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Hello, and welcome to we know
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parenting here
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McNerney. That's Beth
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Newell. Definitely not
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robots replacements. Um
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high back again for
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another week. Our life continues. We
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are still parents, Brendon Mayven our children.
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They are two and they are four, and they're great,
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except when we want to strangle
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them like I did not
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but an hour ago. Boy,
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I had a really great day with them. Beth. Yeah,
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m ok day holiday. So we're we're at
0:47
home and um
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um I left for the afternoon
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to try to run some errons and get some
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work done. You're a full day off.
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Um. I wouldn't say a full day, but I
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felt like it to me. But
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but we had a great time here. Um.
1:04
They played Brinnan Maven,
1:07
genuinely enjoying each other and
1:10
playing and doing
1:12
puzzles I thought were too complicated for
1:15
them.
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Brand's like, I need your help to do the big Lama
1:19
Lama puzzle and I was like, I
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gotta go to the bathroom. And I came out and the puzzle was
1:24
done, and he was very proud. I'll
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say, in spite of some very trying
1:29
moments as this the norm there,
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they've been really good considering they've
1:33
been stuck inside most of the weekend. So
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yeah, today arctic blast. It
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was five degrees this morning when
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chill negative three. Nice and
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um, I was great with him all
1:46
day until bedtime when
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they were super hyper, and I was like,
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I'm I've been I've done a great
1:53
job all day. I've just when
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they're doing something bad, just redirecting
1:59
their attention and then being able
2:01
to talk to them that like, Okay, we don't want
2:03
to do that. Here is there, so let's look over here, as
2:05
opposed to the stop there's
2:09
yes, that's you're real good and telling
2:11
Bran no, I'm realizing
2:13
that now as I lay down the law
2:15
more often is they do like
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I can't get over zealous. You had to pull it back
2:20
a little bit. Otherwise the whole
2:22
day is like a battle with two kids
2:24
that are just NonStop trying to eat snacks all
2:27
day long on the weekend. Yeah,
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he knows it. If you if I'm like Bran
2:32
raised my voice, He's immediately going to look
2:34
at me and just keep doing what. It gets like a
2:36
skittish little deer's like. And
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it's just the tone. And so if I
2:42
just immediately react like I'm on his
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side, like oh, you know, we don't
2:46
want to do this because uh, mom is coming home
2:48
as she wants this chair to not
2:50
scrape the floor. Hey, did you have a
2:53
rock lord toy over here? And then it's
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problem. That was all day. I was redirecting
2:57
the energy. I was riding the wave until
3:00
the last minute when you wouldn't lay down,
3:03
and he's He's just like, I don't want
3:05
to read a book. And then maybe was gonna cry if
3:07
I didn't read the book, and Britain was gonna cry
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if I did read the book. So
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fine, It's like I'm just gonna turn out the light. And
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I ended up trying to start reading this book to
3:18
Maven and Bryn in Defiance
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just starts kicking the wall and
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I lost my mind. If any
3:27
of our listeners are putting two kids to bed in
3:29
the same bedroom at the same time and they have any
3:31
advice, please tell us, because
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it's just hell every
3:36
single time. I mean, they trade
3:38
off who's being difficult. It's
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I mean normally that is that is the
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time where I've I really
3:45
feel good about bedtime because it's total chaos.
3:48
But it's constantly like distracting them
3:50
and keeping them and holding them
3:52
physically in bed, but not to the point where
3:54
they scream. And if
3:56
I hadn't just spent the whole day doing that,
3:58
I would have had a little more patience. And
4:00
I just snapped and
4:03
had to like, uh, hold
4:06
Brittin down because then he started trying to pinch me,
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and I'm like, but then I
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got in bed read the book to Maven and Britain was like,
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fine, you can read it to her, but I'm not gonna listen.
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And so I started reading Lama Lama to It's
4:17
a Big Lama Llama Day by the way
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to Maven, and the whole time Britton was jumping
4:22
up on down on his bed with his fingers
4:24
in his ears, going I
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can't hear you because I have fingers in my
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ears. And I finally, did
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you hear me? Scream Britain
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like loud enough where he got scared and
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went under his covers and weirdly was
4:41
mad at me until he went to sleep, but stayed in bed
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and was quiet and yelling at him and has never
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worked. And now I'm afraid that I'm going to
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be tempted to do it a lot. I had one
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or two moments like that this week where
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I raised my voice where I was just so tired.
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But I feel okay about
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it because it was brief. Yeah,
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it wasn't um like a night
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of trying to shout him down. Well,
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that's the tricky thing about screaming
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is that if you don't do it hardly,
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ever, then when you do scream, it is
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very powerful. But the more you do
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it, the less power you have. Yeah,
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okay, So one thing with the briefly uh
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bring people up to speed on is what happened
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regarding the pink pants situation
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to miss pink stripe, the blue
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pants with the one small pink stripe on them
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that were the subject of a heated debate
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at daycare So Good after
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Brit was lightly bullied for
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having pink on his person and
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decided he wanted to throw his pants at the front door,
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and we talked about on the podcast. The very
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next morning, he woke up
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and wanted to wear the
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pants with the pink stripe. The boy gets
5:53
over things, yeah, and he said, and
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he he asked for them, and he said,
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because I love pink, because
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he's just I think he's
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enjoying Maven's enjoyment
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of pink. Recently, Well, none of
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them, neither of them will
6:09
allow the other to have a thing that's just their's
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because maybe her entire identity
6:15
is wrapped up in loving pink and she
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won't stop talking about because
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I love pink. I love pink.
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It's my favoritest she loves pink.
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So Brits like Pink's my favorite colors,
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like make it less special. And he like now
6:30
when he's asking for a cup, sometimes there's
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only like two cup pink cups here,
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and he'll just kind of like ask for it
6:37
because he knows it's like the thing that they even
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wants. Um. What a
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brother, What a big brother. Um.
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So another thing I want to talk about this
6:47
week is tonight the
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kids haven't really getting into wrestling,
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and I think in a good
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way where they're not they're finally not
6:56
actually trying to hurt each other too much. Brenda's being
6:59
was being pretty care full with Mayven, but he was trying
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to make it look like she was pushing him off the bed
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and then he would fling himself down. Um.
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And they were having a lot
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of fun, and I felt good about it because it felt like they were
7:11
testing the boundaries in a very safe
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way. There's a couple of times when Mayven
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like kind of would bump her head and she cried
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like for a second, but like Britain wasn't
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for the most part, he was not trying to hurt her.
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And I mean, yeah, he used to legitimately
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hurt her way more because he just didn't
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know his own strength, and he's actually careful
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with me well, and recently
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he hurts her on purpose because he gets
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mad and he hits her. But this was the first time they
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were like play wrestling, and I feel like they both
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kind of were just laughing a lot
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and enjoying it for long
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stretches of time, and I almost felt like it was
7:47
better when if I left the room,
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they would just be giggling and I could kind
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of like trust that they were for the most part, we're
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not trying to hurt each other. But then if I walked
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in and they were being watched, it felt like then they
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almost got more violent. Yeah,
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you know what, I had a good chunk
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of time today where they just stayed in
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the other room and I listened to them and
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they they aren't actually playing
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together well, and they were doing it in the bathtub
8:13
tonight where they were both in the bathtub and we were down
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the hall and you could hear them talking and gigglings.
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Yeah, we know you're not supposed to leave a
8:19
two year old unattended in a tub. Stop
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yelling at up. She's like nearly
8:24
three, and they never stopped
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talking. So if they stopped talking, we'd be nervous.
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Even when she's alone, she she like sings
8:32
most of the time she's in there, or like she sing talks
8:34
to herself. So I feel good, like
8:36
putting the dishes away, you know, ten
8:38
feet away. She was singing, Santa Claus
8:40
is coming to town by herself tonight. She
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she really can't let that one go. That
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song is a faith that has a real impression
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on you when you're two or three or four. Santa
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Claus is coming to He's he's making
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a list, he's checking it twice. He's going to
8:55
find out he's not in your night. She also kind of riffs
8:57
on songs. On the other night, I swear she said something that was
9:00
you're bed or not poop Like
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she just like they could you record
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an entire poop parody just
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on their own. But today and the batstuff, they were
9:09
dumping water on each other's heads and
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splashing each other in the face and they were both laughing.
9:14
Normally there would be a scream fit. I know they're
9:16
recovering. It was great. That was
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a moment. When I was unloading the dishwasher, I was like,
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oh my god, it's going to get better. It's
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gonna get better. It gets better.
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Oh boy, so
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can I Uh
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So today, you know, it's
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Martin Luther King Day and we're
9:36
home alone, and in my mind
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I'm like, uh,
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you know, I'm stuck with two kids. You can't do
9:43
anything, so um, yeah,
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I can't. You know, there's not much I can do to sort of
9:48
honor the day. Um.
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But something did happen that I
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chose to be my teach
9:57
my kids a lesson about
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uh uh befriending
10:03
people you don't understand. So
10:05
that Britain and maybe we're fighting
10:08
over me. Bryn had
10:10
two rock Lords, which
10:12
are these toys from the eighties that I
10:14
got when I was little. In their knockoff crappy
10:17
transformers, but they transform into rocks instead
10:19
of vehicles. And uh,
10:22
Mayven had to my little ponies. And
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Mayven goes play with me,
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play with me, and she hands me one of the unicorns
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that brinon goes no play with me and
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tries to hand me one of the rock lords and they're
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fighting over so I go, you know what, I can do both,
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and so I pick up both of them.
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And it's very different kind of play. You know. Brandon wants
10:42
to be like, we gotta go find the bad guys, let's
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transform, let's let's do a bunch of tasks.
10:47
Listen to me, and and Maven's
10:49
playing with the unicorns is all like are you
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okay your look at your
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hair, I'm flying. We're friends.
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I love you. Kiss kiss uh,
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and AND's like, no play with me. And so
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I suddenly in this
11:03
little scene, was like, you know what, um
11:07
my rock lord in my unicorn. We want to hang out
11:09
with this unicorn? Hey Bryn.
11:12
His rock lorders name was Boulder, Hey
11:14
Boulder, come play with us. And
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he starts going no, rockwell
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lords only hang out with other
11:21
rock lords. Rock lords don't
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spend time with ponies and unicorns.
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And I was like, this
11:29
is my MLK day lesson for my two
11:31
and four year old, and I was like, well, we
11:33
can all be friends together. No, he
11:36
says like jarring things
11:38
that are like no, you're different. We're over
11:41
here, and so I took my rock lord and I
11:43
was like, Boulder, these are my friends and
11:45
you should not like them, just because the unicorns
11:47
were having a dance party. And he goes, fine,
11:50
I'm gonna go be alone in my rock house.
11:53
And he stormed off as a rock
11:55
lord, and we go alright, ponies, we're having
11:58
a dance party. We that
12:00
we all started dancing, and
12:02
then Britain's
12:04
on the other side of the couch with his rock lord,
12:07
and his rock lord was jealously looking
12:09
over to our side of the couch because we
12:11
were having a dancing party with two unicorns
12:14
and a rock lord. And then and
12:16
then he goes ring
12:18
ring, ring, ring ring, and I go, oh,
12:21
um, sorry, Ponies, I think I'm getting
12:23
a call on my rock phone. Hello.
12:26
He goes, Hey, Nugget, that's
12:28
the other rock lords name. Hey Nugget, it's me
12:30
Boulder. Um,
12:32
do you want to come to my house? I'm like, sorry, Boulder,
12:34
I'm having a really fun party with the unicorns. You
12:36
should come over. He goes, um,
12:38
I don't want to come over. I don't hang out with ponies,
12:41
but I might change my mind
12:43
and call you back. Okay, bye.
12:45
I go all right, who dance.
12:48
Then he goes spring Ring Ring. He goes hello,
12:51
and he goes, I changed my mind. I'm
12:53
coming to the party. Where is it? Like,
12:55
it's over here? He goes, all right, I'll
12:57
be there. Then he comes over and then
12:59
we all be friends. And I was like,
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I did, it's so funny, so
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into throwing around rules lately
13:07
that just are just orders for Mayven
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And he's like, Maven, girls
13:12
don't get to play with this. Oh,
13:14
that's a big thing. Last he keep saying, girls
13:16
don't do that, like and it's just it's
13:19
really just what he wants to happen in that moment.
13:21
But I keeping like, girls
13:24
do whatever they want. I
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like it, like really insenses me. I like,
13:30
no, Briton, you don't get to
13:32
tell girls what to do. You're not the boss of
13:34
girls. Girls
13:36
can't be on the footstool. Girls can be
13:38
on foot stool. And that tonight
13:41
when he did it, you have never sounded
13:43
more like your dad, because you were like, brit
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I wouldn't go messing with girls. I
13:50
did not say that. You did. You're like, you
13:52
don't want to mess with girls. Take it for me. Don't
13:55
tell a woman what she can or cannot
13:58
do. Um,
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wow, well yeah you don't they they
14:05
there's boy, are our kids
14:08
are Britain is such a boy?
14:11
Maybe it's such a girl and it's
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like do you feel disappointed?
14:16
And how much are our kids are perform?
14:20
I mean he's also in some ways very
14:22
not like as we've mentioned previously,
14:25
he doesn't know a single thing about sports.
14:28
Oh yeah, it is the time to sign him up for
14:30
a soccer class or something. M
14:35
I just thought I wasn't bothered by it. I don't want
14:37
to get up at you know, eight am on a
14:39
Saturday and I have to run out the door to go to watch
14:42
four year old to try to play soccer. You
14:44
don't want to get up at eight am, even though I
14:46
get up at seven. I am to take them today here
14:48
every day, No, not get up, I mean have
14:51
to leave the house. Yeah,
14:54
I leave the house by seven fifteen every day.
14:56
I'm talking about on a Saturday. You
14:59
leave the house. That's seven fifteen
15:01
on a Saturday. That's something you
15:03
want to do. You think that's a reasonable thing
15:05
that I should not be saying this about. I didn't
15:07
think it through. I didn't think it
15:09
through. But let's look ahead at
15:11
the end of the week. Okay, because what's happened in this week?
15:13
Beth, why don't you explain to everybody what's
15:16
happening this week? I
15:18
am flying out of here Thursday
15:20
to go to the Cayman Islands with my
15:23
friends with no children. You
15:26
just told me one day this was going to happen,
15:29
and well, that's the only way it was going
15:31
to happen. Well, you think if
15:33
you asked me, I would say no, I
15:36
think I don't need to ask you. It's
15:39
true, it's true. I asked you about dates.
15:41
You know what you're You're right, I'll be totally honest.
15:43
I'm I'm I'm pretending like this
15:46
is upset me, but you don't think it.
15:48
I think you love it because you're just like
15:50
eyeing the next time that you can skip
15:52
down. Oh yeah, I only
15:55
ever dare like take time for me if
15:57
I know that I've you've
15:59
done it first. But then
16:02
that's fine, that's great. If I
16:04
don't want to go on a trip, if you're going
16:07
to resent me for it, um,
16:09
and I really like I
16:11
will be so much sane or this
16:14
for this entire winter. I think for having
16:16
taken this what is it, five days
16:18
trip, I've only jokingly
16:22
the thing about giving you a grief
16:24
about it. I just
16:27
want to the benefits of having
16:29
a vacation as a mom, because without
16:33
like little breaks, you forget
16:36
you're a person, and you just
16:38
it's like just this ongoing
16:41
grind, grind, grind. And I know a lot of people can't
16:43
afford to take like lavish Cayman
16:45
Island vacations like, but
16:48
I think like you can just get But
16:52
yeah, but if you can get like a night away
16:54
from your kids and stay at a friend's house or anything
16:56
where you can just be a
16:59
person and who gets to have drinks and not worry
17:02
about like waking up in the middle
17:04
of the night or at seven in the morning with
17:06
a person breathing in your face. Yeah,
17:10
that's a good thing for a person's mental health,
17:12
especially in the dark
17:14
winter months. Um. I
17:16
am very glad that you're going, and
17:20
I'm looking forward to you
17:22
coming back and just being
17:24
so happy to see me. Um,
17:28
So my mom is going to come while
17:30
you're away, and you're not going to
17:32
be here next week when it's recording time.
17:36
Um, what day do you get back? Um?
17:42
Wednesday? Okay, So yeah, so
17:45
of course you know we haven't planned What
17:47
the hell we're gonna do for the episode,
17:49
so either we'll do it over the internet.
17:52
W I was also thinking, maybe I'll just do this episode
17:54
with my mom. I think you should.
17:57
I think she would be great on here. What
17:59
are you? Mom? You'll probably find it out about this right
18:01
now listening. She's probably listening right
18:04
now. She's like she's laying
18:06
on a beach listening to she
18:09
uh she uh
18:11
would be a really great
18:13
at this. But I bet she'd
18:16
be nervous. She shouldn't, Mom,
18:18
you shouldn't be You say
18:20
everything you're thinking out loud, and that's all you
18:22
need to do to be on a podcast. I mean, no one I
18:25
know would kill it on here like your mom. And
18:27
come on, quit quit resisting
18:29
everybody. If you want a McNerney
18:32
as my special guest on her
18:34
at a tweet at a McNerney
18:37
does not have Twitter at
18:39
at Twitter dot com, tweet
18:43
at her at Facebook, backslash,
18:46
How do I post this? Can everyone
18:49
see this? You
18:52
know what? Just don't We'll just I'll trick her into
18:54
it. Um. So that will happen next week, unless,
18:56
of course, something totally different happens. We'll
18:59
find out. This
19:06
next segment is called we Don't know. It's where
19:08
we discuss some of our parenting failures.
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Peter, you've got something. I've
19:12
got one involving physical
19:15
violence bryn
19:20
Um. Brenna's hitting and
19:22
Brennan's kicking and Brenda's pinching.
19:24
I've got little cuts all over my hand.
19:28
Um uh. He's
19:30
a very good boy most of the time. And then he has a
19:33
big tantrum and he started hitting
19:36
and this is this one. It's
19:39
so hard to control my
19:41
anger. I think the same
19:43
as for you. So hard not to
19:45
be emotional, and
19:48
I know what I'm supposed to do. Well here,
19:50
here's the big issue, is like, is
19:54
I should be able to just put him in his room
19:57
and then I closed the door and let him calm
19:59
down. But if
20:02
I do that, he acts the way he
20:04
acts out. He's like kicking and stomping,
20:07
and then our neighbors get really enraged.
20:09
And so I can't let him
20:11
just blow off steam. I have to go
20:14
in there and say no stomping. And
20:16
then he comes at me and he starts
20:18
swinging, and I was like, I just need to leave.
20:21
That's the best way to show him this is not acceptable.
20:23
Is the second he takes like a swing. If
20:25
he goes in his room, you shut the door until
20:28
he's calm, but I can't
20:30
leave him alone, and so it's this
20:32
terrible cycle. I go in and
20:35
like the only option I end up having is I need
20:37
to like lay him down on the bed and
20:40
like try to like hold his hands
20:42
and his legs without hurting
20:44
him. And I need to
20:47
like hold him until he calms
20:49
down. And of course, like then he
20:51
goes crazy. And
20:53
I'm trying to, you know, just
20:56
go like we don't hit, and I stay calm because
20:58
I do not want him to
21:00
react to like as if this is me,
21:04
uh, focusing like
21:06
a physical dominance
21:08
over him, like there's any emotion attached
21:10
to it. Uh, And so
21:12
I try to just hold him and stay calm. And I
21:14
recently a listener wrote in and
21:17
oh gosh, I'm I'm so sorry, Um,
21:19
I didn't write tell your name, um,
21:22
but uh she
21:24
recommended one to
21:26
three Magic, which is a parenting
21:29
style type of book. And I just skiveed
21:31
a little bit of it. UM, So
21:33
I can't endorse it or not. But
21:36
but the beginning of it UM
21:39
has some really simple ideas. I realized this
21:41
is a applicable to us, and
21:44
too generalize
21:46
Basically, it's like at that age you
21:50
you should never explain yourself more
21:53
than once. You know you can say you can't
21:55
do this because this is dangerous. And
21:57
if they try to argue it and you re explain
22:00
laying it, you're not achieving
22:02
anything. You're just falling
22:05
into the trap of that you paying attention
22:07
to them. So the main philosophy
22:09
is when they're doing something you don't want them
22:11
to do, less
22:13
talking and zero hide
22:16
all negative emotions because
22:18
the net that we talked about this for like those negative
22:20
emotions and that over explaining is
22:23
a victory for them because they
22:25
have your full attention and part of that actually
22:27
feels good. So it is this, Yeah,
22:29
they're like, oh we're arguing, great,
22:32
I've got some arguments. Yeah, that's
22:34
they're asserting their power. But if
22:36
you take that away from them, which is just
22:38
they like and then ultimately
22:40
one to three Magic is basically like counting
22:43
to three. I really hope one to three Magic has
22:45
a chapter on physically restraining
22:47
your son in sort of a choke
22:49
hold for that
22:53
chapter yet, But I've really
22:55
been trying to exercise that, like
22:57
I don't explain
22:59
my health more than once, and when he gets really
23:02
heated. I barely
23:04
look at him, you know, And so I tried to
23:07
do this. We went out to um
23:10
Rye Playland. Do you want to tell us
23:12
about that trip? Yeah, So
23:14
this was when we knew the big storm was coming. So
23:16
we're like, let's get out of the house. We
23:18
tried to do a nature walk, which our kids
23:21
sucked at. Um that
23:24
sucked not good at.
23:26
Like, I think part of it is just winter. Maybe
23:28
there's less to see. I don't know, but they're like not interested
23:32
in exploring their outdoor surroundings
23:34
very well, and they like won't
23:37
continue walking get
23:40
back on the path. Well, no,
23:43
because you guys were just like wandering around and I'm
23:45
severely allergic to poison ivy and
23:47
I could see it on the trees surrounding
23:49
us, and I just could very
23:52
easily picture either one of you
23:54
just wandering over and leaning your hand up against
23:57
a big rope of poison.
23:59
I I wasn't rest because I realized that I've
24:01
never even attempted to identify
24:04
poison ivy when the leaves are dead. Well
24:07
I have because I've gotten very bad poison
24:09
ivy in the middle of winter unfortunately. So
24:13
uh Anyway,
24:16
Um, I'm very
24:18
sensitive in a cool interesting allergic
24:21
action of what I was saying. No,
24:25
that's I have a strong immune system.
24:28
It's overactive. So
24:30
anyway, um, I'm
24:32
cool. We're they wouldn't like,
24:34
they won't just take a walk. So that was frustrating because
24:36
I like that nature preserve
24:39
and I want to cover some ground and
24:41
I think if we've got a little farther, you
24:43
know, they might have seen like a deer or something, but they're
24:45
too loud. Anyway, I should just go in nature walks alone,
24:47
which is the ideal way to do it. Anyway, that's your New
24:50
Year's resolutions alone nature
24:52
walks. Right, yeah, that is one of my new
24:54
resolutions, get out of nature. Um.
24:57
And anyway, so we
24:59
we end that pretty quickly because Brina was just trying
25:01
to turn around would be difficult. And then
25:04
we're like, okay, it's like getting
25:07
kind of late. We can go get some brunch because they're
25:09
going to get hungry soon. And I find a place that's sort
25:11
of like a step up from our regular
25:14
diner. Fair It's like steps
25:16
up. That place was it
25:18
was great. It was really quality over quantity,
25:21
which I'm I that's the thing that's
25:23
really rubbing me wrong about the diners
25:25
around here is just like, well
25:27
it's a mountain. Food was also just like so
25:31
boring and bland and like not
25:33
like it just feels like you're shoveling like cardboard
25:35
into your mouth at a certain point. The diner
25:39
I've been, the diners around here are just
25:42
a little bit lacking in my opinion. I've
25:44
been to plenty of good diners. Um,
25:47
so anyway, this place was like a step up
25:49
and the food is great and our kids, actually
25:52
we're really good. Well because the table
25:54
clasts all paper and they have cramps that they could draw
25:56
on the whole table. Yeah, and this was a novel
25:58
to them, and they liked it better than the our usual diner,
26:00
which has just those little mats with drawings
26:03
already on them like a coloring book thing.
26:05
Um, Like, our kids can't handle
26:08
a blank page. They love
26:10
a blank page. So they
26:12
were. I actually think they were amazingly
26:15
good during that meal compared to like any other
26:17
meal we've had. With that, I did have to take brain outside
26:19
before the check came. Yeah, but that was like we
26:21
were waiting a while for the check and I was eyeing the
26:23
guy like that was not our kids
26:25
faults so then
26:27
we went over to Write Playland, which was
26:30
across the street, and
26:33
it was pretty good. We're wandering around. This
26:35
is great again, like it's a
26:37
beautiful boardwalk and
26:40
along the beach, and our kids just want to
26:42
hang out in like basically a parking lot corner
26:45
and like it's fine. There's like a wheelchair
26:48
ramp and they're running around and stuff. But it was just like, why
26:50
do we have to hang on this ugly little
26:53
These kids aesthetic sensibilities
26:56
are a shambles. Anyway,
26:59
we were everything was fine, and then we're
27:01
like time to go to the car, and
27:03
I guess he didn't want to go to the car and you had
27:05
to carry him. And then I tried to put him
27:07
in the car and put his seatbelt on, and he was he
27:10
went full, I'm not putting this seatbelt
27:12
on. So I gave it some
27:14
time and I was like, we gotta do this seatbelt
27:17
And then I was doing my one, two, three magic
27:19
if I only spent it once, and then I just started
27:22
talking to you and I changed the subject
27:24
and finally I was like, Okay, we gotta go, and
27:26
I was like, all right, I just gotta force it. I put him in
27:28
the chair and he screamed and he take it off seatbelt,
27:31
so I had to sit in the back. Oh. And then
27:33
when I was backing out he I
27:35
was driving like a few feet out and he opened
27:38
the door. And that's what set you off. Yeah,
27:41
I opened the car door while we were driving,
27:43
and that is a something I think lawrants
27:46
a yell. I gave him
27:48
a yell. I wanted to scare him
27:50
about that. And I had to sit in the backseat. And
27:52
then he was trying to hit me, and
27:54
so as we were driving,
27:56
I pulled his hands, and
27:58
he can hurt you. So I
28:01
put his hands, I pulled his jacket sleeves
28:03
out so that his hands were inside his jacket sleet
28:05
and then I basically like held the ends
28:07
of his jacket sleeve so he
28:10
was like handcuffed in there and I could squeeze it tight.
28:12
I wasn't hurting his hands, ornything. And I was like, this
28:14
is great. He can struggle. It's like a straight
28:16
jacket and no one's getting hurt. And then he's
28:18
trying to bite me. And we get
28:20
home and he's still screaming and you go inside.
28:23
So I'm like, I'm gonna sit out here and I'm gonna just
28:25
ignore it and be calm.
28:28
And it was a nightmare. It was terrible,
28:31
and I had evil thoughts and
28:33
I wanted to, like I
28:36
wanted to fight back with a four
28:38
year old. Obviously I didn't,
28:41
and I just did that. But
28:43
I finally wore him out. And it's just the point
28:45
where then he got tired and he was like, hey,
28:50
is that a turkey? And like saw a
28:52
bird outside, Like, no, that's not a turkey, and
28:54
he goes, oh, it looks like a turkey,
28:57
and it's just like fine, and it
28:59
feels like I feel like it feels
29:01
manipulative, like and then like
29:04
you feel like he's manipulating you, yeah,
29:06
because he's like acting like nothing happened,
29:09
like we didn't just spend an hour trying
29:11
to cut me. You're the one who's always
29:13
saying that that's what's great about boys, is that you guys
29:16
don't hold onto. You're
29:18
right, I got over it two seconds later. I
29:21
was like, Oh, my son's great. I
29:23
mean, I don't know,
29:25
did you get over it two seconds later? Yes,
29:29
you don't necessarily
29:31
seem over it right now, but I
29:34
really, uh, I mean that's because it
29:36
just happened again in bed. You
29:39
know why? You know why? Actually
29:41
I am like annoyed at him right now because
29:45
he calmed down and he went to sleep, and then I went over
29:47
there and to give him a kiss,
29:50
and I put it in my hand on his head.
29:52
I was like, good night, buddy, and he was still mad. He
29:54
goes, no, and that's rare
29:57
because he was like holding a grudge. And so I walked
29:59
out of there being angry
30:01
with him, and the you're
30:04
mad that he went to bed angry.
30:07
Yes, let not let not this, Let
30:10
not the sun go down about pont your
30:12
wrath. That's
30:15
a that's a etching in my mom's
30:17
bathroom. Yeah, I really
30:19
I subscribe to that. I
30:22
mean, you
30:26
do not subscribe to that you let
30:28
the sun go down upon your wrath
30:31
because because there's no amount
30:34
of you like shouting at
30:36
me or arguing with me is going to make a
30:38
situation resolve at like twelve
30:40
PM. I mean, we don't need to
30:42
get into how our our conflict
30:45
resolution skills couldn't be any
30:47
more different. No, but I think this is a common
30:49
male female thing where I'm like, I
30:52
want to believe that you understand
30:54
why I was not in the first place, and you have concrete
30:57
plans to do differently in the future. It's
30:59
not, but in your mind you're thinking, she
31:01
just needs to back down and get over this and forgive
31:03
me. You are not typical
31:06
of any genu.
31:10
That is so not true, because I'll like
31:12
go away for an hour and come back and think about
31:14
it and then be like, hey, you're right, here's what any wrong,
31:16
and here's what I'm gonna do to change that. Now,
31:18
please just tell me it's okay. And then you love me
31:21
and you're like, I'm going I need to let the sun go down
31:23
upon my wrath. No,
31:25
because you're you're
31:28
not telling the part of the story where you keep ignoring
31:31
what I'm trying to tell you I'm mad about,
31:33
and then I don't want to take responsibility
31:36
for it, and you get brushing it off, and
31:38
then you're like, hey, can you just not be mad? Both
31:40
of these things we're talking about, we're both
31:43
much better and not doing the thing that
31:45
we're accusing the other person. You're doing right now, So
31:47
let's end this by saying nice
31:51
improvement. Will
31:55
you just tell me that's okay? Then you love me though after
31:59
you just told me no one thinks like me,
32:01
and this we're going and that is we don't
32:03
knows. This
32:09
next segment is called wood he knows. It's
32:11
where we take hypothetical situations
32:14
from you, our listeners, and discuss
32:16
what we would do right, rent
32:19
and right. This one comes
32:21
to us from UM.
32:25
I was gonna say a friend of mine, but I don't.
32:27
I've actually never met this person, but
32:29
he is married. UM,
32:33
so a little context on this. So this
32:36
uh listener wrote in his name
32:38
is Ryan and his wife is Jacqueline
32:41
West, who is a New York Times bestselling
32:44
author. Does he want you to say this information?
32:46
Well, he wrote it in the email. Sorry
32:50
sorry Ryan, gratulations Jacqueline, you
32:52
didn't say so the Story
32:54
Parts. If you're un from the story
32:56
Parts, that's my full time job is
32:58
to go check it out. The News Story Parties
33:01
podcast season is launching January
33:04
three. One UM
33:06
but the Story Parts
33:08
also released. I have been releasing
33:11
serious books. UM. Kids
33:13
have submitted I a sort
33:15
of a synopsis for a
33:17
story, and then we get a famous
33:19
author to write the full
33:21
novelization of that kid's idea. It's very
33:24
cool. Stuck in the Stone Age came
33:26
out last year by Jeff rod Key, and
33:28
this year Jacqueline. Our brand new book,
33:30
Digging Up Danger, written by Jacqueline West,
33:33
based on an idea by a
33:36
wonderfully funny kid named phoebe Um,
33:38
came out last week anyway,
33:40
So that's Jacqueline. I've been on
33:43
book tours with her story parties. Got
33:46
hired too to create these book tours
33:48
to go out with real authors, and so I have spent
33:50
several weeks all over the country
33:53
with Jacqueline West. And she is a wonderful
33:55
talent and human being. Anyway,
33:58
that's the context. Jacqueline
34:00
did not write this email. Hello Beth
34:03
and Peter. First, thank you for your
34:05
work on this podcast. It's a blast.
34:07
It helps remind me and my
34:09
wife that we are not alone. Wife
34:11
in question is the one Jacqueline West. Um.
34:15
We and our three year old
34:17
son listen to your podcast each
34:19
morning at the breakfast table. Our
34:22
efforts every morning. You
34:25
either don't get through a whole episode, you're a liar,
34:28
or you repeat episodes in
34:30
chunks. I could see it now, um,
34:33
or he means every episode every
34:35
morning it's available. This is important
34:38
to know. Ryan. Will you right in let us know how.
34:40
I just want to know if he's listening to our episodes on repeat
34:43
after he's listened to them already.
34:46
Hey Siri, play we Knows on
34:48
repeat. Siri actually listened
34:50
to me when I did that? Oh no,
34:53
oh, I forgot I have a HomePod? It her
34:55
be Hey Siri, stop, I
34:59
have a question. It related to anything? Are we
35:01
do? We have to say, hey Siri now
35:03
instead of just theory. Yes, it's
35:05
really annoying. Always been that way. I Um,
35:08
I'm gonna keep talking about this even though it's irrelevant
35:10
to the segment we're trying to record. I UM
35:13
got your old phone, the ten S
35:16
or whatever, and the ten I
35:18
don't know how to use it and it doesn't
35:21
have the home button. So I'm totally thrown. And so
35:23
my whole day is just me being like, Hey
35:25
Siri, Hey Siri, where
35:28
are you? Where am I?
35:32
Oh? She just said here? Um
35:37
anyway, So so he has a
35:39
hypothetical, would you know? But
35:42
I'm gonna keep reading this our
35:44
three year old we listen. Are our efforts
35:48
it's censoring. Your occasional f bombs
35:50
have been futile. Sorry,
35:54
we really assume no children were listening. But
35:56
so he hasn't repeated any of
35:58
the worst of your occasional cur is. He's
36:01
very keen on meeting your kids as they
36:03
are outside his much story classmates,
36:06
the kids he knows the most about in the world.
36:09
Show me, Maven, Show me Bryan, what
36:11
are they doing? Are common
36:14
shouts from our little guy. He
36:16
is in his terrible three major
36:18
stage and hearing about your
36:20
struggles with your to help us deal and
36:23
provide us with much needed schaudenfreude.
36:28
One of my favorite words, the joy of others failures.
36:31
That's right, I was telling
36:33
all of our listeners who also
36:36
know, um,
36:38
that's right. Sometimes we're laughing
36:40
at you. I
36:43
appreciate that. I
36:45
thought you two could use a break from your own uh,
36:48
your own time travel and would
36:50
be would you know scenarios? So
36:52
I came up with a hYP hypothetical for
36:54
you that also involves
36:57
time general to scruffy
36:59
looking think hoboesque
37:02
characters approach you, claiming
37:04
to be brit and Maven from the future.
37:07
They're able to answer a few questions that
37:09
lead you believe that they are telling the truth. They
37:12
then claim that the two of you must move
37:15
to Siberia immediately and
37:17
permanently, or utter disaster
37:20
will before befall you end
37:22
the world. They then disappear
37:24
in a puff of blue sparkling
37:27
smoke. What do you
37:30
do love Ryan and Jacqueline?
37:32
Wow? I mean blue sparkling smoke
37:34
kind of seals the deal. I like,
37:38
once again, writers have to have to write
37:41
in for your benefit that there's
37:43
no use questioning
37:45
whether this is true. That's
37:49
hard for you, But that's the whole question is do I
37:51
believe that that that's really
37:53
them? The scenario dictates that
37:55
you do believe that
37:58
it's true, But
38:01
they're asked the question is do I
38:03
believe and do I move to Siberia. I
38:06
don't think it's if you believe it's do you
38:08
actually follow through with it? No? But I
38:10
mean do I follow through? Because do I believe this
38:13
is really my two children from the future.
38:15
I think it makes it clear that you do believe
38:17
it. The question is do you listen
38:19
to them? Do you basically
38:23
ruin your whole life? You guys can't
38:25
keep sending us these because we can't even agree on
38:27
what the question is. Make
38:30
me read it again after
38:32
a few questions, you believe them? Okay?
38:35
Um?
38:38
I mean if I believe them, I believe
38:40
them, I have to move to Siberia. Right,
38:43
Well, it's you know, maybe like
38:46
our lives won't be ruined,
38:48
but our kids and the rest of the world
38:50
are, right, I guess I
38:52
gotta I gotta go for
38:54
their future. Although part of me really,
38:57
um, I hate New York winter so much.
39:00
The idea of moving to Siberia is like
39:02
a death onto itself. So part of me is like,
39:04
well, maybe I should just move to the
39:06
equator and enjoy my last few months
39:08
of life. I will say,
39:11
um, I wouldn't be happy living
39:14
not in Siberia, but with you inside.
39:18
I could a should just send you in the kids, and
39:20
I'd be like, sorry, kids, mommy has
39:23
gone. I was going to be in the Cayman
39:25
Islands with her friends. I was going with
39:28
her friends to die. Well,
39:32
we don't know how long it will be, you know, so that's
39:34
what we need to weigh. I say this is a
39:36
real analogy for global
39:38
warming. I feel
39:40
like there's a lot of older
39:43
people they are like, that's fine, because
39:46
it's not gonna affackt to my life. But
39:49
that means the analogy for global warning is that
39:52
we have to just flee. We can't
39:54
try to prevent it or slow
39:56
it in any way. It's not a perfect analogy.
40:00
I'll tell you what I would do, Okay, step
40:03
one. I would google Siberia
40:06
and I'd be like, you know what, I don't
40:08
know, what's the biggest city in Siberia.
40:12
Maybe there's some cool spots, are there cities
40:15
like I don't know, it's a big place.
40:17
I don't know anything about. It's
40:20
like, but when you see it represented
40:22
in media, it's like a desert
40:25
wasteland of cold tundra.
40:27
I feel like every time Siberia is referenced,
40:30
it's in the context of like,
40:32
like, uh, you know, nineteen century
40:34
Siberia. No, I think it's
40:36
still like that. It's so cold up
40:38
there, sure, but that doesn't mean there's no
40:40
civilization up there. There's little
40:42
civilization. Well, it's like
40:45
Alaska. Like Alaska doesn't have like a
40:47
ton of people, like the Alaska has
40:49
a ton of people, but as
40:52
a whole, like foot by
40:54
foot, it does not have a lot of people. Sure,
40:56
but Anchorage is
40:59
a is the city, it's I've been
41:01
there. It's cool, warmer
41:05
than Siberia, and that is true.
41:07
Anything near the coast is far warmer
41:09
than That's why Siberia is the worst,
41:11
because it's so it's
41:14
so far away from the ocean, so that's where it gets
41:16
the coldest. It's more like northern Canada.
41:19
We don't know, listeners,
41:22
we don't know what we're in for, and we would
41:24
google it and we would try to find out.
41:26
I'm looking it up right now. Okay,
41:30
Well let's try the home put. Hey, Siri,
41:33
are there cities in Siberia?
41:36
I can't. She
41:39
can't get the answer. Nobody
41:42
knows. Nobody knows. There's
41:44
no way of knowing. Um. But
41:47
here's the thing. If it was any other remote area
41:49
that this person had named, I'd be like cool, done,
41:52
I'm gone. I don't need to be part of civilization.
41:54
Love it. I'll hide in the hut. But the fact
41:56
that it's so cold I
41:58
cannot handle. But climate
42:01
change will make it, you know, pre
42:03
reasonable. You know today it was the
42:05
same temperature here as it was. You're assuming that the
42:07
disaster that our children are for telling uh
42:09
and there as their future hobo sells, is related
42:13
to global warming? Well, I mean I
42:15
can't because it only
42:18
happens if we don't move to Siberia.
42:21
So there's some bizarre butterfly effect
42:23
that we are. We moved to Siberia.
42:26
It saves everyone. Yeah, I
42:28
thought this is just us. No, it
42:30
says saves them end the world. Mm
42:35
hmm, okay,
42:39
I guess we wanna say, I'm gonna
42:41
be cold all the time. You're f
42:44
I can't swear because their son is listening.
42:46
We do need this person right back in and
42:49
say if Peter was to take the
42:51
kids alone and I was to go to the Cayman Islands,
42:53
would the world still be saved? No, you're
42:55
not. Weasually your way out of this. We
42:58
don't know. It's all the information we got. We're
43:00
gonna need a little more info from hobo
43:03
esque children. That's
43:06
what happened. We stayed at home and they turned into
43:10
a post apocalyptic hobos. Did
43:13
that answer your question? We
43:16
don't knows. This
43:22
next segment is called Listeners Want to Knows,
43:24
where we answer some of your questions.
43:26
Oh, they wanna knows, they want
43:28
to knows. This person is
43:31
They don't want to know anything. They're actually giving us a
43:33
suggestion, some advice, and
43:36
I'm curious. Um,
43:38
so this involves body parts? Um,
43:42
well, I'll just read it and then I have something to share.
43:44
Hi, Peter and Beth, I've
43:47
been listening and laughing since Sky
43:49
Brandham. Um,
43:52
your podcast on pop Rocket mentioned
43:55
I think it's a word Messing mentioned your
43:57
podcast on pop Rocket. I have
43:59
a two and a half year old daughter and have
44:01
to thank you both for the weekly dose
44:04
of relatable frustration and joy.
44:06
You guys do a great job. I'm
44:09
writing after listening to the anatomical
44:13
discussion of butts, wieners,
44:15
nipples, and giant butts
44:17
a k a. Vaginas. This was a
44:19
while back when um
44:22
Brin claimed that girls only
44:24
have butts, they just have one
44:27
big butts. I will
44:29
say briefually the tonight when they were
44:31
taking their bath and they were throwing water each other, they would
44:33
do this thing where they would turn around and stick out their butt
44:35
and then the other one would throw water at their
44:37
butt and then they would laugh. There's
44:40
a lot of Mayven just like sticking her butt in Brent's
44:42
face. They've they
44:46
love butts. Um
44:49
I'd like to promote the idea
44:51
of teaching your kids to say
44:54
volva instead of vagina for
44:56
several reasons. Reason A, it's
44:59
the anatomically it's amatomically
45:02
correct. The vagina is the inside
45:04
part, the volva is the whole thing.
45:08
B It's way easier for
45:10
a kid to pronounce My daughter loves
45:13
pointing to it and identifying it, and
45:15
I hope this will give her a sense
45:17
of ownership and confidence. Words
45:20
are powerful. See if
45:22
they know the difference, you can have a better conversation
45:24
about which part itches, slash, hurts,
45:27
etcetera. Should the need arise.
45:29
Thanks for sharing your lives with us. Cheers,
45:32
Laurel. PS. My daughter also
45:34
asks to see nipples, but so
45:36
far just just
45:39
family and friends. That's
45:41
great. Um, what are
45:44
your thoughts on this? Interesting? I
45:47
appreciate what she's saying about understanding
45:49
anatomically like what hurts her itches, but
45:52
I still am really on the fence on this because
45:54
it's like one of those things where have like the
45:56
thing that's like technically correct sometimes
45:58
is also the thing that makes your kid a weirdo
46:00
who like can't communicate with other
46:02
people to sure, I'm having an issue with my volva,
46:05
like well just other kids like just
46:07
I don't know, I'm I
46:10
really I can't predict how this will play
46:12
out over time, but um,
46:15
well here's the thing I've I've realized
46:17
is like, yeah, I
46:21
haven't because Brent
46:23
and I have, uh we've
46:27
talked about his wiener. Whenever the need
46:29
arises, um, and
46:31
that's the language we use. And
46:33
there's there's something like weird, safer
46:36
thing about giving your genitals
46:39
like a cute nickname instead of being like,
46:41
is your penis okay? You're like,
46:43
all right, grab your wiener there and uh
46:46
go to the bathroom. But I don't
46:48
have that with may even because I grew up with four
46:51
with three brothers. No, but no one has
46:53
that because no one ever thought to give women
46:56
any nice names at all. Like if you think
46:58
of any word associated with women, it's
47:00
not fun or good, like the
47:02
word mom, if you like, your immediate
47:05
connotation of a mom is like a
47:07
lame person. Like everyone
47:09
thinks that when they hear the word mom. And if you say
47:12
dad, people are like, oh, like a dad, Like it
47:14
doesn't like so it's
47:16
there's just like no, there's
47:19
so there was no like cute name
47:21
for vagina growing
47:24
up. I mean, I feel like it might gonnaway say
47:26
like privates. I'm sure
47:28
people have good ones, we just need
47:31
to know it. I started I started
47:33
saying with may even, who ha as
47:36
like a as like a joke who
47:38
has fun? And I was like, I
47:40
was like, all right, you know, wipe your like
47:43
that's the thing is like I would rather have a name like
47:45
that and then also
47:48
later teach her the difference between vagina
47:50
and volva and have her know all the words. But
47:52
I don't want to like lock her into
47:54
just volva, you know what I mean? Yeah,
47:57
because I have started saying vagina,
48:00
but then I suddenly feel like a
48:03
weird, weird lame
48:05
dad or a doctor. I'm
48:07
like, any well, I
48:11
love something some of them, but it's like, you
48:13
know, it's the Madonna whore complex
48:15
like we have. I'm not going to say them
48:17
because our listener just indicated that his
48:19
kids listen to this, but we have some slang
48:22
terms for vagina that are maybe
48:25
fun, but they're not something you would feel comfortable
48:27
saying to a child because they're very
48:29
sexualized. So,
48:31
like everything related to women, we either make it like
48:34
very boring and old
48:37
and like gross, or we make
48:39
it seem like very sexualized,
48:41
like you know that
48:43
when I think of women, I think boy
48:46
born and sexy. Well,
48:49
let's make up a word. What is it? What should
48:51
we call it? M M?
48:56
There's nothing I could say, like the
48:58
people are not like immediately going to be grossed
49:01
out your chat
49:03
skey who
49:05
ha who has pretty good yeah,
49:08
it's pretty safe. Who who
49:11
ha? How's your who ha?
49:13
Okay, It just for
49:15
some reason that reminds me of the story. Have we told you
49:18
your childhood Hubba
49:20
story on the podcast? I
49:23
feel like we've told it before. No, we have not. Okay.
49:26
So when Peter was in elementary school,
49:28
they would do like what was it daily?
49:31
Like for a week? Okay.
49:33
So in second grade Mr Ryan's
49:36
class, we
49:38
were learning about the
49:40
um pilgrims Um,
49:43
and so we each learned. We
49:45
learned with the Mayflower, and we learned
49:47
about a real person who's on the Mayflower. We had to
49:49
do research, and then the next
49:52
week we had to show up
49:54
to class every single day dressed
49:56
as that person. I
49:58
might be mixing it up, or
50:01
maybe we did this over the full amount of time it took
50:03
for the Mayflower to get across the ocean. But
50:05
at certain points during the day, like events
50:08
that we knew actually happened in the Mayflower, we
50:10
would reenact. So at one point, like in
50:12
the middle of math, the teacher just
50:14
started flickering all the lights.
50:17
It was like the storm. It's the giant storm.
50:19
And so my character, who
50:22
was a real person, he had
50:24
a wife who gave birth to a
50:26
baby on the Mayflower who
50:28
was named Oceana the baby
50:31
and the baby was born during the
50:33
storm. I have to say, it's a great name, Oceana.
50:36
Yeah. So during
50:38
this, like Mr Ryan starts flipping the lights and we're like,
50:40
this is the storm, this happened. We did our
50:43
research, and so we all all of like
50:45
the boys start climbing on the desks to
50:47
fix the main beam, which we knew cracked
50:49
and it was a big deal. And all the women,
50:52
the girls went to help this this
50:54
girl give birth to a baby. And
50:56
there was a girl in my class who was assigned
50:58
as like the who the character was
51:00
my wife, And so she brought a fake
51:02
baby and was pretending to be pregnant for
51:04
how I don't know how many days, and
51:07
then during the storm, she like pretends
51:09
to give birth. And I don't watch any of this because
51:12
I'm fixing the beams so the ship
51:14
doesn't sink. And then suddenly
51:17
we save it and the lights go down, and then I'm like,
51:19
I fall on the ground because I'm pretending to be dramatic.
51:22
And then suddenly I hear my teacher
51:24
go like Mr. Mr
51:27
Johnson or whatever his name was, Look, look
51:30
your wife, and I look up and there's my
51:33
fellow second grader slash wife
51:36
holding a plastic baby doll,
51:38
my baby that she just gives mind
51:41
giving birth to. And
51:44
I look up and he goes look and everyone
51:46
is looking at me, and I'm on the ground, and I
51:48
look up at my new wife and baby,
51:52
and in that moment, I choose to
51:54
say Hubba,
51:56
hubba. It's
52:00
so cinematic. I gotta say, I
52:02
got a really good laugh. Yeah, it's
52:05
so funny, Like imagine all those kids
52:07
laughing, having no idea what that means.
52:10
But it's like, clearly I had some associated
52:13
association with like some
52:16
movies. It's just like
52:18
somebody looking at a woman and going hubb It's
52:21
like, oh yeah, like sex and babies
52:23
and girls in general are all
52:25
just that's all one
52:28
category. But really, if you
52:30
think about it, when women have babies, we should
52:32
be saying hubba hubba because it's
52:34
so impressive. Check out that placentab.
52:40
So I've always been a real sensitive feminist
52:43
boy. Sensitive. Yeah,
52:45
that's my baby. Let's
52:48
go to the new world. This
52:54
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52:57
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