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Okay. So we're gonna try something different today.
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Something we have never tried on our show.
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And I got the idea for this from a conversation
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that I had with Jay Young Pham. Jay
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Young did a story for her show a little while
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back, and she's somebody who's normally on
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the radio. She's a magazine writer. And
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so when time came for her to record her
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script, she's had in the studio with
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one of our producers, Diane Wu. who
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had a read.
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And, you know,
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it's a weird thing to sound like relaxed
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and natural while reading words off a
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page. totally soundproof room
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during your voice on headphones.
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And Diane did with
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Diane what we always do, she'd tell her, you know,
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like, go back and do that a sentence a little looser
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or, you know, underline this word or whatever.
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And that just hit something in Jayang
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in this way that doesn't usually happen.
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having
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a fellow Asian
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American who
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looks exactly like me
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coach me through that
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process. Hearing
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exactly how much more
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American she sounded
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than me it made me
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think anew about
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my voice and the way I speak English.
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Okay.
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I
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have a bunch of things to say to that. First
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of all, this idea that
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you and Diane look exactly the same.
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That's racist. You
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do not. Fair
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point. Fair point. And then
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it's interesting to me that you perceived it. Cheyenne
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has thought a lot about the way that she speaks English
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and the way that others do. going back to
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when she was seven years old and she came to the United
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States from China. This is in the nineties
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and mostly white part of New Haven. And
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it was just understood, she said, that
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it was her job in the family. To
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learn to speak perfect, accent was
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English. as soon as possible.
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And my mom and some of her
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peers have said, oh, you have this very narrow
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window in which your
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tongue can
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adjust the new language or not because
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Chinese is so different than English.
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And I really because because
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I was seven or eight at the time,
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I really didn't even
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think of it as in the brain. I thought
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about it as the rigidity of my tongue.
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and I was so afraid of my tongue
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literally hardening in my mouth.
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Not being able to contort
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to this language. And I think
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it immediately becomes a
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test of your ability to survive
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and
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thrive in this new environment?
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How well you can speak without an accent?
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Right.
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Like I've been told, okay. Look, you're gonna be living
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in water for the rest of your life. Well,
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the better you can swim kind of. I
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better, like, get a few different kinds of
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strokes under my belt.
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And
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when you view that whole attitude now, like,
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how do you see it?
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The adult doesn't necessarily
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endorse
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the goal of speaking accentless
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English and
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the need to fit into the perfect
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American ideal,
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whatever that is. but
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that was what my
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parents
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thought was necessary to
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protect me in a foreign
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country.
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Diane
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did the hard work of mastering the countless
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little subtleties of pronunciation
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and usage to the point where she thought she sounded
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more or less like native English speak. friends,
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especially white friends, told her she didn't have
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an accent. And when she
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herself had little twinges of, like, oh, maybe I
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sound different. She shrugged it off.
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is being too hard on herself.
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And hearing my voice on the radio,
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hearing myself speak. It
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was a very rude awakening. It was embarrassing
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and and
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slightly mortifying.
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Like, I
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do sound different even
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when I'm trying really, really hard not to. To
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be clear, the difference that she heard, it
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wasn't that she had, like, an accent. Like, you normally
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think of an accent. Specifically,
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what she was hearing was
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over enunciation.
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And
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maybe I was unattuned to how much
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effort there is in my most
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casual speech A
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huge part of how I
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sound different is I'm so
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afraid that if I don't make
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the sound explicit, I
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won't be understood.
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And that process of making it explicit
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is what actually makes me sound really
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different. Where? I mean, as you're saying this sense. I
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feel so aware of, like, how the every
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final t and every final t you're
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actually enunciating. Right.
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That effortfulness is part
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of how I speak.
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Okay. So we're finally getting to the reason
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that I'm telling you all this. One
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night, a little while back, I ran into Jay
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Young Litterman. And she
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explained all this to me and told me how
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since coming on her show, She was feeling
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self conscious about her English in a way that
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she hadn't for years. But
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also, and more importantly, She
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was finding herself listening to Chinese American
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friends with new ears. Suddenly
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she was hearing the huge variations in
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cadence and speech, I can give away
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that you're not a native speaker.
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It would come out in
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the string together of certain words
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and
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I became convinced that I could tell
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how old someone was
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when
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they arrived in
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his country and started speaking English
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because the more fluidly they
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could pronounce
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certain words or
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ride out a cadence,
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the younger they
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must have been.
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when they arrived. Yeah.
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Remember that you said to me that night, if
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you could just hear somebody speak, you
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would be able to tell them how long
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they had been in this country or how old they were when
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they arrived in this country? Right.
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Their age of arrival. And I said to you
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at the time, challenge
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accepted. Do you
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remember we were sitting there? I said, if
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I find, let's say, three
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people who moved to this country,
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could we have you come on the radio? And
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you would guess how old they were
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when they arrived? And you could exhibit
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your superpower, and we would find out
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if in fact you were correct. Exactly.
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And that I could hear
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in their speech something
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that they themselves didn't
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even necessarily hear. And that's what made
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it sort of
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magical to me.
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And so that is what we're here to do today.
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Jiangyang is gonna play that game maybe
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the only way she could ever find out once and for
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all if indeed she can do this.
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We've created an entire radio game show
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for that purpose. Let me hear some
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studio audience, please. And
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then after doing that, we tried to figure out
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other experiences that people have. that
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would best be captured, not
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the way we usually do it on our show, following
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people around with microphones and recording
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them, interviewing them, but
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in game show format. So
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we are very excited to bring you something we have never
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heard of anybody trying, namely an
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entire program of stories
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done as game shows. From
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WBEZ Chicago, Swiss American Life,
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America Glass, Stay with
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us.
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That
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client with great
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power comes great pronounceability. Okay.
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So we came up with this game to test Jiang's
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claim. And topping Lowe, one of the
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editors in our program. He's also Chinese American.
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Got excited about the idea of volunteered to
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be our Bob Barker, our Alex
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Trebek for the game. and
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so I
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hand it off
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to him.
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Welcome Ladies and gentlemen, I
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am COVID low, hello audience.
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Welcome to a game we are calling Date
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of arrival in which Giant
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Fan tells you
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when you immigrated to the
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United States Shai Young,
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welcome. How are you feeling? Are you feeling
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confident?
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I'm feeling a bit of
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trepidation I have to admit. I was Okay.
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for this. But now that the
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date has arrived,
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my Asian fear of
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failure is kicking
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in. Well, the
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good news is we have great guests
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lined up for you today. And if
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you guessed two of them correctly, you're
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gonna win our prize. which
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is a brand
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new car.
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This only this only ups the stakes
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and my anxiety. I'm
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hoping that I can channel my
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anxiety for success. It's
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all good. I I have complete faith in
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you, Jayang. Are you ready to hear
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the rules? Hit me. Okay.
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So each
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guest is somebody who immigrated to
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the United States from China at some
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point in their life. and they
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have been given up to three sentences to read
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aloud. So each sentence
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contains phrases like urban and
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rural America, These
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are phrases that Jayang you picked because
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they can be challenging to pronounce
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or their sentences that be very
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familiar to someone who's lived here for years.
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And at the end of each sentence, Haiyang, you get a
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chance to guess at what age they came
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to the US. If you
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are within one year of the correct age,
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we will give you the point. Does sense?
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One year. I mean, that's narrow, but
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yes, I accept. Okay,
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great. Well, then we are gonna welcome
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our first guest Lucma.
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Hi, Luc. How are you? Where are you calling
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in from? Hi, everyone.
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I'm doing lovely. I'm calling in from San
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Jose in. How forty. Just
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for a point of reference for Jiang, how old
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are you? Yes.
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I'm a forty one. Alright.
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We are gonna go ahead and have
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you read sentence number one.
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Alright. Here it goes. And I have
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to say my my Asian
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fever failure is kicking in too. Now I I feel
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like I almost I have to stump. I have
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the stump. So
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sentence one. The
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airplane flew over urban and rural
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America. Jiang,
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hearing sentence one, are you ready
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to make a guess?
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not quite not quite I think
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I I need a little I think I'm
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gonna need a little bit more. Alright.
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Great. Here you go sentence too. Got
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my hands up. They're playing my song. I
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know I'm gonna be okay. Yeah.
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It's a party in the USA.
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Okay. Great. That's more information. I
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I'm going to have to go all
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the way for sentence
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number three. I think
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I'm gonna need as much information as
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I can wrangle. Alright.
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Send us number three. Peter
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Piper picked a pack of pickled peppers.
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Okay.
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So
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can I can I reach for my lifeline?
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Yes. Okay. So
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this is a secret lifeline that we
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are gonna allow
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Gion to access, which
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is that Luke we are gonna ask
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you to say her name. That's
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all we're asking is just say her
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name. Right. Sure.
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that
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the guy
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Okay.
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Carveball. Carveball. Carveball. I
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don't
12:20
know if I don't know if
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that helped or
12:24
confused because clearly
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he is someone.
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Because you don't have like an ABC
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like me just mangling your left in
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because
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because
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he obviously
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can't speak Chinese because he
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pronounced syllables
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correctly, but also had a mastery
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of the tones. but
12:49
I think I've been given all
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the information that
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is
12:56
permissible. And I
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think I'm I have
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a number in my head. Okay.
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I'm
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gonna go with five.
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Okay? The
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reasoning here is that
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Luke has nailed every
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single sentence. There's no
13:14
micro pause of anxiety when
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he says urban
13:18
and rural America. The
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double r in rural
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is
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so natural And
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I'm almost tempted to say
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that he has no accent whatsoever,
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which is usually the case when
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you come
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before the ages of 456
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Okay.
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Final answer is five.
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Luke,
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would you like to tell us at
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what age you move to the states?
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Yeah. I
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moved to states at thirty percent. No. I I moved to
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states at one month one
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month before I turned nine.
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Shit. But in fact,
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again, what you said about my
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accent is what I think most
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native speakers and other people have said,
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which is there doesn't seem to be a discernible
14:09
accent. And yet somehow in my
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head, I feel like there is a
14:13
difference, but I can't really
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verbalize exactly what that difference is. And
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the only difference I've been able to
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hone in on in my head is
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the sense of the ability to
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drop into a kind of casual
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fluid, a lighted
14:29
tone in between syllables, where
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I always feel like my enunciation
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or the way I speak is a it's
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just ever so slightly two
14:38
percent over enunciated compared to
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native speakers.
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That makes a lot of sense to
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me.
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But having said all that, I wonder
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if you can hear my accent.
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So
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if I were to put it on a spectrum, I
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feel like the way
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Tobin speaks to me is
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like, native, beyond native. It is it
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is the most
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fluid, perfectly expected
15:02
American and I will. I have your question
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on that. Yes. Right? Absolutely.
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Absolutely.
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It's like if he is the photonic
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ideal.
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Yeah. His voice,
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his sound, the structure of his throat is
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perfect is what we're seeing. No. No. No. It's
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if we were I think if it were
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aspirational, tobin has achieved that, like
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-- Yes. -- that last two percent to get to
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a hundred. He is Nirvana. Yes, sir. You
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guys are hitting on every insecurity
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I've ever had of,
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like, talking to other Chinese
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kids and I'm being like, oh,
15:34
wow, you are. There's nothing
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there. It's absent. And she's
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being like, Okay. Thanks thanks, I
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guess. Right.
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Well, yes. I mean, so you hear yourself
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as b plus I I
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mean, Asian
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people. So I hear myself at a ninety seven or
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a ninety eight compared to COVID's a hundred.
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Okay.
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Okay. Asian people. Okay. Yes. Yes.
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Yeah. And for tagging for you, I I
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honestly, I feel like
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I would put you at, like, a
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ninety four or ninety
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three. Like, I think this person most
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likely is an immigrant and probably an Asian
16:09
American immigrant. I
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actually feel very affirmed because
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part of listening to herself
16:16
is this search for And
16:17
and wondering if you hear yourself correctly,
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is this question of
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whether you exist in the same reality,
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in the same acoustic reality as
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everyone else? and -- Mhmm.
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-- you gave me, like, a
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ninety ninety ninety three, and I would
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give myself one to ninety one. So,
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like, the fact that we are both in the same
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ballpark kind of affirms my
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sense that, okay, I am not
16:41
crazy and I'm not
16:43
living in delusion. you are
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hearing
16:46
myself more or less the
16:48
way that I hear myself. Okay.
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Unfortunately, we have to move
16:52
on. Lou, thank you so much
16:54
for joining us. I'm
16:56
glad I could be of some use.
16:59
Alright.
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So we are on to guests
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number two in all.
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So we're gonna welcome Frank. Hi, Frank.
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Hi. Hi, Frank.
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Frank, can I ask you to introduce
17:12
yourself? Sure. Frank,
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short haul. I'm
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fifty five. And
17:17
where are we reaching you, Frank? In in
17:19
the San Francisco Bay area.
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Frank, could you go
17:22
ahead and read sentence number
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one for us? Yep.sentence
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one. The airplane flew
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over, Urban, and
17:33
rural America. Jayung.
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young After sentence one,
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are you ready to make a guess?
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ah my think
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I have a sense of the ballpark,
17:43
but I would love
17:45
additional data. So I'm
17:47
gonna go on to ask
17:49
for the second sentence. Alright.
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Since it's
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to got my
17:54
hands up, they're playing my
17:56
song. I know I'm gonna be okay.
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Yeah.
17:59
It's a party
17:59
in the USA. k. That was
18:01
sentenced to, how are we
18:04
feeling, Jayang? I
18:05
think I'm ready to make a guess. Wow.
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Okay. After sentence two,
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bold move. I
18:10
think that I would like to
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go with nineteen.
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Okay. Can you explain
18:16
your reasoning? Sure.
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I could hear the
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way that he really lingered on
18:24
urban and rural.
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Even though he said both those words
18:28
fine, I
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can hear the effort. I don't think he
18:31
came here as a child. And on
18:33
top
18:33
of that, I can detect the
18:36
hint of an English accent. And
18:39
I wonder if Frank is someone, why
18:41
there's spent time in Hong Kong, which
18:44
was formerly a British colony,
18:47
or went through an educational
18:49
system that had
18:50
British English instruction. And
18:53
then they became here as an
18:56
young adult. because I can tell that he's
18:58
absolutely fluent in the
19:00
language. Gotcha.
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Okay. So nineteen final answer.
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Yes.
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Okay.
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Here's
19:07
what I'm gonna say. Technically based on
19:09
the rules of the game, you got
19:11
it wrong. But You're
19:14
damn close. Frank
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Frank came at age twenty
19:20
two. And I am very tempted
19:22
to give you the point because of
19:24
some of the reasoning you gave.
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Yeah. So, like, maybe that's a place to start. Frank,
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can you talk a little bit out
19:31
learning English in that
19:33
process for you?
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yeah Yeah. So
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when I was young, when
19:38
they decided to put English back
19:40
to the curriculum after the harsher
19:43
evolution. We
19:44
really didn't
19:45
have much material from
19:48
the
19:48
US. So anyone that
19:49
in China, my age or
19:52
above would know that's the
19:54
age of the
19:56
material from BBC.
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And
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so that's where I picked up
20:02
my accent. that's
20:03
interesting. And the
20:05
irony of it is that, you know, I grew up in,
20:07
you know, I was born in eighty four
20:10
and I grew up when
20:12
the only Chinese you were
20:14
supposed to speak was state mandated,
20:16
like, accentless Mandarin. Do
20:18
you remember?
20:18
Like Yeah. So you
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weren't supposed to
20:21
speak any regional accent
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at all. And, you know,
20:25
that's the Mandarin that I speak. Can
20:28
completely devoid of any regional
20:30
accent. I
20:31
disagree with that. Oh,
20:32
really? How so? Because
20:34
in my effort to look up
20:37
Cheyung videos,
20:39
I saw one of you in
20:42
interviewing restaurants in
20:45
Chinatown? Yes. So in
20:47
my view, you have lesser of
20:49
an accent in English than your
20:51
accent in Chinese. Well,
20:54
this is a
20:55
this is a plot twist
20:57
What do you mean? What do you hear in
20:59
my Chinese? For in
21:01
for instance, the the duchot
21:03
shirt -- Uh-huh. -- distinction
21:06
you don't
21:06
really try to make that clear.
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Wow. Oh, wow.
21:11
Yes. But you don't hear like an American
21:13
accent in my Chinese
21:14
Right. Right. Right. Right. Not an American accent, but
21:17
a southern. Right. Right.
21:19
Yes.
21:19
Few. Few, Frank, because if
21:21
you're gonna accuse me of having an
21:24
American accent, in
21:24
Chinese, that was
21:25
really gonna throw me for a loop. And
21:27
on that
21:28
note, thank you
21:30
so much,
21:30
Frank. What's real pleasure
21:33
chatting? Thank
21:34
guys
21:36
you guys.
21:41
We
21:41
are ready for our next guest.
21:43
Please welcome Larissa.
21:45
Hi, Larissa. Hi, Larissa.
21:47
Yeah.
21:48
My name is Larissa
21:50
Joe. I'm thirty five.
21:52
No. Wait. Am I thirty five?
21:54
I'm thirty four.
21:59
Okay. Okay. So
22:02
we are ready to jump in. Larissa,
22:04
if you would, could you read sentence
22:06
number one? The
22:08
airplane flew over urban
22:10
over rural America.
22:13
Mhmm.
22:13
Okay. Definitely gonna need the second sentence, Tobin.
22:16
Loretta, can
22:16
you read sentence number two?
22:18
Got my hands
22:18
up. They were playing my song. I know
22:21
I'm gonna be okay. Yeah. It's a
22:23
party in the USA. k.
22:25
That's sentence two. Yes. And I'm gonna
22:27
go for sentence number three
22:29
as well. Peter
22:31
Piper picked a pack of pickled peppers.
22:35
Okay.
22:35
I
22:37
think
22:37
I'm gonna go for ten.
22:39
Okay. I'm thinking
22:41
how loud. I think this one is a bit
22:43
challenging. Here's
22:44
what I'll offer. Would you like
22:47
to talk to Larissa a little bit
22:49
more before locking in your
22:51
answer? Yes. Yes.
22:54
Some mercy. Okay. Well, so can
22:56
I prompt then, Marissa,
22:58
the last time we talked, you told a
23:00
story about volunteering
23:02
for a local library at at some
23:04
point. Could you tell that story? I
23:08
was
23:08
volunteering to
23:12
become an audiobook
23:13
recorder at the Washington
23:16
Talking
23:16
Book and Braille Library. This
23:18
was I lived in
23:19
Seattle And
23:21
you have
23:22
to audition for it.
23:24
You basically just
23:25
read some passages. And
23:27
later, the volunteer coordinator got back to
23:30
me. And and
23:32
they said, yeah, the
23:34
judges there
23:36
are hesitant to accept you because
23:39
they they don't
23:40
know where you're from, but they know you're not from
23:42
around here. They
23:43
don't they know you're not there.
23:45
They
23:46
can't tell where? That
23:48
was actually really helpful. Toobin,
23:50
if I may -- Yes. -- I'm
23:52
going to alter my my guests and
23:55
I will give you my explanation. I'm
23:57
going to say
23:59
i
24:02
I'm
24:03
deciding between fifteen and sixteen. I
24:05
just, like, can't quite pull the trigger. I'm
24:08
gonna go for sixteen.
24:10
Okay. Okay. You're going for sixteen. You're coming up.
24:12
Can you tell me a little
24:14
bit why? It's the way
24:16
she says the word
24:18
song. She kind of swallows
24:20
the g in a way that I
24:22
don't think a native ever
24:24
would. So it came out like
24:26
song rather than song. And
24:29
when that happened, my ears perked
24:31
up because that's exactly the way that
24:33
my mom would have said the
24:35
word song.
24:35
Okay. You
24:36
can't see that I am squirming in my
24:38
seat because unfortunately, you went
24:40
the wrong direction. No.
24:44
No. You're you're a guess of
24:46
ten years old was closer because the
24:48
actual answer was
24:50
that Larissa moved here when she was
24:53
seven. Wow. It's
24:56
so frustrating because that's the
24:58
age I came
24:59
here. And
25:05
how aware
25:07
are you of of
25:09
your accent?
25:09
I mean, do you feel like you can
25:12
hear it? I
25:15
would say until that
25:17
experience, which was maybe seven,
25:20
eight
25:20
years ago, with the recording
25:23
book, I
25:24
thought I
25:25
was camouflage. I
25:28
thought I was good. And and
25:30
when I heard that, they
25:31
could tell didn't sound like I was from
25:33
the US. I I felt, I
25:35
don't know, a little disappointed or or
25:37
a little offended. And
25:40
then I spoke to my
25:43
boyfriend at the time who is
25:45
American, who grew up in America, And
25:47
I said, what? Like, I don't have an accent. I I
25:49
speak really good
25:50
English. And he said, yes. You speak
25:52
very good English, but you don't speak
25:54
like an America. And so what do
25:56
you mean? And he said, for example,
25:59
he swerves things. He
26:02
he doesn't enunciate. Mhmm.
26:04
And you pointed this out, he says, I
26:07
enunciate everything. And
26:09
when he said that, like, was that a
26:11
moment of recognition? Or were you, like, what are you
26:13
talking about? Yeah.
26:14
That definitely makes sense. I think it
26:16
comes
26:16
from making sure I am understood
26:19
in English by my parents and other
26:21
immigrant
26:21
-- Mhmm. -- other immigrants.
26:23
walking down to understand me.
26:26
So
26:26
Right. And I
26:29
wonder if there's a
26:30
part of you wants to
26:32
have no accent at all. Like
26:35
ideally, would it be better just to be
26:37
completely accentless?
26:40
Yeah.
26:40
I, you know, for a long
26:42
time, I had, like, my experience as I
26:45
may need to ashamed of it. And now I'm just,
26:47
like, why? Like,
26:49
Why? I don't I don't want that. I'm gonna
26:50
stand up for where I come from,
26:52
the things that shaped me, the things
26:54
that even the
26:55
experiences that made me
26:58
enunciate because this is something I
27:00
did to help my community. And and
27:02
now it's really
27:03
part of me. and
27:04
yeah Yeah. No.
27:06
I I really like
27:09
your your logic there and also
27:11
kind of the
27:11
evolution of your comfort with
27:14
how you speak.
27:15
I mean, it's so
27:17
interesting to
27:18
talk to you because I
27:21
do feel like I'm talking to a version
27:23
of myself that brings up
27:25
all my
27:26
anxieties
27:28
about how I
27:30
speak. but also like my aspiration
27:32
for self acceptance. There's
27:34
something about your acceptance
27:37
of your accent
27:39
that I find, you
27:41
know, inspirational.
27:42
inspirational It
27:44
is not this race to
27:46
be accentless, the way
27:48
that, like, I fear
27:50
I have conceived
27:52
received of
27:53
my journey in
27:56
English, like I do feel self
27:58
conscious about it. Loretta,
28:00
if there was a piece of advice
28:03
for Jiang to get
28:05
to where you are. Is there something that
28:07
helped you get to where you are? Oh, that's a
28:09
great
28:10
question. Yeah.
28:11
So
28:16
I
28:16
guess I maybe I would
28:18
say So
28:19
so why do I have this accent? Why
28:21
do I speak this way? And I say, well, it's because
28:23
I lived in China
28:24
for seven years. And
28:27
I
28:27
said, well, if I don't want that accent,
28:30
the way
28:30
to not have it is to
28:33
is
28:33
to wish I hadn't lived in
28:35
China. that
28:35
and to wish that it
28:36
was being born in the states or something. And
28:38
do I
28:39
wish that? And
28:40
I said, no. I don't wish that.
28:43
So
28:43
I want
28:44
the experiences that also gave me
28:46
this side effect of the way
28:48
I speak. Mhmm.
28:49
And there are an emblem, there are like
28:51
a memory
28:53
of that. Thank
28:55
the think
28:55
you, Larissa. It it
28:57
it's you are I feel
28:59
like I'm meeting my my my
29:02
future self. The the the the person that I
29:03
would comfort with
29:06
my accent
29:06
that I would that I am
29:09
aspiring to be. So it's
29:11
been a it's been a real pleasure
29:12
to talk.
29:17
Okay.
29:20
Okay. So three
29:23
contestants. I hate
29:25
to add insult to injury, but I do have to say your
29:27
score was zero, first
29:29
lady. Maybe this is
29:31
the time I should tell you.
29:33
you will not be winning the brand new
29:36
car. But also, the
29:38
car was going to be just
29:40
a rental that we were gonna give to
29:42
you for the weekend.
29:43
You scared me
29:45
from having to wrangle
29:47
a friend into being my driver.
29:51
for the rental.
29:52
Well, Cheung, thank you for playing our
29:54
game. I I would say and see you next time, but
29:56
I think there's one that this game is impossible, and
29:58
and do
29:59
discourage it. No one should ever play this game ever
30:02
again, shut it down. Good
30:04
night, Adi, and we'll see you not
30:07
next time.
30:08
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30:09
you,
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31:50
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31:52
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31:54
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31:56
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31:58
You know, the Paris Agreement on
32:00
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32:02
countries are supposed to meet if we're gonna
32:04
hold the planet to less than two degrees of
32:06
warming overall. and ideally just
32:08
one point five degrees of warming.
32:10
And I've wondered for a while now, is there any
32:12
chance at all? Any
32:14
chance? that the
32:15
United States is gonna make the goals.
32:18
Like forget about the rest of the world for a minute. Just
32:20
talking about the part of this that, like,
32:22
we in this country control,
32:24
will we, as a country, one of the biggest
32:26
carbon emitters, will we make
32:28
our goal? To do that, we would have
32:30
to cut our emissions by fifty percent
32:32
by the year two thousand and thirty for
32:35
starters, that's just eight years from
32:37
now. Is there any kind of realistic path that
32:39
gets us there? Well, today's game show episode
32:41
seemed like a perfect opportunity to
32:43
finally find out. And so with
32:45
that in mind, we turned to
32:47
Our next game show.
32:49
Welcome
32:54
to you, Betcher, Planet's
32:57
Life. Is
32:57
there any chance at all ladies and
33:00
gentlemen that we will actually make our
33:02
goals and cut our
33:04
emissions to half Well, stay
33:06
tuned because today we find out
33:08
and win valuable prizes.
33:14
Thank you, George Gray for that nice intro. And why don't we bring
33:17
on today's contestant? Well,
33:19
Ira,
33:19
Caitlin from New York City and
33:21
Austin, Texas, director of research
33:23
at Columbia University's center on global
33:26
energy policy. She's modeled parts of the
33:28
climate and energy future and worked
33:30
around Noguro for the US
33:32
government. the International Energy Agency, and the Asia
33:34
Pacific Energy Research Center. Say
33:36
that three times fast. Please
33:39
welcome
33:41
Melissa. What? Come
33:43
on down. We're
33:45
welcome, Melissa, and I hope you're ready to play.
33:47
I'm
33:47
excited, Ira. Ready to go.
33:49
Now I understand that you
33:51
are a super
33:53
taster. Was there a
33:55
moment where you discovered that?
33:57
There
33:57
was a moment. I was eating
33:59
a piece of chocolate, and I went to my friend,
34:02
I think this one's from Ecuador. And
34:04
they went, how on Earth do you know that? And I said, well, it's so different than the
34:06
other one. They're like, no, it's not. They don't taste different.
34:08
And I was like, they are completely
34:12
different. and they ran off and got a bunch of different ones for me to try. It turns can
34:14
tell the difference blindfolded. Well, those are
34:16
skills that will not
34:17
aid you in our game today.
34:20
Probably not. And let me ask you to take
34:22
a look up there in the big board because in this first round, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna try to get to
34:24
fifty percent cuts and emissions
34:27
by the year twenty, thirty, or to be
34:30
very precise about this, our country's goal
34:32
for the Paris agreement is to cut
34:34
fifty to fifty
34:36
two percent of where emissions were back in the year two thousand
34:38
five. And Melissa, in each of your turns, what we're
34:40
gonna do, you will propose
34:42
a number for the amount of emissions
34:44
that you think we can cut, and then you'll
34:46
explain how you think we can cut it. If
34:48
the judge is ruled that that's credible, if
34:50
there's reasonable evidence that your proposal
34:52
could work, at the scale and
34:54
speed you say it could, you will hear this sound and it goes up on board. If the judges
34:56
think you're playing as bogus, malarkey,
34:58
impossible, you will hear this sound.
35:02
I mean, I'll take one step closer
35:04
to planetary disaster. No pressure. No pressure at all. And
35:06
George, where do we start?
35:10
Well,
35:10
Ira. Melissa's starting our game with twenty
35:13
five percent already on the
35:15
board. Oh, so George, maybe you should explain exactly
35:17
what this is about.
35:20
because this surprised me. I really didn't know this before we
35:22
all started working on this game show.
35:24
I'd love
35:25
to, Ira. Since two
35:27
thousand five, we've already reduced our
35:29
emissions around eighteen percent.
35:32
That's because of cheap wind power.
35:34
sheep solar power, cheap natural gas replacing coal, and because
35:37
states local communities, and big corporations
35:39
are making moves to lower
35:42
their emissions. But wait,
35:44
there's more. Another seven
35:46
percent or so is locked in and
35:48
ready to roll by the end of the decade.
35:50
All told, eighteen percent plus seven percent gives
35:53
you security one. Twenty
35:55
five big percentage
35:58
points. Yeah, that was
35:59
news to
35:59
me. Our emissions have been going down
36:02
ever since two thousand seven in this
36:04
country. But what that means is
36:06
we are
36:08
already halfway to our goal of fifty percent by twenty thirty
36:10
before we even start
36:11
our game. That's right, Ara.
36:13
So Melissa, your
36:14
melissa your goal goal is
36:16
to credibly get us the next twenty five percent on top of that
36:18
in just eight years.
36:19
And let's just jump in. How much do
36:21
you wanna put on the board for
36:23
your first turn? So
36:25
I'm gonna go another
36:26
fifteen percent.
36:27
Okay. Fifteen percent? And how are you gonna
36:29
get that fifteen percent? So I think that
36:32
president
36:32
Biden's big climate and energy law
36:34
is going back get us all the way to that fifteen percent
36:37
Is that true? It'll
36:38
get us that much. Yeah, so it's called the
36:40
Inflation Reduction Act, but really it's the biggest
36:42
energy and climate legislation we've ever passed.
36:45
It's massive. And so how to
36:46
do that? So it's a whole
36:47
host of different things. It's tax credit
36:50
supporting clean electricity. So I'm talking about
36:52
solar and wind
36:54
and nuclear. all the stuff we need to produce zero carbon electricity.
36:56
And then it gives us a lot of tax credits to
36:58
bring a lot of electric vehicles on
37:00
the road. There's tax
37:01
credits for businesses to help them insulate
37:03
their buildings, let's say. So they can use less
37:05
energy in the first place. Mhmm. And there's tax
37:07
credits for capturing carbon before it actually goes
37:10
into the atmosphere. sphere when we're making stuff like concrete and cement. Is
37:12
concrete and cement actually like kind
37:13
of a big deal? Yeah. It's
37:15
huge. It's really
37:18
huge. because you're saying that all these things they'll add up and these things
37:20
together get us to fifteen percent
37:22
of our goals under the Paris
37:24
that goes under the paris agreement agreement. So
37:26
some people are saying ten, some are saying twenty. I'm
37:28
good with fifteen, right in
37:30
the middle. Alright. Let's turn to our judges
37:32
and see what they
37:34
say. Oh, Ira,
37:35
the judges say?
37:40
Yes. So
37:42
George,
37:42
what's Melissa's score? Well, Ira, the
37:44
main board is at forty percent. Which
37:47
means she needs another ten
37:49
percent to reach our goal of
37:51
fifty percent. A mission's
37:54
cut. Okay. So so
37:56
now it
37:57
is your second turn, Melissa.
37:59
In your
37:59
second turn, how
38:01
much do you wanna put
38:03
on the board? I think
38:05
I'm gonna go for it and put
38:07
up a whole ten
38:09
percent. I'm gonna go all the
38:11
way to fifty percent. Okay. Alright.
38:13
Going all the way. Dearing. What
38:16
do you got?
38:17
Okay. So I should say right off the bat
38:19
that what I have is a whole hodgepodge of
38:21
stuff. Okay. So it's a lot of different
38:23
things. Okay. And so what I'm looking
38:25
at doing is saying where do we already have
38:28
momentum? Where are we already moving? And we just
38:30
need to move a little bit faster.
38:32
So squeeze a cup more percentage
38:34
points out of the things that
38:34
are already working for us. Okay. Which means
38:37
what?
38:37
So this means three buckets to
38:39
me. So the first one is
38:41
electricity. So it's doing all the stuff that's in the
38:43
Inflation Reduction Act, but pushing it further,
38:45
building more solar, more wind,
38:47
more nuclear, storing more
38:49
electricity. Okay. bucket two?
38:51
So bucket two is about working
38:53
with just a few big industries. So
38:55
the ones that produce a lot
38:57
of greenhouse gases. How do
38:59
we work with them to get their emissions down really
39:02
quickly? So
39:02
for example. Steel is
39:03
a good example. And we make steel with coal
39:06
today, but we can make it
39:08
with electricity. So let's do
39:10
that.
39:10
Okay. Bucket
39:11
three. So bucket three, I'm thinking about
39:14
waste. So there's two big things that I
39:16
want us to stop wasting and that would get us a
39:18
few more percentage points. So the first part of
39:20
this is about reducing greenhouse gas emissions
39:22
that we just are throwing in the atmosphere. We're just
39:24
wasting them. The big one here
39:26
is methane. So it's fixing leaky pipes. It's about plugging
39:28
abandoned oil and gas wells, stopping putting
39:30
it methane into the atmosphere. And the
39:32
second kind
39:32
and a second kind The second kind of
39:34
waste is the waste we have when it comes
39:36
to zero carbon electricity. So we've
39:38
already built a lot of wind turbines, a
39:40
lot of nuclear power plants, a lot of
39:43
solar panels and we're not using
39:45
all of that at zero carbon electricity.
39:47
We're
39:47
just wasting a lot
39:49
of it. Like, why? there's
39:51
a bunch of different reasons, but it comes down to
39:53
supply and demand not matching up. Is this a thing
39:55
of like of like like
39:56
the solar energy gets made, but
40:00
But there's no way to store it and there's no way to get it to the homes where it's
40:02
needed. Is that what you mean? Mhmm.
40:04
Yep. And that's like, it's
40:06
such
40:06
a waste, Ira. It's like, We
40:09
already paid for it. It's already there. And we're
40:11
not using it. And so to fix
40:13
that, what do we do? So to
40:15
fix that,
40:15
we build a lot of wires to move
40:17
this stuff around. And then we also
40:19
figure out ways to store that electricity. Okay. So between those three buckets you're
40:22
saying that
40:22
adds up to ten percent, can I
40:25
ask you, like, like, in the most real
40:27
way possible, like, do you think that's actually gonna
40:30
happen? Are we actually gonna get to
40:32
fifty percent? by
40:34
two thousand and
40:36
thirty? I think we're going to get
40:37
close. I don't know
40:40
if we're going to
40:41
get all the way there. I
40:43
mean, we could overshoot it. Honestly, there's a
40:45
lot of different factors that go into
40:47
that, including behavior, including, you
40:49
know, broader things that are happening in the world
40:51
that I have no insight get into. What's gonna keep
40:53
us from maybe getting there as fast as we
40:55
want is all the nontechnical stuff.
40:58
So being able to actually build something, get
41:00
it permitted.
41:02
get it paid for in our markets. I think it's
41:05
gonna
41:05
be close. I don't know if we're gonna
41:07
get over the fifty percent line
41:09
in time, though. Alright.
41:12
Well, judges, what
41:13
do you think? Oh, wait. Oh,
41:15
wait. Is this coming
41:16
in? The judges
41:18
say
41:22
Yes. Well,
41:23
congratulations, Melissa. We're winning round
41:25
one. Thank you, Eric. Thank you,
41:27
George. I appreciate it. But
41:29
remember, this is only round one. There's
41:32
another round after this. Well,
41:33
exactly what executive is gonna say, you
41:35
progress to our bonus round. Let's talk
41:37
that next round. Right? because the first goal that America set
41:39
for itself with the Paris agreement is to cut
41:41
fifty percent of our emissions by twenty thirty, but
41:43
the bigger goal is to cut
41:45
all greenhouse gases. as far as
41:48
possible, to get to net zero by
41:50
twenty fifty. In your
41:52
view, like, is there a credible path towards
41:54
that that you can imagine actually happening?
41:56
There's definitely a credible
41:57
path. I think there
42:00
is, but like with the next
42:02
eight years, it's gonna be
42:04
challenging and it requires us to make
42:06
a choice to get on that path.
42:08
And a
42:08
lot of it is just doing a lot more
42:10
of what we've already been talking about,
42:12
not just making more buildings more
42:15
energy efficient. We're making every single building
42:17
more energy efficient. We're electrifying those buildings. We're
42:19
pulling all the emissions out of those buildings.
42:21
We're getting every single car in track and
42:24
bus and plane zero emissions.
42:26
Every single thing in our transportation.
42:28
When you said
42:28
it this way, it just seems like
42:30
so big. It's a hard to fathom that that could actually happen.
42:32
Howard Bauchner: I mean, it's
42:34
massive. Like, it
42:35
is massive. It
42:37
is a huge huge
42:40
undertaking. Some people describe
42:42
it as like a wartime effort. I think that's right.
42:44
Like, it's it's massive to
42:46
do this. over the next just few decades. We're
42:49
talking about twenty fifty. That's not that long
42:51
from now. But that
42:52
makes me feel like not so super
42:54
hopeful just to say. But if
42:56
we don't actually get there, we know the costs of
42:59
inaction of not moving there
43:01
and they're not pretty. So
43:03
I'm
43:03
talking about extreme events that flood
43:06
Houston or, you know, swinging across
43:08
Florida heat waves in Southern
43:10
California that lead to
43:12
people dying. when you start to
43:14
add up all these health costs and also the insurance costs, the cost of rebuilding
43:16
homes. It's so much larger than
43:18
building solar panels and nuclear power
43:22
plants and retrofitting buildings and replacing cars?
43:25
Well, listen, thank you
43:26
so much for playing our game.
43:30
Let's
43:30
bring in some inappropriately cheerful game show
43:34
music. And George tell her what she's
43:36
won. Well, Melissa,
43:38
how about
43:39
a brand new SUV.
43:43
Oh. Two plane
43:46
tickets too.
43:48
A subscription to Diesel and Steak
43:51
lovers magazine. What else
43:53
he got there by Well,
43:56
Melissa, this is perfect. How
43:58
about autograph copies
43:59
of the collected works
44:01
of Bill McKean them. That's not like
44:04
it. Listen. Thanks
44:06
again, Melissa.
44:07
And George, take
44:10
it away. Thanks so
44:12
much, everybody. And we'll see you next
44:14
time. If we're not all
44:16
fleeing a wildfire
44:18
or hurricane, on. You bet your
44:20
planet's
44:20
life.
44:24
Actually,
44:27
i agree didn't
44:28
hear it from me. No, really.
44:30
You didn't. This last dom game actually happened
44:32
on another show, a podcast called Normal
44:36
Gossip. And if you haven't heard normal gossip, the way it works, people on show
44:38
basically dish about actual gossip.
44:40
Like, true stories about normal
44:42
everyday people sent in by listeners.
44:46
And last season, the producers recreated a version of,
44:48
you know, that old game telephone or somebody,
44:50
like, whisper something to the person next to
44:52
them who whispers it to the person
44:55
next to them and on down the line. One of
44:57
our producers, Sean Cole, has this
44:59
rundown of what happened when they did a
45:01
version of that on normal gossip.
45:03
and how it revealed some interesting things about the stories that we
45:05
tell each other. Here,
45:07
Sean. The folks
45:08
at normal gossip, they created
45:10
the game for a very practical reason.
45:13
While they
45:13
were gearing up for season two, they got to
45:15
talking about how long it had taken during
45:17
season one for the guests to relax
45:20
and settle into
45:22
the conversation. And
45:22
so we we were having this brainstorming session where we were talking
45:24
about ways that we could just give
45:26
them some more time and space ahead of
45:28
the recording to loosen up.
45:31
This is the producer of normal gossip. Alex
45:33
Sujang Lofland. And
45:36
I came up with this idea that, like,
45:38
what if we had them play a game?
45:40
that is a game of gossip. Gossip itself of course is
45:42
sort of like a game of telephone. So
45:44
they figured, let's
45:45
just do that. Alex
45:47
grabbed
45:47
one of the gossip stories from their inbox
45:50
and read it to the first guest that they
45:52
had and then recorded her telling
45:54
it right back just whatever that
45:56
person could remember. Play that
45:58
for the second guest, have them tell
45:59
it back, and so on. I told
46:01
them not to take
46:04
notes because you don't generally
46:06
take notes when somebody's telling you a gossip story. Right? Like, you're not
46:07
like Unless you're a gossip columnist, I
46:10
suppose. Yeah. Exactly.
46:11
Unless you're me.
46:13
So,
46:15
yeah, I said you know, do
46:17
the best you can. If you don't remember something, that's fine.
46:19
If you feel like tweaking
46:21
a detail for fun,
46:24
you can. But for
46:25
the most part, try and be pretty faithful to the
46:28
story you heard. Alex didn't really expect
46:30
anything interesting to happen,
46:32
but then When she listened through
46:34
to all the versions, she
46:36
realized she was seeing in real time
46:38
how gossip works, how a story
46:40
can evolve and change, that there was
46:42
a logic to how it changed.
46:44
Sure there was some willy nilly embellishing
46:46
here and there, but for the most part, the changes
46:48
were for a very
46:50
specific reason. and I'm gonna get to that. But first,
46:52
you need to hear the original version of the story
46:54
so that you can appreciate when we get
46:56
there how different it was by the end of
46:58
the game.
47:00
Yes.
47:00
I have the text
47:01
here. I asked Alex to read it to
47:03
me.
47:03
I should say, with every gossip story they
47:05
tell on the
47:08
show, the names and all the identifying details are changed, so it's completely
47:10
anonymized. This story concerns
47:12
two people who they called Kyle
47:16
and Elliot. I
47:17
started dating sometime before the pandemic. Kyle had grown up super religious
47:19
and
47:19
had been married to a woman,
47:21
but he came out, left his family,
47:23
left the church, and
47:26
moved to the city where he met Elliott. And
47:28
Elliott's really the main character of the story.
47:30
You need to know that he's part of this active
47:32
group chat with some college friends
47:35
where they talk about their lives. Everyone in
47:36
the group chat was obsessed with
47:39
Kyle. He was so warm,
47:42
genuine, thoughtful. They move in
47:44
together, adopt a cat, and are
47:46
teaching it all kinds of
47:48
tricks. Then Elliott proposes
47:50
and Kyle proposes back. It's so adorable.
47:53
The pandemic hits and the
47:55
group chat starts doing zooms as
47:57
you do. Usually significant others pop
47:59
in and say, hi, and
48:01
they all love to see Kyle. Around
48:04
June, Elliott mentions that he's
48:06
going home for a bit, doesn't
48:08
mention Kyle. A few weeks
48:10
later, the group zooms and Kyle doesn't
48:12
show up. They ask where he
48:14
is. Elliott says, I didn't want
48:16
to bring this up yet, but Kyle has actually
48:18
left me. Turns out
48:20
Kyle just packed up and
48:23
disappeared. Left a cat No
48:26
explanation ghosted his fiance.
48:28
He disappeared off social media
48:30
and nobody knows where he went.
48:32
Elliot is crushed.
48:37
So fast forward a
48:39
year later, a friend of a
48:42
friend is scrolling TikTok and suddenly they see a
48:44
viral video with Kyle.
48:46
Turns out Kyle has
48:48
reinvented himself on TikTok in
48:52
the last year. He's suddenly super religious, but
48:54
also still very much
48:56
queer. He seems to spend
48:58
his videos making a
49:00
lot of references to leaving a
49:02
toxic relationship and loving
49:04
yourself. Our friend of a
49:06
friend is like, what
49:08
the fuck? Kyle has like millions of views, tons of
49:10
followers. Now we've tracked
49:12
him down, but he's obviously
49:14
obliquely talking shit about Elliot.
49:18
What
49:18
do you do? Do you you tell Elliott? It ends
49:20
with sort of a dear Abby
49:21
conundrum type question there.
49:24
Anyway, that's where
49:26
we start. There were eight guests listening
49:28
to and repeating back some version of the story over the course
49:30
of an eight week season. It
49:33
was quite literally right literally a
49:36
long game. And I'll just tell you right now,
49:37
the only parts of the story that didn't
49:40
change practically at all were the
49:42
very beginning
49:44
there
49:44
were two guys in a relationship together.
49:46
Two guys. There's Elliott and
49:48
there's Kyle. Right?
49:49
A gay cat ball. Elliot.
49:51
Elliott and Kyle. He meets Kyle. They start
49:54
dating. They like each
49:56
other. They move in together. In the very
49:58
end, where the friends see the
49:59
TikTok video and ask them selves the
50:02
question. And the question is, do
50:04
we tell Elliot or not? Do we
50:06
tell Elliot? Should we tell him
50:08
about this TikTok? They don't know what they're
50:10
supposed to do. Yep.
50:10
Would you tell Elliott? I tell
50:13
Elliott and Harvey. Almost everything
50:14
else became completely unrecognizable.
50:18
By the way, TobyLowe, who was an act one, happened to be a guest on normal gossip
50:20
when they did this. Maybe you heard his voice
50:22
in there. With the first couple
50:26
of folks, the changes are relatively small. The very first
50:28
guest, Daniel Henderson, she's a TV
50:30
writer. She inserts this scene
50:32
where Elliot discovers that
50:34
Kyle has left. And
50:36
then he
50:36
goes back to their apartment that they
50:37
share, their place that they
50:40
share. And Kyle is gone. He has
50:42
packed up everything, but it's still the same
50:44
plot as the original. The
50:46
second person, Caitlin Kaler, who writes
50:48
about sports, when she heard Danielle
50:50
say that Kyle packed up
50:52
everything, seems to have taken that to
50:54
mean everything.
50:55
Kyle is gone.
50:57
The apartment is
51:00
empty.
51:00
There is no note.
51:03
There is no
51:03
trace of Kyle. It's like he never
51:05
lived there. He probably took all
51:08
his furniture and
51:10
food and Whatever, you know She
51:12
also I think inadvertently leaves out
51:14
a pretty important detail at the end. The
51:16
fact that Kyle is still gay.
51:18
probably
51:19
just didn't think to mention it. Besides that,
51:21
she casually adlives this kind of loose
51:23
dialogue in the beginning. where
51:26
Elliott's friends are all a flutter about meeting Kyle. Everyone
51:28
is, like, very curious. Like, who's
51:30
Kyle? Like, Elliott introduces to
51:32
Kyle,
51:33
we wanna meet your new
51:36
boyfriend. Like, you're so happy. How
51:38
are things going? But those few
51:40
alterations set us up for some real
51:42
misunderstandings that are about to take off with the
51:44
third person. Tracy Clayton of the podcast, Strong Black
51:46
Legends. She hears this part. Everyone is,
51:48
like, very curious. Like, who's Kyle?
51:50
Like, Elliott
51:50
introduced us to Kyle?
51:53
and takes it to mean that the friend group never
51:55
does meet Kyle, which is very
51:57
different. That and the
51:58
missing detail of Kyle
51:59
still being gay, leads to this
52:02
ending from Tracy. Again,
52:04
the friends are scrolling TikTok. And
52:06
so
52:06
they come across a TikTok
52:08
of a very evangelical, like,
52:11
born again, Christian, very
52:14
strict. Everything that's not in
52:16
the bible
52:18
is wrong. type of person and he's just going off and
52:20
saying, all this terrible stuff
52:22
and probably
52:24
very anti trans, anti
52:26
anti racism, anti everything
52:30
good. And it's just going off about all this
52:32
wild stuff,
52:34
but them. this man starts talking about this terrible toxic
52:36
relationship that he was in, and dropping
52:38
out of these heads, but not really saying, you
52:40
know, too much, so nobody really knew if
52:42
he was talking about Elliott or not,
52:44
but the friends are like,
52:45
he's definitely talking about Elliott.
52:47
That's so fucked up. Also, this
52:49
new somewhat more sinister
52:51
version of Kyle, took even more
52:54
from the apartment than he did before. The cat is gone. First mention of Kyle
52:56
taking the cat with him.
53:01
All of those
53:04
embellishments are crystallized and
53:07
even built upon in the fourth
53:09
iteration of the story. which is
53:11
sort of tag team told by Bobbyfinger and Lindsay Weber and
53:13
host another gossip podcast called WhoWeekly. More
53:15
than anyone else,
53:18
they really tried to imagine themselves into the heads of the friend group. Like
53:20
when Elliott tells them, I just moved in with this
53:22
guy Kyle and we got a cat together.
53:26
And his friends are, like, assumably, like, who?
53:28
Like, what? Like, how do we not
53:30
know this person? Why you moved in
53:32
with somebody? You got a cat with them? And we don't
53:36
even, like, know who it is. But you know what? We're so happy for
53:38
you. We're gonna feel positive about this. This is
53:40
how I would feel, I guess, if a friend of mine did this to me,
53:42
although I would be. a little bad, but that's
53:44
okay. That's my thing, not these people.
53:46
They
53:46
Be a little cocky cocky cocky cocky
53:48
cocky cocky cocky cocky cocky. Yeah.
53:50
yeah because you can't
53:51
just drop in the group chat that's active all
53:54
fucking day long. Oh, hey, by the way, I
53:56
live with someone and we have
53:57
a cat. Yeah, I get the feeling
53:59
the friends haven't
53:59
even like seen a photo of the oh, the friends have seen a photo. Wait.
54:02
No. The friends have not seen a photo. I
54:04
think the friends never even saw a photo of
54:06
this person.
54:07
Bobby worked on this story. It's our story. So you can say that
54:09
if you just wanna say. Never saw
54:11
a photo of this person. They didn't even
54:13
know what this person looks like. They just know the
54:15
name is Kyle. You
54:17
get the sense listening to Bobby and Lindsay that
54:19
they know they're embellishing some of the
54:21
details, but they're also hewing pretty closely to
54:23
the basic plot points they heard in
54:25
Tracy Clayton's version. So
54:26
Kyle Rob's Elliott blind, takes the cat, Elliott's
54:28
crushed, the friends are trying to
54:31
be supportive, the friends are
54:34
One of them at least is on their TikTok page. On their FYP, FYP
54:36
is the four u page.
54:39
And on the FYP, is
54:41
a video of an evangelical
54:44
TikTok influencer who is
54:46
apparently extremely religious, extremely
54:48
fundamentalist, has really problematic opinions.
54:50
And it's not like here's my lifestyle.
54:52
I'm viral for these horrible
54:54
opinions. Right? Oh, look at my cute
54:56
cat, Greg.
54:59
And then the friends are like, wait, wait,
55:00
I'm gonna twist. He's he's
55:03
like, I'm straight. Like, that's the
55:05
-- Right. Yeah. -- like, he's like,
55:07
I was in this awful relationship, but I found
55:09
God, here's my cat, Greg. I'm -- Right. --
55:11
my ex was toxic, and the friends see the
55:14
TikTok, and they're sharing it, and
55:16
they're like, Is this
55:16
about Elliot? This, of course,
55:18
is a huge change. They're naming
55:21
the cat Greg. I'm
55:23
kidding, the fact of Kyle now
55:25
being straight. Finally, this is the
55:27
first iteration of the story where the detail of
55:29
Kyle being previously married to a woman was
55:32
left out. So in the original, Kyle was the
55:34
beginning of the story, now
55:36
he's with women at the end.
55:38
And more and more, Kyle is
55:40
becoming
55:40
and more
55:41
a villain. Until
55:43
by the fifth telling of the story, he's out and out malicious, even
55:45
criminal. For that version. The
55:47
fifth one was the one told by our
55:49
very owned Jobin
55:52
Low. They are also getting a cat together, let's call the
55:54
cat mister mister misteraphilies from
55:56
cats the musical because as
56:00
one does. And I know this will sound biased because I work with them,
56:02
but his version is really
56:04
one of my favorites
56:06
in this reverse
56:07
groundhog day movie about Elliot and
56:10
Kyle.
56:10
Cut two, one of his
56:12
friends in the middle of the night scrolling
56:14
through TikTok as one does.
56:17
comes across a TikTok on
56:19
their 4U page. And
56:22
it is this guy
56:25
talking about how he catfishes people. His whole thing is
56:27
that he pretends to be gay. He
56:30
gets in these
56:32
relationships. He's actually like a
56:34
very religious conservative person.
56:36
And so he's like catfishing these dudes
56:38
to be in relationships with him.
56:42
And It's
56:43
all a sham. It's all a sham.
56:45
And so then he goes
56:47
into, like, I recently did this
56:49
to a guy we got cat together,
56:51
mister mister Mustafoli's.
56:54
And and then and then
56:56
I, like, took him for all he's worth. And actually,
56:58
like, it was a really bad toxic relationship. Did
57:01
you hear
57:02
what happened there? Basically,
57:04
Toeban took these loose facts from
57:06
Bobby and Lindsay's telling, the empty apartment,
57:09
Kyle being and very religious and conservative. And
57:11
he combines all those things. Into
57:14
a
57:14
catfishing scam artist
57:16
who is not only
57:18
doing that, but bragging about it on
57:20
TikTok. This is Alex
57:21
again, the normal gossip producer. Which
57:24
seems
57:24
to me like, honestly, this
57:26
is the turn that makes the least
57:29
logical sense to me. Sorry,
57:31
Tobin. But, like, if he's a scam
57:33
artist, why would you be bragging about it,
57:35
then your scam is ruined.
57:37
You know? I hadn't even thought of that. And it's funny
57:39
because, like, Tobin has said multiple
57:42
times, like, he thought he was
57:44
telling it
57:46
perfectly. I
57:46
stand by what I said. I thought that I
57:48
told it exactly as it was
57:50
told to me. This, of course, is
57:52
my colleague, TobyLowe.
57:54
He dained to consent to
57:55
an interview for this story. And the all if you
57:57
had asked me afterwards, the only liberty
57:59
I
57:59
was very consciously taking
58:02
was changing the cat's name, which I thought
58:04
was just fun and
58:06
harmless. To be fair,
58:07
Bobby did use the word
58:09
scam one time in his and
58:11
Lindsay's telling of the story. But there was nothing about catfishing, and certainly no
58:14
mention of multiple victims
58:16
of same. Toban
58:18
ultimately heard
58:18
the original version of the story, and I had
58:20
to wonder what he thought about it. I think I
58:22
was surprised that they were happy at one
58:25
point or like or like they had a really
58:27
good relationship.
58:29
the rain Right. I think
58:30
that I would have assumed that that
58:33
would survive in some way. in
58:35
the retellings. The original is just
58:38
kinda sad. And then
58:40
it becomes it becomes
58:42
extraordinary in a way that like by the
58:45
end people's hurt is not
58:47
the focus. Yeah. It's
58:50
like it's like sort
58:52
of how wild people's actions
58:54
are. And like you've sort of drifted
58:56
far away from the original smaller,
59:00
more human hurt. And he has
59:02
a
59:02
theory as to how they all collectively got
59:05
there. In
59:05
retrospect, I think what happened
59:08
is that Everyone
59:10
knew that there was this
59:12
thing coming in the story where
59:14
Kyle was gonna leave Elliott.
59:17
and that's sort of like all roads lead
59:19
to this big moment in the
59:22
story. And I think to some degree,
59:24
we were all like reverse engineering
59:26
to that moment. like, how do you
59:28
explain the beats of what happened? How do
59:30
you explain everyone's actions?
59:33
So that that makes sense and lands really
59:35
hard. Right. So that you recreate the
59:38
same gas that you
59:40
had when you
59:42
heard it.
59:42
Right.
59:44
Right. I can create that
59:46
moment again. because in the original, there is
59:48
no explanation, and you're just kind of
59:50
like, what the heck? Yes. and
59:53
that's an uncomfortable feeling. Right. Exactly.
59:55
Just like it is in life.
59:57
But of course,
59:59
as Toby had to remind me, the original story
1:00:02
is life. That version
1:00:04
wasn't part of a game. It
1:00:06
really happened.
1:00:06
really
1:00:12
Weirdly, there was only one
1:00:13
more major change to the
1:00:15
story after Tobin's version when
1:00:17
the comedian Brian Park tells
1:00:19
it next, the guy in the TikTok video
1:00:21
is not Kyle, but one of
1:00:24
Kyle's many
1:00:26
unsuspecting victims. warning other TikTokers to watch out for this
1:00:28
predator, which of course makes a lot more
1:00:30
sense. Oh, and there's no mention of them
1:00:32
getting a
1:00:34
cat. and then the two versions after that are basically
1:00:36
identical to
1:00:37
Brian's. It's like there were no more questions to
1:00:39
be answered. No gaps
1:00:42
in understanding. All of the reverse
1:00:44
engineering Tobin talked about was
1:00:46
complete, which makes you wonder if
1:00:48
there's a natural end to a game
1:00:50
like this. If
1:00:51
you can only retell the story so many
1:00:53
times before plateaus, stay static. I bet you that
1:00:55
happens to Urban Myth
1:00:56
too. Alex
1:00:59
Yujang Lofland says watching the story go
1:01:01
through all of those changes was kind
1:01:03
of thrilling. It was like seeing your own little monster
1:01:05
come alive on the laboratory table.
1:01:07
But by the last couple two, three versions of the story, she had
1:01:10
this other feeling as well. It
1:01:12
makes
1:01:12
me feel sad. Why?
1:01:15
it makes me think of the
1:01:17
way that people become characters to each
1:01:19
other. And it just feels
1:01:21
like, you know, I don't know. Not to be all,
1:01:23
like, didactic and stuff, but we're talking the
1:01:26
night before election day, and I've
1:01:28
I've watched this play out
1:01:30
for months. the way that people
1:01:32
just get flattened into,
1:01:34
like, you know, conservative
1:01:37
rednecks who hate
1:01:39
everybody or, like, radical feminazzis who wanna, like, kill
1:01:42
babies. Right. And it
1:01:43
just, like, it
1:01:44
bums me out to see it happen so quickly even
1:01:46
even in such a, like, low stakes
1:01:50
story. It's
1:01:50
sort of like all of us are playing the game all the
1:01:52
time. Yeah.
1:01:53
Yeah. And,
1:01:55
like, maybe
1:01:56
maybe in those moments when you, like,
1:01:58
feel like you want to, like,
1:01:59
jump to a conclusion or, like, flatten
1:02:02
somebody because it makes the
1:02:04
story better.
1:02:05
Like, maybe don't. You know? Maybe
1:02:07
don't. I I don't
1:02:08
know. I I would like to create
1:02:10
fewer of these like monster kiles
1:02:12
even if they're fictional. That
1:02:15
seems like a
1:02:16
worthy slogan on behalf of decency
1:02:18
and fairness to others. Let's create
1:02:21
fewer monster kiles. Only a handful of
1:02:23
people in the world would understand it means course. But just
1:02:26
like the Julius
1:02:27
gossip, maybe
1:02:29
it would spread
1:02:38
Shanko,
1:02:38
one of the producers of our program.
1:02:40
To hear the full episode, the normal gossip did where all this plays out, you can find
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