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the way we think about medicine and
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bread Super Bowl Sunday so I'm excited
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endless pull of medical knowledge and wisdom
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or on the heart and the mind.
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Boggling. For. For that
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introduction which is as grow our hadn't says
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bar than pure. Let's
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say hello welcome and so is a wonderful to
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have their. To be her! Thank you for
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having me. Thank you! So first question
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inquiring minds want to know how
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is jamming with Oprah and Super
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Bowl Sunday? Oh well.
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over Zopa, you know it's like ugh,
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I wouldn't want basketball of Michael Jordan.
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Hours of your lower ones are Andrew
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Yeah, I get all of. She's
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wonderful. I I would have a privilege
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of knowing Hope or for many many
3:05
years. Ah and it was wonderful to
3:07
for An and me to be interviewed
3:09
by her at her home in Maui.
3:12
I was just a beautiful in every
3:14
sense of the word and is nice
3:16
to reconnect so come over as a
3:18
way of really bringing out the most
3:20
personal things. That most people would talk about
3:22
except maybe you and so we can talk about
3:25
some of those today with you mentioned earlier that
3:27
he wanted to talk about happiness and we spent
3:29
a lot of our interview talking to about us
3:31
that so I'd be fun to have to get
3:33
the dive into. that was you today. Islands.
3:36
Died in the happiness. And
3:40
when you consider to be some of the preconditions
3:42
for happiness whereas some of the happiest points in
3:44
your life. Well.
3:47
My. Interview with a proxy server One
3:49
of the saddest sons of my life
3:51
which was when I was killed myself
3:54
and I was nineteen and and of
3:56
in the depths of despair or and
3:58
darkness and all the things. Along with
4:00
that, and are you know one of the
4:02
hallmarks of depression is the sense of helplessness
4:04
of hopelessness. And I think that comes from
4:06
this reality to source, and where you think
4:09
that you're actually seeing things clearly for the
4:11
first time when you're profoundly depressed and some
4:13
real distorts reality and you're convinced that things
4:15
are bad. They've always been bad and they
4:17
will always be bad at any time you
4:19
thought Otherwise, you're just fooling yourself. And so
4:21
that's when he said you know any your
4:23
life and Li becomes an eye on eyes
4:26
as kill myself in a dead people look
4:28
like they're happy and I'm really miserable. So
4:30
let me let me try that on.
4:32
I later learned that when you kill
4:34
yourself you you you kill your body
4:36
is fearless on it. I just don't
4:38
have a body and who saw this
4:40
and problems and homeless opportunity? Credible a
4:42
big messenger way. But that's how I
4:44
got interested in com or life's work
4:46
was on. Eyes. A
4:48
long story, but a short version is I
4:50
withdrew from school, went on to Dallas I
4:53
I. I got so sick physically from running
4:55
my body down so much that I little
4:57
didn't have the energy to kill myself. I
4:59
got a horrible case of infectious moto. You
5:02
need to keep people in the world saved by disease.
5:04
Yes, I was only saved by disease and
5:06
was is a great some lesson in life. Sometimes
5:09
the things that you think a really awful
5:11
of the ones that are actually lifesaving and that
5:13
was furniture for me. ah because I didn't really
5:15
have you ever even to get out of bed
5:17
and so my plan as crazy as it sounds
5:20
was to go home and with my parents and
5:22
I'm gonna sense of how mess up i was
5:24
in his came down saw direct I was
5:26
a one hundred dollars and the fire was to
5:28
get physically strong enough to kill myself. Wow.
5:33
This. Is a Nineteen Seventy January Nineteen Seventy
5:35
Two. My older sister I've been a
5:37
child of the sixties and ah, was
5:39
have the lot by an ecumenical spiritual
5:41
teacher named Swampy. such as Abundant. And
5:43
so my parents decided I'm a cocktail
5:45
party for the Swami. This isn't even
5:48
today. This will be weird and dollars.
5:50
But. It was ago
5:52
was really fun and down and so
5:54
and walks the south central casting looking
5:56
guy from vog of as what us
5:58
while me should look like. Not
6:00
a little saying when the soon is ready to
6:02
teach her peers and that was certainly true for
6:05
me and he began election are Living Room assault
6:07
song and he started off by saying or nothing
6:09
can bring you lasting happiness which I'd already figured
6:11
out which is why want to kill myself except
6:13
he was glowing and radio that I was about
6:16
ready to do my cellphone so I remember Thank
6:18
you I what am I missing here alone don't
6:20
actually saw validating even to hear him say that
6:22
that nothing and bring lasting happiness because everyone else
6:25
you know what I was how ya just get
6:27
married and get rich and famous and you know
6:29
you'll be. Happy and I knew that wasn't
6:31
true. And so the combination of feeling like
6:33
I was super that was ever going to
6:35
mount have anything it even if I had
6:37
it would matter anyway was profoundly depressing. So
6:40
here's somebody can validate my misery and away
6:42
or that things don't bring lasting happiness was
6:44
initially validate, but I thought what am I
6:46
missing here cause he looks really happened under
6:48
hi I'm Anything Butter and he went on
6:50
to say was probably sounds like a new
6:52
a cliche but it turned my life around
6:54
the time which was that nothing can bring
6:56
lasting happiness. As a bad news that I'd
6:58
figured out that the corollary. To that is
7:01
that you haven't already. We all do
7:03
that. It's or nature to be happy
7:05
and peaceful. Unhealthy fall with rare exceptions.
7:07
An impromptu the ultimate irony and paradox.
7:09
Not being mindful of that when the
7:11
running after all these things that are
7:13
culturally tells us we're going to make
7:15
us happy and say gossip only I
7:17
have more. Blacks. More money,
7:19
more power, More sacks were beauty. More
7:21
accomplice. Warm water. Whatever. If only I
7:24
had more whatever then I'd be happy.
7:26
Then people love even I wouldn't feel
7:28
so lonely isolated in life. And because.
7:31
Know. What I learned from the Swami was that.
7:34
Once. You set of that view of the world
7:36
and not only are cultural, the whole advertising industry
7:38
in a reinforces that no matter how it turns
7:40
out you're going to, you're unhappy with us until
7:42
you get it in. Are you feel stress and
7:45
on? How do I? Hope I get it. You
7:47
know that a sex go up as much as
7:49
winning or losing has been a winner or loser
7:51
that's on the line and losers in I thought
7:53
of nobody wants to be around I'll be even
7:55
more lonely and isolated. Winners: Everybody wants to love
7:57
of the happy So the says the steaks go.
8:00
So the stresses go up. So until you
8:02
get addicted strauss until the someone else his
8:04
didn't you don't then it's really unhappy. In
8:06
a makes you think while we really live
8:08
in this kind of Donald Trump, Doggie Dog
8:10
does zero sum game view of the world
8:13
the more you get the lesser. As for
8:15
me and your go around ones that are
8:17
get a while you can almost. You don't
8:19
know if we're kind of commercials but even
8:21
if we get it is seductive in the
8:23
moment because it's like off I got it
8:26
now. Unhappy except invariably doesn't last as it
8:28
is like what is Now what one. Of
8:30
my patients years ago said you know the view
8:32
of the mountain climb. I can't even enjoy the
8:34
view from the mountain on Klein. aren't looking over
8:36
the next one or if is not, know what
8:39
it's off. So what big deal? It doesn't really
8:41
provide that lasting sense of meaning and people say
8:43
well, you know I pod the Led down. The
8:45
comes from accomplishing a goal is so great. I
8:47
always make sure I have a dozen other projects
8:49
going on at the same time so I can
8:52
immediately chef my attention to that. Sets
8:55
either now, water, so on. And.
8:57
So with as well he said
8:59
it said, the goal of all
9:01
the spiritual practices that we call
9:03
meditation for example or yoga was
9:05
stress management or really so much
9:07
more than stress management. You know
9:09
the ancients on Swami is and
9:11
rabbis and priests and monks and
9:13
nuns and mullahs and whatever didn't
9:15
develop these techniques and practices to
9:17
unclog their arteries, are a performer,
9:19
sports or his blood pressure down
9:21
or. He didn't cel. Yeah, Yeah.
9:24
Whatever on their actually powerful techniques for
9:26
quieting down or mind and body to
9:28
enable us experience was already there. And
9:31
other words arm our our natures to
9:33
be happy and peaceful and not be
9:35
mindful of that. As I mentioned, we
9:37
will run, ask for things that we
9:39
think we're going to bring us what
9:42
we we we could have already have
9:44
to stop doing that. The Frogs the
9:46
ultimate irony retired us and I'm in
9:48
a later. Them. Swami. Like to
9:50
my palms people's at what he the hindu is a know
9:53
I'm and undo what's As for the title of a my
9:55
new book came from. His
9:57
and that is that these techniques don't bring you a
9:59
sense of peace. Well being but rather at
10:01
least temporarily they hop as quiet down or
10:03
minded body loves experience that is already there
10:05
and then the question says radically from how
10:07
can I get what I think I need
10:09
in order to be happy and healthy lovable
10:12
to how can I to stop disturbing was
10:14
already there what am I doing that for
10:16
serving again not to blame myself a to
10:18
empower myself as of is out there than
10:20
everyone and everything that has something that I
10:22
think I need to be happy has power
10:24
over me. but if it's me than I
10:26
can is than the question goes what am
10:28
I doing to deserve that inner peace than
10:31
I can do something about that And I
10:33
found that to be profoundly liberating and so
10:35
I decided that okay by me I moved
10:37
plan killing myself down to plant be in
10:39
on me try those words saw that he
10:41
said you know if you in a plant
10:43
based diet which was a big change for
10:45
me having grown up in Texas eating meat
10:48
three or four five times a day and
10:50
issue on you know meditative exercise and have
10:52
more loving your life and that will do
10:54
it So I thought okay let me let
10:56
me give that a tried and I couldn't
10:58
even you know said so long. Enough to.
11:02
Meditate. For a minute I could really have
11:04
my the newspaper until You Five Minutes Later on his
11:06
son. But I began to do this and. I.
11:09
Began to get glimpses of what assault like to
11:11
be peaceful. not because I got something I thought
11:13
I needed in this case going to medical school
11:15
for getting into medical school but rather at least
11:18
for the moment I wasn't a sermon, what was
11:20
there and as completely changed my life and I
11:22
was able to go back to school in our
11:24
i went from being solution like I was a
11:27
total fraud and worthless and super to your. I
11:29
graduated first in my class who gave the baccalaureate
11:31
Another southerner say that not to brag but to
11:33
save I express both ends of that spectrum And
11:36
a profound irony was that when I thought I
11:38
had to. Get and do all these
11:40
things to be happy. A lovable I couldn't function
11:42
at all. When. I began to begin
11:44
with to be more in really define
11:46
enough, just fleetingly synergistic. Make that connection
11:48
or it. I was able to perform
11:51
in a much higher levels And the
11:53
other thing that happens is that when
11:55
you quiet down your mind and body
11:57
it provides you access to knowledge, known
11:59
innocence of. And happiness. But also
12:01
are you begin to hear that?
12:04
In or Wisdom your own inner swami, your
12:06
interviewer, your and are still small voice within
12:09
a goes by different names A different calls
12:11
resist the voice said or on your wisdom
12:13
is the one it wakes up in three
12:15
the morning and said hey, didn't listen up
12:17
his attention you're not doing something as your
12:19
best centrists and I learned that I can
12:21
access advice much were intentionally everyone can And
12:24
so the end of a meditation whether it's
12:26
done with of you know a Montreux are
12:28
mindful of us are using a muse has
12:30
had or whatever. When you get to that
12:32
inner peaceful, say what I've. Learned to do
12:34
is at the end about to ask that
12:37
inner voice to say hello. You know it's
12:39
crazy that sounds and and will say hello
12:41
as a Holiday Inn is hop and on.
12:43
It may speak of your voice and they
12:45
speak in someone elses wise but you'll learn
12:47
to recognize it. Sometimes it's word, sometimes it's
12:49
symbols are or tax serve or whatever. but
12:51
for me as words and I'll and I've
12:54
learned to ask that in with him. A
12:56
very simple but for thousand question which was.
12:59
What? Am I not paying attention to that?
13:01
I need to pay attention to and then
13:03
just solicit And it will tell me that
13:05
all of the Saudis that we've done over
13:07
the last forty years, all of which people
13:09
thought were impossible always sort of them came
13:12
from out listening to that boys Than kind
13:14
of reverse engineering to see how can I
13:16
design a study to see if this is
13:18
true enough. And the other than that happens
13:20
if you take it even deeper is that
13:22
A gives you a profound sense of transcendence
13:24
that on one level were separate. You know
13:26
you're you. And I mean we can enjoy
13:28
having this dialog. But on another
13:31
level or part of something larger that
13:33
connects us said it says you know
13:35
you and different forms on even to
13:37
give it a name is a limit
13:39
was essentially on an affable limitless experience
13:41
of of wonders of transcendence of non
13:43
duality goes by different names. For me
13:45
anything that. Creates. Intimacy
13:47
is healing. Even the word healing comes
13:50
from there to make whole and yoga
13:52
from the Sanskrit to yolks unite union.
13:54
These are really old ideas that were
13:57
rediscovered and so. Anything
13:59
that brings us. Gather whether it's which mean
14:01
people, the time you spend with your friends and
14:03
your family in your loved ones and the Democrats
14:05
are kind of intimacy and can be romantic. A
14:07
can be sexual, It can be a father, son
14:10
her father, daughter, mother, daughter of me with a
14:12
dog Can be with anything. Takes you out of
14:14
being separate only separate. Is. Profoundly healing
14:16
can only. Be. Intimate to
14:19
the degree that you can open your heart
14:21
and be with emotionally vulnerable you are You
14:23
can always you that to the degree feel
14:25
safe and so all these simple techniques really
14:27
designed to create that sense of intimacy is
14:29
profoundly she'll it And then you can go
14:32
out on the world and often accomplish even
14:34
more. but intentionality behind it is very different
14:36
and so the in the likewise. Not.
14:38
Only is there an intimacy between people
14:40
are having a pet or anything but
14:43
also to the center you feel that
14:45
sense of transcendence said non dual experience
14:47
where your intimate with the entire universe.
14:50
And. So for me haven't gone through while
14:52
almost killed me. but you know in retrospect
14:54
was the most beautiful gifts that I had
14:56
because I never would have gotten interested in
14:58
these things otherwise. I can tell you how
15:01
many patients have come after me over the
15:03
years and same things like a while having
15:05
a heart attack was the best thing that
15:07
ever happened to me are getting diagnosed with
15:09
prostate cancer or whatever and the first time
15:11
I heard that while I was not so
15:13
they say no that's what it took to
15:15
get my attention to begin incorporating sinks into
15:17
my life and I never would have done
15:20
before. I'm rediscovering in or sources
15:22
of peace and joy and love and
15:24
well being unable to perform at a
15:26
higher level on having these experiences with
15:29
my with my beloved better the most
15:31
erotic experiences I've ever had in or
15:33
whatever arena happens to be an of
15:36
when we go to that place of
15:38
stillness and wonders and ah an inner
15:40
peace the paradoxes of they survived so
15:43
much more joyful and successful at meaningful
15:45
at healthy and happy. Certainly.
15:47
Have a little bit about the biology
15:49
around that much physically is happening to
15:51
get that tasted and at peace. Like.
15:54
Physically is hop on biological level on
15:56
a great max and the last yelling.
15:59
Well. Are. They have a remarkable capacity to
16:01
begin healing. I'm much more quickly than
16:03
I had once realize when I started
16:05
doing this work. You know, forty two
16:07
years ago, it saw a continually a
16:09
source of amazement in delight. To.
16:11
See that if we simply stopped doing
16:13
was causing the problem, our bodies can
16:15
begin to heal. And. As
16:18
you mentioned I have great a your call
16:20
I saw Madison which is using lifestyle changes
16:22
settling to help to prevent but actually to
16:25
treat and even reverse the most common chronic
16:27
diseases and the more diseases with Saudi in
16:29
the more underlying biological mechanisms. We look at
16:31
the more scientific evidence we have to show
16:33
how powerful these techniques are and how quickly
16:36
people can get better to the degree that
16:38
they do them at any age. and so.
16:41
In. My new book on Do It!
16:43
My wife and I are are presenting
16:45
this. Radical. Unifying theory which
16:47
is sad. I. Was paused
16:49
like all daughters that. All.
16:51
These different diseases heart disease and diabetes
16:54
and prostate cancer and Alzheimer's and so
16:56
on. Different diseases, different diagnoses, different treatments
16:58
for what I've kinda realize over the
17:00
for decades of conducting research and sad
17:02
was it's that we found that one
17:04
set of die lifestyle recommendations could reverse
17:07
heart disease and a different one for
17:09
cancer or diabetes or whatever. It was
17:11
the same for all of them. And
17:14
what I'm realizing and it's kind
17:16
of an elegantly simple as profound
17:18
theory was, is that. They're.
17:20
Really the same disease manifesting and
17:22
masquerading and different forms you know
17:25
wants to these chronic diseases and
17:27
that's why the have the because
17:29
they all share the same underlying
17:31
biological mechanisms things like chronic emotional
17:33
stress ah, over simulation of the
17:35
sympathetic nervous system, oxidative stress changes
17:37
in the microbiome and telomeres and
17:39
gene expression and as regenesis and
17:41
so on. and each one of
17:44
these mechanisms in turn is directly
17:46
influence five what we eat, how
17:48
we respond to stress, how much
17:50
exercise. We get our mothers support we
17:52
have were to radically simplified even further
17:54
know he well move more stress last
17:57
lot more boom that set and again
17:59
that more. These as we thought a
18:01
them or mechanisms will look at the
18:03
more evidence we show that and you
18:05
know with all this talk about personalized
18:07
medicine and so on I think if
18:09
you're talking about of you know a
18:11
targeted immunotherapy for a particular cell type
18:13
of melanoma, pancreatic cancer, That's awesome. but
18:15
for the vast majority of chronic diseases,
18:17
it's the same lifestyle prescription for all
18:19
of them because it's really the same
18:21
disease that keeps manifesting a different forms.
18:23
And that's why we're able to show
18:25
how quickly people can get better in
18:28
ways that they can feel. Which.
18:30
Have been makes it much more sustainable because it's
18:32
like you sir to connect the dots it with
18:34
what you do and how you feel like out
18:36
what I eat. This will I do that? I
18:38
feel bad when I do that I don't feel
18:40
so good. If you got heart disease I do
18:42
this my chest pain goes away. I I could
18:45
walk across the street people say before I'd without
18:47
getting says favor for life changes I could make
18:49
love with my partner, I couldn't play with my
18:51
kids. I could go back to work without getting
18:53
and hundred suspect than a week or two of
18:55
was you are paint free. The researchers said things
18:57
like oh I get at nino on. Is
19:00
all about just preventing something bad from happening
19:02
here. Sound the road. These are changes dramatically
19:04
improve the quality of my life. Rise, you're
19:06
right now. and because what I gained so
19:09
much more the what I give up that
19:11
makes unsustainable. For. Small that's incredibly profound.
19:13
and anybody who's struggling were causing disease
19:15
is so many people have strange diseases
19:17
the doctors can't seem to solve any
19:19
different doctors, don't You don't know what
19:22
dance as and in so many ways
19:24
some of the answer is right. Yeah,
19:26
fun of yeah. But you know, really?
19:28
Break. Down the biology answered. So Loving
19:31
Snacks and for example, we can talk about
19:33
the fact that loving connection leads to less
19:35
disease. Can you take a step by step
19:37
to the biology of what's really happening? While
19:40
it's it was. but but the sec loving
19:42
as the force you to love more he
19:44
well the worst, restless lot more. So how
19:46
does love or work a lot more works
19:48
the same way that all these other things
19:51
work because as it is. But if you
19:53
go in the book with we go kind
19:55
of mechanism by mechanism. So we know for
19:57
example that people are lonely and isolated in
19:59
the depressed or. Three to ten times more
20:01
likely to get sick and die prematurely when compared
20:03
to those have a sense of love and connection.
20:05
The community. I know anything and Madison and has
20:08
that kind of impact in for indirect ways, in
20:10
an indirect ways, indirectly through mechanisms that we we
20:12
can talk about in a moment, indirectly because of
20:14
our behavior you know and doing this study's I
20:16
had the chance to in own and spend a
20:19
lot of time with the same group of patients,
20:21
have repaired of many years without to know each
20:23
other really well. And and this as a you
20:25
know teach me something. Why do you smoke? Why
20:28
The ovary? Why do you drink too much. While
20:30
you do substances you know or while you
20:32
work all the time while you pokemon video
20:34
games his behavior seem so so are harmful
20:37
and maladaptive to me and a look bit
20:39
ago. Did. You don't
20:41
get it is a hit or have a
20:43
clue. these behaviors are maladaptive. They're very adaptive
20:45
because they help us deal with our loneliness
20:47
or pain or depression or isolation. You know
20:49
there's been a radical shift in our culture
20:51
our last fifty or sixty years with the
20:53
breakdown of the social that are as he
20:55
used to give people a sense of love
20:57
and connection. Community You know, Fifty sixty years
20:59
ago people had an extended family they saw
21:01
regular. they had a job with saw by
21:03
that a bit out. for ten years or
21:05
more They hundred ah neighborhood was for three
21:07
generations of people Are those that they saw
21:09
regular. they had a church. Or synagogue or
21:11
a club or a mosque or whatever that they
21:13
went to regulate and many people that I don't
21:16
have any of those things and with have price
21:18
for that Because winter, grow up and an extended
21:20
family they know you and I just know your
21:22
Facebook profile or your bios. Catch her of it
21:24
all and I since you said about me at
21:27
the beginning of the site introduction they know all
21:29
of you, they know you're dark side, they know
21:31
where you mess up our they know that time
21:33
you've got arrested or you are a drug overdose
21:35
or you broke a window or a god. Whatever
21:37
it was you know and you know that they
21:40
know and they. Know that, You know. Honey still love
21:42
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21:44
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that yourself. For. Sad about that. One
23:32
of the studies that we quoted that workers
23:34
a study that shows the more time you
23:36
spend on Facebook the more depressed your and
23:38
the reason is because it's not an authentic
23:40
enema. See it looks like he was his
23:42
post their best life You know it's like
23:44
everybody has is perfect life of me. You
23:46
know their they aren't for the Eiffel Tower
23:48
there they are Whatever. We all do that
23:50
to some degree but in our support groups
23:52
would try to recreate what you have growing
23:54
up with an extended family where people are
23:56
encouraged to let down their emotional defenses into
23:58
talk openly and authentically about. Going on and
24:00
realize without fear that someone's going to judge
24:02
them, are criticizing or give them club advice
24:05
or whatever. it's only has a way of
24:07
making feel more sanford and someone else to
24:09
say Gosh, you normally look like. The.
24:11
Perfect father but I you know I really messed
24:13
up badly. You you know my kids antonym heroin
24:15
use extreme example in some ios months a while
24:18
so the have a lot he sent her diary
24:20
have program the say wow that must be really
24:22
awful. My kids got some problem sir I've got
24:24
some problems or whatever settling it doesn't six the
24:27
fact that this guy's got problems with his kids
24:29
when it fixes everything in terms of the same
24:31
and isolation and loneliness and depression. the come with
24:33
a. I've had patients say things like i've got
24:35
twenty friends and it's pack of cigarettes and are
24:38
always there for me and nobody else has gonna
24:40
take away my. Twenty friends were they going
24:42
to give me for food? Fill that void
24:44
or alcohol or opioids or and we have
24:47
an opioid epidemic or ah other drugs numb
24:49
the pain or video games numb the pain
24:51
or working all the time is of or
24:53
so successor boy of them in the pain
24:55
and so and our approach we take we
24:58
say one of the other from the swami
25:00
was he kept saying what is the cause
25:02
you know said of literally or favorably bypassing
25:04
the probably like I often show a cartoon
25:07
what I lecture doctors busily mopping up the
25:09
floor on the sink. it's over. find. That
25:11
nobody starting off a faucet it was like
25:13
hello guys it's has these these medications to
25:15
lower my blood pressure, my cholesterol and blood
25:18
sugar of the doctor says robert like how
25:20
long as a mop up with Laura like
25:22
forever like a one we just turn off
25:24
a faucet and over an hour we find
25:26
again or bought is often have a remarkable
25:28
capacity to begin healing and under a doctor's
25:30
supervision many people and perhaps most people can
25:33
reduce her get off his medications that were
25:35
told it has to take for the rest
25:37
of their lives and they can off at
25:39
avoid having a center a bypass. Aura Radical
25:41
Prostatectomy. Your kid off these medications and
25:43
you know it, half the population today
25:46
is diabetic are pre diabetic. The getting
25:48
your blood sugar down with drugs as
25:50
worth nearly as well as getting his
25:52
i would lysol to prevent all these
25:54
horrible complications. And unlike most things we
25:56
do they always how a Saxon lifestyle
25:58
or good what's inside. There's a convergence
26:00
of forces as finally making this or
26:03
I'll idea at the right time that
26:05
we've It's not enough to focus on
26:07
information and they were drowning information in
26:09
the interim. Google eyes on enough to
26:11
focus on behaviors we need to focus
26:13
on what's really motivating that and for
26:15
many people it's has profound sense of
26:17
loneliness and isolation and so whatever mechanism
26:19
you're looking at up his studies as
26:22
far from as in a Sunday with
26:24
also Apple thought that are women who
26:26
are caregivers of. Of parents
26:28
with Alzheimer's or kids with Autism, the
26:30
more stress a reporter feeling, the shorter
26:32
telomeres work on, and there was a
26:34
nine to seventeen year reduction in their
26:37
lifespan and of high stress first with
26:39
a low stress women. But what I
26:41
found was even more interesting was that.
26:44
It wasn't an objective measure of stress,
26:46
it was a women's perception of of
26:48
the determined it's effect on their telomeres.
26:50
And so you can have two women
26:53
at very similar life situations or and
26:55
yet one was coping with the better.
26:57
They were meditating. They were exercising, they
26:59
were eating healthier. They have a lot of
27:01
social support and so they could buffer mitigate
27:03
the effects of that. So as much as
27:06
what's out there, it's hungry answer what's out
27:08
there which is often a function of how
27:10
we perceive the world and is other social
27:12
factors that can do that. So we in
27:15
the book I kind of go through mechanism
27:17
by mechanism. How for example, not having of
27:19
love and isolation. Having a lot of loneliness
27:21
and depression in isolation can increase your risk
27:24
of premature deaths and suffering. Ah, through all
27:26
these different mechanisms, your. Sympathetic Nervous System
27:28
this chronically simulated your telomeres is shorter as
27:31
opposed to others by for like the of
27:33
the first study. so we can actually length
27:35
and telomeres when people meditate and do the
27:37
kinds of things have said veteran that we
27:40
talk about in our new book under the
27:42
program you know I'm so whatever mechanism is
27:44
whether it's sympathetic Nervous System changes in a
27:46
microbiome, changes and telomeres. We saw the over
27:49
five hundred genes were changed to three months
27:51
when people made his lifestyle changes, turning on
27:53
the genes a keep us healthy turning off
27:56
a gene that causes to get. Sick
27:58
critically about the genes a cause. This
28:00
is an inclination them and profit in breast
28:02
and colon cancer and Alzheimer's and so on.
28:04
It's origins are predisposition, but our genes are
28:06
not our faith and so the more we
28:09
learn about these things and will we cannot
28:11
have radically simplifies. I love all I both
28:13
things we do as doctors. the only side
28:15
effects are good ones to the degree that
28:17
you make his changes. We found a you're
28:20
likely to get better every way we can
28:22
measure. I initially thought that some younger patients
28:24
who had less severe disease would would would
28:26
show more improvement but I was wrong it
28:29
was and how old. Are how sick they were.
28:31
the more they changed the better they got at any
28:33
age was his of and really powerful message to get
28:35
people. It's amazing. So.
28:38
I know loving connection or something. name
28:40
is Terry meaningful T and it actually
28:42
give me some great relationship. It's I
28:44
seventy as a new and has such
28:46
as beautiful dynamic with one another you
28:48
in your life can you talk to
28:51
us a little that about some of
28:53
the and out mindset he is some
28:55
of the things he is that allow.
28:57
It. To the it as such a beautiful, flourishing relationship and
28:59
things that we may be able to learn from. Well.
29:03
I'm learning everyday from her as is
29:05
why I, my teacher, I'm I'm using
29:07
my lover and my best friend and
29:09
my partner and we've been working together
29:11
now for more than twenty years and
29:13
I'm part of what I've learned is
29:16
that hum he though haven't grown up
29:18
in the sixties when it was all
29:20
about gonna do your own thing and
29:22
free love and ah, commitments are bad
29:24
and all that is what I realize
29:26
is that. Commitment
29:29
is actually liberated. And.
29:31
That the more committed you are, the more
29:33
for you Become an Emmy? Sound like a
29:35
real paradox? Know. This
29:38
is true for lifestyle as well as for
29:40
our relationship. Sit up front of a case
29:42
of dying at all. Spiritual traditions have dietary
29:44
guidelines and some you can he does. but
29:46
as bad as hard as a waitress or
29:49
time to the day or two months a
29:51
year or whatever and there's sometimes a complement
29:53
each other, but I think whatever in transit
29:55
benefit as of a concert. Dietary Changes: Sissy
29:57
Active choosing not to do something Abusers: Choice.
30:00
That would mean it when I was in
30:02
college in our society depressed summer and I
30:04
can take all the the media out of
30:06
something I was. we talked about earlier and
30:08
who cares? So what big deal? Nothing matters,
30:10
Why bother you know all of that. The
30:12
later I learned that we can actually. Put.
30:14
Meaning back into our allies in one way
30:16
to do that as by actually choosing not
30:18
to do certain things. I think that's why
30:21
all spiritual path how to have dietary guidelines
30:23
again just the act of choosing not to
30:25
do anything. Is that deprivation or can be
30:27
or isn't. Helping. You find
30:29
that meaning Wyatt. Why am I not eating
30:31
certain things? Well gosh, I mean one of
30:34
things at my wife and lives as people's
30:36
like party here on one of live Longer
30:38
Why do you want to live longer? Oh
30:40
no one's around without before it melts Town
30:42
isn't a in the Harris has here in
30:44
Silicon Valley. There's like everyone wants to live
30:46
forever like can I just as reminds in
30:49
homes brain into a silicon chip on. It.
30:51
When you get people to at and so on
30:54
and on. there was a wrestler that why when
30:56
I was my kids grow up I wanna dance
30:58
with her wedding I wanna make love with my
31:00
partner. I was A by the book. Whatever it
31:02
happens to be. You know this because of my
31:05
back to sixty or seventy years ago when Viktor
31:07
Frankl wrote out a book. Comments hurts Remaining know
31:09
oncentration camp survivors worth a strong. As for the
31:11
healthiest, their use of the ones have a strong
31:14
sense of meaning and purpose. I have to survive
31:16
so that I can whatever know, bear witness, be
31:18
reunited with my loved ones whatever it happens to
31:20
be. So getting people. In touch with a
31:23
sense of meaning and purpose is is
31:25
really cheap and then from our relationships
31:27
and point I realized that. You
31:29
know you tunnel as we talked briefly before. You
31:32
can only be intimate with someone to the degree
31:34
that you can be emotionally vulnerable. You can open
31:36
your heart metaphorically, and you can only do that
31:38
to the degree you feel safe and so. You're
31:41
here in Silicon Valley there's all this polyamory
31:43
and months you the more people you can
31:45
have sex with of the more fun it is
31:47
more for your and I went through you
31:49
know in college my own version of added
31:51
it is fun but what I learned with
31:53
in my relationship with and is how much more
31:56
fun it can be that the more intimate it
31:58
is the more erotic it because. And
32:00
rather than having the same kind of relationship with
32:02
different people, we have this. He knows there's a
32:04
and inside. A hundred years ago rom a Christian
32:07
who says you can take a lot of shallow
32:09
wells and every water you can do what the
32:11
upon or is the wellspring. And so then we
32:13
decided to commit fully and completely to each other,
32:16
not only for this lifetime but all lifetime succumb
32:18
to so there's no wiggle her. And
32:21
said and and one of thing and and
32:24
so a lot of things over the Alameda
32:26
Psychomotor can expand. The first is that if
32:28
you're totally committed to someone. You. Know
32:30
that eventually if we have a fight with a
32:32
good so good place right? So as I okay
32:34
what we were know we're going to be together
32:36
forever if we if we have breaking up, getting
32:39
divorced off the table. I'm. Why? Don't we
32:41
just learned the lesson and go straight to that
32:43
happy place and leave out that all that stuff
32:45
in the middle that so it's a horrible on
32:47
and if you're totally are committed to the other
32:49
person you can actually do that and is it
32:51
we're We're finding ways of of joy of where
32:53
we can get to that good place faster and
32:55
faster. And fled the lessons that
32:57
islands and you actually once told me
32:59
that whenever you have a disagreement with
33:01
and you ask your sauce evolve as
33:03
get us is disappointed in sand and
33:05
most of the time it's not see
33:08
you just jump to the and and
33:10
that's something that I've really internalized and
33:12
I really apply in my life here
33:14
with my husband. Whenever we start to
33:16
get some the it's like is this
33:18
went in and nope and seven all
33:20
of that discomfort on and uncertainty and
33:22
desire to be grade and you know.
33:25
It's aggressive with one another just off
33:27
the table. Because you know the place
33:29
that you're gonna get to at the end is so
33:31
much better. Just jump to their. Enemies
33:33
giving up the sense of the the be right because
33:35
of I'm rise of his You need to be wrong.
33:37
As if you're wrong and agree happy that you're not
33:39
happy another be happy. So what are the to be
33:41
wrong? The real question is what can I learn from
33:44
That's how can we be cleaners for each other. Because.
33:46
We really have to trust each other hand was
33:48
he says something to me. I know this is
33:50
trying to give me a gift here and she's
33:52
my teacher had and hopefully I can do that
33:54
for her as well. And that's how we learn
33:56
and grow. So takes it out of the realm
33:58
of am I right? The Wrong to what
34:00
can we learn from this? Let's learn it and
34:03
let's not ago and as can we got fewer
34:05
being happy in the loving again and everything that
34:07
I learned is that. Again, The
34:09
more intimate as the more erotic at his. And
34:11
to me great sachs her great news or her
34:14
grade science or great art or great. Anything.
34:16
Comes from. That. Place of beginners,
34:18
might you know without preconceptions. I I
34:21
work my way to school as a
34:23
photographer and I as a courtroom studio.
34:25
Wouldn't. Know when I was fourteen and I
34:27
work for our wanna leave photographers in Dallas
34:29
where I grew up from twelve to fourteen
34:31
was his apprentice album on part of studio
34:33
and a this big pictures of people and
34:35
try to make him look better than they
34:37
were. you know expect that what's a photoshop.
34:39
It was airbrushing and retouching and invited. ah
34:41
in the way you lie people and and
34:43
so on. And then I when I went
34:45
to college I transfer the nurse who taxes
34:47
from my last two years I could study
34:49
with a photographer and Juri when a grand
34:51
who was one of the great photographers the
34:54
twentieth century. you just have a little. Like
34:56
around and was photographing things as they are
34:58
not try to manipulate them into looking better
35:00
than they were and he put a picture
35:02
of other while he was a great teacher
35:04
and in so what do you see and
35:06
I'd say well he was icy. Those who
35:08
they will have you know some of those
35:10
have a gun right outside the frame or
35:12
how do you know this or had a
35:14
religious challenging? Our preconceptions and our preconceptions are
35:16
really what limit us from through innovation is
35:18
opposing imitation and so it goes back to
35:20
talking to that intervoice without and and and
35:22
and trying to hear that and so. When.
35:25
We approach when and an eye on
35:27
and decide to have a date together.
35:29
We're not trying to recreate and experience
35:32
that with have before however delightful are
35:34
wonderful that experience one of them were
35:36
going and said look I totally trust
35:39
you I totally can open and be
35:41
vulnerable to you physically, emotionally spiritually on
35:43
and are less trust is process and
35:45
see what emerges and what emerges. Probably
35:48
you know Eight or nine times out
35:50
of ten is the most intimate, erotic,
35:52
sexual beautiful. Five for Joy Fall Transcendent.
35:55
Spiritual experiences that either one of us
35:57
has ever had this idea that the
35:59
more intimate it is immoral. Radhika because
36:01
you something I never really heard before
36:03
and it's layers of an onion. As
36:06
you become more open and you have
36:08
is great experiences and you realize oh
36:10
there's layers upon layers upon layers upon
36:12
layers upon layers which is kind of
36:14
exciting and A because it means we
36:17
keep finding new ways of be intimate.
36:19
I keep finding new ways of of
36:21
Posturing is rather in ways that go
36:23
beyond anything. Have you ever imagine much
36:25
less experience? I were like an unknown
36:28
territory and ah it keeps a relationship.
36:30
So fresh. So even in have been together
36:32
as many years as we have I'm you
36:34
know it is. It's as we keep having
36:37
these experiences that are beyond anything I ever,
36:39
even our hope for much less experience. It's.
36:42
Amazing and novelty. Create
36:44
a sense of july kids that don't
36:46
still the mean rush. It brings you
36:48
to a lightness of things you to
36:50
engagement and we usually experience that novelty.
36:52
Only one where with a new partner
36:54
at the beginning with your relationship and
36:56
then I just scales out so easily.
36:58
Asked her to size seventeen years and
37:00
to be able to. You think this
37:02
is going to be meaningful from most
37:04
people who are listening. to be able
37:06
to shift the lens on your existing
37:08
relationship and say I can go into
37:10
this fall place a complete novelty and
37:12
with that novelty in Athens. A little bit
37:15
of fear and Han Solo that of like
37:17
and standing on the edge of uncertainty I'm
37:19
in a step over the threshold at mean
37:21
that being vulnerable into the to be being
37:24
vulnerable one another we just have to see
37:26
excitement and he was. I have the opportunity
37:28
for a new and deeper connections. Young.
37:30
As keeps it fresh and to see and
37:32
fun. And although six so you know you
37:35
be with different partners after a while actually
37:37
gets boring because you're having the same kind
37:39
of experience with every pupil as opposed to
37:41
this radically powerfully or rather joyful, pleasurable experience
37:43
as with the same person and you know
37:45
their times and I think us you know
37:47
as is somewhat attractive of because it would
37:49
be really nice of i could have sex
37:52
with that person to. But
37:54
then I realize that. If I did, I
37:56
would be able to have his experiences with an. Elegant
37:59
comes down to what. Get in the summers for
38:01
the what I give up his from a place
38:03
of about choosing not to do certain things not
38:05
have a sense of fear or deprivation that out
38:07
of a sense of joy and pleasure and love
38:09
and feeling good and that's ultimately what makes it
38:12
sustainable. How does it have this conversation
38:14
with you And an an Oprah? About
38:16
commitment and sex all day. It
38:19
was great assess assess. You know I think
38:21
that some people you know what we are
38:24
motivated by a sense of pleasure, enjoy, and
38:26
intimacy or what I mean all of the
38:28
great spiritual. Truth. Colored come down
38:30
to what Aldous Huxley call the Perennial
38:32
philosophy. You know that when you reduce
38:34
it down and once you get pass
38:37
although rituals that people find kill each
38:39
other over know my religions best No
38:41
no my residence best. Whatever is like.
38:43
You know, altruism? love, forgiveness, Compassion
38:46
ultimately take us to that place
38:48
as it frees us from our
38:50
suffering and. And. So
38:53
we realize that. Those.
38:55
Spiritual truths are how to live a
38:57
joyful, pleasurable happy life in. A lot
38:59
of people of hundred come to over
39:01
the millennia we kind of ignore that
39:03
town and and and so I the
39:06
once people begin to realize that those.
39:09
Are. The spiritual truth as liberators and make
39:11
life so much more fun not have
39:13
a sense, homes you know, dry and
39:15
moldy and boring and sale in all.
39:17
but rather, these are the things that
39:19
really enable us to live the most
39:21
joyful and pleasurable life again. If I
39:23
forgive somebody, it's not. Ah,
39:26
Condoning or excusing what they've done but it
39:29
helps to free me from the sovereign the
39:31
goes along with us you know on on
39:33
one of or suffer at your you and
39:35
I mean another levels we talked about earlier
39:38
we're not but the to me the roots
39:40
are suffering begin by seen people are separated
39:42
only suffer the other you know was forcing
39:44
of the on the fortunately now far with
39:47
the rise of Viable by Supremacy and and
39:49
the White House and so on the other
39:51
those Mexican rapers, those Muslim terrorists once you
39:54
call someone different and only different than. You
39:56
can do bad things for them because una
39:58
you are and then only creates. More isolation
40:00
and more suffering. I think you know
40:02
there's a wonderful conversation Georgia Lucas of
40:05
Star Wars had with or Joseph Campbell
40:07
when he was time at the Sars,
40:09
Mers, and the whole Darth Vader and
40:11
that you know when you have that
40:13
sense of the other then. No.
40:16
One is safe is the opposite of
40:18
that what we're talking about before bobbing
40:20
trusting an open An intimate. It's very
40:22
protected and walled off. And.
40:24
When you're walled off those same was that
40:27
protects you isolate you and the more isolated
40:29
yard in the more like the are to
40:31
get sick and dying prematurely. So the very
40:33
thing that we think we're doing this protecting
40:35
us is a very thing the taxi curious
40:38
and so the logical conclusion of that George
40:40
Lucas was talking about what Joseph Campbell is
40:42
that you can't trust anyone so basic you're
40:44
down to two people, the master, the soon
40:46
and eventually the soon enough killing the master
40:49
was as the whole source of ah Miss
40:51
And and that's what we see. You know
40:53
Donald Trump by all accounts. Has no friends
40:55
you know the miserable, unhappy, isolated person
40:57
and kind of project Saddam and now
40:59
not forcing them to the rest of
41:01
the world. And so I think that
41:03
as we really understand the zebra spiritual
41:06
truce to me they're the root of
41:08
not only having say healthy living longer
41:10
but having a joyful, pleasurable, loving happy
41:12
life. That Swami that I started with
41:14
was were the happiest people Never met.
41:16
You know have you ever hang out
41:18
with the Dalai Lama is is beautiful.
41:20
Laugh at me. that's why they sampled
41:22
as laugh Ryota because his sister a
41:24
joyful. Last and yet, he's been witness
41:26
to the whole genocide of his people. We
41:28
have the ability to use a sense of
41:31
suffering as a doorway or as a catalyst
41:33
for transforming our allies of rediscovering that happy
41:35
place as inner peace and joy and love
41:37
and compassion in and so on for ourselves
41:40
and for others. And it's just a way
41:42
to kind of go through the world in
41:44
ways that make it so much happier as
41:46
opposed to create a more suffering. On.
41:49
Thank you so much thank you for
41:51
reminding us as this delay that happens
41:54
when as years dropped. On. our
41:56
hearts out then on connection as me. And.
41:59
Thank you very much. Reminding us the health. See
42:01
we tend to think about just stay in
42:03
a spiritual benefits of the happiness benefits that
42:06
is Your research has shown in our study
42:08
after study after study the health benefits to
42:10
keep rolling in. Your. The
42:12
more diseases we study of the or. Mechanisms.
42:15
Will look out the more scientific evidence
42:17
we have or that is me. that's
42:19
part of the value of sciences or
42:21
can redefine was possible for people and
42:23
by doing so if his many people
42:25
new hope and choices and the you
42:27
know when someone is set and suffering
42:29
just like what I was depressed. there's
42:31
as a receptivity to new ideas and
42:33
attains as you wouldn't find otherwise and
42:35
so like some as had a heart
42:37
attack us a goddess suffer so we're
42:39
You know when you're media be a
42:41
vegetarian, a plant based diet and and
42:43
less sugar less fan. And exercise of meditate
42:46
and love Morty kidding me in as a
42:48
doctor so I can get my face and
42:50
said to take their their sad you expose
42:52
him says your the sauce and yet we
42:54
find that you know Medicare is not covering.
42:57
Our. Program or hospitals or clinics around the
42:59
country. Most of the measure insurance companies
43:01
aren't and we're getting bigger changes in
43:03
Lysol. Better clinical outcomes are bigger cost
43:05
savings and better it here and said
43:07
he was a resume zero. Program is
43:09
seventy two hours long. Ninety four percent
43:12
of those sessions get completed over and
43:14
nine we period and a year later,
43:16
eighty five to ninety percent. The people
43:18
who still fallen the following big cities
43:20
but in Salinas, Arkansas, Jackson, Mississippi, and
43:22
now South Bend, Indiana and so on
43:24
is working because when we work at
43:26
that level. Which. Is really core to
43:29
the primal need for love and connection
43:31
community. We find that people are much
43:33
more likely to make lifestyle choices are
43:35
life enhancing, the ones that are self
43:37
destructive and because he's underlying biological mechanisms
43:39
are so dynamic. Most people when they
43:41
make these changes to the degree that
43:43
make them feel so much better so
43:45
quickly in ways that really matter to
43:47
them and it's has been going away
43:49
and them in other physical things but
43:51
depressing scores are cut you know more
43:53
than and half on average. Then they
43:55
sometimes again go back to say wow.
43:58
Getting said probing suffering the I had
44:00
it at suffering a my life was
44:02
a blessing in disguise because he got
44:04
my attention to begin be open to
44:06
doing these things. Unfortunately of medicine when
44:08
I trained see see that as an
44:10
opportunity were trained of number the pain
44:12
or kill the pain or bypass the
44:15
paint literally or figuratively. And so the
44:17
reason I spent sixteen years to get
44:19
sort of Medicare to get tired coverage
44:21
of our program is that I learned
44:23
that if it's reimbursable, the that sustainable
44:25
future is really burst. Magicians, medical practices,
44:27
even medical education. So part of what
44:29
I'm so passionate. About is helping teach
44:31
medical students and others how to use
44:33
the sacred opportunity that we have to
44:35
work with people when they're often at
44:38
their most vulnerable in their most suffering
44:40
and his show them how they can
44:42
empower themselves suddenly to get better. Since
44:44
Acclaim. Which. We can often measure, but
44:46
to deal at these deeper levels was ultimately
44:48
or or that much worm or meaningful and
44:51
profound. Thank you so much team for showing
44:53
us the opportunity in the possibility that from
44:55
all of our lives and all of our
44:57
as any be lot to learn more temps
44:59
as that he does have an audience. Love.
45:02
More stress last exercise more and
45:04
eat better to your best life
45:07
he can take up in but
45:09
i'm get which. Like. The
45:11
salami undo. The think
45:14
it seems that undo it. I've read it cover to cover
45:16
and love it. And cume also
45:18
the can go to our website which is
45:20
is my name orders.com and a lot of
45:22
us have we talked about today are the
45:24
others free A lot of resources as well
45:26
as the locations of the sites of we
45:28
trained around the country. Was hurt her. Awesome!
45:31
That's earnest.com all of the informational be
45:33
in the show Notes: And
45:35
you so much team! Thank you is really great
45:37
hockey with you. Thank you for inspiring yet I
45:39
used to talk about these things in this level
45:41
and down by always been useful So thanks area
45:43
and you. Won't
45:47
with Doctor Dean wireless. Know.
45:50
You. Hindi mention mean. What
45:53
it means. News. Is actually
45:55
brains and he had been the have the medicine.
45:58
Because he real time feedback on. Green
46:00
during meditation if you're a
46:02
beginner, it really shows. You
46:04
what your brain is doing teaches you
46:06
how to meditate a happy get into
46:09
that state of palpable tension and for
46:11
meditation down to them for those of
46:13
an experience Fact that he's actually shows
46:15
you what your brain and killing moment
46:18
by moment in your meditation Tv new
46:20
insights on your practice. their are of
46:22
thousands of people that use it regularly.
46:24
Album, begin or. Enhance their practice,
46:27
Meditation as one of the keep
46:30
hello and deemed program. You
46:33
wanna find out more about Be? In
46:35
fact, it's all up at cornish.com. And
46:38
his amazing book on Do It is
46:41
a great blueprint that may help prevent
46:43
or even reverse disease. So
46:47
tell next week. Keep
46:49
meditating, Keep loving, keep eating.
46:51
well. keep exercising. See happy
46:53
can keep your neuron tackling.
46:55
Will be back next little
46:57
more. Untangle,
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