It has been a second since I released an episode. Christmas and the Holidays made me pretty busy and on top of that, the recording studio I had been using was having some technical malfunctions. I'm excited to be recording again even if it's ju

Big Spence and the baby girls?

Dec 3rd, 2021 32m 44s

My roommate Spencer and I discuss his recent thoughts on women and the difference between group/single dates.

Hypothesis: The need for Physical and Emotional Connection

Dec 1st, 2021 7m 17s

Men and women choose to connect in different ways. In general men base their relationships on physical connection more than emotional and women are the opposite.

Violations: The Callback & The Hangover

Nov 11th, 2021 9m 1s

These violations detail what happens when a man stays in the woman's blank space for too long and when a woman stays on a man's list for too long.

Jorja's Rollercoaster

Nov 4th, 2021 1h 4m

Jorja joins me for the show to explain her most recent relationship. We discuss the rollercoaster of becoming "official." There are many ups and downs but ultimately it can be worth it.

Teryn Understanding the Missing Piece

Oct 26th, 2021 53m 55s

I have my friend Teryn on the show and we talk about a relationship she just got out of as well as one she is just getting into. We discuss how the blank space changes over time and how that might impact the friendzone.

Hypothesis: Guys and Girls Commit at Different Levels, At Least to Start

Oct 19th, 2021 10m 43s

Guys usually commit first but their initial commitment is a pretty shallow one. When the woman fills her blank space her commitment is deeper than the guy's commitment but eventually she will develop a super deep commitment and the guy has to d

Violations: The Player & The NCMOer

Oct 19th, 2021 18m 57s

These violations occur among men and women but they occur for different reasons because we think differently. We live in a world of instant gratification and it can be easy to become these violations but it really isn't fulfilling.

Kenidy and Her Friends

Oct 12th, 2021 22m 2s

I have my friend Kenidy on the show and we discuss how hard it is for guys to just be friends with girls. She also breaks down one of her current relationships and how she decides whether she wants to be more than friends with a dude.

Hypothesis: Men and Women Can't Just Be Friends

Oct 8th, 2021 13m 35s

In hypothesis episodes, I take a truth we have all seen in our dating lives and back up the truth with reasoning from the two theories. Men and Women cannot just be friends because we think differently about our relationships. This episode was

Violations: The Rebound & The Identity

Oct 8th, 2021 8m 41s

The Rebound and The Identity are 2 violations committed by girls when they change their criteria for the blank space in order to have a boyfriend. We've all seen both of these but it's important to remember how they're different. The Rebound tr

Violations: The Obsessive Creep & The Hung-Up

Oct 8th, 2021 13m 9s

Humans follow patterns in the way they choose to act. That's why the list theory and the blank space theory work. Humans are creatures of habits and we follow the norms of society around us. However, because we have the capacity to make decisio

Ezra Analyzes The Theories

Oct 7th, 2021 24m 12s

My roommate Ezra, who got COVID during Thanksgiving and led to me writing my essay, joins the show to analyze one of his past wannabe relationships. Ezra's honestly more of a pro than I am on these theories and we use the essay/theories as a po

What Happens When We Judge Our Crush From Our Own Perspective

Oct 7th, 2021 7m 5s

As humans we always think we're right and we think everyone else thinks in the same way we do. This means that guys look at what girls do and judge their actions as if the girl has a list theory. Girls also judge guys as if they had a blank spa

Why It Has To Be This Way

Oct 7th, 2021 3m 30s

It's easy to get frustrated because guys and girls think differently. Sometimes we think it would be easier if we all just thought the same, but imagine what relationships would be like if we did.

The Blank Space Theory

Oct 7th, 2021 12m 35s

The confusing theory of how girls decide to like a guy.

The List Theory

Oct 7th, 2021 7m 28s

The theory of how guys decide to like girls.

Introduction

Oct 7th, 2021 6m 21s

Before jumping into the theories here's an episode explaining why I'm doing this podcast and how this all came to be.

Trailer

Oct 6th, 2021 46s

Take a second to learn about how guys decide to like girls and how girls decide to like guys. If you have any interest in understanding what your crush thinks about then this podcast will help. Make sure to listen to the first 5 episodes they w

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