In Episode 14 of Under the Covers, Jeremiah Gibson and Stephanie Wallace describe how we can create expectations around sex that work for each couple. Many couples experience cultural and religious messages that describe what not to do and prov

Episode 14: Having sex that you want to have, rather than one that society/religion encourages

May 8th, 2017 27m 58s

Thoughts on Touch

Mar 27th, 2017 50m 41s

In episode 13 of Under the Covers, Jeremiah Gibson and Stephanie Wallace explore the importance of touch in creating stability, self-confidence, and eroticism. They break down narratives of anxiety around touch and provide ways of reincorporati

Episode 12: Regarding Open Relationships

Jan 31st, 2017 50m 29s

In episode 12 of Under the Covers, Jeremiah Gibson and Stephanie Wallace talk about open relationships. They distinguish between open relationships, which are consensual, and affairs, which are non-consensual. They describe different types of o

How can I make dating more enjoyable?

Jan 16th, 2017 53m 2s

In Episode 11 of Under the Covers, Stephanie Wallace and Jeremiah Gibson talk about dating: the initial interactions in a relationship between two people before consistent relational agreements have been established. They discuss some of the ch

Episode 10: How do male gender narratives affect couple relationships?

Dec 18th, 2016 51m 19s

In Episode 10 of Under the Covers, Stephanie and Jeremiah talk about the impact of male gender narratives on couple relationships. They explore competing narratives around masculinity—the “alpha male” and “chivalry” stories—and explain how navi

Episode 9: How do female gender narratives affect couple relationships?

Dec 5th, 2016 49m 57s

In Episode 9 of Under the Covers, Stephanie and Jeremiah talk about the impact of female gender narratives on couple relationships. They explore multiple areas that the sexual double standard gets placed upon women throughout their lifespan. Th

Episode 8: How can I talk with my family this holiday season?

Nov 21st, 2016 51m 41s

In Episode 8 of Under the Covers, Stephanie and Jeremiah talk about ways to effectively communicate with your family during the holiday season. They discuss ways of establishing boundaries with your families of origin and developing new rituals

Episode 7: How can we support military relationships?

Nov 9th, 2016 51m 46s

In Episode 7 of Under the Covers, Jeremiah and Stephanie provide tips for military couples in the middle of deployment and in the midst of reintegrating post-deployment. They explore narratives surrounding the military that create relationship

Episode 6: How does substance use affect my relationship?

Nov 3rd, 2016 51m 57s

In Episode 6 of Under the Covers, Jeremiah and Stephanie talk about the challenges that substance use brings to relationships. They distinguish between substance use and substance abuse, and identify ways that substance use can affect relations

Episode 5: How can we see each other's perspectives?

Oct 17th, 2016 46m 14s

While it's easy to break down a conversation into right/wrong, or truth/lie, Stephanie and Jeremiah explain that there are three things that they, as couples therapists, are looking for: Partner A's perspective, Partner B's perspective, and the

Episode 4: What is Sex?

Oct 1st, 2016 49m 58s

In Episode 4, Stephanie and Jeremiah begin a conversation about sexuality in relationships. They explore messages and expectations that limit our ability to experience full intimacy during sexual encounters. They also provide several basic tips

Episode 3: How can we effectively end our arguments?

Sep 24th, 2016 31m 56s

In Episode 3, Stephanie and Jeremiah continue thinking about what makes arguments last: when one partner pursues, often the other distances, making the first partner pursue even more, and so forth. They discuss ways of ending arguments, such as

Episode 2: Why do our fights keep going?

Sep 10th, 2016 33m 9s

In episode 2, Stephanie and Jeremiah look at the anatomy of an argument, including the relationship between criticism and defensiveness. They provide tips on ending arguments effectively, including the usage of I language, limiting contentious

Under the Covers: Episode 1 (2016)

Sep 7th, 2016 30m 58s

In the pilot episode of Under the Covers, Stephanie and Jeremiah, couples therapists in the Boston area, discuss seven signs of a healthy relationship. They also cover Ed Sheeran's Thinking Out Loud.

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