You...yes you, have the capability to redefine the way you describe yourself. Will you ever be perfect, no but stepping into that specific capacity will broaden your will to change. And enhance your will to live. We have a tendency to get on ourselves after a mistake. Ask yourself, would you treat a child the same who made a mistake. Isn't your life just as important as a child's? Embracing accountability, and expanding your belief into ANYTHING is possible will change your life forever. Redefining yourself is a journey everyone should take. Pray this blesses you.