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sent or received its last text message
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or phone call.
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According to Robert, the phone's cell
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service had been cut off due to non-payment
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and police found it in Teresa's bedroom
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and took it for processing when they conducted
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the initial search of her house. They
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also took a pair of slippers for use
11:14
with a live scent search and rescue canine.
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Police obtained surveillance footage from
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March 11 and the transaction records
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showing that Teresa and Steven purchased cat
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food around 10am at a local convenience
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store. This is a very
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important piece in the puzzle of Teresa's
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disappearance. Police not only
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spoke to the employees at the convenience store
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but they also observed on surveillance footage
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that Teresa appeared to be in good health, not
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under duress or in danger and
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simply running a quick errand with
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her roommate. This is the last time that
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there is proof that Teresa was alive. After
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this transaction, Teresa would never
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be seen again by impartial witnesses.
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Going back to the primary questions we had,
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after hearing and reading all of these different names
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of people that were in Teresa's life, when she
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disappeared? Who were they? How
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did Teresa meet them? And what was their purpose
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in Teresa's life? In order to
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answer these questions, we have to go back
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to the beginning, where major events throughout
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her life may have led to the introduction of
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these shady characters.
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Every missing person's
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story that we share is completely different
12:18
from any other that we've shared in the past
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and Teresa
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is no exception. However,
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Teresa's story is especially unique
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in that she was adopted and she has no
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known living biological relatives. We
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have no information about her early life
12:33
or anything that happened prior to her marriage.
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Her legal next of kin is her niece Kara,
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who you heard describe what she knows of Teresa's
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disappearance.
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Kara is the daughter of Teresa's brother-in-law
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Jim and his wife Lynn.
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Kara's dad Jim is still living,
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but he suffers from
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serious medical complications,
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so he was unable to speak with
12:54
us. Teresa and Jim's wife
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Lynn enjoyed a close relationship, especially
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during the years that they lived close to each other.
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We
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spoke with Lynn at length and asked
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her to tell us about the early years that she knew
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Teresa when they were young adults in
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their 20s.
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I think Teresa is a little bit older than me. I
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was born in 58. I think she was born in 56. I
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grew up in Indiana. My grandparents
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had had a house. They lived on the St. John's
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River in Orenstale since the 40s. My grandfather
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died and I ended up
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staying with my grandmother and helping
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take care of her and my great-grandmother.
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And a teeny tiny town of Orenstale, which is
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south of Jacksonville. I didn't
13:38
know anybody and I met her
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through my boyfriend because he knew everybody.
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I'm
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sure that the reason that they got together
13:45
had to do with just being young
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in their 20s and partying
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together.
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Lynn liked Teresa from the moment she met her,
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but was taken aback by the difference in the way
13:56
that Teresa and her husband lived. She
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told us that it was a culture shock when she got
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to Florida. So
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I know Teresa was brought up in Jacksonville
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and I have to say I think I grew
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up a very sheltered life because I grew up in Bloomington,
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Indiana. We were like a middle class
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family. Most of the people that we grew
14:13
up with were, you know, at least average.
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And I remember just being so shocked when I
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met John and Teresa because they were very
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articulate, smart and like
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we would play chess together and
14:26
have really good interesting discussions
14:28
about things but they were also just really,
14:31
really, really poor. And I remember
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they all had bare feet. They just
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lived really on the edge and I
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was just a young, curious person
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and I remember just being so fascinated. And
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Teresa, she was very soft-booked
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and she had the greatest sense of humor
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and she was just real bubbly
14:50
and had like a fun,
14:53
teasing sense of humor and she
14:55
was really super sweet. She
14:57
really liked me because I was kind of exotic
14:59
to her I think and I would always make food
15:02
for her and give
15:03
her haircuts and then went on
15:05
to marry her brother-in-law.
15:07
So I spent a fair amount of time with
15:09
her over the next few years.
15:11
She was friendly with everybody, southern
15:14
manners. So she always was like, yes
15:16
ma'am, yes sir, to my grandmother and
15:18
everybody. She was always really kind.
15:21
Not too long after I met her, her father-in-law
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John, he found caretaker
15:26
position for both of his sons, Jim
15:29
and John. Jim's the one that I married, John
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is Teresa's husband. At
15:34
that time, there were a lot of beautiful
15:36
estates along the river that people
15:39
had moved down. I guess there was
15:41
kind of a boom in the 40s and they'd moved down
15:43
and bought fairly cheap chunks of property
15:46
on the river. So they all had really
15:48
nice houses. They went to the Sigmund's
15:51
house and they had a little
15:52
caretaker cottage right on the river
15:54
and
15:54
they helped Miss Sigmund who was very elderly
15:57
then take care of her. She had
15:59
guinea hands and peacocks and chickens
16:01
and a big piece of property for them
16:03
to mow and oranges to
16:05
pick and it was cool. It was
16:08
really beautiful and we all had socks
16:10
and we all had boats so we were out on the river
16:12
a lot fishing. Jim
16:14
and John were fishermen
16:17
and shrimpers and the shrimp would run
16:19
in the river once or twice a year and
16:21
they would go out and get shrimp and sell them
16:23
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We also spoke with a lifelong friend of
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Teresa's. Her name is Phyllis,
18:49
and we asked her to tell us about the Teresa she
18:51
knew and loved.
18:53
I've known Teresa since elementary school.
18:56
Well, when I first met her, she was really
18:58
shy and quiet. I mean, she
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talked in a whisper all the time. I finally
19:02
got her out of her shell on that one, and then,
19:05
you know, we lost touch with her a
19:07
while back ago, and before
19:09
high school ended, to be honest with
19:11
you, I didn't get back in touch with her until after
19:13
her husband died. I think it was
19:16
on Facebook that she noted on Facebook that he
19:18
died. Either that or Debbie Renfoe told me
19:20
about it. That was her, one of her
19:22
good friends. Basically, I went down
19:24
there with Debbie to go see her. She was
19:26
in a trailer out in the woods,
19:28
and we went down there and started talking,
19:30
and she would visit Debbie every now and then, and Debbie
19:33
and I started hanging out, and we started making what
19:35
we call old ladies' day out. We would
19:37
go out to the
19:38
antique stores and then go
19:40
out to dinner or lunch, and all
19:42
three of us, you know, we just had old ladies' days.
19:45
Because Teresa would come down here sometimes to go to the doctor.
19:47
She had certain doctors that she had down here, and
19:49
she would come down every so often and go see one
19:51
of these doctors. She had COPD,
19:54
I know that, because her and I both have it. Every
19:56
so often, I'd go down there and we'd go shopping, and
19:58
then we'd go back to her
19:59
I wanted to, I'd spend the night if I wasn't
20:02
doing anything, I'd spend the night, we'd sit there and
20:04
watch TV.
20:05
We also spoke to another friend of Teresa's
20:08
who had known her for decades, Katie,
20:10
and asked her to give us some insight on
20:13
who Teresa is as we desperately
20:15
wanted to know the person whose story we were telling
20:17
with so little information
20:19
about her life history.
20:21
I met her when I was 19. We
20:24
worked together, a little job that I got at an
20:26
insurance agency. She had worked there as well.
20:29
She had a skill set for it, she even went
20:30
to school for it for a little while. It
20:32
would be a customer service rep for
20:35
insurance. And we
20:36
just became really good friends. I mean, we ended up
20:38
going to Vegas together. We've always
20:40
stayed in touch throughout all these years.
20:42
Just the kindest, sweetest person
20:45
you'd ever want to meet. Very gentle
20:47
soul.
20:48
She was like an old hippie, but she
20:50
would do anything for anybody that she could. She
20:53
was very sweet.
20:54
Very outgoing with her friends, but also
20:57
a homebody.
20:58
If you can be outgoing and introverted
21:00
at the same time, that was her.
21:02
I had met many friends throughout
21:04
the years that she had been friends with for
21:06
her whole life. I mean, I went
21:09
over to her house several times. I even
21:11
helped her when her husband John passed
21:13
away, planned the funeral and everything for
21:15
her because it was such a distraught time
21:18
for her. She was just kind of out of it when
21:20
her husband died. Very loyal
21:22
friends,
21:23
many friends that she had just for
21:26
years and years. I mean, I became friends
21:28
with some of them through this too.
21:31
Kara grew up close to her aunt and
21:33
she has many fond memories of the time they
21:35
spent together.
21:37
She's really funny. She's sweet.
21:39
She's like a very kind person. She's
21:41
always not had a lot of money. But when I first
21:43
moved to St. Augustine, she's like, stay with me anytime.
21:46
We'll make it work. I mean,
21:48
she's also kind of a badass
21:50
country. Lived out in St. John's
21:52
County but kind of out in the swampy
21:55
woods area. I remember being a little
21:57
kid and us going to visit her and my
21:59
uncle.
21:59
and they just took us around the property and
22:02
were like chopping up the cotton mouse, like
22:04
they got in our way, just like machete in them. And
22:07
she was just like bear on her property too. Like
22:09
pretty, pretty country. She's an animal lover.
22:12
My aunt loves cats. Her cats are like her
22:14
whole life. She's always like rescuing cats
22:16
and she's had a lot of cats all
22:18
the time.
22:19
She's for real the cat lady.
22:21
Kara explained that Teresa had worked when she
22:24
was younger, but the details are things
22:26
Kara isn't old enough to recall or
22:28
Teresa didn't share. She
22:30
worked for an insurance company and I think
22:32
she did something with computers, some kind
22:35
of computer work, but I'm not sure what that
22:37
entailed. I wasn't very privy
22:39
to that information. I don't really know how
22:41
they got by. We didn't really talk about
22:44
money or anything like that. I mean,
22:46
she would comment being like, Oh, like I'm, I'm
22:48
getting low on funds this month, but she like never
22:50
asked me for a loan or anything like that.
22:53
All these people now are like, Oh yeah, I was lending
22:55
Teresa money. She's always asking me for
22:57
money. So I don't know. Maybe
22:59
it's like a pride thing. Like you don't want to ask
23:01
your younger family for, for help like
23:03
that. I don't know. And maybe she just didn't want to bother
23:05
me because I had the baby and everything.
23:08
These memories are from what we could define
23:10
as the before period
23:11
of Teresa's life. When her
23:13
husband was still alive, Kara
23:15
told us about how special Teresa's relationship
23:18
with her husband was.
23:20
Oh, she's been married since she was a teenager to
23:22
my uncle, John. She was deeply in love
23:24
with my uncle. Like you should see the love letters. She would
23:27
write her. I don't know that people actually love like
23:29
that, except in the movies. So they
23:31
were in love, love to lose that. Who
23:33
knows what that does to you? You know, and that sounds
23:35
super cliche, but they're like perfectly matched for
23:37
each other. And she was devastated
23:40
when he passed away and missed him really badly.
23:43
It was always like posting about, Oh,
23:45
you know, it's like his birthday. I miss you. It's
23:47
like a holiday. I miss you
23:49
saying that she thought it would get easier, but it
23:51
just didn't get easier. It was really
23:53
hard on her to lose. John
23:56
Teresa's sister-in-law, Lynn, who was
23:58
married
23:58
to John's brother.
23:59
that as long as Teresa knew John,
24:02
they completely
24:04
shattered Teresa's world.
24:32
Steve
24:34
talked to me about when he died, just
24:37
what a shock it was. And
24:39
so where she was living then was
24:41
still on the river that John
24:44
had gotten this property. Teresa was left
24:46
out in the country in a really rough,
24:49
it was like a trailer and it was very
24:52
ramsackal. She had
24:53
our, we went, been there a couple of times. She
24:56
just had like a hundred little kittens running
24:58
all around. I remember the first
25:00
time I went there, John was out there, came
25:03
back with a couple of cotton mouths, just
25:05
walk out barefoot, walk down to the river
25:07
and just a very country, very
25:11
simple and very rustic.
25:14
After John's death, Teresa fell
25:16
into a deep depression. They had
25:18
no children and with very few
25:20
living relatives. Teresa probably
25:22
felt very alone and wasn't sure
25:24
what to do with her life going forward.
25:26
Lynn explained that at this point in time, it
25:29
seems that Teresa's grief compounded with her
25:31
naturally sweet and trusting personality
25:34
which made her very vulnerable to the wrong people
25:36
at a time when she needed people
25:38
in her life the most.
25:40
I think she was very upset when John
25:42
died and this letter really
25:45
done a bad pass.
25:46
She did stop hanging out with us.
25:49
I had a job where I traveled and I would come
25:51
down to Florida to see Cara and we would
25:54
always get together with Teresa and go get barbecue
25:56
or something and
25:57
she just started getting really
25:59
busy every day.
25:59
time I'd come or every time we'd call and
26:02
Kara had her baby and had the shower. She
26:04
just got really busy and I really think, I
26:07
think that was her being protective
26:09
of us and not wanting to drag us down
26:11
into whatever was going on with her.
26:12
She was really fun to be around.
26:15
She was super sweet and she really
26:17
liked me and I always really liked
26:19
her kind of against all odds.
26:22
She wasn't really someone I would have normally picked
26:24
to be friends with but somehow we met
26:26
and then we were friends and I don't know maybe
26:28
that's just the way she is. Maybe a lot of people felt like
26:30
that about her but she was to
26:32
be like more of a complicated person than
26:35
it even seems. Everybody has secrets
26:37
right and nobody does anything for
26:39
no reason. So I think she was super
26:41
sad about John and she started
26:44
hanging around with a really wrong crowd
26:46
and what happened? I don't know.
26:48
It seems to me like Bob and
26:50
Sid had something to do with
26:53
it for sure. Kara
26:54
and I are both super disgusted by
26:56
all her friends, most of them, almost
26:59
all of them. They're like scavengers,
27:01
vultures. They just come in for the
27:03
kill. We're sad about that because we
27:06
did love Teresa and it just seems like it's
27:08
such a sad end.
27:10
Kara mentioned something that clicked with what
27:12
Lynn
27:13
shared about Teresa not coming around as
27:15
much, feeling to show up for family
27:17
events or keep in contact with the
27:19
relatives she had always been close to.
27:21
While her family chalked it up to isolation
27:24
due to grief and later the pandemic,
27:26
there came a point where it felt like maybe Teresa
27:28
didn't want her family to know something. What
27:31
was it she was hiding? They didn't
27:33
know the answer to that but Kara shared
27:35
with us the change that she saw in her aunt.
27:39
So
27:39
I haven't really talked to her
27:41
over the last couple years very much.
27:43
I was pregnant and then she's afraid
27:46
of COVID. Like she didn't want to come out. She didn't come
27:48
to my baby shower because of COVID and then
27:50
she brought me like a dreamtoucher
27:53
she made for my daughter and
27:54
some little baby clothes.
27:56
And then I just hadn't talked to her
27:58
very much over the last year.
27:59
message her and call her and she just wouldn't answer.
28:02
She would message and be like, oh, I'm busy, honey. She
28:04
didn't come to my daughter's first birthday last year. She said
28:07
she was at the doctor. So we hadn't seen
28:09
each other very much at all. Me
28:11
and my little brother went and visited her right before I got
28:13
pregnant. And she seemed fine, like
28:16
normal, but we weren't like super close. We
28:18
live in the same town, but we would just see each other like a few
28:21
times. I mean, COVID did really make
28:23
things different. She was very afraid
28:25
of it,
28:26
very afraid of going out and she
28:28
liked parties. She liked being around families.
28:30
She always wanted to do stuff to just suddenly like kind
28:32
of drop off like that and not want to come. I don't
28:35
understand that. It doesn't make sense. She told me she was afraid
28:37
of COVID, but then Phyllis messaged me
28:39
two days ago and said that she like went there right
28:41
after having COVID. So to Teresa's house,
28:44
I don't know. Maybe it was just something she said if
28:46
she was trying to protect me from whatever was going on in her life.
28:48
I can't even imagine. She really
28:50
didn't tell me anything that was going on. I don't
28:52
know if she didn't want to like burden me with what was going
28:55
on.
28:56
Teresa's friend Phyllis was able to tell
28:58
us more
28:58
about Teresa's life after John had
29:00
died and how some people like Robert
29:03
and Sidney came into Teresa's life.
29:06
After her husband died, she wanted to meet
29:08
new guys and I would hook her up
29:10
with some of the guys that I know. That said
29:12
guy, I don't know who said is. I've never
29:15
met him. According to Robert, he met, he
29:17
was over there and he asked him to come over and help
29:19
mow Teresa's yard with his riding
29:22
lawnmower. Him and Teresa just kind
29:24
of hit it off. He was
29:26
seeing Teresa off on the side, I
29:29
guess, from what I understand from Robert.
29:31
I never knew she was seeing him, said. I know
29:34
the last time I talked to her was on the 9th.
29:36
She called me because I went down there on the 3rd, I
29:38
think, with Lyft because sometimes I
29:40
left and I had a ride to St. Augustine.
29:43
So it was like, well, while I'm down there, I'll go
29:45
visit Teresa. But she wasn't home when I got
29:47
there. So I went in the house
29:50
and she went there and I left
29:52
her a note saying I had been there so that she knew
29:55
somebody was in her house. And then she
29:57
called me on the 9th and yeah,
29:59
yeah, I'm sorry.
29:59
missed you and
30:01
you're more than welcome to come down anytime you want
30:03
to." And I said, well, as soon as I get everything together,
30:05
I'll be down to see you. And she said, okay.
30:08
And Steve was in the background. That was a roommate,
30:10
which I didn't know she had a roommate. He
30:12
was in the background wanting to know who she
30:14
was talking to.
30:16
And she told him it was me.
30:18
It should have triggered my head to say, you
30:20
know, something's wrong. You need to go down there. But
30:23
I didn't think about it right then and there.
30:25
I figured, well, you know, she's got money problems
30:27
and she wants to try having a roommate and that's fine
30:29
with me. I'll go down eventually and
30:31
I'll meet him. And I texted her on
30:33
the 15th and I was, you know, if she wasn't busy,
30:36
I'll come down and see her and I never got a reply.
30:39
Next day I found out she was missing.
30:41
You heard that Teresa and her husband had lived
30:44
on a rural property in St. John's County,
30:46
Florida for many years.
30:48
In early 2020, Teresa
30:50
sold that property and purchased a home in
30:52
St. Augustine.
30:53
It was a little two bedroom house on a more
30:56
manageable lot for the now single Teresa,
30:59
if you've never been to St. Augustine, it's
31:01
a city on the Atlantic coast of Florida,
31:04
just about 40 miles south of Jacksonville.
31:07
It's known for its Spanish colonial architecture,
31:09
rich history, and beautiful beaches, which
31:12
draws millions of tourists each year.
31:15
It's certainly not a place that anyone expected
31:17
Teresa to disappear from, but
31:19
that's exactly what happened in March
31:21
of 2023.
31:23
According to the police records we received
31:25
the deputies with the St. John's County Sheriff's
31:28
office determined that Teresa was a missing endangered
31:30
person on March 16th, 2023.
31:34
One day after her friend Robert made the report
31:37
and after they had spoken to a number of
31:38
individuals,
31:40
Teresa was formally entered into multiple
31:42
databases as a missing person on this
31:44
date. We shared with you earlier that
31:46
it was on this same day that investigators
31:49
obtained the surveillance footage. They interviewed
31:51
Sydney multiple times, as well as his
31:53
sister, Pamela, Robert, and
31:55
Teresa's neighbor, Jerry.
31:57
The day before, when Robert initially
31:59
reported.
31:59
Teresa missing. A deputy
32:02
went out to Teresa's house and did a cursed
32:04
research for any signs of foul play
32:06
or a disturbance and collected evidence including
32:09
Teresa's cell phone and a pair of slippers
32:11
for a later search using a live scent canine.
32:14
During a subsequent search police looked
32:17
for evidence of disturbed areas on the property
32:19
or for any presence of cleaning products and
32:21
didn't find anything that indicated foul play
32:24
had occurred there. Well at Teresa's
32:26
home they took into evidence a toothbrush
32:28
razor and hairbrush belonging to Teresa
32:31
for DNA analysis and upload Dakotas
32:33
because as we mentioned earlier Teresa
32:36
had no known living biological relatives
32:39
from whom family reference samples could be obtained.
32:42
When we talked with Kara she told us
32:44
that she felt like the police hadn't done enough to look
32:46
for her aunt who needed medication
32:48
and could be in danger. We asked her
32:50
to tell us how the investigation had started
32:52
and how it was going the first time we spoke
32:55
with her in
32:55
early June of this year approximately
32:58
three months after Teresa had disappeared.
33:00
So
33:01
St. John's took some initial missing
33:03
persons report their investigation
33:05
is still open and active. They
33:07
do not have evidence
33:09
that foul play is involved so they
33:12
it's not suspected of this term by
33:14
St. John's. Marion County
33:15
is supposedly where she was
33:17
last seen where she was last reported
33:20
seen by the person she was with. I
33:22
just found out last week that Marion there was some kind
33:24
of
33:24
mix-up with the records department and Marion
33:26
County never received the police
33:28
report from St. John's County and then Marion
33:31
County is where the
33:33
truck broke down and where the guy Sidney
33:35
was with her said that he left her. They're
33:37
both open investigations.
33:39
They seem to have differing ideas
33:41
of what happened. St. John seems to believe
33:44
the guy's story and it doesn't seem
33:46
like Marion County does.
33:48
There was a controlled burn last week. I
33:50
was trying to get another search
33:52
to go like look at an area of interest out there
33:54
and
33:55
I called Marion County
33:57
to say found out there was a
33:58
controlled burn.
33:59
534 acres in the Ocala National Forest.
34:02
And they said, yeah, sure, let's have a search.
34:04
But then I was like, hey, can you postpone the burn
34:07
till the search happens? And the
34:09
detective in charge of the case in Marion
34:11
County said he can't move burn lines
34:13
based on suspicion. Those are your suspicions,
34:16
though. So the fire happened, damaged
34:18
the roads out there, and I've just been waiting for the Forest
34:20
Service to call me back and tell me when the roads
34:22
will be passable so that we can get the search out there.
34:25
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36:07
The controlled burn took place despite
36:10
the objections of Teresa's relatives.
36:12
What if she was out there and she was lost in the
36:14
burn? What if there was evidence of her
36:16
having been there or signs of a crime scene?
36:19
According to police records, one deputy
36:22
said he smelled the scent of decomposition where
36:24
Sidney's car had been stuck. Why
36:26
couldn't the burn be postponed?
36:28
I never got answers to that question.
36:31
Police records document that multiple searches
36:33
took place at the end of March and multiple
36:36
agencies participated. They
36:38
didn't find any evidence of Teresa or
36:40
anything to prove that she had been in the forest at
36:43
all. Police also searched Sidney's
36:45
truck with his consent and found nothing
36:47
of note but did observe that it was
36:49
dirty and had not been cleaned in a long
36:52
period of time.
36:53
After this, the report ends and we don't have
36:55
any further information about what police have
36:58
done to search for Teresa.
36:59
We contacted the sheriff's office for an interview
37:02
but unfortunately they declined.
37:04
We also requested body camera footage that
37:06
recorded many of the conversations we described.
37:10
That request was approved and then rescinded.
37:12
During our correspondence with Marion County,
37:15
they initially offered body cam
37:17
footage and calls for service. After
37:19
they rescinded that offer, they asked us
37:21
if we would like them to preserve the audio in
37:23
Teresa's case and we could request it in
37:26
the future if the status of the case changed.
37:29
This conversation occurred in July of 2023 and we
37:31
said yes, absolutely. But
37:35
we were also confused as to why that question
37:37
was posed to us
37:38
and why the audio was not already preserved
37:40
in a missing persons case.
37:42
On October 13th, 2023,
37:45
we received word from Marion County that
37:47
the audio had been deleted. They began
37:49
looking for it on August 29th in
37:52
response to our record request in mid-July.
37:54
By late August, the retention period had passed
37:57
and the audio was already deleted.
37:59
The letter states that the audio was not recoverable.
38:03
We aren't sure why no attempts were made
38:05
to preserve that potential evidence in
38:07
a month's old missing persons case until
38:09
we requested records.
38:11
But it was a major disappointment for Kara
38:14
to learn this information after we shared
38:16
the letter we received
38:17
with her.
38:18
During Kara's own search for her aunt, she
38:20
learned that independent witnesses believed that Teresa
38:23
was having memory problems and maybe that
38:25
had contributed to a number of events in
38:27
her life.
38:29
So when I had spoken with her, which hadn't been since
38:31
last October, she seemed normal.
38:33
But yeah, it seems like something was going on
38:35
with her mentally.
38:37
So when she first went missing, her
38:39
friends who were close to her, I mean, they have so many
38:41
different things to say. But they were saying, yeah,
38:43
she's been having memory problems. I
38:45
went and spoke with her bank and
38:48
with a pawn shop that she used to frequent.
38:50
And they both said that, yeah, she was not the same
38:52
person. She'd been really going downhill the past
38:54
few months before she went missing. She would come
38:57
in multiple times a day trying to cash
38:59
the same check or get something she'd already picked
39:01
up from pawn.
39:02
So that was stuff I found out after
39:04
that.
39:05
There was a darker aspect to reports Kara
39:08
got
39:08
from people who said that Teresa seemed to be struggling
39:11
with her memory. Until she disappeared,
39:13
Kara had not heard any of the names of these
39:15
friends that seemed to dominate all aspects
39:18
of Teresa's life. She shared with us
39:20
her feelings about them and how she often
39:22
finds herself thinking about who these people were.
39:26
It seems like she was really
39:28
struggling the last year or so. And
39:31
I don't know that she had any
39:34
of the people that she called her friends who were
39:36
actually looking out for her best interests
39:37
or if they were just taking
39:39
advantage of her.
39:40
There's just all these people who call themselves
39:42
her friends who are just kind of like, just
39:45
shitty. I've had two of her
39:47
friends tell me that they have a will
39:49
from Teresa leaving everything to them.
39:52
I don't know if she trusted everybody. I
39:54
don't know that she had the best boundaries or
39:56
like judgment of character.
39:58
So I never.
39:59
heard mention a single one of these people
40:02
until now and now I kind of get it. I see
40:04
why. This is like all I think about every
40:06
single day and like I'll wake up in the night and be thinking about
40:08
it. No,
40:09
either you people you surround yourself with
40:11
will bring you up or drag you down.
40:14
As we mentioned earlier, Teresa's friend
40:16
Robert plays a leading role in her story,
40:18
though that's not an implication that he played
40:20
a role in her disappearance. However,
40:23
we wanted to learn all we could about the
40:25
people in Teresa's life. Teresa's
40:27
longtime friend Katie told us about how
40:30
she learned Teresa was missing and
40:32
her impression of Robert after meeting him
40:34
at Teresa's home.
40:36
My husband actually I was
40:39
out shopping with my sister
40:41
and he called me and he said I've
40:43
just been on the news that Teresa's
40:45
missing
40:46
and I was just in total shock
40:48
and I came straight home and we got
40:51
in the car and drove straight over to her house. Teresa
40:54
wouldn't go missing like that.
40:55
Something's wrong, something's a foul,
40:57
somebody's
40:58
done something harmful to her.
41:01
There's no other explanation for her missing
41:03
the phone. Somebody's done something to her.
41:06
When all of this went down, when she went
41:08
missing, meeting the guy,
41:10
I think he goes by Bob that
41:12
lives there at
41:13
her house now or
41:15
he says he doesn't live there but he's there
41:17
all the time and doesn't let people in. He's
41:19
just kind of like taking over and
41:22
even though
41:23
they have known each other for a while his
41:26
type of personality was very
41:28
loud, very boisterous, very
41:31
confrontational. When I first found
41:33
out that she was missing, I mean I immediately
41:35
got in
41:35
our car and we went over there and met my
41:38
husband and the guy stopped us
41:40
in the driveway, tried to start a fight
41:42
with my husband in the driveway and
41:44
we were just wondering where is Teresa?
41:47
We're here out of concern and why are you
41:49
trying to fight my husband? This is
41:51
totally not how Teresa
41:53
conducts her life and her business at all
41:56
and that just seems very odd.
41:58
These people have just kind of taken over and we're just
41:59
taken over her house now that she's missing.
42:02
It just seemed very, very odd.
42:04
Teresa would not have someone
42:07
intervene that closely in her life, to
42:09
where they had access
42:10
to paperwork and stuff
42:12
like that. It's just so unlike her.
42:15
That's why I'm wondering if they had coerced her
42:17
in some kind of a way.
42:19
The Stevie guy that's living
42:21
there is kind of mentally
42:23
challenged. This was the guy
42:25
that Bob says that
42:28
Teresa was gonna let him move in as a roommate,
42:31
but I had talked to one of Teresa's friends,
42:34
and she was at Teresa's house
42:36
just a couple of days before Teresa
42:39
had went missing, and she said
42:41
nobody was living there. And the
42:43
Stevie guy supposedly had been living
42:46
there for several months, but she said
42:48
that she went into the spare bedroom and
42:50
there was nothing in there. All of that
42:52
is fishy to me about this guy living there,
42:55
plus the guy that's living there. He went
42:57
into the Dollar General by Teresa's house
43:00
and was talking to one of the store clerks
43:02
because we went in there and talked to her,
43:04
and he was walking in saying, I'm
43:06
not supposed to talk about it. I'm not supposed
43:08
to say anything about it. And
43:11
she said, Stevie, what are you not supposed to
43:13
talk about? And he was like, I told you, I can't talk
43:15
about it.
43:16
I think if somebody could talk to that Stevie
43:18
guy, you could get some answers, but
43:20
that guy Bob is so protective of
43:23
him. He tells him, like, the
43:25
few times that I've been over there,
43:27
he has told Stevie to leave
43:29
the room. I don't want you to talk
43:31
about anything. Like, he hushes him
43:33
up.
43:35
Teresa's close friend Phyllis learned that Teresa
43:37
was missing while watching the news. She
43:39
rushed down to Teresa's home in St. Augustine,
43:42
where she was met at the door by Robert.
43:45
It was on the news. I've seen
43:47
the picture of Teresa, and I'm going, oh,
43:49
hell no, please, don't, no,
43:52
no, no, no, no. I went down there
43:54
and Bob was there, or Robert,
43:57
and he wanted to know who I was, and I
43:59
told him. I said my name and I went
44:01
in there and we sat down and we were
44:04
talking about what happened. It's
44:06
just unreal because what I heard from Bob that
44:09
night or Robert that night or
44:11
that day was not the same thing
44:13
I'm hearing now.
44:15
I was sitting down on the chair in the
44:17
front porch and Bob was telling
44:19
me about all what had happened
44:21
and
44:22
he told me that Teresa, he said
44:24
that Teresa hadn't been home in two days and that
44:27
he's the one that reported Teresa missing after
44:29
she didn't show home up for two days. Come
44:31
to find out it's five days. So
44:34
I don't believe a word that man says for what comes
44:36
out of his mouth just because of that reason. He
44:38
also was telling me about how he painted
44:41
Teresa's bathroom and put a picture
44:43
up and I had to go to the bathroom
44:45
at that time and I went in the bathroom and I'm looking
44:47
around and the house was spotless.
44:50
Teresa don't keep a spotless house and
44:52
it didn't dawn on me then. It
44:54
didn't seem right when I walked in the house like there
44:56
was stuff missing. I've noticed later
44:59
on especially when I went to go get the cats that
45:01
her dining room rug is missing. Now Bob
45:03
says that his rug is on her front porch
45:06
but I don't think Teresa would put a rug
45:08
on her front porch plus I think
45:10
the rug was too big to be put on the front porch.
45:13
It just seemed unfamiliar to me to walk in
45:15
that house the way it was.
45:17
He reported Teresa missing. He said he
45:19
then called Sid's sister and
45:21
Sid's sister told him that Sid
45:23
was in the hospital.
45:25
Now Sid from what I understand went
45:27
out in the woods, left Teresa there
45:29
and when he was picked up he didn't bother
45:31
to tell anybody she was out there. Sid
45:34
got his truck stuck in on calipars from what
45:36
I understand. There's pictures of his truck in the forest.
45:39
From what I understand his sister Pam
45:41
went to pick him up
45:43
and he didn't bother to tell his sister or anybody
45:45
that he was she was out there. Bob
45:47
told me that Sid was in the
45:48
hospital Teresa didn't come home for two days
45:51
and that's what he called the police and reported her missing.
45:54
Now if you go back through it's five days. Also
45:57
when I went in the house this is before I
45:59
found out.
45:59
and she had a roommate. Okay. Because I
46:02
went inside her bedroom, her bedroom door was shut.
46:04
And I remember opening her door and thinking, please
46:06
don't let me find you dead in that bed. And
46:08
I opened up her door
46:10
and she had a blue comforter
46:12
on her bed. And it looked like there was feet underneath
46:14
it. So I opened it up all the way, but
46:16
she wasn't in the bed.
46:18
So I went inside the spare room. The spare
46:20
room had a desk in it
46:22
and had a beanbag in it, when she kept her cats
46:24
in there. I kind of find out Steve
46:26
had been there since January. That's
46:29
when he officially moved into Teresa's
46:31
house, according to what I'm hearing. And
46:33
there was no bed in that room.
46:35
There was no bed whatsoever. So I'm thinking,
46:37
well, where was Steve sleeping? And of course the police
46:39
came back and said, well, he was sleeping on the couch. But
46:41
after I said that, and I brought that to everyone's attention,
46:44
a couple of days later, Robert came in with my bed
46:47
and that had to be in March. So that was at least two, three
46:49
months. So why wasn't Steve brought
46:51
a bed when he first moved in? This would be my
46:54
question. Why did it take you three months
46:56
in order to get my bed in there? And only
46:58
after Teresa went missing, did you put a bed
47:00
in there?
47:01
If he was living there with Teresa helping her
47:03
pay
47:03
the bills, according to Robert,
47:05
then why wasn't he given a bed to
47:07
begin with? Steve, he's also
47:10
on social security disability. And
47:12
Robin's also his caretaker. Bob
47:14
is his girlfriend, Robin. So
47:16
why didn't she go out and take some of his money
47:18
that he's getting for social security disability
47:21
and go out and buy that man a bed? Then
47:23
Robert's saying that Teresa's been going to
47:25
his house and he's been going to Teresa's house for the
47:27
past 18 months. Past 18
47:29
months, many times as I've been down there, I
47:31
haven't seen Robert. And they're sitting right
47:33
now in a house that's paid for and it's worth $250,000. So
47:37
they're trying to take a full advantage
47:39
of that opportunity right now.
47:42
Robert told the police and Kara that
47:44
he had been trying to help Teresa and
47:46
that she had been struggling with memory issues and
47:48
her finances. But Kara found
47:50
his stories varied and never added up
47:52
to a cohesive answer. And as time
47:55
progressed and then after Teresa had vanished,
47:57
things went downhill quickly. Here's...
47:59
Kara again.
48:01
Robert says he's new Teresa and John for 46
48:04
years and like is an old family friend. I
48:06
don't know how they know each
48:09
other, how they met. That's unclear.
48:11
She never mentioned a roommate to me. He told me
48:13
he was helping her a couple
48:15
months before she went missing, three to four months before
48:18
she went missing. Now it's only that he's been paying
48:20
her bills for 18 months before she went missing.
48:23
So I don't know. I talked to Winn Dixie,
48:25
the lady at Winn Dixie where she paid her FBL bill
48:27
and that lady said Teresa came in every
48:29
month like clockwork and paid her bill on her own. I
48:31
mean, she could have been borrowing money, who knows. But
48:34
Robert's whole story is insane. But
48:36
he said that he and his girlfriend started
48:39
taking care of Teresa's finances before she went
48:41
missing because of her memory problem.
48:43
So he told detectives that he had access to
48:46
her bank account and like that's how he knew where her last
48:48
bank charge was and she went missing. There's like
48:50
a whole other aspect of the story that's just
48:52
crazy. So Robert told me that
48:54
he moved his sister's
48:57
husband's brother, Steven, who
48:59
has a mental disability into Teresa's
49:01
house March
49:01
1st to help her with bills because she was
49:04
falling behind. Apparently,
49:06
Robert set something
49:08
up where he was going to loan Teresa
49:11
money for property taxes and then Steven's
49:14
disability check was going to go to Robert to like
49:16
pay him back. Robert
49:19
was trying to get me to pay the property taxes
49:22
that were due March 31st. When I told
49:24
him, you know, don't worry about it, well, family
49:26
will take care of it. I called the property tax office.
49:29
They said, don't worry about paying them right now.
49:31
She's missing. There's going to be like a $200 late
49:33
fee, but nothing will happen to her house for 22 months.
49:36
So we were like, okay. But then Robert ended up his
49:39
girlfriend paid the taxes on the 31st. So I
49:41
was like, why would you do that? That's so weird. So
49:43
Robert ended up calling me
49:45
and leaving a voicemail last month saying that if
49:48
my family pays them $2,000, he'll release
49:50
Teresa's house. Robert
49:52
told me he changed Teresa's locks a couple
49:54
months before she went missing. He doesn't remember
49:56
why. He said Teresa had him change locks.
49:59
He told someone else.
50:00
He changed them the day she went missing.
50:02
So what the cop said, because
50:05
I was like, oh, I'm going to come over to the house to Robert
50:07
and see what's going on. Oh, I changed
50:09
a lot. So I'm like, okay. The cop
50:11
said because Steven lived there,
50:14
he could have anyone that he wanted there, including
50:16
Robert. So I ended up calling the utility
50:18
companies and telling them these people like
50:20
haven't showed a lease or anything, which they won't still
50:23
haven't asked them to. I don't know what
50:25
they're telling me is true. If they had something to do with their disappearing.
50:28
When the utility companies turned off the utilities,
50:31
they said that you can't have utilities on a missing
50:33
person's name, have people using them.
50:35
Then Robert puts them in his name. So I don't know
50:37
if he's squatting, if he's living there, if anyone's
50:39
living there. Me and Robert aren't on good terms.
50:42
I had asked Robert, well, what's this guy's
50:44
phone number? This was just a few days
50:47
after she went missing. He's like, you're going to have to get that from
50:49
the police. Every step of the way, like so
50:51
unhelpful. And I did try to be nice
50:53
to him and be cordial and stuff to just try
50:55
to get information from him. He
50:57
was calling me all the time, leaving voicemails, leaving
50:59
like drunk, rambling voicemails. Finally called
51:02
me and was like, you're not her real
51:04
family. You're like
51:05
not blood relatives because my uncle
51:07
is the one who's married to her. So you
51:09
don't have any reason to be
51:12
trying to get her paperwork or anything. Always going
51:14
on about her house. You're trying to get her house.
51:17
And I just kind of like lost on him and cussed him out and hung up
51:19
on him. We haven't really talked since then. He
51:21
was just super unhelpful to me from the get go.
51:23
I was like, so do you have any paperwork or
51:25
anything? I can look and see what was going on with their finances,
51:28
with their health. And he was like, I have all Teresa's
51:30
paperwork and I'm not giving it to anyone until I have a lawyer.
51:33
He is the one who introduced Teresa to Sydney.
51:36
A week after Robert had reported Teresa
51:38
missing, police spoke to him while conducting
51:41
a search of Teresa's hands. Police
51:43
records don't indicate why Robert was at
51:45
Teresa's home, but they did take the opportunity
51:48
to examine his cell phone with his consent.
51:51
What they found disproved a claim he had made
51:53
in an earlier discussion with police. When
51:55
he said that on March 12, he called
51:57
Sydney's phone and a male he couldn't be
51:59
with Sidney answered and then
52:02
hung up on him.
52:03
But he was positive that he had heard a female's
52:05
voice in the background. However,
52:07
police had already spoken to Tom,
52:09
a friend of Sidney's, who confirmed that
52:12
on March 11th, he allowed Sidney
52:14
to drop off his trailer on his property while
52:16
he was not home. Tom returned
52:18
home on March 12th and he observed
52:20
Sidney's cell phone on top of his trailer.
52:23
He told the police that someone called the phone and
52:25
he picked it up, thinking it was Sidney, but
52:27
that it was someone yelling about a birthday party
52:30
and he hung up thinking that someone had dialed
52:32
a wrong number. While examining Robert's
52:34
phone, police noted that there was a
52:36
call between Robert and Sidney on February
52:38
25th, 2023. After that, there were no calls
52:42
made to Sidney until March 12th, the
52:45
day Tom had Sidney's phone. On
52:47
that day, Robert called Sidney's phone
52:49
between 1156 a.m. and 414
52:52
p.m. seven times with six
52:54
of the calls under 20 seconds and
52:57
one call at 105 p.m. lasting 44
52:59
seconds.
53:00
Police determined that it was the 105 p.m. call that
53:04
Tom had answered and hung up and
53:06
that this was the only call that was answered.
53:08
When police informed Robert that Sidney
53:10
was not in possession of his phone on March 12th
53:13
and that it was someone else who had answered, Robert
53:16
stated that he still believes that the person on the
53:18
other end of the call was Sidney. There was
53:20
nothing documented regarding whether or not police
53:22
asked Robert about the female voice he claimed
53:25
to hear. We first spoke to Kara
53:27
in late spring of this year. It was at
53:29
this time that she told us that Robert was living
53:31
in Teresa's house and refusing to leave,
53:34
which made sense given that he always
53:36
seemed to be at Teresa's house in police
53:38
documentation.
53:39
This has changed in the months since we first
53:41
spoke to Kara and we will come back to
53:44
where things stand with the house and Robert
53:46
now. But we first want to go back to Sidney,
53:48
the man Robert would tell police Teresa left
53:51
with on her own free will.
53:53
Why did Robert say this when he wasn't physically
53:55
present or so he claimed?
53:57
He told police he last spoke to Teresa on
53:59
March 12th.
53:59
11th at 10am, the same
54:02
time she was last seen on surveillance footage
54:04
buying cat food with her roommate. Did
54:06
Robert mix up the dates? Regardless,
54:09
how could he have known that Teresa left with Sydney voluntarily
54:12
and that she got into his truck and
54:14
that was when she was last seen when Sydney
54:16
told police that he was the last person to see Teresa
54:19
when they got lost
54:19
in the forest? The story didn't
54:21
seem to make sense.
54:23
Going back to the beginning of the episode,
54:25
we wanted to know who Sydney was. Why
54:28
did Robert introduce him to Teresa? Was
54:30
there a purpose or a reason?
54:32
Was it just so Teresa could make a new friend?
54:35
Kara told us that she learned from one of Teresa's
54:37
other friends that she hadn't known Sydney
54:40
very long and that he was not someone
54:42
that she would expect Teresa to be friends with.
54:44
Robert introduced
54:47
Teresa to Sydney
54:48
to help Teresa
54:51
mow her grass with Sydney's
54:53
big lawnmower or something right on lawnmower.
54:55
I'd never heard of him before. Sydney
54:58
says that they were just going out to get firewood
55:00
and they were supposed to come back that night. So
55:02
from her friend Kelly,
55:04
Kelly said that Teresa met
55:06
Sydney about four months before she went missing. From
55:09
Teresa's friend Robert, Robert said
55:12
that he invited
55:14
Sydney over to cut my aunt's grass
55:16
with his special mower. Her friend Kelly
55:18
said it was no more than four months before she went
55:20
missing but who knows. But Robert,
55:23
he's an alcoholic. He drinks from sunup
55:25
to sundown. He's not exactly
55:28
reliable. His stories have changed
55:30
a lot.
55:31
On the day that Teresa was
55:32
reported missing, March 15th,
55:35
police
55:35
were able to use license plate reader
55:37
technology to verify that Sydney
55:39
had driven to Teresa's house on March 11th and
55:42
arrived at approximately 11 a.m.
55:45
just about an hour after she was seen at
55:47
the convenience store. The last time
55:49
she was seen by an independent witness and on
55:51
surveillance
55:52
and he did not leave the residence until 3.30 p.m.
55:54
Why was Sydney
55:57
at Teresa's house
55:58
for over four hours?
55:59
When Robert, Stephen and Sydney all reported
56:02
to police that Sydney came and
56:04
picked her up and they left to go and find
56:06
Firewood. What did Sydney do
56:08
during that four hour period of time? Did
56:11
the police ask Stephen this question? Was
56:14
he home? Was Robert there? These
56:16
were the questions that we had before we
56:18
learned of a possible motive to make Teresa
56:20
disappear, her house. After
56:23
Teresa vanished, people started to come
56:25
out of the woodwork all making the same very
56:27
strange claim that Teresa had promised
56:30
to leave her house to them in her will. It
56:32
didn't make any sense and none of
56:34
these people were people that Kara or Lynn
56:36
or Teresa's brother-in-law had ever
56:38
heard of before.
56:39
Who were these people and why were they coming out
56:42
now? Not to search for Teresa
56:44
or show concern that she was missing
56:46
but instead to claim her property assets.
56:50
Lynn told us what her thoughts were on the situation
56:52
when we spoke with her in June.
56:55
There's the Lisa person who has
56:57
filed
56:57
for conservatorship and
57:00
she just all of a sudden
57:02
comes out of nowhere. There are
57:04
a couple of videos of her with
57:06
Donna Teresa on Facebook.
57:09
It's very unusual to me that Teresa
57:11
would be friends with a PhD.
57:14
It's not her social
57:15
circle for sure.
57:17
But then I find out that this woman has
57:19
all these different aliases
57:21
and she all of a sudden says, oh but
57:23
my stars, I looked in my paperwork
57:26
and I just realized that I have Teresa's will
57:28
and she's leaving her house to me.
57:30
Weird. What a coincidence.
57:32
So strange. I mean this was an aside
57:34
that Bob said he was going to
57:36
sit her down and get her to sign over her
57:38
house for all the things, the money he'd
57:41
helped her with. And this is something I've
57:43
never heard of people doing. And supposedly
57:46
Dr. Lisa, she signed over
57:48
her house
57:49
to Dr. Lisa for $1,900 that she loaned to
57:53
Teresa to pay her property bills. She
57:55
didn't pay too much in property taxes.
57:57
And then Bob was supposed to sit her down and get her
57:59
to sign over.
57:59
to sign over his house. Is this something people
58:02
do?
58:02
You signed over your house for like $1000?
58:05
I don't know. Was Theresa really losing
58:08
it? And she just told all her friends she was going
58:10
to sign her house over to him. She sent
58:12
Kara a copy of the first
58:14
will. And I do remember Theresa had
58:16
always said, I'm going to leave you my house,
58:18
Kara. I'm going to leave you my house. Which, you know,
58:20
we thought, Theresa, you're going to live a long
58:23
time. Don't talk about that.
58:26
You know, we wouldn't really get into it very
58:28
much. No, I'm going to leave my house to Kara
58:30
and Dan and Elliot because they're my only
58:33
relatives now. And sure enough, she
58:35
did have a will that she left to them.
58:37
But then Lisa comes up with
58:40
this other will. And then Kelly, she
58:42
has a will too. First she called Kara
58:44
and she said, well,
58:45
she said all kinds of things. But she said, yeah,
58:48
I have a will. It's made up to me
58:50
because Theresa said she doesn't have any
58:52
family. Well, Kelly was there. I
58:54
remember Kelly from when my babies
58:56
were born. She knows and I know she's
58:58
heard Theresa say she was leaving her the house. And
59:00
it's not really about the house because Kara's got
59:03
a house and a husband. And honestly,
59:05
if she didn't have anything to do with any of this
59:08
anymore, it
59:09
would be better for her just
59:11
to get away from it and get it's nasty.
59:13
And it's not about the house. But
59:15
so here's Kelly saying that Theresa,
59:18
oh, I have a will. And Theresa left me her
59:20
house because she said she doesn't have any
59:22
relatives. And she says, Theresa
59:25
told me she just wants to have a part, a big
59:27
party and all her friends come in and
59:29
just go through her house and take everything. Like
59:31
really, that doesn't sound like Theresa
59:34
either.
59:35
When we spoke with Theresa's friend Phyllis
59:37
months ago, she was absolutely furious
59:40
over what was happening with Theresa's house.
59:42
She's
59:43
having to hire a lawyer because it's a civil
59:45
suit. Nobody's got the money to do that
59:47
right now. I told Kara a while back ago, that
59:49
if I know that was going to help and she was actually
59:51
going to do it, I put a second mortgage on my house and
59:53
I'd give her the damn money for the lawyer. If anything,
59:56
just get Bob out of that house. I can't stand him
59:58
being there. I really can't. me off
1:00:00
that he's there and he's holding it for toss
1:00:02
and saying, well, you pay me all this money that I've
1:00:04
been doing to Teresa's house, I'll turn the house
1:00:07
over to you. Ain't nobody gonna pay you nothing,
1:00:09
Bob. Get the hell out of his house. You're
1:00:11
doing this of your own free will. So nobody's
1:00:13
gonna compensate you for nothing. I'm sorry, when
1:00:15
I start talking about him, the gun concussing starts.
1:00:17
Because like I said, what are you doing? It's just pissing me
1:00:20
off, Roland. He avoids all those questions.
1:00:22
He won't send pictures to
1:00:24
prove what we're saying. You know, he won't
1:00:26
send pictures of a carpet on
1:00:29
Teresa's porch to show us that the carpet
1:00:31
is still there. Although he says that all
1:00:33
of Teresa's stuff is there, but he
1:00:35
won't send pictures of it. And he says he's not tech
1:00:37
savvy and he doesn't know how to do it. But
1:00:39
yet he can post pictures of Teresa's
1:00:42
kitchen where he's got cheese
1:00:44
and refried beans and he's making some cheese
1:00:46
dip for him and his girlfriend. He
1:00:49
keeps saying the cops will handle it, cops will handle
1:00:51
it, cops will handle it. Well, as far as I know, the
1:00:53
cops aren't handling it. But in the meantime,
1:00:55
he's living in that lady's house. He said
1:00:57
he's taking care of the place, which I believe that he
1:01:00
might be. He has no right being
1:01:02
there. He said he's doing it all right because
1:01:04
he had an agreement with Teresa, but he won't prove
1:01:06
that he's done an agreement with Teresa. He's causing
1:01:09
everybody to have to spend extra money in
1:01:11
order to get shit done. Then everybody's telling
1:01:13
them just shut the house down, but he won't do
1:01:15
it. Teresa's not there anymore. There's no sense having
1:01:18
that house open. You shut the water utilities
1:01:20
off, you take the food out of the house, you lock it up and
1:01:22
you leave it alone. You won't let the cadaver
1:01:24
dogs in.
1:01:26
When we talked to Kara in late spring, she
1:01:28
told us how she felt about these people and
1:01:30
didn't believe
1:01:31
her aunt would leave her one property to multiple
1:01:33
people unknown to any of her relatives.
1:01:36
These people have been like, Oh,
1:01:38
she's leaving me your house. It's just like really
1:01:40
gross to me. Go look for her.
1:01:43
She sold her the property that her
1:01:45
and my uncle lived on in 2020 and bought
1:01:48
a house in like in closer to town in St.
1:01:50
Augustine. And just like everybody's on
1:01:52
that. They're like her property, her
1:01:54
property.
1:01:56
Well, it seemed unbelievable that
1:01:58
Teresa would offer her house to multiple people.
1:01:59
comfortable, fairly new people in her life.
1:02:02
It turns out that she did. Cara
1:02:04
had to go to court over Robert's refusal
1:02:06
to leave the house. And when we caught up
1:02:09
with Cara in early October, she
1:02:11
told us a story we never would have imagined.
1:02:13
So she has multiple
1:02:15
multiple wills out. So she had a will
1:02:18
in 2016 that left her property to
1:02:20
me and my brother. She had a will from 2019 that
1:02:24
said she would give her property to this
1:02:26
Lisa. Lisa paid Teresa's property
1:02:28
taxes until Teresa's time of death. Lisa
1:02:31
paid her Teresa's property taxes. She paid $1,900
1:02:33
of those taxes over the course of
1:02:36
a year and a half before Teresa sold that property.
1:02:39
Now it's kind of like the big reason why I went and did
1:02:41
the conservatorship hearings that seemed like weird
1:02:44
to me. Like that's a weird, a weird
1:02:46
thing to like sign your house over for $1,900. And then Teresa's friend
1:02:50
Kelly sent me two days ago,
1:02:53
I've been asking for like six months,
1:02:55
a will that says she leaves everything
1:02:57
to Kelly
1:02:59
that was created in March of 2022. And
1:03:01
who knows what kind of
1:03:03
paperwork Robert has. So there's
1:03:05
multiple multiple wills out which one
1:03:08
of the lawyers I talked to said, when people are
1:03:10
making multiple wills in a short period of time like that,
1:03:12
that's often a sign that they're done
1:03:14
either under duress
1:03:16
or in exchange for like
1:03:18
small loans of money. So that's kind of
1:03:20
kind of disturbing. I don't
1:03:22
know, there could be even more wills out there.
1:03:24
Who knows? I'm trying to find out as much as I can.
1:03:26
And it's really overwhelming because there's like, Robert
1:03:29
still has all of Teresa's paperwork from most of 2022
1:03:33
and, and all of this year and all of her mail
1:03:35
and he won't give it to me and says I have to pay him $1,700
1:03:38
to get it trying to figure
1:03:40
all that out has been really stupid. So
1:03:42
I ended up getting a lawyer and going
1:03:45
to the conservatorship hearing on August 27.
1:03:48
One of Teresa's friends named Lisa had
1:03:51
filed to be conservator for Teresa's property. And
1:03:53
I tried to get information from Lisa. And Lisa
1:03:56
told me she didn't want me to come to the hearing and just
1:03:59
remember
1:03:59
It seemed like I don't know I don't
1:04:02
understand why people are so private about everything like
1:04:04
she didn't want to show me Any of the documents
1:04:06
she had but she said she had of Teresa's and
1:04:08
she and Teresa work friends I found out from her
1:04:10
Facebook, but so I started feeling like
1:04:13
kind of sketchy kind of like suspicious
1:04:15
It's like why why don't you just tell me
1:04:17
what her intentions are? so then I ended
1:04:19
up going and getting a lawyer and seeing
1:04:21
the documents and went to
1:04:24
the conservatorship hearing and The
1:04:26
court gave me conservatorship of Teresa's
1:04:29
property We
1:04:31
were able to go in and change
1:04:33
the locks and have the house secured
1:04:35
so that no one's staying there He was
1:04:37
super mad He texted
1:04:40
me and called me and put me Facebook messages
1:04:42
over and over saying he was gonna come change
1:04:44
the locks back and take His belongings
1:04:46
he was storing at Teresa's house out of the
1:04:48
house and end up calling the cops on him
1:04:50
twice because he wouldn't leave Me alone and
1:04:53
when the police went the second time to tell him
1:04:55
that he was trespassed from Teresa's property
1:04:57
He told them that he had been living at
1:04:59
Teresa's
1:05:00
for two years. They ended up trespassing
1:05:02
him anyway
1:05:04
As you heard Robert didn't go without
1:05:06
a fight But at least one of the many questions
1:05:08
we had when we first started researching this
1:05:10
case has been resolved and since
1:05:13
Kara's dad Who would be Teresa's
1:05:15
next of kin is in poor health and
1:05:17
of advanced age? Kara has been
1:05:19
legally designated next of kin at
1:05:21
his request and has ensured the
1:05:23
house is no longer being claimed or occupied
1:05:26
by anyone and was able to finally get a cadaver dog search of the house.
1:05:28
Here's Kara again Yeah,
1:05:33
I put up a
1:05:33
security system and if anybody goes over there
1:05:37
The
1:05:37
alarm will go off and the police will automatically
1:05:39
be called. It's protected now And
1:05:42
we were able to have a cadaver dog go to the house and have
1:05:44
a search team come
1:05:45
and look through it Which
1:05:47
we weren't able to do until then because
1:05:50
of him not letting anyone in her house They
1:05:53
cleared the house. I wasn't in the house
1:05:59
there when that I didn't wasn't in there when they
1:06:02
happened. Well I was there for it. I was
1:06:04
just waiting outside so I wouldn't distract the dogs
1:06:07
and they just told me when they came out. One of the dogs
1:06:10
did hit, the second dog did not
1:06:12
and they determined that somebody
1:06:15
probably did die on like her mattress or something
1:06:17
but it was not recently. The house was
1:06:19
cleared like whatever happened to her didn't happen at
1:06:21
that and they were very professional like the
1:06:23
person who had the dog hit said you're gonna have
1:06:26
another the other dog go in and check now
1:06:28
and not tell either the handler or the dog
1:06:29
about how their dog reacted and
1:06:32
then they would see what happened. So the
1:06:35
other dog did show interest in the same area
1:06:37
but it was like if something would have happened
1:06:39
to her then I think that they determined
1:06:41
that they both would have hit
1:06:42
or alerted or whatever they do. It
1:06:44
was like an old mattress and I guess
1:06:46
they were saying like you could have been where my uncle
1:06:48
died you know like I don't know. I mean I don't
1:06:50
even know if that's the same one she might have gotten into Craigslist
1:06:53
or something.
1:06:54
With the house cleared of any suspicious
1:06:56
activity or evidence that a crime occurred
1:06:59
there, investigators are back to looking
1:07:01
at the forest. We asked Kara what
1:07:03
is next in the investigation. I mean
1:07:06
I don't really have any any information that would
1:07:08
help find her that I've gotten in the last few
1:07:10
months. The police they're gonna
1:07:13
do if she's not found in the next
1:07:15
month or so they're gonna do another search out
1:07:17
in the forest.
1:07:20
While they have cleared Teresa's home, it
1:07:22
still remains a central focus of this
1:07:24
story. Several people claim that she
1:07:27
left the home to them but one person
1:07:29
had actually taken it over her friend
1:07:31
Robert. We want to discuss adverse
1:07:33
possession for a moment. You may have
1:07:36
heard of another term more commonly
1:07:37
used for this, squatter's rights.
1:07:40
This is a way that a person
1:07:41
can gain ownership of a property by
1:07:43
occupying it. According to Florida
1:07:46
law, a person claiming adverse
1:07:48
possession must openly possess the land
1:07:50
by occupying it,
1:07:51
which Robert did by moving in and
1:07:54
changing the locks on Teresa's house.
1:07:56
And the person must pay property taxes
1:07:59
while possessing it. for seven years. We
1:08:01
know that Teresa disappeared right before
1:08:03
her property taxes were due.
1:08:06
After moving into her home, Robert paid
1:08:08
those taxes, even after the family
1:08:10
said that they would take care of it. Was this
1:08:12
all part of a
1:08:13
plan to gain ownership of Teresa's
1:08:16
home?
1:08:17
Though Teresa kept different people in her life
1:08:19
separate from each other, so many people
1:08:21
love and miss her and want answers for
1:08:23
what happened. Katie told us that she
1:08:26
feels that Teresa would have never gone down
1:08:28
without a fight.
1:08:29
She was a fighter. She was a
1:08:32
survivor. I
1:08:33
don't think she owed anybody any money.
1:08:35
Teresa was also very
1:08:39
stern. And
1:08:41
if she said no about something, I've wondered
1:08:43
if this guy maybe tried to have sex
1:08:45
with her. Maybe she declined him.
1:08:48
Maybe he could have beat her or something.
1:08:50
Maybe he hit her too hard.
1:08:52
Or
1:08:53
these people are just trying to get her property.
1:08:56
I don't know why you would get rid of her like
1:08:58
that over
1:08:59
property. That guy,
1:09:02
Bob, even from what I
1:09:04
understand, he wouldn't let the police come into the
1:09:06
house.
1:09:07
But why not?
1:09:09
Why hinder an
1:09:11
investigation? You honestly
1:09:14
could not ever meet a nicer person. And
1:09:16
I know everybody would probably want to say that about their
1:09:18
loved ones, but
1:09:19
it is 110% true
1:09:21
with her. She
1:09:23
was just the sweetest person I've ever known
1:09:26
for all of this that has happened to her
1:09:28
or whatever has happened to her. It's
1:09:30
not deserving. It's
1:09:31
totally out of character for her. Totally
1:09:34
out of character.
1:09:35
To go missing like this, this
1:09:37
wouldn't have happened if other people, I
1:09:40
don't think, had an evil part in
1:09:42
this. I really don't think that
1:09:44
they have searched. We actually went out there
1:09:47
and helped with one of the search parties.
1:09:49
Once I actually got out there
1:09:51
and saw the layout of the
1:09:53
roads and the trees and the
1:09:55
woods and everything myself, I
1:09:57
don't think she's out there. You would not. deviate
1:10:00
from a main road and the main road
1:10:02
there's constant traffic. If you walk
1:10:05
for a few hours you're
1:10:07
going to get to somebody's house at some point.
1:10:10
So to me I just felt
1:10:13
there's I don't think she's out here. I think this
1:10:15
is all just a talk of Mamie story
1:10:17
that this guy has made up and
1:10:19
if he was able to get out and he went
1:10:22
to the hospital but you never
1:10:24
mentioned that your friend's nothing.
1:10:26
Teresa's other longtime friend Phyllis
1:10:29
gave us her thoughts on what happened.
1:10:32
Like I said when she bought that house nobody was
1:10:34
there living there. All the times I was down
1:10:36
there when she had that house nobody was
1:10:38
living there. So how does he have Teresa's
1:10:41
new address on a driver's license? He
1:10:43
says he lived there. She didn't want any
1:10:45
roommates but I was helping
1:10:48
her buy cat food because she was having money problems
1:10:50
so and she didn't want the cats to suffer. So
1:10:52
I would buy cat food and she
1:10:54
would go to Walmart and pick it up. I'd order it from Walmart
1:10:57
down to St. Augustine and she'd go pick it up. So
1:10:59
I can see her get a roommate.
1:11:02
Now Steve doesn't seem like he's a violent
1:11:04
person but your utilities were
1:11:06
in Teresa's name because when
1:11:08
Kara had the water cut off Bob
1:11:10
went down to utility company and that's when
1:11:12
he changed it to his name and he
1:11:15
only did that because it was on his driver's license.
1:11:17
See that's what I'm saying there's more questions than answers.
1:11:20
Why is her address on
1:11:21
his driver's license? She never lived at that
1:11:23
house. She wasn't there as many times as I've been there.
1:11:26
She didn't have anybody living with her. I
1:11:28
was there. I saw. I saw her spare
1:11:30
room. I
1:11:31
saw her bedroom.
1:11:33
She didn't have anybody living with her and
1:11:35
I was there from day one when she bought that
1:11:37
house. That's all I'm looking for
1:11:39
is to find her. I just want some
1:11:41
her family deserves closure.
1:11:44
They need to find out where she's at and
1:11:46
if anything I can say or I can do
1:11:48
can help with that situation
1:11:50
that I'm gonna do it. I don't know about anybody
1:11:53
coming forward. I think everybody's too scared they're gonna
1:11:55
get wound up in jail because of it.
1:11:57
You know the people that are involved in it and
1:11:59
I'm all I'm saying there's going to be a few of them
1:12:01
that are involved in it. I don't think
1:12:03
he could have acted alone in her disappearance.
1:12:06
I don't think he's a lone ranger in this
1:12:09
whole situation. I think other people
1:12:11
are involved and I think they need to be held accountable
1:12:13
for what they're doing.
1:12:14
My only wish and my true
1:12:17
hearted wish is that she's
1:12:20
found good or
1:12:21
bad. She deserves to be found.
1:12:23
She doesn't need to be left wherever she
1:12:25
is
1:12:26
and what condition she's in.
1:12:28
She needs to be found and brought
1:12:30
home. So she was left out
1:12:32
in the California forest. There would be some
1:12:34
sign of
1:12:35
her. There would be hair. There would
1:12:37
be clothes. There would be shoes.
1:12:39
There would be
1:12:40
something out there and they're not finding
1:12:42
nothing.
1:12:43
I really think what happened to Theresa happened
1:12:45
at that house. And if you read the
1:12:47
police report that Finn gave
1:12:50
to the police department, none of it makes any
1:12:52
sense. I mean, you got more questions than you
1:12:54
got answers in that police
1:12:56
report. You got a lot more questions than every
1:12:58
time Robert opened his mouth, you still got more questions.
1:13:01
So I don't understand him. I don't
1:13:03
understand why he's not helping. You
1:13:05
know, to me, like he's hindering the fact
1:13:07
that he's going to postpone whatever
1:13:10
needs to be done or what can be done for
1:13:12
his own benefit. And I don't understand that
1:13:15
if he's supposed to be such a good friend of Theresa's,
1:13:17
why is he hindering so much? Why
1:13:20
is he always, well, you got to get a court order. You
1:13:22
got to do this. You got to do that. It's always
1:13:24
got to be his way. He won't volunteer.
1:13:27
But in the meantime, I got Theresa's cash here and I'm
1:13:29
taking care of him.
1:13:31
Finally, we asked Lynn what her thoughts were
1:13:33
on everything and if she had a particular
1:13:35
theory about what may have happened
1:13:37
to Theresa.
1:13:39
They all seem like they have their dirty little
1:13:41
hands in it. You know, people don't vanish.
1:13:44
She's somewhere dead alive. I
1:13:46
wish they would find her, but I don't do.
1:13:48
I believe she was out in the woods. Kind of
1:13:51
not. I kind of don't believe that. I
1:13:53
don't know though. I think there's some kind of
1:13:55
something going on that maybe the cops
1:13:57
know about and they're not talking about it or
1:13:59
maybe. Maybe they're getting some clues about it and
1:14:02
they're building a case.
1:14:03
I mean, there's some
1:14:04
weird shit going on with it to tell you
1:14:06
the truth.
1:14:07
And the more we learn, the more the weirder
1:14:10
it gets.
1:14:11
I do think the chances are greater
1:14:13
that there was foul
1:14:14
play.
1:14:16
So what happened to 66-year-old Teresa
1:14:18
Hartley in March of 2023?
1:14:21
We believe that whatever took place, she
1:14:23
most likely disappeared on March 11th,
1:14:26
the date that Robert and Sidney say that she went
1:14:28
to the Opala National Forest with Sidney
1:14:30
to look for firewood. But
1:14:32
there are so many
1:14:33
questions.
1:14:34
Like why was Sidney's vehicle
1:14:36
at Teresa's house for more than four hours
1:14:38
that day?
1:14:40
Why did Robert tell police that she left with
1:14:42
Sidney on her own free will when
1:14:44
he said that he wasn't present at the house when
1:14:46
she supposedly left? Why did
1:14:48
his statements
1:14:49
to police repeatedly contradict each
1:14:51
other? And why did he fight Teresa's family
1:14:53
for possession of her house?
1:14:55
Why did Sidney also make contradictory
1:14:57
statements to police and
1:14:59
need to be hospitalized for anxiety immediately
1:15:02
after he left the forest and claimed
1:15:04
that he left Teresa behind or got
1:15:06
separated from him?
1:15:07
If that was in fact the truth, why
1:15:10
didn't Sidney sound the alarm about Teresa
1:15:12
after he made it out of the forest?
1:15:14
Why did Sidney nor Robert ever make any
1:15:17
attempt to look for Teresa?
1:15:19
And going back even further than that, why
1:15:21
did Robert introduce Sidney to Teresa
1:15:23
to begin with?
1:15:24
There are so many questions and so many unknowns
1:15:27
in Teresa's story, and it's hard to know
1:15:29
where to begin in figuring out what happened
1:15:31
to her and ultimately finding her.
1:15:34
Teresa's disappearance is truly a cautionary
1:15:36
tale of taking care in who to trust
1:15:39
and allow into your life, and especially
1:15:41
with older people and people with medical problems.
1:15:44
If you have any information about Teresa's disappearance,
1:15:47
you're asked to call the St. John's County Sheriff's
1:15:50
Office at 904-824-8304.
1:15:54
You can also call the Marion
1:15:55
County Sheriff's Office at 352-732-8181.
1:16:00
one.
1:16:03
I go back and forth between this. I'm like, maybe
1:16:06
he does. Maybe they were like in on it together.
1:16:08
Maybe something happened and it's all like a
1:16:10
cover up. Or maybe he's just a drunk who
1:16:13
makes himself look guilty. Violence
1:16:15
against women and against elders, like abuse
1:16:17
against elders, it's like no one's immune from it.
1:16:20
Like every step of the way I'm just like met with mediocrity.
1:16:23
Yeah, I mean, if you don't want to investigate, don't
1:16:25
be an investigator. I hope it helps
1:16:27
get the word out about her and she just gets bound
1:16:29
and figure out what happened.
1:17:06
That brings us to the end of episode 415. I'd
1:17:10
like to thank everyone who spoke with us for this
1:17:12
story. If you have a missing
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