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star, which isn't even

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2:08

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2:10

TikTok. But turns out you're,

2:13

like, in the top one no. The point

2:15

one percent of only fans creators,

2:17

Stella Berry. Welcome to the show.

2:19

Thank you. I'd

2:21

be here. I noticed on Instagram you go

2:23

by anal princess. I do. It's

2:25

the best handle. That was

2:27

my original TikTok. Well, not my original.

2:29

like my fifteenth TikTok account, but that

2:32

was the one that blew up on girls for

2:34

you pages for the first time. And

2:36

so and that's because that's when I started answering

2:38

questions and, like, not just

2:40

marketing to Mhmm. And then that got

2:42

deleted, but it's so it's my favorite

2:44

username. So I put it on Instagram.

2:46

Well, that's how I found you as

2:48

well. I just thought you were some way I thought you were

2:50

like a TikTok educator. Yeah. Like I

2:52

said, which you are. Was it kind of, man? Yeah.

2:54

Yeah. Bob, because you had that video talking

2:56

about the colors of

2:59

vagina. Yeah. And I was, like,

3:01

no one talks about this so

3:03

smartly. And then yeah. When and and bringing

3:05

up actual genetics and haplo genes.

3:08

I was like, oh, okay. I do have really,

3:10

like, random knowledge because my mom is an Owichuanian.

3:13

So she gives me all this little, like, information

3:15

that never would have found out. Wait, weren't

3:17

you at some point considering going

3:19

into med school as well? Yeah. I did two years

3:22

at UCLA after I graduated college.

3:24

I decided I wanna go to med school. So

3:26

I took two years of pre med at UCLA

3:29

and then took the MCAT, was applying

3:31

for med schools, was about

3:33

to pay the five hundred dollar per school

3:36

Right. And I was like, I don't wanna do this

3:38

anymore. And so I

3:40

just started I'd already been doing TikTok

3:42

about porn, and I just went full force into

3:44

porn. Okay. you

3:47

know, I have to ask you this as a top only

3:49

genius Yeah. Thank you. The

3:51

only smart I'm proud of myself. Yeah. Really proud

3:53

of myself for doing genius. Okay.

3:55

So you're a top point one percent only fans

3:57

creator and your mom is a gynecologist,

3:59

so you know I have to ask you what are your vagina

4:01

tips for ugly girls. Oh,

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yeah. No. What did you guys just like?

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Ugly girl vagina help. Smelly

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worst thing ever. Hi, honey. Because

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there's Welcome. It's not

4:24

Welcome. fallout for me. Yeah.

4:27

Oh, nice. Now, you know

4:28

what it is. Okay.

4:29

We're fine. Everyone What I just

4:32

wanna make very clear to everyone that

4:34

the person with the best education in

4:36

this room is Stella. This

4:38

thousand percent. She went to NYU

4:40

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4:42

all look like dumbed up. It's it's it's one

4:44

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4:46

know. You're smart enough to have done anything

4:48

to be a doctor, to be a rocket

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scientist. And the fact that you chose

4:52

porn is blowing

4:54

my mind, like, also, like, matter

4:56

of fact Sorry about that. ever.

4:59

But I I think that's

5:01

why I picked born is because since I was a

5:03

kid, my parents have always told me I can do anything

5:06

I want, and I really always

5:08

believed that. And I always acted

5:10

on that too. Like, when I after I graduated

5:12

college, hadn't done any math or science all of

5:14

college, I told my college

5:17

counselor that I wanted go to med school, and I wanted to,

5:19

like, figure out how to do it. They're, like, honestly,

5:21

it's kinda too late. Like, you're

5:23

way behind other people, blah blah blah.

5:25

And then I went and spoke to my mom, and she was like, you could

5:27

literally go to med school at forty if you

5:29

were. Her mom's a doctor. You can't listen

5:31

to people that tell you have to follow a

5:33

certain path. Like, and she would always be like,

5:35

that's why they're a college counselor. Like, you

5:37

don't want to end up a college counselor. If you

5:39

want to end up a doctor, do what you'd

5:41

have to do to become a doctor. It's so, like, so

5:43

that was, like Yeah. I immediately started

5:45

at UCLA and did all that. And then

5:47

once I did the MCAT and decided, hey, this isn't what

5:49

I wanna do anymore, My parents also

5:51

taught me like don't be the dog that waits

5:53

by the food bowl that's not getting food

5:55

when it can smell the food in the other room. You know

5:57

what I mean? Mhmm. But it waits every day out of

5:59

have it because it's already it's already invested so much

6:01

time there. It doesn't wanna move. So they're always

6:03

like you gotta be smarter than that and move

6:05

when you know you have to move. and

6:08

that was what I did. And I literally looked

6:10

back and I'm so thankful because

6:12

it's like now I could go to med school anytime

6:14

I wanted I have a question in the future, I'm

6:16

sure, though. When, like, why did you learn and what?

6:18

Like, were you, like, just did you find yourself

6:20

being, like, a hypersexual, good at

6:22

it? What, like, peaked your interest? I got that.

6:24

He's been super sexual. Like,

6:26

I lost my virginity at thirteen,

6:28

and it was just pure curiosity. And

6:31

I remember telling my mom about it because we were

6:33

always really open about sex and we always have

6:35

been. And she was like, we're a very sexual

6:37

family. Like, we we all lost our virginity

6:39

young. All the women in family have like

6:41

on my mom's side have at least

6:43

two kids by eighteen. It's just

6:45

kind of what our family does. And

6:48

so it made a lot of sense to her. Like, I

6:50

never felt judged for it. And so I think

6:52

I was always really curious about sex. That's

6:54

how I like to get to know people. And

6:57

so then porn

6:59

I always liked porn and I always

7:01

thought that would be so thrilling to do.

7:03

but I never actually thought of it as a career

7:05

path for me because I was so, you know, as

7:07

as much as I wanted to do what I wanted to I also

7:09

wanted to make my parents proud and everything

7:12

else, and I didn't know much about that industry

7:14

either. Then I moved to LA, which

7:16

I think is how it happens like most people

7:18

and you get invited to sex parties. From

7:21

the girls in my future, I've never been

7:24

invited to a sex party, and it allows

7:26

girls in my organic chemistry

7:28

class. No. No. No. No. No. No.

7:31

No. I'm gonna tell you, I took a whole I

7:33

took a whole year of organic chemistry.

7:35

I was seven AM to one thousand people.

7:37

Where was my invite? With

7:40

with Marlon Jones in in

7:42

Long Beach, I was I never got invited

7:44

to one I was in an OACAM for an

7:46

entire fucking year. Now, I'm on second

7:48

party. Would that pity on the second out of you? I know.

7:50

Right. Really, like yeah. Really? I know. It

7:52

doesn't say no party. So

7:55

first of all, we should go together.

7:57

We should go. Okay.

7:59

First thing, everyone always thinks It's

8:01

an orgy. Like, everyone's always like, oh my

8:03

god. I don't know if I get, like, have sex with all

8:05

these people. I'm like, doesn't know what happens. The majority

8:07

of people there are watchers. Oh. But

8:09

he's like, yeah. I feel

8:12

like it's me. I like

8:14

your watcher. And and they're

8:16

different. Also, people think they're the same

8:18

as sex clubs, but it's totally different. So

8:20

these member sex parties in LA,

8:22

like everyone knows all these old people in

8:24

LA are total perverted. Right. Right. So

8:27

so the men We don't wanna talk about that

8:29

more. Yeah. Yeah. Can't wait all

8:31

the all the Hollywood directors that are

8:33

extremely curvy. So, of course, they're gonna have sex parties.

8:35

But they basically men pay a ton

8:37

of money for, like, five parties a year. Women

8:39

pay, like, twenty bucks to get in. But you have to be

8:41

a mover. Oh. It's just it's very easy for

8:44

women. And then so how,

8:46

how's? Exactly. But do I

8:48

get there? They charge me the old man.

8:50

Right? Yeah.

8:50

They're just simply off the game.

8:53

They're just doing it. like, a hundred

8:55

grand

8:55

a year. That's like a one. You

8:57

know how much the men pay? It's okay. So

8:59

one of them, I know it's like two hundred grand

9:01

a year membership fee. Oh.

9:03

Twenty dollars is nuzzy. Well,

9:05

I'll go find a husband's house.

9:08

I think if they bring

9:10

a woman to like, they get to bring women for free and stuff,

9:12

whereas then if you're just a woman going, it's like

9:14

twenty dollars. Mhmm. So cheaper. But then

9:16

the other one that I know, they just

9:18

recently changed their whole

9:20

thing. And now you have to apply to be a

9:22

member and, like, say what your kinks are and everything,

9:24

but I think they mostly let most

9:26

people in. Do they let Agozen. Why

9:29

did you look at it? It

9:32

was really disrespectful. I

9:34

think that they because I have been

9:36

I I wouldn't say I

9:39

think, honestly, in the sex world, like, everyone's

9:41

hot because everyone's really sexually hot. But I would say

9:43

some of the men are not hot. Okay. So

9:45

yeah. They let all goes in. Okay.

9:47

Good. I have a good, all. Uglyman are

9:49

my five. Yeah. My two.

9:51

So then they

9:53

have, like, five a year, maybe

9:55

six a year, and they always will text you,

9:57

like, the day of the location of the house, and it's

9:59

always a different house in the hills. And you

10:01

show up it's different. Some of them are themed and some of

10:03

them you have to wear, like, gowns and a mask and

10:05

a a man has to wear cap. Yeah.

10:08

Yeah. Exactly. And then other ones are really

10:10

kept up in seventies outfits or Oh.

10:12

Is that one I wanna go to? Yeah. That

10:14

was the first one I went to, and that one was

10:16

crazy. It was literally like 70s orgy. So

10:18

you show up to the party. Everyone stressed, like,

10:20

really well. Did you wear roller skin? And then

10:22

I didn't. This was my very first one, so I

10:24

had no idea what to expect. and there was bands

10:26

playing in all the rooms and it felt so

10:28

seventies and, like, the house was super seventies as

10:30

well. Like, truly boogie nights. Yeah. And, like, you couldn't

10:32

show up in cheap outfits. Like, you had

10:34

to look the heart. And then people were

10:36

just having a sex against the walls. They were

10:38

having sex with the bands up there.

10:40

And it was like and then and then all the

10:42

bedrooms too people are having Now these

10:44

people already know each other and you go with friends

10:46

because I don't wanna just randomly go up to someone. So

10:48

that's what people always think they think that all you're just

10:50

having sex strangers. Yeah. I thought too. But the

10:52

more I've gone to them, I realized that so

10:54

what they do in the beginning is, like,

10:56

they break the ice with performance

10:58

so they have porn girls performing. They have

11:00

couples performing that are, like, members and

11:02

stuff. And then usually,

11:05

like, I don't think that many

11:07

people, if any, have sex with

11:09

people they just met that night,

11:11

people always bring dates or

11:13

they're watching So they're either watchers, and the best is

11:15

to go with someone you wanna fuck, and you

11:17

wanna either vote for that. Dave. Like,

11:19

even Tyler, it'd be just like in a corner, like, what

11:21

is wrong with our No, Yeah. And

11:23

so then you can, like, walk after the performances.

11:26

People start moving into the rooms about, like, two AM

11:28

or something and you can just

11:30

start having sex on any of the beds,

11:32

anywhere in bathrooms, anything. And then you can also, like,

11:34

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11:36

them and Are you ever, like, stepping over

11:38

people humping to pee? You're, like, oh, hundreds

11:40

sometimes are they, like, pee over you? Or, like, you wanna go in

11:42

the bathroom and it's locked and you know people are

11:44

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11:46

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11:48

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11:50

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11:53

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11:53

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11:56

Yeah. I don't even know how to explain it, but I mean

11:58

it, like, from the bottom of my head. I feel it from the

12:00

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12:02

donut, like, her. I know.

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12:09

Oh. I've heard some things though. There's yeah. Let's

12:11

just say his dad's house would

12:13

sounded like quite a sex party. Well,

12:15

doesn't he comes from money. Right?

12:17

Yeah. It was just, like yeah. Like,

12:19

generations of -- Well, crazy

12:21

sex. -- old old money an

12:24

old man with money. Yeah. Like,

12:26

isn't it like a ninety nine point nine percent

12:28

chance they are pervert? I just think yeah.

12:30

I think I think it's

12:32

like money. Yeah. Power and money.

12:34

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16:36

I'm gonna because that's what she's thinking about before.

16:39

Are you coming out as a day? Is that

16:41

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16:43

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16:45

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16:47

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16:49

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16:51

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16:53

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16:55

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16:57

also know a lot of guys go

16:59

because they're really horny, but they're super

17:01

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17:03

a lot of men that are watching. So

17:05

all men that go in there already pay

17:07

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17:09

say for instance, I can't just

17:11

bring a date. there's one party that you can and

17:14

it's like fifteen hundred dollars. So

17:16

he already has to be a member. So

17:18

everybody's every single person that had to be approved

17:20

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17:22

a boyfriend, I would have him fly

17:24

as a member and then I could pay the

17:26

fifteen hundred dollar couples

17:28

ticket -- Right. -- and bring him along with me. Does he

17:30

have to, like, show his dick in the app? Yeah.

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many of those. We need more of these.

17:39

They definitely don't ask for noods, but

17:41

I know they ask, like, a full body picture

17:43

and a face. photo. But I don't think

17:45

they're turning Now, do you go in? Do you see

17:47

different, like, hair trends when you go in?

17:49

Like, where do you push? Yeah. Yeah. because

17:51

in porn, it's everything under the

17:53

sun. Yeah. There's just full bushes,

17:55

there's full new -- Yeah. --

17:57

dazzled, there's everything. Yeah.

17:59

I like bedazzled. And it's a lot. It's

18:01

a I didn't know because so many porn

18:04

people, even though the first time I went to a sex

18:06

party, I met. Like, I was talking to

18:08

all the porn stars that were performing, and that's why

18:10

I really started thinking, oh my god, I could like

18:12

like I started seeing into the

18:14

world of porn, which is such a

18:16

kind of an underworld, honestly, of

18:19

the normal world. And no one knows what

18:21

goes on in the sex

18:23

communities at all unless you're in it. So I

18:25

started learning about it. I was like, oh my god, these

18:27

people have really nice lives. They're

18:29

similar to me. Like, for the first time in my life,

18:31

I'm meeting people who sex is a

18:33

hobby too, and it's something a passion, and it's

18:35

something they wanna get better at, and it's something they

18:37

wanna learn more about. Mhmm. And

18:39

also, they're making a ton of money They

18:41

have good relationships with people who are just like them. They live

18:43

in nice neighborhoods. Their kids go to nice schools.

18:45

I was like, I didn't know they were just among

18:48

us. You know? And so then I

18:50

started learning that and it became so much more normalized to

18:52

me and I was like, I can do this. Then,

18:54

of course, I did my research And at

18:56

the same time, at beginning of COVID, only fans was

18:59

blowing up. And I was like, oh,

19:01

shit. Like, I'm only this young for

19:03

so long. And

19:05

at the same time, I was already having anal

19:07

every day, and I was I had a secret TikTok

19:09

account where I was venting about all the anal I was

19:11

having all this stuff I was learning. And I was like,

19:13

praying no one found it before I could go to

19:15

med school. And then it

19:17

was just like this it was coping mechanism

19:20

for sure. It was like, I had to I had to vent

19:22

or, like, release something. It was an outlet for

19:24

you. It really was an outlet for all that I have a

19:26

question. What are your plans?

19:28

What are the chances that some mid thirty

19:31

women? You can

19:34

still mid

19:37

thirty, pushing forty women.

19:39

Mhmm. Really, really,

19:42

you know, see a career in only

19:44

fans. Like, could we soar. Yeah. Or have

19:46

we missed the ship? Have we missed the boat? I

19:48

mean, I think that to have a

19:50

long term career, it's it's

19:52

easy. It's best for girls

19:54

when they start at eighteen and literally

19:56

just like make it as long as

19:58

possible. But also and I wish

19:59

I could have started at eighteen, but I couldn't know. Like,

20:02

I was not ready. So while

20:04

that is the best because you can make the most

20:06

money, you can literally enter at any time.

20:08

Like, meals are just as big

20:11

as like,

20:13

cute young girls. Like, milfs are huge.

20:15

They make so much money, and so many women

20:17

blow up as milfs. Like, do you guys

20:19

know who Angela White is? Angela White

20:22

has been important for, like, I think,

20:24

eleven years. Mhmm. And she's I think

20:26

she's, like, thirty seven, thirty eight, like,

20:28

see her. giant titties so hot.

20:30

Hi, silverhorny. Milk category,

20:32

you have to have big tits because my

20:34

a girl, like, she got into

20:36

the milk category, but then she got right

20:38

after she got the implants. So is that, like,

20:40

a prerequisite? I don't think it's a

20:43

prerequisite because because I'm out, like, little kids.

20:45

I think only thing is to be horny,

20:47

honestly. Like, it's just having

20:49

this natural horny vibe that you

20:51

can feel. Yeah. And some guys like big fake

20:53

titties, other guys just like natural

20:55

bodies. Of course, if you have big natural titties,

20:57

it's like a million followers overnight --

20:59

Yeah. -- a medium. Yeah. There is

21:01

nothing better than big

21:04

cities. And, like, they're they're so

21:06

rare. You know? So Angela

21:08

White is a perfect example though. In the

21:10

last year, she has blown up to be, right now,

21:12

maybe the highest paid porn star, like mainstream porn

21:15

star, and also probably making bank on

21:17

her only fans. And And

21:20

those are real tits. And she's been doing yeah.

21:22

They're real. She's amazing. But she's been doing

21:25

porn forever, and it was she was never very

21:27

big. You know, like, never like a million girl, and

21:29

now she is, like, the big are amazing. Do you have

21:31

advice if there was, like, a young

21:33

lady out there who was gonna start and

21:35

only fans? Like, do you have, like,

21:37

pro tips that, like, things you wish you

21:39

knew or obviously, it's probably, like,

21:41

anything else you learn as you do it. Yeah. But

21:43

if there's any I

21:45

would say I mean, I've really

21:47

just taught myself as I've gone

21:49

along, but the main thing is to

21:51

don't don't think you need someone else. I think

21:53

if I had entered the industry eighteen,

21:55

I would've thought everyone else knows how to make a successful business. I have no

21:57

clue what the fuck I'm doing. But after

22:00

graduating college, I realized, oh my god,

22:02

I'm one of the smarter people in the world. Like,

22:04

I'm capable of running a

22:06

business it's not that hard. And so now when I get scammers

22:08

every single day in my DM's like, I can help you

22:10

make more money. I'm like, you honestly can't.

22:13

Like, it's they steal your money,

22:15

agencies, and, like, girls can do it

22:17

on their own. They can hire

22:19

people if they need to, and they can

22:21

make a business buy them don't

22:23

need to, like, give away twenty or fifty

22:25

percent to a manager or an

22:27

agent or an you're like the

22:29

Anders Scholes of It's like There's

22:31

so many yeah. There's just so many

22:34

parallels to comedy. Like, do you lack on

22:36

your, like, your

22:37

first videos, like, Oh, man.

22:39

Oh, like an open mind. I know whom I

22:41

should never have posted

22:42

this. I had to have so many

22:45

flops to have, like, my few

22:47

viral moments. that's what people will look at me now, like some of my

22:49

friends or girls in the industry. They're like, oh, you just

22:51

got lucky though. Like, you're just naturally good at this.

22:53

I'm like, honestly, I have

22:55

never felt good at

22:56

this. Like, I have never felt, like, I knew I was

22:59

sexual, but I had to make a

23:01

huge mockery of myself and and and

23:03

actually enjoy doing it and learn

23:05

how to just embrace all my flops,

23:07

which I think is probably the same as comedy. because then

23:09

you get thrown in fucking going on. Yeah. It's

23:11

like you robbed so many times or like it doesn't

23:13

even hurt that. Or then kinda breakthrough that.

23:15

Exactly. If you think you've made a mockery of

23:17

your life. Exactly.

23:20

tester and my last

23:22

factory

23:22

video. You

23:24

have to have that. unleashed.

23:26

You have to have that. You

23:28

have to have first of all, you have to write the come

23:30

up everybody, like, wants to start at

23:32

the top, but you don't gain a loyal

23:35

following if you don't have a come up story from the

23:37

literal bottom. I knew

23:39

that too. Did you choose to do like, was

23:41

it, like, part of your game plan to do more, like,

23:43

taboo porn, or was it

23:45

more, like, a natural I

23:47

think it was, like, the

23:49

only I think to be successful at something

23:51

you have to enjoy doing it -- Mhmm. -- because

23:53

it's gonna be especially creating

23:55

your own business, like every single day all

23:57

day long, you have to do this stuff. And I couldn't

23:59

have made TikToks every single day for

24:01

the last three years or two and

24:03

a half years about anal if I didn't act

24:05

actually do it every day and, like, love it.

24:08

Same with only fans. I I

24:10

didn't I knew I wouldn't be successful if I

24:12

was playing a character or, like,

24:14

trapped in a character that couldn't evolve, so I just

24:16

had to be myself. And even before

24:18

I decided to do porn, I was already

24:20

doing those anal TikTok

24:22

videos -- Right. -- and then it started blowing up and then people were like, do

24:24

you have only fans? And so

24:26

it just became my brand.

24:29

And I was already doing anal every day for a year

24:31

before I even started and only fans.

24:33

And then in the beginning, I was just

24:35

like posting little a bikini

24:37

pictures and then started doing butthole pictures and then I slowly,

24:40

like, ramped up. But the whole time, it was

24:42

always about me loving anal

24:44

because that's my natural niche.

24:46

Like, I don't have big ditties. I don't

24:49

have I don't have like any

24:52

niche when you look at me other than

24:54

maybe like natural American girl

24:56

next door. So anal just

24:58

became my niche because You're the national

25:00

you're the girl back door.

25:03

Yeah. Exactly.

25:05

Go back to her. I should that should be

25:07

a podcast name or something. Yeah. Whoa. Okay.

25:10

So when you

25:11

are you in a relationship?

25:12

I am. And then when

25:14

like, have you ever, like, started dating someone

25:16

and they're, like, do you, like, save anal? Is

25:18

anal for work? Is anal for

25:21

pleasure is anal for everything.

25:23

So the

25:24

relationship I'm in now, it's an open relationship,

25:27

but he is the one who took my

25:29

anal virginity. Oh, okay. And

25:32

we had anal on the first date.

25:34

Okay. I love it. Yeah. In the back of

25:36

his car, Okay. And We're gonna call

25:38

it, like, the best Nissan Rogue.

25:40

Okay. A Rogue. Yeah. They

25:42

car? You know, on the

25:44

first day. Yeah. And he was also

25:46

homeless, so his car was his house. Oh,

25:49

wow. And it was honestly the best night

25:51

of my life. Like, it was so good because I

25:53

was always sexually explore

25:57

explorative. Yeah.

25:59

And I was already going to sex parties and stuff,

26:01

and I wanted somebody that was

26:03

more sexually experienced to teach me new

26:05

things and that was finally someone that I

26:07

was like, yes, finally. How did

26:09

he meet him? I was working at a

26:11

homeless shelter for veterans when I

26:14

was at UCLA.

26:16

Listen, homeless guys are hot. I fucked a homeless guy. I

26:18

got a great sex. I'm not even kidding. I got banged

26:20

out so hard by homeless guys. Crazy

26:23

guys. He was so good. He was

26:25

so homeless Julien. He did have a

26:27

day at homeless true. But I think that's what you

26:29

said about They're not true. Right? Was

26:31

that he at that time was choosing

26:33

to be homeless. Yeah. I

26:35

mean, as much as manic person she's doing. Right. Right.

26:37

Yeah. He was he was like working

26:39

as a waiter in South Carolina and

26:41

where he'd grown up whole life,

26:43

and he really wanted to be a poet. He wanted

26:45

to leave his hometown. And at

26:47

the same time, he's bipolar manic.

26:51

and he got super manic one day

26:53

and just left his whole life, drove across

26:55

the whole country in, like, two days,

26:57

ended up in LA, went to the VA, and was

26:59

like, hey, like, what do I do? and they

27:01

just sent him the to the homeless shelter I

27:03

worked at. And I checked him in and, like,

27:05

showed him his bed, didn't think anything of it. He

27:07

was young and pretty hot, but III

27:09

didn't think anything of it. And then six months go

27:11

by of us getting to know each other, and he's just,

27:13

like, the most genius, funny,

27:16

amazing person. Would you find her asshole kind

27:18

of, like, wedding up when you saw him?

27:20

No. Literally. Like, buttekegelin, baby.

27:22

I didn't know that my about

27:24

who wanted him, but it did. Was

27:28

so horny for him. Like, no one I've ever had

27:30

before probably because it was forbid in.

27:32

Yeah. And also, he was so

27:35

ruggedly hot. Like, he was one of the first men

27:37

I've ever actually just looked at and felt like

27:39

he's attracted Yeah. I was gonna know personalities

27:41

and stuff, but he was an ex marine,

27:44

super in shape, blonde and

27:46

blue eyes, also manic, so he's,

27:48

like, super funny, walks in every room, and,

27:50

like, tells stories. Was he, like,

27:52

really, and Mark? Yeah.

27:54

Exactly.

27:54

It frames our eyes, like,

27:56

eyes with blue eyes. You're like, yeah. And

27:58

he's wearing a fedora with a

27:59

with a feather in it. And I'm like, this man just

28:02

call it no social convention. You

28:04

ask him, how his day is. He's, like, living the dream. He's,

28:06

like, a pet goat. I feel like I

28:08

got this guy. No. But I wish he

28:10

home is Julie. I wish he did.

28:13

And I just like it was so

28:15

hot to me. I was like, I could be homeless with this man,

28:17

and I would be happy. Like, it was fine. Then,

28:19

of course, I started fucking

28:21

him. It was blast. And then he had

28:23

his first depressive episode went to the

28:25

site unit and I was like, oh, this

28:27

isn't all fun games all the time.

28:29

Yeah. Still the most genius person I've

28:31

ever met though, And he's

28:33

been with me throughout my whole like, we were

28:35

doing anal every single day because he's an anal

28:37

freak, so he really brought me into

28:39

it. For a whole year, before I

28:41

even started only fans. And then I

28:43

started fucking him for only bands and everything

28:45

too. I heard you say somewhere that the

28:47

if you wanna have the best sex of your life,

28:50

fuck a homeless homeland

28:53

veteran who has bipolar.

28:55

Yeah. Literally crazy.

28:59

Like, you you have to be crazy, a little bit of mental illness, right,

29:01

to be crazy in bed. Like, it's just Well, the term

29:03

-- Wow. -- whole her is in. She

29:05

literally took extremes. It's like in a You

29:07

have to be you have to be broke. Like, broke guys

29:10

just fuck better. They do. It's like you're gonna give

29:12

them a sandwich. I'm telling you, I can't really

29:14

know what you're saying. Literally. Well,

29:16

one at it's because they're buying all they have to

29:18

offer to women. Right? Like, they're not paying for

29:20

shit. They're not doing anything else. So, like, I'm gonna dig

29:22

you down and you're gonna fall in

29:24

love. And also, I

29:26

think it's like a coping mechanism. Like

29:28

or maybe it's just that guys who

29:30

are super horny are broke. don't know. Yeah. Maybe

29:32

that's what they can't focus on

29:34

making money. Exactly. That's, like, eighty

29:37

hours. They can't go, like,

29:39

nine, like, houring every girl's

29:41

butthole, and they just can't really work

29:43

because of that. Yeah. They're

29:45

they're flatter and also older.

29:47

older. So he is ten years older

29:49

than me. Mhmm. Older guys know

29:51

how to fuck like they just do. I I fucked

29:53

a few younger guys in the last

29:56

few years. and they

29:58

they can't even stay hard. Well, how old is it? Because

30:00

they're nervous and intimidated by me

30:02

and stuff. Whereas older guys, they're just like, they

30:04

know what to do. I have theory that

30:06

men should have to stay versions until

30:08

they're thirty because they're wasting our We

30:10

would have literal war. Like,

30:14

every school will get thought

30:16

up. For real.

30:18

For real, men nodding is, like, the

30:20

only thing that keeps peace in the world. And,

30:22

like, if you make a man nodding, like, when

30:24

when Drew was was getting, like,

30:27

manic or depressed. I would just give him blow

30:29

jobs every single morning, and he'd be so

30:31

happy. But they're very nice. Whereas

30:33

otherwise, they're really guys get really

30:35

aggressive if they're not nothing. You're

30:37

right, but that's the hell with your theory.

30:39

Yeah. Yeah. That woman's men under their thirties is

30:41

so bad. Like, we just keep paying with me.

30:43

always. I know that's all. No. That's all. That's all.

30:46

always. He's very sensitive. Well, because

30:48

this is I think I went from old to

30:50

young, and I was so grateful. This is what

30:52

happens with men. When

30:53

they're young, the milks fuck them.

30:55

And the milks

30:56

teach them everything they know. Yeah. Right? You have

30:58

a And then when they get in their

31:00

thirties, they fuck the twenty year olds. Yeah.

31:02

But all these guys in their twenties, one, they

31:04

they're horny enough that they love to fuck, like,

31:06

forty, fifty six year old women. and

31:08

the forty, fifty six year old women love it

31:10

and teach them everything. And then when men are in

31:12

their thirties, they fuck the younger girls or the girls are

31:15

age. It's literally every guy that I've had

31:17

sex with that's happening. So when Dave

31:19

passes away, he's ten years

31:21

older than me, and he's not in the He will come out

31:23

and sleep apnea. We just find his

31:25

mask was taken off one night. I

31:27

need it's my job to have sex with,

31:30

like, young men and -- Yeah. -- teach them --

31:32

Exactly. -- to doctor Medallow, that's

31:34

what he has for women too. Like, Twenty

31:37

men in their twenties and women in their

31:39

twenties, fuck the

31:40

opposite sex or the same sex

31:42

in

31:42

their forties.

31:43

Right? Yeah. And then when

31:46

when women and men get in their thirties, they

31:48

kinda they start fucking each other, dating

31:50

each other. I've like ten years older when I was in my

31:52

twenties, which was good. Exactly. It was good because they it

31:54

felt like a Like, we were having lots of stars.

31:56

Like yeah. They were, like, taking and it was, like,

31:58

taking me on discursions. The the the milfs and

32:00

the delfs are, like, teaching the twenty year

32:02

olds how to fuck. Yeah. Yeah. I

32:05

think this is big. Sandy, this is

32:07

real. This is a thing. Every single man

32:09

I've ever met has fucked Milfs in his

32:11

twenties, and no girls know this,

32:13

I feel. But if you talk about it You're right. I I don't think

32:15

I've met a guy who hasn't been with a

32:17

woman in her forties when he was in his

32:19

Yeah. Yeah. Like, I I

32:21

can't think of this. women are horny for that

32:23

and they're divorced or something, you

32:25

know, need it. And

32:27

the young guys are like, yeah, this fucking hot.

32:29

Like like even Bobby Bobby when he

32:31

was in his twenties, he hooked up

32:33

with a woman in her late fifties and he

32:35

fucked her in the grandma

32:38

van where she had her grandkid's toys in

32:40

the background. Oh,

32:42

I thought you meant you, like, had, like, the stuff

32:44

animals in the, like, You

32:46

know,

32:46

like, just the about this I'm

32:48

like, oh, boy. That's pretty

32:50

hard. She's cool. Especially

32:52

had,

32:52

like, the grandkids, like, like,

32:55

ticycle in the back and he

32:57

I guess she, like, went to one of his shows

32:59

and I guess Kevin Christie was like, dude,

33:01

she's pretty, like, She's a hot mill. He was

33:03

like, okay. And so

33:06

he went for it and he said it was so fun.

33:09

Yeah. Yeah. And I think he hooked up with her,

33:11

like, twice. think have been Chris, Steve. I know,

33:13

like, why was he? I have

33:15

no idea. Kevin, this is, like, a yenta.

33:17

I don't know

33:20

who it was I think it was Kevin, Chris. you.

33:22

But I think that yeah. I

33:24

think you're right. It's an infallible theory,

33:26

I swear. Like, at least maybe successful men

33:28

are men that are good and bad. Fuck else.

33:30

And that's why also when girls are like, oh,

33:32

men only like girls that look like they're

33:35

twelve. It's like,

33:37

honestly, milth horn is freaking

33:39

huge, and every

33:42

guy I know loves older

33:43

women, wants to fuck older women, so

33:46

there's hope for us. Yeah. But I

33:48

think the ones that get in trouble, they're like the

33:50

the really troubled men are the ones that are

33:52

attracted to the young girls. Those are the ones that are Well, yeah.

33:54

There's always people on the front

33:56

lines. I'm in a good life. like --

33:58

Yeah. -- like, nothing's enough. No. The

33:59

oldest We're talking about the healthy, the

34:02

mentally. Okay. men right now. That's like a

34:04

whole genres, the oldest, for younger,

34:06

sir. Yeah. Yeah. I think everybody wants

34:08

the thing that is different than them. Yeah.

34:10

That's a good point. Yeah. You want

34:12

something different.

34:14

Alright,

34:14

guys. Yeah. Neutrophils working. I'm

34:16

so sorry. I am a skeptic and but

34:18

it is working.

34:19

It's my hair is thickening up. I've

34:21

had the thinnest hair forever. It's growing in. It's It

34:23

looks really good. I've known you for ten years. This is

34:25

the best your hair's ever looked. It

34:27

works and I don't know

34:29

what to say. The

34:31

proof is in the lack of extensions.

34:33

Also, the proof is in the fact that

34:35

they're not promising an

34:38

overnight fix. Oh, yeah.

34:40

Duh. I've

34:40

been taking neutrophil for years, you guys. And

34:42

there

34:42

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You

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said something on your

37:00

podcast with Sofia with an

37:02

f -- Mhmm. -- that really

37:04

blew my freaking mind. You

37:06

were talking about just the maternal in

37:08

stink development. And I always thought I was void of this

37:11

maternal maternal instinct because I never

37:13

really wanted to have

37:16

children but you were saying that

37:18

in itself is a maternal instinct

37:20

to kind of

37:23

not rush into bringing

37:26

a

37:26

child into the world that you're not sure about. Yeah.

37:28

To, like, know what's best for your

37:30

child. If that even means not bringing

37:33

them in ever, your environment or because you don't

37:36

feel like it will be right. You know? Like,

37:38

that's why women don't have kids. They don't feel like they'll be

37:40

a good

37:42

mom. They don't feel like their life is conducive to it. They don't feel like they want

37:44

it. That's all I think that's always

37:46

maternal. That's my first security. came

37:48

up with it, like, over years

37:51

of watching nature documentaries about

37:54

animals, and I've always thought that, especially

37:56

when I got my abortion. That

37:58

was something I was thinking about.

37:59

Older you? I was seventeen. Mhmm. And in

38:02

my first year of college,

38:04

and I remember just

38:06

I I was so sure And

38:09

my mom being a doctor too who's performed abortions,

38:12

like, I always knew they weren't

38:14

bad. Like, they weren't it it

38:16

was a smart thing

38:18

to do. at least that's how my mom phrased it to me felt it

38:20

was right. Like, she had two abortions before she

38:22

had me and then my brother. And so I

38:24

was always taught as like, I

38:27

I know I wanna have kids in the future, but I

38:29

know it's seventeen right now with this guy,

38:31

like this is not the time for

38:33

my children. And especially after

38:36

I had the abortion, I had this just I could couldn't

38:38

process how I felt for months.

38:41

Right. And I

38:44

I felt so different and my whole life changed in terms of like what

38:46

I prioritize. And it was some

38:48

kind of weird feeling

38:50

about want realizing I don't wanna be

38:52

this person when I do of a kid. And

38:54

the woman I wanna be when I do have a child

38:56

and kind of becoming that. So it

38:58

was like a wake up call to me a little

39:00

bit. And so ever since then, I've always kind

39:02

of thought that. And

39:04

I think that's really because it's

39:06

like recently. You feel a lot of

39:08

times I've felt less of a woman because

39:10

I've not had

39:12

this, like, you know,

39:12

deep burning feeling to, like, bring

39:15

my spawn onto the earth. Right?

39:17

I've had, you know, abortions when because

39:19

I didn't think

39:20

it was the correct time for my body

39:22

-- Yeah. -- or for my relationship at that time,

39:24

but I always thought I was a little bit less

39:26

or I lacked that instinct. When in

39:29

reality, I might That is an instinct. That is still

39:31

a very much a coincidence. And it's like

39:34

something our, you know, our thoughts

39:36

don't don't just

39:38

exist for no reason. All the

39:40

thoughts that we have in our decision making

39:42

skills and how our brain is

39:44

wired is based on survival and, you know, the

39:46

survival of our children. And if our children

39:48

survived, more of those traits, you

39:50

know, are

39:52

passed down. So there's a reason that you're thinking these things. And don't think

39:54

people realize that, is that it's all

39:56

an instinct. And when you're

39:58

watching,

39:59

Lion mothers, keep their

40:02

babies away from society for, like, three

40:04

weeks or three months until they feel

40:06

that it's time and safe enough for

40:08

them to be introduced into their community

40:10

and society. I feel like

40:12

women can do or do the

40:14

same thing. Maybe even since

40:16

we have even more

40:18

consciousness, I guess, you could say, or conscious

40:20

decision making power, we can do that

40:22

before we even get pregnant.

40:23

Right? In terms of like timing, when is

40:26

right for our children to enter into society?

40:28

Because it's always a math equation in my head.

40:30

Right? It's like, how how are my genetics gonna unfold

40:32

here? You know, there's a lot of addiction and

40:34

mental illness and and people don't think that that's

40:36

an instinctual

40:38

kind of thing, but I've always felt more horrible for not for

40:40

basically calculating these things. Because

40:42

if a man wants to have a child

40:46

with automatically, you should be like, yes, but it's like all of these

40:48

things that I have considered over time

40:50

has made me feel pretty shitty

40:53

for not just bringing life onto this earth. Yeah. So thank

40:56

you for saying that in itself is

40:58

something that is

40:59

totally mature. It's hopeless. I wanna do it right,

41:01

and that's why I've been trepitacious my whole life. And like,

41:04

what more can we trust than the

41:06

maternal instinct? Like, that is something that has

41:08

literally kept

41:10

humanity and all other animals, you know, alive and

41:13

functioning. And it's like one of

41:15

the best guiding forces on

41:18

where

41:18

society should go. And then we're just gonna,

41:20

like, shit on it, and the government's gonna be, like,

41:22

oh, you just have to have one if

41:25

you you just have to ignore all your freaking thoughts and just

41:27

have one. Yeah. Like, if you get pregnant.

41:29

That just makes no sense to me when

41:31

the maternal instinct is such

41:34

a asset. to

41:36

survival and evolution. Yeah.

41:39

So, yeah, I I'm glad that

41:41

you that you saw it. Thank you. I

41:43

found a lot of relief

41:44

I think a lot think applies lot things I think in

41:47

terms of just listening to yourself

41:49

and learning to listen

41:50

your voice trusting that instinct

41:52

and figuring out why you're thinking these things

41:54

because I don't think that we, you

41:57

know, have thoughts for no

41:59

reason. I think it's all for a reason. Right. I don't think

41:59

she's the smartest in the room. I think she might

42:02

be the most emotional intelligence

42:04

as well. healthy.

42:07

Those are really flattering me. I do feel like

42:09

when I was in my early thirties, I did not wanna

42:11

have kids. Like, I was like, I don't wanna have kids

42:13

and focus in my career and when I realized, I

42:15

got into a relationship where a lot of, like, my stuff

42:18

came up. Mhmm. And I

42:20

was so angry. And I just remember thinking, like, if

42:22

I don't deal with this anger, like, that's why I can't be a mother.

42:24

Like, it's like it's like I'm gonna, like, take this

42:26

out

42:26

of my kid and it's just not worth it. Right.

42:28

For me to take, like, my dad

42:30

dad used to tune me and do that. And then so then I worked myself and I froze those

42:32

bitches and we'll see you later, but

42:35

it is like it was I

42:37

realized like my being like,

42:40

don't wanna be a mom, wasn't necessarily as like, I

42:42

was so shy. Remember, older women would

42:44

be like, you'll change your mind. And I would get so mad

42:46

because I was like, you don't know how I'm gonna change my mind.

42:48

And I don't think every

42:50

she woman decides, but

42:51

I do think it was that same sort of thing you were saying. But you're

42:53

right, Annie. Like, I'm I'm changing

42:55

my mind. Like, every

42:58

day that passes, I'm feeling more

43:00

and more, like, oh, I can do this. Yeah.

43:02

Even alone. Yeah. I can

43:04

do this. I always used to never feel like I could do it even with an entire

43:06

community behind me. That's how unready

43:08

I was. Mhmm. But now it's like I'm

43:10

getting to that point where I was like I could do this alone and

43:12

I feel strong

43:14

in that. Like, I trust who I

43:16

am. I trust, you know, in my skills to parent, to love someone, to share

43:18

my life with this growing thing.

43:22

So and I didn't feel that way years ago. The thing

43:24

I relate to that you said about after

43:26

your abortion, you realized that

43:30

you weren't the person

43:30

you wanted to be as a mom. So for me, last year I

43:33

had a miscarriage and I had that

43:35

same thing I was like, wait,

43:37

I'm so grateful this happened because I

43:40

wasn't ready. Yeah. And

43:42

now I feel like, okay,

43:44

I need to become the person I wanna be so that I will feel

43:46

ready to come point. And so it's really

43:48

that, like, changed my whole perspective

43:52

on My whole life is literally transformative and that's what I was

43:54

processing for so long as why do

43:56

I feel different? And I

43:58

realized that's the

43:59

first time I

43:59

felt my real instinct.

44:02

Like, I really felt it and I acted on

44:04

it, and then I realized, wow, this

44:06

is kind

44:07

what of

44:08

motherhood what motherhood is about,

44:10

like, I'm now realizing what I wanna be as

44:12

a mom and I'm gonna take those steps to

44:14

get there. There's something about becoming pregnant

44:17

that I just you're

44:19

like, you just see your body.

44:22

It's so different. I literally thought I was an

44:24

alien. Like, I was looking at myself like, I

44:26

always fuck is

44:28

so pretty. were you? Oh my god. For six

44:30

weeks, I was the prettiest I'd

44:32

ever felt. So I have some, like, heart

44:34

issues and some weird

44:36

autoimmune stuff. all of those went

44:38

away. My skin was flawless. I was

44:40

tired a lot. But I was like, should I just keep

44:42

going? because I'm fucking stunning. Right? You just

44:44

become a surrogate. you're just always

44:46

pregnant because you're just like, I just feel

44:48

best. That's the offer

44:50

stats. I mean, I

44:52

was mad. sick. Like, I was crazy. So

44:54

I like, it was the day

44:56

after four weeks from

44:58

conception. So, like, literally the

44:59

first day of my,

45:02

like, missed period. I was, like, basically, one

45:03

day pregnant. You know? I hate that. Yeah. When they

45:05

do the DNC, they're just going there blindly. Like, I

45:07

hope we get all of this. There was they

45:10

can't see it. They couldn't see one thing. They've had around

45:12

the time. Yeah. But I was so ill.

45:14

Like, that's how I knew that I was pregnant because

45:16

I was I don't know how I knew

45:19

honestly, but I was in a cab on the way home from school, and I was like,

45:22

I'm gonna throw off outside of this car. Like, I had

45:24

never felt that kind of nausea before. I went home, I

45:26

had a old pregnancy test

45:28

from, like, early call,

45:30

like, the first week of college from my roommate.

45:32

I thought it was probably

45:34

expired. And I used it, and I was like, oh my

45:36

god. I'm pregnant. Book the abortion for eight AM the

45:38

next morning. And in the next morning The next morning, I was I didn't tell

45:40

anyone. I was so deathly

45:42

ill. The whole it

45:44

was

45:44

torture.

45:45

the whole time I was waiting in the waiting room at planned parenthood,

45:47

I was like, I'm gonna throw up in the trash can. I am going

45:49

to throw up in the trash can. It's gonna be

45:51

so fucking embarrassing. Like, I've never felt

45:53

sicker in my life. It was so bad. And it didn't go Imagine they

45:55

did, like, judge you.

45:56

They're like, it would just puke again. And

45:59

I was I think I'm gonna throw up in the lady. It was like,

46:02

it's too late right now to give you

46:04

medicine to, like, make you not nauseous

46:06

because we have to take you in. But she was like, you

46:08

won't be the

46:10

first person thrown up on the table. She's like, it's not gonna come out that way. We

46:12

self And then, of course, I realized, like, you

46:14

don't even feel the nausea when you're just well, because I

46:16

was alone. I didn't tell anybody, so I didn't even

46:18

have anesthesia

46:20

anything. So I just had local numbing, like, cream care. been

46:24

there. You can't really feel fear in that moment,

46:26

and there's only one option. Yeah. And you

46:28

feel so

46:30

sick anyway. So I was just, like, laying there just had to I've I've always

46:32

been kind of tough like that though. I was, like, I'm

46:34

not gonna die. So It was so

46:36

painful for me because

46:38

I opted Oh, you passed out. I fully passed out. Okay. because so what

46:40

I did was I opted

46:42

for the raw dog Yeah.

46:44

Just the raw as well. Well,

46:47

I because they they can do

46:49

you under twilight sedation. Right? Well, you're

46:52

kind of in, you're kind of out, but you

46:54

don't generally feel the pain A very short procedure. It's like under five

46:56

minutes -- Yeah. -- with the actual vacuuming. Mhmm. But I

46:58

was like, oh, no problem. I can

47:00

do this Oh, my

47:02

fucking god. Right. Oh, my

47:04

fucking god. The pain of even

47:06

the minute and a half it took to actually Literally,

47:08

it's like a highlight. twilight. Yeah. In and

47:10

out. The it's twilight sedation. They give you, like, valley It's

47:12

a little You're not, like, full year. I don't

47:15

know, like, how romantic they But,

47:17

like, making you think about vampires And there's, like,

47:19

there's, like, five bars on the ceiling. Violet is so

47:21

They're, like, some vampires.

47:24

Yeah. They keep watching twice light

47:26

and all that's going on. They both fangs on you before you go out. I highly

47:29

recommend you get yourself a colonoscopy and

47:31

see how it feels. Oh, yeah.

47:35

Like, I'm addicted to healing. Well,

47:37

that's what Michael Jackson was hooked

47:39

on was one of the

47:41

drugs that they give you when you go

47:43

under for colonoscopy. It's a very short

47:45

acting. I'm still hooked on my wisdom teeth laughing gas. I

47:48

enjoyed that a lot. I've never had

47:50

any anything

47:52

like that. Like, I've never had

47:54

any anesthesia, anesthesia,

47:56

anything. because I've never had, like,

47:58

a surgery. Like, this was,

47:59

like, general anesthesia. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I've never even

48:02

taken, like, valium or anything -- Yeah. -- to give you fur procedures.

48:04

Do you think that having

48:06

that abortion at such a young age,

48:10

like, changed

48:11

the course of your life in like a

48:13

big way, a small way?

48:16

Probably a big way. Wow. Or the better

48:18

for sure. Just because one, I realized, okay,

48:20

I can't fuck around with birth control anymore. Like,

48:22

I need to make sure I'm on the check.

48:24

because one, I was taking a short break

48:27

between pills because I can't take birth control pills. They all just make

48:29

me sick. Yeah. And so I was taking, like, a month

48:31

break before I tried a new one, and I was

48:33

also on my period having shower

48:35

sex with my college boyfriend, then that's

48:37

what I got pregnant from. On your period?

48:39

Yeah. I have period sex. That's what

48:41

I Yeah. constantly have. That's

48:44

the only I'm very comfortable. I'm so scared. He's getting pregnant.

48:46

Yes. Yeah. I got

48:48

pregnant from girl.

48:50

So I was like, okay. One This when he became anal. Is this how it changed your life, he

48:52

became anal girl? I was a lot easier.

48:55

started anal then, honestly. because

48:57

then still the rest to

48:59

college, I had yeast infections,

49:02

UTIs, and BV, like, every

49:04

single -- Yeah. -- my handsets. I'm a

49:06

girl. I'm a chronic Yigli. Oh,

49:08

my god. Yes. That's always a cycle too. It goes from to Yeezy.

49:10

That's always just a chronic fucking net branding

49:12

cycle. BB is just the rough one because you

49:14

can't hide it. Yeah. It just smells so

49:18

Oh, no. You know is girl at spin

49:20

class that I go to who I

49:22

kind of admire her, but hate

49:25

when I sit next her.

49:27

She clearly has b b. It's a very

49:29

distinct smell. I know it. I know it too.

49:31

And sitting there and you smell it's almost

49:33

a creamy fish. There's like Right. No.

49:36

No. No. No. crazy about this.

49:38

I was sitting at a hotel the other day, and I had

49:40

room service next to me, and I have a caesar salad

49:42

with anchovies on it sitting there. Oh, because I'm

49:44

sitting there watching TV. not eating anymore.

49:46

And I'm, like, oh my god. Do I have BV? And

49:48

I'm, like, going down and I'm, like, I'm touching my foot

49:50

seat and I'm, like, selling, I'm, like, where the fuck's that coming from? And

49:52

I thought it was me and then I look over and it's the salad.

49:54

I was like, oh, it's it's exactly it.

49:56

The Caesar salad. But I think that I

49:58

kinda so this girl,

50:00

it's been flat. She clearly has chronic

50:02

b b. It's not something that's a one and done. She's not able to tell her. Are

50:04

you gonna But I think she knows how people don't

50:06

wanna tell. That's though. Some people wanted

50:09

to she doesn't wanna take the meds. She's probably Let's see.

50:11

And she has the was it

50:14

boric acid? Oh, gosh.

50:16

But I think she's one of those girls that kind

50:18

of just owns it knows it's something that

50:20

she's that's chronic shit that she has to deal with, but

50:22

she doesn't stop her life for it. And

50:24

I really fucking respect it because

50:26

it's like, Who cares at that point? She's living with

50:28

BV? Maybe she wants a little fire. Yeah.

50:30

In life. Maybe she wants a little space. And

50:32

she knows there's gonna be a little bit of an area

50:34

around her.

50:36

She just got a bubble. Literally, she's got a bubble. She's got her own bubble.

50:38

Yeah. That's a good point. It is

50:40

like an exercise in people, like, getting

50:43

over people pleasing. If you're just watching

50:45

out everywhere you go, literally, just

50:47

let it happen. because it is just

50:49

whatever. But, ketamine, just get b b.

50:51

You're baking. You gotta You gotta

50:53

BB infusions. We're gonna insert BB and Dear Pluses. BB is a

50:55

fucking worse, but it is easily fixable, at

50:58

least I think.

51:00

Although I technically have, like, chronic BV where every

51:02

time or every other time, like,

51:04

I goes inside my pussy, I

51:06

get BV.

51:08

Like, it just I I need uncut. You know -- Like,

51:10

that's -- busy central. Like, I think

51:12

that's not talked about enough is when you

51:14

have a miss mismatch of, like, a

51:16

floor, your floor with a guy. And there are partners that I've had.

51:19

Every single time, it was one of

51:21

the three, either UTI East

51:24

or something, you know, like a

51:26

bacterial infection. And there are

51:28

partners where it's just our codes just match, and

51:30

I've never never ever gotten --

51:32

Right. -- like any type

51:34

of dajings. Do

51:34

you think it's the codes match or just that they shower appropriately? I think it's a

51:36

codes match. Yeah. It is because it's even like,

51:38

people a lot of times think that these

51:41

infections or BV happen because someone's like dirty.

51:44

Yeah. But it's really or even

51:46

UTIs. But it's really just

51:48

like you have very

51:50

sensitive back terior in your your vaginal flora

51:52

is just so easily

51:54

offset. And with just someone foreign going in there

51:56

with their own flora of their, you

51:58

know, genitals,

52:00

which can't it isn't bad, it just it. Which, like,

52:03

even if I even if I were

52:05

to wear non cotton

52:06

panties for an

52:08

hour,

52:08

hour It's over

52:09

for -- Wow. -- yeah. It just offsets your

52:11

p a Yeah. Absolutely. women are, like,

52:14

literally, our bodies just want us to get

52:16

pregnant the first time we have sex. and never have

52:18

sex again. It's like, we're not gonna have,

52:20

like, they're breaking down. So just

52:22

even though I want it so bad. Well, I

52:24

was thinking that today because I'm on my period

52:26

and It's obviously hell. And I'm like, do we get periods so that we'll

52:28

get pregnant? because I'm like, I want this to stop.

52:30

Do you wanna know the craziest of the years? be

52:32

a nurse. You know the the craziest theory?

52:36

that

52:36

my brother learned in one of his NYU classes. The

52:38

the main theory

52:40

of why women PMS

52:43

and why they get periods or why they PMS before their

52:46

period. Right? And they get really

52:48

moody. All these other

52:49

issues is

52:51

to cause animosity in a couple that's

52:54

unfertile, so it's to break up in fertile

52:56

pair bonds. So if

52:58

you're not My parents were

53:00

not It's me together. Yeah. Because,

53:02

like, I remember my dad, like, banging on

53:04

the table and it's like, this has

53:06

to stop because my m

53:07

s was so because we're gonna let's go to a doctor. See,

53:09

that's literally what nature intended. It's

53:11

because,

53:11

like, if okay. Say

53:13

the the man is

53:15

infertile or the woman's infertile.

53:18

It's gonna cause animosity every

53:20

month that they're fighting and she's

53:22

not pregnant. because she's getting PMS over and over and causing animosity so they

53:24

break up and go find people that they can be

53:26

fertile with. And so it basically forces

53:28

you to go away

53:30

from people and break up bonds with people that you can't get pregnant with.

53:32

because what are yeah. You shouldn't because

53:34

in nature, you're not gonna put up

53:36

with that monthly, you know,

53:40

warfare. Yeah. If if if if the person you're

53:42

that's across you isn't going to produce offspring.

53:46

Exactly.

53:46

And it's like if they are producing

53:48

offspring ring all the time. They're not

53:50

having that monthly warfare. Right. And that

53:52

is a Menopause to just make men find

53:54

younger women. They're gonna have to I

53:56

honestly think, like, we just weren't plant we we

53:59

you know, our bodies

53:59

start dying. Like, we just weren't supposed to live a

54:02

song. Mine's been dead, girl. Yeah.

54:04

I'm dead today. where it

54:06

says, like, on the old, like, witches to, like, you know,

54:08

raise the younger women. Yeah.

54:10

Not have babies anymore. Oh, yeah. Because that probably is

54:12

it. It's like, oh, you have higher chances you babies

54:14

with issues. So it's, like, pushed them

54:16

out of way. And that woman in men's

54:18

house is, like, divorcing their husband. Okay.

54:21

doctor Wong. They changed it

54:23

at all, and now we can all freeze them

54:25

up. because older women are I mean, I would

54:27

say they're the best moms because,

54:30

like, the women in my family who have kids eighteen and then

54:32

the like, my mom who had me at

54:34

thirty seven -- Mhmm. -- both

54:36

amazing moms. older

54:38

women, like, are amazing moms going on. Oh, your

54:40

mom taught you a lot of amazing things. Great.

54:42

Like, your mom taught you to, like, trust

54:44

yourself from what I'm getting. Maybe

54:46

I'm No. My mom is amazing. And

54:48

and for her, it was because she

54:50

waited to have her whole career -- Yeah.

54:52

-- and was financially stable. It's

54:54

when she loved and news, time to bring a kid in the

54:56

world. And so I've I had the most amazing childhood,

54:59

and so I always have known I wanna

55:01

do the same thing. I'm PM asking I'm like

55:03

about the cries. Yeah. about it. Oh, my PMS is so

55:05

bad. I literally am on Lexipro. I I

55:08

started Lexipro. And when in the beginning, I would

55:10

only take it the seven days

55:12

before my period because I was go I would go so

55:14

insane. Yeah. I have a premenstrual discovery.

55:16

Yeah. I just get so emotional. I

55:18

just get so, like, like, sensitive. I

55:20

get, like, nice. Oh, yeah. No. I'm I'm I'm

55:22

I'm accretive.

55:26

I would say ninety nine percent of men love sluts.

55:29

Like and I would say a hundred ninety

55:31

nine percent of women love sluts. So everyone's like I

55:33

love sluts. in my life. It's

55:36

like was a baby slot. Like, I can't even imagine another

55:38

like, the other option was to be

55:40

called a cocktail and screamed at by guys that way

55:42

too. It was like I never felt

55:46

like just accepted. Yeah. I'm

55:46

like, what's that? But now I it's like all about

55:48

accepting myself and not seeing those things, but it's

55:50

just like those comments have just been like hitting me recently

55:53

where I'm like, what

55:53

the hell is it? And

55:55

I don't know where it came up with this thing where it's, like,

55:57

it's either the comment is, like, women aren't funny.

55:59

Yeah. Or all women talk

56:01

about his sex on stage, and it's, like,

56:03

all guys talk about a sex on stage or whatever they talk about

56:06

or pairs. It's just, like, so weird. It's just, like, so weird.

56:08

But you know what's funny is, like, guys talk

56:10

about sex off age and a fucking

56:12

disco. So they don't wanna talk about it in public because they're

56:14

trying to fuck you. It's like a it'll

56:16

give away what they're trying to -- Oh. -- to the audience or

56:18

whatever. I think like a life changing thing for me

56:20

was when I realized that every single

56:22

man, whether he's an insult and he

56:24

hates women or like loves women.

56:26

Any every man

56:28

takes all his actions based off

56:30

women.

56:31

Like men are terrified of women and men dress

56:33

how they dress they

56:34

they change their personalities all

56:38

to deal with

56:40

this, like, fear and and yearning

56:42

for for women. Yeah.

56:44

And and so

56:45

it's like if men are hating on you, it's prob it's

56:48

it's it's because

56:49

they are like, they they want pussy and stuff

56:51

like that. And it drives men to some

56:53

crazy length. And I was thinking about it, but it was

56:55

so true. If they're

56:58

gonna a grid by, like, girls talking about sex. It's, like, they're probably thinking, like, you

57:00

fucked everyone but me. Like, you know, like, you brought

57:02

public them and there wasn't enough for me.

57:05

Yeah. You gave it to everyone in the class like me.

57:07

Women these days suck. And it's really because they

57:09

can't get women, so they're just sitting there like,

57:12

well, why? Let me just let me

57:14

just project on the town and say it's their fault. When, really, I

57:16

just wish someone would look at me lovingly and,

57:18

like, take my dick out. I

57:20

know just It's

57:22

so pathetic. Like, for my parents Any single

57:24

man, you honestly can get you can

57:26

get them to to break down that

57:29

wall. Like, you've been the craziest woman hater.

57:31

If you're just, like, you know Well, also, it's

57:33

like that thing you're loving. And how do you wanna love

57:35

your penis? I'm also just, like, is your mom really, like,

57:37

what's along with your mommy. Yeah. I could ask her, madam.

57:39

How do you feel? Like, literally

57:42

just just give them some attention,

57:44

some one on one time for a little while -- Mhmm. --

57:46

and every man will become nicer.

57:48

This is five men that need to not. Men

57:50

that are not nothing become -- need to not. -- filled

57:52

with hatred. You know what? I'm

57:54

gonna start a summer

57:56

program.

57:56

Dude's off.

57:58

I'm telling you. And he does a

57:59

perfect job. There's a shower. There's a

58:02

shower. This is at the end of

58:04

my relationship I always start doing the turbo jerk, where I just have to, like, I seen

58:06

blackfish and you know

58:07

how, like, telecom they had a jerk

58:09

off telecom, so it wouldn't kill the

58:11

people. Oh, wow. So I would just

58:13

I had this boyfriend who I just didn't like, I couldn't

58:16

face him. I couldn't even let him look at the back of

58:18

my head. I just couldn't do it anymore, but I

58:20

would just Wait.

58:20

He'd be in the shower, and I wouldn't even be looking at him. would do

58:22

give him the turbo jerk. And by me?

58:24

It would be, like, wet.

58:25

My arm would be, like, wet. You

58:28

were literally

58:28

fully your whole body

58:31

out of the relationship. Yeah. Hey. I feel like I gotta let you

58:33

And he was still, like, I'm just gonna ride this out

58:35

and see if you're fully like,

58:37

completely broke up So we had

58:39

to let him walk in on me crying a

58:42

day.

58:42

And I was like, alright. I gotta break

58:44

up with you. I've literally

58:45

had that experience like most of

58:47

my younger relationships. III wanted

58:49

to leave them and I was not courageous to leave. I know. And so I would

58:51

be like, I remember the first time I

58:54

ever had

58:56

to drink so I could physically stomach giving my boyfriend a blow

58:58

job. Oh, I will see that's where the car gets

59:00

started. I was like, I need to break up with him,

59:02

but we are on our one year anniversary. three

59:05

trip in Hawaii, and I can't break up with him

59:08

now, then I can't I literally would

59:10

have vomit if I even look at his feet because I'm

59:12

so not into him anymore. I

59:14

make to do it. I was at Disney

59:16

going, can you dump

59:18

a guy on his birthday

59:20

at Disneyland with his

59:21

mom. That's always where I was like, oh,

59:24

what am I

59:24

doing? because I just was like, I would never

59:26

be here in a million years. And anyone who

59:28

loved me would never take me with their family,

59:30

with no children to fucking Disneyland. Like, they

59:33

wouldn't know who I was as a person.

59:35

That's exactly how I felt on the Hawaii trip.

59:37

I was like, this is I hate

59:39

this. You guys have to ride this out because I can't do it now. But

59:41

that's when it gets so bad that you just do

59:43

it anyway. Like, literally, the day we got home from the

59:45

Hawaii trip, I broke up with them

59:47

and never spoke in. Mhmm. It's probably like

59:49

you with the Disneyland. And he's really fine. Yeah. I when I broke

59:51

up with the guy, and then he, like, cried

59:54

a lot. And I did feel guilty, but

59:56

I felt

59:58

so happy. It finally Oh, yeah. You feel so guilty, but then you're sore. But

1:00:00

it's, like, the guilt only lasts, like, one week and then

1:00:02

you're -- Yeah. -- merida. Yeah. And even if

1:00:05

you feel guilty. It's so worth it. It's more than having No.

1:00:07

Always. You shouldn't. It's like It's okay. Well,

1:00:09

one time I was gonna break up with him. We were on a

1:00:11

hike and we were but

1:00:13

like and he me in, like, the sun was setting me, like, pulled me out,

1:00:16

did stay, like, romantically, and it

1:00:18

was gone. It was gone. It just, like,

1:00:20

fell out of me when he

1:00:22

dipped me. And

1:00:22

I want I have no love for this person anymore. I don't

1:00:24

have to do. And and I like it was just crazy. It was instant. And

1:00:27

then but we were going up

1:00:29

the mountain, so I stayed

1:00:31

with him. But I've been going down the mountain. I would

1:00:33

have broken up with him, but I was like, we

1:00:35

still

1:00:35

gotta wait for you. Wow. So

1:00:37

that was that was a nick. I don't know.

1:00:39

When we get the calls nine years later, it it hits and

1:00:41

it's not and it's so pathetic. You're

1:00:44

like, god. They don't

1:00:46

even know. It wasn't

1:00:48

very small. It was, like, it just was,

1:00:50

like, you're not for

1:00:52

me -- Right. -- at all. My aunt

1:00:54

was we were going on hike in the Pacific

1:00:57

pallets. Like, one a very nice neighborhood.

1:00:59

Right? Well, home of Army Hammer's family.

1:01:01

Yeah. The crazy

1:01:04

old general gotta watch it get to he's this

1:01:06

cute hike, and we get, like,

1:01:08

a mile in and he's terrified

1:01:12

of nature. No. And he's, like, we need to turn around. Like, I'm so

1:01:14

scared. I don't like it. He's, like, freaky out

1:01:16

having something about a hack guy. And I was, like, we are

1:01:18

in the Palisades right now. And I was

1:01:20

just, like,

1:01:22

I I can't do this anymore. I was like, and then I was like, oh my god. The

1:01:24

white trip's in one month. What do I do?

1:01:26

I

1:01:26

had to stay for it because it's already

1:01:30

paid for.

1:01:30

I know there's so many things like that where you're like, you could get out of anything. Like,

1:01:32

especially, I I know you guys don't have any way.

1:01:34

I'd be like peace out. And I remember feeling like this

1:01:36

is like a divorce. Like, we're gonna have to like we

1:01:39

know each other's friends you can get the

1:01:41

fuck out of there. You can get out of anything. You'll

1:01:43

be fine. Exactly. It always is so

1:01:45

daunting. Even like my mom got divorced

1:01:47

from my dad. She's like, god, I

1:01:49

wish I did it twenty years earlier. Wow. Always feel like that. You're like, why did I

1:01:52

waste all that time? It only gets

1:01:54

more complicated. Yeah.

1:01:56

I have a question because you're a very

1:01:59

horny sexual girl and you're very

1:02:01

in touch with your sexuality and confidence.

1:02:03

Like, do you have for

1:02:06

women who maybe, like, don't feel sexy but want

1:02:08

to or, like, wanna get hornier? Any,

1:02:10

like, how to hype yourself up?

1:02:12

Any kind of things like that?

1:02:14

I would say, one, like, make sure you know how you orgasm. Like, that was the

1:02:16

biggest thing for me is, like, figuring out

1:02:19

how to make myself orgasm

1:02:22

and orgasm every single day. because that's something,

1:02:24

like, at least for me, I think probably a lot

1:02:26

of girls are like this too, like, in college, I

1:02:29

didn't have a vibrator once.

1:02:32

because I was like, oh, my boyfriend doesn't wanna buy toys,

1:02:34

and I don't really wanna, like, take the leap

1:02:36

and go to a sex shop. So I'll just, like, use

1:02:38

my shower head sometimes or use my

1:02:41

my toothbrush. And so only after I

1:02:43

broke up with him after college was, like, I should

1:02:45

get a vibrator. And then I started learning,

1:02:48

like, how to make myself orgasm

1:02:50

in forty minutes And then I started learning how

1:02:52

to make myself orgasm in ten minutes. And now

1:02:54

it's like, I can almost make myself orgasm

1:02:56

just mentally. Yeah. I was just gonna ask

1:02:58

Anyhow, because of all of that, like,

1:03:00

in colonial, fantasizing, and stuff while you're orgasming. I I have unlocked so

1:03:02

many of my fantasies and what

1:03:05

I find hot and what

1:03:07

makes me feel good. when

1:03:09

I think that's like having sexual literacy with

1:03:11

yourself or

1:03:11

understanding is so

1:03:14

helpful because then you start being confident in your

1:03:16

sexuality and

1:03:18

you're like, Oh, I know what's

1:03:20

hot. And I, like, know

1:03:20

how to channel my sexual energy when I'm with someone. Now,

1:03:23

how does that translate sexual literacy

1:03:25

when you've been with someone long

1:03:28

term. So I'm like a super long term relationship girl. I'm

1:03:31

always in long term relationships ever since

1:03:33

I literally lost my version b at thirteen. That

1:03:35

was like a long term

1:03:37

relationship even though we were children. We were,

1:03:40

like, both best friends, you

1:03:42

know, in sixth grade and

1:03:44

after. And I

1:03:46

think long term relationships and why I like sex so much is

1:03:48

because I am always having sex with people

1:03:51

I'm super comfortable with. So you

1:03:53

can get super kinky. you

1:03:55

can like teach them how to you you just

1:03:57

become more comfortable sharing your sexuality with somebody

1:03:59

else,

1:03:59

you know, when you're in like a

1:04:02

relationship with someone. I think it's a

1:04:04

lot harder to get in touch with yourself sexually with another

1:04:06

person when you're not in a long term

1:04:08

relationship. because it's like someone you don't

1:04:10

know. I've been re listening

1:04:12

to

1:04:13

Esther per Esterperrells meeting

1:04:15

in captivity. And

1:04:18

basically, you

1:04:18

know, she talks about people

1:04:20

who feel their sexual aliveness

1:04:24

when they are in this familiar safe space to kinda

1:04:26

just, like, you know, act out on all

1:04:28

their kinks because they're, like, this person I

1:04:31

trust

1:04:31

this person enough. but then

1:04:33

there's another half of us where that safety and

1:04:35

that

1:04:35

intimacy and that

1:04:38

love and love

1:04:40

takes away from our sexual aliveness. Mhmm.

1:04:42

And I think I'm one of those. I think it's unhealthy

1:04:44

ship though. I think Coila, I think that

1:04:46

is because we were fucking molest

1:04:49

And so we're, like, we're used

1:04:51

to using sex, like, when we fucked people. And

1:04:53

I'm I'm just saying we -- Yes. -- from what we,

1:04:55

like, have been talk discussed before,

1:04:57

but it's, like, we use sex to, like, get attention kind

1:04:59

of before. We used it. We were trying to, like, be

1:05:02

something for other people. I think it's

1:05:04

more that. Like, it was

1:05:06

more like putting it on than like I think

1:05:08

that what happens when you don't know them. In a

1:05:10

relationship is the beginning

1:05:12

that kind of otherness of someone

1:05:14

that uncertainty really brings out this,

1:05:16

like, sexual energy. You know, that is

1:05:19

I'm so I do everything

1:05:21

to harness that. I

1:05:23

cannot lose Mhmm. So I start introducing the idea

1:05:25

of long term relationship, of love, of

1:05:28

us being long term partners because I don't

1:05:30

wanna lose this brand new life.

1:05:32

real. but what I'm actually doing is taking away. Now

1:05:34

I'm like taking away from the

1:05:36

one thing I wanted to keep, which is the

1:05:38

sexual life. This once I'm in this familiar

1:05:42

safe harbor, I become less horny. And I

1:05:44

think that's Bobby said the same thing where

1:05:46

it's like as soon as we became this

1:05:50

force together,

1:05:51

of wanted to,

1:05:53

like, fuck less. And because,

1:05:56

like, like, basically,

1:05:56

a stare parallel says, two

1:05:59

cannot be one. like,

1:06:00

you have no one to connect with anymore. When you become that that that

1:06:02

close with someone, like, you go out to dinner and who

1:06:04

are you you're you have no one to connect with.

1:06:06

Yeah. You're too enmeshed, and That's

1:06:09

been my problem is to maintain my

1:06:12

otherness has been

1:06:12

a chronic issue in relationships. I

1:06:15

need to be my own a

1:06:17

separate thing -- Yeah. -- introduced a little bit of even a little bit

1:06:19

of risk and adventure, and then I

1:06:21

feel more like juiced up. Obviously,

1:06:23

I'm the exact same way.

1:06:25

Same. And I think especially because I no. I'm not

1:06:28

including you. So I don't know you as well, but I think

1:06:30

all three of us,

1:06:32

I

1:06:32

would say, have the, like,

1:06:34

we want to become one with our partners. And

1:06:37

the only reason that I

1:06:39

escape that is because Dave will

1:06:42

not become one of them. But

1:06:44

I think that and I maybe

1:06:46

you have this too. Like, that's just

1:06:49

what our natural instinct is

1:06:51

we want. of it. Get me all. I'll eat

1:06:53

your shit. No. I'm like, I will do

1:06:55

everything. And let's be the closest two

1:06:57

people have ever I don't know

1:06:59

what I love it. I love it. I love it. I

1:07:01

love it. But Todd's so different for me too. That's

1:07:04

what I love about it. Just the way that he,

1:07:06

like, interacts in the

1:07:07

world. Like, I much from him. He's eleven years younger than

1:07:09

me, and it's like But I

1:07:09

realize he's eleven years old. He's eleven years old. He's eleven years

1:07:12

old. Just me. No.

1:07:14

But he really just, like, handles things in a

1:07:16

very different way than doing. calming

1:07:18

for me because I'm such a psycho. When

1:07:20

I dated another psycho, it was, like, people

1:07:22

will die. Like, someone is going to bed

1:07:24

exactly and cops were called things

1:07:27

were crazy. And I just like,

1:07:29

I don't know. And I but I do think

1:07:31

that yeah. I don't

1:07:33

know. I I feel like even though we spend a lot

1:07:35

of time either, I do feel like we're two different things.

1:07:37

I don't feel as, like, unhealthy as

1:07:38

I've been with before, but

1:07:41

yeah. I don't know. I do

1:07:43

that exact same thing. Right. But

1:07:45

you've you've been in an

1:07:47

open relationship. Right? Yeah. I think that's why this has

1:07:49

been my most successful relationship in

1:07:52

terms of me just staying happy. Like, I get

1:07:54

bored really fast with people and a big thing is

1:07:56

that the sex will thrill dies off and I'm someone that needs that

1:07:58

like I like to get to know new

1:07:59

people through sex. And

1:08:02

so this

1:08:03

is my first

1:08:04

relationship or one, the person I'm

1:08:06

dating is crazier than I am. Mhmm.

1:08:09

And he's super sexual,

1:08:11

like super sexual. So no

1:08:13

matter what happens with me, like, he will always make sure we have sex every single day

1:08:15

and I'm so thankful for that because

1:08:18

I need someone to,

1:08:20

like, in a relationship when it's

1:08:22

three years in to make sure we're still, like, sexually happy. And I think a lot of

1:08:26

women, like, are really

1:08:28

I mean,

1:08:29

it's hard when the guy starts not wanting to have sex. Hey.

1:08:31

Where's it? Because I believe they're horny for you. Right? You're, like,

1:08:33

also kinky too. Both

1:08:36

ways, though. So

1:08:38

I need an initiator, but I don't

1:08:40

need a beggar. So I need not a beggar.

1:08:42

I need someone that just sticks it in. Like, I

1:08:44

need someone to be, like, to kind of, like, read my

1:08:46

body a little better because I have been relationships where, like,

1:08:48

the dude needed to just drain his balls every day, and I just could not

1:08:50

Oh, yeah. They're, like, kidding me. Yeah. And it's, like, shut up. Shut

1:08:53

up. And it's, like, this doesn't seem

1:08:55

as intuitive. It's, like, I been

1:08:58

into it, but I fucked you three times already today.

1:09:00

Like, the fourth time, I'm not gonna be as

1:09:02

excited as the fucking last time. What the hell?

1:09:04

No. Drew is, like, so good at like, when we

1:09:06

wake up in the morning, he'll just, like, roll me over

1:09:08

and he'll start, like, we'll start having anal. And,

1:09:10

like, I don't even have to process it. I

1:09:12

don't have to think and you're on my

1:09:14

clock. And yeah. And then it's like I don't have to do anything. He gets off. I

1:09:20

get off. And then I am super

1:09:22

happy the whole day. I'm like, yes, I fuck today. I'm I'm sexual. And, like, he didn't sit there and, like,

1:09:24

can't you blow me this

1:09:26

morning? Like, if the begging isn't

1:09:29

you need a man that's naturally just so insanely horny for you. Like, oh, I fucking get so mad. I

1:09:31

fucked him all the time and it was it just would it like and

1:09:33

it hurt my feelings when he would be like, it's not enough.

1:09:36

I'm like, It

1:09:39

is enough. Yeah. It is enough. Like, it's it's like there's enough

1:09:42

No. No. No. No. You're not, like, you're

1:09:44

not compatible. He also sounds

1:09:46

like Drew also just reads your

1:09:48

queues. Yeah. He

1:09:50

knows you well enough to be, like, hey, because we're, like, the same, sexually. Yeah. We just we

1:09:52

really are so similar. So

1:09:54

he we definitely, like, were

1:09:59

so

1:09:59

similar and that's I think why it works so well even

1:10:01

though he's super crazy. I'm also crazy in a lot

1:10:03

of ways. But then also

1:10:05

he respects me and understands me so

1:10:08

much that he understands I'm wanna

1:10:10

fuck other people and I'm going

1:10:12

to. Mhmm. And I don't and

1:10:14

I couldn't stay in a relationship where I couldn't

1:10:16

because he he's not the same way right

1:10:18

now because he's older, but he was

1:10:20

like that his

1:10:22

all of his 20s. Mhmm. And

1:10:25

so we're so similar. He understands I need that from my twenties. Does he

1:10:27

need it as well? Right now, he doesn't. Like, he

1:10:29

doesn't. He could sleep over the

1:10:31

girls, but he just is

1:10:33

lazy. Like, he just he fucks me and then he's happy. Like, he's not gonna go out

1:10:35

and try and find other girls. Would you get a

1:10:37

little jealous, like, in a

1:10:40

good way? Yeah. Probably because I I'm

1:10:42

not like a jealous type at all. And I the thing about, like, we have a lot of three songs together

1:10:44

because I bring a lot

1:10:46

of girls over. And it

1:10:50

is the craziest thing because we're just best friends.

1:10:52

Like, we just understand each other so well.

1:10:54

When I'm watching him with another girl,

1:10:56

like, when I'm watching him fuck

1:10:59

another girl, I'm so proud. I'm like, yeah. He

1:11:01

fuck so fucking good. And then when I'm watching another girl pleasure him

1:11:03

or when we're both, like, blowing him or

1:11:05

she's blowing him, I'm looking

1:11:07

at him, like, Oh, look at

1:11:09

him, like, he deserves this. So sweet. Like, I'm so,

1:11:12

like, happy to

1:11:14

see him. I think

1:11:16

it's so cute when Todd

1:11:18

comes.

1:11:18

I'm so sorry his sister Yeah. So it's like it is like so cute. I'm

1:11:20

like, you

1:11:24

are just touch an angel. Yeah. And I

1:11:26

don't care if he's like, we we jerk off to, like, porn all the time together

1:11:31

and separately, we fuck girls together. He'll, like, not

1:11:33

on other girls. He'll not two other girls. Like, it doesn't bother me. Like,

1:11:35

I know we're best friends. I know we understand

1:11:38

each other and have a connection. So then

1:11:40

it's, like, sex

1:11:42

is just so fun and it's so fun to create

1:11:44

situations where he is pleasure. Yeah.

1:11:46

Like that's a blast for me.

1:11:48

I'm still shocked when I see or

1:11:51

hear about people who don't approve

1:11:53

of their partner watching porn. Right.

1:11:55

They they think that's like so

1:11:57

It's like it's like a lot of fourteen year

1:11:59

old girls on TikTok. It's like literally they're

1:12:02

fourteen and they're like, I will never let my

1:12:04

boy friend. Watch -- Well, good luck. -- and

1:12:06

I'm like because You're like a honeymoon. You're

1:12:07

like a fuckers. Think about this right now because you don't

1:12:09

even

1:12:09

understand. The thing about porn is like, if

1:12:12

you don't stand

1:12:14

it, that's okay. Like, it's not for everybody.

1:12:16

Not one industry is for everybody. Yeah. And,

1:12:18

like, it's not it's especially not for

1:12:20

you when you're that young. Like, just Just

1:12:22

wait, you'll see that at some point, you

1:12:25

might like watching it. You might not too.

1:12:27

We're a very pro porn household.

1:12:29

Yeah. I'll say that. I love porn. porn. The thing about sex

1:12:31

and porn and everything is when it's at its best,

1:12:34

at least it's play.

1:12:36

Right. Play is so important for humans. Right. And

1:12:39

I have a birth control question. So you said

1:12:41

you don't take the pills, but

1:12:43

what do you do? I've

1:12:46

had an IUD ever since I got my abortion in I was like, alright. not walking around like,

1:12:51

every single IUDI. I started.

1:12:53

I remember with the Marina. Mhmm. And so that's hormonal. It's like the

1:12:55

standard kinda one in the middle.

1:12:59

And it was too high up

1:13:01

hormones for me. I was, like, super constipated. I had back knee. It was

1:13:03

so Like, I'm the anal. I

1:13:07

can't have back Right. And so then I

1:13:09

did have regular periods. So I was like, okay. Your ID turned you into

1:13:11

me. Yeah. It's one

1:13:14

of my biggest issues. that's

1:13:17

why we like each other's dose backed up and back knee. And so then

1:13:19

I got on a lower dose. I think it was the

1:13:24

Skyla. and that at the time was

1:13:26

the lowest dose of hormones in an IUD. And then I didn't have

1:13:28

back knee, I

1:13:31

didn't have constipation, but It

1:13:34

didn't regulate my period. So

1:13:35

then I was just bleeding, like, randomly and all the time and was terrible. So

1:13:37

then I got him

1:13:39

the copper IUD. And

1:13:43

that's when I realized I hadn't been off of birth

1:13:45

control and had, like, a regular cycle since

1:13:47

I was, like, thirteen. And

1:13:51

I didn't know what my cycle was like and that's when started having premenstrual dysphoria because

1:13:53

I same as how my mom was

1:13:55

when she was younger

1:13:58

very sensitive to hormones. So I'm literally

1:13:59

psychotic and I

1:13:59

go manic the week before my period. So then I

1:14:02

had to start Lexipro while I was on the copper

1:14:04

IV. Yeah. And so

1:14:07

then recently, I got And

1:14:09

I think I'm I think I have Kylina

1:14:11

now. And that's the IDI have now, and it's

1:14:13

like kind of medium ground -- Yeah.

1:14:15

-- in terms

1:14:16

of hormones,

1:14:19

and it's perfect. I'm so glad.

1:14:21

Like, I don't have any constipation

1:14:23

problems. I need problems. My

1:14:25

period has, like, in the beginning, it was just

1:14:27

regular. And now it's, like, two days

1:14:29

maybe a month. Yeah. It's really light.

1:14:32

Okay. So I'm an

1:14:32

IUD girlie all the way. I have to ask

1:14:35

a question that I've been thinking for

1:14:37

a few minutes. Can she kiss you? What is Look

1:14:39

out. What are the fantasies

1:14:44

that you have discovered that help you orgasm. Oh my god. If

1:14:46

you would do you know what's so funny? I I've been thinking

1:14:48

about this a lot recently. Every

1:14:51

fantasy I have that I think

1:14:53

about when I come, started as

1:14:56

a dream. Like, I'll I'll have, like, not a wet

1:14:58

dream. So, obviously, how to ejaculate, but the the

1:15:00

female comparison,

1:15:03

where I wake up or in my dream,

1:15:05

it's like you feel that full body tingling

1:15:07

of immense horniness, like, about to

1:15:09

calm. Mhmm. And then you wake up,

1:15:11

And then I always remember those, or the ones

1:15:13

I do remember, become

1:15:15

my fantasies.

1:15:16

That is fucking

1:15:19

brilliant. It's so weird. But, like, I try to manifest in my dreams and I

1:15:21

try to really, like, see what my dreams are telling

1:15:23

me and your dreams

1:15:24

are literally leading

1:15:26

you

1:15:26

to Yeah. It's so

1:15:29

crazy. Like, I don't know how why

1:15:31

it started. Like, the bits has always been that way. And the the main one that I used for years,

1:15:34

which is interesting, was I

1:15:39

was going in from my first

1:15:41

gynecology visit. And my doctor

1:15:43

was a man. This is my

1:15:45

dream. It's not real interaction. And he

1:15:47

was like, alright, we're just gonna do your exam. You know,

1:15:49

we're gonna test put your bodies through

1:15:51

some tests, see if it functions

1:15:53

properly and basically teaches me

1:15:55

how to orgasm. And it's like,

1:15:57

don't worry, like, I know I know what I'm doing. Just relax.

1:15:59

I'm gonna make

1:15:59

you orgasm.

1:16:04

And that for years.

1:16:04

For years and years, has

1:16:05

made me just I come so fast. That's how they came up with

1:16:07

vibrators as depressed when women were going to

1:16:09

doctors in there

1:16:10

with hysteria. Oh, really? Yeah. They

1:16:12

but by birth

1:16:14

or Are you serious? No. I'm connected to, like, my past self. Yeah. These were ancestral not

1:16:20

trauma. Yeah. My son is

1:16:22

real. sort of trauma. I didn't have. I don't have that joyous links

1:16:28

when she was offered to help her, you know,

1:16:30

I was visited by my family doctors. No. She'll lean

1:16:33

into the elastase. Well, here's the

1:16:35

thing. I've never offered her.

1:16:36

or

1:16:38

something in my head? I need to do

1:16:40

a reenactment and just, you know, have

1:16:42

a more positive outcome and then maybe

1:16:44

I can, you know, start having doctor

1:16:46

Kinks. I still have this speculum from when we did

1:16:47

the gynecologist.

1:16:51

That is terrible. I

1:16:53

think that I don't know I don't know how

1:16:55

you process that. Like, that would have to be you'd have

1:16:58

to if you're

1:16:58

comfortable of reenacting it. because the thing is, like,

1:17:02

thinking of a fantasy in your head where it

1:17:04

goes exactly how you imagine it to

1:17:06

go versus something happening in real life,

1:17:08

you know, is like so friend. It goes

1:17:10

back to what I was saying earlier where I

1:17:12

truly think that my real life has nothing to do with my

1:17:14

sexual life because I am able to reenact rape fantasies

1:17:18

and all these things that had happened to me without too much

1:17:20

of a cost to my mental state.

1:17:23

That's how because I the

1:17:26

line between my real life and sex is so clear that I think the doctor reenactment

1:17:28

wouldn't really bother me. Honestly, I

1:17:30

think that could be a king.

1:17:35

That's amazing. But I think

1:17:37

TBD. I think you

1:17:39

should have sex with

1:17:42

Karl's dad. Oh, Carlos.

1:17:44

I was, like, so excited until you said

1:17:46

dad. I was, like, you said so, Carlos.

1:17:48

Carlos. How what does your dad

1:17:50

look like? better if he's an ugo.

1:17:51

Yeah. Can we take your picture of your dad? Yeah.

1:17:54

He's like Is your doctor? Yeah. Doctor. Can you

1:17:57

please bring up

1:17:58

your hot next can Wait. Is he still with your mommy

1:17:59

grandma? Yeah. Oh, yeah. Do they

1:18:01

want a third? I feel

1:18:03

like he'd be into

1:18:04

it. Maybe Carl's can just

1:18:05

put his dad's clothes on and help you.

1:18:08

Oh, we're scrubbs. Okay. Yeah. You're like

1:18:10

a really nice talk. You have to ballgag me in in case I wanna bite you because I have drama

1:18:12

from the talk. It's called

1:18:14

ballgagging when he does it. ag.

1:18:18

Well, when people when I tell people that I have that fantasy, they always think as a doctor related, but it's really not --

1:18:20

Mhmm. -- like, especially because

1:18:22

my mom's in OE Joanne, and

1:18:26

she does my exam. Right. Like, it's like a

1:18:29

label pressure. But I

1:18:29

saw it. Like, she's put in

1:18:31

all my IUDs. Oh.

1:18:34

Yeah. But I I really like I really

1:18:36

don't think they're related. I think that it's just

1:18:38

a channel in my brain when I was

1:18:41

dreaming that created an environment

1:18:44

where someone's like, don't worry about coming. I'm just gonna

1:18:46

make you come. Oh. You know, when you

1:18:48

guys are like, oh, can you come?

1:18:50

Like, come, like, It it it makes me not come. But when someone's

1:18:52

like, I know what to do. Well, some makes sense

1:18:54

just to me -- Yeah. -- because your mom was

1:18:56

always your guy, no. So it's like

1:18:58

a fantasy maybe to have a stranger

1:19:01

do it because you've never, like Oh, boy. Like, you've never had,

1:19:03

like, a hole in the second ear mouth. It's so true. I've never had, like,

1:19:05

someone I really not

1:19:08

familiar with go

1:19:10

down there. Well, that's everything I can't even imagine being comfortable with the person that's shoving a fucking duck bill

1:19:12

in my Well, I would be

1:19:14

as long as I don't see faces.

1:19:18

So I'm not good with, like, even when I

1:19:20

watch porn, I'm always looking at the woman.

1:19:22

I never care about what's going on.

1:19:25

cut off his head. No one wants to see

1:19:27

the man. Like, it is a rare person on the Internet that wants

1:19:29

to see the man. In his face, I don't

1:19:31

care about it. So,

1:19:34

like, my dream business is a rub and tug for women where just don't

1:19:36

see what he looks like up top. Where he's just

1:19:38

a glory hole. Yeah. It's just a glory hole,

1:19:40

but for women, but it's, you

1:19:43

know, well monitored. We have special

1:19:46

on the entire whole. It's for Or just we just create men that have no heads. Yes.

1:19:52

That's genetic hear that.

1:19:54

Headless male population. My dream come true. You mean, I would be down for that. Yeah. Very much. So Yeah.

1:19:56

They don't even need to eat us out. We

1:19:58

just don't care. We really go down to

1:20:03

suck and that's all I have. It's like

1:20:05

I'll blow your

1:20:08

neck. I'll blow your neck.

1:20:09

What is, like, kind of,

1:20:11

is there any content that you

1:20:13

provide on only fans that's, like, most popular or, like, things that

1:20:15

your surprise people are super into.

1:20:18

Have you learned anything weird about

1:20:20

our general

1:20:22

population that way? I mean people one

1:20:25

thing I've learned is, like, there's someone

1:20:27

into everything. Like, there you can

1:20:29

find porn of literally anything you have

1:20:31

ever thought of. and there's gonna be at

1:20:33

least a hundred people that are into it and probably follow the subreddit

1:20:35

for it. And I've

1:20:38

gotten a mix of

1:20:40

just so many people on my

1:20:42

only fans that are into different stuff and it's opened my eyes so much. Something

1:20:44

I think I didn't know

1:20:47

before, porn was like, how

1:20:50

many people are into messy anal? Like,

1:20:53

people wanna see the anal where

1:20:55

it's not clean. And

1:20:58

I mean, Like, when I have sex with guys in my personal

1:21:00

life and it's not filmed and it's messy, they

1:21:02

don't give a fuck. Yeah. You know, they're like,

1:21:04

oh, whatever. I know I'm going in the butthole. Yeah.

1:21:06

And so I guess it makes sense that there's guys who wanna watch

1:21:09

real anal like that. Yeah. I only had

1:21:11

anal once with this guy and it was

1:21:13

like this agreement. We were gonna have anal

1:21:15

and he was like older and really

1:21:17

cool. And I spent all day, like, trying to clean my asshole out and make sure I wasn't gonna shut

1:21:19

it. I was like, I'm just nervous. I don't wanna shut it because it's

1:21:22

like, if you shit on my dick, I was involved and, like, we're,

1:21:25

like, either partners and people leave. And,

1:21:27

like, what usually happens or what

1:21:29

should happen is, like,

1:21:31

you should on they're dick and you never

1:21:33

see it. Like, they pull out. They go wash it. You don't have to face the fact.

1:21:35

You don't have

1:21:38

to deal with it. We have joint custody over that. Exactly. Exactly. It's like,

1:21:40

yes. You might, like, be worried in the moment, but you

1:21:42

don't have to see it. They have to deal with

1:21:44

-- Yeah. -- they have to deal with their consequences

1:21:47

and actions and I bet you. will

1:21:49

wanna go back in your bottle. Yeah. They

1:21:51

do not care. Guys will literally clean it off and then put it right back in. Do

1:21:55

you have, like, double dip? You know,

1:21:57

tips, like, is there certain rules to follow to be Are you a

1:21:59

popper,

1:21:59

girl? Do you like to do a

1:22:02

little? No. I've never done poppers. I'm actually,

1:22:04

like, I've

1:22:07

mostly done anal sober. I've never

1:22:09

done anal after drinking because I

1:22:11

don't really drink. And I've

1:22:13

done

1:22:13

anal maybe couple times after

1:22:15

smoking weed, which actually is amazing.

1:22:17

But I do I'm like,

1:22:19

I fuck everyday sober, and I'm

1:22:22

like, it's sober. But, yeah, I have a

1:22:24

lot of

1:22:24

anal tips. I have a ton. Do you want

1:22:26

them all? Yes. Like, from start to finish?

1:22:28

Yes. Okay. So first of all,

1:22:30

when I lost my anal virginity, I obviously did not

1:22:32

plan it. Like, it was just a first

1:22:34

date, so I wasn't prepared.

1:22:36

So I had

1:22:38

first with where you're like, he's going rogue. He's gone. I was on

1:22:40

my period and he was eating my ass and he just started

1:22:42

going in my butt. I was like, holy shit, that's my butt.

1:22:44

And then I was like, oh my god, this is the most

1:22:46

euphoric thing I've ever felt in my life. and

1:22:48

that

1:22:49

was the best night ever. Best sex probably ever just because it was so new. Am

1:22:51

I taking it that you don't you don't have like a hemorrhoid issue? That's never been

1:22:53

No. I think that might be like

1:22:55

maybe a genetic blessing

1:22:58

of mine. Yeah. You might want to do that. Yeah. I

1:23:01

honestly, like The high butthole is so

1:23:03

stretchy. And also, I have I

1:23:05

have a high pain tolerance. So I think that's also and like I

1:23:07

have a thing where I like to be

1:23:10

able to breathe through painful, challenging

1:23:12

things -- Mhmm. -- and get

1:23:14

the euphoria on the other side of it. Yeah. So that's a big thing for me. And

1:23:16

I think that's like if you wanna try anal, that's

1:23:18

like a big thing you should probably prepare for. But

1:23:22

there also is I didn't know for, like, the first year

1:23:24

that you can use lube, that

1:23:26

you can use numbing lube or

1:23:29

desensitizing lube, which like relaxes your muscles in

1:23:31

your bubble and you still feel just as much

1:23:34

if not more because you're not feeling like

1:23:36

that tight pain and you're

1:23:38

actually feeling the sensation. And you're probably surrendering more. Right? Exactly. as like resistance. Yeah. So I don't use that

1:23:40

anymore. I've used it like a couple times, so

1:23:42

I don't really need to because I can relax

1:23:47

my body enough, but I think that a lot of people could do anal

1:23:49

a lot easier if they use

1:23:51

desensitizing lube.

1:23:53

So eyes study hypnotherapy, and I'm like, maybe

1:23:55

I should make a hypnosis for

1:23:56

people to get good at anal.

1:23:58

No for real, though. because it's It's soborn

1:24:00

is a big thing. Yeah.

1:24:02

As it is. I was So Alex Adams

1:24:04

is this porn guy that I fuck for pornhub videos.

1:24:06

Uh-huh. My two porn hub videos were

1:24:10

were with him. and he used to do gay porn and now he

1:24:12

does straight porn. And so he's, like, in the

1:24:14

gay stuff as well, straight stuff. And he

1:24:18

introduced me to Cisce hypno

1:24:20

no

1:24:22

compilations. Uh-huh.

1:24:24

So it's called it. But

1:24:26

it's sisce hypno horn, basically. And it's like

1:24:29

to girls, it's like normal porn because it's the whole

1:24:31

time it's saying, I wanna be a cum slap.

1:24:33

I wanna be drenched in cum. I

1:24:35

want all your cum. but

1:24:38

it's a niche kind of porn because men watch it. Mhmm. So it's like they're, like, living out trans

1:24:40

sissy compslette fantasy.

1:24:43

Yeah. And it's hypnotizing

1:24:47

them the whole time into being a

1:24:49

cumplet and a sissy cumplet and

1:24:51

men watch it. I like the

1:24:52

Yeah. It's amazing, but it's

1:24:55

hypnosis And so if women watch it, like, when I watch, I was like, oh my god,

1:24:57

this is just me. Like, this is just

1:24:59

normal. And I have a

1:25:01

question about when

1:25:03

you do

1:25:04

orgasm, and when you are

1:25:06

getting

1:25:06

anal, do you have to stimulate

1:25:09

your front simultaneously? So I have

1:25:11

a really hard

1:25:11

time having clit

1:25:14

orgasms or, like, pussy orgasms when I'm having anal because I'm so overstimulated that I like,

1:25:16

I'll be vibrating my

1:25:19

clit and I won't feel

1:25:21

anything. Like, I don't feel my clit at all. And that's also what anal does to me. Like, after anal,

1:25:23

I will feel euphoric. I don't have one ache

1:25:26

or pain in my whole

1:25:28

body. I get

1:25:30

very because it's such an intense feeling that, like, afterwards, I'm just, like, floating a can orgasm

1:25:33

just even

1:25:36

just anal so alone. The

1:25:38

only orgasms, I mean, sometimes I can have a pussy orgasm during anal, but it's really hard for me. But

1:25:40

I have ass orgasms,

1:25:42

which I didn't know anything

1:25:47

it literally it's really terrifying because it's kind

1:25:49

of, like, in the beginning, you think you're

1:25:51

gonna shit. It's like, you know that

1:25:53

you know when you have like, explosive diarrhea, and your

1:25:55

whole body's sweating, and you're, like, your whole

1:25:57

body's tingling, and you can't think. And you're

1:26:00

having one

1:26:02

right everywhere. that feeling This is doo doo on her chair.

1:26:05

Yeah. It's a weather that's all Cooopy

1:26:07

Snell Trail. So that feeling,

1:26:09

during anal, if you

1:26:11

lean into it, because I would say, probably, usually,

1:26:13

it's not because you're shitting. Like, I've never heard any kind of is for me too. Like, leaning

1:26:15

into that the

1:26:19

line usually resists. Yeah. Yeah. And so when you

1:26:21

lean into that feeling, it, like, gets more and more intense, and then it's exactly like an orgasm

1:26:23

where my whole

1:26:26

body loses control and, my butthole you know how many feet on Yeah. Yeah. My butthole will,

1:26:29

like, cooling this and, like because

1:26:31

I'm, like, loose guy. That's

1:26:34

I'm so immature. I'm, like, laughing

1:26:35

like, really? It's crazy. I didn't

1:26:37

know that it was this

1:26:39

thing. Like like, you

1:26:41

know, like, after a big knees.

1:26:43

It's kind of like orgasmic. Yeah. Your big shit is the same

1:26:45

thing. Oh, god. Yeah. Yeah. Right? Or as your shit

1:26:47

Oh, I can't believe it. Yeah.

1:26:49

And just what a joy.

1:26:52

Yeah. Can't leaving. And sometimes it's so painful, you

1:26:54

know, that you're like that you're like start hallucinating. You know So it's not a psychological

1:26:56

orgasm. It's a real physical orgasm.

1:26:58

Yeah. I think because it's like

1:27:02

it's such a physical feeling. Like, my whole

1:27:04

body basically loses control right before that. I'm like, oh my

1:27:06

god. I almost feel like, sometimes I almost feel

1:27:08

like I'm gonna throw up. Like, it feels

1:27:10

it my whole body something like,

1:27:12

Helonics? No. Okay.

1:27:15

Is that when you

1:27:17

now is or when you And

1:27:19

they suck the shit out

1:27:19

of your ass. So true true

1:27:21

I have never done that

1:27:24

before. They shoot water your

1:27:26

ass and then suck it out. I guess, I mean, I've done, like, douchets

1:27:28

where I shoot water up there and then, like, push it

1:27:30

out -- Yeah. -- to clean it out before anal,

1:27:32

which I never used to do,

1:27:34

but then I started doing it recently.

1:27:37

It's risky. Yeah. Water gets trapped up there. And then you have, like, poopy water

1:27:39

come out of you mid scene or mid sex, which is terrible. Yeah.

1:27:41

But there's a hundred people

1:27:43

that are into it. there's

1:27:46

a hundred people that are into it. There's actually probably

1:27:48

a good feeling about it. so

1:27:51

many people. Yeah. In this in this

1:27:53

County alone. Yeah. There's a million or

1:27:55

two. But recently, I've been filming with a lot of girls,

1:27:57

and we've

1:27:57

been doing anal content together for the first

1:27:59

time. Like, normally

1:28:03

only do anal with a guy. And so then we're doing, like, ass to mouth

1:28:05

and stuff. I'm putting dildas in our butts in

1:28:07

their mouths. And I want,

1:28:09

like, it's nice if my buttons actually clean. Yeah. Like,

1:28:11

I wash out, like, every even if it's

1:28:13

clean, you wanna make sure there's not, like, certain

1:28:16

bacteria and stuff like

1:28:18

that. Right? Yeah. Exact drip b. Exactly. I mean, like, maybe that's you

1:28:20

feel like you're about to throw out. these. Alright.

1:28:22

Cool. I mean, that's that's been something that I

1:28:24

always worry about

1:28:27

when I've eaten a a guy's ass. It's just like --

1:28:29

Okay. -- some of the guys I feel like girls exactly because the

1:28:31

girls, like, I feel like really ten to

1:28:33

our lady bits really well. I don't know.

1:28:36

I've got guys

1:28:38

are a little bit less conscious about

1:28:40

it. Yeah. Well, some balls I feel like are, like, extra.

1:28:42

But thankfully thankfully, every asshole I've eaten has been, like,

1:28:47

pristine condition. But thankfully, and I always feel like really respected enough. I've

1:28:49

honestly yeah. I've never gotten strapped from

1:28:52

eating ass, which is

1:28:55

But it's a It's a risk. And

1:28:57

actually, I realized now, so I got struck like five times

1:28:59

in a row in the last

1:29:00

around

1:29:01

two

1:29:03

years. And I In two years, five times.

1:29:05

Yeah. It was really bad. And so I thought that it was from asked to mouth,

1:29:07

like, when because there

1:29:10

were a few a girl would

1:29:12

pull out a shitty butt plug and I would put it in my mouth.

1:29:14

Right. Right. And so but what I actually after going to a lot of

1:29:17

doctors about this, what I figured

1:29:19

out is, one, every, like, every

1:29:22

probably

1:29:22

fifty percent of people

1:29:24

give or take, carry Strep

1:29:26

Group B in their vaginas

1:29:28

on their skin just anywhere, harmlessly.

1:29:30

It's not like an LCD or anything.

1:29:32

It's just there. You don't notice it.

1:29:35

And I'm hypersensitive to it. And the

1:29:37

first time I got introduced a strap group.

1:29:39

He was when I worked with this other girl

1:29:41

and I put her shitty butt plug in

1:29:43

my mouth and she had it, you know,

1:29:45

in her colon, which is where it is in most people.

1:29:47

How did you know? Did you? Well, I because

1:29:49

I got strep. Right. I got I got

1:29:51

really sick. Like a fever,

1:29:53

like, super, super sick. And they they test me for strep normal

1:29:55

strep, which is group a, and I didn't have it, and they

1:29:58

did way more tests found out it was strep group

1:29:59

b, which is like, oh,

1:30:02

you been in contact with the intestinal tract.

1:30:04

I was like, yeah, I do. It does

1:30:06

a lot. And so then I thought that's

1:30:08

that's what it was from, but then I

1:30:10

started getting it just randomly. where and then the the the

1:30:12

last time, I didn't do anything

1:30:14

related to a butthole. I just worked

1:30:16

with a new girl and a new guy at

1:30:19

the same time, and I got strap

1:30:21

after. And so then that's when I started going to a doctor, like, why am I getting recurrent strap?

1:30:23

And it's because my I probably have to get my

1:30:25

tonsils out if it happens

1:30:28