In this episode, we cover where the hell I've been, attachment theory, why we need other people and why "isolation" culture is an enemy of personal development and growth.

9: Can We Be Freed from the Shackles of "Talking" and "Situationships"?

Jan 10th, 2022 16m 30s

In today's episode, Clara wonders why we don't allow ourselves to feel the emotions of a breakup when we weren't "actually together." Why is our generation so afraid of the word "dating"? We discuss "talking," "situationships," and what defines

8: I'm a Serial Dater and It Has to Stop + New Years Resolutions

Jan 3rd, 2022 29m 52s

Happy 2022! Season 2 is off to a great start with Clara setting some goals for the new year. In this episode, Clara discusses her serial dating (or serial relationshipping), goals to stay out of a relationship and why she was dating to marry at

7: Emotional Labour in Relationships (with Brionnae Marillier)

Mar 22nd, 2021 49m 39s

In today's episode, Clara is joined by a very special guest and dear friend, Brionnae Marillier. Brionnae is a writer, blogger, educator and certified long-term romantic relationship member. She shares with us what emotional labour means to her

6: Do I Need to Take a Break From Dating or Change the Way That I'm Dating?

Mar 17th, 2021 23m 48s

In today's episode, Clara explains how to know if you need to take a break from dating or change the way you're dating. We discuss what should happen during a break, signs you need to do a dating detox, signs you need to change how you're datin

5: Chemistry vs Compatibility – Which is More Important?

Mar 15th, 2021 26m 18s

In today's episode, Clara explains chemistry and compatibility in romantic relationships. We discuss the types of incompatibility, the components of compatibility and which is more important in a relationship.

4: The Honeymoon Phase – Why Do We Lose the Spark in Relationships?

Feb 3rd, 2021 22m 25s

In today's episode, Clara address why we lose the 'spark' in relationships after the honeymoon phase and how to get it back. We discuss the 3 stages of love and the physiological responses in intimacy and attraction that are the driving force b

3: How to Build Confidence + Why You Shouldn't Fake it Until You Make It

Feb 1st, 2021 17m 32s

In today's episode, Clara talks about defining confidence, different types of confidence and confidence-building techniques that may do more harm than good. We address why it's important for parents to not give their children false praise, why

2: Body Dysmorphia, Eating Disorders & Perception of Beauty

Jan 25th, 2021 31m 5s

Happy Monday! In today's episode, Clara is unprepared and on a high from guesting on Peace of Mind with Taraji P. Henson! We address eating disorders, body dysmorphia and how perception of beauty is manipulated.

1: Imposter Syndrome + Why We're Afraid to Date Outside Our League

Jan 20th, 2021 26m 42s

In the premiere episode of Unjaided, Clara tackles imposter syndrome in dating and shares her "litmus test" to figure out if selling herself short in dating. We talk about why Black women expected to settle, why we're afraid to date out of our

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0: Welcome to UnJaided | Trailer

Oct 5th, 2020 9m 10s

Welcome to Unjaided: The Podcast. Hosted by blogger and life & dating coach (in training), Clara Jaide, Unjaided covers different aspects of relationships, dating, intimacy and sexuality. Each week, Clara, along with some guests, share personal

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