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is unorthodox. The Universe is leading Jewish
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podcast. I am Stefanie by Make and
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I'm joined by my cars coming to
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us Live from the Holy Land Leah
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Leibovitz. A Shalom to everyone. Have a
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lot of the television and it's nice
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and straight at a Hollywood Joshua. Molina
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but. I'm in
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a Wallace city so I can. I wish you
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a happy for. Usually on a. That
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actually have one Jewish guess and one
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gentile. This week we're feeling spicy. We
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have three Jews know gentiles. Is it
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because are no more gentiles who wish to speak to
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us? It's eight years of the cell. There are
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all We have spoken to every single one Saturday. First
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Passes New book of short Stories The
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Terrifying Realm of The Possible. Reduce.
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Three interviews, but. First these three jews,
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what's going on guys doesn't leave the
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house out. Portman Hollywood? well look to
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my great shame Ice I've started to
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celebrate things in isolated trash. a resume
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had a big impact on might be
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part of call you throw what would
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you say You read your on Mugello.
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The kind of sad isn't it? You'd
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be a D Y O m view.
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you did your own Mcgillis exactly this.
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kind of amazing though it's not as
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raucous because has for hims. Past seven
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Hola A we are we talking form leaning
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here. Did you do the whole they have
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them Again I didn't although I know the
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mughal a trap. I just read,
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of course you do. I actually did
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manage to drink to the point of
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not being able to distinguish between come
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on and mortified because. I. Posted
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a picture and as he Heyman
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as a Hamas bring Them All
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Home tweets in which I posted
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a famous depiction of about i'm
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Mortified but I forgot that it's
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it's more, found, the worse and
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across that mortified. Islam. Is that
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you really are that? Most
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I guess that that is t door
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mitzvah butter. From what we are, more importantly, this
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proves you are. You are the whole Mcgillis forget triple
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threat. You are the whole Mcgill. A home legally
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Gorilla I'm a triple threat. You could. See
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you to dance You can read Okay I have
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a Perm revelation because I have to say I
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never quite.what all the fuss was about with Per:
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I'm and will be started preschool this year. It
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was like we don't do with our we and
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we do per hour. But like you wouldn't believe
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that Perm is so fun. It's a whole week
4:22
of the kids just. Funny everyday and I
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was like whatever let's assume Halloween. But
4:27
now I've seen it and it's amazing.
4:29
There's something really transgressive about this idea
4:31
of like this is ours does could
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be a bunch of kids dressing and
4:35
thousand you don't have any idea why?
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Maybe. But. That's okay. like there's something
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really amazing about. like. We actually
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don't need. Halloween Parade is ours
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for the taking. our remembers: being
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younger and feeling super transgressive been
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sure just running around and making
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noise, possibly drinking as an underage
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person abs of very poor clarinet
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player. I would bring the mouthpiece
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of my clarinet, just the mouthpiece
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and a read so on every
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game and I can make just
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the loudest, most discordant noise in
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school. I loved. Anyone
5:07
who's ever been in like middle school bad knows
5:09
exactly. What noise that is. It's unbearable. And
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eighty four, it. And
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they did the congregation. Honestly, I could not
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love porn more. It's kind of an embarrassment
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of riches. As like as if someone came
5:19
and said. To. Like like dressing up
5:21
and give me your friends candy and receiving
5:24
lots of tasty treats. Like sure. That's really
5:26
nice. Other. Also some nice charity some
5:28
but a live you name some gifts for the
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poor was like wow that sounds great. How.
5:33
About. It also entails.
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Drinking. In. Excess of
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I That sounds amazing to
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me. And then finally? how
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about is also a story.
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That. Reads like the World's greatest
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Telenovelas. And. Culminates in
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the story of the zoo's slaughtering
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seventy five thousand of their prosecutors
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and enemies by guys some a
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new me really really well and
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design and entire holiday. Around
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me. This. One has everything but
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I'm celebrating here in Israel form here
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is serious. there is no Halloween Halloween
6:07
as but at this and rumor on
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American television shows and some amazing amazing
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things happened to us on this form
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of her to them because I see
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the really great first producer Korea is
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that and I went to this school
6:20
in Tel Aviv which my great grandfather
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built. not much of a five but
6:24
yeah wow that's it. therefore say I'm
6:26
impressed at the party was intense they
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have like an amazing amazing bad and.
6:31
Every time. When. You know
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whose name was mentioned Instead of grog or
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and like banging and on the pews. They.
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Had the band just play a
6:40
risk from like a cool sounds
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like viola math. Ah man San
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San San San San say it
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was like the most think our
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credible incredibles have sex and every
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one is recipe all the adults
6:52
her dress up it's path to
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the gills than me go out
6:56
to those shows like courtyard work
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my dad would skip school. To.
7:00
Go play with his friends! And. There
7:03
was open bar, hundreds of
7:05
people, Incredible fun! And.
7:07
Or friend rabbi the is there to.
7:09
And. He notices this person standing right
7:11
there in. the show is now called
7:14
Tel Aviv International Synagogue as obviously who
7:16
goes to show in Tel Aviv? It's
7:18
only pretty much Americans and know people
7:20
who moved from France. And so
7:22
this guy standing there. And. He's dressed
7:25
up like Macgyver. And. The
7:27
three of us, being men and women have
7:29
a certain age, are very excited to see
7:31
our childhood hero represented in this way. And.
7:34
Then it goes to talk to this
7:36
person who of course transitive been from
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queens. And see says.
7:41
That's. A really nice cost him and he
7:43
says hey thanks. And. She says you
7:45
must really hate Macgyver. And. He
7:48
says. Who's. Macgyver assists and then
7:50
we look at the sky and will realize
7:52
not only did he not know that he
7:54
was going as Macgyver, I don't think he
7:56
was actually wearing a costume, he just had
7:59
a mullet of. The Jacket and
8:01
those very particular Macgyver Ray Bans.
8:03
And will like have never mind you
8:05
look cool My friend is the eye
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of the art us but that is
8:10
nothing nothing compared to the day. That.
8:13
Are good friend and Sabbath magazine call
8:15
he gave Sanders had these. He decided.
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That. Because today as we record this as
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Monday Night in Israel Monday afternoon in
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in New York Monday morning or Sunday
8:24
or Wednesday. whatever it is analysis is
8:26
the today is on Purim. It's the
8:28
extra day of celebration that you get
8:30
if you live in a walled city.
8:32
so game isn't she was some. He
8:34
decided to celebrate the day by going
8:36
to mass housing the really really amazing
8:38
neighborhood where you know mainly orthodox people
8:40
list and he knew that one of
8:42
them bits vote one of the commandments
8:44
of this holidays to give gifts for
8:46
so had his pockets. Filled with I to censor
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two points it's this is as not nothing like to
8:50
laugh dollars since I did. You know people are probably
8:52
going to ask for gifts and I'm going to be
8:54
done as and sure enough as soon as he walks
8:57
in. A bunch of kids in
8:59
a young boys with arab side last down
9:01
to the waste run to him and ask
9:03
for months. The first one comes Gabe offers
9:05
detention for point. And. A kid looks
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at him. With. A side disdainful are
9:10
going to stay site. Now
9:12
not worth my efforts com guess I do it
9:14
as a job. Dollars is not nothing either like
9:16
ride the subway with this if you at a
9:18
subway in some way to go to. But.
9:20
The kid walks away so all the other kids
9:23
com and gave gives all the other kids money
9:25
because games. Super nice person and then the first
9:27
kid comes right back. And he
9:29
says hey man, I was first. Give.
9:31
Me a coin. And gave says well
9:34
but I offered you a coin or etti and you'd
9:36
turn it out. And the kid
9:38
says okay, but I want to now. Gay.
9:40
Breaches as well as A But I have
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no more points to give you. And
9:45
the kid looks at him and says. But.
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There isn't a T M nearby. And
9:50
gave says i'm not gonna do
9:52
that. And the kid looks at
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him with the site I see, steer pointed
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him and his is walking away says. Nice.
10:00
The. We. Did an amazing
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a half of them have about
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his neighbors. A space is not
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beautiful is is nice. Nice Dlc.
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Gabe says ah for him Here
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from early and like the Muslim
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else that's. Amazing! Isolate like Zed
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Mo really changes since the calculus
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hear. Exactly. There's always more the
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don't worry if is a scan. The
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Qr code suggests that I have been
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my arm aka and sell me. It's
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fine but a Yarmulke with a Qr
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code that accepts donations is amazing. That
10:30
such us ingenuity. Just to the
10:33
stereotype. census. Of
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it's you. And
10:42
D J move the
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goods. Let's
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get that news of the zoos Sasso
10:50
Molina You come in with a personal
10:52
injury. Yes so in the hits
10:54
close to home for yo breaking
10:56
as you see away at which
10:58
university I have a deer. loved
11:01
ones that are was a protest
11:03
outside the meeting of the you
11:05
see the University of California regions.
11:07
I guess the ideas to get
11:09
them to divest from Israel and
11:11
how do they choose to express
11:13
their opinion? They build a pig
11:15
statue, a pig carrying a Jewish
11:17
star in a bag of money.
11:19
Once again I guess conflating all
11:21
Jews with. Israel and coming up
11:24
with the at Not that I
11:26
support anti Zionism, but coming up
11:28
with a mode of expression that
11:30
fails to distinguish. Between at
11:32
the Zionism an anti semitism at least
11:34
for once the university spoke to the
11:36
Jewish or Nord said we are offended
11:39
and deeply saddened by the ugly It's
11:41
anti semitic caricature that was displayed as
11:43
part of a protest aimed at the
11:45
University of California Board of Regents them
11:48
many usually it's on Wednesday and Thursday
11:50
and the protest ended and the displays
11:52
been removed but not without doing I
11:54
think the kind of damage it was
11:57
intended to do and to make Jewish
11:59
students and. Professor that you feel I
12:01
feel. Less. Secure about their
12:03
safety in and around campus isn't
12:05
a just wonderful that all the
12:08
pretenses gone. Only just love
12:10
advantages like straight forward star, fully a
12:12
pig with money is really refreshing. It
12:14
is nice when I don't have to
12:17
pick through and figure out what the
12:19
protesters are saying. They're just right on
12:21
the on the nose As a word,
12:24
Yeah, this is this a grouse. The pig is
12:26
on fire. The up says i
12:28
asked the doctor box it's it's bad
12:30
when not anti semitic were just at
12:33
a zionist guess that you money grubbing
12:35
pig heaps users. Yeah,
12:37
it's it's it's it's to the. Pegasus offensive
12:39
is the pixels we like bacon or are
12:42
we the pigs or that making fun of
12:44
us at jews to usually not eating pork
12:46
we. Are the greedy Yeah, where
12:48
the greedy pigs Were the pigs And
12:50
we can even eat pigs right? Wow
12:53
wow wow that that next. Had Cpm.
12:55
As poor as said they must
12:57
grab by the money but. You know
12:59
sometimes though these horrible things happen we do see
13:01
to me news coming together and that is what
13:04
we saw in New York But one of my
13:06
favorite places and I'm yelling i think one of
13:08
your as I said spent a lot of time
13:10
with me What Esses Cafe on the upper west
13:12
side of Manhattan and the front of the restaurant
13:14
and that the sidewalk near at work vandalized with
13:16
messages reading free Gaza and on the sidewalk a
13:18
set of for mine here to support genocide. Which
13:21
is really funny because of you know jews
13:23
you know we never line up like it
13:25
as a matter of was a big excuse
13:27
me djelic I got tied to have a
13:29
question that's the to go in there real
13:31
quick and grab something like line high you
13:33
you really don't know as right You obviously
13:35
haven't subject lot marred of the week before
13:37
police arrived as despite. People just came and
13:39
started cleaning it up. There are some photos
13:41
of just people someone has it is really
13:44
flag draped on them this passers by getting
13:46
down there scrub it out and it's depressing.
13:48
but seeing this response me as a bad
13:50
I'm like the responses so nice people came
13:52
together is that where the bar is so
13:54
low that I'm just like with some nicely
13:57
we came together to clean off the anti
13:59
semitic. Whatever way, We can find I think
14:01
and. Yeah, but I just say we do
14:03
have some good news. Here are some good
14:05
news for the jews for now at least
14:07
Sprayer agree. To a headline from The Jewish Chronicle.
14:10
Aaron. Taylor Johnson Rumored to become
14:13
first Jewish James Bond and I
14:15
will have you know that rumored
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is spelled. Oh you because this
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is a British Public servants of for
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a for tonight's remorse about Aaron Taylor
14:23
Johnson some scan read you a murder
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bit of this article. Because this is
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this is big news Stews after Aaron Taylor
14:29
Johnson is rumored to have been quotes formerly
14:32
offered the role of James Bond for the
14:34
next film In the popular. Franchise Or oh,
14:36
and. He's become the first Jewish after
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to portray the illustrious Double O seven
14:40
spy. Speculation began early last year when
14:43
Taylor Johnson, thirty three, known for his
14:45
versatility across roles in tic as Bullet
14:47
Train and Know Our Boy was rumored
14:50
to have met with Bond producer Barbara
14:52
Broccoli for a secret addition. Through
14:54
which he became the front runner for the coveted role.
14:57
This. Could be big for us. Our
14:59
first seems Bonds I. I was thrilled
15:01
to this news, particularly because I remembered
15:03
and I have now confirmed that I
15:05
created a hash tag game. And
15:08
twenty eleven on Twitter called Jewish
15:10
Bond Films. Here. Were my entries
15:12
and now are my suggestions for the first
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film starring. Rg respond. Or
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diamonds are expensive Misfits always
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say never again. Hymans are
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forever. The
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spy who loved me through a hole in the see. Musab
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take forever as this is recommended
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by some and they bend the
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Levant states octopus she's. Those
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are my chances. It's for the first to respond
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film you Been ready for this for over a
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decade of security. Thirteen years I've been waiting for
15:43
this moment. I'm thrilled was the only thing that
15:45
I could think about is. If
15:47
Aaron Taylor Johnson married actress
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on the at tailored Joy?
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Yes! They. Would be What?
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No air And and on the ah Taylor
15:56
Johnson Taylor joy and love it till adroit.
15:58
Oh Johnson I think this is exciting. Until
16:00
of course people like inevitably start like protesting
16:02
against the idea of a Jewish. James Bond which
16:04
I feel like is a museum. Now not as he
16:06
semitism, it's it's just anti Zionism because
16:08
we don't want to read to go to
16:11
a parody Hebrew as James Bond by. This
16:13
will lots of hunting game and he does over
16:15
the to. Do much better than yours but
16:17
I imagine our a brilliantly our listeners have
16:20
of all the suggestions I will say our
16:22
producer does cross said that his tagline to
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be seeking not snored oh that's good as
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very good is tweak for the for the
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roles that see you should be his mother.
16:31
Arm and is Not Am. A
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sucker for so I'll invite all of you
16:36
listeners to write an unorthodox it's have like.com
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more likely to be enraged these be as
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boss which in the den a take movies
16:42
because it was Judi Dench dame Judi and
16:45
yesterday com mom. So. Far,
16:47
but as a mom. With. I
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go hiking airdrop right now a know
16:51
as yes I am in Switzerland yes
16:53
I will do what you asked me
16:56
and be amazing but honestly we already
16:58
we've already had a Jewish James Bond.
17:01
His. Name was the Zohan and you
17:03
do not miss the greatest do
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a super agent ever to edges
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and are always on far. We.
17:09
Have one more entertainment related story. This
17:11
a little bit less exciting, but I
17:13
here's here's a headline for your original
17:16
read: Power Rangers Months and clothing line
17:18
censoring Hitler quotes. Yeah, I saw this
17:20
Hits me more than you guys have
17:22
like Power Rangers with like a real
17:24
sable of my childhood. I'm. Too old
17:26
for the original read because what? There were other
17:28
reds who followed. Yes, yes, there was
17:31
a recasting. Yeah, there was. There was
17:33
a lot. So here's the article. Austin
17:35
St. John, best known for playing Z
17:37
Suddenly Stop the Original Red Ranger and
17:39
Mighty Morphing Power Rangers, recently announced that
17:41
he will be launching a line of
17:43
merchandise called The Warrior Line The New
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Any such a feature quotes from prominent
17:47
historical figures. Speaking on a podcast, St.
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John explained the choice to include quotes
17:51
from Hitler. He says, I'm going as
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famous quotes from Warriors of All Elks
17:56
including the terrible ones Hitler was, you
17:58
know, a dinner on steroids. Some
18:00
pretty good one liners. For God
18:02
he continued. The point is to look to
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our pass to leaders both. Good and terrible
18:06
and take from them what you can. This
18:09
is an inch interesting interpretation of that. What
18:11
would you guys? Think about this as he
18:13
gets a bad idea. Some pretty good one
18:15
liners like like work makes you free That's
18:17
a great while my moods but that and
18:19
the teaser but it around I want that
18:21
I'm at a laptop sicker down to I'm
18:24
curious to know with which of Hitler's Angie
18:26
one liners make it onto those clothes. The
18:28
line is called.hitler Baby one more time. I
18:32
feel like we do this better than all these
18:34
people exist. Let us. Decide you're a
18:36
sensitive? Yeah, Seriously awesome since all much
18:39
as such as higher jews you want
18:41
to hitler towards jews will replace you.
18:43
Is it a line of brown shirts
18:45
that I have. Ah
18:48
well. Thanks Everyone who makes the New is easy
18:50
for us to laugh at as is as more
18:52
as more important than. Ever. These days so I've
18:54
read, parent or you keep, You keep doing whatever it
18:57
is that you're dealing seem. To Matthew
18:59
in published. On our podcast. Past
19:24
posts the sports or podcasts which is
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now and it's fourteen year of telling
19:28
stories about food is also one of
19:30
very few people living today who was
19:33
invented and entirely new pasta dishes. cigarette
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there is cause to sell it and
19:37
you confided in your grocery store. Of
19:39
course we ask them about that but
19:42
we also talked with him about his
19:44
new cookbook. anything's Possible eighty one inventive
19:46
pasta recipes for thought. The people here's
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definitely l with a one and only
19:51
then passed. There.
20:00
Has been welcome to. Unorthodox! Thanks for home
20:02
is going to be here! This is very
20:04
exciting for us for me to our use
20:07
tablets there are my a killer Get to
20:09
be inside the hallowed halls. You're. Inside the
20:11
house? You're inside our windowless room Or the
20:13
became. Are packed. Just sit around and I
20:15
want to go straight for the juggler. My
20:18
way of introduction: A Red. ah the book
20:20
is absolutely gorgeous since love that Reddit a
20:22
means of them. She's like look at a
20:24
cookbook used for down to skim milk if
20:27
it's this last we read but there's a
20:29
specific recipe which is the most Baller Kugel
20:31
recipe from what I have ever seen in
20:33
my life. So first of all, What's.
20:36
A good the west be doing in
20:38
a book like this as a couple
20:40
tells of others mad crazy. So sublets
20:42
the whole book is is sort of
20:44
non pasta dishes and so there's no
20:46
recipe for tomato sauce. there's no. Centered.
20:49
Issue: Meat sauce if you want to me the
20:51
saucer tell people how to the best. Charged me
20:53
as odd to gets. I really wanted a tunnel.
20:55
I have been doing different ideas and being a
20:57
Jewish person has eaten my share of cook. All
20:59
I wanted there to be some sort of Jewish
21:01
component in the book. So. He lives
21:03
references to some of the Us Jewish connections
21:05
to Italian food and pasta history. Wish our
21:07
others have rid of I really well as
21:09
you've seen them spent Odetta, Jasmine was at
21:12
book and Leah Canings new both a kind
21:14
of wanted to have an excuse to mason
21:16
some of that stuff for folks who are
21:18
unaware that histories and then I also just
21:20
felt like I grew up. A. Cuddle
21:22
was often their special. It brings the
21:24
like, your bagels and lox and way
21:26
for salad and cuddle. And I don't
21:28
go like Gilts was just there wasn't
21:30
a xenophobe Israel is that. It looks
21:33
as if it was something that everyone
21:35
felt obligated to have their, but nobody
21:37
was especially excited to eat garlic. If
21:39
you grew up with your grandmother's cuddle
21:41
as the base them as you look
21:43
forward to getting bullets fired, this is
21:45
wrong by like for me it was
21:47
this always an afterthought and I've never
21:49
heard anybody sound very Saturday google one
21:51
person in the sermon. Particular. I
21:53
hate isn't going to thank you. I
21:55
don't understand it. and we foods that are
21:58
those sweet or savory like a new. Clarity
22:00
and my life. I don't sound and
22:02
like the Us and he wanted to summit you want
22:04
the food the desired. I saw it. It's always different. You never
22:06
know what is going to be and I don't trust it. A
22:08
success. It's a great point and I agree
22:10
with you that's his exit like I have
22:12
sued like sweet and savory in some situations
22:14
with me the problem with additional cookbooks as
22:16
it does, it's not enough of either. A
22:19
sort of like a little sweet, innocent, a little
22:21
savory but it's mostly kind of blah and so
22:23
what I want to do with amp up both
22:26
the sweet and savory as after a lot of
22:28
test is I'll our our I was at a
22:30
lunch one day sucre down on Mcdougall freezer New
22:32
York City if you know middle eastern. Great.
22:35
Food. That. Says she does a lob
22:37
know there's always have. This. Is the best!
22:39
Loved my read the So it's a different
22:41
topic in a very tangier, extremely creamy sort
22:43
of yogurt. and she did. It was a
22:45
precedent relish on top one time and it
22:48
just was so good and salty and sweet
22:50
and luxury of both News and I said.
22:53
Could. I turned this into a couple. Years.
22:55
So I sort of sickness is or is
22:57
that is at a saw the gym regularly
22:59
or low enough when I was right about
23:01
it as a cookbook yes it affects every
23:03
meal of the consider plaza are the most
23:05
for that it is possible so as a
23:08
yes every of that maybe this the pasta
23:10
so I typically could was made with what
23:12
you're caught a season sour cream and I
23:14
said one of the what it used lubna
23:16
instead of very tangy. Type. Of
23:18
yogurt and then brainstorming and testing abruptly
23:20
my recipe developers. We completely jettison the
23:23
sour cream and the kind of seasonal
23:25
would love that buttermilk. Was.
23:27
Also very takes out a we have tested
23:29
in as I want more tank more tang
23:32
it's more se we removed the sugar entirely
23:34
unlike the stephanie be removed the sugar entirely
23:36
from the congo and instead did a person
23:38
and relish the you drizzle on top. The
23:40
rest is the book of you can do
23:42
a million other fruits if you don't have
23:44
rhythm and butts this to me. The other
23:47
problem with google is that are often comes
23:49
out dry. As it's often the recipes
23:51
the biggest for it. Or. Not very specific in
23:53
terms of how long to cook guess and how
23:55
to know when to take it out and people
23:57
to leave it in that if whatever it's rise
23:59
in there better make sure it gets cooked and
24:01
then they overcook it and it's dry and crumbling.
24:03
Get still somehow. Mercy Yes this is the so
24:05
I said was going to. We're going to make
24:07
a very tang he was in to make it
24:09
through your as a sweet relish. Never going to
24:11
put a lot of thought and effort into the
24:13
cooking instructions to make. said he will take it
24:15
out when it's just cooked, when it's still little.
24:17
it's custard eats and melty and said. There's. A
24:20
very serious plastic note: Some egg noodles
24:22
are sold in one pounds sixteen. After
24:24
this is what I know to the recipe rape but are often.
24:26
Sold in twelve ounce packages. I don't know why
24:28
but it's annoying or sample the recipes, call for
24:30
twelve ounces. I think six analysis is better because
24:33
it is more possible pile up above the liquid
24:35
line into baking pants and those are the best
24:37
possible turn. Chrissy got a brown and the ovens
24:39
if all the process of much you don't get
24:41
that. and if you reduce the amount of liquid
24:43
the coolest fight and will be more prone to
24:45
drag out see Really want? Six. And.
24:49
If it means as my suit well that cited
24:51
as you'll find a used for the extra eight
24:53
ounces agnew a cook Quickly you can drop them
24:55
brought into any soup or stew and the be
24:57
ready almost instantly. It's to me that is what's
25:00
fun about this book. Not only that are revolutionizing
25:02
cuddle and bring it into the past. The cannon,
25:04
The possible cannon. but think that this is you.
25:06
This is what we go to you for right?
25:08
Like the storytelling, the personality. that's what we've done
25:11
for me on this purple you sort of brought
25:13
that fun and that know how. But also the
25:15
fat sadness I would say like is very accessible.
25:17
Everything that you do have a you and that those
25:19
with us going for was I really wanted to because
25:21
I feel like. As I was fourth
25:24
in this process a manner in a cookbook
25:26
and I'm not a professionally trained chef, I'm
25:28
a pretty good home cooking just as lot
25:30
of opinions about eating kudzu as well as
25:32
a hearing about that, the anus and so
25:34
I say that I write their idea. Of.
25:38
Hundred one of the like pulled us kernel of in
25:40
the book and like his why I'm doing it this
25:43
way. Here's the thought process behind it says even people
25:45
who buy a lot of cookbooks don't really know what
25:47
goes into it or wide and decisions get made where
25:49
you know. We also did a whole four part series
25:51
on the sport full at the making of this cookbook
25:53
the gets into a lot of be so as will
25:55
give you new perspective on what was into a cookbook.
25:58
but those kinds of decisions are agonize and. I'm
26:00
I've been doing creative stuff for twenty
26:02
five years and I've done radio, podcast
26:04
and tv and video and books and
26:06
writing and live as all these things
26:08
and I have never in my life
26:11
was on a project to the required.
26:13
This many decisions is an infinite stream
26:15
of seemingly miniscule, but collectively massive disorders.
26:17
And one of them is how many
26:19
ounces of. Egg Noodles recall for most
26:21
of the Badger twelve but is that can make
26:23
the best causal. We find a sixteen and so
26:25
like bees of the things you've says about and
26:28
stress about and Lily coming up in a bit
26:30
as what you wanted another day is free recipes
26:32
to work for people. And. So that's
26:34
also why I wanted to explain why I was
26:36
due to a certain way doesn't It will also
26:38
make it more likely to will follow the instructions
26:41
as it has been like whatever. It doesn't matter
26:43
how many Amazon name is, no it really matters
26:45
is why it matters. Idyllic. With cookbooks you learn
26:47
to make a recipe and then you learn to
26:49
cook as an elemental piece of this which is
26:51
like how can you cheat some and to be
26:53
a a better cook ware herb like a more
26:56
confident cook some cook. For certain as
26:58
and there are whole books out there like some
27:00
Unicef's all fat ass of here tend to. Lopez
27:02
also put the food love that really do is
27:04
that guy's poetry school in a boat as I
27:06
don't have the expertise to do that. but I
27:09
did want to explain the why. And
27:11
it's on the you explain the some into some one of
27:13
the give you tell them why you figures to be done
27:15
a certain way they're more likely to unjust season your point
27:17
of view I would think so. I. Just felt
27:19
that also to sort of makes it more
27:21
engaging. I go to the said Greg Abbott
27:23
isn't together when they read the books. The
27:26
books called anything's possible. What else is
27:28
possible in this book besides. To revolutionize and
27:30
cuddle be I mean I began for the
27:32
point that almost anything to be turned into
27:34
a passed in the seventies. Maybe you lend
27:36
themselves more readily than others but there's a
27:39
lot of Middle Eastern and North African ingredients
27:41
that most of the be familiar to anybody
27:43
who spend time eating in Israel's one of
27:45
my favorite this is is this some roasted
27:47
artichoke and preserve lemon This There's a lot
27:49
of vegetarian pasta dishes in here. There's also
27:51
a big focus on texture the the The
27:53
pasta dishes that a lot of we we
27:56
often in America are pretty monitored for oil
27:58
and I'm a big tech. For either. I'm
28:00
very fast and by this concept the
28:02
sensory scientists call dynamic contrast is when
28:04
you bring together different textures in the
28:06
same bite. That's. Why? like every good
28:08
candy bar has like a chocolate cel and
28:10
then kind of a good gooey and then
28:13
there's some new get an image of the
28:15
creamy the middle and as you bite through
28:17
those different textures he is a very pleasing
28:19
sensation so I wanted more passes as the
28:21
have dynamic contrast and have varying testers more
28:23
past decision easily have it certainly isn't noodle
28:25
dishes have a millionaire from ways from corporate
28:27
tax for so we have some this is
28:30
a pen grip todos or season toasted bread
28:32
crumbs or but I'd miss uploaded to some
28:34
of the corn us let's say to this
28:36
is a lot of tech services. Know the
28:38
source of the sort of using ingredients that I
28:40
love like kim see so we're in. we're not
28:42
to do traditional cabrera do a kim see carbonara.
28:44
it had some spice when you cook the kimchi
28:46
the path mls a spice a little it but
28:48
it's still a sedated it's currency and and you
28:50
get the rich creaminess of the eggs and I
28:52
mean that is I love but we we did
28:54
a team a bowl and a's so that some
28:56
team as like us and indian displaced ground meat
28:58
like to meet any this that is to billie
29:00
made with ground meat for any cuisine is a
29:02
natural to be matched up with meat sauce but
29:04
with new flavors. so he did a key a
29:07
bowl and a. Is that has all these Indian
29:09
spices and at that is just like flavor for
29:11
days. I do want to talk to
29:13
about four words. Hotdog Pasta Salad that
29:15
by be the most Italian dish in the
29:17
book. that sensible that those the rise of
29:19
the as like oh this is a common
29:21
this in Italy. this is a real Italian
29:24
thing especially in the summertime in the cafeteria
29:26
style restaurants. A robber and sort of like
29:28
the Sax on the beach for people looking
29:30
for quick snacks and eight his past afraid
29:33
a cold pasta this leading of as high
29:35
as seventy. Italians, Love hotdogs. Lovato
29:37
is not know that than a we have all
29:39
these very romantic ideas of Italian cuisine and that
29:41
like candlelight, dinner buggy and the ah to death
29:44
of that any or whatever but the truth is
29:46
just as the rest of us if the I
29:48
have sometimes estate a quick meal at lunch or
29:50
there at the beach in they want something delicious
29:53
and comfort food. So. They do these past
29:55
as with like whatever random house to say they
29:57
are lying around as got hot osmosis, grab a
29:59
can opener, They'll have all of the
30:01
canned corn can't Onions are stuff out of
30:03
a can't those up in tune in it
30:05
and a little de mayo and it's authentic
30:07
Italian style pasta salad. and yeah, I mean
30:09
what's that heard of that existed on my
30:11
disasters or the books that. Is Amazing! So
30:14
you and I first connected when we came
30:16
out with our list of the one hundred
30:18
most Us foods has come a highly debatable
30:20
less you featured that on the portal and
30:22
you like had thoughts about this and I
30:24
see like a really wonderful deep with you
30:26
on like the nuances of Jewish food in
30:28
your life like besides to the like what's
30:30
your hottest to exclude tape like what do
30:32
you hate that he love when you grow
30:34
up less. About I'd I grew up.
30:36
Very. Serve Eastern Europeans who assume so it
30:38
in in the New York area so bagels
30:40
and lox by for salad brisket, cogo like
30:43
I said master Ball soup so my mom
30:45
worth late Tuesday night and Thursday night and
30:47
so those are the nice that we had
30:49
the than any gave us dinner at my
30:52
parents are out working and Tuesday night was
30:54
cottage cheese pancake night. there's and I was
30:56
hot dog night. Tuesday night was kind of
30:58
his pancake night. that's a very thoroughly Russia
31:01
and Eastern European thing is that savory cause
31:03
he's picking the sour cream a little bit
31:05
of sure to be. Europe I
31:07
make the for his last last my daughter's ask for
31:09
them are going to make those but that that was
31:11
every Tuesday night. That's. Probably the said
31:14
less obvious sort of I a Jewish food
31:16
which it wasn't even like. It's funny in
31:18
retrospect because I don't remember my mom ever
31:20
same like this is a Jewish thing and
31:22
as it's probably some non jewish like. Russian.
31:25
Or Soviet era folks would probably know this
31:27
despite like makeover I'm I saw this is
31:29
a pretty Jewish. they will be had cause
31:31
no one else is adding Robin very to
31:34
restart No one else has his utter geek
31:36
where it was only really in the past
31:38
maybe ten years. As I've gone to
31:40
Israel couple times and to sort of learn
31:42
more about the entirety of Jewish food, they
31:44
gain a deeper appreciation for how diverse it
31:46
is and how end. And I mean I
31:48
love Middle Eastern and North African food. All
31:50
those in I love spicy food and I
31:52
love anything as lemon or preserve lemon and
31:54
it We have lemon wallpaper atkinson. I'm
31:57
more. Intrigued by the hot dogs as as the your
31:59
Italians. It coming and. Five.
32:01
And I think of hot dogs. Been raised Jewish, know? Me
32:03
too. I know, but now I know. Now I'm speaking of
32:05
them as Italian. Or hum, it's of. I think this
32:08
point has also sort of crossed over. like bagels.
32:10
yeah, maybe hundreds and one though I mean, they
32:12
are as I grub levin bagels nicer to have
32:14
like. Mixes. This is very
32:16
few good bagels out there and because to become
32:18
very mass produce such top of this little bit
32:20
in the in the past a cookbook because I
32:23
wanted to think deeply about how cuisine evolves because
32:25
Italians have a stereotype of being very protective of
32:27
Italian food is only one way to do it
32:29
and that's the way that the known as have
32:32
always done it. And in my research for this
32:34
book was the i learned is that there's a
32:36
lot of mythology around that that's Italian food. A
32:39
lot of the most famous pasta dishes have been
32:41
invited the past hundred years and they continue to
32:43
season of all just as cuisine everywhere does. And
32:45
there are new boss just being invested in Italy
32:47
today in certain restaurants and so I explored that
32:49
and it made me think about you know, like
32:51
kind of. What? Do I have to add to
32:53
this? Sort of on Don't Evolution and Us But like. It's
32:56
a delicate balance because if a huge come to cuisine
32:58
that isn't yours, you want to be thoughtful respectful of
33:00
it. You. Are earned the right to put
33:02
your own spin on it. and then I'd sort
33:05
of like a bagels and cosmos at all these
33:07
crappy bagels the people are making them kind of
33:09
like wall I don't want to do to someone
33:11
else is cuisine what some he was done to
33:13
Vegas Is this a bagel is not just or
33:15
roll with a hole in the middle of a
33:17
list of see May with high gluten flower sorry
33:19
gluten free people at Cb Very Tsui to be
33:21
Christian the outside and Susan the inside. a really
33:23
good baseless. make a sound when you bite into
33:26
it and will be a deafening crimes but you
33:28
should hear same sound as is a really good
33:30
really fresh bagels. as he told. That it's not
33:32
that great. And. I just feel
33:34
like bagels to become gigantic and very fluffy.
33:36
They're not shui, they're not crispy, they're not
33:38
fresh. The last that away a little bit.
33:40
there's there are. Places. All over America
33:42
making phenomenal bagels, but you're there to seek them out
33:45
of their the exception you know it's. Funny
33:47
you mentioned pasta dish
33:49
inventions. You're. More than a pasta
33:51
dish and then during you invented a safe
33:53
as possible. For our listeners who do not
33:55
know this artist like us, please tell them
33:57
cast the telly, Tell them. About it
33:59
though. There is so that a sport for series
34:01
called mission Impossible which is pretty epic in you're
34:03
welcome to listen to. The short version of the
34:06
story is that I i set up to event
34:08
of food I decide to invent a new past
34:10
safe because I just felt like the lot of
34:12
seeps out that kind of mediocre. I came up
34:14
with these three criteria that I used to judge
34:16
all pasta saved so on his fourth ability how
34:18
was it stands for how easy to get out
34:20
for didn't even this sauce ability how the sausage
34:22
here and to think ability which is as satisfying
34:24
as it's as if your teeth into it's as
34:26
in a lot of pasa safes are good at
34:28
one or two of these things. But very
34:30
few now. All three a spaghetti. Barely.
34:33
Even gets one is very hard to get
34:35
a good by the spaghetti on the fourth
34:37
a disease or too big or small others
34:39
dangler you finish the past and half the
34:41
sauce a on a plate and was is
34:44
very good Spaghetti could just write this not
34:46
especially to thinkable So I set out to.
34:48
Try. To come up with a safe the would
34:50
sec all these boxes and it's a three
34:53
years. My wife and everyone I talked to
34:55
in the past and a seat on the
34:57
was a terrible idea. Things like all that
34:59
on tape testified that fact that it was
35:01
much harder than I anticipated. I thought that
35:03
the hardest part would be just coming up
35:05
with a good idea for a saber the
35:07
had been done before. But. As it
35:09
is a lot has been done is to this is
35:11
only a few hundred seats. there's like twelve hundred name's
35:13
Susan Susan three or four hundred seeps and a lot
35:16
of them are are. Were made
35:18
a deal with hundreds of years ago that
35:20
when options are very limited. What's her as
35:22
we much harder is is I wanted to
35:24
mass produce that I want to actually get
35:26
a maiden actually sell it is wanting a
35:28
picture of a shape yet to put on
35:30
Instagram. I did not want to gimmicks and
35:32
so finding a safe that would be legitimately
35:34
good and could be made by traditional plus
35:36
to make machinery. That was a
35:38
big limitation. By. Overtime overcame at
35:41
Athens. Gold color is the wrong and I
35:43
came out with the say podcast Could tell
35:45
he means waterfalls The source save that as
35:47
these sort of two strips of ruffles that
35:50
protrude from the mainstream of the same in
35:52
parallel, the kind of create a canyon between
35:54
them if Google. The same is a cast
35:56
the tally, but I'm. In. Old it's
35:58
on a sauce, missing the reform. It really does.
36:00
It has a lot of dynamic contrast, different
36:02
textures, the ruffles, the hard part of the
36:05
south parts that was exciting and of itself
36:07
but by some miracle it took a have
36:09
fully assess came out and guy went viral
36:11
and was like on a roof like the
36:13
New York Times to Access Hollywood now says
36:15
stores over the countries and Whole Foods nationwide
36:17
is made by a company called Splenic as
36:19
Sf. Oh gee Ally and I agreed to
36:21
take you on with this idea we have
36:24
about the regardless hum of the couldn't find
36:26
a pasta company the wanted.i didn't want to
36:28
start manufacturing past I want a partner. Was
36:30
it is that you're on a podcast rare to
36:32
the dance and and I said i want to
36:34
be the guy that they call him in a
36:36
truck breaks down in front of deliveries. But so
36:38
the problem is most past com is was these
36:41
gigantic multinational conglomerate Sue didn't hear any system work
36:43
with me or they were like teeny tiny regional
36:45
things. I wanted some resume dried pasta and ship
36:47
it to have sprung for listeners. And.
36:49
So part of this com this Fellini they make
36:51
phenomenal pass in upstate New York they're all of
36:53
the country and yet another caskets how the everywhere
36:56
but one thing with habit as as exciting an
36:58
amazing as it was when the same came out
37:00
everyone sent me pictures with the cooking with it
37:02
was is very gratifying special like I I thought
37:04
has been invited to he was houses for dinner
37:06
as they at that rate touching. But.
37:09
Like ninety percent of the photos A
37:11
got were like tasks I would Tomato
37:14
sauce meat sauce that mack and sees
37:16
a few party animals made pesto. I'm.
37:18
Happy that once making self the test the telly
37:20
but like this so many more things it's
37:22
it's just made me realize how limited most Americans
37:25
are. even if they are vague we were other
37:27
options they just kind of stick to the three
37:29
to five. Pasta. Sauces that they know.
37:31
And so I set out to read cookbooks that
37:34
would help people to broaden people's horizons for what
37:36
they can and should we put an impostor. You're.
37:38
On into his podcast. It is my job to
37:40
say this but I can't help but think there
37:42
is like. Something. The Silver
37:44
Jewish. About your way of thinking right where
37:46
you're like the right save doesn't exist. I'm
37:48
gonna make it this food. Is good this
37:50
would have that. Can I like? Put it together
37:52
as a my reading Way too much into to
37:54
be like there's no like secrets House here right?
37:57
Like like there's there's rules of gravity and do
37:59
whatever the ability. The Roka out when yes,
38:01
ago Monday but like. There. Is a
38:03
sense of like place on this and
38:05
and creativity The as I don't know
38:07
current psychologists. Yeah, for sure. I think so.
38:10
I'm in Illinois. I come from a long
38:12
line of lawyers if is Bob was also Zuma.
38:14
I am it create I'm around that it out
38:16
Also very analytical. that sort of like Tom
38:18
mooted, sort of like let's. Let's.
38:20
Look at this thing and rather than just
38:22
taken as a spy dead outlets question as
38:24
turn it around and wounded underneath it was
38:26
lifted up and let's take it apart and
38:28
was analyzed as break it down with component
38:31
parts and was is part of her said
38:33
how they all work together and of weeks
38:35
reconstituted in different way. how does that change
38:37
it So to me I think of as
38:39
being a very sort of. Analytical.
38:41
To an obsessive degrees significant which I
38:43
think is a Jewish personality traits. Everyone.
38:46
Knows me. saw several notable in a is Right or
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what is it was. Break it down with component parts
38:50
are at roughly speaking as ground meat. And
38:53
sauce. Okay, So that maybe
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who are Okay, we'll so. There's. Other
38:57
ground meat dishes i read Xinhua bull in
38:59
Israel's to do a lob like that the
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tylo since appetizer this law but I love
39:04
the spicy ground meets with the lime juice
39:06
and love fish sauce and use around legacy
39:09
bombings as Grammys. Can we make
39:11
a pasta sauce is based on? That's so. It's that
39:13
analytical approach of kind of breaking down of the component
39:15
parts that I think he knows what part of what
39:17
I do. I'm. Grateful for like this this
39:19
the spirit of ingenuity and and and sort
39:21
of like craftiness that you're bringing the curiosity
39:23
and a craftiness that you're bringing to to
39:26
food and to the industrial food enter into
39:28
putting into pasta and deposits I do these
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Italian saves that we are bringing from America
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called quite for Teeny and Vesuvius and a
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set of newsworthy our that us crowds at
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all three saves. I'm just in the
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past year of and certified kosher that is amazing.
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40:15
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40:34
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42:22
back to the show. Mailbox
42:28
gotta litter in the moon
42:30
was not a letter in
42:32
the mail. Mail.
42:36
All right let's headed to the mailbox. Here
42:39
is our first letter says really L and
42:41
Joss I'm a long time the sir have
42:43
an orthodox and I'm writing for advice from
42:45
the expert panel that has given so many
42:47
great answers over the years. solicitors and death
42:49
a like. Okay, I know by the know
42:52
what of an oppressor I. Don't
42:54
fuck this one up. I am a Jewish convert
42:57
and I'm raising to Jewish kids and have been
42:59
observing Jewish holidays for about eight years. I
43:01
grew up in a Protestant household. my
43:03
husband is atheists, but enjoys a secular
43:05
celebration of Christmas. I've continue to
43:07
participate in some Christian celebrations, but extended
43:09
family in the spirit of solemn by
43:11
it. So. By it. Which of course
43:14
means peace in the home. I love
43:16
this interpretation to also keep peace with
43:18
our our gentile relatives us. However, as
43:20
the years have passed, I've had less
43:22
interest in celebration of events like Christmas.
43:24
Prior. To make a version, I ran a yearly
43:26
Easter egg hunt for the kids in the extended
43:29
family, but have not arrange one in several years.
43:31
This. Year my extended family ask me at
43:33
the last minute toast Easter dinner and the
43:35
egg hunt in my home. Even
43:38
though no one is pressuring me to attend
43:40
east or search services, I'm hurt them being
43:42
tasked with the responsibilities for celebrating holidays that
43:45
I no longer observe. In. Past years
43:47
that seem extended family has an on interested
43:49
in participating in our Passover celebrations at the
43:51
end of the day. They are my family
43:53
but I wish they would more fully accept
43:55
by Jewishness and realize the insensitivity in Ascii
43:57
a jew to coordinate and. Easter celebration.
44:00
What advice my y'all have to help maintain
44:02
harmony but garner greater acceptance or status as
44:04
a Jewish family. Within our extended non
44:07
Jewish clan. This is a
44:09
great question. I'll yell just wants to take
44:11
the first. Of are getting. I
44:13
could jump. First of all, listener love you.
44:16
But you. Know you're not a Jewish convert,
44:18
your your job, and it strikes me
44:20
that you have not one, but two
44:22
separate issues are questions of. The.
44:24
First question is a question of what to
44:26
do. With. Living in in
44:29
a world where which may include
44:31
family members but also. Friends.
44:33
Colleagues and other significant others who may
44:35
not be Jewish. I. Have an
44:37
amazing story I'd like to share. This one
44:39
is about one of the most famous American
44:41
Orthodox Rabbis of the twentieth Century. When he
44:43
was a child. He was sent to
44:45
public school. And then one
44:47
day in December he came home and
44:50
announced that he's gonna be cast in
44:52
the schools in production of the Christmas
44:54
Play of Those Christmas Pageant of the
44:57
Nativity Scene et cetera. And
44:59
the very next morning his teacher
45:01
gets a call from. His. Mother.
45:04
And. A teacher as soon as he hears the
45:06
mothers voices of Mister So and So I'm very
45:08
sorry. I. Was me to call
45:10
you. You're. Probably so offended that we
45:12
as your boy to be in the nativity
45:14
scene. We. Know that you're Jewish and
45:17
your observant and you're probably so heard by
45:19
the fact that he's gotta be in a
45:21
Christmas place. The mother like know
45:23
nothing like that. I'm just calling to say.
45:26
Really? Just one of the
45:28
shepherds. like. Not a big a
45:30
role for my boy. Emphasis on.
45:32
I think this is exactly. Kind
45:35
of the right spirit, especially for
45:37
a holiday like Easter, which if
45:39
and when divorced from, it's very
45:42
significant Christian markings. It sounds
45:44
like you're being asked to participate in
45:46
involves a giant rabbits are hunting for
45:48
painted eggs which is you know, fine
45:50
I think and everybody's book so out
45:52
of the you should worry about that
45:54
at all. But then it also seems
45:56
to me like you have a second
45:58
problem. And it's. Probably is. You
46:00
can imagine that as an aside, but I
46:02
think it's really the actual. Issue.
46:05
At hand as Aaron Taylor Johnson might say.
46:08
Ah, We did. It is the issue. Of.
46:10
Your family kind of being other know
46:13
dicks about your Jewish life, not accepting
46:15
an invitation to join you for Passover.
46:17
Gotta throw one liner and they're being
46:20
pesos dix. Hills. But.
46:22
Actually that you will carry on with
46:24
your boyfriend us this week and every
46:26
other way they're being pissed off Decks
46:28
By is basically selling a total lack
46:30
of interest. So dear listener, you have
46:33
not one but two problems from Number
46:35
One is should I host an Easter
46:37
Egg hunt in my home? The answers?
46:39
Sure, Why not. It's fun for the
46:41
kids. Everyone be happy. It's a giant
46:43
rabbit. It has no meaning. And we
46:45
do live. With. People who we'd love
46:48
very much and some of them do not have
46:50
the same traditions as us. And. It's no
46:52
big the of. the bigger deal is that
46:54
your family seems to be totally not cool.
46:57
With. Your life and your
46:59
face. And your beliefs. And maybe
47:01
I'm. Over. Of stating this and
47:03
maybe I'm reading way too much into an
47:05
email. Maybe three. Gonna explore
47:08
some things for this first. You: It's
47:10
interesting because. It's not just the
47:12
egg hunt, it's Easter dinner and that to me
47:14
seems like the issue. I don't know you serve
47:16
as an Easter dinner but it's probably not the
47:18
saying that is most often find and Jewish homes
47:21
like I'm picturing like a hamlet. or to me
47:23
I think that's the piece of it. That's the.
47:25
I totally agree with you that you can make
47:27
an Easter egg hunt into sort of on that's
47:29
not super religious and yes that's like a choice.
47:32
I think the distinction is at the dinner which
47:34
is also part of this demand. Sara or letter
47:36
writer has not only the stuff on Easter egg
47:38
hunt but also the dinner and we know as
47:40
as those. Are meaningful dinners even if you just do
47:42
like. No. Arrest a Sunday dinner like the not religious
47:45
in the. Sense you're in a synagogue, but it.
47:47
Is something that feels like tradition and
47:49
culture and I can see why. That.
47:51
Would be sort of like Beyond the Pale,
47:53
you know it. But here here's the power
47:55
move though he I think you're onto something
47:57
really great. the power being a kosher know.
48:00
You say? I would be delighted to
48:02
host the Easter dinner and then everyone
48:04
arise the I have friends, family. We.
48:06
Will serve dinner soon. But. First there's
48:08
a little book that be read. Before.
48:11
Our is there, there's you got
48:13
everybody? I'm an introvert Eight
48:15
I brought my love that me an
48:17
hour or a. First of all, some
48:20
somehow lost banyai. You pesticides. I
48:22
just seen. I do. I do feel for a
48:24
letter, read it because this is a crappy situation
48:26
to be an end to feel like you're either
48:28
not been seen, are not be taken seriously for
48:30
it. We live your life. I just wanna sort
48:32
of acknowledge that no one wants to have family
48:34
drama. I respect how much you're trying to get
48:36
our as you say maintain harmony and it a
48:38
bus the you imagine it's really really hard, violence
48:40
or literary or that we're here for you. We
48:42
should come over for the Easter egg hunt is
48:44
he was. No blessing levels right is
48:46
ultimately about expressing to her family which
48:49
is express to us as I think
48:51
also agree with we all that underneath
48:53
it all I think is this you're
48:55
asking me to do what you will
48:57
not extend to move plus you're asking
48:59
the ones you to arrange your family's
49:01
eg. I'm really like that's what you
49:03
don't know Ours is this a little
49:05
rude. If you're going to add
49:08
of for this letter writer send us a note.
49:10
unorthodox. It's have an Egg That Thomas you've been
49:12
in a similar situation yourself. If you have any
49:14
helpful advice that dealing with this or about organizing
49:16
Easter egg. Hunt were all ears for all bunny
49:18
ears as they say. Little
49:36
Own as an author or. Publisher: And host
49:38
of the podcast mom's Don't Have Time To
49:40
Read Books She sat on the So today
49:42
to tell us about her debut. Novel. And
49:45
centers. Heavy.
49:51
Owens welcome back to North Us and congratulations
49:53
on the publication of your novel Blanked St.
49:55
Kill The delighted to be here. It's so
49:57
fun to be here and to be. In
50:00
in this post pandemic world because we
50:02
were. Talking. To You when you're
50:04
you're Quarantine anthology came out Mom's don't Have
50:06
Time To Read Books and. Use all
50:08
lot since then suisse or catch
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us up on on where we're at
50:13
now. Just sat forward from the quarantine.
50:15
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50:17
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50:20
a month and six in and memoir.
50:22
I opened a bookstore in Santa Monica
50:24
cause of his books up which
50:26
carries books based on emotion and interest
50:29
rather than by shown us and we
50:31
have tons of other events. We started
50:33
a line of retreats where we have
50:36
reading retreats and bring meters. On
50:38
fun adventures for the weekends and in
50:40
terms of my writing and after at
50:42
the to anthologies with the mumps or
50:44
have time to seem it's I had
50:46
a children's that called Prince Charming come
50:48
out and my memoir bookends and M
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a novel blank I think that's pretty
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much it he said as a respectable
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a universe and que. El. Classes wage offers
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to be classes and we had a whole magazine
51:06
goings empty mag which is where now putting a
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price on. but I think this is the other
51:10
things and I did. You do call it the
51:12
Zebra Israel so we started using it. The L
51:14
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some article on a cyclist that's of sunny. It's
51:19
tongue in cheek right? I mean this is this
51:21
to be fun. Authors or Rock
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Stars in my opinion. and I
51:25
wanted to use the phrase because
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it's establishing so universe around Eleven
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51:31
heard of. I thought it was
51:33
funny. Is is still fun as become
51:35
all consuming. Are you still enjoy everything you
51:38
do? I enjoy most things I do. This
51:40
and be able to say that's good to be able to say. No,
51:42
I do. It's very energizing and when
51:44
people are like oh my gosh had
51:47
a do everything. It's because most of
51:49
it does not feel like work at
51:51
all and love reading more than anything
51:53
I'd love getting advance copies and poking
51:55
into books by authors I love and
51:58
discovering new authors and connecting p. I'm
52:00
connecting authors to each other and others to
52:02
people and readers and I love the whole
52:04
community and I'm really happy and really happy.
52:06
Not everything is easy and thing I'm publishers
52:08
deftly challenging but I love what I'm doing.
52:11
I'm in the rights. that for me to
52:13
tell us about Blank Blank is about a
52:15
woman named Tippett Jones. It takes place over
52:17
six days in L. A Pepper is a
52:19
former best selling author who can't come up
52:21
with an idea for her second bucks. She
52:23
had an idea, but she ends up not
52:26
being able to use it, which he'll find
52:28
out in the book itself. and at. Dinner
52:30
one night her son suggest.
52:32
That. She just hand the book and
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blank and she thinks that's genius I'll
52:37
hinted and blanco be a commentary on
52:39
the publishing industry and the way that
52:41
the blank canvas spoke to all of
52:44
the art the came before it in
52:46
the art world and it will allow
52:48
more discussion around the fact that sometimes
52:50
it feels like marketing determines which books
52:53
will sell vs your own opinions of
52:55
themselves. That is the crux except most
52:57
of it is really just about how
52:59
one woman deals with many stresses in
53:01
her life career. Especially in our
53:04
to see career. Her kids, her best
53:06
friends, her mom, her difficult marriage and
53:08
how this one decision turns everything upside
53:10
down and ultimately allows her to start
53:12
the next chapter. I'm lucky enough to
53:14
have been a guest on your So
53:17
Mom's on Have Time To Read Ends:
53:19
I'm in the Facebook group of former
53:21
guess on the So So. It's like
53:23
you really do this amazing job of
53:25
creating community and it's all people who
53:27
really do love books and want to
53:29
read and write them and are a
53:32
time stymied by. With still seems
53:34
like an industry that's very hard to break
53:36
into and to achieve success in, I'm delighted.
53:38
You're in the face fucker. I love it.
53:40
but yes I I once you're on the
53:43
podcast. are you do an Avenger Years? Your
53:45
part of it forever? It's like the life's
53:47
lifetime membership card and I love connecting people
53:49
and hosting things and as you attack as
53:52
like oh I really need like between Union
53:54
of Everyone is on the podcast and that
53:56
would people come Would I be selling their
53:58
bus Anyway my brain. The one after like
54:01
a hundred things. Just are you saying the
54:03
basic I am So yes, community and new
54:05
ideas for bringing people together, new ideas for
54:07
selling books and tell readers sign stories that
54:10
can really improve their lives. This is of
54:12
utmost importance or me. It is interesting moments
54:14
in the pelvis and space for to do
54:17
for Jewish writers who have found themselves on
54:19
the receiving end of anti Semitic trolling. In
54:21
many ways, a lot of it is through
54:23
sites like Good Reads and a lot of
54:26
it shows that. The. Beautiful community oriented
54:28
side of the book loving world
54:30
is also sort of being turned
54:32
against identify average was authors especially
54:34
those who are taking on to
54:36
a subjects in a really twisted
54:38
way. It is incredibly disturbing and
54:41
as a Jewish were a Jewish
54:43
author I have watched with horror
54:45
since the for a long time
54:47
But obviously since the events of
54:49
October seventh I was part of
54:51
a group of women authors who
54:53
started Artists Against Anti Semitism. We
54:55
did a big fundraiser oxen online.
54:58
And guess it was to raise money
55:00
that he was also a d Unite
55:02
the community of is it away to
55:04
give people a groups to talk to,
55:07
it to be a part of and
55:09
to see like they could do anything
55:11
something to help when we all felt
55:13
so helpless that group has been. Really?
55:16
Great for me to personally because
55:18
there's a Instagram sir group chat
55:20
of the founding members of that
55:22
group and. Everyday. People can
55:25
say oh my gosh, this happened
55:27
to my sonorous. did you see
55:29
this in the paper or can
55:31
you believe this happens And there's
55:33
a lot of support within that.
55:35
So because of that in addition
55:37
to my just reading papers and
55:39
living my life, I get to
55:41
see experiences that happened to other
55:43
people. like someone's daughter having something
55:45
mean said to her because she
55:47
were Jewish, started an airplane or
55:49
things like that. In terms of
55:51
my own author leave experiences When
55:53
my novel. Blank when up on. Good reads.
55:55
One. Troll put a
55:58
negative one star reviews. Then
56:00
it free Palestine Mean it? Like remember
56:02
what? The thing next to it was, but it was.
56:05
Evident. That it was race, anti semitic,
56:07
racially motivated comments. I ended up writing
56:09
an essay about it. Tell a good
56:11
read. So thanks May that are his
56:14
ratings because it felt so unfair to
56:16
me and not okay and I really
56:18
take issue and things don't feel fair
56:20
in whatever contexts. So I wrote an
56:22
essay about it and reported it to
56:24
Good Reads. I had a lot of
56:27
other people help me report and help
56:29
offset the negativity and that Reads actually
56:31
took it down. Which. I felt
56:33
was a major major victory. Mind
56:35
you my email attacked at the same time so
56:37
I'd I think they're linked other friend said no
56:40
it's just random chance so who knows but enough
56:42
milk Adidas and past. This is more than just
56:44
a bad reviews some and things like me about
56:46
you to clean a little bit about how platform
56:48
like good reads since or impact. How
56:51
book It's out to the world's
56:53
good reads His away. For readers
56:55
to rank, there's current reads by
56:58
one to five. Stars. In.
57:00
That way other readers get to
57:03
know what books similar loving. There's
57:05
it. an average score that is
57:07
attached and that score is incredibly
57:09
important. In many ways that good
57:11
read score as attached to your
57:13
Amazon Bucks profile. It is used
57:16
for editorial purposes a written for
57:18
a bazillion places are doing round
57:20
up some things like that in
57:22
one place. Won't. Even look
57:24
at look for their magazine unless they're over
57:26
a for no Good Reads farm. So it
57:29
does have. A lot of the
57:31
facts it affects the algorithm as some
57:33
things work and what books get put
57:35
in front of you. So if somebody
57:38
tanks your score you actually on purpose.
57:40
It can lead to a lesser likelihood
57:43
of success like it actually has the
57:45
material impacts on how successful your book
57:47
as how far and wide against should
57:49
be at all other things and I
57:51
think people know that and that gives
57:54
some people a sense of power that
57:56
they can do this saying it without
57:58
getting fired and it's. In that it
58:00
sort of in the bounds of okay because
58:02
that said, that is gonna going to prison
58:04
for tanking. Could read scoring know that it
58:07
is a way that people assert their own
58:09
well. So I mean, I could go into
58:11
why people might do this, but. It
58:13
is away also for people to target
58:15
certain groups where it's not particularly about
58:17
the back it's about. Oh okay well
58:20
I know that authors jewish to she
58:22
posted over there and that means I
58:24
should go and I don't want any
58:26
Jewish authors to succeed so I'd better.
58:28
Hurt. Her chances and that's just me
58:30
personally. Obviously as you alone else,
58:33
things like book tours have been
58:35
cancelled Sit. There have been security
58:37
threats said cancel entire tours in
58:39
music concerts left lots of things
58:41
these days, which is. Terrible.
58:43
And I've heard to through other
58:45
reported article is that I can't
58:48
speak first hand that book contracts
58:50
are harder to come by in
58:52
the Uk right now for Jewish
58:54
authors. so it's is every day.
58:56
There's something new about ways that's.
58:59
Jewish people are being and you know,
59:01
unfairly punished in this world. which is
59:03
so ironic given that we are the
59:05
people of the book and obsessed with
59:07
literature and have been contributors to this
59:09
fields. Huge contributors to the seal, the
59:11
literature and or letters and all of
59:13
that forever. So that's where we're. We're
59:16
going to be talking to break down and
59:18
is wonderful actor With the new book coming
59:20
out who does yes and events a book
59:22
soup cancelled because of or security threats most
59:24
A would I I we're just sister way
59:27
to weaponize Fear Probably there was no thread
59:29
but we the threads than a suddenly and
59:31
a book stores in a weird position and
59:33
has to figure out whether or not a
59:35
can even carry on. Such a way of
59:38
silencing people say the same way that the
59:40
good reads a rating system is been weaponized
59:42
to sort of silence people to affect them
59:44
more than they're worth. Awful. It's awful
59:46
so high you stay positive like
59:48
amidst all of this your other
59:50
you're promoting not only got about
59:53
but all these other authors had
59:55
he sort of keep keep telling.
59:57
So the first month or so
59:59
after us. were seven. No, actually all
1:00:01
the way through early December, it
1:00:03
was affecting my own personal life
1:00:05
so profoundly in my
1:00:08
distress and distraction.
1:00:10
And I made a choice in early December
1:00:12
that like I had to put it aside,
1:00:14
not aside that I wasn't thinking about it,
1:00:17
but I had to just go on functioning
1:00:20
and doing my work and trying
1:00:22
to bring joy and spread bookish love
1:00:24
and whatever all the happy feely things.
1:00:27
And that if I let it consume me
1:00:30
so much, you know, it's
1:00:32
like they were winning again, right? All
1:00:34
of us being sidelined by grief and
1:00:36
shock and all of it. So
1:00:38
I have really tried intentionally,
1:00:40
not of course to
1:00:43
forget because I focus on it a
1:00:45
lot, but to put it aside enough
1:00:47
that I can be out there doing
1:00:50
the good work and representing
1:00:52
the Jewish values of giving back
1:00:54
and all of it. That's
1:00:56
why I'm doing what I'm doing. I want
1:00:59
to continue doing all of this. I want
1:01:01
to help. So how
1:01:03
do I keep doing it? I'm doing
1:01:05
it because I'm really mission driven. I
1:01:07
feel what I'm doing is more important
1:01:09
now than ever. And while it's important
1:01:13
and good to not lose
1:01:15
sight of what's going on and post about that
1:01:17
too, I think people need escape.
1:01:19
People need just to remember that there
1:01:21
are good people in the world and
1:01:23
that the Jewish community is strong and
1:01:25
we're going to be okay. And we,
1:01:27
this has happened to us a bazillion
1:01:29
times throughout history and we are
1:01:31
resilient and we're going to keep going and we're going to
1:01:34
keep writing and going on our book tours and doing whatever
1:01:36
we have to do despite all
1:01:38
odds because that is who we are.
1:01:40
That's beautiful. And that's inspiring. Who is
1:01:42
inspiring you these days? You are
1:01:45
Stephanie. That's honestly the answer. Thank you. I teed
1:01:47
it up. No, but honestly, people who are doing
1:01:56
the work, going there, talking about the
1:01:59
hard work, The Jags getting
1:02:01
our faith and values and
1:02:03
community front and center and
1:02:05
inspired by the other. Board.
1:02:08
Members of this Artist Against
1:02:10
Anti Semitism group who are
1:02:12
so tirelessly trying to think
1:02:14
of new ways to help.
1:02:17
And. I'm inspired by
1:02:19
the collectives. Resilience,
1:02:21
Of so many People series, so much
1:02:23
stuff assists it's and at La this
1:02:25
is our legacy. This is also a
1:02:27
reminder of of our strength, so I
1:02:29
know that's a vague answer. But and
1:02:31
I mean that there's so many examples
1:02:33
all the time as people. Rebounding.
1:02:36
And helping and doing good and.
1:02:39
And. Inspired by. Friends.
1:02:41
Who after I've ever sevens? I
1:02:44
didn't even consider like really close friends who were
1:02:46
emailing me and being like I would hide you.
1:02:48
I want you to know I will do anything
1:02:50
for you and like it's just. Wonderful!
1:02:52
And. What are you reading of? How
1:02:54
much time do you find to read?
1:02:57
Even given the slices, letters and books
1:02:59
to find the have much time to
1:03:01
read as enjoyed. Reading is how I
1:03:03
get through beaten. It's. An essential ingredient.
1:03:05
Like I couldn't do all the other stuff
1:03:08
without it. Not because my career happens to
1:03:10
be in bucks By whatever it was, That
1:03:12
is how I personally decompress. It's how I
1:03:14
mean is. My. Anxiety. It's
1:03:16
how I. It's just what
1:03:19
I need to sit there sell ice.
1:03:21
I take that medicine offense. I just
1:03:23
finished reading the Manicurist Daughter which came
1:03:25
out today by Susan View. It's March
1:03:27
Twelfth. As are saying this, it's my
1:03:30
April Book Club take is it is
1:03:32
the club and it's about. A.
1:03:34
vietnamese american women whose parents worked in
1:03:36
it and nail salons and the aftermath
1:03:38
of her the death of her mother
1:03:41
which her family refused to talk about
1:03:43
and saw that legacy has affected the
1:03:45
rest of her life spans her identity
1:03:47
and it's really get so that's it
1:03:49
i've just told listeners the best way
1:03:51
for them to follow along with you
1:03:54
with the bee media with used to
1:03:56
be verse book tour everything yes they
1:03:58
can follow me on instagram at Zibi
1:04:00
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1:04:02
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1:04:04
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1:04:07
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1:04:09
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1:04:11
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1:04:13
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1:04:15
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1:04:17
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1:04:19
stuff that's coming next. Zibi, thank you for
1:04:21
everything that you're doing, both making this so
1:04:23
much fun and then also doing the serious
1:04:26
work of being publicly Jewish in what we
1:04:28
all know is a difficult space. So we're
1:04:30
just so grateful to you and thank you for
1:04:32
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1:06:47
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1:06:49
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1:06:52
Terrifying Realm of the Possible, which is
1:06:54
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1:06:56
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1:06:58
he calls nearly true short stories that
1:07:01
are so fun and so Jewish. Joshua
1:07:04
and Stephanie talked to Brett about
1:07:06
the book and about how bookstores
1:07:08
canceled some of his events after
1:07:10
he spoke out for Israel online.
1:07:12
You'll hear in our interview that
1:07:14
he's only become even more
1:07:16
loud and proud as a
1:07:19
result. Brett
1:07:24
Gelman, welcome to Unorthodox. Thank
1:07:27
you so much. It's so great to be here. Shalom.
1:07:30
Shalom. You're in this interesting
1:07:33
category of like well-known person who
1:07:35
since October 7th has really become
1:07:37
a leading Jewish voice. You've gone from basically being like the
1:07:40
guy from Stranger Things to this really, really
1:07:43
proud Jew online. To the Zionist king of
1:07:45
Hollywood? Yes, exactly. Sorry, Josh. Sorry, Josh. One
1:07:48
of the kings. You don't mind? You don't
1:07:51
mind? I'm happy to serve as prince.
1:07:53
So like what is that? We
1:08:00
talked to Josh a lot about this. We're like, when did
1:08:02
you decide to be Jewish on Twitter? How
1:08:04
did this happen for you where you're like, everyone
1:08:06
likes me, I do all these things creatively, I'm
1:08:09
also a big Jew. I didn't mean
1:08:11
to get right to know it. It's always been a
1:08:13
steady... It's funny. It's like
1:08:15
as the world slowly became
1:08:17
more and more anti-Semitic over
1:08:19
the last 10 to 20
1:08:21
years, I became more and
1:08:23
more Zionistic, more and more
1:08:26
Jewish. Not that I
1:08:28
was ever an anti-Zionist or not a support
1:08:30
of Israel, but I definitely was falling into
1:08:33
the whole realm
1:08:35
of, oh, I'm white
1:08:38
and I benefit from white privilege
1:08:40
and, oh, Israel oppresses
1:08:42
the Palestinian people in the same
1:08:45
way that the United States oppresses
1:08:47
the black community and stuff like
1:08:49
that. So there was
1:08:51
those notions. And then I met
1:08:53
my fiancee, who is an Israeli
1:08:55
American, and that was
1:08:57
six years ago. And she really
1:08:59
woke me up to my self-hatred,
1:09:02
because that's what it is. And so that
1:09:04
made me really start to see things clearly
1:09:06
start to become educated of what
1:09:08
was really going on over there. And also see
1:09:10
a lot more clearly what was going on
1:09:12
over here. It just really wasn't a
1:09:15
choice once the seventh happened. I had
1:09:17
already been speaking out a bit, but
1:09:19
I've always spoken out for causes.
1:09:22
How could I not speak out for
1:09:24
our people? And I didn't
1:09:26
do it blindly. I knew what was potentially
1:09:28
going to happen. I knew what the blowback
1:09:31
was going to probably
1:09:33
be. However, you still
1:09:36
experience that in real time.
1:09:38
You still experience the trauma
1:09:41
of the backlash to
1:09:43
the same degree, even though you expect
1:09:45
it. You're also now promoting your new
1:09:47
book, The Terrifying Realm of the Possible. And
1:09:49
you're in the strange position of seeing
1:09:52
this play out on your book tour, right? Yeah.
1:09:54
Yeah. I mean, it's A
1:09:56
very Jewish book. It is. It's not.... About
1:10:00
the you the conflict in all
1:10:02
or anything having to do with
1:10:04
his or but it's a very
1:10:06
Jewish. But I'm so influenced by
1:10:08
Jewish authors and Jewish comedic authors
1:10:10
and I wanted to put that
1:10:12
sort of culture out there again.
1:10:14
it's so much a part of
1:10:16
me and so much of what
1:10:18
is influenced me and I wanted
1:10:20
people to. Be. Able to
1:10:23
read that type of voice again.
1:10:25
You know, make that voice cool
1:10:27
again. There is a tie to
1:10:29
it and people trying to cancel
1:10:31
my appearances, and there is a
1:10:33
connection to the Jewishness of the
1:10:35
book. But also, I mean, obviously
1:10:37
they're doing it because or they
1:10:39
claim they're doing it because of
1:10:41
my. My. Stance because they
1:10:43
claim to know what my stances
1:10:46
amidst a Jew haters A sock.
1:10:48
How do you feel about places
1:10:50
that are canceling like book? Super
1:10:53
Los Angeles A bookstore that I've
1:10:55
enjoyed and visited many times. They
1:10:57
claim they're not censoring you. They
1:11:00
canceled your event there for security
1:11:02
concerns. Dubai that? ah not really.
1:11:04
not the end of the day.
1:11:07
I want people to be safe.
1:11:09
I want to be safe. I
1:11:11
am going. To pay for security
1:11:14
when I mom making public appearances.
1:11:16
I think that that's essential right
1:11:18
now. I get death threats all
1:11:20
the time so I take precautions.
1:11:22
I'd take the precautions of the
1:11:24
people who work at the store
1:11:27
and.my audience. So. That's all
1:11:29
clear and then you know, even
1:11:31
if there is a threat which
1:11:33
it's very unlikely that some is
1:11:35
going to combine, do something violent,
1:11:37
It seems to me more that
1:11:39
they don't wanna have this reputation
1:11:41
because the people buying their books
1:11:43
are people who are anti semitic
1:11:45
without knowing. And you know, hiding
1:11:47
behind social justice when they have
1:11:50
no idea when a lack of
1:11:52
justice saw their exhibiting. They're so
1:11:54
yeah, I know, I don't buy
1:11:56
it at all. I I especially.
1:11:58
with something like books. Because
1:12:00
we press like whoa, provide security and
1:12:02
they still didn't wanna do that. And
1:12:05
then you know you see where that
1:12:07
stores located and then people like you
1:12:09
and die we're going to that stores.
1:12:12
That means that if you're like us
1:12:14
but you're not a zionist then you're
1:12:16
gonna have. You're not gonna like the
1:12:18
fact that I'm showing up there so
1:12:21
they may be don't want to have
1:12:23
that reputation is my guess but I
1:12:25
don't know. You know thats I have
1:12:27
no proof of that. That. Logic is
1:12:30
just extra depressing from a bookstore. When
1:12:32
you're like it's bucks, they're not scary,
1:12:34
they know us new ideas like it
1:12:37
to me seems to defy though. the
1:12:39
logic of fled this creative enterprise is
1:12:41
on s yeah well you know I'm
1:12:43
a genocidal warmongering. You seem like yes,
1:12:46
Yes, yes, Has spread
1:12:48
out at all in your realize. Your
1:12:50
friends? Yeah yeah absolutely. I have
1:12:52
some friends who have shown me
1:12:54
know so poor. I
1:12:57
have friends who have been
1:12:59
verbally abusive to me and
1:13:01
it also just sucks to
1:13:04
see people I know signing
1:13:06
ceasefire petitions which is just
1:13:08
such a destructive Pr move.
1:13:11
You. Know when they have no
1:13:14
idea what's going on Earth? They
1:13:16
do. They're choosing to ignore it
1:13:18
and are completely erasing Jewish pain,
1:13:20
just calling for a cease fire
1:13:23
without any mention of the return
1:13:25
of the Hostages, for instance. Yeah,
1:13:27
our the surrender of Hamas. It's
1:13:30
also just a complete disregard for
1:13:32
what they claim to be advocating
1:13:34
for, which is Palestinian humanization and
1:13:37
self determination because Hamas is a
1:13:39
completely oppressive entity towards their own
1:13:41
people. The. Designed this whole
1:13:43
situation so their own people would
1:13:46
die. so people would react in
1:13:48
the way that they're reacting. Obviously,
1:13:50
I mean, how many people have
1:13:53
said that? So yeah, it's just
1:13:55
so it's not really considering anyone
1:13:57
except their own narcissistic don't lose.
1:14:00
The Law. View. Of themselves
1:14:02
as some sort of voice
1:14:04
of social justice. Bottom.
1:14:07
So. Yeah, no. I mean
1:14:09
like it's been really disappointing. You.
1:14:11
Know you you see like right?
1:14:14
We watch the oscars, josh him
1:14:16
in, you see or that applause
1:14:18
and that is crazy. You're sitting
1:14:20
room wondering and maybe not wondering.
1:14:22
Maybe you know how many people
1:14:24
the I know just clapped. To.
1:14:26
That speech just applauded that speech.
1:14:28
and that's ah. That's really disappointing.
1:14:30
makes you feel really alone. Said.
1:14:33
There weren't weren't not a lot of yellow ribbons
1:14:35
on the red carpet. Know there were none. There.
1:14:37
Were none and and I think that
1:14:40
people should have spoken out against not
1:14:42
only Glazers speeds but also the wearing
1:14:44
of the red pins which again is
1:14:46
a completely slanted view of the whole
1:14:49
situation. And I don't think they know
1:14:51
this, but that's anti semitic so what
1:14:53
to do? And and this is the
1:14:55
question. probably would you do? you're in this
1:14:57
industry rate is still wanna work? You wanna
1:15:00
do the thing you love to do. You
1:15:02
recognize a lot of city miss out there.
1:15:04
What is the answer? For. You
1:15:06
going forward by me I think there's
1:15:08
a lot of people who actually see
1:15:10
the see it the way we do.
1:15:12
I encounter quite a few people but
1:15:14
you navigate As I mean like show
1:15:17
business is is lonely at times and
1:15:19
so he try to go with the
1:15:21
people who stand with you. Luckily like
1:15:23
my collaborators are. Supportive.
1:15:25
People. I'm working with them and my wraps
1:15:27
are all supported so you've never got. Nobody
1:15:30
has ever said anything like a could detect
1:15:32
it down and social media nobody is asked
1:15:34
you to pull backer. no no no not
1:15:36
at all. Does that only happens? Cm yeah
1:15:38
I mean and about I've found the same
1:15:41
thing I've been. I've had my moments in
1:15:43
the barrel with for people are mad at
1:15:45
me on both sides and wondered whether an
1:15:47
employer might say like could just stop with
1:15:49
the post explain to my delight I've not.
1:15:51
I've found that a nobody's ever ask me.
1:15:54
I think a lot more people agree. With
1:15:56
us than we think. The. problem is
1:15:58
is that they're not speaking out there not
1:16:00
counteracting what's being said. I mean, you know,
1:16:02
I'm really sick of like these
1:16:04
silent Jews who come to
1:16:06
me and thank me. Yes. And
1:16:09
I'm like, don't thank me. I'm not your fucking human shield. Say
1:16:12
something. And because you bear the
1:16:14
burden of it. That's I think what I was getting
1:16:16
at. If you have these like studio execs who I'm
1:16:19
sure feel the same way you feel, don't
1:16:21
take a stand. Part of it is like people
1:16:23
want to work within the system. Like I think everyone has their
1:16:25
reasons, but to me it is frustrating to
1:16:27
see a lot of people say thank you for doing this.
1:16:29
I can never do this. I can never post this. I
1:16:31
can never say that. Yeah. And you have
1:16:34
an audience. Everyone can do something, right? No, I like
1:16:36
I'm sick of it. You know, I
1:16:38
resent it personally. And I
1:16:40
also think that that mode of assimilation
1:16:42
and mode of
1:16:44
self-preservation is why we're in
1:16:46
the fucking place that we're in right now.
1:16:49
Interesting. October 7th didn't just,
1:16:51
it wasn't the big bang. It was an
1:16:53
explosion from a gas leak that
1:16:55
was steadily seeping in to
1:16:57
American culture. And to European culture,
1:16:59
this was all set up. It
1:17:02
almost feels like it all led
1:17:04
to this and this
1:17:06
reaction. And we were not speaking
1:17:08
out. People were not speaking out
1:17:11
enough. The Jewish people
1:17:13
should have never allowed ourselves to
1:17:15
lose our marginalization status, should have
1:17:17
never allowed ourselves to
1:17:20
be considered white. You
1:17:22
know? Because what does
1:17:25
that mean? You know, to be considered the
1:17:27
white oppressor. These labels and things like that.
1:17:29
Whereas if, you know, I've said this so
1:17:31
many times, but ask a white supremacist if
1:17:33
I'm white. You know? We're
1:17:36
not. You know, we are an oppressed group.
1:17:39
And yes, the way in
1:17:41
which we're oppressed is not the same way in which
1:17:43
another group is oppressed. But like,
1:17:46
it's not a competition. It's
1:17:48
a fact. We are an oppressed people. So
1:17:51
we should never have been giving in to
1:17:53
this, you know, we felt the
1:17:55
need to assimilate to whether it was out of
1:17:57
guilt, whether it was out of greed. Whether
1:18:00
it was out of just like, oh, I don't want to
1:18:02
deal with it. It's like you got to deal with it.
1:18:05
And so now we really have to deal with it.
1:18:08
And people are still playing by the same, same
1:18:11
handbook and it clearly doesn't work.
1:18:14
And in a funny way, you, you're representative of
1:18:16
the big group of people, I include myself who
1:18:18
sort of had the right politics, right? Who were
1:18:20
like, I support all of
1:18:22
these things. I've supported all these other causes. Of
1:18:24
course we see ourselves as being on the right
1:18:26
side of things. And then to
1:18:29
realize that we're not included, there's no reciprocity. We
1:18:31
realize that when it comes to Israel, when it
1:18:33
comes to Jews, things are a little different. And
1:18:35
I think that what we've been seeing, you know,
1:18:37
from our listeners and from our guests even is
1:18:40
that dealing with that is very hard for people
1:18:42
who are like, what do you mean? I was out there
1:18:44
with you and now I'm
1:18:47
the bad guy, basically for being Jewish. Yeah.
1:18:49
I think it's a lot of people coming to terms
1:18:51
with, a lot of Jews coming to terms with the
1:18:53
fact that they just hate us. We're
1:18:56
just hated by everybody. Anti-Semitism
1:18:58
is baked into the fabric
1:19:00
of society. And then
1:19:03
in this moment, it's requiring a lot of
1:19:05
non-Jews to recognize that in themselves in the
1:19:07
way that I had to recognize all of
1:19:10
my unconscious biases, you know,
1:19:12
which is what everybody has. I mean, everybody
1:19:14
has these things. I think
1:19:16
it's also like a massive, very active
1:19:18
denial that they have this inside of
1:19:20
them, that they have anti-Semitism in them
1:19:22
and it drives them nuts and it
1:19:25
makes them compensate for it by becoming
1:19:27
even more anti-Semitic. Unlike
1:19:31
book soup, we want to give you a
1:19:33
platform to talk about your book. How
1:19:36
long have you been working on it? Like three
1:19:38
years, but like probably like
1:19:40
six months of actual writing. You
1:19:44
know, it's like you procrastinate and then, you
1:19:47
know, other jobs come up. I just wonder,
1:19:49
I'm like, oh, was it procrastination or was
1:19:51
it percolation? Was it
1:19:53
baking in my subconscious so that I
1:19:55
could just Vomit it out once.
1:19:58
I Finally sat down at the computer? We'd
1:20:00
been a writer yeah yeah, I have and I
1:20:02
I wanted to be an author to and then
1:20:04
I want to do something like this. Didn't want
1:20:06
to be an actor, writing a book, a one
1:20:08
to be and author. Writing. A
1:20:10
Book and I was really lucky that my
1:20:13
editors to Roberts. Reached. Out to
1:20:15
me one day and he likes. I think
1:20:17
you'd write a great book a short stories.
1:20:19
I was like holy shit to slip some
1:20:21
this him from his husband and. You've. Created quite
1:20:23
a world with indistinctly tell us about
1:20:25
than the characters who we me along
1:20:27
the way. To send they
1:20:29
are actors. They are quite there,
1:20:32
yet there are. There
1:20:35
quite a quite loud right? Colorful know
1:20:37
it's ah, it's so it's a child.
1:20:39
Him, Abraham and Stir damn. A.
1:20:41
Teenager named Mendel Freudenberger an
1:20:43
adult Them: Jackie Cohen an
1:20:46
older woman named Iris below.
1:20:48
And. A person in the
1:20:50
afterlife named Z. And.
1:20:53
Each character has about like
1:20:55
fives. Short stories are pieces
1:20:57
about them. And.
1:21:00
They're all bullets of Jewish
1:21:02
neurosis. Choose exile, It. it's
1:21:04
The Book is a total
1:21:06
purge. Of. My self hatred. Absolutely.
1:21:08
And to do, get all out, it's all.
1:21:11
And no, No, absolutely no. The never would
1:21:13
have known. Of course I'm a Jew. it's
1:21:15
an ongoing or as a yes I yes,
1:21:17
but it enough feels good said. get it
1:21:20
out for a day. But I also think
1:21:22
there's a beauty to that neurosis and that
1:21:24
anxiety that I wanted to, you know, shine
1:21:26
the light on and laugh at to. And
1:21:29
you call these nearly true. Stories He
1:21:31
others autobiographical elements in each character
1:21:33
and then you know I feel
1:21:36
like it's characters somewhat of an
1:21:38
extension of me. I call them
1:21:40
nightmares, you know? Who.
1:21:43
I am. I love it! It's great stuff
1:21:45
at we need a new Philip Roth said
1:21:47
make you. That's. Really sets really
1:21:50
nice for you to say yes.
1:21:52
Oh he's definitely one of my
1:21:54
my biggest influences. I mean I
1:21:56
also am really influenced by so
1:21:58
many people, but pages sale! We
1:22:00
separate artist from our but are
1:22:02
you know I mean without feathers.
1:22:04
And in all Woody Allen's early
1:22:06
prose is like a huge I
1:22:08
was weaned on all that area.
1:22:10
yeah like the moment who I
1:22:12
read without feathers it broke my
1:22:14
brain so I wanted to are
1:22:16
you know, just bring things like
1:22:18
that back. I mean you know
1:22:20
I eat cheaply curing this this
1:22:22
condescension to like bagel lox. Jews
1:22:24
are certain type of Seinfeld the
1:22:26
in culture and I'm like I
1:22:28
think that that is absolute. Jewish
1:22:30
excellence? Someone to put that my own
1:22:33
version of that into this book. Explain
1:22:35
that more of your own version of just
1:22:37
excellence. I just think that
1:22:39
there's a beauty to how
1:22:42
American Jews specifically have taken
1:22:44
deep neurosis and turn that
1:22:46
into humor and art. And
1:22:48
are able to relate to all
1:22:50
of humanity. Through. That you know,
1:22:53
with people either enjoying it by being
1:22:55
a voyeur or relating to aspects of
1:22:57
or relating to are all of it.
1:23:00
But I think we're all plagued with
1:23:02
a lot of. Fears.
1:23:04
About the big questions and fumbling through
1:23:06
the asking of them and I think
1:23:08
that's a very Jewish thing. sad swear
1:23:10
that than which I am, I love
1:23:13
that idea and I think that's brilliant
1:23:15
Bahamas for that was at all these
1:23:17
people. We now see who are like ah
1:23:19
I'm i'm not real it's and U S they're
1:23:21
fine with the like you to see ness the
1:23:23
don't have the real Jewish balls basically to stand
1:23:25
up in this moment are these people who now
1:23:28
in this moment or like are nuts U S
1:23:30
L Israel's makes me uncomfortable like they really have
1:23:32
distanced themselves from the actual Jewishness of at all.
1:23:35
Yeah. Maybe they keep the
1:23:37
bagels? I mean they can. You
1:23:39
know they can fuck off. I
1:23:41
assist assist the sake of us.
1:23:44
Are. Yeah I hey sorry sorry
1:23:46
that you're a coward. And.
1:23:49
That you hate yourself. Yeah.
1:23:51
i've i hope not that i think
1:23:53
my book will do this but it
1:23:55
would be great for people to read
1:23:57
my book in the experience reefs other
1:24:01
Jewish art and revamp
1:24:03
their own Jewish
1:24:05
pride and be willing to
1:24:07
speak out. I mean, yeah, I just don't know what
1:24:10
you think is going to happen. What
1:24:13
you're gaining by not speaking out, they
1:24:15
hate you to. It doesn't matter. It's
1:24:18
a cliche thing to say, but it
1:24:20
doesn't matter if you make a speech
1:24:23
at the Oscars comparing
1:24:25
Israel to Nazi Germany.
1:24:27
You're still hated. That
1:24:31
doesn't take the Jew off of you. So
1:24:33
you should be proud of it and not
1:24:35
be ashamed of these really important aspects of
1:24:37
our culture and our history.
1:24:39
Well said. Thank you. Yeah,
1:24:41
I want the Jewish pride boot camp. What can we learn from
1:24:44
you? Where
1:24:46
to start? But inspire us. I
1:24:48
don't know. Give us the motivational speech. A
1:24:50
lot of pressure. Yeah, seriously. I
1:24:52
mean, you know, revisit Jewish
1:24:55
artists, revisit Jewish thinkers, read
1:24:57
about Jewish history, read about
1:24:59
Israeli history. Really
1:25:02
start to retrain your
1:25:04
mind into thinking that
1:25:07
you are the dominant culture
1:25:09
for yourself. I'm
1:25:11
not saying don't be influenced by other cultures,
1:25:14
but don't devalue your culture
1:25:16
in comparison to another culture.
1:25:19
And see, really see how we
1:25:22
helped build the culture in a
1:25:24
very real way, whether
1:25:27
it was ours or not in
1:25:29
this country. We wrote the Christmas
1:25:31
songs. We produced the
1:25:33
Westerns. But then we also,
1:25:36
where Jews really stood up, I think
1:25:38
is very much in comedy and in
1:25:40
writing. So I mean, listen
1:25:42
to 2000 year old man, go
1:25:45
watch that episode of Seinfeld, watch
1:25:48
Annie Hall. I mean, you know,
1:25:50
really read Philip Roth, read
1:25:52
Saul Bellow. Go and look
1:25:54
at old episodes of Fashion Police
1:25:56
on YouTube with Joan. Yes,
1:26:01
exactly. This is like excellence.
1:26:03
It's so funny. And I think
1:26:05
that there is something about
1:26:07
rebuilding Jewish culture that in
1:26:09
some ways will come
1:26:11
from a heavy influence from Israeli
1:26:13
culture, which there's so many amazing
1:26:15
aspects of Israeli culture that people
1:26:18
should educate themselves on that
1:26:20
I've been steadily educating myself on. And
1:26:23
sort of blending that with this
1:26:25
American Jewish culture, which is show
1:26:28
business, and which is being
1:26:30
kind of an amazing mess. I
1:26:33
think like the Jew is like really like
1:26:35
a great answer to these times. Because
1:26:38
we're not a people that claim
1:26:40
to know the answers. We sort
1:26:42
of beautifully fumble through these things.
1:26:44
We say the wrong thing. We
1:26:47
do the thing that's like not
1:26:49
cool all the time, but that's
1:26:51
cool. Hold that, embrace
1:26:53
that, and be proud of that
1:26:55
rather than like putting it up
1:26:57
against somebody else's gaze. I think
1:26:59
like it's time that we really
1:27:01
adopt the Jewish gaze and
1:27:03
not close ourselves off to other influences. I
1:27:05
think that the influences from
1:27:07
other cultures can help feed that
1:27:09
because that is America and that is
1:27:12
also part of being Jewish too. And we have
1:27:15
to recognize, I mean, I hope we're able to
1:27:17
recognize our alliances too.
1:27:20
This is the great tragedy of like the
1:27:22
rift between the Jewish community
1:27:24
and the black community or the Jewish
1:27:26
community and the queer community. We all
1:27:29
built America together. We all built the
1:27:31
culture. We do really
1:27:33
well when we work together. So
1:27:35
I don't know. That's a
1:27:37
really long answer. But yeah,
1:27:40
finding every ways in which to read. It's amazing.
1:27:42
I want to put like the rocky training montage
1:27:44
under that because that is like, but you're
1:27:46
right. It's like we're outsiders. We do our
1:27:48
thing. We work against culture in a way. We
1:27:50
always have. And that's when we've been most successful. And
1:27:53
I think finding that gutsiness right
1:27:55
now is incredibly important. And you're showing us how
1:27:58
to do it, which I appreciate. beautifully
1:28:00
and comically in a grand tradition of which
1:28:02
we should be proud. Thank you. That means
1:28:04
so much you say in that. Thanks. Yeah,
1:28:07
that's what I strove to do. I tried
1:28:09
to, but I do think
1:28:11
it's a book that a lot of
1:28:13
people can find laughter in, even if
1:28:15
they don't relate culturally to it, you
1:28:18
know, at least as an onlooker, which
1:28:20
is what the Jew has been great
1:28:22
at doing. Yeah, you can laugh with
1:28:24
me as I do this as a
1:28:26
comedic figure. I think that there's
1:28:28
that universal thing to us. Like, it's
1:28:30
amazing. Like, we really are able, and
1:28:32
there's other cultures who obviously
1:28:35
are able to do this too, but
1:28:37
like, we're one of the cultures that
1:28:39
are able to really exist in ourselves,
1:28:41
but then also reach out across the
1:28:44
aisle, as it were, and have other
1:28:46
people enjoy us too. And you feel
1:28:48
the Jewishness, you know? Yeah, go watch
1:28:51
the Marx Brothers. Watch the
1:28:53
Marx Brothers. My dad used to
1:28:55
show Marx Brothers movies on the reel-to-reel in the
1:28:57
basement of our house. Oh my god. I grew
1:28:59
up on that, and the 2000 year old man
1:29:02
that I loved that you name checked as well,
1:29:04
because that is my greatest comic influence of my
1:29:06
life. Yeah, me too. Me too. That is, I
1:29:08
mean, I think that that might be the greatest
1:29:10
piece of comedy ever done is the 2000 year
1:29:13
old man. Agreed. It's true
1:29:18
perfection, and it's, yeah,
1:29:21
I mean, it's perfect. And how can people get
1:29:23
your book? You can get it on wherever you
1:29:26
can find books. I mean, you can go visit
1:29:29
my Instagram page at Brett
1:29:31
Gelman, or my Twitter page,
1:29:33
which I really wish I
1:29:35
didn't have. My TikTok page,
1:29:39
which hopefully will no longer exist soon.
1:29:41
And now you can
1:29:44
find a way to order the
1:29:46
book at the link in my
1:29:48
bio too. But like, yeah, anywhere
1:29:50
you buy books online or in
1:29:52
stores. Ooh, stores. Not Book
1:29:54
Soup. I Mean, they're selling it. Go Buy
1:29:57
it at BookSoup. Yeah, go buy it at
1:29:59
BookSoup. To. Rub
1:30:01
it in their face. Rub it in there.
1:30:03
That's that's I have a right. Not not
1:30:05
the way. cardigans were just sending people there
1:30:08
and mother and love that idea that funds.
1:30:10
Would you sign a copy for one? Of our listeners and
1:30:12
will give away. See them
1:30:14
to do right now but I will put this
1:30:16
in front of it. Guy who's the to it's
1:30:18
the someone we're not we don't know saw a
1:30:21
listener of the great so diocesan scribe all the
1:30:23
jewish as them in there was absolutely zero unidentified
1:30:25
zoo. Series do
1:30:27
thing to do named later.
1:30:32
Brasil Me: this book is Me and this
1:30:34
book is Do. That
1:30:36
assist. Thank you so much for being on a
1:30:39
regular guy so much! This is so amazing! Right
1:30:51
time for some models have layout take
1:30:53
us off my muscles officer the amazing
1:30:55
community of but The end where I
1:30:58
had the pleasure and privilege of spending
1:31:00
my poor him with our dear friends.
1:31:02
A hoover it's to Halperin and they're
1:31:04
amazing children Went to a poor him
1:31:06
celebration at the Brodie's house. Shoutout to
1:31:08
the Brodie's just to be there in
1:31:11
with the Eames, surrounded by these wonderful
1:31:13
hills where the Hanukkah story takes place.
1:31:15
As as feel really grateful.
1:31:18
For. Everything that we've got so. Would.
1:31:20
Improve called some ask for you happy for
1:31:22
him again and again and again. Amazing
1:31:25
and my muscles have this week. Goes to
1:31:27
my grandma Seal because she got a whirl
1:31:29
hole in one for the six. Time was
1:31:31
little and one sees a genius. It's amazing
1:31:34
Sauce of you. Have you ever done that?
1:31:36
Have I ever got? I think I once maybe
1:31:38
got it on the first try but I also
1:31:40
might be making that I gotta once I see
1:31:42
I said also to begin with the same words
1:31:44
which will never be. yet
1:31:46
my grandma definitely doesn't do that but i don't
1:31:48
i don't really go for the whole one but
1:31:51
i'm gobsmacked that anybody has done it six doesn't
1:31:53
it occurred to me this week that the moda
1:31:55
undies a jewish word or that's the first thing
1:31:57
we do in the morning and love that she
1:31:59
was hurdle I always get that in
1:32:01
one. You
1:32:04
always try the same one each time.
1:32:06
I have a mazel tov to Jewish
1:32:08
Democrats, all Jewish Democrats who pushed back
1:32:10
this week against Trump's ridiculous statements that
1:32:12
anyone who is Jewish who votes for
1:32:14
a Democrat is somehow disloyal to Israel
1:32:17
or hates his religion, his or her.
1:32:19
Just garbage. We're self-hating, but not like that.
1:32:24
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