Happy Monday tot fam! In today’s raunchy episode I invite my good friend Kyah back onto #tot to talk about SEX! I was sent FlexMami’s card game (ReFlex) so we decided to play & discuss. We chat about our first time, hook up culture, orgasms (and what they feel like), squirting, how to communicate personal boundaries inc. likes & dislikes and SO much more! Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG!

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Time stamps with ** = sensitive topics/trigger warning!

Time Stamps:
Intro 0:00-2:40
Hook up culture: 2:40-4:27
Communicating sexual desires: 4:27-7:07
Your first sexual experience: 7:07-9:52
First sex talk: 9:52-13:45
Female condoms/protection: 13:45-14:50
**What to do when "no" isn't enough for someone: 14:50-16:26**
Dental dams - where to get them/are they necessary: 16:26-17:19
How to have safe lesbian/gay sex: 17:19-17:44
Should you still use protection in relationships? 17:44-18:37
How to move past sexual assault? 18:37-20:13
Painful penetration & alternative sexual acts: 20:13-21:05
How to make sure I don't hurt my gf for our first time: 21:05-21:55
How to be confident in the bedroom/sex injuries/awkwardness: 21:55-23:44
Vasectomies & cumming? 23:44-24:38
How to smell & taste healthy down there: 24:38-26:50
How do girls masturbate: 26:50-29:40
Where to get STI tests in Australia? 29:40-31:05
Squirting? But no orgasm? 31:05-32:00
**How to set boundaries in the bedroom/how to say no: 32:00-33:10**
Could you live a fulfilling life without sex? 33:10-34:34
Favourite thing about sex? 34:34-36:17
How do you communicate your sexual boundaries verbally? 36:17-37:34
Non-verbal consent? 37:34-40:31
Favourite way to initiate sex: 40:31-42:02
What is bad sex? 42:02-44:37
How would you describe an orgasm? 44:37-46:55
Outro 46:55-48:17
REVIEWERS OF THE WEEK: 48:17-49:57