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Optimize Health, Heart and Reduce Stress with These Lifestyle Changes. With Dr. Dean Ornish.

Optimize Health, Heart and Reduce Stress with These Lifestyle Changes. With Dr. Dean Ornish.

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Optimize Health, Heart and Reduce Stress with These Lifestyle Changes. With Dr. Dean Ornish.

Optimize Health, Heart and Reduce Stress with These Lifestyle Changes. With Dr. Dean Ornish.

Optimize Health, Heart and Reduce Stress with These Lifestyle Changes. With Dr. Dean Ornish.

Optimize Health, Heart and Reduce Stress with These Lifestyle Changes. With Dr. Dean Ornish.

Tuesday, 16th April 2024
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D needs no introduction that in case

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you haven't heard his name, he is

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the position to many of the world's

2:04

most amazing decision makers. He's a leader

2:06

and lifestyle. Madison is really one of

2:08

the pioneers in the idea that what

2:10

you eat, how you move, how you

2:13

love effects and impacts are health and

2:15

and he's doing a tremendous work changing

2:17

the way we think about medicine and

2:19

ourselves. He was also just some oh

2:21

bread Super Bowl Sunday so I'm excited

2:23

to hear all about which he and

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over jammed about and learn from games,

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endless pull of medical knowledge and wisdom

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or on the heart and the mind.

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Boggling. For. For that

2:34

introduction which is as grow our hadn't says

2:36

bar than pure. Let's

2:39

say hello welcome and so is a wonderful to

2:41

have their. To be her! Thank you for

2:43

having me. Thank you! So first question

2:45

inquiring minds want to know how

2:47

is jamming with Oprah and Super

2:49

Bowl Sunday? Oh well.

2:51

over Zopa, you know it's like ugh,

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I wouldn't want basketball of Michael Jordan.

2:56

Hours of your lower ones are Andrew

2:58

Yeah, I get all of. She's

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wonderful. I I would have a privilege

3:03

of knowing Hope or for many many

3:05

years. Ah and it was wonderful to

3:07

for An and me to be interviewed

3:09

by her at her home in Maui.

3:12

I was just a beautiful in every

3:14

sense of the word and is nice

3:16

to reconnect so come over as a

3:18

way of really bringing out the most

3:20

personal things. That most people would talk about

3:22

except maybe you and so we can talk about

3:25

some of those today with you mentioned earlier that

3:27

he wanted to talk about happiness and we spent

3:29

a lot of our interview talking to about us

3:31

that so I'd be fun to have to get

3:33

the dive into. that was you today. Islands.

3:36

Died in the happiness. And

3:40

when you consider to be some of the preconditions

3:42

for happiness whereas some of the happiest points in

3:44

your life. Well.

3:47

My. Interview with a proxy server One

3:49

of the saddest sons of my life

3:51

which was when I was killed myself

3:54

and I was nineteen and and of

3:56

in the depths of despair or and

3:58

darkness and all the things. Along with

4:00

that, and are you know one of the

4:02

hallmarks of depression is the sense of helplessness

4:04

of hopelessness. And I think that comes from

4:06

this reality to source, and where you think

4:09

that you're actually seeing things clearly for the

4:11

first time when you're profoundly depressed and some

4:13

real distorts reality and you're convinced that things

4:15

are bad. They've always been bad and they

4:17

will always be bad at any time you

4:19

thought Otherwise, you're just fooling yourself. And so

4:21

that's when he said you know any your

4:23

life and Li becomes an eye on eyes

4:26

as kill myself in a dead people look

4:28

like they're happy and I'm really miserable. So

4:30

let me let me try that on.

4:32

I later learned that when you kill

4:34

yourself you you you kill your body

4:36

is fearless on it. I just don't

4:38

have a body and who saw this

4:40

and problems and homeless opportunity? Credible a

4:42

big messenger way. But that's how I

4:44

got interested in com or life's work

4:46

was on. Eyes. A

4:48

long story, but a short version is I

4:50

withdrew from school, went on to Dallas I

4:53

I. I got so sick physically from running

4:55

my body down so much that I little

4:57

didn't have the energy to kill myself. I

4:59

got a horrible case of infectious moto. You

5:02

need to keep people in the world saved by disease.

5:04

Yes, I was only saved by disease and

5:06

was is a great some lesson in life. Sometimes

5:09

the things that you think a really awful

5:11

of the ones that are actually lifesaving and that

5:13

was furniture for me. ah because I didn't really

5:15

have you ever even to get out of bed

5:17

and so my plan as crazy as it sounds

5:20

was to go home and with my parents and

5:22

I'm gonna sense of how mess up i was

5:24

in his came down saw direct I was

5:26

a one hundred dollars and the fire was to

5:28

get physically strong enough to kill myself. Wow.

5:33

This. Is a Nineteen Seventy January Nineteen Seventy

5:35

Two. My older sister I've been a

5:37

child of the sixties and ah, was

5:39

have the lot by an ecumenical spiritual

5:41

teacher named Swampy. such as Abundant. And

5:43

so my parents decided I'm a cocktail

5:45

party for the Swami. This isn't even

5:48

today. This will be weird and dollars.

5:50

But. It was ago

5:52

was really fun and down and so

5:54

and walks the south central casting looking

5:56

guy from vog of as what us

5:58

while me should look like. Not

6:00

a little saying when the soon is ready to

6:02

teach her peers and that was certainly true for

6:05

me and he began election are Living Room assault

6:07

song and he started off by saying or nothing

6:09

can bring you lasting happiness which I'd already figured

6:11

out which is why want to kill myself except

6:13

he was glowing and radio that I was about

6:16

ready to do my cellphone so I remember Thank

6:18

you I what am I missing here alone don't

6:20

actually saw validating even to hear him say that

6:22

that nothing and bring lasting happiness because everyone else

6:25

you know what I was how ya just get

6:27

married and get rich and famous and you know

6:29

you'll be. Happy and I knew that wasn't

6:31

true. And so the combination of feeling like

6:33

I was super that was ever going to

6:35

mount have anything it even if I had

6:37

it would matter anyway was profoundly depressing. So

6:40

here's somebody can validate my misery and away

6:42

or that things don't bring lasting happiness was

6:44

initially validate, but I thought what am I

6:46

missing here cause he looks really happened under

6:48

hi I'm Anything Butter and he went on

6:50

to say was probably sounds like a new

6:52

a cliche but it turned my life around

6:54

the time which was that nothing can bring

6:56

lasting happiness. As a bad news that I'd

6:58

figured out that the corollary. To that is

7:01

that you haven't already. We all do

7:03

that. It's or nature to be happy

7:05

and peaceful. Unhealthy fall with rare exceptions.

7:07

An impromptu the ultimate irony and paradox.

7:09

Not being mindful of that when the

7:11

running after all these things that are

7:13

culturally tells us we're going to make

7:15

us happy and say gossip only I

7:17

have more. Blacks. More money,

7:19

more power, More sacks were beauty. More

7:21

accomplice. Warm water. Whatever. If only I

7:24

had more whatever then I'd be happy.

7:26

Then people love even I wouldn't feel

7:28

so lonely isolated in life. And because.

7:31

Know. What I learned from the Swami was that.

7:34

Once. You set of that view of the world

7:36

and not only are cultural, the whole advertising industry

7:38

in a reinforces that no matter how it turns

7:40

out you're going to, you're unhappy with us until

7:42

you get it in. Are you feel stress and

7:45

on? How do I? Hope I get it. You

7:47

know that a sex go up as much as

7:49

winning or losing has been a winner or loser

7:51

that's on the line and losers in I thought

7:53

of nobody wants to be around I'll be even

7:55

more lonely and isolated. Winners: Everybody wants to love

7:57

of the happy So the says the steaks go.

8:00

So the stresses go up. So until you

8:02

get addicted strauss until the someone else his

8:04

didn't you don't then it's really unhappy. In

8:06

a makes you think while we really live

8:08

in this kind of Donald Trump, Doggie Dog

8:10

does zero sum game view of the world

8:13

the more you get the lesser. As for

8:15

me and your go around ones that are

8:17

get a while you can almost. You don't

8:19

know if we're kind of commercials but even

8:21

if we get it is seductive in the

8:23

moment because it's like off I got it

8:26

now. Unhappy except invariably doesn't last as it

8:28

is like what is Now what one. Of

8:30

my patients years ago said you know the view

8:32

of the mountain climb. I can't even enjoy the

8:34

view from the mountain on Klein. aren't looking over

8:36

the next one or if is not, know what

8:39

it's off. So what big deal? It doesn't really

8:41

provide that lasting sense of meaning and people say

8:43

well, you know I pod the Led down. The

8:45

comes from accomplishing a goal is so great. I

8:47

always make sure I have a dozen other projects

8:49

going on at the same time so I can

8:52

immediately chef my attention to that. Sets

8:55

either now, water, so on. And.

8:57

So with as well he said

8:59

it said, the goal of all

9:01

the spiritual practices that we call

9:03

meditation for example or yoga was

9:05

stress management or really so much

9:07

more than stress management. You know

9:09

the ancients on Swami is and

9:11

rabbis and priests and monks and

9:13

nuns and mullahs and whatever didn't

9:15

develop these techniques and practices to

9:17

unclog their arteries, are a performer,

9:19

sports or his blood pressure down

9:21

or. He didn't cel. Yeah, Yeah.

9:24

Whatever on their actually powerful techniques for

9:26

quieting down or mind and body to

9:28

enable us experience was already there. And

9:31

other words arm our our natures to

9:33

be happy and peaceful and not be

9:35

mindful of that. As I mentioned, we

9:37

will run, ask for things that we

9:39

think we're going to bring us what

9:42

we we we could have already have

9:44

to stop doing that. The Frogs the

9:46

ultimate irony retired us and I'm in

9:48

a later. Them. Swami. Like to

9:50

my palms people's at what he the hindu is a know

9:53

I'm and undo what's As for the title of a my

9:55

new book came from. His

9:57

and that is that these techniques don't bring you a

9:59

sense of peace. Well being but rather at

10:01

least temporarily they hop as quiet down or

10:03

minded body loves experience that is already there

10:05

and then the question says radically from how

10:07

can I get what I think I need

10:09

in order to be happy and healthy lovable

10:12

to how can I to stop disturbing was

10:14

already there what am I doing that for

10:16

serving again not to blame myself a to

10:18

empower myself as of is out there than

10:20

everyone and everything that has something that I

10:22

think I need to be happy has power

10:24

over me. but if it's me than I

10:26

can is than the question goes what am

10:28

I doing to deserve that inner peace than

10:31

I can do something about that And I

10:33

found that to be profoundly liberating and so

10:35

I decided that okay by me I moved

10:37

plan killing myself down to plant be in

10:39

on me try those words saw that he

10:41

said you know if you in a plant

10:43

based diet which was a big change for

10:45

me having grown up in Texas eating meat

10:48

three or four five times a day and

10:50

issue on you know meditative exercise and have

10:52

more loving your life and that will do

10:54

it So I thought okay let me let

10:56

me give that a tried and I couldn't

10:58

even you know said so long. Enough to.

11:02

Meditate. For a minute I could really have

11:04

my the newspaper until You Five Minutes Later on his

11:06

son. But I began to do this and. I.

11:09

Began to get glimpses of what assault like to

11:11

be peaceful. not because I got something I thought

11:13

I needed in this case going to medical school

11:15

for getting into medical school but rather at least

11:18

for the moment I wasn't a sermon, what was

11:20

there and as completely changed my life and I

11:22

was able to go back to school in our

11:24

i went from being solution like I was a

11:27

total fraud and worthless and super to your. I

11:29

graduated first in my class who gave the baccalaureate

11:31

Another southerner say that not to brag but to

11:33

save I express both ends of that spectrum And

11:36

a profound irony was that when I thought I

11:38

had to. Get and do all these

11:40

things to be happy. A lovable I couldn't function

11:42

at all. When. I began to begin

11:44

with to be more in really define

11:46

enough, just fleetingly synergistic. Make that connection

11:48

or it. I was able to perform

11:51

in a much higher levels And the

11:53

other thing that happens is that when

11:55

you quiet down your mind and body

11:57

it provides you access to knowledge, known

11:59

innocence of. And happiness. But also

12:01

are you begin to hear that?

12:04

In or Wisdom your own inner swami, your

12:06

interviewer, your and are still small voice within

12:09

a goes by different names A different calls

12:11

resist the voice said or on your wisdom

12:13

is the one it wakes up in three

12:15

the morning and said hey, didn't listen up

12:17

his attention you're not doing something as your

12:19

best centrists and I learned that I can

12:21

access advice much were intentionally everyone can And

12:24

so the end of a meditation whether it's

12:26

done with of you know a Montreux are

12:28

mindful of us are using a muse has

12:30

had or whatever. When you get to that

12:32

inner peaceful, say what I've. Learned to do

12:34

is at the end about to ask that

12:37

inner voice to say hello. You know it's

12:39

crazy that sounds and and will say hello

12:41

as a Holiday Inn is hop and on.

12:43

It may speak of your voice and they

12:45

speak in someone elses wise but you'll learn

12:47

to recognize it. Sometimes it's word, sometimes it's

12:49

symbols are or tax serve or whatever. but

12:51

for me as words and I'll and I've

12:54

learned to ask that in with him. A

12:56

very simple but for thousand question which was.

12:59

What? Am I not paying attention to that?

13:01

I need to pay attention to and then

13:03

just solicit And it will tell me that

13:05

all of the Saudis that we've done over

13:07

the last forty years, all of which people

13:09

thought were impossible always sort of them came

13:12

from out listening to that boys Than kind

13:14

of reverse engineering to see how can I

13:16

design a study to see if this is

13:18

true enough. And the other than that happens

13:20

if you take it even deeper is that

13:22

A gives you a profound sense of transcendence

13:24

that on one level were separate. You know

13:26

you're you. And I mean we can enjoy

13:28

having this dialog. But on another

13:31

level or part of something larger that

13:33

connects us said it says you know

13:35

you and different forms on even to

13:37

give it a name is a limit

13:39

was essentially on an affable limitless experience

13:41

of of wonders of transcendence of non

13:43

duality goes by different names. For me

13:45

anything that. Creates. Intimacy

13:47

is healing. Even the word healing comes

13:50

from there to make whole and yoga

13:52

from the Sanskrit to yolks unite union.

13:54

These are really old ideas that were

13:57

rediscovered and so. Anything

13:59

that brings us. Gather whether it's which mean

14:01

people, the time you spend with your friends and

14:03

your family in your loved ones and the Democrats

14:05

are kind of intimacy and can be romantic. A

14:07

can be sexual, It can be a father, son

14:10

her father, daughter, mother, daughter of me with a

14:12

dog Can be with anything. Takes you out of

14:14

being separate only separate. Is. Profoundly healing

14:16

can only. Be. Intimate to

14:19

the degree that you can open your heart

14:21

and be with emotionally vulnerable you are You

14:23

can always you that to the degree feel

14:25

safe and so all these simple techniques really

14:27

designed to create that sense of intimacy is

14:29

profoundly she'll it And then you can go

14:32

out on the world and often accomplish even

14:34

more. but intentionality behind it is very different

14:36

and so the in the likewise. Not.

14:38

Only is there an intimacy between people

14:40

are having a pet or anything but

14:43

also to the center you feel that

14:45

sense of transcendence said non dual experience

14:47

where your intimate with the entire universe.

14:50

And. So for me haven't gone through while

14:52

almost killed me. but you know in retrospect

14:54

was the most beautiful gifts that I had

14:56

because I never would have gotten interested in

14:58

these things otherwise. I can tell you how

15:01

many patients have come after me over the

15:03

years and same things like a while having

15:05

a heart attack was the best thing that

15:07

ever happened to me are getting diagnosed with

15:09

prostate cancer or whatever and the first time

15:11

I heard that while I was not so

15:13

they say no that's what it took to

15:15

get my attention to begin incorporating sinks into

15:17

my life and I never would have done

15:20

before. I'm rediscovering in or sources

15:22

of peace and joy and love and

15:24

well being unable to perform at a

15:26

higher level on having these experiences with

15:29

my with my beloved better the most

15:31

erotic experiences I've ever had in or

15:33

whatever arena happens to be an of

15:36

when we go to that place of

15:38

stillness and wonders and ah an inner

15:40

peace the paradoxes of they survived so

15:43

much more joyful and successful at meaningful

15:45

at healthy and happy. Certainly.

15:47

Have a little bit about the biology

15:49

around that much physically is happening to

15:51

get that tasted and at peace. Like.

15:54

Physically is hop on biological level on

15:56

a great max and the last yelling.

15:59

Well. Are. They have a remarkable capacity to

16:01

begin healing. I'm much more quickly than

16:03

I had once realize when I started

16:05

doing this work. You know, forty two

16:07

years ago, it saw a continually a

16:09

source of amazement in delight. To.

16:11

See that if we simply stopped doing

16:13

was causing the problem, our bodies can

16:15

begin to heal. And. As

16:18

you mentioned I have great a your call

16:20

I saw Madison which is using lifestyle changes

16:22

settling to help to prevent but actually to

16:25

treat and even reverse the most common chronic

16:27

diseases and the more diseases with Saudi in

16:29

the more underlying biological mechanisms. We look at

16:31

the more scientific evidence we have to show

16:33

how powerful these techniques are and how quickly

16:36

people can get better to the degree that

16:38

they do them at any age. and so.

16:41

In. My new book on Do It!

16:43

My wife and I are are presenting

16:45

this. Radical. Unifying theory which

16:47

is sad. I. Was paused

16:49

like all daughters that. All.

16:51

These different diseases heart disease and diabetes

16:54

and prostate cancer and Alzheimer's and so

16:56

on. Different diseases, different diagnoses, different treatments

16:58

for what I've kinda realize over the

17:00

for decades of conducting research and sad

17:02

was it's that we found that one

17:04

set of die lifestyle recommendations could reverse

17:07

heart disease and a different one for

17:09

cancer or diabetes or whatever. It was

17:11

the same for all of them. And

17:14

what I'm realizing and it's kind

17:16

of an elegantly simple as profound

17:18

theory was, is that. They're.

17:20

Really the same disease manifesting and

17:22

masquerading and different forms you know

17:25

wants to these chronic diseases and

17:27

that's why the have the because

17:29

they all share the same underlying

17:31

biological mechanisms things like chronic emotional

17:33

stress ah, over simulation of the

17:35

sympathetic nervous system, oxidative stress changes

17:37

in the microbiome and telomeres and

17:39

gene expression and as regenesis and

17:41

so on. and each one of

17:44

these mechanisms in turn is directly

17:46

influence five what we eat, how

17:48

we respond to stress, how much

17:50

exercise. We get our mothers support we

17:52

have were to radically simplified even further

17:54

know he well move more stress last

17:57

lot more boom that set and again

17:59

that more. These as we thought a

18:01

them or mechanisms will look at the

18:03

more evidence we show that and you

18:05

know with all this talk about personalized

18:07

medicine and so on I think if

18:09

you're talking about of you know a

18:11

targeted immunotherapy for a particular cell type

18:13

of melanoma, pancreatic cancer, That's awesome. but

18:15

for the vast majority of chronic diseases,

18:17

it's the same lifestyle prescription for all

18:19

of them because it's really the same

18:21

disease that keeps manifesting a different forms.

18:23

And that's why we're able to show

18:25

how quickly people can get better in

18:28

ways that they can feel. Which.

18:30

Have been makes it much more sustainable because it's

18:32

like you sir to connect the dots it with

18:34

what you do and how you feel like out

18:36

what I eat. This will I do that? I

18:38

feel bad when I do that I don't feel

18:40

so good. If you got heart disease I do

18:42

this my chest pain goes away. I I could

18:45

walk across the street people say before I'd without

18:47

getting says favor for life changes I could make

18:49

love with my partner, I couldn't play with my

18:51

kids. I could go back to work without getting

18:53

and hundred suspect than a week or two of

18:55

was you are paint free. The researchers said things

18:57

like oh I get at nino on. Is

19:00

all about just preventing something bad from happening

19:02

here. Sound the road. These are changes dramatically

19:04

improve the quality of my life. Rise, you're

19:06

right now. and because what I gained so

19:09

much more the what I give up that

19:11

makes unsustainable. For. Small that's incredibly profound.

19:13

and anybody who's struggling were causing disease

19:15

is so many people have strange diseases

19:17

the doctors can't seem to solve any

19:19

different doctors, don't You don't know what

19:22

dance as and in so many ways

19:24

some of the answer is right. Yeah,

19:26

fun of yeah. But you know, really?

19:28

Break. Down the biology answered. So Loving

19:31

Snacks and for example, we can talk about

19:33

the fact that loving connection leads to less

19:35

disease. Can you take a step by step

19:37

to the biology of what's really happening? While

19:40

it's it was. but but the sec loving

19:42

as the force you to love more he

19:44

well the worst, restless lot more. So how

19:46

does love or work a lot more works

19:48

the same way that all these other things

19:51

work because as it is. But if you

19:53

go in the book with we go kind

19:55

of mechanism by mechanism. So we know for

19:57

example that people are lonely and isolated in

19:59

the depressed or. Three to ten times more

20:01

likely to get sick and die prematurely when compared

20:03

to those have a sense of love and connection.

20:05

The community. I know anything and Madison and has

20:08

that kind of impact in for indirect ways, in

20:10

an indirect ways, indirectly through mechanisms that we we

20:12

can talk about in a moment, indirectly because of

20:14

our behavior you know and doing this study's I

20:16

had the chance to in own and spend a

20:19

lot of time with the same group of patients,

20:21

have repaired of many years without to know each

20:23

other really well. And and this as a you

20:25

know teach me something. Why do you smoke? Why

20:28

The ovary? Why do you drink too much. While

20:30

you do substances you know or while you

20:32

work all the time while you pokemon video

20:34

games his behavior seem so so are harmful

20:37

and maladaptive to me and a look bit

20:39

ago. Did. You don't

20:41

get it is a hit or have a

20:43

clue. these behaviors are maladaptive. They're very adaptive

20:45

because they help us deal with our loneliness

20:47

or pain or depression or isolation. You know

20:49

there's been a radical shift in our culture

20:51

our last fifty or sixty years with the

20:53

breakdown of the social that are as he

20:55

used to give people a sense of love

20:57

and connection. Community You know, Fifty sixty years

20:59

ago people had an extended family they saw

21:01

regular. they had a job with saw by

21:03

that a bit out. for ten years or

21:05

more They hundred ah neighborhood was for three

21:07

generations of people Are those that they saw

21:09

regular. they had a church. Or synagogue or

21:11

a club or a mosque or whatever that they

21:13

went to regulate and many people that I don't

21:16

have any of those things and with have price

21:18

for that Because winter, grow up and an extended

21:20

family they know you and I just know your

21:22

Facebook profile or your bios. Catch her of it

21:24

all and I since you said about me at

21:27

the beginning of the site introduction they know all

21:29

of you, they know you're dark side, they know

21:31

where you mess up our they know that time

21:33

you've got arrested or you are a drug overdose

21:35

or you broke a window or a god. Whatever

21:37

it was you know and you know that they

21:40

know and they. Know that, You know. Honey still love

21:42

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21:44

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that yourself. For. Sad about that. One

23:32

of the studies that we quoted that workers

23:34

a study that shows the more time you

23:36

spend on Facebook the more depressed your and

23:38

the reason is because it's not an authentic

23:40

enema. See it looks like he was his

23:42

post their best life You know it's like

23:44

everybody has is perfect life of me. You

23:46

know their they aren't for the Eiffel Tower

23:48

there they are Whatever. We all do that

23:50

to some degree but in our support groups

23:52

would try to recreate what you have growing

23:54

up with an extended family where people are

23:56

encouraged to let down their emotional defenses into

23:58

talk openly and authentically about. Going on and

24:00

realize without fear that someone's going to judge

24:02

them, are criticizing or give them club advice

24:05

or whatever. it's only has a way of

24:07

making feel more sanford and someone else to

24:09

say Gosh, you normally look like. The.

24:11

Perfect father but I you know I really messed

24:13

up badly. You you know my kids antonym heroin

24:15

use extreme example in some ios months a while

24:18

so the have a lot he sent her diary

24:20

have program the say wow that must be really

24:22

awful. My kids got some problem sir I've got

24:24

some problems or whatever settling it doesn't six the

24:27

fact that this guy's got problems with his kids

24:29

when it fixes everything in terms of the same

24:31

and isolation and loneliness and depression. the come with

24:33

a. I've had patients say things like i've got

24:35

twenty friends and it's pack of cigarettes and are

24:38

always there for me and nobody else has gonna

24:40

take away my. Twenty friends were they going

24:42

to give me for food? Fill that void

24:44

or alcohol or opioids or and we have

24:47

an opioid epidemic or ah other drugs numb

24:49

the pain or video games numb the pain

24:51

or working all the time is of or

24:53

so successor boy of them in the pain

24:55

and so and our approach we take we

24:58

say one of the other from the swami

25:00

was he kept saying what is the cause

25:02

you know said of literally or favorably bypassing

25:04

the probably like I often show a cartoon

25:07

what I lecture doctors busily mopping up the

25:09

floor on the sink. it's over. find. That

25:11

nobody starting off a faucet it was like

25:13

hello guys it's has these these medications to

25:15

lower my blood pressure, my cholesterol and blood

25:18

sugar of the doctor says robert like how

25:20

long as a mop up with Laura like

25:22

forever like a one we just turn off

25:24

a faucet and over an hour we find

25:26

again or bought is often have a remarkable

25:28

capacity to begin healing and under a doctor's

25:30

supervision many people and perhaps most people can

25:33

reduce her get off his medications that were

25:35

told it has to take for the rest

25:37

of their lives and they can off at

25:39

avoid having a center a bypass. Aura Radical

25:41

Prostatectomy. Your kid off these medications and

25:43

you know it, half the population today

25:46

is diabetic are pre diabetic. The getting

25:48

your blood sugar down with drugs as

25:50

worth nearly as well as getting his

25:52

i would lysol to prevent all these

25:54

horrible complications. And unlike most things we

25:56

do they always how a Saxon lifestyle

25:58

or good what's inside. There's a convergence

26:00

of forces as finally making this or

26:03

I'll idea at the right time that

26:05

we've It's not enough to focus on

26:07

information and they were drowning information in

26:09

the interim. Google eyes on enough to

26:11

focus on behaviors we need to focus

26:13

on what's really motivating that and for

26:15

many people it's has profound sense of

26:17

loneliness and isolation and so whatever mechanism

26:19

you're looking at up his studies as

26:22

far from as in a Sunday with

26:24

also Apple thought that are women who

26:26

are caregivers of. Of parents

26:28

with Alzheimer's or kids with Autism, the

26:30

more stress a reporter feeling, the shorter

26:32

telomeres work on, and there was a

26:34

nine to seventeen year reduction in their

26:37

lifespan and of high stress first with

26:39

a low stress women. But what I

26:41

found was even more interesting was that.

26:44

It wasn't an objective measure of stress,

26:46

it was a women's perception of of

26:48

the determined it's effect on their telomeres.

26:50

And so you can have two women

26:53

at very similar life situations or and

26:55

yet one was coping with the better.

26:57

They were meditating. They were exercising, they

26:59

were eating healthier. They have a lot of

27:01

social support and so they could buffer mitigate

27:03

the effects of that. So as much as

27:06

what's out there, it's hungry answer what's out

27:08

there which is often a function of how

27:10

we perceive the world and is other social

27:12

factors that can do that. So we in

27:15

the book I kind of go through mechanism

27:17

by mechanism. How for example, not having of

27:19

love and isolation. Having a lot of loneliness

27:21

and depression in isolation can increase your risk

27:24

of premature deaths and suffering. Ah, through all

27:26

these different mechanisms, your. Sympathetic Nervous System

27:28

this chronically simulated your telomeres is shorter as

27:31

opposed to others by for like the of

27:33

the first study. so we can actually length

27:35

and telomeres when people meditate and do the

27:37

kinds of things have said veteran that we

27:40

talk about in our new book under the

27:42

program you know I'm so whatever mechanism is

27:44

whether it's sympathetic Nervous System changes in a

27:46

microbiome, changes and telomeres. We saw the over

27:49

five hundred genes were changed to three months

27:51

when people made his lifestyle changes, turning on

27:53

the genes a keep us healthy turning off

27:56

a gene that causes to get. Sick

27:58

critically about the genes a cause. This

28:00

is an inclination them and profit in breast

28:02

and colon cancer and Alzheimer's and so on.

28:04

It's origins are predisposition, but our genes are

28:06

not our faith and so the more we

28:09

learn about these things and will we cannot

28:11

have radically simplifies. I love all I both

28:13

things we do as doctors. the only side

28:15

effects are good ones to the degree that

28:17

you make his changes. We found a you're

28:20

likely to get better every way we can

28:22

measure. I initially thought that some younger patients

28:24

who had less severe disease would would would

28:26

show more improvement but I was wrong it

28:29

was and how old. Are how sick they were.

28:31

the more they changed the better they got at any

28:33

age was his of and really powerful message to get

28:35

people. It's amazing. So.

28:38

I know loving connection or something. name

28:40

is Terry meaningful T and it actually

28:42

give me some great relationship. It's I

28:44

seventy as a new and has such

28:46

as beautiful dynamic with one another you

28:48

in your life can you talk to

28:51

us a little that about some of

28:53

the and out mindset he is some

28:55

of the things he is that allow.

28:57

It. To the it as such a beautiful, flourishing relationship and

28:59

things that we may be able to learn from. Well.

29:03

I'm learning everyday from her as is

29:05

why I, my teacher, I'm I'm using

29:07

my lover and my best friend and

29:09

my partner and we've been working together

29:11

now for more than twenty years and

29:13

I'm part of what I've learned is

29:16

that hum he though haven't grown up

29:18

in the sixties when it was all

29:20

about gonna do your own thing and

29:22

free love and ah, commitments are bad

29:24

and all that is what I realize

29:26

is that. Commitment

29:29

is actually liberated. And.

29:31

That the more committed you are, the more

29:33

for you Become an Emmy? Sound like a

29:35

real paradox? Know. This

29:38

is true for lifestyle as well as for

29:40

our relationship. Sit up front of a case

29:42

of dying at all. Spiritual traditions have dietary

29:44

guidelines and some you can he does. but

29:46

as bad as hard as a waitress or

29:49

time to the day or two months a

29:51

year or whatever and there's sometimes a complement

29:53

each other, but I think whatever in transit

29:55

benefit as of a concert. Dietary Changes: Sissy

29:57

Active choosing not to do something Abusers: Choice.

30:00

That would mean it when I was in

30:02

college in our society depressed summer and I

30:04

can take all the the media out of

30:06

something I was. we talked about earlier and

30:08

who cares? So what big deal? Nothing matters,

30:10

Why bother you know all of that. The

30:12

later I learned that we can actually. Put.

30:14

Meaning back into our allies in one way

30:16

to do that as by actually choosing not

30:18

to do certain things. I think that's why

30:21

all spiritual path how to have dietary guidelines

30:23

again just the act of choosing not to

30:25

do anything. Is that deprivation or can be

30:27

or isn't. Helping. You find

30:29

that meaning Wyatt. Why am I not eating

30:31

certain things? Well gosh, I mean one of

30:34

things at my wife and lives as people's

30:36

like party here on one of live Longer

30:38

Why do you want to live longer? Oh

30:40

no one's around without before it melts Town

30:42

isn't a in the Harris has here in

30:44

Silicon Valley. There's like everyone wants to live

30:46

forever like can I just as reminds in

30:49

homes brain into a silicon chip on. It.

30:51

When you get people to at and so on

30:54

and on. there was a wrestler that why when

30:56

I was my kids grow up I wanna dance

30:58

with her wedding I wanna make love with my

31:00

partner. I was A by the book. Whatever it

31:02

happens to be. You know this because of my

31:05

back to sixty or seventy years ago when Viktor

31:07

Frankl wrote out a book. Comments hurts Remaining know

31:09

oncentration camp survivors worth a strong. As for the

31:11

healthiest, their use of the ones have a strong

31:14

sense of meaning and purpose. I have to survive

31:16

so that I can whatever know, bear witness, be

31:18

reunited with my loved ones whatever it happens to

31:20

be. So getting people. In touch with a

31:23

sense of meaning and purpose is is

31:25

really cheap and then from our relationships

31:27

and point I realized that. You

31:29

know you tunnel as we talked briefly before. You

31:32

can only be intimate with someone to the degree

31:34

that you can be emotionally vulnerable. You can open

31:36

your heart metaphorically, and you can only do that

31:38

to the degree you feel safe and so. You're

31:41

here in Silicon Valley there's all this polyamory

31:43

and months you the more people you can

31:45

have sex with of the more fun it is

31:47

more for your and I went through you

31:49

know in college my own version of added

31:51

it is fun but what I learned with

31:53

in my relationship with and is how much more

31:56

fun it can be that the more intimate it

31:58

is the more erotic it because. And

32:00

rather than having the same kind of relationship with

32:02

different people, we have this. He knows there's a

32:04

and inside. A hundred years ago rom a Christian

32:07

who says you can take a lot of shallow

32:09

wells and every water you can do what the

32:11

upon or is the wellspring. And so then we

32:13

decided to commit fully and completely to each other,

32:16

not only for this lifetime but all lifetime succumb

32:18

to so there's no wiggle her. And

32:21

said and and one of thing and and

32:24

so a lot of things over the Alameda

32:26

Psychomotor can expand. The first is that if

32:28

you're totally committed to someone. You. Know

32:30

that eventually if we have a fight with a

32:32

good so good place right? So as I okay

32:34

what we were know we're going to be together

32:36

forever if we if we have breaking up, getting

32:39

divorced off the table. I'm. Why? Don't we

32:41

just learned the lesson and go straight to that

32:43

happy place and leave out that all that stuff

32:45

in the middle that so it's a horrible on

32:47

and if you're totally are committed to the other

32:49

person you can actually do that and is it

32:51

we're We're finding ways of of joy of where

32:53

we can get to that good place faster and

32:55

faster. And fled the lessons that

32:57

islands and you actually once told me

32:59

that whenever you have a disagreement with

33:01

and you ask your sauce evolve as

33:03

get us is disappointed in sand and

33:05

most of the time it's not see

33:08

you just jump to the and and

33:10

that's something that I've really internalized and

33:12

I really apply in my life here

33:14

with my husband. Whenever we start to

33:16

get some the it's like is this

33:18

went in and nope and seven all

33:20

of that discomfort on and uncertainty and

33:22

desire to be grade and you know.

33:25

It's aggressive with one another just off

33:27

the table. Because you know the place

33:29

that you're gonna get to at the end is so

33:31

much better. Just jump to their. Enemies

33:33

giving up the sense of the the be right because

33:35

of I'm rise of his You need to be wrong.

33:37

As if you're wrong and agree happy that you're not

33:39

happy another be happy. So what are the to be

33:41

wrong? The real question is what can I learn from

33:44

That's how can we be cleaners for each other. Because.

33:46

We really have to trust each other hand was

33:48

he says something to me. I know this is

33:50

trying to give me a gift here and she's

33:52

my teacher had and hopefully I can do that

33:54

for her as well. And that's how we learn

33:56

and grow. So takes it out of the realm

33:58

of am I right? The Wrong to what

34:00

can we learn from this? Let's learn it and

34:03

let's not ago and as can we got fewer

34:05

being happy in the loving again and everything that

34:07

I learned is that. Again, The

34:09

more intimate as the more erotic at his. And

34:11

to me great sachs her great news or her

34:14

grade science or great art or great. Anything.

34:16

Comes from. That. Place of beginners,

34:18

might you know without preconceptions. I I

34:21

work my way to school as a

34:23

photographer and I as a courtroom studio.

34:25

Wouldn't. Know when I was fourteen and I

34:27

work for our wanna leave photographers in Dallas

34:29

where I grew up from twelve to fourteen

34:31

was his apprentice album on part of studio

34:33

and a this big pictures of people and

34:35

try to make him look better than they

34:37

were. you know expect that what's a photoshop.

34:39

It was airbrushing and retouching and invited. ah

34:41

in the way you lie people and and

34:43

so on. And then I when I went

34:45

to college I transfer the nurse who taxes

34:47

from my last two years I could study

34:49

with a photographer and Juri when a grand

34:51

who was one of the great photographers the

34:54

twentieth century. you just have a little. Like

34:56

around and was photographing things as they are

34:58

not try to manipulate them into looking better

35:00

than they were and he put a picture

35:02

of other while he was a great teacher

35:04

and in so what do you see and

35:06

I'd say well he was icy. Those who

35:08

they will have you know some of those

35:10

have a gun right outside the frame or

35:12

how do you know this or had a

35:14

religious challenging? Our preconceptions and our preconceptions are

35:16

really what limit us from through innovation is

35:18

opposing imitation and so it goes back to

35:20

talking to that intervoice without and and and

35:22

and trying to hear that and so. When.

35:25

We approach when and an eye on

35:27

and decide to have a date together.

35:29

We're not trying to recreate and experience

35:32

that with have before however delightful are

35:34

wonderful that experience one of them were

35:36

going and said look I totally trust

35:39

you I totally can open and be

35:41

vulnerable to you physically, emotionally spiritually on

35:43

and are less trust is process and

35:45

see what emerges and what emerges. Probably

35:48

you know Eight or nine times out

35:50

of ten is the most intimate, erotic,

35:52

sexual beautiful. Five for Joy Fall Transcendent.

35:55

Spiritual experiences that either one of us

35:57

has ever had this idea that the

35:59

more intimate it is immoral. Radhika because

36:01

you something I never really heard before

36:03

and it's layers of an onion. As

36:06

you become more open and you have

36:08

is great experiences and you realize oh

36:10

there's layers upon layers upon layers upon

36:12

layers upon layers which is kind of

36:14

exciting and A because it means we

36:17

keep finding new ways of be intimate.

36:19

I keep finding new ways of of

36:21

Posturing is rather in ways that go

36:23

beyond anything. Have you ever imagine much

36:25

less experience? I were like an unknown

36:28

territory and ah it keeps a relationship.

36:30

So fresh. So even in have been together

36:32

as many years as we have I'm you

36:34

know it is. It's as we keep having

36:37

these experiences that are beyond anything I ever,

36:39

even our hope for much less experience. It's.

36:42

Amazing and novelty. Create

36:44

a sense of july kids that don't

36:46

still the mean rush. It brings you

36:48

to a lightness of things you to

36:50

engagement and we usually experience that novelty.

36:52

Only one where with a new partner

36:54

at the beginning with your relationship and

36:56

then I just scales out so easily.

36:58

Asked her to size seventeen years and

37:00

to be able to. You think this

37:02

is going to be meaningful from most

37:04

people who are listening. to be able

37:06

to shift the lens on your existing

37:08

relationship and say I can go into

37:10

this fall place a complete novelty and

37:12

with that novelty in Athens. A little bit

37:15

of fear and Han Solo that of like

37:17

and standing on the edge of uncertainty I'm

37:19

in a step over the threshold at mean

37:21

that being vulnerable into the to be being

37:24

vulnerable one another we just have to see

37:26

excitement and he was. I have the opportunity

37:28

for a new and deeper connections. Young.

37:30

As keeps it fresh and to see and

37:32

fun. And although six so you know you

37:35

be with different partners after a while actually

37:37

gets boring because you're having the same kind

37:39

of experience with every pupil as opposed to

37:41

this radically powerfully or rather joyful, pleasurable experience

37:43

as with the same person and you know

37:45

their times and I think us you know

37:47

as is somewhat attractive of because it would

37:49

be really nice of i could have sex

37:52

with that person to. But

37:54

then I realize that. If I did, I

37:56

would be able to have his experiences with an. Elegant

37:59

comes down to what. Get in the summers for

38:01

the what I give up his from a place

38:03

of about choosing not to do certain things not

38:05

have a sense of fear or deprivation that out

38:07

of a sense of joy and pleasure and love

38:09

and feeling good and that's ultimately what makes it

38:12

sustainable. How does it have this conversation

38:14

with you And an an Oprah? About

38:16

commitment and sex all day. It

38:19

was great assess assess. You know I think

38:21

that some people you know what we are

38:24

motivated by a sense of pleasure, enjoy, and

38:26

intimacy or what I mean all of the

38:28

great spiritual. Truth. Colored come down

38:30

to what Aldous Huxley call the Perennial

38:32

philosophy. You know that when you reduce

38:34

it down and once you get pass

38:37

although rituals that people find kill each

38:39

other over know my religions best No

38:41

no my residence best. Whatever is like.

38:43

You know, altruism? love, forgiveness, Compassion

38:46

ultimately take us to that place

38:48

as it frees us from our

38:50

suffering and. And. So

38:53

we realize that. Those.

38:55

Spiritual truths are how to live a

38:57

joyful, pleasurable happy life in. A lot

38:59

of people of hundred come to over

39:01

the millennia we kind of ignore that

39:03

town and and and so I the

39:06

once people begin to realize that those.

39:09

Are. The spiritual truth as liberators and make

39:11

life so much more fun not have

39:13

a sense, homes you know, dry and

39:15

moldy and boring and sale in all.

39:17

but rather, these are the things that

39:19

really enable us to live the most

39:21

joyful and pleasurable life again. If I

39:23

forgive somebody, it's not. Ah,

39:26

Condoning or excusing what they've done but it

39:29

helps to free me from the sovereign the

39:31

goes along with us you know on on

39:33

one of or suffer at your you and

39:35

I mean another levels we talked about earlier

39:38

we're not but the to me the roots

39:40

are suffering begin by seen people are separated

39:42

only suffer the other you know was forcing

39:44

of the on the fortunately now far with

39:47

the rise of Viable by Supremacy and and

39:49

the White House and so on the other

39:51

those Mexican rapers, those Muslim terrorists once you

39:54

call someone different and only different than. You

39:56

can do bad things for them because una

39:58

you are and then only creates. More isolation

40:00

and more suffering. I think you know

40:02

there's a wonderful conversation Georgia Lucas of

40:05

Star Wars had with or Joseph Campbell

40:07

when he was time at the Sars,

40:09

Mers, and the whole Darth Vader and

40:11

that you know when you have that

40:13

sense of the other then. No.

40:16

One is safe is the opposite of

40:18

that what we're talking about before bobbing

40:20

trusting an open An intimate. It's very

40:22

protected and walled off. And.

40:24

When you're walled off those same was that

40:27

protects you isolate you and the more isolated

40:29

yard in the more like the are to

40:31

get sick and dying prematurely. So the very

40:33

thing that we think we're doing this protecting

40:35

us is a very thing the taxi curious

40:38

and so the logical conclusion of that George

40:40

Lucas was talking about what Joseph Campbell is

40:42

that you can't trust anyone so basic you're

40:44

down to two people, the master, the soon

40:46

and eventually the soon enough killing the master

40:49

was as the whole source of ah Miss

40:51

And and that's what we see. You know

40:53

Donald Trump by all accounts. Has no friends

40:55

you know the miserable, unhappy, isolated person

40:57

and kind of project Saddam and now

40:59

not forcing them to the rest of

41:01

the world. And so I think that

41:03

as we really understand the zebra spiritual

41:06

truce to me they're the root of

41:08

not only having say healthy living longer

41:10

but having a joyful, pleasurable, loving happy

41:12

life. That Swami that I started with

41:14

was were the happiest people Never met.

41:16

You know have you ever hang out

41:18

with the Dalai Lama is is beautiful.

41:20

Laugh at me. that's why they sampled

41:22

as laugh Ryota because his sister a

41:24

joyful. Last and yet, he's been witness

41:26

to the whole genocide of his people. We

41:28

have the ability to use a sense of

41:31

suffering as a doorway or as a catalyst

41:33

for transforming our allies of rediscovering that happy

41:35

place as inner peace and joy and love

41:37

and compassion in and so on for ourselves

41:40

and for others. And it's just a way

41:42

to kind of go through the world in

41:44

ways that make it so much happier as

41:46

opposed to create a more suffering. On.

41:49

Thank you so much thank you for

41:51

reminding us as this delay that happens

41:54

when as years dropped. On. our

41:56

hearts out then on connection as me. And.

41:59

Thank you very much. Reminding us the health. See

42:01

we tend to think about just stay in

42:03

a spiritual benefits of the happiness benefits that

42:06

is Your research has shown in our study

42:08

after study after study the health benefits to

42:10

keep rolling in. Your. The

42:12

more diseases we study of the or. Mechanisms.

42:15

Will look out the more scientific evidence

42:17

we have or that is me. that's

42:19

part of the value of sciences or

42:21

can redefine was possible for people and

42:23

by doing so if his many people

42:25

new hope and choices and the you

42:27

know when someone is set and suffering

42:29

just like what I was depressed. there's

42:31

as a receptivity to new ideas and

42:33

attains as you wouldn't find otherwise and

42:35

so like some as had a heart

42:37

attack us a goddess suffer so we're

42:39

You know when you're media be a

42:41

vegetarian, a plant based diet and and

42:43

less sugar less fan. And exercise of meditate

42:46

and love Morty kidding me in as a

42:48

doctor so I can get my face and

42:50

said to take their their sad you expose

42:52

him says your the sauce and yet we

42:54

find that you know Medicare is not covering.

42:57

Our. Program or hospitals or clinics around the

42:59

country. Most of the measure insurance companies

43:01

aren't and we're getting bigger changes in

43:03

Lysol. Better clinical outcomes are bigger cost

43:05

savings and better it here and said

43:07

he was a resume zero. Program is

43:09

seventy two hours long. Ninety four percent

43:12

of those sessions get completed over and

43:14

nine we period and a year later,

43:16

eighty five to ninety percent. The people

43:18

who still fallen the following big cities

43:20

but in Salinas, Arkansas, Jackson, Mississippi, and

43:22

now South Bend, Indiana and so on

43:24

is working because when we work at

43:26

that level. Which. Is really core to

43:29

the primal need for love and connection

43:31

community. We find that people are much

43:33

more likely to make lifestyle choices are

43:35

life enhancing, the ones that are self

43:37

destructive and because he's underlying biological mechanisms

43:39

are so dynamic. Most people when they

43:41

make these changes to the degree that

43:43

make them feel so much better so

43:45

quickly in ways that really matter to

43:47

them and it's has been going away

43:49

and them in other physical things but

43:51

depressing scores are cut you know more

43:53

than and half on average. Then they

43:55

sometimes again go back to say wow.

43:58

Getting said probing suffering the I had

44:00

it at suffering a my life was

44:02

a blessing in disguise because he got

44:04

my attention to begin be open to

44:06

doing these things. Unfortunately of medicine when

44:08

I trained see see that as an

44:10

opportunity were trained of number the pain

44:12

or kill the pain or bypass the

44:15

paint literally or figuratively. And so the

44:17

reason I spent sixteen years to get

44:19

sort of Medicare to get tired coverage

44:21

of our program is that I learned

44:23

that if it's reimbursable, the that sustainable

44:25

future is really burst. Magicians, medical practices,

44:27

even medical education. So part of what

44:29

I'm so passionate. About is helping teach

44:31

medical students and others how to use

44:33

the sacred opportunity that we have to

44:35

work with people when they're often at

44:38

their most vulnerable in their most suffering

44:40

and his show them how they can

44:42

empower themselves suddenly to get better. Since

44:44

Acclaim. Which. We can often measure, but

44:46

to deal at these deeper levels was ultimately

44:48

or or that much worm or meaningful and

44:51

profound. Thank you so much team for showing

44:53

us the opportunity in the possibility that from

44:55

all of our lives and all of our

44:57

as any be lot to learn more temps

44:59

as that he does have an audience. Love.

45:02

More stress last exercise more and

45:04

eat better to your best life

45:07

he can take up in but

45:09

i'm get which. Like. The

45:11

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45:14

it seems that undo it. I've read it cover to cover

45:16

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45:18

the can go to our website which is

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45:22

us have we talked about today are the

45:24

others free A lot of resources as well

45:26

as the locations of the sites of we

45:28

trained around the country. Was hurt her. Awesome!

45:31

That's earnest.com all of the informational be

45:33

in the show Notes: And

45:35

you so much team! Thank you is really great

45:37

hockey with you. Thank you for inspiring yet I

45:39

used to talk about these things in this level

45:41

and down by always been useful So thanks area

45:43

and you. Won't

45:47

with Doctor Dean wireless. Know.

45:50

You. Hindi mention mean. What

45:53

it means. News. Is actually

45:55

brains and he had been the have the medicine.

45:58

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46:00

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46:02

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46:04

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46:06

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46:09

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46:11

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46:13

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46:15

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46:18

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46:20

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46:47

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46:49

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46:51

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46:53

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46:55

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