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This is t J, Jannat and J Rood's second date update on kJ one

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O three April from Midwest City. Tell us about your first date with Steven

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and then we'll figure out why you are not getting a second date. We

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met I worked in a coffee shop in Oklahoma City. I worked at a

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coffee shop in Oklahoma City and he used to come in a couple times a

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week and you know, nice little chat and all that, and then he

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stopped coming in. I didn't see him for about a year. I think

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he moved to Norman, Okay, Okay, and then recently he came in

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and obviously I was pretty excited to see him, and you know, ordered

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his coffee, checked in, just said he wanted to say hi, and

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I was getting off really soon, and I said to him, hey,

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you know, let's let's have a drink. I'm going to be off really

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soon. So was that your first date? Then? I don't think I

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would call that a date. Maybe that was like half a date. Okay.

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He took me to dinner and we went out for drinks after, and

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I think that was our first official date. Okay. He even talked about

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going out again, and that's it. I haven't heard from him since,

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and he's not returning my messages. Wow. Okay, so you've had one

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and a half dates yeah with Steven. Technically this is the second and a

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half date. If we can get her another date, Yeah, we're going

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to try to get you that two and a half date point of your relationship

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here, April, hold on a second. You know this works, We'll

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get Stephen on the phone and we'll try to figure out what's going on here.

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Okay, thank you, all right, talk to him next second.

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It update kJ well three, TJ Janet Jay Ride in the morning. It's

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TJ Janet and Jay Rides. Second date update on kJ one O three Steven,

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How you doing. Thanks for coming on the show. We appreciate it. Hey, how you guys doing. I'm trying to make April a little

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better though. She wants to go out with you again, and you are not. You are not answering your text? Why not? Yeah? What

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happened? I had a crush on April since the first time I saw her

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at the coffee shop, which beautiful. She's funny, she's quick witted,

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and I would stop in that coffee shop all the time when I lived in

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OKCA, so when she asked me out for her first day, I'm like,

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yeah, obviously. So I get there and there were a bunch of

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her friends there, so I was like, all right, maybe she's a

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little worried. It's the first date. So we had one drink and then I asked her out again for dinner. Okay, yeah, because she called

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that drink a half a day. Yeah, not a real day. Okay,

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so how was that? How was dinner then? So the dinner was

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great, good conversation, it was awesome. And then Abel suggested we'd go

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to another place for an after drink. Okay, that sounds great. So

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we go to that place and then all of her friends are there. Again

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I should tell where this is going. Yeah, so her friends are always

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there. They seem like nice people, but I want a group date with

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her friends. I'm wanting to hang out with her. So yeah, I

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was like, you know what, if I'm just going to keep hanging out with her friends, I'd rather just hang out with her. Okay, that

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was kind of done, So that's your deal breaker. Okay, yeah,

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all right, Well let's get April into the conversation. Here. She's on the phone, by the way, I mean I like to hang out with

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my friends. I'm not exactly sure what to tell you. Okay, okay,

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okay, it's fine. I'm okay with hanging out friends. I like

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my friends too, but I'm not bringing my friends out on my date.

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Like, if you want to go out with me, then there's a time

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for friends, and there's a time for a date. Yeah, but they're

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a big part of my life. And if you can't handle that, then

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I guess we shouldn't go out again. Oh wow, okay, okay,

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So I kind of decided that when I didn't want to talk to you again.

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Okay, oh wow, dude. Okay, well, let's make this official, Steven. We'll buy you dinner. We won't buy any friends,

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but we'll buy you to dinner at dinner for two. If you guys want

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to go, thank you. If you guys want to go on a second

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date, he had fifty six, Yeah, I would love to take her

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out again. I thought she was great, but I want to take her

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out, not a friend. Okay, Okay, Well, you know there's

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a chance that my friends are going to be there, so really okay,

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okay, wow, Like, how insecure are you? Like, do you

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have to have your friends all the time. I'm good, okay, all

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right, all right, this is going to a weird place, okay,

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erectly, all right, Steven, we're gonna say goodbye to you now,

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okay, all right, okaydy say okay bye. My last boyfriend didn't have

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a problem hanging out with my friends. If you want to date me,

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you're part of the package. Okay, all right, I get that. Did he leave you for one of your friends? No, well, April,

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sorry, we couldn't get you a second date with Steven. But sounds

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like you got a lot of friends and you'll meet someone else. All right,

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Yeah, you're not alone, You're fine, you Okay, bye bye.

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She sounds great. I couldn't date her. What introvert? I'm too

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much of an introvert man, Like like, it's stressful enough getting to know

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one person I don't want to like, and also like I I can't have

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that many people around me all the time, but we do, which means

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she won't get along with me because she's social and I'm not. You could

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go out and be social when you're at home when I'm in a dark room

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crying yourself because I talked to too many people in a day from four or

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five, four, six, one two seven? Is this too much?

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This seems too much, even for someone that is an extrovert to bring your

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friends to dates. It's too much. And I know j Round has a

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story, but we'll get because I've heard the story. We'll get We'll get

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to this. Okay, let's talk about this second date update kJ wele three

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TJ Janet j rud in the morning. I'm sorry, I'm having anxiety just

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thinking about all kJ well three Oglama's never want to hit music station Sissa Sator

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I go with Ja. Hi, this is Oklahoma City. I'm just gonna

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make a quick comment about the couple. Oh, the second date updates.

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Oh, Jennifer, I'm getting anxiety. You're bringing this up again. Okay

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for people, Oh you are too okay for people just joining us. The

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reason why she wasn't getting another date on the second date update is because Stephen

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was like, your friends showed up at two at the half a date,

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okay, and then we went out again and your friends showed up again.

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She's like, well, my friends are gonna be around. You're just gonna

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have to deal with it. And I'm like, I'm too introverted, Jennifer.

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I'm guessing you are too. I'm introverted. But how are you gonna

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get to know someone on a one in one level. Yeah, you have

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to have that that one on one time and communicate and see if you're compatible,

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see if there's a connection. You can't do that around a bunch of

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friends, but for her, apparently you do need to do that. He's

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gonna have to learn how to do that if she always has friends around.

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Yeah. I just feel sorry for him because I think that's all he was

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asking and she's not willing to get it to so she's not ready for a

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relationship. I'm a wedding officiant, and I believe that you have to have

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that connection and that one on one time. Jennifer, if I would have

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had my choice, there wouldn't have even been friends at my wedding. Dude

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exhausted, I wanted to get married in the dark by myself. Well,

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I just wanted to make a little quick comment that you know, I just you can't. You can't have that one on one when you have a bunch

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of friends around, And that's all he was asking for. So maybe she's

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just maybe she can't be alone maybe she's like, I can't. I have

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to be alone with one person need people around them all right. Also,

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thanks for calling, Jennifer. Have a good day Okay, thank you. Bye bye