Let's uncork two old adages: "Should I stay or should I go"  This wine down conversation stems from the Ime Udoka suspension due to a cheating scandal. He is the longtime boyfriend/fiancé of actress Nia Long who is confronted with the decision to stay or leave the relationship. The ladies unpack "to serve or not serve your man" as to what that says about the dynamic in your relationship. Get you wine so we can get into it-Cheers!