Joe is joined by Michael Lawrence who shares his extraordinary life story. Michael discusses his upbringing in a predominantly white environment, his struggles with identity, and the racism he faced in the military. He recounts harrowing experiences and talks about how he finds strength and solidarity within the black community in the army. The episode highlights Michael's journey of self-discovery, resilience, and ultimately finding acceptance and belonging within a supportive community.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Overcoming Adversity: Michael faced racism and discrimination throughout his life, but he found strength in standing up for himself and others, ultimately overcoming his fears and gaining confidence.

• Building Solidarity: Despite initial scepticism, Michael found acceptance and support from the black community in the army, leading to strong friendships and a sense of belonging.

• Courage in Confrontation: Michael's confrontation with a racist individual in the army marked a turning point where he stood up for himself and refused to be intimidated, leading to a shift in his mindset and behaviour.

• Seeking Promotion: After realising his enjoyment of army life and the need for authority to effect change, Michael decided to pursue promotion, showing a shift in his goals and aspirations.

• Cultural Identity: Michael's journey from wanting to be white to embracing his mixed-race identity and desiring to be black highlights a significant shift in his self-perception and acceptance of his heritage.

BEST MOMENTS

"I really wanted to be black. It was a complete change. It was a complete 180."

"I was absolutely scared of this guy. I didn't want anything to do with him. But something just twigged right there."

"I was never scared of anyone again from that day. And I was able to then change my life." 

"It was a really good time back then. We really had fun. We weren't about fighting or this, that and the other."

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HOST BIO

Joe O'Connor is a resilient business entrepreneur and Financial Adviser dedicated to supporting business owners and veterans in their transition to civilian life. Despite facing life-threatening challenges at a young age, Joe defied the odds and embarked on a remarkable journey. From excelling as a Combat Engineer and Physical Training Instructor in the Royal Engineers to starting his own business as a Financial Adviser, Joe has displayed unwavering determination.

After rejoining the Army as a reservist in the Bomb Disposal Unit, Joe reached the rank of Sergeant before transferring to the SAS, where he endured a severe injury and was medically discharged. Undeterred, he resumed his role as an IFA and founded a charity that aids injured veterans and their families.

Joe's charity is currently finalizing plans for a training center and 23 Lodges, aiming to provide vital support for veterans transitioning to civilian life while addressing stress, anxiety, and PTSD. Today, Joe's mission is to unite business owners and veterans, helping them unleash their full potential for success.