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stories about justice and transformation. When
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Paul Joseph Fronzac was 10 years old, he
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discovered a family secret. In
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1964, when Paul was just one day old, he
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was kidnapped from the Chicago hospital he'd
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been born in. Paul's abduction led
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to the largest manhunt Chicago
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had ever seen. One year later, an
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abandoned child was found outside
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a New Jersey department store and ultimately
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identified as Baby Fronzac. Paul
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was reunited with his parents and
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soon had a baby brother. Then, in 2012, Paul took a DNA test
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and made a shocking discovery. He
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was not the real Paul Fronzac, and
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the story he'd been told about his identity
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was wrong. In an instant, he became what
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he was. In
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an instant, he became what
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is known as an unidentified
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living person. Over the
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past decade, Paul has been digging for
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answers, seeking his true identity, and connecting
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the dots to find the whole truth.
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And he joins us today to share
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his remarkable story. I'm
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Raquel O'Brien, and this is Unfiltered. Paul,
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firstly, thank you so much for
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joining me today. Now, I know you've
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shared your story on many different occasions
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and platforms, including the two books. that
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you've authored, True Identity, and The
2:02
Foundling. So today, I'd like you
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to begin from the point of
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which you are most comfortable in
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sharing. All right, first, thanks for
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having me on Unfiltered. I love this show. It's
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one of the, probably the best. Probably
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the best place to start would be the beginning, when
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I was 10 years old and everything changed. Tell
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me about that fateful day leading up to
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Christmas. Okay, so it's Chicago
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time, 1974. I
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was 10 years old, and I was snooping around
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the house looking for Christmas presents, because, you know,
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every child wants to know what they're getting before
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they get it. It's just the way we are
2:37
as kids. So I looked around
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the house, and I figured the only place they could
2:42
hide any presents would be in the crawl space downstairs.
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My mom was upstairs in the kitchen, so
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I moved the couch, and I opened the
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crawl space door, and I looked inside, and
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I thought, if they have any presents
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at all, they've gotta be in here. So
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I turned on the light, and I low crawled towards
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the very back of the crawl space, and I saw
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about four or five boxes. I
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thought, this is it, this is the big score. Loads
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of presents. Loads of presents, right?
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This is it, Christmas came early.
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So I start opening the boxes, and I'm like, I
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see cards, newspaper headlines.
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I'm like, this isn't Christmas, these aren't
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presents. So I started looking at
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the newspaper articles, and they were headlines. Sad
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City drags on for Missing Kidnapped Child.
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A hunter drags on, 10,000 people looking for
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this baby. I'm all
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kidnapping, and I see a picture of my mom and
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dad, and they look really sad
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and distraught. And then
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I see Paul Joseph Franzek kidnapped from
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Michael Rees Hospital. I was
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like, wait a minute, Paul Joseph Franzek,
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that's me. I was
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kidnapped. So like any 10-year-old,
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I was excited. I grabbed one of the clippings, and
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I ran upstairs to my mom. I said, mama,
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what's this, what's this about? And
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she turned around, looked at me, and her face got all
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red. And she said, how dare you
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snoop around the house. those aren't your things.
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But I said, mom, this is about me, right?
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Was I kidnapped? And did I get
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returned home as well? I mean, I got
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kidnapped and I got returned home to you
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guys as well. There was a happy ending.
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Yeah, all those things are going through my head. And
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she looked at me and she said, she
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probably realized I wasn't gonna just go away. So
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she said, you were kidnapped. We found
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you, we love you. We'll
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never talk about it again. And
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I was just like, I was deflated. But
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what my parents said, that was it. So
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I knew that we wouldn't talk about it again. But
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I never, ever forgot. And
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that's how I walked away. And
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so you're telling me that over the
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years, you kept reflecting back on that
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day that you found those clippings. Did
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the thought recur to you over the years? It
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was funny, I moved probably 100 times in my
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life. And the only
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thing I've kept with me are a bunch of
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those clippings. I still have them.
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Back then, I didn't realize what an impact
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that would have on my life. But
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that one event set a course in
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my life that has always been unfolding
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up to the point we are today. That
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you keep discovering more and more
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and more. Before we get to
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all of what led to you
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discovering all sorts
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of things about your true identity,
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what was life growing up for
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you as a kid in the Franz
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Zek household? Okay, first of all, I
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wanna say the Franz Zek's are probably the best parents
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in the world. They were
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just amazing. They raised me, they raised Dave.
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It was just really good parents. On
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the other side, I was highly,
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highly over protected. With
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good reason, their child was kidnapped. So
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when all the other kids were playing out past the street
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lights coming on, I had to be home. My
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parents never wanted me to talk to people. You know, like
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if I did not have to use my last name, don't
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use it because it always bring back a
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possibility of reporters coming around again. because
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once Paul was returned, every
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year reporters would come around, like on the
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anniversary of the kidnapping in April 27, and
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they would just hound my parents. So
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they didn't want that to happen again. So at
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any cost, don't let anybody know who you are. On
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that point, I think it's really important
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for anyone who hasn't come across your
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story yet to give a bit of
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background about the case
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of how Paul Franzek came to be
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missing and kidnapped in the first place.
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Okay, so Doris Franzek gave birth to Paul
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Franzek in April 26, 1964 in Michael
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Rees Hospital in
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Chicago. On April 27, in the
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morning, someone dressed like a nurse
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came in to visit Mrs. Franzek's room, told
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her that the doctor needed to see the baby while
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she was feeding. So Mrs.
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Franzek handed the baby over, and that nurse
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walked out of the hospital, jumped in the cab,
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and was gone forever with that baby. And
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how do you tie into that? You
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show up somewhere else a few years later.
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So I was found abandoned outside
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of McCrory's Variety Store on
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July 2, 1965 in Newark, New Jersey.
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I was placed in the foster care system. I
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was living with a family of Fred and
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the Eckerds. They ran probably
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the number one foster home in
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that area. And Amy Scott
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McKinley, they had baptized me, and I was living with
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them, and they had thoughts of adopting
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me because they wanted to keep me. After
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about a year of living there, the FBI
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shows up and says that I'm the kidnapped
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child, Paul Franzek from Chicago. It
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was all based on the shape of my ear. Out
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of 10,000 other boys, I was the
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only one that they couldn't disqualify, and
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it being Paul Franzek. So based on
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that alone, I think the heat was
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so hot on this case, they really
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wanted to close it. The FBI, local
7:50
law enforcement, so they contacted the Franzek's
7:52
and said, we think we have your
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kidnapped child. I was going to pick
7:56
you up on that point because of course I
7:58
read your book, The Foundling, And you
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get the sense when you're explaining the events
8:02
leading up to that day that you
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were taken to the Adoption Bureau office
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to meet Dora and Chester Franzak. There
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were a few question marks surrounding
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that specific day as well.
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Can you share a little bit about that? So
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pretty much back then in the
8:19
60s, the FBI were known as probably
8:21
the top authority. So
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the FBI is telling Dora and
8:26
Chester Franzak that Scott McKinley is
8:28
Paul Franzak. My parents were
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asked to drive from Chicago to New
8:32
Jersey. They were put in
8:35
a room with reporters right outside and they
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were given like 10 minutes to make up
8:39
their mind on whether this child was
8:41
actually their son. My mom
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said that the whole world was watching. And
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what was she going to say? No, that's not
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my son. And then I
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always wonder, was that really
8:51
Paul and have this child be placed back
8:53
in the system? Or yeah,
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you know what? That's my son because
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I very well could have been. So
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they said, yeah, that's Paul. And
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in your book, you say you
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follow that realization with a really
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thought provoking contemplation. I'm quoting you
9:10
here. When Dora claimed
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me as hers, she was
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voluntarily accepting a lifetime of
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questioning herself. Gave
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me pause because
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I hadn't considered it until
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you presented that perspective.
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And it's true to this day. I was
9:30
just in Chicago talking with my mom
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and she still told me that they
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really didn't know, but they want
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to do the right thing. And in
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their hearts, they really wanted me to
9:41
be Paul. Of course. But deep, deep
9:43
down, did they know
9:45
that you weren't or not? They
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didn't know. I mean, because so much time
9:50
had passed. I mean, my mom, I'll
9:53
use that term, was
9:55
basically always spent maybe
9:57
a half an hour total with Paul.
10:00
years earlier. That's an
10:02
excellent point. How, I
10:04
mean children change so much. My daughter has
10:06
changed in the last eight months. She's grown
10:08
like six inches. So imagine
10:11
a baby in a couple of years, how much
10:14
they change. You know, how could you
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possibly know? Before we get
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into your adult life, you mentioned
10:20
that you've lived in over a
10:22
hundred different places. I know in
10:25
your late teens, your love for
10:27
music wound you up in
10:29
Las Vegas. A little backstory please. So
10:32
actually I was in bands since I
10:34
was 14. We always had garage bands
10:36
and Okilon growing up. And
10:39
I had an opportunity to join this band
10:41
when I turned 18 from Tucson. My
10:44
parents wanted me to go to college. I was all
10:46
set to go. I got in this band. So we're
10:48
sitting around dinner and I said, hey I'm gonna go
10:50
to Tucson. And they said, what?
10:53
I joined this
10:55
band. I'm gonna move to Tucson, Arizona. It
10:57
didn't go over very well. But
10:59
that's how I left home to be in a
11:01
band. And it's taken me all
11:03
over, which is really cool. And
11:06
then I went back and forth from Arizona
11:08
to Chicago. And then I ended
11:10
up in Las Vegas. I've been here
11:12
since 1995 off and on. Incredible.
11:14
You also got into acting. Yes.
11:17
I've been doing that since I don't know, 1998 I think.
11:21
What I'm interested in is I, you know,
11:23
when I traveled for the first time, it really
11:26
enabled me to explore parts
11:29
of my identity that I wasn't able to
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explore when I was living in my home
11:33
environment. I'm wondering how that was for you.
11:35
It was the first time you were outside
11:37
of your family environment where you mentioned it
11:40
was quite overprotective and then you're in Las
11:42
Vegas. Well, when I first left home,
11:44
I moved to Tucson. So I
11:46
went from a very staunch
11:49
Catholic family, very strict,
11:52
to living in a house with other bandmates
11:54
in Tucson, Arizona. So to
11:56
say that we were wild is putting
11:58
it mildly. There was no rules. It
12:01
was amazing. You know, you're in a rock and roll
12:03
band. And that's, I mean, you
12:06
can fill in all the blanks. It was a lot of fun. And
12:09
then going again back to Chicago and
12:11
then back to Las Vegas, where everything
12:13
closes in Oakland around 10 o'clock at
12:16
night, and in Las Vegas nothing ever
12:18
closes. So it's a
12:20
huge difference, right? Exactly. And back
12:22
to that question of what parts of
12:24
your identity were you able to explore
12:27
in this coming into who you
12:29
are, this evolution of self
12:31
that happens? I was able
12:33
to really just focus on
12:36
music and not worrying about rules.
12:40
The family dinner at five and all
12:42
those things. Because we pretty much
12:44
just did whatever we wanted to do. If we
12:47
were practicing, we practiced, if we had a show, we'd do a show. If
12:50
we went on the road, we went on the road.
12:52
It just, it was great. It's
12:54
just pretty much every day you write the story
12:57
that you want. You do. You
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also fall in love. At least
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once, yeah. Let's
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jump now to 2009. You
13:07
mentioned your daughter, Emma, who's grown, did you
13:10
say five, six, seven inches in the
13:12
past six months? She's actually,
13:14
I think, taller than me today. And
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how old is she now? So
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2009, Emma was born. It's
13:22
a life-ordering moment for the obvious
13:24
reasons, but it also activates a
13:26
desire to investigate your
13:29
own identity. Tell me about
13:31
it. Having Emma, the doctors
13:33
always ask you what your medical history is.
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And I always spotted off what I was told. And
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for the longest time, it's really bothered me,
13:41
you know, am I really Paul? But
13:44
I had no way to really know because
13:46
DNA kits weren't available. It wasn't really a
13:48
big thing unless you were in some crime
13:50
database or something. You've done something wrong. So
13:54
finally, the doctor asked me again
13:56
and I looked at Michelle,
13:59
my ex-wife. I said, what
14:01
if I'm not Paul? Am
14:03
I doing an injustice to our daughter or to
14:05
you or to myself? Medical history,
14:08
all these things. I've got
14:10
to find out. After
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saying that, in a short time after,
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I was able to actually find out. It was
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amazing. If we could jump now to
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2012, Paul
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Franzak meets DNA testing.
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So I'm in a CVS drugstore
14:26
and I happen to see an
14:28
identi-gene paternity test. It was like
14:30
25 bucks. I
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was like, I can afford that. Because before
14:35
the DNA tests were hundreds and hundreds of dollars.
14:37
So I bought one and I put it in
14:39
the closet and I thought, next time
14:41
my parents come out to see Emma and hang out with
14:43
us, I'm going to find a way
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to have them test with me. So
14:48
a short time after I bought that, they came out. They
14:50
were out here for about two weeks and I
14:53
love my parents, and I didn't know how to bring it up. So
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I got down to about an hour before they were going to, I
14:57
was going to take them back to the airport and
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I just blurted it out. Hey, mom, did you ever really
15:02
wonder if I was really your son? She's
15:05
like, yeah, I guess we thought about it. I'm
15:08
like, what if we had a way to find out? Would
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you want to do it? She's
15:13
like, possibly. So I
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ran to the closet, brought out of the
15:17
DNA test and within three minutes, we're all
15:19
swabbing away. I know I
15:21
caught him off guard. It was probably
15:23
a little devious. It
15:25
really was, but I really wanted to know
15:28
the truth. So after we
15:30
did it, I was so happy
15:32
inside. I'm like, I have the
15:34
way to find out the truth right now in this little box. They
15:37
didn't say a word to me. I took them back
15:39
to the airport. It's maybe a 15-minute ride. I
15:42
like it took about six hours. Didn't
15:44
say a word. Drop them off,
15:47
they get to Chicago. A couple hours later,
15:49
I get a phone call. Pick it
15:51
up. My mom said, don't do it.
15:53
Don't mail it in. We don't want to
15:55
know. You're our son. That
15:58
was it. To be. clear,
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was that the first time
16:03
you'd spoken to your parents
16:06
about the possibility of you
16:08
not being their biological son
16:11
after the conversation that you had when you were
16:13
10 years old? Absolutely. Oh
16:16
my gosh. My parents said we
16:18
won't talk about it, so we didn't talk about it.
16:20
You know, me and my ex-wife Michelle, we joked a
16:22
lot about my parents would come out and visit us,
16:24
about getting hairs off their pillow, and
16:26
maybe sending them in for testing to find
16:29
out, you know? But that wasn't really available
16:31
to a regular person, a civilian, you know?
16:33
But I was always in the back of my mind,
16:35
because I really wanted to know the truth. If
16:38
you think about it, the chance of
16:40
me being a kidnapped child found
16:43
in New Jersey a couple
16:45
years later, really, what are
16:47
the chances, right? Slim. Slim
16:49
to none, yeah. So you get
16:52
the results back, and you
16:54
decide, well, first, how
16:56
did you react to the results? I was at
16:58
work at my desk. My cell
17:00
phone rang, and I answered it, and
17:02
it says, this is a denti gene. We need to
17:04
ask you some security questions. So
17:06
I answered all the questions, and then
17:09
the guy very dryly said, there's no
17:11
remote possibility that you're the son of
17:13
Doran Chester Franzak. You're not Paul
17:15
Franzak. Even though I knew it, I
17:18
knew it in my heart for the
17:20
longest time. Once you hear those words,
17:23
and you know it's real, I felt
17:25
the color drain from my face. I got
17:28
all sweaty, and I started thinking, everything I
17:30
thought about myself was a lie.
17:33
Am I really Polish? Am
17:36
I really a Taurus? All
17:38
these things that I was raised to believe, but
17:41
to be honest with you, I always knew I wasn't a Taurus. You
17:44
knew? Well, you don't like
17:46
the comforts of home and eating good meals? I
17:49
didn't have the anger stubbornness that a Taurus
17:52
has. Oh, good point.
17:54
Good point. Bullheaded. Even
17:56
though your parents had told you they
17:58
didn't want to know the results. results because in their
18:01
minds you were their son and that was
18:03
it. You did decide to tell
18:05
them. I had to. So
18:07
once I found out that I wasn't really Paul,
18:10
all I wanted to do, I had one mission. I
18:13
wanted to find out what happened to their kidnapped
18:15
child. Cause my parents gave
18:18
me the greatest gift, an amazing life. They're
18:20
amazing parents. This horrible tragic
18:22
thing happened to them that was never
18:24
solved. So I thought I
18:27
could just find their son. You
18:29
know, to me that would be like the best payback
18:31
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this point, you're not interested
20:25
so much in finding out
20:27
your biological identity. I
20:29
never thought about it. I really didn't think
20:31
about it. So it was a Saturday
20:33
morning and I thought the best way to
20:36
try to solve this mystery would be
20:38
to use the media. And
20:40
the only guy I thought of was George
20:42
Knapp from KLAS TV here in Las Vegas.
20:45
He's an old school reporter, the
20:47
coolest guy. He's won numerous Peabody
20:50
Awards. He cracked Area 51, paranormal
20:54
conspiracies. He's a co-host on Coast
20:56
to Coast AM, one of my
20:58
favorite radio shows. So
21:00
I sent him a
21:02
three sentence email. I said,
21:04
this is my situation. What do you
21:06
think? He got back to me in 15
21:09
minutes. I want to meet you. So
21:11
that following Monday, I went to their
21:13
studio. We talked. He's like, we got
21:15
to do a story on this. We got to solve this. And
21:18
after we're talking for a while, he looks at me and he said,
21:21
by the way, don't you want to know who you are? And
21:23
I'm like, I guess. I really didn't think
21:26
about it. I just want to find their kidnapped child.
21:28
So we started putting together a segment. And
21:31
right before we finished it, he looked at me and he said,
21:33
you better tell your parents because
21:35
when this goes out, it's going to be
21:37
a shitstorm. And you don't
21:39
want your parents finding out by
21:41
watching TV. And he was right. How
21:44
did you present the truth to your parents? So
21:48
that was a little tricky for me. My parents were
21:50
both up in age, a little hard of hearing. I
21:53
knew if I told them over the phone,
21:55
they would only hear what they wanted to hear. They
21:57
would probably miss most of it. and
22:00
not process it. So I wrote an email.
22:03
I just sat down and it just flowed out of me.
22:06
I just poured my heart out. This is
22:08
the situation. I love you guys. I want
22:10
to find your son and I want to
22:12
do this with you and
22:14
on this journey together. And that's
22:16
what I sent them. But in
22:18
your mind, was that going
22:20
to go well? I thought
22:22
it's going to be beautiful. They're going to
22:24
understand it. They're going to say, yes,
22:26
we want to do this journey together with you. Let's
22:29
find our kidnapped child together. It
22:32
can go over that. Not at all. Not at
22:34
all like I thought. What happened?
22:37
Well, first, I didn't hear anything for about a day. And
22:40
the story is going to air in a couple of days. Finally,
22:43
my phone rings because my mom screaming
22:45
at me. How dare you do this
22:47
to us? We told you not to
22:49
do this. You're not happy with us.
22:51
You're looking for better parents. My
22:54
dad gets on the phone. My dad never
22:56
cusses. He said one thing to me. You're
22:59
an asshole. And you're sitting
23:01
there thinking, what the fuck
23:03
just happened? What the fuck?
23:05
Yeah. But
23:08
I will tell you, in all honesty, I
23:10
never had any regrets or second thoughts ever
23:13
because I only want to live the truth. But
23:16
not live in the truth. You're living a lie. And
23:18
you mentioned that the story was going
23:20
to air a few days later after
23:23
your parents contacted you. Did you
23:25
speak again until the show? We
23:28
didn't talk for, I'm going to say, about
23:30
a year. That must have been hard.
23:32
Yeah, it was terrible. It wasn't what I expected,
23:34
you know, because I mean, I
23:37
was embarking on something that was new territory for
23:39
me. I just wanted to
23:41
find the truth. And I just wanted to help
23:43
find their kidnapped child. You know,
23:45
and what's funny is everyone said, don't waste your time.
23:47
It's been so many years. You're not going to find
23:49
anything. Just let it go. Really
23:52
surprises me. Yeah. I
23:54
mean, because I never entered my mind. I
23:56
had a mission and I was determined to
23:59
solve that mission. No matter what. Contrary
24:01
to what people said, this is
24:03
the moment where the momentum really
24:05
starts picking up. I
24:07
know that a real key figure in
24:10
this was American genealogist,
24:12
Cece Moore. She
24:14
gets in contact with you, I believe,
24:16
after the airing of the show. Right.
24:19
So I did a 2020 with Barbara Walters
24:22
and George and I set up George Knapp.
24:24
We set up this website, you know, a
24:26
Facebook page who was Paul Franzak. People
24:29
could write in tips, information,
24:31
suggestions, or just comments, whatever.
24:33
Because we were determined to solve this mystery.
24:36
After I did the 2020, tips started flying
24:39
in. And then I did
24:41
an episode of Coast to Coast AM with George and
24:43
Cece Moore heard that and she reached out and said,
24:45
Oh my God, I'm getting into
24:47
this. I have a team of DNA soccer
24:49
moms and this is what we do. Because
24:52
it was 2012. That was just getting
24:54
started. You know, Ancestry was, you
24:56
know, starting to grow a little bit. But
24:59
everyone, it wasn't, it wasn't like, it wasn't
25:01
part of your conversation that everyone has now.
25:03
So she reached out. She said, I'd love to help you on
25:05
this. You know, pro bono. Let's find out who you are. Let's
25:07
try to find Paul. I said, great.
25:10
Let's do it. Which answer came first? Well,
25:14
I found out who I was. So we started
25:16
this at the very end of 2012, 2013. I
25:19
thought this is how naive I was. I thought
25:21
we'd, you know, a couple of weeks, we'll get
25:23
the answers. It'll be great. It took
25:25
years. We didn't find out who I was till 2015.
25:29
How did that information come about? What
25:31
was the first breadcrumb in cracking
25:33
the case? So when I first did Ancestry, I
25:35
had no matches for a couple of months. Talk
25:38
about being abandoned. You put your
25:40
DNA out on the website and you get no
25:42
matches. Right? It's not
25:44
going to be a self-confidence. So
25:47
eventually I had a match. I had a second
25:49
cousin, third cousin, Alan Fish. I'm
25:51
like, oh my God, this is amazing. It
25:53
turns out that Alan's children gave him
25:55
a DNA test to help him find
25:57
his family because he was adopted. He
26:00
was adopted as well. That was adopted.
26:03
So he and I talked and we're like, oh my
26:05
God, let's solve this. You know, I'm
26:07
like, who's your family? He goes, I don't know. I'm
26:10
like, I don't know my family. So we had
26:12
each other and that was it. So
26:14
we thought, okay, together, we can
26:16
help solve this mystery. So we're all
26:19
set to go to New York because he lived in New York
26:21
upstate. I was going to fly to New York and we're going
26:23
to meet. A couple of days before we're
26:25
supposed to meet, he wakes up not feeling
26:27
so well. Chest pains. So he
26:29
goes to the hospital for a checkup. He's telling
26:31
everybody to hurry up at the tests because he's going
26:33
to meet his real family. Right? He dies.
26:38
Absolutely tragic. The story of your
26:40
life is filled with incredible highs
26:42
and incredible lows. You know, you
26:44
have these breakthroughs and then all
26:47
of a sudden something
26:49
like this happens. The highest
26:51
peaks in the darkest valleys. And so
26:53
once Alan transitioned,
26:55
what then did you
26:57
do? So thankfully,
27:00
with the help of 2020 and other
27:02
people, we were able to get his
27:04
adoption file opened. His
27:06
mom was listed, but no father. I
27:09
started having more matches on my family tree.
27:11
We had a third cousin and a fourth
27:13
cousin. And one of
27:15
my cousins remembered getting an oral history of
27:17
the family through her grandfather. She
27:20
remembers something about
27:23
the name of the high school where
27:25
Alan's mom was from. At
27:28
the same high school, I had a second cousin,
27:30
Lenny. So Cece
27:32
Moore and her team reached out to Lenny, DNA
27:34
test. Lenny was
27:36
Alan's father. Lenny, of course,
27:38
had a little fling when he was like 16 or so,
27:40
17. And
27:44
he never knew that she was pregnant and she
27:46
had Alan. So he never knew. And
27:49
it's a really bittersweet for Lenny because
27:51
he found out that he had a grandson after
27:54
he passed away. No. Yeah,
27:56
it was tragic all around. point
28:00
of meeting Lenny, I'm trying
28:02
to figure out how you
28:05
discover that your biological identity
28:07
is Jack Rosenthal. So
28:09
thankfully meeting Lenny and then C.C. Moore
28:12
and her team built a tree and
28:14
they started going through all the family, both
28:17
sides. Turns out that
28:19
Lenny's first cousin Gilbert had
28:21
twins, Jack and a Jill. But
28:25
Gilbert was my dad. So you
28:27
find out that you're can simultaneously
28:29
you find out you have a
28:31
twin sister Jill which raises another
28:34
huge question mark, where is my
28:36
twin sister Jill? So
28:39
I started out trying to find the real Paul and
28:41
maybe find out who I was. The very
28:43
second I found out my true identity, I was
28:46
hit with your Jack and by the
28:48
way you had a twin sister Jill
28:50
and she's missing. Mind blowing. You also,
28:53
do you find out then that you have
28:55
two older siblings as well? Yeah, I found
28:57
out that I had two older sisters and a
28:59
younger brother. Two older sisters and
29:01
a younger brother and are you able to get in
29:03
contact with them at that time? It
29:05
took a while and it took a lot
29:08
of going back and forth. I was able to meet
29:10
my older sister. My in between sister
29:12
passed away. I got to meet my
29:14
older sister and I got to talk an email with
29:16
my younger brother. But
29:18
after a little conversation
29:20
with them, they kind of just said, we want
29:22
nothing to do with this. They just shut the
29:24
door on me. Did you have any
29:27
idea or suspicions as
29:29
to why they didn't want to
29:31
have anything to do with you?
29:33
Well, I have a lot of a lot of ideas, but
29:36
I can't get into those right now. But
29:39
you can use your imagination. Yes,
29:41
I mean you
29:44
do also, I don't
29:46
know when this comes in the story, but
29:48
you get to meet up with a
29:51
lady who babysat you for a short
29:53
period of time back when you were
29:55
still living in the
29:58
Rosenthal household. What were you? you
30:00
able to discover about
30:02
the first two years of your life? So
30:05
I discovered, well, before I even I was
30:07
able to meet the babysitter, I've heard stories
30:10
about how Jill and I were treated. We
30:12
were definitely neglected, abused, not
30:15
treated very well at all. But when
30:17
I got to meet the babysitter who watched us
30:19
for one night, she was
30:21
a junior or senior in high
30:24
school. When I met her a few years ago,
30:27
it's like it just happened. All
30:29
the emotions and everything that
30:32
she felt was still there. It
30:35
just impacted her so, so
30:38
heavily at the nightmare that she
30:40
went through. The night that she found Jill and I,
30:43
my parents were going out. She babysat
30:45
the neighbors. My mom
30:47
leaned over the fence and said, can you watch my two
30:50
daughters for a night? So
30:52
she came over to watch the two daughters. My
30:56
parents were leaving. I said, don't worry about
30:58
the twins upstairs. They're totally
31:00
fine. So she heard twins.
31:03
All she ever saw were the two other girls playing
31:05
outside. My parents left. She ran
31:07
upstairs to look in the bedroom. Darken
31:10
bedroom, smell, no food,
31:13
no water, dirty sheets, dirty
31:16
diapers. Jill and I were in
31:18
separate cages. She didn't
31:20
even say clay pens in a
31:22
dark room. I had a black eye
31:24
and she said that Jill
31:26
was just staring at her and I was
31:28
kind of cowering, but we didn't make any
31:31
sound the whole night. So she called
31:33
her sister over to take care of the other kids. And
31:35
she took care of Jack and Jill the whole night. She
31:38
did confront your parents about it. Did she
31:40
not? My parents came over the next morning
31:43
and she said, by the way, the twins are fine. I took
31:45
care of them. My mom said, I
31:47
told you not to go upstairs. You
31:49
don't listen very well. Started screaming at her. She
31:52
said that she ran out of the house and she never
31:54
looked back. Shortly after
31:56
that time, the twins were gone. And
31:58
that's when you're found. abandoned
32:02
at the front of a
32:04
storefront and Jill disappears. What
32:08
can you share with us about
32:10
the discoveries you've been making in
32:12
your quest to find your missing
32:15
twin sister Jill? Are
32:17
you under the impression that she is out there and
32:19
you are going to find her? So when
32:21
I first started this, the stories I heard
32:24
were that one of the twins seemed to
32:26
be a little weaker and fragile and
32:28
perhaps something bad happened to one of
32:30
them. So when I
32:32
first started this journey I was afraid that
32:34
maybe Jill had died. That's why my parents
32:36
got rid of me because they couldn't explain one
32:39
twin hanging around the house. But
32:41
since then I've changed my whole way
32:43
of thinking. I believe she's alive and
32:46
I can't get into too much right now because
32:48
working at something really big and it's
32:51
going to come out really soon. Can't
32:53
wait. Oh, I love
32:55
this journey. But I really believe
32:57
that she's alive and she has no idea who
32:59
she is. What methods are
33:01
you using to find Jill?
33:04
Is it online? Is it
33:06
campaigning to raise awareness? Is
33:09
it the use of psychics? I don't know if
33:11
you've ever tried psychics as alternative forms
33:14
of finding answers. Okay,
33:16
so I'm an ex-filer guy, right? Yes,
33:19
I know I'm looking at the tattoo. So
33:21
I believe in psychics. I've
33:24
talked to numerous psychics and they all say
33:26
the same thing. She's alive.
33:28
They had no idea who I was. Right?
33:32
That's very promising. I'm
33:34
also working with NACMEC, the National Center for
33:36
Missing and Exploited Children. There's a
33:39
whole story with that that I can't
33:41
get into right now. But it's actually
33:44
it's in my book True Identity. It
33:46
gets really in depth about what happened with that
33:48
whole opening the case. NACMEC
33:51
has a great campaign. They have an age
33:53
progression photo of what Jill could possibly look
33:55
like. And to be
33:57
honest with you, they're really good because the age
33:59
progression... photo of the real Paul
34:02
was pretty much spot on on how the real
34:04
Paul looked when we found him. Tell me
34:06
about how you found the real Paul. That
34:08
was, there was a
34:10
member Watergate, they had
34:13
a deep throat. Deep throat was the
34:15
informant, right, undercover informant that would tell
34:18
the information. I had a tipster.
34:21
This tipster was close to the
34:23
story, reached out and said, I think
34:25
I found the real Paul. So
34:27
that person would give me little tips and I would follow
34:30
up on him and then give me a little more. I
34:32
would follow up a little more. And we ended
34:34
up using one of my mom's
34:36
enormous cousins as kind of
34:39
bait on 23andMe. Had
34:41
a match and that turned out
34:43
to be the daughters of the real
34:45
Paul. And the real Paul
34:48
match has brothers to Dave who was also
34:50
on 23andMe. Absolutely
34:52
fascinating. What were
34:54
you able to find out about
34:56
what happened to Paul from the
34:59
point he was kidnapped? So he ended up
35:01
being in a small town only a few
35:03
hours from Chicago. That's where
35:05
he was raised. It's funny,
35:07
it's, you know, everyone said when
35:09
I started this don't waste your time, you'll never find
35:11
them, especially alive. And
35:14
I always said, no, we're going to find
35:16
this guy and I'm going to give him his birth certificate
35:18
and I'm going to claim mine because I
35:20
had both. And sure enough, we
35:22
found him alive. But once again, you
35:24
know, it's always with this journey,
35:26
it's always one step forward, two steps back,
35:29
right? The same time that
35:31
he finds out he's the real Paul, he's
35:33
diagnosed with a very aggressive cancer. Oh,
35:36
he has a few months to live.
35:38
And your parents are unable to meet
35:40
him? Double whammy. Diagnosed
35:42
with cancer and then COVID hit our
35:44
country. And of course, everything got shut
35:46
down. The reason I
35:48
started this was for one reason. And my
35:51
parents reunite with their kidnapped child. I
35:55
was able to accomplish that. My
35:57
mom was able to speak with him numerous times.
36:00
and she got to say goodbye to him before he
36:02
passed away. And to me, I didn't
36:04
have to meet him. I didn't care about
36:07
any of that. I just wanted my mom to
36:09
have closure on the kidnapping. The
36:12
whole journey was worth it for that
36:14
one thing. When you were
36:16
able to give your mom closure
36:19
for the kidnapping, what
36:21
was your perspective or perception
36:24
of how that helped her
36:26
in her own healing? I'll
36:28
summit like this. My mom, who
36:31
never wanted to do anything, or
36:33
listen to this or talk about it, this
36:35
whole event, she told me, she
36:37
said, you know what? Because of
36:39
you starting this, we were able
36:42
to find my kidnapped child. But
36:44
you're my Paul. You're
36:47
my son. I
36:49
was like, wow, that was like the heaviest
36:51
thing I could have ever heard. That is
36:53
so beautiful. I'm getting emotional. Yeah, my
36:55
mom's an amazing woman. You've obviously accrued
36:58
so much wisdom relating
37:00
to self-discovery, truth-telling, and
37:02
identity. Can you please
37:04
share some of those drops of
37:07
wisdom with us? I'll
37:09
tell you, you know, you have to knock on
37:11
doors. You've got to find
37:13
your truths. If you think something's not right
37:15
in your life, something's not true,
37:18
it doesn't matter. To me, you've got
37:20
to do it. If you
37:22
think something's a lie, you've got to find
37:24
the truth. I think the
37:26
biggest problem in our lives is that if something's
37:28
not true, we make up things in our head.
37:31
And those things that you make up, that's what really
37:34
hurts you because you don't know. You
37:36
know, you can ruminate, and it can
37:38
make it worse and worse. But once you know
37:40
the truth, no matter how bad it might be,
37:42
at least you know it's the truth. You
37:45
can take that and then start healing and
37:47
moving forward and processing it instead
37:50
of making up all these things in your head that aren't true. People
37:53
ask me how to get started, what to do on their
37:55
journeys. Just start, you
37:58
know, start knocking on doors. calling,
38:00
talking to people, don't
38:02
take no for an answer. And don't let someone tell
38:04
you that you won't find answers,
38:06
because if you work hard enough, you're gonna find
38:09
something. Beautifully said. Last
38:11
thought, what would you like your legacy
38:14
to be? Okay, so
38:16
I'm starting a podcast called The
38:18
Franzac Files. And basically, we're
38:20
gonna tell my whole story inside and
38:22
out and we're also gonna help
38:25
people that have identity issues. Maybe they don't know
38:27
who they are. Something's not right
38:29
in their background and they're afraid to get started.
38:32
So I want my legacy to be that I've
38:34
done everything I could to help
38:36
anyone that would like help. And
38:39
also, I want my daughter to really, really
38:42
appreciate the family that she has,
38:45
you know, through my film and my books.
38:48
And to just, you know, never be afraid
38:50
to seek the truth. Because
38:53
the truth is out there. We
38:55
just have to find it. Thank
38:58
you so much for joining us for this week's
39:00
episode of Unfiltered. To follow
39:02
Paul's ever-evolving journey and quest
39:04
to find his missing twin sister, Jill, please
39:07
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