Tip for Reconciliation: When you focus on God, you relate with people in healthy not selfish ways.

Psalm 138:1-3

I will praise you, Lord, with all my heart;
before the “gods” I will sing your praise.
 I will bow down toward your holy temple
and will praise your name
for your unfailing love and your faithfulness,
for you have so exalted your solemn decree
that it surpasses your fame.
When I called, you answered me;
you greatly emboldened me.